Forum Activity for @adda

adda
@adda
09/02/16 05:35:40PM
17 posts

where do you buy your crystals?


Empath

I have been reading about crystals and I see some that are interesting on Amazon but are these true crystals?

And which crystals do you suggest for self esteem help and happiness/luck?


updated by @adda: 01/21/17 10:38:13PM
adda
@adda
08/28/16 08:27:35PM
17 posts

Dealing with a narcissist that is a freind of a freinds


Empath

My good friend has a narcissist freind. This narcissist is the biggest attention seeker/flirt I've ever met!

She is loud fake and dresses very provocativly (see thru dresses for example).

She filrts with everyone shes knows husbands or boyfreind. And these men just flock to her... they just adore her. She will try to get these men to fight over her. Its just crazy to watch

She also has to have ALL the attention everywhere she goes. Its very important to her to have all the men want to her though.

Anyways I ignore her but my freind will sometimes bring her along and she never lets me talk or she will say something rude to me.

How do you deal with a narc? I really never want to ever associate with this person ever again but its hard cause this narc can never be alone so shes always with my freind.

Should I just cut off this freindship?


updated by @adda: 04/16/17 08:22:00PM
adda
@adda
08/28/16 08:11:36PM
17 posts

How can I deal with being ugly and social anxiety


Empath

Thank you Karen this is very nice. I love everyones respnses. I had to come back here today just to take it all in again to help me feel better. Im trying to snap out of this deep depression. I am having a hard time with it though.

adda
@adda
08/28/16 08:01:36PM
17 posts

How can I deal with being ugly and social anxiety


Empath

Thanks again to everyone who responded.

I have been doing a little better until this weekend happened :(

I went to a cook out with a friend and had the worst time. I tried to start conversations with a few people but I felt as if they didnt want to be bothered with me. And I was really hurt when we were standing with a couple of other girls getting ready to leave and a guy we know walks over hugs all the girls except me, he shakes my hand. I was completely embarrased!!! I felt so ugly and ashamed of myself.

I have been crying a lot today...I am just way to sensitive and cant handle going anywhere with being the "not so pretty one".... I have got the worst depression and I think I need to see a counselour. I don't know I just get lonely and want to go places like every else does. But I don't want to be treated like an alien. Now I have to start all over again and try to fix my self esteem.

I am going to add more daily meditation and prayers for now.

Please continue to send me good vibes. Thanks everyone for your support.

adda
@adda
03/28/16 06:34:59AM
17 posts

Need help with narcissist friend


Empath

Thanks everyone..this has been bothering me for days now. She hasnt spoken to me since ive ignored a very long text from her. I feel like shes working on something to ruin me. Or she will play the victom and rext me Why do you hate me so much what have i done wrong. I try so hard to get this out of my head but i feel like i need to keep on guard and be prepared for her next action though. I think she might even be a psychopath not a narcissist. I keep thinking about how much she has bullied me and made me feel so bad about myself. I stll trying to recover from all the hurt she has caused me. Its been so nice without the hurt and drama but im afraid its coming back with a vengeance :(
adda
@adda
03/25/16 12:55:20PM
17 posts

Need help with narcissist friend


Empath

Thank you for help. I really needed this. I think she knows im afriad of her and she plays on that. When i first met her she was so nice arent they all...red flag!!!. So she can be very fake and shes fooling my friends right now.
adda
@adda
03/25/16 06:31:56AM
17 posts

Need help with narcissist friend


Empath

Also those friends she now hangs out with were originally my friends i introduced them.This is high school stuff im in my 30s thought that was all done with!
adda
@adda
03/25/16 06:28:42AM
17 posts

Need help with narcissist friend


Empath

One other important thing i forgot to mention..one time her boyfriend contacted me and told me she was crazy on a text. I told him to talk to her. She saw his text to me and told me i should never speak to him and shes going to tell my kids im a bad mother??? I dont know what she would tell them cause i do nothing but spend time with them. They are 9, 11 and 12. They r goods kids and she just wants to ruin my relationship with them. So im afraid also by not talking to her she will starting texting my kids with lies about me. Shes afraid im going to tell everyone what her bf told me.Thanks for the replies...im going to try everyhing. This lady is a BULLY!!!! I was awake at 4am worried of what she will do to me next.
adda
@adda
03/24/16 05:21:59PM
17 posts

Need help with narcissist friend


Empath

This person i feel like she wants to ruin me. She has turned many of my friends against me. When i am around this woman she always insults me unless she is using me ffor something. The conversations are all about her. When i talk it doesnt matter unless shes ubsorbing the info to use against me. I can tell she thinks im very ugly. If a guy hits on me she will say that guy was using me to get to her. She cant accept a guy would ever want to talk to me. She dresses slutty around my boyfriend and she tells me how much my boyfriend wants her. There is soooooo much more that has happened its just so much drama around her. I feel so tired after im with her and somtimes i get really ill. I will throw up like the flu.Ive stopped talking to her but i feel like shes planning on doing evil things because she is paranoid why i dont speak to her. She will post pics of her and my previous friends that dont talk to me anymore.Im actually scared of her cause she thinks so evil. I worry all the tjme about how she plans to ruin me.What can i do to help calm myself?
updated by @adda: 07/26/17 02:01:06PM
adda
@adda
08/29/15 05:37:19AM
17 posts

breaking off a freindship because im so sensitive


Empath

We've been friends for 12 years she's gone through so many men and drama since then. I just feel my energy is back since I've stopped the friendship. She keeps crying when she calls me .
adda
@adda
08/29/15 05:33:45AM
17 posts

breaking off a freindship because im so sensitive


Empath

Wow carol you just described everything perfectly!!!! I understand now. I've been so much happier lately. She's so much drama and has to have all the attention even dresses a little inappropriately when she knows my husband will be around. I would feel soooo exhausted after being around her or I would cry so much. She had a way of making me feel so ugly without even saying anything insulting. I thought she was clinging to me because I was an empath.
adda
@adda
08/28/15 10:53:36PM
17 posts

breaking off a freindship because im so sensitive


Empath

Because I'm an empathy* sorry couldn't f I and edit to fix that
adda
@adda
08/28/15 10:50:38PM
17 posts

breaking off a freindship because im so sensitive


Empath

I had a friend that was an attention whore I accepted it at first but then came the insults about my looks from her and her boyfriend they would make me cry after being around them too long. She was very into herself and so was he. Actually sometimes they wouldn't even insult me and I could just feel that they thought they were so much better than me. I ended the friendship and she has cried to me about it. Ive felt so good since I haven't been insulted anymore. Is this because I'm a sensitive empath? And I feel so bad that she's upset but I know the insults will never stop. She always has to have all the attention.. Does she want me back cause iI'man empathy?
updated by @adda: 05/12/17 01:17:53PM
adda
@adda
08/20/15 08:52:45AM
17 posts

Deja Vu or Dreams coming true?


Empath

Yep yep!!! I can tell between normal dreams and dreams that will actually happen soon. The ones that come true are so intense and happen within a few days. And I will think about them all day!!! They are not as often though. De javus I am still trying to figure out myself . but I know exactly how you feel. I also get flashbacks of when I was little not sure what that means either?
adda
@adda
08/14/15 02:44:57PM
17 posts



Omg hahaha your reply cracked me up I totally get it!!!
adda
@adda
08/14/15 02:43:13PM
17 posts



I completely understand its hard for me to trust anyone almost everyone has used me. I just had to end another friendship as she was all about her and attention for her
adda
@adda
08/13/15 07:06:56PM
17 posts

Feeling Dirty


Empath

Melinda I do that too!!! Without even reading how to I just knew how to do it