Forum Activity for @cloie

Cloie
@cloie
01/18/16 11:46:51PM
17 posts

Need help


Empath

That's amazing!!
Cloie
@cloie
01/18/16 11:46:27PM
17 posts

Need help


Empath

Wow... that's amazing.
Cloie
@cloie
01/18/16 09:41:52PM
17 posts

Need help


Empath

Thank you so much for that.. I see her in my dreams all the time. I try to talk to her but she never speaks. The entire time I was pregnant she came to see me n prayed for me n I could feel the burning in the pit of my stomach...in a good way. Seeing her is always a bitter sweet occasion, however.
Cloie
@cloie
01/18/16 07:34:22PM
17 posts

Need help


Empath

Yea.. I think that coming from such a hardcore Christian background I tend to neglect that I'm just human and its ok to have questions. I sometimes feel like I'm being a "bad Christian" for being upset or hurt or blaming God for the things we cannot understand. If a person had hurt me, the questioning would be normal.
Cloie
@cloie
01/12/16 07:38:44PM
17 posts

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Empath

Thank you so much.... tonight will be interesting.
Cloie
@cloie
01/12/16 07:30:10PM
17 posts

Need help


Empath

Thank you so much... I thought I did let myself grieve but sometimes I think I suppressed it at a time when it would have come naturally. Now I don't know how to go about it because the proverbial moment has passed.And to be honest, she looks just like my mother. :)
Cloie
@cloie
01/12/16 12:48:54PM
17 posts

Need help


Empath

Hello my loves.It has indeed been a while since I have posted anything.I miss you all of course, but life calls.Anywho, lately I have been going through this surge in emotions and the problem I have always had was trying to recognise when something is coming from me or someone else. Usually I make the connection that its not me when I understand that the feelings are not logical for me at the time. But when its something that is possible that I could feel this particular emotion then I get confused and it stays with me for so long.Let me clarify that I am really a devout Christian. Positions in the church go back 3 generations in my family so I do not stray far from my beliefs. But after the death of my best friend and mother in a 5 month span, I was angry with God.I felt betrayed. I felt alone. This happened in 2013. In 2015 I got married and had a baby girl, and once again I felt angry with God because these are the moments a girl wants to spend with her mother.Fast forward to about 2 weeks ago and I have been so overcome with doubt about God and faith and anger.. it came out of nowhere...My question is.. for Christian empaths.. would you consider this a spiritual attack or do you think this is someone else that I feel?Thank you allCloie
updated by @cloie: 05/20/17 09:04:00PM
Cloie
@cloie
08/06/15 06:24:47AM
17 posts

New with questions


Empath

After being this way all ny life, I am just now beginning to explore the ways i can protect myself. Ive never been able to filter out what i "willingly" feel and what i "have" to feel. Usually the things I've "had" to feel for a purpose were the emotions that were the most intense and lasted no matter what i tried to do. Sometimes they'd last for days whereas the emotions i willingly felt because i was open, they'd flee as soon as I left the environment. This was usually when I'd have insane headaches or other problems.You are in the right place to gather resources to feed your curiosity and needs. Trust me i wish I'd found this grouo of people earlier! My positive outlook on this has not come easily but it was much easier to embrace it than suppress. This way, the unexpected wave of emotions could not catch me off guard or force me to isolate myself. Isolation opens one up to such incredible negative energy and it can be much more overwhelming that suddenly feeling like you want to cry or scream.Stay strong.
Cloie
@cloie
08/06/15 12:11:54AM
17 posts

New with questions


Empath

What i was referring to can be explained like this: some Christians/ Catholics feel like sometimes psychiatric conditions can resemble the presence of spirits in people. It is not uncommon for a malevolent spirit to attach itself to a vulnerable person, and if that was the case, then it explains how you didnt see certain characteristics in your friend that appeared later on. Understand?Also, in ny own experience, the more you try to suppress your abilities, the more annoying they become. Whether or not you believe in God, your were created perfectly and these abilities were meant to give you that extra special spark in your life. People will be drawn to you for no apparent reason and where there is much good, remember that there is evil. Embrace who you are and learn how to protect yourself.
Cloie
@cloie
08/05/15 09:15:06PM
17 posts



You said that you want this dead man out of your life...How do you know he is dead? It may be a relative that is trying to care for you, since he has been trying to help you do things when you got hurt. However, this is no excuse for the invasion of space. Have you tried talking to it? Let him know that you see him and you acknowledge his presence, but he needs to leave because you are uncomfortable. This usually works.

I had a spirit that always sat on my bed or kicked the end of the bed when I would lay down to go to bed. It would do this all night every night until I told it to leave me alone. Every now and then it kicks the bed and I simply say "ok. now go away." and it stops.

Hope this helps.

Cloie
@cloie
08/05/15 09:11:09PM
17 posts

New with questions


Empath

To reply to your second question.. I have to say no. As an empath, you feel the real person.. they have their emotions that flip back n forth all the time but you have to understand that for a true bi-polar person, they do not live in their episodes and they may have a hard time controlling these times. I would think that the only time you could be tricked like this is when there is a spiritual component to it. It's not to say that every bipolar person is possessed, but i feel like an empath would be able to tell the difference and feel the two separate parts.

Cloie
@cloie
08/05/15 09:04:18PM
17 posts

Interesting experience!!


Empath

Hello all,

I wanted to share an experience that I had like never before...

One night while a friend was visiting, I fell asleep after talking for hours. I had sensed that he had not yet accepted the death of his mother and that he didnt know where to begin the grieving process. While I was asleep, a white light came to me and I could sense that it was my grandmother... I have no idea how, but I just knew... the presence was just familiar. She had come with another light or spirit or orb, whatever term you prefer. This one was red, and just as bright as her... I sensed that this red spirit was another woman, old but not as old as my grandmother. The red light turned to a figure of a person that I could not make out, but it reached for my hand. I was afraid to give my hand, as I didnt want to be pulled into some 7th dimension and out of my body (lol). When she took my hand, she said "see how happy I am?" and I felt my entire body warm and vibrate inside. It was an inexplicable joy and happiness, but I couldnt take it. She said I wouldnt be able to completely comprehend while I am still in human form, but tell her son she is ok.

When I woke up, I shared this dream/vision with my friend. He said that his mother's name was Ruby, and that may have been why she appeared red. I'd never met her in life, so that was the only way I'd recognize her.

I would love to hear what you all think about this. Is this type of communication with spirits a good or bad thing? Should spirits be able to talk to you whenever they please?

Thank you all,

Cloie


updated by @cloie: 01/16/17 11:29:15AM
Cloie
@cloie
08/04/15 12:02:13PM
17 posts

Ahh my


Empath

Being an empath is such a beautiful thing sometimes. The relationships that I tend to form are always close and intimate and bonding..

My sisters and I are very close and we all speak every day, multiple times a day. I know that we all are empaths to varying degrees because our mother was an empath... she was a beautifully spiritual woman flowing with light and love and even though she has passed away 2 years now, I can still feel her with me and can see that strong light from her from time to time when I need her. I seemed to have gotten this super-charged empath from her at the moment of her passing since I was there with her and have been forever changed since.

That being said, here's the down part about being an empath in my family:

My older sister just announced that she was pregnant with her second child. I was initially thrilled! I texted her that I was so happy since this is what she's wanted for quite some time now. Then all of a sudden I got sooo worried. But why? She then called me and asked me what was wrong and I didnt want to lie because there really isnt a reason to, but I didnt want to rain on her much needed parade. I told her I hoped everything goes as planned and I left it at that. Is it the nurturer in me that is worried or am I just paranoid?

I wish it was easier to simply rejoice with those that rejoice instead of feeling like the proverbial bearer of bad news.

Any tips on how to filter emotions, make them wait until you have the appropriate time to process them or how to QUICKLY decipher whether what you feel is rational or unnecessary?

Thank you,

Cloie


updated by @cloie: 01/22/17 10:37:05PM
Cloie
@cloie
08/03/15 09:15:53PM
17 posts

Last Night


Empath

Thank you so much! Your post about the lion was the first thing i read on this site as i waited for my membership to be accepted.I fight with myself all the time about being an empath... I sort of grew up in a way where i convinced myself that I need not show emotions because I hated to be misunderstood and looked at as though I am crazy or lying. But of course this only affected me... now i know why. That will be a later discussion I hope you read :)-Cloie
Cloie
@cloie
08/03/15 07:47:29AM
17 posts

Last Night


Empath

Thank you for that! I often find myself in these intense dreams where I feel all night long thru a sort of astral projected manner and I wake up feeling like I've been working an entire shift in my sleep. With this new info I will be sure to practice it consciously and consistently.
Cloie
@cloie
08/02/15 09:52:50PM
17 posts

Last Night


Empath

Funny I should be snacking on mini KitKats while reading this, but thank you and Trevor so much for replying. There is so much I have to learn about how this empath ability works. It can be so rewarding yet so oveoverwhelming all in the same moment.
Cloie
@cloie
08/02/15 04:12:27PM
17 posts

Last Night


Empath

Good evening everyone...This is mt first post.. I found this site by chance and I was so relieved when I found that there was a name for what I have been experiencing. All my life I have shared the experiences of others, whether it was their emotions or a dream. Sometimes I find myself having the same nightmare of a best friend and being there with them. Then I'd call them and tell them i was there too n everything will be ok. It scares them and me and I have trouble making friends and close relationships because I cant stand to feel everything all the time.Last night i had an event and a waitress began to cry. At the same time, I began to cry and I hugged her. When I hugged her there was this burning feeling in the pit of my stomach that i know she felt too because the feeling was overwhelming. This has happened several times when I hug people as I share their emotions. It's like I'm praying for them without words because I don't know what to say or pray for, but I want to help. Its an intense feeling but they always feel better afterwards. What is this called?Also, I had an intense headache after leaving the event, almost as soon as I walked out the door. Has anyone else ever had this experience?Thank you for reading,Cloie
updated by @cloie: 03/20/17 10:36:35AM