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CourageThroughWisdom
@couragethroughwisdom
06/22/15 03:46:20PM
6 posts

Empaths and Fast Burn Relationships


Empath

It definitely hurts to see them move on and be so happy, but I reckon thats me being selfish. Im working on that :-) Don't worry Sammie, I try to look at them as learning experiences and beacons. We can really only control our own actions, and reactions. I think we're just in training.. We'll be exactly who we're meant to be when that person enters our life :-) A task and lesson much easier studied than Successfully Practiced, but awareness is half the battle. And if all else fails, rely on destiny. Love always finds a way. Like all things, the most precious things are usually fought hardest for. Keep fighting the good fight :-)
CourageThroughWisdom
@couragethroughwisdom
06/22/15 08:26:31AM
6 posts

Empaths and Fast Burn Relationships


Empath

Hey hows it going. For a couple weeks my brain feels like it has reviewed every questionable file on record and investigated its correlation to being an empath. One of the things that has really puzzled me over the years are my relationships with the opposite sex. Not just physical relationships, but the emotional connectivity.My relationships all share a very similiar pattern. They burn white hot for a short period, and they burn out nearly as quickly as they started. And when I say burn out, I mean star turning into a black hole burn out :-PFor the longest time I have been exploring every corner of my mind and soul. Looking for problems, misinterpretations, or something else that is "wrong" with me as to why things always ended so quickly, when they were so good to begin with. This isnt high school love that is lust driven. Things are so wonderful in the beginning. Girls are absolutely head over heels for me in a matter of days. I feel like a drug that they crave. We connect on such deep emotional levels, all we do is laugh together and enjoy our company. For a few months life is paradise. Then its like a light switch. Im done, no longer needed. Im literally pushed out of sight and mind. Little to no contact, no explanation, and they're on their merry way.During the relationship there is alot of communication, but honestly most times I feel like a counselor instead of a boyfriend. Im helping them with problems, showing them theyre special and beautiful, and treating them like a princess.It feels to me like these women found me because they needed me, and when I had given them what they need, im no longer of use. Honestly, im ok with that. But im an emotional and passionate person. It doesnt take long for me to form the connections my body needs to experience love. So I end up with a broken heart. If im doing good and helping people, I dont mind bearing the burden. But I just want to know if there is a way for me to understand if a woman needs me as an empath or wants me for me. Anyone else experience this with those of the opposite sex?
updated by @couragethroughwisdom: 06/02/17 02:19:53PM
CourageThroughWisdom
@couragethroughwisdom
06/17/15 05:28:00AM
6 posts

Hello from Tennessee


Empath

Thanks Dice :-)
CourageThroughWisdom
@couragethroughwisdom
06/16/15 10:13:49AM
6 posts

Hello from Tennessee


Empath

Thanks B! My ignorance of youth I reckon. Ive learned to appreciate the importance of the small things in life the past couple years. Im proud to be a part of the good wheel, no matter how small a mouse on it I may be.
CourageThroughWisdom
@couragethroughwisdom
06/16/15 05:21:19AM
6 posts

Hello from Tennessee


Empath

Hey hows it goin. Im Brendan, new to the site, and wanted to say hello :-) Im so happy to have found this place. Since I was knee high to a grasshopper ive known I was more aware of the vibes in the air than most. Ive always been able to feel what people around me are feeling. Its nothing I can summon whenever I please, but when the world speaks to me I try to listen. Ive always known I was put here to help people, but ive always struggled finding a way to do enough in my eyes. I was looking for the Hollywood version of helping others. I wanted it to be on a grand scale. What ive realized, is my whole life ive been helping a little here and a little there, and never really thought about it. People have always found me and almost instantly confided in me their most personal of information. I absolutely love it. My cup is most full when its empty :-) I enjoy the simplicity and importance of changing someones outlook on the world with a fresh and positive outlook. I would say I understand about 5% of whats going on. I have so much to learn, and im so excited to absorb what knowledge I can. Im hoping to hone my abilities to help as many people that I come across as possible. I dont think God puts anyone in our path that isnt meant to be there. If you change one persons perspective of the world, then essentially you have changed the world :-)
updated by @couragethroughwisdom: 01/17/17 10:42:17PM
CourageThroughWisdom
@couragethroughwisdom
06/15/15 11:19:27AM
6 posts

In such a funk, would love positive thoughts or tips


Empath

Hey there Emmy :-) I find myself in similiar situations of stress and obligation, more often than not. I always stretch myself as thin as I can, and try to help as many people as possible, which inevitably leads me to a high speed crash :-P When I feel myself get to that breaking point, I stop. I stop everything. No thoughts, no actions, instant personal serenity. I ask myself if what im doing will bring happiness to the world. Am I helping someone, or making the world a more pleasant place? If I dont perform this task, who will? I answer these questions, and go from there. If im not doing good in the world, and im stressed out and my tank is on E, I step back. Easy to say, but sometimes you've got to step back from something you love, or something your passionate about, because it just isnt in the cards at that point in time. If I feel that im doing good, or making the world a better place, then I go in with the mindset that no matter the obstacle, this is what Im meant to do right now. I find positive things around me to feed on when i dig in my heels and get to the task at hand. There is so much love and positivity in the world, but it isnt always a bright flower ready to be picked. It may be hidden in plain sight. An elderly couple that has shared 60 years of their life together still hand in hand. Maybe you see a child who unknowingly makes an act of kindness out of pure love. I try to pick up and absorb all the positive energy I can. I may just be rambling. Hope this helps :-)