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@goodenergyhealing
06/04/16 06:29:31PM
373 posts

Are you deeply affected around Athiests?


Empath

yeah, I think to have picked up some of those before, often they won't be in the forefront of all their emotions though. Also other spirituality related emotions, like feeling forsaken, or like the Divine is not strong enough to help, etc....

SInce I channel everything negative or confused that comes to me into the Light, I am glad when such energies get cleared off the planet :)

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@goodenergyhealing
05/31/16 06:39:54AM
373 posts

Problems with attending spiritual events


Empath

I'll just add a funny one to this thread. I do mingle on a few spiritual FB groups to try to socialize, help, plus selfishly get some potential notice to my book.

In this supposedly 'advanced spiritual developed' group lead by someone who had already made me cautious by basically calling just about every other Lightworker (except herself) lazy for not basically writing a whole book every day (which she supposedly does) - I dared to think that a Youtube clip promoting that the Earth is indeed flat(!) had been attached as a light-hearted joke. It turned out that the followers actually believed that the Earth is flat, and that humanity had been brainwashed by science (that old devil's tool!) into thinking it is a ball. I was then deemed spiritually non-evolved, and just not ready yet, when mentioning that on a flat Earth there would be no time-zones. lol

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@goodenergyhealing
05/29/16 08:23:29AM
373 posts

EMPATH NEW FRIEND EXCHANGE


Empath

Yeah - Robin Hobb rocks. I'd be surprised if she is not an empath herself....

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@goodenergyhealing
05/29/16 07:37:15AM
373 posts

Our Purpose


Empath

Sure, experiencing suffering for a while can help one enjoy eternal Love, Happiness and Oneness the more - but I personally believe that suffering is an artificial construct to enable us to experience the opposite of what we are. Suffering is finite and terminal.

For you say that 'The only way to find happiness is finding oneness' - but one cannot experience oneness and e.g. separation-suffering at the same time....

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
05/29/16 05:29:12AM
373 posts

empaths and your parents; some questions for you.


Empath

it will be hard to come up with a more conclusive answer to your question with a post like this. You'd have to question hundreds of us :)

My mom is more emotional than my dad, and my dad can be more selfish, but then my mum can be emotionally manipulative (she just hides her selfish side more with a victim play...)

What I definitely would add to the equation though - I have always been quite sensible and sensitive (and a bit of a wise ass in my youth), but I only really became empathic through loads of spiritual work - meditation etc. So I mostly blame my abilities on that. I.e. likely we all have them, just with some people they are more blocked.... My father never was a great A-hole, just perhaps a bit cold and rational, but he has softened up with age. He is much kinder now, almost more than my mum. If that is me sending distant healing for the last 20 years, or a man's testosterone levels reducing as they age - who knows? Maybe both? He's been quite a strong atheist too, we had some big arguments about that in the past (him calling me crazy for believing that there is anything beyond matter and death, and the like),but last month, when I visited, he actually took up an offer of receiving some Reiki there and then....(miracles do happen?)

My sisters are both quite sensitive, but only the younger one perhaps more of an empath. Here too though, both seem to have developed their sensitivities somewhat over the years. Again, if that is natural, or due to a spiritual healer in the family - who knows?

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
05/25/16 02:09:05PM
373 posts

EMPATH NEW FRIEND EXCHANGE


Empath

Heya - I feel ya.

I used to have many great friends, but when becoming spiritual, I lost most. Since it has been difficult, some of that blame is on having moved to London too though, which is a tough city to make friends...

I have come to believe that most empaths are likely 'lighter' than the average Jane/ Joe, and it seems that their confused energies do their best for such people to not see us, and not engage with us, unless they have to - through e.g. work.... If anything I feel sorry when looking at most 'muggles' though. Most of them likely feel more lonely in their active social lives, than me with just a few friends, and a lot of alone time. (I very rarely feel lonely, and if I do, it is usually Saturday nite desperation energies floating about the ether).

Also I have been asking for healing for such matters and things have been (slowly) improving over the years.So if one has ones intentions straight, and especially with Divine back up things can improve :)

Have you had a look at e.g. MeetUp.com? So much on there, and if there is not what you are looking for yet, you cna always found a new group. Or local meditation, yoga, etc groups, with more like minded folk? Or maybe there is fantasy book reading clubs (have you read Robin Hobb?, she is the best!!!!), etc. etc.

Love and Light!

P.S. And I totally get you about all that emotion stuff. Sometimes I think I am a cold hearted bitch for not being more emotional, but then I remember that I have prayed for (negative) emotional cleansings for the last 20 years, and that what I am now should be more evolved than the emotional slave I used to be :)

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@goodenergyhealing
05/24/16 03:36:55AM
373 posts

Mediumship - Thoughts about helping spirits cross over after a major tragedy.


Empath

you can always pray for angels, guides, etc. to come down and offer those souls to pass over again.

Or I assume it could be traumatic energy left over that appeared like souls left behind? Which you can ask to be cleansed too, and or protected against.

The energy might be there to 'remind' people? But is there a memorial of some form, in which case you can tell the energy that the memorial is there already, and it is is not required anymore. If that does not work the energy might be too confused, again you would need to ask for a through cleanse.... Alternatively you can visualize e.g. silver Light, golden Light, sage smoke (works visualized too). Visualize a semi-permanent pillar of Light on the building (till the energy is cleared).

That is what I would do, but there will be other methods too...

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
05/23/16 05:16:47AM
373 posts

Changing unwanted future events


Empath

forgot to say - if you don't do something similar already - for changing relationships (besides cord cutting), this is a good tool (can be said as often as you like, use it as sort of Mantra as you wash the dishes etc. :))

I forgive myself, I forgive xyz, I let go in Love and I thank the Divine for perfect relationship healings. Thank You. Amen! (feel free to replace Divine and Amen, or change otherwise, as you see fit)

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@goodenergyhealing
05/22/16 01:30:42PM
373 posts

Problems with attending spiritual events


Empath

yeah, sometimes it feels like some of the participants in a group are more healing conduits than the facilitator, which is especially funny if the facilitator has a big ego :))

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@goodenergyhealing
05/22/16 01:28:08PM
373 posts

Changing unwanted future events


Empath

sorry to hear - hope it resolves! You can tell your guides to use any force necessary too (which is not voodoo, just self-defense), i.e. even if it triggers an uncomfortable healing crisis on his side!

What popped into my head - but i know nothing about guns - return his gun, after somehow disabling it, without him noticing? But then he has a new gun now....

Give back that one with cartridges that just shoot air (if they look the same as normal cartridges).

Make sure you have a mobile in your pocket next time you cross his path and tape any conversation, so that it is not your word against his (but form what I know form TV, some states need two party consent for that?)

Love and Light! Sending some angel bouncers your way!

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@goodenergyhealing
05/19/16 11:17:03AM
373 posts

Changing unwanted future events


Empath

I believe that all suffering is pre-chosen (before incarnating). So life down here, including suffering, is a bit like as S&M relationship, but most have forgotten that there is safe works! Safe words are spiritual work - prayers, meditation, forgiveness, etc, which all help dissolve, or shift energies, which would otherwise have created/ supported more suffering.

Creation is Love, and as soon as we have made it known, that we do not want to suffer anymore - future suffering is being dismantled...Some dismantling might take time though, depending on how many suffering energies are involved in a future suffering event.

So if you pray today for non-suffering, live in an earthquake zone, and there is an earthquake 'planned' for next week, there might only be enough time left to keep you safe, but neither protect your house, or even stop the earthquake all together....

I cannot guarantee that my understanding model is correct, but I have not found any other one yet, whihc makes more sense....Hope that helps - Love and Light!

(P.S. if you want to prevent something 'big' it therefore pays to not restrict your help in any way! I.e. if you were to want to stop said earthquake above, but only believe in having one guardian angel, and the one God (responsible for a few trillion beings down here), you might 'limit' your help. I.e. it's best to give the Divine 'card blanche', as to the amount, extend, strength and frequency of help you receive (so that armies of angels can get to work, where necessary and sensible...(That does not just apply to big scale events either, but anything which might dis-affect your life, as we hardly ever know exactly how much negative energy might be behind anything negative in our lives....))

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@goodenergyhealing
05/10/16 07:49:07PM
373 posts

Help on how we react to Crushing on people


Empath

Sorry to hear!

I started being friends with this guy recently. He seemed really nice. The gay culture in London is quite tough, it is quite the meat market. Which is fine, but it is hard to make friends. Most guys are just chasing tail :) So I was pleasantly surprised when this guy actually talked to me, and put a lot of effort in to initially meet up, not being impatient etc. I was not sure, if I was sexually attracted to him, so I did no make any advances yet, but I would have been happy to have him as a friend (and who knows what might have grown out of that....). I initially asked my guides if he is a narcissist, and got a positive answer back. Since I am a pretty unreliable psychic though, and he did not show any tell tale signs, I did not take it as 100% true. We had four TV dates, very relaxed, just had nice chats, watched TV, had some food, etc. Now since I initiated most of them (after the initial one), I stopped initiating again, as I wanted to see if he would try to organize another meet himself. Nothing yet. Which is fine really, BUT what was really weird is that I got all those painful 'break-up' energies shortly after our last meet. Now I am quite level headed, it would have been nice to have another friend, but I was not in love or anything. I then went ahead and cut cords (and there was a surprising amount of them, and not all healthy looking). It all makes me think that he might be a narcissist after all. He was just more subtle about it than most other narcissists I have met so far, but all those break-up drama energies were quite typical narcissist. I.e. I am thinking now that perhaps I saved myself quite a bit more drama, which might have evolved if we had stayed friends, or even gotten romantically involved....

I am not saying that your friend is necessarily a narcissist, but so far the people I have met and which I feel most comfortable around are either fellow empaths, or narcissists (well, for them it is initially only, but it can be quite striking how they can 'feel' so calm and lovely initially).

So maybe have a look for cords and cut any unhealthy connections you find, and see what that does to the dynamic between you two....

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
05/10/16 01:09:19PM
373 posts



well, if you were really angry, but managed to stay on a level that was more non-reactive, you were likely well 'hooked up' (to The Light), plus you might have had a few angel-bouncers around you ;)

Well done!

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@goodenergyhealing
05/10/16 12:42:26PM
373 posts

Don't feel worthy


Empath

If you don;t already - lot's of grounding, and channel any pain left into the Light/ ask your helpers/ guides/ protectors to take it off you (and help you understand any potentially necessary lessons).

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
05/10/16 09:03:03AM
373 posts

Don't feel worthy


Empath

Truly loving someone unconditionally means too though that we allow them to find their own path! To accept help, ours or otherwise, or to battle by themselves. Sometimes the greatest thing we can do to help - is to let them be! It is a free will system after all. It is gets easier, I find, when remembering that life is eternal. Sure it is hard to see people we care for suffer, but all suffering is finite, and our life time, compared to eternity is very brief. All beings find back to the love that is ALL, and that they ARE eventually. If they screw up life with the current body, there is countless opportunities of having happy lives with other bodies...

Your love might be unconditional, but with most humans putting conditions on their love, it is understandable that people might take their time in vetting if anyone's offer of help is truly unconditional. And if they do not currently have the time and energy to vet, they might feel it is safer to reject than to accept some potentially tainted help....

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
05/10/16 05:16:59AM
373 posts



in my experience everything has consciousness (to varying degrees). That includes energies - thoughts, emotions, believes. Good ones as well as bad ones. It is the shamanistic way to look at life. Everything is alive, nothing is outside of Creation!

People who do not monitor their thoughts and emotions are often puppets of their negative energies. They might not know what is going on, but the energies are more psychic. They know we come with Light, and that the Light is just (if not more so) as infectious as their confusion. It can literally enlighten their darkness. You have to kinda feel sorry for them though. They have forgotten that they used to be good too. Being bad is all they know, and stopping being bad feels like a death sentence to them. So at times they fight and try to manipulate to hold on to their power. They puppet their host to act in not so nice ways, try to rebut us. E.g. be stand offish, rude, ignore you, etc... Does that make sense?

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
05/10/16 05:03:42AM
373 posts

Zhuan Falun ( Turning The Law Wheel )


Empath

I had a look at this. Obviously it is generous to make a whole book public, but what I read reeked of spiritual superiority and is somewhat cult-ish. The writer/ guru seems to think himself so advanced and enlightened, no-one will be as great as him, so he is the only one allowed to claim his teachings, take money for them etc. Plus he basically says that everything he says is perfect (as no criticism is allowed and one is not allowed to alter or append his teachings) - which in my experience is a huge red card in spiritual matters. Sure the Divine is perfect, but down here we live like in a smog of negative energies, and anyone claiming they can always reliably see all clear, is usually deluding themselves!

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
05/10/16 04:56:40AM
373 posts

Don't feel worthy


Empath

I am going to throw in another perspective here (and since I do not know you, I cannot say yours will be for the same reasons!).

I used to get that answer a few times in my 20s. Looking back now I understand why. It was usually in the context of romantic entanglements. Back then I was a hopeless romantic, any new guy I met and liked, I straight away (in my head) got married to, bought a house, a dog, maybe adopted some kids etc. If anything that must have created a really suffocating energy. I put those guys in a relationship cage without giving either of us any decent time to get to know each other, learn about each other's faults, desires etc. I know I am not the only one doing this, and it is basically the reason why I would pretty much not date anyone in their early 20s now. Guys in their early 20s often fall in love really quickly, and then if it does not work out, one is left with having to 'break their heart'.

Someone telling you that you love them - romantically or platonic - can convey the feeling of responsibility. You are now responsible for living up to that love, and if that love is not unconditional, you are responsible for not disappointing that love! And not many people are able to truly love unconditionally.... And many people do not have all that much energy, after using so much on just keeping a roof over their heads, to have to be really careful not to hurt someone's feelings.... Add to that that many people have hidden guilt that makes it hard fro them to even accept unconditional love....

Also some people are not too good with words. I heard somewhere that there is three types of people - those who love words (you tell them you love them), those who love deeds (you show them you love them), and those who love touch (you touch them to show your love). I am definitely the second one, as I have had too many people tell me nice things, but not be able to actually follow through in deeds. To me deeds count more.

So being am unconditionally loving being on this planet can be tough. One can be rejected many times for various reasons. But if we keep on channeling positive energies in, and help remove negative energies - things change over time. I have had many lonely years since I became spiritual, but things are improving. As empaths we have to built our lives like a house, with bricks of love. And most places the ground is unstable, so we'll have to drill deep foundations into the ground first, to be able to built in the first place. All that takes time and patience. But we are not alone ever, we can always call on spiritual, divine solace and company....

If you are not already, perhaps mingle more in spiritual communities. E.g. empath groups, meditation groups, shamans, yoga etc. Meetup.com is a fab website for that. Even in those groups it might take some patience and time, but people should be more sensitive already, have access to more energy etc....

And always remember - non-spiritual people are often even more lonely than spiritual people. They might look together from the outside. It looks like they have a great live, many friends etc. But often the connections in their lives are very shallow. There is so many games and masks. If I ever become envious or jealous, I look at their feelings and motivations. Usually they are the ones that end up looking lonely and empty, so I send them loads of healing....

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
05/09/16 08:06:09PM
373 posts

The way I feel when I am around people


Empath

just thought I'd add - nowadays I do not believe being an empath is masochistic anymore. I do believe that any potential discomfort I experience today, will safe me from experiencing greater suffering in the future. But that does require a LOT of trust in The Divine/ A Divine Plan etc. (which did take me a few years to uncover)

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
05/09/16 08:02:20PM
373 posts

How do I break the chord?


Empath

sounds interesting :)

yeah, have a look if you can find any unhealthy cords (maybe you have to 'overcome' this guy/ heal something before moving on?). And ask/ pray too, that any unhealthy connection is cleared/ healed/ severed. If that is it, you should hopefully feel and or see a change happening.

All the Best!

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@goodenergyhealing
05/09/16 10:06:29AM
373 posts

How do I break the chord?


Empath

not sure what to tell you? I have given up on always trying to understand everything all the time (with so much interfering and negative energies still around it is rarely possible to get a clear connection to my helpers and know 100% that info received is true (in my case that is))

In your case I'd just pray that things unfold optimally for any relationship you might have. That negative ones get healed or those people drift away, and that positive relationships are strengthened, protected and cemented.

There is e.g. crystals too - e.g. andradite garnet is supposed to help bring a relationship to it's next higher/ evolved level (sometimes that is going separate ways, sometimes getting closer). As I understand it you program the crystal to a specific person and best keep it close to yourself as much as possible...

And not sure if we just have one soul mate anyway? Considering that we are ONE energetically, it does not make sense to me that we would be closer to any being than to any other? But obviously on this planet one can be happy to find just a handful of people that one is on a similar wave length with :)

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
05/09/16 09:56:10AM
373 posts

The way I feel when I am around people


Empath

true, but I fully understand why people might be hesitant!

- most books tell you that any problem you have, illness, neg emotions etc. are ALWAYS self generated, and it is denial to 'blame' them on the outside. Maybe I just did not know what to look out for, but I only became aware of the 'term' empath 2 years ago (had to figure it all out by myself), so it is all pretty new, public knowledge....

- the Law of Attraction says that what we think/ believe we create - so that was definitely a reason why I kept on rejecting that I might get negative energies from the outside. I figured that to taken on negative energies from others would be quite a masochistic thing to do to myself, so I simply refused to believe it is possible :)

- and telling people you are taking on the suffering of the world around you is, on first view, martyrdom at best, and attention seeking, self-pitying and kinda crazy at worst :))

So if anything I am sometimes surprised that some empath seem to just read that empathy exists and accept it straight off? It took me years of careful observation, testing and re-testing before I accepted it for myself, as it left the realm of just coincidence and became undeniable.... Did anyone else go through something similar?

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@goodenergyhealing
05/09/16 04:31:22AM
373 posts

How do I break the chord?


Empath

The way I see/ understand it: - We are more or less all connected with 'cords' to everybody/ everything. They symbolize our being connected and ONE with everything. We can have a look at such connections with the mind's eye. If a connection is 'healthy' (i.e. it just conducts love, happiness and other healthy energies) it looks 'light' and smooth, whereas if our connection to e.g. a person is unhealthy, and there is energies of e.g. hate, anger, guilt, distrust, etc. the cord should look unhealthy, dark, gnarled. Cutting cords its about disconnecting unhealthy cords. you can visualize cutting a cord, or ask your guides to cut them (Archangel Michael is often taking part). If a cord is really unhealthy it might not be enough to cut it, you have to follow it into your body, where it might have rooted in with dark roots. You have to ask for those to be pulled out, or healed as well. Sometimes unhealthy cord ends re-connect, so you might have to go through the process several times. With my narcissist ex I did not only find an unhealthy cord on the solar plexus, but all chakras (front, back and sides)

As with any healing I ask that it is as effortless as possible, and that if ever possible healing crisis are avoided. In case of decording for myself and the being that is being decorded.

And you do not have to worry, it is impossible to cut a healthy connection.

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@goodenergyhealing
05/03/16 03:58:04AM
373 posts

How do we live with this


Empath

I fully agree with Rene and Gem.

I know the feeling of being unhappy. I did pray plenty of times in the past to please leave my body - that is if there was no light at the end of the tunnel, and if there was not enough happiness and love to make up for the unhappiness, illness, pain etc at the time. I am still here, the general life trend is more and more positive, so I do not regret not having taken more drastic steps back then....

I used to be a romantic sucker. Gobbled up all those romance movies and had myself brainwashed into believing that I can only be truly happy and 'whole', if I met a soulmate. Did not happen though - so I was unhappy (that and a few other reasons). Until I understood with my spiritual awakening, that I am individualized part of the divine. What I am is 'whole'. I do not 'need' anyone else to make me feel 'whole'. Sure, if I meet someone that wants to share my journey more intimately at some point - great, but I am happy otherwise too. (don't get me wrong, sure I still get feelings of loneliness, or unhappiness sometimes too, but I know that they are not what I am , nor what I want in my life, so I send them on into the Light/ ask the Divine to take them off me! (and they do. And there is more comfort in that! Sometimes it looks like we walk alone in the physical world, but on the spiritual level, there is loads of beings that love us unconditionally, understand us - and are always there for us!).

And and as mentioned there is human help out there too. Suicide hotlines, counseling, and maybe also look into Reiki/ Spiritual Healing....

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
05/01/16 04:33:54AM
373 posts

How important is your diet


Empath

Cannot say that I live by a diet for my abilities. Have cut down on sugar (but that is mainly vanity and long term health concerns), and been going from little meat, to pescatarian, to mostly vegetarian, and have started to phase out milk products too. Not sure why, but somehow having the urge and not fighting it... As for articles claiming that our pineal glands are calcified and you need a special diet - don't think there is much basis to them. Nothing I ever ate seemed to numb my empath abilities, there just seem to be foods that might make more susceptible to get negative vibes (like drinking alcohol at times (but not always)).

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@goodenergyhealing
04/30/16 12:28:02PM
373 posts



have not heard - but the way you pose the question makes me think of 'secret knowledge'? Nothing comes up in a quick Google search either. So I'd just say - keep your protections up, and a level head on your shoulders. I feel that in this day and age there is no more real secrecy about spiritual thin. Any organization that claims knowledge that is 'secret' and 'only for the chosen few' can easily be a cult. Love and Light!


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 01/07/17 04:55:34PM
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@goodenergyhealing
04/29/16 07:58:07PM
373 posts

Views On LGBT+ In The Spiritual Community


Empath

I do believe that our soul is half male (right side) and half female (left side), but different humans have their male or female qualities more or less pronounced (at least until they wake up and possibly work on balancing themselves more). I don't really believe too much in human reincarnation on this planet, but I do believe in reincarnation. As such I think it is unlikely that a being would always just be incarnated with a male or female physical gender. Therefore having sexist believes is only self-limiting, and caring/ judging about who fancies sex with whom as well....

And as with so many things there is a wide variety in how people express themselves, Sure there is more militant LGBT individuals, just like there is plenty of straight people who will rub it in your face that they are straight (if they know that you are not).

As for the 'I am an LGBT' T-shirt. I guess it can serve several purposes. Being a minority one might have to stick out more to attract a mate, but also it can keep haters at bay and away. It saves times and energy if one does not maybe befriend someone to only find out after a few hours, or days, that they are too bigotted to keep talking to you, once they find out that one is LGBT :))) (plus they usually come in rainbow print, and who does not love rainbows ;))

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@goodenergyhealing
04/27/16 07:49:06PM
373 posts

SOS


Empath

yes, we just need to ask for our energies to be cleansed and we get the help. Initially it can pay though to add to the process by staying with it (for a while at least), e.g. visualize grounding, a Light-bubble etc.. It helps to ease into the process, and it can make it easier to accept it. Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/26/16 03:59:27AM
373 posts

SOS


Empath

Hey Katkahotik, sorry to hear your journey is somewhat uncomfortable at the moment. I can sympathize, had CFS for 10 years and my financial means to get any complementary treatment were usually quite limited. There is a lot you can do yourself though. Just meditate (basically just taking a bit if time out, forget about the empty mind stuff), pray and ask for the things you are after. I'd also ask for perfect cleansings of your energies every time (seems to be the most important thing for an empath).

Feel free to peruse my blogs for some more tips - http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing

http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/how-to-easily-deepen-your-spiritual-practice-yoga-meditation

and this guided meditation is ace - https://archive.org/details/VisitTheAngelsGuidedMeditation You can just get them to pick you up, and once you feel you are 'upstairs' just ask for healings, cleansings, guidance, etc....(i.e. following the journey upstairs is not essential. Still interesting the once or so).

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/14/16 09:43:41AM
373 posts

Fight or flight response


Empath

Hey Rene - in case you have not considered this yet. These are some 'tricks'/ tools that help me re 'reacting' (negatively) to people. I have stopped beating myself up about it, as I have come to understand that it is pretty much out of my hands. I.e. I have e.g. done marathon meditation sessions trying to purge all anger energies form my system, only to feel some anger again within the next few days. Observing my empathy and reactions to people nowadays, I do not really blame such reactions on myself anymore. With e.g. narcissists it feels like they get easily angered themselves, expect all people to be like them and hence project that expectation onto those around them. And/ or they are connected to narcissist energies in the background, which send anger energies to their victims (trying to stoke the drama). Plus maybe a few other energetic happenings. So personally I do not beat myself up for feeling anger with some people, I'll just try to not live the anger! Not feeling guilty about occasionally feeling anger anymore already seems to have decreased the number of times I do (I guess because I have stopped feeding guilt energies connected to the whole complex). For any anger that still manages to come through I generally ask for perfect protections of the outside against myself and any potential negative energies still inside me, or coming through me. For any energies still potentially coming through those protections, I ask for perfect healing for any damage they might cause. On top of all that I ask that any negative energy I might feel does not manage to 'feed back' to, and strengthen any outside connected negative energies, but that they get channeled on into the Light.

Love and Light!

P.S. nice musical track, could not find anywhere to buy/ download though...

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@goodenergyhealing
04/13/16 07:17:24PM
373 posts

Problems with attending spiritual events


Empath

thx for your comments so far. Glad to hear I am not the only one experiencing strange stuff. It is funny how sometimes in places where one might expect more healing and Light, there is almost more confusion. In an way if I meet a confused 'normal' person it is just somewhat uncomfortable grey noise, but if I clash with a confused spiritual person - it can be a real (spiritual) 'battle'. :)

I guess it is about finding balance. I refuse to just lock myself up in the house and never leave again (except for the supermarket, but hey - they do home delivery now too). Working from home, I stay there enough already! If I want to go out, I go out! If anything attacks me/ comes to me - I just deal with it (and on average it seems to have gotten less over the years - I assume they do not dare attack as much anymore, or there is less of them? :))

That applies to the gym too! I like exercising, and cardio e.g. can really help me clear my energies (I do clean up after myself energetically, don't just let it float about).

Sure I pick my battles to a degree - but after all The Light should win - and not be bullied into a corner. :)

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04/12/16 12:35:22PM
373 posts

Problems with attending spiritual events


Empath

I am curious, does anyone else at times get problems with attending 'spiritual' events (e.g. sound healing, yoga, meditation), or going to supposed spiritual places?

E.g. I went to a sound healing workshop - and even though the sound effects were amazing and the sound healer apparently very skilled, I walked out with more crap energies than when I walked in. Or I went to Westminster Abbey (had read it is a place of power) to meditate and got attacked by loads of negative energies. The best explanation I have that they are places where people release energies, and looking for a Light channel (out?) many seem to come to me? And as for work shops if the facilitator, and or participants do not pray and ask that energies they release are disposed off safely, they just float about and attach to the nearest empath? It does not happen at all workshops (I assume that where it does not happen there is more energy tidy people present), but enough to keep me from staying clear mostly.

(N.B. it even happens at the gym to a degree. I have 'built in' etheric structures there, to take care of released energies, but at times I need to reaffirm them (I kind of know if I start getting loads of resistance about going to the gym))

Love and Light!


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04/10/16 07:40:15AM
373 posts

Fight or flight response


Empath

something else just came to mind. Some people do well on Back remedies - I'd definitely look into Rescue Remedy (if it works for me it would be something that works quickly and can give you a quick energy boost and calm - as visualizations can take a while to take root and change things in the outside). Or there is aromatherapy remedies to calm and de-stress. Over here in the UK you can get little roller, you can easily keep in your pocket ('Tisserand - De-Stress', but not sure what would be a similar product in the US?)

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04/09/16 04:48:26AM
373 posts

Anyone feel comfortable with discussing Empaths in the BDSM community?


Empath

few things I can imagine could be a reason for that.

-Gem's Narcissist theory

- trying (consciously or subconsciously) to explore ones boundaries, and improve being able to set boundaries (especially important for empath).

- I would not be surprised if the BDSM community is on average more 'aware'? I guess such practices force one to be more aware. Obviously regular sex can be aware (kind of tantric), but I guess with many (teh unaware masses) nature and instinct kicks in and it turns somewhat animalistic, whereas with BDSM (if one wants to avoid the other using their safe word after 2min already) one really has to feel the other person, and be very conscious?

- I admit I have stereotypes about BDSM, as for which I have not ventures there, but they could well be wrong. I am reminded of having had a massage client booking 2 years ago. He announced he'd be coming up from his naval base. I was bracing myself for tons of really bad energy, but his energies were actually really nice. It felt like in his job, with life and death at stake, people really look out for each other. I felt sorry for him, if he'll ever need to enter the comparatively cut throat environment of a modern city office!

- If they are unaware empath something else could come in. Empath awareness does not seem to have been around too long (at least not that openly). The general wider known philosophy is that we create our reality and the Law of Attraction. So if an empath believes that, they might conclude that them often feeling negative might be them creating/ attracting such - which can lead to guilt (consciously or subconsciously). If one has guilt and experiences pain, then that can lead to feelings of penance, which can open the door to healing (as they now think that after the pain experienced they are allowed some healing)?

Hope I am not just rambling :))

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/08/16 08:04:55AM
373 posts

Fight or flight response


Empath

Hey - don't experience on a regular basis (have a different job though), but can have similar reactions of stuttering, croaky voice, insecure feelings etc.... What usually helps me distinguish weather something is my own insecurity or something disaffecting me from the outside is monitoring how I feel in equal situations but with different people. So if you e.g. get customers who add extra toppings, but it is no problem telling them about an extra charge (because they are likely on average 'nicer'), than those where you do have confrontation energies are the most likely source of it, i.e. not you. E.g. I do the same quick chat with new massage clients, about 5 questions& instructions about health, what they can expect, etc. I have not changed it in 8 years, and mostly there is no problem. But with some clients I might suddenly stutter, throw in German words, not be sure if I said something already or not, etc.... As that is the exception though, I am confident it is not my stuff.....

Do you ground? Grounding (consciously connecting to healthy divine Earth energies - you can just ask them to please connect to you, and help you, as long as you are e.g. working, during meditation, or as you are sleeping) can help one stay more centered, more in ones own energies, not get sucked in my other people's emotions, and 'ground off' what one received off others (like a lightning rod).And you could wear or carry a crystal (e.g. hematite) on you, and think of it when getting in such situations....

Practically maybe rearrange signage in the kiosk, so that customer's are clearer about what's included, extra etc.... Plus you can also put up etheric signs (invisible to the naked eye, but visible to the higher self & subconscious) with e.g. advise, instructions, or a 'please behave'.

And last but not least pray/ ask for any necessary additional back up/ support to make your life and job as effortless and enjoyable as possible...

Hope some of that helps :)

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/07/16 07:35:15PM
373 posts

What do you think triggered your empathic abilities?


Empath

yeah - superhero (energetic) garbage disposal teams - lol

Yeah, it can appear very dark, and one can feel very outnumbered down here, but one can remember that below and above this darkness is copious, if not endless amounts of Light(beings) willing to chip in and help (and take the rubbish off our hands and into rehabilitation). Sometimes it takes them a while to dig through the muck to get to us, but we are tough and can wait for them. :)

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04/07/16 07:23:43PM
373 posts

No aura and leeching?


Empath

sorry Lao you are experiencing that.In my experience negative energies/ beings come in many shapes, varieties and strength. Have not experienced anything like you describe, but that does not mean anything. I did fear that my guru from a cult I was in years ago hounded me for years after me leaving, but am not so sure anymore if it is true? Nowadays I think he might have for a while (I did piss him off quite a bit by questioning his authority in front of the group, and then leaving), but most of what I experienced were likely other negative energies mimicking psychic attacks from my guru, because they knew it would disconcert me.

What I did learn is that I do not always need to know exactly what is going on, My divine healers and helpers help regardless of me knowing, or not knowing. Well, one just has to ask for perfect help, and tell them one does not want to suffer - and they do everything in their power (which in the long run is always greater than anything any negative energy or beings can come up with).

From the sounds of it, you are dealing with something quite tricky - whether that is that person or some other energy disconcerting you. I personally would not try to tackle anything like that without my healers and helpers anyway, so I would ask for their help and for them to sort it out! You can offer your body as a channel for healing energies to come in, do do something. But as for learning any necessary potential lessons, that is always possible in retrospect too...

As for potential energy loss, are you grounding? At least that way if anything manages to drain you, it is a way to replenish what is lost relatively quickly....

Hope that helps in some way. Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/07/16 01:36:47PM
373 posts

Super Hot Feet and Hands - Help?


Empath

whereas cannot guarantee that it is nothing untoward - in my experience attacks are if anything usually coming in with strong fear energies attached, so it is much more likely that feet and hands are cold, not hot :)))

If you don't already - make sure you ground deep! You need kind of a lightning rod at times, when plenty of healing energies are coming in/ through - as a way to get rid of potential access energies, and or negative energies removed. Different healers have different methods, I prefer to ask ultimate good Earth energies to come up and connect to me (my heels)....

All the best!

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04/07/16 01:06:29PM
373 posts

Super Hot Feet and Hands - Help?


Empath

my hands can get quite hot when channeling healing. I rarely feel it myself these days, but sometimes clients mention it. I also get a lot of activity in my feet, and I interpret that as grounding related.

My healing teacher back in the day told us her hands got very hot when her healing ability awoke, and I saw a program about a chi gong healer in LA once, whose hands supposedly get so hot, he has to put aluminum foil on top of his clients, as to not burn them.... (but he has not damage to his hands!). Also read about a healer once who does most of his healing with his feet (like other healers with their hands), so perhaps your hands and feet are awakening?!?! Just make sure you ask your healers/ helpers that your spiritual developments, energy upgrades etc. are always as effortless as possible please (if you have not already).

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/07/16 07:55:43AM
373 posts

Does anyone else get very agitated, upset with the change of season


Empath

scientifically I think it is many people being VIT D3 deficient, which is worst end of winter. beginning spring (before the lack has been filled up again)?!?! Make sure you take VIT D, and enough, if you don;t already :)

I do prefer spring, summer and autumn. With winter and everybody's energies being down/ lower it can be a real drag on my energies. I.e. I think I empathically get people's low energies.

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04/07/16 07:50:08AM
373 posts

Does anyone feel their empathic sensitivity is getting stronger with age


Empath

forgot to say - due to confused energies coming to us, I believe empaths especially need to do regular energy cleansings! Plus grounding is beneficial. (Well, I sometimes do cleansing meditations, but mostly I just have a standing plead/ prayer for regular healings, cleansings, protections, and recharges - for myself, my bodies and my life!)

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@goodenergyhealing
04/07/16 07:19:00AM
373 posts

Does anyone feel their empathic sensitivity is getting stronger with age


Empath

Sorry to hear that. I used to suffer from CFS, but it is mostly under control now. Unless there seems to be some major cosmic event, like a solar eclipse, or Mercury retrograde I function well enough. Well, I am not sure if I could manage a 9-5 office job again, but doing massage& healing and only seeing 2-3 clients a day if ok (and pays the bills and than some).

What helped me most physically was discovering that I seem to require a decent dose of VitD3 daily (about 5000-7000IU per day), and back then regular strong probiotics.

What helped me most spiritually was embracing that I am an empath and accepting that negative emotions/ thoughts I get are mostly not self-generated anymore. Since I believe that I have a right to a suffering free life I therefore ask for ultimate good healing for every single energy that disaffects me, or attempts to disaffect me (directly or indirectly, consciously, or subconsciously, maliciously or more accidentally). I think the main thing is to no limit that help. I.e. some e.g. believe that they have one or two guardian angels and that is it. But some energies disaffecting me clearly seem to be more large scale, i.e. energies created by collective subconscious feeling/ thinking of groups of people (some groups quite large). So to stop some energies from disaffecting me, or remove them/ take them into healing it might require armies of angels/ archangels....., or even gods or goddesses. I trust though that they are there, and willing to help - and on average I get more and more energy, happiness, friends etc. But mind you that is the average - as mentioned above, there still can be dips into rather uncomfortable territory, but at least it does not last for months/ years anymore, but mostly just hours, sometimes days....

Hope that maybe helps in some way?

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/07/16 07:02:55AM
373 posts

What do you think triggered your empathic abilities?


Empath

Would say I have always been relatively sensitive, but that might just be the gay gene? My childhood was not traumatic, and up to the age of about 25yo I was free to travel, be sociable and go places, without potentially being majorly disaffected by negative energies.... (I was quite a slave to my emotions though (well, I think they were mostly mine))

The only thing that makes sense to me and which I think 'triggered' (or better uncovered) my empath abilities then was waking up spiritually, and doing a lot of mediation, prayer etc. I did my best to uncover the true, light, individualized divine Spirit I AM. Which affirms my theory that a lot of empath experiences is about being lighter than the average and confused energies coming to us like moths to a flame. Well that or they come to attack us, so we leave/ don't go somewhere, to prevent our Light being infectious or illuminating some confusion/ darkness....

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/05/16 03:55:20PM
373 posts

ace guided meditation


Empath

https://archive.org/details/VisitTheAngelsGuidedMeditation

This is a free guided meditation I can only recommend (and I am super picky about any spiritual tools/ resources).

Somehow it almost always manages to get me in the healing zone, even if there is a lot of mind distraction.

I do not follow it word by word - I just let the angels come, pick me up,, take me up - and them go into healing mode, i.e. open up to receive and channel healings (you can obviously do your trip for others too!).

Just had a great one again - felt like they went into every cell of my body to cut cords on cellular levels.

Love and Light!


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 02/13/17 06:53:25PM
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04/05/16 03:49:56PM
373 posts

Does the word "No" sound like the word "Maybe" when spoken by an Empath


Empath

have you tried 'revenge healings'? :))) If people put me in a position such as the above, and somehow there is no way to say NO, without being an utter ass - I pray for tons of healing for them! Whatever necessary so that a similar situation will not arise again. And somehow it seems to work (at least in the long run!).

In a way I consider anything that disaffects me as a cry for healing help....

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/03/16 08:56:47AM
373 posts

Great article for Empaths


Empath

I agree - as it says - 'Do not resist evil!'. But I disagree that one cannot shield too. In a way I see myself a bit like the rubbish removal, or sewage cleaner for confused and negative emotions/ energies, etc.. Now that can be unpleasant enough as it is, so why not shield at least some off it off? (there is still plenty coming through) - otherwise it like telling a sewer cleaner to go without his/her protective clothing, and ask them to have a bath in sewage whilst working - lol. I pray for perfect healings, cleansings, protections, and energy recharges (always) - as much as necessary, possible, available and sensible! Whatever else then still manages to come through - so be it. I do not think it is because the Divine wants us to suffer, but it is still unavoidable, and in the long term to our, and the planet's benefit - so there is no use in complaining

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@goodenergyhealing
04/03/16 03:20:27AM
373 posts

to feel or not to feel?


Empath

I ask Earth energies to me, and I trust that they are big and strong enough to overcome whatever a human might encounter. It does not mean that I always 'feel' it, but I am confident it is there, and if something does manage to come in between, Earth energies will remove it, and then heal it - so through the disconnection healing occurs :). The disconnect feeling can still be uncomfortable, but at least I can wear my healer martyr hat ;)

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@goodenergyhealing
04/02/16 07:21:20AM
373 posts

to feel or not to feel?


Empath

thanks Julia.

Nature is pretty far away, but Hyde Park is near (and it seems that the trees have switched on now to help us humans channel Light in, and crap energy out. Well, my intuition at least). Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/01/16 12:01:38PM
373 posts

Need help from an empath


Empath

yeah, a bubble of Light is good! How are yo getting on with it? There is no set rule. Maybe try for 20min, and be happy if you manage 10min. You can just ask the Light to stick around as long as necessary, possible, available and sensible, for ideal healing results. It will do so then. It'll stay around even if you do not focus on it. A bit like turning on the shower, ones the water is running, you do not have to think about the tap, or the water anymore - the water runs anyway.

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@goodenergyhealing
04/01/16 10:18:16AM
373 posts

Having an extra person in me? Muscle testing


Empath

interesting story, even though potentially not very fun for you!

I have done things like muscle testing or dowsing in the past and gotten clearly wrong answers, but I would still go with it, if it makes sense to you on some level. It does not cost anything to initially just try yourself to heal it (if it is real). Just go into meditation, call upon your ultimate good divine healers and helpers, and ask them to free you from John, cut any potential cords, and fix any potentially energetic damage he might have wrought. It might take more than one session, and if by the third one he is still there, maybe consider getting outside help... (like Visitor suggested). If there is any potential lessons to be learned ask your helpers to enlighten you. Depending on what kind of spirit John is, getting answers from him, why he is there - could be confused, or misleading - so take potential answers you get form him with a pinch of salt. After all, unless you specifically invited Spirit to come and live with you, he is there uninvited.

Love and Light!

 
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