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09/22/16 07:29:39PM
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Frustration with doctors


Empath

just gona throw this in here, even though only somewhat related at a tangent. My sister's stepmom had her gallbladder, pancreas, part stomach and part small intenstine removed, due to pancreatic cancer 6 years ago. Was a miracle she survived. She should be on quite a specific diet, like no more fats etc., but eats 'normal'. She found what helps her do this is drinking some blue berry juice every day, or eat some.

As for possible 'outside' energies causing physical symptoms - if you are not all already, you can pray for help, that all energies in the outside that disaffect you are regularly cleansed/ taken into Light too. Wherever they may be.

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
09/22/16 07:15:14PM
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CheshireCat - interesting tips re sleep meds. I had a post on my FB newsfeed the other day re spray-able Melatonin, which supposedly is better for ones liver (but that might just be advertising lies?)

I think the increased mortality (re isolation) only really applies if one feels lonely being isolated though. I often feel better though in solitude, than around many folk. As likely do many empath. Plus most of us feel connected otherwise (we feel the ONEness), and we often have strong spiritual connections (and know we are never really alone.). On top of all that being spiritual many will have decreased fear of death anyway ;)

Love and Light

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@goodenergyhealing
09/22/16 04:45:12AM
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I am pretty sure I have had tingling on my crown. And sometimes there is a lot of activity there, it feels like, as energies are going in an out (the crown chakra is our main connection to the Divine, or higher concepts in general). It could be that you kind of 'signed up' to become more aware and spiritually active at this time, before you were born? - Not a doctor, so I cannot comment extensively on it being anything more physical. Obviously if you do start getting pins and needles anywhere else, problems with vision, or any paralysis, do go for a check up! And even if you are too worried now. And or google brain tumor symptoms....

You might also want to google  - ascension symptoms, or the like. I e.g. had a few times that I would work on some energetic system of mine, like the Hara, or Kundalini, and end up with pain in my spine for two days after (felt like an energy system upgrade). But I have been meditating for years, so I rarely get worried about such symptoms. As for empaths being psychic too, that seems quite common. As empaths we are definitely clairsentient already.

As for hearing voices - I can communicate with voices in my head, if I want to. They are usually just too unreliable though, so mostly I suppress them. I have found that with any spiritual communication it is good to keep the same attitude as with listening to something humans might say - just because someone claims something, does not mean it is necessarily true. A general rule of thumb is that voices from 'good' sources will obey your free will, and leave, if you ask them to. Whereas voices from other sources may stick around . One has to then potentially call in on divine guides and protectors to get rid of them. (but it does not sound like that is your problem at the mo)

Being more at peace at night seems relatively common with most spiritual people and empath I know. I reckon it is because so many people are sleeping, and creating less stressed energies. I often feel more energized and at peace on weekends too, even if I am working.

Hope all that has put your mind a bit at rest.

I'm attaching a link to a blog of mine, that contains my so far gathered wisdom re empathy - http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/goodenergyhealing/blog/1511/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing

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@goodenergyhealing
09/22/16 04:15:17AM
392 posts

pain during meditation


Empath

Rene':

When I get to a deep meditating state, I cry sometimes.   I feel some kind of deep rooted pain and tears just roll down my cheek.  When I finish my meditation, the pain is gone. Like I flip a light switch.  I don't know where it comes from but it feels like a broken heart pain.  It could be me feeling the worlds pain. Idk.  It could be my pain.   

My only complaint is the sweating.  My body heats up so much that sweat pours off of me.  Not every time , but most of the time.   Does anyone else get overheated while meditating ?  

no heat here yet (that only sometimes happens during really connected sex Wink). I did read before though that supposedly when having the Kundalini and base chakra fully synched and engaged, one can potentially create a lot of heat. Some Buddhist monks can melt snow with their bodies, heat up their hands quite a bit, or dry wet sheets on them. Likely something like that.

Yeah, was thinking it might be world-pain having seeped into the depths of my cells. I often feel stuff dissolving during meditation too, but as it was yesterday, there was still some left at the end of it...

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@goodenergyhealing
09/21/16 06:41:23PM
392 posts

pain during meditation


Empath

Cat Whisperer:

On occasion I will get a headache, but this does not happen all the time. I meditate lying down as well...usually sitting, especially in the lotus position is distracting as it causes my feet to go numb. My sessions usually go from 30 minutes to an hour.

Maybe gluten related...does this happen at other times?

Most channeling work is 'work' to some degree, which so far I always put down to energy resistances. Being painful with headaches (nothing severe, just enough to fell sorry for myself - lol) only with some longer meditations. Today's e.g. ended up lasting three hours...

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@goodenergyhealing
09/21/16 12:04:06PM
392 posts

pain during meditation


Empath

am curious, does anyone else experience pain during meditation? I am not talking about the pain that can come from sitting, as I lie flat when meditating. More like pain in my cells, and perhaps a bit of a headache. It seems especially pronounced during long sessions, that go very deep (sometimes I do get a tad envious of people who report all those feelings of bliss during their meditations, for me they can be hard work (yet still satisfying!)). After such meditations it needs a a good few minutes to feel more normal again.

Just switched to non-gluten to see if that will make a positive difference to my energy levels, so cleansing out Gluten might be part of it, but it is not the first time I experience them (unless it has always been Gluten's fault?). I guess I could just be patient, wait my three weeks, till all gluten should be more or less out of the system, to see if that changes things - but curiosity is getting the better off me Happy


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@goodenergyhealing
09/12/16 06:34:12AM
392 posts

Are you a Light Empath or a Dark Empath?


Empath

not sure if there is a difference? I'd say one is a lightworker until one is thrown into ones first real battle (between Light and Dark energies), after which it might be hard to label ones lightwork, as just any other job/ work anymore? :)

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@goodenergyhealing
09/12/16 06:29:15AM
392 posts

Are you a Light Empath or a Dark Empath?


Empath

I find that article very confusing, and it uses/ creates terminology that seems unfavorable.

According to it I am more of a dark empath, but I reject the term 'dark' with and identifying adjectives about myself! It kinda sounds too, like dark empaths are pessimists, and light empaths optimists? But supposedly dark empaths cope better? Also if dark empaths feel loads of negative energies (which attributes to their 'dark' label), then what do light empaths actually pick up on? They are supposed to have a helper syndrome, but do not actually feel the darker side of those they help? Why would they want to help in the first place? And it seems ironic that light empaths supposedly have a greater chance of falling for the 'dark' side....

A better classification is perhaps 'coping' empaths and 'not coping (yet)' empaths? So I used to be a non-coping empaths, be that because the opposing energetic forces where either still overwhelming, or because I did not recognize I am an empath, personalized tons of stuff I took on, and did not concentrate enough on cleansing? and then turned into a coping one. During my non-coping years, I guess one could say that I had CFS/ ME, which makes it a hard thing to be jolly all the time, but I did not turn into a pessimist! Now I still feel plenty of negative stuff, but with better health it is easier to feel content, if not happy! ....

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@goodenergyhealing
09/10/16 07:52:52PM
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I find finding exact reasons what I feel the way I feel, what I have taken on, from whom, etc is rarely clear cut. It could have been that, or it could have been some negative energy lurking around? Maybe there e.g. had been a relatively recent stick up at that petrol station? Also I find that often if I have very stressed and exhausted massage clients, I feel fatigues before they even show up, and sine most of them are not spiritual in any way I sometimes wonder if fatigue is a negative energy, or the lack of energy (or likely both is possible?)

If I get drained I make sure I especially affirm my connection to healthy Earth energies, ie grounding. It is not just a way to get rid of negative energy, but also to get fresh energies up.

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@goodenergyhealing
09/08/16 07:40:38AM
392 posts

Astral Spiders


Empath

maybe luckliy - I rarely see anything spiritually. My sister does though, and when she encounters any demons or other negative like entities, she just calls upon the angels to carry them off. Sometimes she has to call for more angels, but then, so far, all got always removed. You can also e.g. ask for/ visualize healing and clearing Light - e.g. silver (supposedly more clearing) or gold. If the spiders are actually positive, nothing will happen to them, whereas if they are disaffecting, they will be carried off....

I do like smudging, but rarely do it as the only thing I do, if I feel particularly pestered. Do you mean smudging supposedly does not work on etheric spiders particularly, or in general? (I think the latter would be wrong)

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@goodenergyhealing
09/06/16 02:13:26PM
392 posts



I hear ya - I just have noticed with my own spiritual evolution, my strength and abilities seem to vary. I might e.g. discover a new energy system, e.g. my Hara. I'd concentrate on it, and clear it, which would give me heaps of more energy, only to wake up the next morning and be back to 'normal' energy amounts. Sure, over time (years) my energy and abilities seems to increase, but is it a gradual process, and I still too get days/ weeks, where I get depression energies in, etc....

Or when I started off on my spiritual journey, it was quite easy for me to get to a state where I could feel at ONE, but that soon stopped, and since it needs a lot more effort, concentration and meditation. And even after 20 years there is still plenty of meditations, where I nod off....

I used to be in a cult, and my empathy and negative energy experiences really started taking off after I left, so for years I feared my ex-guru was attacking me with black magic. Until I finally had to admit to myself that he is not that capable, and that the energies had to come from somewhere else...

It took some more time to figure out, and be confident about it, that I am an empath.I seem to often get collective subconscious energies too. So I can have the nicest clients, but if they are form a country with loads of trauma, inequality, etc - I'll be hit be loads of negative stuff (before they even show up). (And it would be silly trying to tackle energies that are potentially fed by a nation of individuals by myself. That needs armies of angels to fight/ heal them with)

Over the years I have found that negative energies come in all sorts of forms, strength and abilities. They are, as you say, sometimes subtle, sometimes slippery, etc. Plus they, or my mind(?) seem to adapt at times too. If I fear demons, they masquerade as demons. If I read a book about how childhood experiences influence adulthood feelings, I'll get loads of back-flashes of my childhood (which was not even traumatic, really). If I read about parallel universes, I get the feeling I might be influences from other versions of ME, in alternate realities.... They might all be true, or they might all just be illusion (created by neg energies. I do not really care - i just get on with my healing work (however much I feel, or whatever....).

But it took some years to become pretty confident and zen about the whole thing!
I used to measure myself against others, believe I might be less capable, developed, or powerful, if I did not have abilities they have. Today I am confident that psychic abilities are no guarantee of good character or general spiritual effectiveness. I think doing regular spiritual work is like going to the gym. The energy gym. We do increase in strength and ability. But sometimes the brighter we get the more negative energy resistance we might trigger, or the more neg energies might be attracted to us (seeking us as a channel out). So it feels like we are not progressing, but actually we are channeling more and more energies (in and out!).

I did write a book about my spiritual experiences, and observations (loads on energies in there (good and bad)) - Tours and Cures of a Lightsoldier (Alexander King). It might find some parallels, and some more understandings and tools that have helped me, and could help you. If you are interested, but cash strapped at the mo, just give me an e-mail address, and I can send you a free pdf version...

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@goodenergyhealing
09/06/16 05:11:48AM
392 posts

Sending bad energy or shielding bad energy


Empath

hehe - you are right on trend there with a few thoughts I have been having. I did a loving kindness meditation the other day, and have since been trying to integrate that approach even more so in my life than I used to already. Not just people, but energies I encounter too.... BUT I do not do so because I think that I was a terrible person before. I deal with many energies every day - keeping a loving kindness frequency is still something that takes extra concentration, so if I do not have the time to concentrate on it, I do not beat myself up.....But if I do concentrate on it, especially during healing meditations - it makes them more pleasant! (So I am being purely selfish - lol)

So what do I do that might not be perfect. I do not wish anyone/ anything harm, especially long term. But identifying something as confused, I might get slightly annoyed there for a second :) Sometimes it makes me grumpy too. BUT I know that even that is not what I really am. It is just because I get those energies too to process, and again if I do not have the time to concentrate on loving kindness, I live them for a short while.

I do think though that those feelings are usually projected onto me. In a way we are ambassadors of the Divine, for at least being somewhat less confused than many others. As such it sometime feels like I feel what some expect the Divine to think or feel about them. They think they are not all good, either because they aren't, or due to some guilt (justified, or not), and expect the Divine to be upset with them (as they currently do not understand unconditional Love). And with hard core Narcs it can also be that they simply try to bring us down by creating guilt about reacting to them there for a short while....But there is no guilt to be had (in my opinion, for myself (but that is a stance I had to reassert many times over, before I was confident about it!)

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
09/06/16 03:42:56AM
392 posts



Sorry to hear all that, sounds like you are in a right pickle.

I'd say this right off - considering that you 'feel' the demons, you still 'feel'. It just seems that you currently feel more negative energies than positive energies!? So some of your thoughts, that you are all blocked up might be unfounded fears (likely put in your head by the negative energies)? Now obviously heaps of negative energies are not an easy cross to bear, and can he hugely uncomfortable, if not painful, so I understand that you want rid of them!

I used to have CFS for about 10 years, when I often felt disconnected and 'not heard', but looking back now, that seems to just have been heaps of negative energy too, and I am confident again now that all our prayers do get heard! Some of them just need a while do be processed through, during which time we have to be patient. (but I'll attach a prayer I have put together, which includes all the wisdom I have found so far, of stuff that we should ask for, to get maximum help and make our lives as effortless as possible! - http://www.alexander-king.com/meditatons-and-prayers/2015/11/9/the-perfect-prayer)

Mind you I do see my empath task as being a bit of a channel out for negative energies too (obviously only channeling out energies my body can handle - demons might be too large, and need other ways!), kind of being an energetic waste disposal man, and as long as there is plenty of negative energies about, not all days are going to be plain sailing and comfortable (but realizing my tasks makes them much more bearable. And simply smiling while I do so makes it even more so!).

It sounds like you are perhaps trying too much to just work by yourself, but are simply outnumbered! Again use the above prayer, or your own words, and ask for as much ultimate good Divine Help as necessary, possible, available and sensible, to clear you and your life of negative energies now and thereafter (as maintenance).

From the sound of it you want to do a few sessions of cord cutting with that friend of yours too....

I have to get ready for work now. Feel free to send me a friend rest to PM me , or ask further questions here!

Love and Light! And I have sent a army of angels (or whatever else good ans divine suitable for the task) your way too!


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@goodenergyhealing
09/05/16 05:24:35AM
392 posts

How do you know you've met a fellow empath or highly spiritual individual?


Empath

hmmm - not quite sure. Do not have any set and fast rules.

I guess I go with how I feel around a person. And with clients I add the strength/ intensity of healing energies flowing, how clear their e.g. chakras are, etc.. But I have also learned to add in how I feel before I meet a person, and how afterwards. Narcissists and Psychopath can feel wonderfully calms and eve lovely during a direct encounter, but then the energetic battles begin, once I am on my own again... And if there is the slightest doubt, I keep observing, rather than making my mind up about a person's character, and or state of energetic development. (and even if I come to a conclusion, I try my best to remain open to change my opinion (for better or worse). I sometimes get fears that I have turned into a bit of a cynic and overly skeptic, but then I remember that falling for a narc or psycho is potentially long term even more damaging. Plus if I am uncertain, or think someone is not all benevolent, I simply ask for more healing for them, and or our relationship....
And not to doubt that you are highly empathetic and gifted (it comes across through the posts/ comments I have read by you), but cynic little me even remains skeptic when someone pays me such compliments. Especially if people do so, that I have just met. Often enough it seems they are just trying to sweet talk my ego.... Cult recruiters will often sweet talk people in such a way, to get them to join up (again - no judgement on whoever told you though!).

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
09/04/16 04:06:33AM
392 posts

How do you ground yourself?


Empath

As Rene said - you can ask/ pray that stuff is taken off you, and or you can ground them off into healthy Divine Earth energies (to be dealt with there). You do not have to visualize, you just have to somehow make your wishes/intend be heard. Visualization is just one tool there. So you can just say something like 'Perfect Grounding on. Thank you. Amen' (at some point you will have told Divine Earth energies that perfect grounding for you means that they please help pull out negative and stale energies, and give you fresh energies up. ). You can ask for 24/7 grounding/ as long as you are at work/ sleeping/ 10min/ whatever you like. I leave it up to them, and if I need a refresh of the connection, I just quickly concentrate on my heels, or one could say something like 'Grounding refresh. Thank You. Amen'.

Some Christians have problems with grounding into Earth, perhaps afraid they'll end up in a hell? I used to fear that, but those fears are gone (after praying that unsubstantiated fears be taken off me). I obviously would not ask anyone to just take my word for that though. Back then I prayed for grounding alternatives (should there be evil in Earth, or I overburden her with my crap energies), through some holy planets somewhere, if need be :))

As for protection spells - you can ask/pray though that you are protected against undue negative energies. Some e.g. visualize (or simply ask for!) a divine healing and protecting bubble of Light around them. It is a bit like firemen wearing protective gear, they'll still feel the heat, but they are protected against some of it's potential damage... Such a bubble of Light would help cleanse your energies (one breathes in Light and exhales negative and stake energies (to be taken away by the Light)), and somewhat protects them. Some enforce the bubble skin with mirrors, plexi-glas, bullet proof fabric or whatever.... Or again you can just leave the mode of protection to your guides...

(and with all my visualizations I always allow the Divine to modify them as need be!)

Mind you sometimes I encounter situations where all the right tools do not seem to work still too. Nothing really feels like it is shifting. But in the end everything shifts if I keep my faith, some energetic obstacles simply seem quite complex and need time to be dismantled safely! In such situations I just try my best to get on with things, and ride them out....

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@goodenergyhealing
09/03/16 09:53:38AM
392 posts



very happy to hear it. Especially with stronger connections- family spouses, exs, etc. it might take a few sessions to resolve completely, but every time we do a relationship healing (or other healing work) another chunk goes or another facet get's healed!

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@goodenergyhealing
09/03/16 06:36:24AM
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various. Ideally I'd buy form a store/ stall, but in Central London there is not that many, and many of those are over-priced. Plus I am a sucker for online buying. I know many say that one should feel them, before buying, but I cannot say I ever had a problem with online bought crystals energetically. I did get two Vogel wands from China, that I doubt are quartz, but glass (but even they do channel energy).

Generally I'd say the likelyhood of getting a fake crystal depends on what you buy. Many crystals are actually not that expensive, so faking them might cost more than just selling a genuine one. As for more expensive, rare ones, there might be a higher risk, but here too, I bought a few 'high frequency' crystals, and they arrived with 'high frequency'. I do not use them too much though, as they are usually quite small. When using crystal to especially help me focus and strengthen my mediation, I like to hold more chunkier ones.

I find that often different people have different affinities (might be star sign related?). As a Taurus I love hematite, and clear quartz. As well as Preseli Bluestone (very pure white energy). Hematite is especially good at helping one to ground, and if one wants, to 'ground off' negative stuff - like fears, insecurity, unhappiness etc. What one should be left with is more the usually innate happiness, self-confidence, etc. that is what we are, as individualized divine Spirit!

Have fun!

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@goodenergyhealing
09/03/16 06:23:06AM
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I do not have any similar experiences, but generally - yes, I sometimes can feel other people's stuff at a distance. Even more so if I send distant healing.

As for techniques though - have you tried cutting (unhealthy) cords? You'd try to visualize cords connecting you to your ex, and where they are not all Light, bright and shiny, but may look grey or otherwise diseased (and as such having a higher likely-hood of conducting negative energy), you either cut them, or e.g. radiate them with healing light, inject them with some healing potion, or the like. If you want to cut and get into problems - Archangel Micheal is a good support there. Plus, if you do not already, you can obviously always pray for him, send blessings, channel healing energies for him, etc. For any negative feelings you now may have - guilt, sadness, etc - you can ask that they are taken off you, and or ground them off into the depth of Earth (for rehab and recycling).

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
09/01/16 07:27:25PM
392 posts

How do you ground yourself?


Empath

very similar to Rene, but I ask the healthy, divine energies (in Earth and otherwise) to connect to me. Earth energies through heel chakras, plus other through main chakras. plus I might check my Hara, and Kundalini.

If there is only one thing I can do, I'll focus on my heels, keep my healing and connection intend on them, and wait until I feel a stronger connection again.... I used to see two beam of Light coming up from deep in the Earth, but over time the connection seems to have gone wireless....

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@goodenergyhealing
08/29/16 07:38:10AM
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Why do I attract crazy? Do you?


Empath

hard to attract anyone with good friend potential in London....

But generally I ask that the Divine helps all those that might come to me seeking help, but for whom I might not have the skills, time or energy to help myself directly. Plus if you have problems setting boundaries you can always ask for help with that too! I used to feel guilty if I did not answer each any every help request myself, until I understood that the Divine always has several back-up plans. So if I do not have enough time or energy to help, they find alternative ways to action any help required!

I think for myself it is also important to know that I do my share of helping. I am lucky enough, that I work as a healer and masseur, so I tick some boxes here through my regular work. That way when I do take time out for myself I can relax better. So for anyone perhaps feeling that they don't do enough healing work with their job, looking after a family, or else - perhaps they can think about setting some dedicated time aside to do healing work that satisfies them? Be that e,g. volunteering in a soup kitchen, volunteering in an animal shelter, dedicating meditation time to healing goals, sending distant healing, writing self-help blogs, etc. etc.... And often it is actually about just looking at ones life more closely and remembering all the good work we already do - to keep the 'I am not helping enough' guilt-demons at bay ;)

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@goodenergyhealing
08/28/16 12:59:53PM
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let me add to he above - I find that often one energy does not come by itself. There is often packages. When I get really confused about whose is whose, I check if there might be any beliefs attached (to whatever emotion confuses me) of: 'everything I feel inside myself is my own!'. Which is what many people belief. I.e if you e.g. feel your friend's fear, and that friend also believes that whatever she feels in her body is always her own, you might get that belief together with the fear. Ones I realize that, and defuse the belief, it is then often easier to recognize such emotions as not my own.... Hope that makes sense?

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@goodenergyhealing
08/28/16 09:32:16AM
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I guess that is the challenge of being an empath, figuring out which emotions are ours, and which are someone else's. I am afraid I cannot give you an easy rule or answer. To me it is bout trying my best to re-discover and live the individualized divine Spirit I am, which is ultimately good, unconditionally loving, wise and happy. And as long as there is 'programs' I might still have, buttons that can be pushed - to be aware of those as best as possible. It is about monitoring myself - my thoughts, and my emotions, as much as possible. To know myself. When if I am e.g. usually calm and relaxed in a situation, and suddenly in the same kind of situation I get hit by anger energies, I can be fairly certain that anger is not coming from inside myself...

Ultimately I have come to realize as well though, that is does not really matter all that much to exactly know what something is, and where something comes from. I see it as my mission to channel any negative emotion, thought, energy I get into the Light (or ground them off!). If i am supposed to 'learn' or understand something form a negative energy I ask that I learn it, and I trust that it will happen. If I looked closely at every negative energy I get, some days, I might not get anything else done anymore ;) (plus sometimes I might get depressive energies and it is not attributable to individuals, e.g. at the mo we are in Mercury retrograde again, which sometimes can cause havoc emotionally here)

Hope that helps somewhat.

(this s a blog post on mine, that is a bit more detailed - http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-exp...)

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@goodenergyhealing
08/28/16 09:11:26AM
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Nocturne's Angel has said it all pretty much.

It is not so much about trying to find them, as allowing them to connect to you and guide you. Well, they do not need to 'find' you, they always know where you are ;). For them to connect to you, you just ask them to connect please. You might then see them, feel them, and or hear them.

And no to scare you, but the spirit realm is a bit like humans. There is good ones, bad ones and some that are a bit of both. So before any spiritual work - meditation, communication, etc. it is always prudent to pray for Divine protection, so that confused energies are kept out as best as possible. (Which is not always 100% possible, so it is up to us to think about messages, etc. we receive. To try to evaluate if they make sense, if we want to follow them etc. Basically just like when humans give us advise. It is up to us to decide if it is good advise, or not :))

All the best! Love and Light!

(I love the attached guided meditation: https://archive.org/details/VisitTheAngelsGuidedMeditation)

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@goodenergyhealing
08/26/16 04:25:12AM
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not sure one can train to be an empath, it is more about finding tools that work for you to take the negtaive edges off being an empath...

Feel free to peruse my blog re this - http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing

All the best for your journey!


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 07/27/17 06:35:32PM
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08/22/16 05:14:31PM
392 posts

is this real


Empath

hmm - pretty certain I was a member of some 'Advanced Lightworker Group' on Facebook, which was run by the same woman apparently running lonerwolf.com (pretty sure I recognize that picture)

Was not a pleasant experience. Some huge ego stuff flying about. She basically claimed that everybody, compared to her is a lazy shit (supposedly she writes three books a month (or a week?)). I left the group when I was attacked for making constructive critical remarks on a video claiming that the Earth is actually flat. It appears that not joining that believe I was a heretic and too stupid to remain....

Sure, there might be some valid, and valuable info on that website, but I'd keep some healthy guard up and retain common sense thinking!

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@goodenergyhealing
08/21/16 11:05:28AM
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took me about 15 years to work out I am an empath. Finding articles about it and the term 'empath' happened after I had self-diagnosed myself and clair-sentient. Think the term is rather new? Well at least none of the esoteric books I read in the 90's and beginning 2000s ever mentioned it....

As for relationships - in the same boat. If anything comes my way - it frequently is narcs, but am rather happy being single, so not desperate...

Good luck for your journey and congrats for having found out about yourself!

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@goodenergyhealing
08/21/16 10:48:33AM
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is this real


Empath

try doing you meditation with activity. I do loads of mediation/ distant healing/ self-healing with my cardio (cross trainer works best). It keeps me awake and breathing. Have good music with it, or put a guided meditation on with head phones. All the best!

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@goodenergyhealing
08/21/16 10:32:10AM
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not necessarily accurately here (but find hat intuition rarely is an exact science anyway :))

More like a feeling of being 'at home' or with an old, great friend (still might remain paranoid, as narcs and psychos can convey similar initial feeling of safety). Or you might just pass a person and smile, and be smiled back at (and it feels genuine).

It gets somewhat more accurate if I give healing to someone. Chakras will be clearer and energy flow generally more intense. Also especially the head chakras will be relatively strong (but again, no firm rule, generally more intelligent and complex thinking people seem to have more open crown chakras, on average, (from what I notice with clients). Actually treating the back chakras can say more than giving healing the front chakras. Back chakras, to my understanding, is mostly past, and possibly past lives (but also where 'taken on' energies seem to end up.) So someone who is doing regular work on themselves often has comparatively clearer back chakras....

Then there is those who might have more spiritual energy than the average Jo/ Jane, but are still walking down more confused paths (my opinion), so i feel they have 'power', but it is not a harmonious feeling....

Don't see auras, so cannot say what that might convey....

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@goodenergyhealing
08/11/16 08:14:36PM
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Dating


Empath

the feeling of 'not interested' could be their fear that you might not be interested too. Or with my last BF, who turned out to be a full blown Narcissist, I sometimes had such feelings, even though in the outside all seemed to be fine. With the benefit of hindsight I now think it was when he started to have feelings of boredom.... Not meaning to make you paranoid though, but sometimes I find that feeling something does not guarantee that I can understand everything. There is at times more than one way to interpret a feeling. If it happens, I have to decide if I want to communicate verbally, or watch for more signs either way....

Generally I get rid of any negative emotions I feel asap. That includes feelings of insecurity, fear, anxiety, etc, connected with meeting potential partners too. You can use tools like EFT for that, or just pray that they be removed (and then it often feels as if I breath them off).

All the best with your dating - much Happiness!

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@goodenergyhealing
08/09/16 12:57:22PM
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Lots of Questions from a Newb


Empath

I believe it can get better. Well, I might be projecting, but I have gotten better over the years (not saying I do not still get bad days too!) . Why exactly that is, I cannot tell you. I have done load so of things, e.g.:

- regular energy cleansing and grounding

- making sure I got rid of any guilt or masochism programs, that might make me take on negative energies unduly (and make sure I always cleanse out new ones...)

- as that I am protected and what disaffects me form the outside regularly take up and away (for rehab), by the Divine (perhaps some energies do not dare come to me, or attack me anymore?)

- various supplements (Vit D and probiotics seemed to trigger greatest improvement)

- healthy diet (from little meat, to veggie, and currently to vegan (but only winter will tell if that made a great difference, summer energies are often more solid)

- loads of crystals about the house....

There might be more, but cannot think of them now.

Love and Light

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@goodenergyhealing
08/09/16 10:33:18AM
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From what I heard, most women do not make that decision easily. If they do decide to abort, there will likely be important reasons.... I cannot say if what you felt is genuine, I used to feel all sorts of things, that over time stopped, so there is a chance that the initial feelings came out of paranoia. I have also become more level headed about suffering on this planet. So even if what you say is true, that being will go straight back into the Light, where it can receive healing. Whereas if that child is unwanted, but brought to term due to legislation or guilt - it will potentially have years of being unloved, feeling unwanted, underfed, maybe even abused etc....

I.e. it is too difficult an equation for me to come to a decision either way. So as with all such things, as far my input is required or appropriate, I pray and ask that the overall suffering bottom line be considered and the smaller value brought to be....

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@goodenergyhealing
08/04/16 03:24:57PM
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if in doubt, one can always pray for what one wants.

Else you could e.g. visualize a shield around here - perhaps an intelligent one, that turns into camouflage, or renders her invisible to the wrong kind of attention....

Or purchase a e.g. necklace or bracelet with a shielding kind of crystal (hematite, clear quartz, amethyst, ruby, black osidian come to mind, but feel free to google for more). Cleanse it after purchase (just run cold water over it), and then hold it in your non-dominant hand and charge it with your dominant hand. I.e. program it with what you want it to do for her. I.e. you simply ask it to please help her by shielding her against unwanted attention.

Plus what Nocturne's Angel said :)

All the best for College!

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@goodenergyhealing
08/03/16 02:36:00PM
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I am no a mental health expert, but form what I know there is far more people hearing voices than one might think. I actually just took part in a psychological research study a few months back, which tries to distinguish the difference between voice hearers who are stable, and those who end up requiring psychiatric treatment. The psychologist and psychiatrists there confirmed that there is plenty of sane voice hearers!

In general I believe the difference between having extra sensory perception and being classed pathological and healthy is the ability to discern. I.e. if you e.g. hear voices, the question is if you retain the ability to make your own judgment and decisions. So if a voice tells you to do something , that you do not want to do, you just do not do it......

In general if you do not like a voice, you can always tell it to piss off (sorry to be so blunt)! It is your head space! If any voice does not want to leave, I usually just call in divine help, to (lovingly) kick it's butt, remove them and take them into divine rehab! That can take a bit, but usually it is quite a quick process! There might be others trying to get in anew, but if they manage, and pester, you can always just kick those out too. After a while there will be less and less beings that dare approach you, if they are not benevolent and coming to help and assist genuinely....!

I wish you all the best with your treatment, and hope you get a reasonable therapist with it!

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@goodenergyhealing
08/03/16 10:19:02AM
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for now you can pray to Archangel Michael. He usually comes with a flaming sword, and is one of the main helpers for cord cutting. Ask him to cut any unhealthy cords you might have. (he will help non-denominational). As mentioned above, it might take more then one session!

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
08/03/16 03:44:43AM
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Heya -

never met a TF, I thought I had last year, but that turned out to be a narcissist-empath set up. But I do believe this: in an 'ideal' world, where everyone were their true divine self - everyone, and everything will be a TF! Having a human body is a gift though (as is any body), and there is no saying how soon one will get one again, so leaving it assisted for a TF, would likely be misguided (even though from what you write you do not seem to plan this).

My personal experience with hearing voices is highly unreliable. So much so that I have pretty much shut them down. I only really communicate about somewhat more urgent matters, with as high a source as I can get, and even then I do not take any answer as guaranteed correct. I have tested voices aplenty in the past , but when they do turn on you, lie ,or do not make any sense it just stresses me out, so I leave them to their own (and they should have plenty of other spirits to talk to, so I am confident that they do not need me).

As for all communications and spiritual work I ask for Ultimate Good Divine (true Divine, not wanna be divine ;)) protections and guidance. I find then, that sometimes voices that might have tried to misguide me are taken away.... But it feels to me like we live in a bit of spiritual smog still, so getting a clear channel is often difficult, and some tainting is still frequent.

Not sure if any of that helps? I wish you all the best for your current TF relationship!


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@goodenergyhealing
08/02/16 02:18:19PM
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yes, as mentioned already - you can research plants and crystals. One crystal that has not been mentioned already is shungite!

You can also pray for specific protections, harmonizations etc. Or you could e.g. visualize something like an etheric copper Faraday cage, connected to the floor/ ground, around electric devices, and task it with grounding electric frequencies as best as possible....

I used to think that I had electro smog sensitivity when I worked in a large office. Had quite a few crystals all around me, but it did not seem to do much. Funnily if I ever worked weekends, with much fewer people around I used to feel much better. Looking back now (and not having any problems with my home PC), I feel that most my problems back then were people related, their healing resistances etc. Some of those energy discords might have masqueraded as electro sensitivities.

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@goodenergyhealing
07/28/16 07:36:21AM
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:)

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@goodenergyhealing
07/28/16 07:36:09AM
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you might want to consider this: As a spiritual healer I learned not to give my own energy/ Love. Rather I ask to be connected to divine energy sources (including Earth energies), offer my bodies as a channel and let those energies flow for the (highest possible) benefit of whomever I send, give them to! You can give healing/ Love in such way to yourself as well!

Sure, sometime I might still go all out and end up giving some of my own energy, that is why I pray for regular energy re-charges and restorations. Energy recharges will recharge your day to day energies, energy restorations are more akin to soul part retrievals, where we have given parts of our soul-substance energies, lost them, or they have been stolen....

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@goodenergyhealing
07/27/16 04:18:15PM
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heya - sorry you are going through a rough patch.

Here is some thoughts, not sure which apply to your situation, and or how much.

I have noticed over the course of the years of my spiritual development, that my understanding of what I consider Love has changed! It used to be romantic Love that I thought was true Love, now it is unconditional divine Love, that I see as true. Romantic Love is often coupled with fears, and insecurities. There is loads of 'pulling', and one is hard pressed to be happy if ones Love is unrequited. Unconditional divine Love does not have all that. One just wants the other person to be happy. And if one can love oneself unconditionally, one really does not need much in terms of Love from the outside anymore anyway..... Hey, I am not saying that it cannot be nice to feel loved, but if that Love is romantic, it might come with conditions, cages, etc.....

Now what I have noticed is that over the years the Love I give has become more and more unconditional too! 'Problem' with that is, that many humans (and other beings) have great problems being loved unconditionally. They have deep rooted fears that they are not love-able, especially unconditionally, so they construct walls to keep such Love out! That can stifle the flow though....

I think that the frequency of Love that most empath give out is likely more towards the divine unconditional end of the spectrum, not the conditional romantic end. The frequency of our Love is often too 'high', and folks reject us, not because there is anything wrong with us, but because they are not ready to accept our more unconditional divine Love. they do not actually reject us, they reject themselves..... They hide behind their walls. Energy flows from you to them (or their walls), but they cannot send anything back (yet)......

Still if we keep loving them, unconditionally, with their walls and all - their walls will eventually come down. There is no way to rush this process though. So in the mean time I prefer to feel sorry for them, rather than feeling rejected myself! As long as there is not that much love coming my way from humans, I just do my best to love myself, and concentrate on the Love I get form my divine helpers....

Hope that helps on some level? Love and Light!

P.S. that is another reason why narcissists can be so dangerous to us. They seem to be able to accept unconditional Love initially, and send us loads of romantic Love back. If we have felt unloved there for a while, it is easy to want to believe that a narc's Love is actually the real thing.....


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 01/25/17 11:54:58AM
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@goodenergyhealing
07/27/16 04:54:00AM
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sorry to hear. Assuming you have looked into 'normal' stuff, like watering and fertilizer

- maybe try putting some crystals to help the plants draw energy, as well as putting some crystals in the corner of your garden, to create a protective grid.

- Go around with a bell, or singing bowl and sound smudge your plants.

- mediate and ask them what is wrong.

- draw the Reiki symbols (Sei He Ki & Cho Ku Rei) on pieces of paper (or on rocks) and place around the garden.

- visualize green light (healing), or silver (cleansing), gold (healing, restoring) light around the plants....

- and you can obviously channel healing energy for your plants too. You can either give your own (as Hoofbeats describes), or ask to be connected to Divine energy (true ultimate good Divine, or trusted by Divine ONLY!), and offer your body as a channel for that energy to pass through you for the benefit of your plants (or whichever other being). Best to ask to be connected to healthy, divine Earth energies too (through your heels), so you are grounded during this process.

Hope some of that may help


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 10/18/17 07:26:41PM
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@goodenergyhealing
07/23/16 04:41:11AM
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I found my place in the world


Empath

wishing much success!

what genre?

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@goodenergyhealing
07/22/16 03:35:45AM
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everybody dreams! It is the REM part of our sleep. It can be suppressed with sleep medication though. Watson & Crick argue that most of dreaming is actually a cleansing process for the brain, getting rid of superfluous synapses (and I guess as empaths we have very active brains, so we might need more cleansing?). That is not to say that some dreams might not be guidance, or prophetic?

I am quite a heavy dreamer, but it is more bearable than it used to be! I have stopped trying to understand or remember them, usually when I used to look stuff up in like online dream dictionaries stuff was just too depressing. Looking back now, I did not understand back then yet too though, that I am an empath, and just like with emotions, I might have had 'other people's dreams.'

Many people also chronically under-sleep, so it will be even harder for them to possible remember any of their dreams...

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
06/23/16 06:29:24PM
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sorry to hear about your troubles.

Yeah, in my experience emotions can be sticky things! My mind can often resolve a situation quickly, but getting the emotional body to follow suit often takes more time....

A few things:

- I have long ago decided that I do not want to suffer anymore - full-stop! Andy negative emotion I have I had over to the Divine for healing, or ground them off, into the Earth!

- What really helps me relationship wise is to have realized that I am individualized divine Spirit. As such I am whole. I do not need anyone, anything to 'complete' me. I am single, but happy that way, as no more desperation to need to find a soul mate to be 'complete'... If you do not feel your wholeness - you could use an affirmation/ prayer like - 'I Am whole! I am complete! I am beautiful! I am individualized Divine Spirit! And I thank the Divine for perfect healing help to fully feel this!

- What we are is eternal! Yes the illusion of ageing in these bodies can be very convincing, but if you e.g. close your eyes and concentrate on your Soul Star (2 finger width above your naval), you might feel your eternal nature better!

- Use decording exercises with your Ex. I.e. cut all energetic cords. His energies are likely still feeding off you suffering (for/ about him), so cut those connections. Several times if need be! You can also use a simple prayer, such as - 'I forgive myself, I forgive him - I let go in love and I thank the Divine for perfect (relationship) healings! Amen!'

- If you have not already read up about narcissists, sociopaths, brainwashing and mind control. Not all might be relevant, but finding out of the 'psychology' of such a bad relationship can help rationalize things.

- From what you describe - You are very strong to have survived all this. He sounds like a very confused man, perhaps you should rather count yourself 'lucky' that your paths diverted, than feel jilted?

I'm sure you'll get there

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
06/20/16 10:43:37AM
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Strong energy field from someone


Empath

well, since you said that you felt it was 'all' good, I did not want to say anything. The strongest energy off a person I ever felt was off my ex-guru (very warm, kind and loving energy), who turned out to be a sociopath. I obviously hope she is no wolf in sheep's clothing, but my past experience is the reason why I do not drop all my protection for anyone - how ever glorious they might appear! Sometimes it can be relatively easy identified by sending such people Ultimate Good Divine Light. If they are indeed true and quite holy, they will thankfully accept it - and you should feel some 'Oneness'. If the are a wolf, you'll get back upset energy such as 'How dare you, I am so holy already, I do not require any of your Divine Light! :) Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
06/20/16 09:44:47AM
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A question for Empaths


Empath

I read a book many, many years ago, about this woman who could supposedly channel dead composers & write music. (N.B. it was the time before Google and YouTube, so back then I believed it all, but have since heard some of the music on YouTube and it was not very Chopin etc.... Still....). At one point she asked those composers what heaven is like - and they said - 'In heaven everyone is psychic, and knows, feels and sees everything. As such for some people coming up there initially heaven is hell, as they cannot hide behind masks and or lies anymore....' It kinda made sense to me, and still does.

I guess most people would not mind if you feel their positive energy anyway, it is mostly about their negative energies that they might feel invaded. I rarely talk to e.g. my clients about what I fell though. For one I am never 100% sure if it is accurate, and I do not want to be insensitive either - 'Oh, you are very depressed again today!' . So I just take feeling such energies as a query for healing, which I channel for them.

As for social media posts I do not always feel something (maybe I am subconsciously blocking some stuff out, to not get overwhelmed?), but I think to have quite a good BS detector. Especially hanging about in a lot of spiritual forums, I usually feel/ understand quite quickly if someone has been brainwashed/ in a cult, or is a wanna be (manipulative) guru... The same way that I have gotten better at identifying narcissists over the years. But with sociopaths and narcissist I'd argue it is no invasion of privacy at all, rather it is a self-defense/ self-protection ability.... Reversely I am relatively good at telling if someone has a sensible, spiritual head on their shoulders (but maybe that is just them agreeing with what I believe? - lol).

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
06/19/16 02:45:37PM
392 posts

Strong energy field from someone


Empath

she might have had a strong aura, radiated a lot of energy? Considering she works with crystals, she is likely a healer? I have heard of QiGong Masters too, who can direct energy in a very focused manner....(there might be stuff on YouTube)

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@goodenergyhealing
06/19/16 01:33:52PM
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card blanche just means that you do not set any limit to the amount, frequency, strength, extend of help you receive. And if you still have any restricting believes, just tell your helpers to ignore them, protect you against them whilst they are still active, and help you get rid off them with time.... And do not worry, that does not mean that you'll have to turn into a Mother Theresa, nun or similar...:)

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@goodenergyhealing
06/19/16 10:05:17AM
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Sorry to hear your journey is currently so difficult!

If you have not already - I'd suggest to give the Divine card blanche as to the amount, frequency, strength and extend of healing&help you receive for yourself, your bodies, and your life. For things to be as free off suffering as possible! Many spiritual people consciously, or subconsciously limit the amount of help they can receive by e.g. believing they have 1 guardian angel only (but some problems might need armies of angels to solve (who are available and more than happy to help, but we have to 'allow' it). It might still take some time to heal the gross of your problems, but at least you can be confident that everything, in terms of spiritual help, is being done, that can be done.

I have had 10-15 years of relative loneliness. Some of it self-imposed, as I had CFS with depression, and kept on not wanting to bring people down, so I stayed away. Most of that is healed now though (Vit D really helped, as well as realizing that I am an empath and asking for regular cleansing of my energies of empathically taken on negativities). Still only barely a handful of good friends at the mo, but I am not sure if I would have the time for more anyway. I do need a fair amount of time to myself to regenerate my energies on a regular basis, and get rid again of mostly client energies (masseur and healer here). I am pretty certain that most of my CFS, etc was actually outside energies, trying to push me out of London, the UK, and previously Germany. And perhaps asking that energies like that are being healed/ removed has helped shift things too.

What has helped me too is to realize that as individualized divine Spirit, I am whole - I do not need anyone or anything in the outside to feel whole and content. Sure I did some soul retrieval work, bits and pieces lost, stolen or foolishly given away over times/ lives(?), but I do not need a partner to feel 'whole'. That plus realizing that I have a lot of spiritual help. friends/ support! I do not always feel them, and I cannot really touch or hug them, but they are there! I.e. physical solitude, lack of humans in ones life, does not mean one has to be without company....

So nowadays I rarely feel lonely. And if I do it is usually on a Sat night. Which makes me pretty certain that it is lonely energy flying about, from people who stop 'running' on the weekend, get a bit of time to think and reflect and then feelings of loneliness and unhappiness surface (about their life, job, friends, family etc.)). And when I feel into such people I usually find that many, despite maybe an apparent great circle of friends, the perfect job etc. , are much more lonely than I ever was. I think a lot of that is that people are disconnected on a deep level. They currently cannot feel the 'ONENESS', whereas most empath can. Sure even for empaths the Oneness feeling is not always there, but if I remind myself of it, I can usually re-establish the feeling/ connection quite quickly. And that feeling is sooo much more nourishing than any amount of disconnected friends or partners in the outside....

Hang in there - the ride can admittedly be tough at times, but suffering is only ever temporary - Love and Happiness are eternal!!! And if we tell the Divine that we have had enough of a suffering experience on this planet, they'll do their utmost to make the rest of our time here more effortless and happy!!!! Plus I have accepted that I need to help and support a lot, for things to shift. At the moment with many relationships in my life the positive energy flow seems to mainly be from me to them, but I do get plenty of positive energy form Spirit to make up for it....

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
06/19/16 06:01:59AM
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not an expert on diet, can only say this - make sure you get enough Vit D. Since I supplement high enough ( take 25.000-35.000 IU per week, but do read up on dosing yourself), it has really improved my energy, mood and immunity. Strong probiotics are a great staple for good immunity too... (e.g. Kefir, Kombucha....) Another good general tonic is Maca.

As for breathing issues, have started on Olive leaf extract 4 weeks back, to combat potential mycobacteria infection (helped a client get rid of his asthma, talking it for three months). I did not get tested for mycobacteria, but noticed that my lungs and bronchi cleared up (still do a bit), and some other old tendinitis issues seem to clear out....

All that and obviously if you do not already - regular energy cleansing meditation, especially connecting to healthy Earth energies. Many empath 'collect' negative energies that come to them, which can lead to physical symptoms....

http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
06/19/16 05:39:12AM
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Hear, hear! Well, I supposed we can tell our ultimate good divine guides to stop helping us, as it is free will, they will oblige (unless we were to harm someone, who is under their protection). That could leave a bit of a vacuum though, that there is plenty of other less benevolent beings, who would be very happy to fill (and they do not necessarily stop guiding with their deluded ways, just because one asks them too....)

 
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