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@goodenergyhealing
10/10/16 06:32:03PM
373 posts

God...the big question


Empath

Renee:

interesting food for thought! I have to say i most definitely believe in a higher consciousness, however not entirely convinced that all is being orchestrated. I like to think of the human realm as a bit of a theatre, we all choose to walk on stage, play our characters, follow the storylines we have scripted, learn the lessons we need and continue on our way. I do also agree with @goodhealingenergy that we are energy and energy cannot be destroyed only transmuted, therefore after our human existence (however many lifetimes that may be) I would hope and believe we go on to else where. 

I had a beautiful experience of sitting with my aunty 48hrs before she passed, she had been terminally ill for many years and was in the stage of drifting between here and there (wherever there was) and she was in dialogue with other spiritual beings. Others (friends and family - closer than i was) who were there would go sit with her however the other beings would shut down the communications, however when i sat with her they continued speaking. I asked her if it was ok for me to be with her and she said they had said yes as they know me. As she described them (to me they the image was ancient egyptian high priest and priestesses as well as the "place" she was "working" in for them was what i imagined egyptian temples to be with the symbols and engravings she was describing) i realised that the high priest was a being that had come to me months earlier - he was surrounded by a light and music i could not for the life of me describe or replicate - and one of the females - high priestesses - is now my guide coming in about a year after this event. At the time they did tell her to tell me they would be staying close and would see me again soon. Because of all this and so much else that has happened, i cannot even begin to believe that "nothing else" exists. That we are the best of the best. 

What is the plan behind all this? I have no idea but what I'm getting lately is, the purpose is to just find our way home......thats it. Go Home...... and I'm feeling like i only have a few (relative to the souls complete journey so whether that is 1 or 100 i have no idea) more lives left before i reach home! I hope so, because i am tired!!!!! 

Sounds like a Death Bed Visions. Reading/ researching about Death Bed Visions and or Near Death Experiences make it quite hard in my opinion to not believe that we go on some form or another :))


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 10/10/16 06:33:42PM
Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
10/09/16 03:11:20PM
373 posts

Trump Vs. Clinton


Empath

4peace:

I like that,  Goodhealingenergy dude.  :)  How do you put the noise in the background and convert it to light?   Are you visualizing light around it, or transmuting it?  I have been doing a lot of self-healing lately - and although it feels selfish to do, I believe it is helping me to respond better to others.   

I think it is just frustrating for empaths because we see and feel so much more than what is apparent.  It makes us feel like we are climbing a hill covered in WD40 :)  Or watching a house with smoke coming from it and no one else will recognize that there is a danger there.  So we just do the best we can to put out the fire, until others realize that they can help too.

Much peace,

Rhonda

I have a standing order/plead to be connected to Ultimate Good, including grounding 24/7. I ask for perfect healings, cleansings, protections, recharges, and restorations of myself, my bodies and my life. As much as necessary, possible, available and sensible. Wherever, whenever, whatever, however..... So there is always something happening. And of course when I have the time and energy, I add my own awareness and intention to those processes. :)

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
10/09/16 06:50:29AM
373 posts

God...the big question


Empath

I have a dodg keynboard, so I'll try to keep it brief.

I believe that everything is energy and kpart of a whole/ ONE! Doubt there is just one creating being, rather we all take/ took part in creating our Universe. But sure some beings are bigger and stronger than others (but even that is likely temporary illusion).

Sure there is confused Spriit out there, but I believe that the essesence of existence is Love and Good! Else I doubt something as miraculous as Earth and Nature could have come to be. If at the core were bad - we'd all be blobs of mud continuously bashing each other mudheads in - lol.

Furthermore I am a Spriitual Healer - I ask to be connected to Ultimate Good Energies and channel them form my or a clients benefit. I let the energies do what they think should be done, it feels like always something happening, and usually clienst feel better for it afterwards..... And many come back.If I channeled crap or manipulative energies - I doubt the outcome would be the same.

I also belief that we are eternal and go on - and do not become unconsous after leaving our bodies. Why shoukld we? We are energy, energy cannot bo stopped/ deactivated - only transmuted. And why would we be different to other energies? As empaths we feel energy continously. And just because e.g. a fear energy leaves his/ her host and comes to us - does not annul that energy, we still feel it!! Which makes me belief then too that there are no evil overloars ruling the UKniverse in eternity - as all the deceased souls would have started a revolution/ riot long ago!!!! And overthrown them!!!! (it is the same as on Earth, I doubt that most will believe that the gross of humans is evil. There is some evil ones, and if they get power and weapons they can suppress many good hearted folk. But once we leave our bodies and we remember our eternity, we cannot be manipulated and controlled with fear of death anymore....)

Sure - I cannot guarntee that I am right - but neither can someone telling you anything else. With those who are more pessimistic in their outlook on eternity and Spirit - I agree there is confused Spirit out there. If we want to ascertain that we have ultimate Good helpers, unconditionally loving ones, we have to ask for such, and that they protect us (again and again) against confused ones. Just calling upon a being we were told is benign, can be naive. Some supposed beign beings might be wearing holy masks. But if we specifiy that we want genuine beign only - we are as ok as can be on this planet.....

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
10/09/16 04:52:15AM
373 posts

Trump Vs. Clinton


Empath

Kate:
dproper:

I tried to bring this to everyone's attention months ago on this board... I am a Shaman Empath...

I asked everyone here why no one is sensing the fact THAT THERE IS WAR IN THE SPIRITUAL REALM!!!

I was gained up on and one of the posters told me my energies were all wrong.

My volume is way over 100...

My posts were stuffed into a religious community, and I made it perfectly clear that my posts were not being presented in a religious context!!!! I am not a mind slave to that kind of institution... sorry if what I say next is offensive, but wake up people... Religion means "to bind"... Why do humans of free will want to be "bound" or "tied up" like that? Governments do the same and so does nationalism, patriotism!!!  We are all one!!  You want me to powder it coat it for you or LIE to you????


There has been a war going there for a lot of time I want to add and also the energies floating around this forum are not the best, but same story goes irl. Even writing this here doesn't feel entirely good but i simply don't give a s*it. My inner alarms have been activated again and again so many times repeatedly that sometimes i came to believe as well in a common lie of "everything is ok". I wish I could talk about the people who in this isolated, "i need to survive" state ignore what is ongoing in the depths that some of us feel uninteruptedly and I wish they could "hear" the "screams". From personal experience and carefully observing it or talking with others it became obvious that whatever is left untreated grows in monstruous proportions so my question again is WHY leave the skeletons in the closet and keep making more. No, if I could, i would demand that people stopped doing this. 

Oh man yes! We are imprisoning ourselves and each other like hell, like hell we are. I cannot entirely follow my path peacefully because of so many elements that are meant to hinder your spiritual growth, and i had to make such U turns in life, isolate myself to prevent real alienation from my own values and energy. I am still doing it of course, using exactly the negative to counter the same negative and remind myself to not forget.

Dproper, people/we indeed become or risk becoming masochists as time passes.

sure there is constant battles going on between good energies and confused ones - but as it has likely been for centuries it is a state of normality. And unless in a physical war, famine, etc somewhere, many can experience plenty of beautiful things on this planet too.... Sure as empath we might have constant back-noise, but unless it is a particularly energetically stormy day, I have mostly gotten used to it (I just habe a standing background function running to channel it all into Light). Constantly being in battle mode is exhausting, and one does have to be carful to not get paranoia..... Also if I do 'fight' it is with Love and Light, and with minimal collarteral damage. Even the most evil energies are embarced with Love and taken into Light. And Spirt does it's utmost to make any such process as painfree as possible for all involved (even if we are screaming with revenge energies, as something has hurt us....)

And in the long run we know that Light energies far outnumber confused ones, so even though we live in an illusion where confused energis appear to have the upper hand at times - the long term outcome iks always the Light prevailing and being the only real reality in eternity!!!!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
10/04/16 03:57:18AM
373 posts

are you Alone? i mean really alone.


Empath

Nikki3:

My biggest problem is feeling that connection or chemistry or energy whatever it is with someone and having it go all wrong. I'm starting to believe that it rarely goes both ways and if that's the case then why? What's the purpose of feeling a connection with someone if they don't feel it? Am i supposed to help them in some way amd how do i know the difference before my feelings are hurt? Not just romantically but in all relationships. 

like I said above - I believe that many folk are still puppets of their negative emotions, etc. Those energies will try their best from keeping them from connecting with empath, or other more spiritual people. Our energies, and or knowledge can help others awaken - and are hence a threat to confused energies....

One can simply 'hand over' confused energies to the Divine. Or ground them off. Or use something like EFT to release them. I do this regularly for all confused energies in my being - self-generated, or coming through me. And I make sure that I include feelings of loneliness, et al. regularly. For once such feelings are given the chance to accumulate, they can turn into desperation, et. al. We might then meet somebody that we think 'might' be an energetic match (for whatever kind of relationship), but we are so starved and hungry for a connection, that we cannot see if they actually are not a good enough match.... And then become even more desperate if rejected, it does not work out, etc.... Or we stifle them, forgetting how busy most people's lives are - and do not give them enough room....

So for one, like I said above, it is good to work on finding wholeness inside! Also many look for potential relationships in places where they are less likely - bars, clubs - or other 'conventional' meeting places. Whereas the likelihood of finding people to connect with might be more likely where people are more spiritual too - yoga, or meditation classes, Empath Meet Ups, etc... And if there is none where you are, maybe consider creating one yourself....

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
10/04/16 03:36:45AM
373 posts

are you Alone? i mean really alone.


Empath

Janet farmer:

I to feel alone..even when I'm in the company of other people. I would like to be with someone who will make me feel whole and not alone. I'm tired of thinking pills will help. Normal people have no clue how an empath feels when rejected by someone they have connected with. The feelings are overpowering somedays. If anyone has any insight to helping me....it would be most welcome. Thank you in advance.

true - sometimes, some feelings feel overpowering! I try to remind myself that there is a good chance that what I feel of any negativity is not mine anymore (since I prayed/ asked that I be please cleansed off all negative emotions/ thoughts/ believes in my being many years ago)..... So when I e.g. feel depressed energies from a massage client, and they are really strong, but the client does not look, or act like it, I think it is because what I feel acutely is what they have accumulated in depressive energies over a longer period of time; whereas my client had that whole time period to get used to those energies. He feels them chronically, and I feel many at once acutely.... Sure, that knowledge still makes it uncomfortable, but also easier to cope. And once I start giving them healing, usually a lot of those energies shift/ get channeled out, or grounded off...

And as for feeling whole - anyone, or anything helping you achieve that feeling from the outside, has a likelyhood of being temporary only. They can possibly leave... So it makes much more sense to discover the feeling of wholeness inside! In my opinion Hollywood is brainwashing us, lol. Hollywood keeps on telling us that we need to find someone in the outside to makes us feel whole, but we are individualized Divine Spirit. That individualized Divine Spirit inside all of us is perfect, and whole (well, unless one needs some soul retrieval work, but even then one can just ask for it), it just has to be dug out!

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
10/03/16 02:10:43PM
373 posts

I fear no one will take my concerns seriously...


Empath

obviously I cannot tell what you feel, and how strong t is. Can only say that I get depressed energies from at least 50% of my clients. That is massage clients, not healing clients. Most of them are successful professionals. I do not pry on their personal circumstances, so like yourself I have no guarantee how 'right' I am in what I am feeling.

And I guess much depends too on how deep one digs. Many claim to be happy, but if they were to really sit down and ponder the meaning of life, fears of death, is there a God, etc - they would likely discover some deep seated fears. Just because they lead busy lives, and look happy - does not always mean they are happy through and through. Many seem to lead busy lives to continuously run away from deeper thoughts..... So if someone becomes quieter and withdrawn - it could mean that they have starting to face up to their basic fears. They will need time and strength for that though. I.e. those people can actually be more awake than some happy , cheerful looking ones. And like Rene says - depressed people can be quite strong. As it takes strength to face ones shadows!!! Many of my (depressed feeling) clients are regulars, so I'd say, just because someone feels depressed does not mean that they are a danger to themselves.... 

If you do mange to talk to him, and it is too awkward to ask him directly you can always make up another friend, distant relative, or the like. You create a parallel similar story. Something like you, or a relative of yours have been feeling something about XYZ, and how you wish they knew that they could talk to you, if they needed to..... Or how you wished they sought help....

And like lotusfly says  - you can always pray for someone, or send them good energies!

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
10/02/16 07:41:14PM
373 posts

Are you a Light Empath or a Dark Empath?


Empath

Lotusfly:

I've been really feeling the abilities of the dark empath lately. It's as if I was born to spot the darkness in the world: the lies, bad intentions, uncommitted crimes, negative thoughts. My true essence is purely good, but I can't help but notice the dark. I was wondering today if it has anything to do with my father playing horror movies for me when I was really young. Or maybe just because I'm psychic and telepathic. I just know that the bad sticks out like a sore thumb to me and it's quite depressing. Wish it was the other way around and I only saw the good in the world.

Can anyone relate to this inner knowing about people, places, and events? And feeling like such a good person who easily spots the bad?

yes, it is rare that I feel I get positive energies empathically - it seems to mainly be negative ones. But then I decided years back that I want to be a spiritual healer - just did not expect it to be a 24/7 job (ok it is not 24hrs a day, but more than office hours :)) . I have also come to understand that energy is energy, it cannot disappear, only be transmuted. So running around with pink shades, and 'ignoring' bad things - will likely mostly only ever be temporary relief. For thorough long term and lasting healings, someone has to deal with the negative stuff... I (selfishly) trust that the energy spent on this today, will make my life easier in future....

Every negative energy that comes to me is sent into Light...

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
10/01/16 08:03:55AM
373 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

@nea - could not have said it better myself ;)

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
10/01/16 05:21:14AM
373 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

Wanted to add another thought.... For myself it frequently still takes focus and attention to stay in a loving and compassionate vibe. Such vibes - I agree can act as a loving shield in itself - dissolving much of what negativity is coming ones way. I am not always able to keep everything out with it though, even though I am confident that my heart is unconditionally loving towards everything and everyone! It is a question on how much 'opposition' I encounter. Light energies do not always simply illuminate Dark energies. Some dark energies are pretty solid, and it is like shining Light at a Black wall....You need lasers, or other tools, to break those up :)

That kind of focus and attention I can only really keep up in meditation, or during a healing session! When having to spend focus on outside stuff - traffic, cooking, writing, etc, etc - I appreciate whatever protection, and or shielding the Divine can provide me with, so I can get on with my life. For, in my experience, negative energies do not wait for us to be in meditation and optimally self shielding (with Love and Light!) to try to intrude into our being...

Realism vs Idealism :))


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 10/01/16 05:43:17AM
Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
10/01/16 04:07:11AM
373 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

Nea:

All I know is that negativity breeds negativity. I wouldn't focus on what lurks in the darkness, but instead on growing and finding beauty in what you do have. There's so much that can drain us tbh. We have to be extra careful and practice love towards ourselves and everything around us. Love spreads faster than the speed of light. If you spread it around you, nothing else will be able to be close to you. Ofcourse nothing is about it is easy, I struggle on the best days to love myself unconditionally.

I don't know what the darkness can do, and tbh I couldn't care less. It can't do anything unless you feed it. True, sometimes you have to fight, but mostly when you fight, you're fighting yourself. I'm not saying warriors aren't necessary. I'm saying that you better be sure you have to. There were so many nights when I was sweating, terrified under the covers, and all of it was so unnecessary.

I still got a lot to learn, and I believe we sometimes 'hurt' to grow and learn about ourselves. Sometimes fighting is about staying on the path no matter what and trusting in yourself and your own instincts.

Actually I found that avoiding looking at negativity can be bad too. If it is still generated by ourselves, looking at it might help us learn why we still generate negative vibes. If it is from the outside it can help us understand others, how they work, their motives etc... It can also help us understand how those energies operate, which can make our prayers or visualizations more effective/ targeted.... Negativity only breeds more negativity if we live it, not if we study it (with a rational and as calm as possible mind). I like to use the example of medical science - studying an illness will likely do more to find a cure than to ignore it.

Hey, I used to follow the Law of Attraction to the letter. It actually hurt me more than it helped. It kept me from realizing and embracing that I am an empath. Rather I kept on personalizing everything, and feeling guilty needlessly for feeling stuff (that I did not generate).

You are right though - trying to stay in a loving vibe will make us feel better, and even be a healing force. But there is no use beating oneself up, if one gets caught in a storm of negativity, and one does not 'feel' the loving vibes there for a while. The Love inside us is still there, but there is so much negativity it engulfs our senses.... Any apparent win on the side of negativity will always just be temporary if our intention is to clear and ground negativity coming through as as quickly as possible....( I see myself as a negative energy garbage disposal worker at times - and when you are clearing rubbish some stink wafting up will likely be unavoidable at time ;))

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
09/30/16 01:01:54PM
373 posts

Amazing accuracy


Empath

he is holding her hand whilst holding teh object - would be really easy to do some mini Morse code, or e.g. prearranged sign/ squeeze for lipstick, and just tell her the answers...

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
09/30/16 12:49:10PM
373 posts

Trump Vs. Clinton


Empath

not in the US here, but we do get quite a bit form your elections on the news.

Have not gotten any evil vibes off Hillary yet, but have have not checked in deep yet. Trump rubs me up the wrong way though, he seems a classic narcissist, if not worse.... And I have met a few narcissists that did not 'feel' bad initially....

Trying to keep a rational mind, and from what I read from posts form friends in the US, there does seem to be a lot of propaganda created against Hillary, and a lot of hate send her way - so perhaps that energy could show as black clouds around her too???

Praying for you guys!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
09/30/16 03:49:22AM
373 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

Felt like the Planets in our Solar System got cleansed last night Like some Cosmic Mother Light Portal opened up and sucked negative energy out of them.... Perhaps we got rid off some ankle biters???? Felt like a huge load off.....Hoping it was not just an illusion :)

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
09/29/16 12:54:31PM
373 posts

Feelings of hate


Empath

Cheshire Cat:

Correction: The article at themindsjournal is called "The Psychology of People Who Hate People".  

Also, does anyone know how to edit these posts when you see after posting that you've made a typo like I did in my last sentence in my previous post?  On the old forum we had an edit button, but I don't see one here. I am no techie, sorry!

C. Cat

if you hover over the top right corner of a post of yourself, there is three buttons that come up then. Click on the middle cog one to edit a post of yours ;)

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
09/29/16 11:50:21AM
373 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

Cheshire Cat:

Hi everyone,

 (...)

Namaste,

Cheshire Cat

Thanks Cheshire Cat  - interesting read. It is what I have been deducting from my experiences, i.e. that there is 'outside' sources feeding off suffering, and as long as one does not pray that they are removed as well, healings for our bodies, or lives, might not complete. I do simply ask for help for 'battling' them/ having them be taken into Light for rehab, as I suspected as well, that they likely outsize myself :)) I'll look them up with your terminology!

And as for 'needing' suffering to push humanity forward, I think that might well be ankle biter propaganda. After all most people get more done, are more willing to change (if necessary) when healthy, fit and with their basic needs met, rather than drained, depressed,ill and or starving....

It be interesting to know how many empath have (somewhat) restless sleep. I used to think it was part of my history of CFS. Did not know I am kicking ankle biter butt during :))

(P.S. If you have not already - I simply pray that if I do still generate suffering emotions. or they come through me, that they do not feed any suffering energies (but are e.g. grounded off straight away - as far as that is possible. Likely another reason why I am not popular in their neck of the astral ;))

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
09/28/16 08:01:33PM
373 posts

Why you shouldn't shield yourself


Empath

personally I have given up on trying to control my protections and shielding much. Well, I have handed it over to  my helpers, guides, protectors. I have come to realize that some negative energies reaching me are unavoidable (however much protections I used to visualize), and if they hit me, I just get on with channeling them into Light! If I visualize protections or do not, overall I do not feel much different - so I trust it works. And yes, sometimes just reminding myself of that, and not giving in into 'resisting' energies (be hey my own or form the outside too!?) can make it easier.....

I have encountered a few very nasty energies in my time as well though....I think it would be naive to think that there is no negative energies that are not bigger and more powerful than me (well, me, without my divine helpers). So, like a fireman wears protective gear before running into the burning house - I trust I get protections against energies that would be too uncomfortable, or dangerous to channel out myself.... Then there is the noble vision that we can 'transmute' negative energies, which I fear can be naive too! Have you ever tried giving healing to a Narcissist or psychopath? I am not saying that healing such is impossible, but it is darn challenging. My last ex was a narcissist. He claimed he wanted healing, and due to this, and him being a monster frequently I send healing near 24/7 for 2months straight - he did not change visually, and then ran away. Those energies are strong and not easily healed/ dismantled - taking them into my body and trying to transmute them there, would likely have made me ill for weeks, if not months (plus the stuff I go already anyway was uncomfortable enough ).....

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
09/26/16 12:07:45PM
373 posts

are you Alone? i mean really alone.


Empath

Cat Whisperer:

Yes, GE, it is. I am seriously thinking about getting out.  Before I awakened, I just went along with the games, trying to please everyone but now since I'm aware..I'm not gonna play anymore. I am finding it hard to not live in my truth. And they don't like it. I pray and send healing love but you cannot fix some deep seated issues because they use it to their advantage. It's better but I can still feel the negativity. There is a lot of jealousy and dislike in the family. I have even told hubby I cannot deal with his family anymore and want to leave. He is hanging on...just wish he'd find someone else so he will let me go...but he will be hard pressed to find someone that puts up with the crap that goes on. Just putting the idea into the universe and seeing what manifests. I trust that Source and the Angels will guide me when it is appropriate. I would be happy if I could just be the crazy cat lady down the street and everyone leave me alone, lol.

now we know why there is crazy cat ladies Laugh

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
09/26/16 10:46:21AM
373 posts

are you Alone? i mean really alone.


Empath

Cat Whisperer:

I love your explaination GoodEnergy! You look at the down side of being ignored and shed some light on it, lol. The other side of the loneliness...I am married and live way too close to my husband's family. They are all (as described by many here with the same problem) coming around when there is something to be had, or when they need something, but if I call or text....ingnored. There was even a period where all of the step kids and their spouses boycotted me on FB. The reason why? They didn't like that I would say things to oppose their manipulations and hidden agendas (not enough time to go into all the details, but they are masters at playing this game with thier dad, he goes along) They would all want to come to the vacation house for all weekend get together, but I would say one family at a time. (Too many of them at one time wipes me out...like 4 different families at once. The last time was a disaster.) Or if I would mention for them to clean up after the kids. They had a problem with that so I was snubbed altogether. So basically when I excercise my boundaries, they rebel. So with that said, sometimes I entertain the idea of being alone would be much more satisfying than living a life around people that just want to use you for thier own benefit then toss you aside like trash.

that sounds like quite a stressful family life.... I try my best to live after the Buddhist Wisdom - 'No expectations, No disappointments'. I believe that we really only achieve 'free will' once we wake up (or some are born more awake), and free ourselves of a good chunk of negative energies. Till then most are just puppets of their (negative) emotions, thoughts, believes, etc. So when I get upset about someones actions, think they should know better, etc., etc. - I remind myself, that it is not them (their true individualized divine self) acting, but that they are acting out what their puppet masters want them to do.... The true divine part in them would never hurt or disrespect me, but that part is covered up with confused energies, that still have mostly the upper hand. Sure, I still react too, get upset, angry, annoyed etc. - but with that kind of thinking I can calm myself quicker, forgive and let go.....If they cannot do something today, I just have to send them more healing energies, or remain patient that past healing prayers come to fruition....And if sometimes it comes form all sides, I have no time to think stuff through, remind myself of my believes, and act out my reactions, I can forgive myself for that :))

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
09/25/16 07:30:30AM
373 posts

are you Alone? i mean really alone.


Empath

The explanation for the 'not-being-seen' phenomenon I have found is this -

Everything is alive! Everything has consciousness to a degree! That includes thoughts, emotions and believes! Energies, especially negative ones (anger, fear, guilt, arrogance, disconnectedness, etc, etc) need to be felt, and believed as real, to keep on growing and multiplying. Most empaths are 'lighter' than the average human. More unconditionally loving, non-judging, feel more connected, etc.... They feed negative energies less. If anything we can help enlighten and dissolve negativity. So we are a threat to negative energies! Ergo a person who still has a fair amount of negative energies in his/ her being - those energies will do what they can, so that that person forgets about us, does not see us etc, etc....

But I also belief that every time we do manage to make contact, think lovingly of someone, or perhaps are even just around more confused beings, we plant a seed of Light, and those seeds will come to bloom. So hang in there all! Let's not feed the 'loneliness energies' ;).

If i feel lonely, I try to shift my focus from the physical human plain to the spiritual helper plain. Sure, I cannot always see or feel them, but over the years I have become confident that there is so, so many. We might all have a million or more friends up there (or below us (Earth energies are very helpful too!). Or if you need to hold something physical, I get comfort form holding my crystals/ rocks during meditation, which I connect to! I am not allowed pets where I rent, but supposedly pets can feel much more connected and loyal than many humans too!

And yes, from the outside my life might look lonely, but it has become more sociable again over the years (took 10+ years, but then I did not have forums like during my darkest years :)). And I rarely feel lonely nowadays. And as mentioned by chrisis - perhaps start looking in other places for friends. Places were people are more awake already - meditation classes/ meetups, yoga, shamanism, etc etc. There is a higher likelihood of connecting more there. Just do not go in with too high expectations, it could be that your Light will have to shine there for a while too, before acknowledged.  I have started attending meet ups from last year, met some nice empaths. Have attended more spiritual events again too, but they are still hit and miss, and no besties yet :))

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
09/25/16 07:00:36AM
373 posts

Have you experienced The Dark Night of the Soul


Empath

I still get low points, sometimes they just last a few hours, sometimes days, or like last winter, which was a drag, but with occasional gasps for air.

I would not say though that the tools (meditation, grounding, prayer, Reiki, etc.) do not work anymore. it is more that one cannot feel much of a relief from them, which is not necessarily the same as them not working. It is bit like a blizzard has dumnped a few tons of snow on your house and property, and we only have a snowshovel to clear it. Well that is what it feels like, but actually many will already have a motorized snow plough, plus a hord of angels on more snow ploughs. The trouble is not the equipment and amount of help, but that it is a very heavy blizzard, and it is still going on. What we clear, is replaced by a new load, almost immediately. So we are clearing, but something new takes it's place asap, and it feels the same, so it is easy to belief that nothing is working. And as there is so much dumped on one, and it lasts for a while, with little respite, it is easy to start feeling it is ones own stuff....(but where all that stuff was supposed to have been tugged away in my bodies, during all the weeks and months before, when I felt fine, is beyond me :))

The upside of all this is that during those times we are clearing A LOT! And I trust that in the long run it will make our lives better and better. I know it is a platitude, but I then remind myself that it could all be much worse. Perhaps the collective crap we are sending into Light now, is stopping a war, another economic melt down, or ecological disaster? So the prize we are paying during a dark nite, to awoid an abyss, is actually not that high. Even though, of course it can be very uncomfortable....

What helps me during dark nites is that I keep giving healing to clients, and see how it helps them!

But one can look a it this way too - e.g. feelings of disconnection - they are energy! They are energies creating the illusion of disconnection! Many humans think that they are what is 'real'. Millions have fed them over centuries, there will be a fair amount of them accumulated. So if we are drafted in to help clear such feelings of disconnectedness - more and more humans will feel more connected. Feeling more connected, will makes them feel more aware. More responsible towards one another, the planet, etc....

I did some reading about meditation research the last few weeks. It is pretty exciting. Cannot find the article again now, but think it was IONS research, or one of their youtube clips. Something like it being 30million in the USA in 2015, up form 12million only a few years before that. Plus the number of peer reviewed research studies have gone from a handful per year in the 80's to over 300pa in 2015.  If you look at yoga figures , they are ever increasing too. Over all in the 90s one would have been laughed at by most doctors, if mentioning CAM treatments. Nowadays they are so mainstream, there is hardly a cancer patient in the UK, who does not use some CAM treatment as well, and doctors have become much more accepting!  So our 'quiet' revolution - bit for bit dismantling energetic structures of non-spirituality is working. But like any revolution we still get some cuts and scrapes along the way.

Love and Light!

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09/24/16 05:36:53AM
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Feelings of hate


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Cheshire Cat:

I dont' know how much you've gotten into the ascension thing, and I'm not even sure yet how I feel about it, (it sounds too much like a new age version of the rapture to me), but I've been hearing lately from people into ascension that we must work out all 3rd density karma before we can ascend, because negative thought manifests instantly in 4th density, and we can't go there if we are going to create horrible thoughts into reality. As a result,  things we haven't completely resolved will keep coming back up, and they may confuse us, especially if they come from childhood and we've forgotten the incident.

I find hatred I've felt in the past toward people who've badly hurt me or my loved ones is coming up again, and I'm going over and over what happened, feeling the rage all over again, and having to try to resolve my feelings, now that I've evolved enough to know I should not hate anyone, no matter what they do, a very hard lesson to grasp for me, when the results of what they did are ongoing and getting worse.

Could you possibly have an incident way in your past involving someone who was hypocritical about their beliefs versus their behavior, or pushing you to believe what they believed and saying you would not be saved if you did not agree, or some other such scenario that could need resolving?

I may be way off base, but it was the first thing that came to mind......

I think that kind of thinking has huge potential for guilt. Especially as a few often start feeling responsible for the thinking of the collective (which is still all over the place). I doubt I'll see instantaneous thought manifestation as a regular thing in this body (but I am not putting that out there as a 'blocking' believe either - lol). What many seem to forget is, that even if it came to pass on this plain - Yes, one could inflict instantaneous damage, BUT - one could fix that damage instantaneous too :)))

But I do agree that perhaps sometimes we are just chosen as channels for some negative energies to come out, move back into Light, for whatever reason. And those thoughts, emotions, believes can be somewhat spurious at times, and not really make too much sense, if we try to understand them, their origins, etc....

Love and Light

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09/24/16 04:47:57AM
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Feelings of hate


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Rene': I have been going though a lot of different levels of spiritual dysfunctions and or dissection the past few months. I have been working hard to climb back up and regain my strength and peace of mind but now, the fellings I thought I had gotten a grip on, has took a different form. The form of hate. By nature, I am a loving soul. Now, I hate. I hate religions, I hate religious people, mostly christains. At the point I hate anything that comes out of anyone's mouth. I'm agitated during meditation. I have buggy rage at Walmart . No, this is not me. I keep telling myself to snap out of this, you don't hate anyone. I reassure myself with postive thoughts and let these feelings past and they do till the next time. I don't know why I have singled out christains because I love the concept , it's mostly the people. This is really hard because almost everyone I know is a Christain. I have been doing detachment and cord cutting meditations and smudging myself everyday trying to get some relief. No one new has come into my life for me to be experiencing their emotions. I'm pretty much introverted these days due to all of this. I have got to get my balance back to the point I don't have to scold myself constantly. I'm about at the point of just throwing my hands up in the air. Do anyone feel this about me? Any suggestions would be appreciated.

I do not get that off you. And the whole post alone kinda proofs that it is not what you are, not want! I get all sorts of stuff, and sometimes i just give up trying to understand where stuff comes from. After 20years of meditation I doubt that there is still much, or any, of my own stuff (past lives etc.) in my being, but cannot guarantee that obviously. And especially when there is suddenly strong negative emotions, that feels like they would have festered inside me, not just hidden away very quietly, chances are it is from somewhere else. Have you considered that those feelings might be your christian friend's stuff? They often have a lot of guilt, and guilt can easily lead to self-dislike.... And negative energies thrive more if we react to them, so if we feel guilty ourselves, because we had a negative feeling or thought....So it is best to self-forgive.... But then there is no guarantee that even those reactions are your own? ....When I pray for protections, I pray for protections for myself, my bodies and my life - but also for protections for the outside, against any negative energies still coming from me, or passing through me. And I ask that where anything that cannot be 'stopped' in time, and disaffects any beings in the outside, that the damage is healed asap please! It helps tyake out some pressure of 'always' having to think and feel 'right'. Which as empaths is virtually impossible anyway - lol.

Love and Light!

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09/23/16 07:02:13PM
373 posts

I really need help with surviving psychic vampire.


Empath

problems with family often aren't a quick fix, so you'll have to hang in there. Sorry to hear it is tough. I am confident your prayers are being heard, and things are in motion....

Make sure you replenish your energies regularly. Pray for it, and connect to healthy Earth energies, i.e. grounding.  And pray for her, ask that she gets Love and Energy from the Divine, so she does not have to take it from you! Or less so over time.....

If you have not already - look into cord cutting, and relationship healing prayers/ visualizations.

I keep on reading on here too, that others seem to be helped keeping rock salt in the house, or bedroom. Either dry or in thick water solution. Just make sure you throw it out once in a while, and do not cook with it, after it has potentially absorbed negative energies.

Make sure you eat healthy, get probiotics, and possibly supplement Vit D

Love and Light! Saying a prayer for your situation too!

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09/23/16 04:01:13PM
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How do you know you've met a fellow empath or highly spiritual individual?


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Jenstone:

Thank you. I'm fairly new to the recognition of possibly being an Empath so I don't know much about "protections" other than praying for safety, but I usually don't recognize the need for protections until I'm all immersed in it. The neat thing is that the Empath paradigm really really makes sense, even just thinking this way, that there are energies and protections etc. is so much more helpful than thinking that emotions are just chemicals inside peoples' physical bodies. Love it!

Yeah, especially psychopath and narcissists can be hard to spot initially, energetically too! So I pray for 24/7 protections - well, as much as necessary, possible, available, and sensible! And I do not drop them for anyone, or anything - however holy they may feel or appear! (which is fine, as I ask that my protections are semi-permeable - i.e. let good energies pass unhindered, but do what's possible, to keep bad ones out. So there should not be a sense of separation with 'good folk'.

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09/23/16 11:56:25AM
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Energy vampires


Empath

Paul:Reiki in itself is a type of shield that I use all the time. You may wish to look into Reiki. it might help you not be drained.

I am a Spiritual Healer and Reiki Master :) I do make sure that I do not give my own energy, but only what I channel. But I find that often I e.g. expend physical energy, because my body tenses to 'hold' a healing frequency, or to not succumb to negative thoughts and emotions that I receive empathically when treating a client.... So not quiet sure yet, why for some energy work seems to supposedly be more effortless perhaps than for myself, but then I know of other healers too, who experience healings similar to myself (and who do not massage). I do believe it is an energetic thing. A lot of times I get negative energies form my clients before they actually show up, so I doubt it is increased energy transference through massage touch, as some theorize....

And yes, it can get quiet hot and sweaty doing energy work :)

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09/23/16 11:47:46AM
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How do you know you've met a fellow empath or highly spiritual individual?


Empath

Jenstone: Can you explain the boundaries that you set with people, if any, and how you come to a place of not hurting or endangering yourself when you help others or extend compassion to others?

to me it is more a question of making sure that healings and protections are extensive enough, rather than setting boundaries. In my experience, especially strong negative energies, like with psychopath, or narcissists, seem to have 'back-up' energies in the outside (of their bodies). They are usually just a marionette of those energies, but living under the illusion that they are in control. Giving healing to very negative energies can cause back-lash anyway (spiritually, or physically), so one should pray for protections against such, but also protections against, and healing for any potential outside sources of negative energy support.

Other than that, I try to be assertive, and speak my truth, or just shut up (where more sensible). But I am single, no kids or such, no any family close by - so I can perhaps be somewhat more brazen. Every once in a while I get a massage client, that 'feels' psychotic and scary. Adrenalin then usually stops pumping, and makes me extra alert, but in the end have no choice but to trust that the healing energies I work with will keep them in check. Worked so far. Most do not come back, and in 9 years I only blocked 3 or so from contacting me again, as repeatedly too scary feeling....

So I fully understand your compassion for such people. I find it is illusionary to believe that all our incarnations we have never been on the perpetrator side as well. Plus if we want to experience darkness, so we can cherish Light the more - someone has to take on the role of the villain. It is just a sometimes difficult path between trying to remain unconditionally loving, but also assertive and not appear soft and a target....

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09/23/16 08:18:24AM
373 posts

pain during meditation


Empath

thought I'd give and update on this topic. Spend 3hrs meditating Wed, Thu, and 2.5hrs today, to try to resolve my pains during meditation. Feels like it gone now (knock wood!).

Felt like something (whatever that may be?), had messed with my Kundalini wiring. or I was born with it? It feels like the Kundalini can be an express way to cleanse out negative energies (through the crown chakra). But somehow I seemed to have had cross wiring and some wires just dumping into my head, and other parts of my body.

So now, that it has been fixed, it feels like there is increased and clearer energy flow, which feels great. Just remains to be seen if it lasts. Had had increased energy flow feelings in the past, and the next morning it was gone again :))

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09/23/16 08:01:32AM
373 posts

pain during meditation


Empath

Paul:

I'm not much of a meditator. I have not experienced pain like you stated. My monkey mind does go wild and why I don't like to meditate much.

paul - do you attune before meditating? I.s. ask that ultimate good Divine energies connect to you, i.e. Chakras, Hara, Kundalini, Grounding? If you do not, try it. It can help raise ones energies, and also creates avenues for pent up negative and stale energies (that like to feed the monkey mind) to flow off.

(this is the more extensive explanation: http://www.alexander-king.com/blog-1/2016/4/22/how-to-easily-deepen-your-spiritual-practice-yoga-meditation-mindfulness-etc)

Love and Light!


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09/23/16 03:55:32AM
373 posts

Frustration with doctors


Empath

there is a lot on the internet about supposed liver cleanings, where those following it supposedly end up passing hundreds, if not thousands of stones. It sounds very impressive, but it does not make any sense, beyond placebo (plus I did study medicine for a few years, and in three years of pathology training we never ones found a patient with stones in their liver upon dissection. it is not some conspiracy of all doctors, like they want you to believe). It is something they eat, that in combination calcifies in the stomach (or some such), and comes out as pebbles the other end ;)

Which is not to say that as Karen2 says, that certain foods might not help in general.

I do like taking Milk Thistle. It is a great herbal antioxidant for the liver. And since the liver supposedly is the main organ to digest emotions (spiritually), I think it deserves some extra TLC. There is some rare contra-indications though for Milk Thistle (in combo with taking some Meds I think), so just double check, if you are taking anything else.

Love and Light!

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09/22/16 07:40:06PM
373 posts

Clearing energy out of an office, need help


Empath

two things come to mind:

- visualize a faraday cage in the walls of your office ,to shield the space within....

- talk to those energies, tell them that you need to work there, how they disaffect you, and if there is anything they (or you) can do to peacefully coexist?

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09/22/16 07:29:39PM
373 posts

Frustration with doctors


Empath

just gona throw this in here, even though only somewhat related at a tangent. My sister's stepmom had her gallbladder, pancreas, part stomach and part small intenstine removed, due to pancreatic cancer 6 years ago. Was a miracle she survived. She should be on quite a specific diet, like no more fats etc., but eats 'normal'. She found what helps her do this is drinking some blue berry juice every day, or eat some.

As for possible 'outside' energies causing physical symptoms - if you are not all already, you can pray for help, that all energies in the outside that disaffect you are regularly cleansed/ taken into Light too. Wherever they may be.

Love and Light!

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09/22/16 07:15:14PM
373 posts

I am desperate for advice..


Empath

CheshireCat - interesting tips re sleep meds. I had a post on my FB newsfeed the other day re spray-able Melatonin, which supposedly is better for ones liver (but that might just be advertising lies?)

I think the increased mortality (re isolation) only really applies if one feels lonely being isolated though. I often feel better though in solitude, than around many folk. As likely do many empath. Plus most of us feel connected otherwise (we feel the ONEness), and we often have strong spiritual connections (and know we are never really alone.). On top of all that being spiritual many will have decreased fear of death anyway ;)

Love and Light

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09/22/16 04:45:12AM
373 posts

I am desperate for advice..


Empath

I am pretty sure I have had tingling on my crown. And sometimes there is a lot of activity there, it feels like, as energies are going in an out (the crown chakra is our main connection to the Divine, or higher concepts in general). It could be that you kind of 'signed up' to become more aware and spiritually active at this time, before you were born? - Not a doctor, so I cannot comment extensively on it being anything more physical. Obviously if you do start getting pins and needles anywhere else, problems with vision, or any paralysis, do go for a check up! And even if you are too worried now. And or google brain tumor symptoms....

You might also want to google  - ascension symptoms, or the like. I e.g. had a few times that I would work on some energetic system of mine, like the Hara, or Kundalini, and end up with pain in my spine for two days after (felt like an energy system upgrade). But I have been meditating for years, so I rarely get worried about such symptoms. As for empaths being psychic too, that seems quite common. As empaths we are definitely clairsentient already.

As for hearing voices - I can communicate with voices in my head, if I want to. They are usually just too unreliable though, so mostly I suppress them. I have found that with any spiritual communication it is good to keep the same attitude as with listening to something humans might say - just because someone claims something, does not mean it is necessarily true. A general rule of thumb is that voices from 'good' sources will obey your free will, and leave, if you ask them to. Whereas voices from other sources may stick around . One has to then potentially call in on divine guides and protectors to get rid of them. (but it does not sound like that is your problem at the mo)

Being more at peace at night seems relatively common with most spiritual people and empath I know. I reckon it is because so many people are sleeping, and creating less stressed energies. I often feel more energized and at peace on weekends too, even if I am working.

Hope all that has put your mind a bit at rest.

I'm attaching a link to a blog of mine, that contains my so far gathered wisdom re empathy - http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/goodenergyhealing/blog/1511/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing

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09/22/16 04:15:17AM
373 posts

pain during meditation


Empath

Rene':

When I get to a deep meditating state, I cry sometimes.   I feel some kind of deep rooted pain and tears just roll down my cheek.  When I finish my meditation, the pain is gone. Like I flip a light switch.  I don't know where it comes from but it feels like a broken heart pain.  It could be me feeling the worlds pain. Idk.  It could be my pain.   

My only complaint is the sweating.  My body heats up so much that sweat pours off of me.  Not every time , but most of the time.   Does anyone else get overheated while meditating ?  

no heat here yet (that only sometimes happens during really connected sex Wink). I did read before though that supposedly when having the Kundalini and base chakra fully synched and engaged, one can potentially create a lot of heat. Some Buddhist monks can melt snow with their bodies, heat up their hands quite a bit, or dry wet sheets on them. Likely something like that.

Yeah, was thinking it might be world-pain having seeped into the depths of my cells. I often feel stuff dissolving during meditation too, but as it was yesterday, there was still some left at the end of it...

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09/21/16 06:41:23PM
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pain during meditation


Empath

Cat Whisperer:

On occasion I will get a headache, but this does not happen all the time. I meditate lying down as well...usually sitting, especially in the lotus position is distracting as it causes my feet to go numb. My sessions usually go from 30 minutes to an hour.

Maybe gluten related...does this happen at other times?

Most channeling work is 'work' to some degree, which so far I always put down to energy resistances. Being painful with headaches (nothing severe, just enough to fell sorry for myself - lol) only with some longer meditations. Today's e.g. ended up lasting three hours...

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09/21/16 12:04:06PM
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pain during meditation


Empath

am curious, does anyone else experience pain during meditation? I am not talking about the pain that can come from sitting, as I lie flat when meditating. More like pain in my cells, and perhaps a bit of a headache. It seems especially pronounced during long sessions, that go very deep (sometimes I do get a tad envious of people who report all those feelings of bliss during their meditations, for me they can be hard work (yet still satisfying!)). After such meditations it needs a a good few minutes to feel more normal again.

Just switched to non-gluten to see if that will make a positive difference to my energy levels, so cleansing out Gluten might be part of it, but it is not the first time I experience them (unless it has always been Gluten's fault?). I guess I could just be patient, wait my three weeks, till all gluten should be more or less out of the system, to see if that changes things - but curiosity is getting the better off me Happy


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09/12/16 06:34:12AM
373 posts

Are you a Light Empath or a Dark Empath?


Empath

not sure if there is a difference? I'd say one is a lightworker until one is thrown into ones first real battle (between Light and Dark energies), after which it might be hard to label ones lightwork, as just any other job/ work anymore? :)

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09/12/16 06:29:15AM
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Are you a Light Empath or a Dark Empath?


Empath

I find that article very confusing, and it uses/ creates terminology that seems unfavorable.

According to it I am more of a dark empath, but I reject the term 'dark' with and identifying adjectives about myself! It kinda sounds too, like dark empaths are pessimists, and light empaths optimists? But supposedly dark empaths cope better? Also if dark empaths feel loads of negative energies (which attributes to their 'dark' label), then what do light empaths actually pick up on? They are supposed to have a helper syndrome, but do not actually feel the darker side of those they help? Why would they want to help in the first place? And it seems ironic that light empaths supposedly have a greater chance of falling for the 'dark' side....

A better classification is perhaps 'coping' empaths and 'not coping (yet)' empaths? So I used to be a non-coping empaths, be that because the opposing energetic forces where either still overwhelming, or because I did not recognize I am an empath, personalized tons of stuff I took on, and did not concentrate enough on cleansing? and then turned into a coping one. During my non-coping years, I guess one could say that I had CFS/ ME, which makes it a hard thing to be jolly all the time, but I did not turn into a pessimist! Now I still feel plenty of negative stuff, but with better health it is easier to feel content, if not happy! ....

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09/10/16 07:52:52PM
373 posts

Energy vampires


Empath

I find finding exact reasons what I feel the way I feel, what I have taken on, from whom, etc is rarely clear cut. It could have been that, or it could have been some negative energy lurking around? Maybe there e.g. had been a relatively recent stick up at that petrol station? Also I find that often if I have very stressed and exhausted massage clients, I feel fatigues before they even show up, and sine most of them are not spiritual in any way I sometimes wonder if fatigue is a negative energy, or the lack of energy (or likely both is possible?)

If I get drained I make sure I especially affirm my connection to healthy Earth energies, ie grounding. It is not just a way to get rid of negative energy, but also to get fresh energies up.

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09/08/16 07:40:38AM
373 posts

Astral Spiders


Empath

maybe luckliy - I rarely see anything spiritually. My sister does though, and when she encounters any demons or other negative like entities, she just calls upon the angels to carry them off. Sometimes she has to call for more angels, but then, so far, all got always removed. You can also e.g. ask for/ visualize healing and clearing Light - e.g. silver (supposedly more clearing) or gold. If the spiders are actually positive, nothing will happen to them, whereas if they are disaffecting, they will be carried off....

I do like smudging, but rarely do it as the only thing I do, if I feel particularly pestered. Do you mean smudging supposedly does not work on etheric spiders particularly, or in general? (I think the latter would be wrong)

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09/06/16 02:13:26PM
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I hear ya - I just have noticed with my own spiritual evolution, my strength and abilities seem to vary. I might e.g. discover a new energy system, e.g. my Hara. I'd concentrate on it, and clear it, which would give me heaps of more energy, only to wake up the next morning and be back to 'normal' energy amounts. Sure, over time (years) my energy and abilities seems to increase, but is it a gradual process, and I still too get days/ weeks, where I get depression energies in, etc....

Or when I started off on my spiritual journey, it was quite easy for me to get to a state where I could feel at ONE, but that soon stopped, and since it needs a lot more effort, concentration and meditation. And even after 20 years there is still plenty of meditations, where I nod off....

I used to be in a cult, and my empathy and negative energy experiences really started taking off after I left, so for years I feared my ex-guru was attacking me with black magic. Until I finally had to admit to myself that he is not that capable, and that the energies had to come from somewhere else...

It took some more time to figure out, and be confident about it, that I am an empath.I seem to often get collective subconscious energies too. So I can have the nicest clients, but if they are form a country with loads of trauma, inequality, etc - I'll be hit be loads of negative stuff (before they even show up). (And it would be silly trying to tackle energies that are potentially fed by a nation of individuals by myself. That needs armies of angels to fight/ heal them with)

Over the years I have found that negative energies come in all sorts of forms, strength and abilities. They are, as you say, sometimes subtle, sometimes slippery, etc. Plus they, or my mind(?) seem to adapt at times too. If I fear demons, they masquerade as demons. If I read a book about how childhood experiences influence adulthood feelings, I'll get loads of back-flashes of my childhood (which was not even traumatic, really). If I read about parallel universes, I get the feeling I might be influences from other versions of ME, in alternate realities.... They might all be true, or they might all just be illusion (created by neg energies. I do not really care - i just get on with my healing work (however much I feel, or whatever....).

But it took some years to become pretty confident and zen about the whole thing!
I used to measure myself against others, believe I might be less capable, developed, or powerful, if I did not have abilities they have. Today I am confident that psychic abilities are no guarantee of good character or general spiritual effectiveness. I think doing regular spiritual work is like going to the gym. The energy gym. We do increase in strength and ability. But sometimes the brighter we get the more negative energy resistance we might trigger, or the more neg energies might be attracted to us (seeking us as a channel out). So it feels like we are not progressing, but actually we are channeling more and more energies (in and out!).

I did write a book about my spiritual experiences, and observations (loads on energies in there (good and bad)) - Tours and Cures of a Lightsoldier (Alexander King). It might find some parallels, and some more understandings and tools that have helped me, and could help you. If you are interested, but cash strapped at the mo, just give me an e-mail address, and I can send you a free pdf version...

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09/06/16 05:11:48AM
373 posts

Sending bad energy or shielding bad energy


Empath

hehe - you are right on trend there with a few thoughts I have been having. I did a loving kindness meditation the other day, and have since been trying to integrate that approach even more so in my life than I used to already. Not just people, but energies I encounter too.... BUT I do not do so because I think that I was a terrible person before. I deal with many energies every day - keeping a loving kindness frequency is still something that takes extra concentration, so if I do not have the time to concentrate on it, I do not beat myself up.....But if I do concentrate on it, especially during healing meditations - it makes them more pleasant! (So I am being purely selfish - lol)

So what do I do that might not be perfect. I do not wish anyone/ anything harm, especially long term. But identifying something as confused, I might get slightly annoyed there for a second :) Sometimes it makes me grumpy too. BUT I know that even that is not what I really am. It is just because I get those energies too to process, and again if I do not have the time to concentrate on loving kindness, I live them for a short while.

I do think though that those feelings are usually projected onto me. In a way we are ambassadors of the Divine, for at least being somewhat less confused than many others. As such it sometime feels like I feel what some expect the Divine to think or feel about them. They think they are not all good, either because they aren't, or due to some guilt (justified, or not), and expect the Divine to be upset with them (as they currently do not understand unconditional Love). And with hard core Narcs it can also be that they simply try to bring us down by creating guilt about reacting to them there for a short while....But there is no guilt to be had (in my opinion, for myself (but that is a stance I had to reassert many times over, before I was confident about it!)

Love and Light!

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09/06/16 03:42:56AM
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Sorry to hear all that, sounds like you are in a right pickle.

I'd say this right off - considering that you 'feel' the demons, you still 'feel'. It just seems that you currently feel more negative energies than positive energies!? So some of your thoughts, that you are all blocked up might be unfounded fears (likely put in your head by the negative energies)? Now obviously heaps of negative energies are not an easy cross to bear, and can he hugely uncomfortable, if not painful, so I understand that you want rid of them!

I used to have CFS for about 10 years, when I often felt disconnected and 'not heard', but looking back now, that seems to just have been heaps of negative energy too, and I am confident again now that all our prayers do get heard! Some of them just need a while do be processed through, during which time we have to be patient. (but I'll attach a prayer I have put together, which includes all the wisdom I have found so far, of stuff that we should ask for, to get maximum help and make our lives as effortless as possible! - http://www.alexander-king.com/meditatons-and-prayers/2015/11/9/the-perfect-prayer)

Mind you I do see my empath task as being a bit of a channel out for negative energies too (obviously only channeling out energies my body can handle - demons might be too large, and need other ways!), kind of being an energetic waste disposal man, and as long as there is plenty of negative energies about, not all days are going to be plain sailing and comfortable (but realizing my tasks makes them much more bearable. And simply smiling while I do so makes it even more so!).

It sounds like you are perhaps trying too much to just work by yourself, but are simply outnumbered! Again use the above prayer, or your own words, and ask for as much ultimate good Divine Help as necessary, possible, available and sensible, to clear you and your life of negative energies now and thereafter (as maintenance).

From the sound of it you want to do a few sessions of cord cutting with that friend of yours too....

I have to get ready for work now. Feel free to send me a friend rest to PM me , or ask further questions here!

Love and Light! And I have sent a army of angels (or whatever else good ans divine suitable for the task) your way too!


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 09/21/17 08:57:49AM
Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
09/05/16 05:24:35AM
373 posts

How do you know you've met a fellow empath or highly spiritual individual?


Empath

hmmm - not quite sure. Do not have any set and fast rules.

I guess I go with how I feel around a person. And with clients I add the strength/ intensity of healing energies flowing, how clear their e.g. chakras are, etc.. But I have also learned to add in how I feel before I meet a person, and how afterwards. Narcissists and Psychopath can feel wonderfully calms and eve lovely during a direct encounter, but then the energetic battles begin, once I am on my own again... And if there is the slightest doubt, I keep observing, rather than making my mind up about a person's character, and or state of energetic development. (and even if I come to a conclusion, I try my best to remain open to change my opinion (for better or worse). I sometimes get fears that I have turned into a bit of a cynic and overly skeptic, but then I remember that falling for a narc or psycho is potentially long term even more damaging. Plus if I am uncertain, or think someone is not all benevolent, I simply ask for more healing for them, and or our relationship....
And not to doubt that you are highly empathetic and gifted (it comes across through the posts/ comments I have read by you), but cynic little me even remains skeptic when someone pays me such compliments. Especially if people do so, that I have just met. Often enough it seems they are just trying to sweet talk my ego.... Cult recruiters will often sweet talk people in such a way, to get them to join up (again - no judgement on whoever told you though!).

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
09/04/16 04:06:33AM
373 posts

How do you ground yourself?


Empath

As Rene said - you can ask/ pray that stuff is taken off you, and or you can ground them off into healthy Divine Earth energies (to be dealt with there). You do not have to visualize, you just have to somehow make your wishes/intend be heard. Visualization is just one tool there. So you can just say something like 'Perfect Grounding on. Thank you. Amen' (at some point you will have told Divine Earth energies that perfect grounding for you means that they please help pull out negative and stale energies, and give you fresh energies up. ). You can ask for 24/7 grounding/ as long as you are at work/ sleeping/ 10min/ whatever you like. I leave it up to them, and if I need a refresh of the connection, I just quickly concentrate on my heels, or one could say something like 'Grounding refresh. Thank You. Amen'.

Some Christians have problems with grounding into Earth, perhaps afraid they'll end up in a hell? I used to fear that, but those fears are gone (after praying that unsubstantiated fears be taken off me). I obviously would not ask anyone to just take my word for that though. Back then I prayed for grounding alternatives (should there be evil in Earth, or I overburden her with my crap energies), through some holy planets somewhere, if need be :))

As for protection spells - you can ask/pray though that you are protected against undue negative energies. Some e.g. visualize (or simply ask for!) a divine healing and protecting bubble of Light around them. It is a bit like firemen wearing protective gear, they'll still feel the heat, but they are protected against some of it's potential damage... Such a bubble of Light would help cleanse your energies (one breathes in Light and exhales negative and stake energies (to be taken away by the Light)), and somewhat protects them. Some enforce the bubble skin with mirrors, plexi-glas, bullet proof fabric or whatever.... Or again you can just leave the mode of protection to your guides...

(and with all my visualizations I always allow the Divine to modify them as need be!)

Mind you sometimes I encounter situations where all the right tools do not seem to work still too. Nothing really feels like it is shifting. But in the end everything shifts if I keep my faith, some energetic obstacles simply seem quite complex and need time to be dismantled safely! In such situations I just try my best to get on with things, and ride them out....

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
09/03/16 09:53:38AM
373 posts

Empathy for Addicts


Empath

very happy to hear it. Especially with stronger connections- family spouses, exs, etc. it might take a few sessions to resolve completely, but every time we do a relationship healing (or other healing work) another chunk goes or another facet get's healed!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
09/03/16 06:36:24AM
373 posts

where do you buy your crystals?


Empath

various. Ideally I'd buy form a store/ stall, but in Central London there is not that many, and many of those are over-priced. Plus I am a sucker for online buying. I know many say that one should feel them, before buying, but I cannot say I ever had a problem with online bought crystals energetically. I did get two Vogel wands from China, that I doubt are quartz, but glass (but even they do channel energy).

Generally I'd say the likelyhood of getting a fake crystal depends on what you buy. Many crystals are actually not that expensive, so faking them might cost more than just selling a genuine one. As for more expensive, rare ones, there might be a higher risk, but here too, I bought a few 'high frequency' crystals, and they arrived with 'high frequency'. I do not use them too much though, as they are usually quite small. When using crystal to especially help me focus and strengthen my mediation, I like to hold more chunkier ones.

I find that often different people have different affinities (might be star sign related?). As a Taurus I love hematite, and clear quartz. As well as Preseli Bluestone (very pure white energy). Hematite is especially good at helping one to ground, and if one wants, to 'ground off' negative stuff - like fears, insecurity, unhappiness etc. What one should be left with is more the usually innate happiness, self-confidence, etc. that is what we are, as individualized divine Spirit!

Have fun!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
09/03/16 06:23:06AM
373 posts

Empathy for Addicts


Empath

I do not have any similar experiences, but generally - yes, I sometimes can feel other people's stuff at a distance. Even more so if I send distant healing.

As for techniques though - have you tried cutting (unhealthy) cords? You'd try to visualize cords connecting you to your ex, and where they are not all Light, bright and shiny, but may look grey or otherwise diseased (and as such having a higher likely-hood of conducting negative energy), you either cut them, or e.g. radiate them with healing light, inject them with some healing potion, or the like. If you want to cut and get into problems - Archangel Micheal is a good support there. Plus, if you do not already, you can obviously always pray for him, send blessings, channel healing energies for him, etc. For any negative feelings you now may have - guilt, sadness, etc - you can ask that they are taken off you, and or ground them off into the depth of Earth (for rehab and recycling).

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
09/01/16 07:27:25PM
373 posts

How do you ground yourself?


Empath

very similar to Rene, but I ask the healthy, divine energies (in Earth and otherwise) to connect to me. Earth energies through heel chakras, plus other through main chakras. plus I might check my Hara, and Kundalini.

If there is only one thing I can do, I'll focus on my heels, keep my healing and connection intend on them, and wait until I feel a stronger connection again.... I used to see two beam of Light coming up from deep in the Earth, but over time the connection seems to have gone wireless....

 
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