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Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
04/01/16 10:08:23AM
373 posts

Need help from an empath


Empath

Sorry to hear you are going through a difficult time!

I can somewhat relate. I used to feel very blocked, and kind of besides myself. It used to drive me crazy (well, almost). When I exercised my tummy would get freezing cold. And I kept on feeling like I was missing parts of my heart etc. I cannot tell you what it was exactly, but I manage to heal it (my best retrospective guess is that it was not really self-generated, but maybe London resisting me living here?). I did not just do one thing, but many. I mainly used meditation, self-healing work, prayer etc.

I usually go with what intuitions I get, check them if they could be viable, and then work on that. So if you think you might be missing soul parts, go with that for now. You can try healing it yourself first (if that fails you can still try to see e.g. a shaman, or spiritual healer). I.e. just go into meditation, call upon all your ultimate good divine healers and helpers - ask for perfect support for a soul parts retrieval or replacement - and then let them do their thing. They will either retrieve your soul parts or replace them (i.e. they will find and potentially free whatever parts are lost, stolen or else - but sometimes those parts might have to go through a cleansing, so they might give you replacement parts in the mean time (and then reunite you with your genuine parts at a later date (in sleep or meditation)). It might take more than one session, but hopefully you will feel something positive happening from the outset. But do not get discouraged if you do not feel anything initially. Spiritual work can be a bit like going to a gym, just doing it once will not give us a ripped body, it works best if done regularly

I'd ask as well that your helpers enlighten you as to why you might be missing soul bits (in case there is a lesson to learn there). And if the issue is something else, to help you with a more accurate intuition. (NB you can also just go into meditation, and ask for perfect healing, regardless of you being aware what is happening!)

Maybe look into Bach Flower remedies too, or other healing essences - they can be powerful, but are pretty safe to use upon self-diagnosis (ie if you pick one that is not ideal, nothing bad should happen).

I'd also do regular grounding exercises (see one possible one in this blog of mine - http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing

I hope that helps in some way. Hang in there - you can do this!

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/31/16 02:09:06PM
373 posts

Looking for a mentor or group


Empath

sorry, thought you were looking for information, tools, etc. to then work with?

But perhaps you want someone to talk to face to face initially? I think Elsie Lebeau, the creator of this forum offers a 1-to-1 services, Maybe contact her. Otherwise someone else might answer this thread, and offer.

Check the MeetUp website as well, some cities have empath groups!

All the best!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/31/16 12:38:34PM
373 posts

Looking for a mentor or group


Empath

I have put some self-help tools in a blog post - feel free to peruse - http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing

If you have any question after reading it, feel free to ask, here, or pm. In my experience it can be a tough journey, even with good tools, but with good tools it should become mostly bearable and one gets good days too again (even some great ones :))

Love and Light

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/31/16 06:00:47AM
373 posts

Living In Toxic Home


Empath

If you do have higher believes, or are open to the idea of praying - ask for help. Tell the Divine that you do not want to suffer, and would like to live in peace, in an environment where you can get rest, and can regenerate (work life etc. is often tough enough). Ask for perfect solutions! You can also ask for protections, regular energy cleansings, strength, and patience in the mean time....

I know may do to like to bother the Divine with their problems, and think they have to go it all alone - but in my experience they are always happy to help. And just because they are helping we can still do whatever we can do wherever we are.... So if you want to assist the process you can use visualizations for protections e.g. like cplove33 describes. I'd also look into grounding visualizations (if you need an example there is one o blog of mine (http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing), and cord cutting.

Once we set our intention on wanting to solve a negative situation, the wheels are starting to turn. Just be patient with yourself as well (as well as with the situation healing). It is easy for blaming oneself for relapsing into old patterns, but we do not know the strength of the energies behind them. Most of us are actually real heroes with the amount of negative energies we cope with. But you can also use affirmations such as - I forgive myself, I let behaviors ( or e.g. thoughts/ emotions/ believes) that do not serve my happiness go in love, and I thank Creation (or e.g. Spirit/ The Divine/ My Inner Light - whatever you are comfortable with) for perfect healing help. Amen

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/29/16 01:47:04PM
373 posts

Need help understanding how energy works


Empath

as for sending back - cannot tell you for sure. I think there is probably a few factors that come into the equation if it works or not. How close we are to a person (maybe even across lives?); how sensitive both parties are; how intensely one thinks about the other person; and sometimes it feels like there might be other forces coming into it - the good guys support, and occasionally there might be forces trying to block as well.... I know I have tried to influence people, e.g. you fancy someone, and try to get them to look over at you in a club (that one rarely works for me)- but on the other hand I think Sheldrake has done a study about the 'feeling of being stared at' - which supposedly gave statistically significant results? As for out of body experiences book - think it was this one http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/347918.Journeys_Out_of_the_Body but cannot swear on it :))

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/28/16 09:45:31AM
373 posts

My new crystal is giving me a headache.


Empath

just remembered - the one I sent back was tiny (but had looked much bigger in picture). Ie. it had crap energy and was grossly overcharged. :)

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/27/16 04:52:47AM
373 posts

My new crystal is giving me a headache.


Empath

I just pray for regular healings, cleansings, protections and recharges for my crystals seems to work too. Plus I try to feel their energy when I get a new one, so ascertain if it benevolent. Only had a problem twice though, one I sent back, the other is still in quarantine. Enjoy your crystal! Love and Light

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/26/16 01:20:47PM
373 posts

Need help understanding how energy works


Empath

Yeah, I guess as empaths we are likely even more capable of feeling when people think about us, and the closer they are the stronger the feeling might be. I often start thinking about a particular client, and then a few days late they call and book another session. So your friend might have been thinking off you intensely, or maybe sending distant healing/ good intentions to you (which could explain the feeling of being embraced...)

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/25/16 02:05:54PM
373 posts

Empath as a Filter


Empath

I understand it more as mainly energy (healing) resistances, energy attention seeking, or (negative) energies trying to use us as a channel out (they just want to go home, back into the Light) - feel free to peruse my blog about it.

http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing

Dementia is a sucker. Been sending regular distant healing to my dad for 6 years, initially 1pw, now 3-4*pw. He is not too bad yet, but it has not stopped the progress of it, or reversed it either.

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/25/16 07:53:22AM
373 posts

Need help with narcissist friend


Empath

like Arielle says - if she becomes a danger, or starts involving the kids - consider a restraining order (you might already, considering that she has threatened to involve the kids? - see what your gut tells you.) . I'd maybe also preempt, and talk to the kids calmly, saying that this woman is a bit confused at times, and might start saying mean things about you, or them, If she does they should just come to you and tell you - you'll deal with it....

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/25/16 05:34:05AM
373 posts

Need help understanding how energy works


Empath

cannot tell you for sure - not that psychic, sorry. Just popped in to my mind. Read some books about out-of-body experiences years ago, and it could explain what you are feeling. I like Arielle' s dream theory too... Maybe try meditating on it/ ask your Guides for answers. That might narrow it down.... Did you stop communicating out of generally just drifted apart reasons, or did you have to 'cut ties'?

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/25/16 05:28:17AM
373 posts

Need help with narcissist friend


Empath

just commenting (not having taken offense). I meant prayer on top of all the usual - i,e. reasonably controlling ones thoughts, emotions, reactions and actions usually is still necessary. In my experience narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths are often just puppets, there is a lot of negative energies/ beings behind them, and which are the actual driving force. I know a few narcissists, and sociopaths that really are not intelligent enough to do all that plotting, or controlling and guiding of the energetic havoc they cause - there must be something intelligent behind them. I.e. if such people come with negative energy back-up, it is only fair that we draft in positive energy back-up ;). (given obviously that one has higher believes and is open to ask for spiritual help. And in my experience most believers under-use the help that is available to us, rather than greedily overuse (if there is such a thing)). Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/25/16 05:16:28AM
373 posts

Need help with narcissist friend


Empath

forgot to say - it helps to remind oneself too that people like her are usually (on some level) jealous of people like us. We are (on average) the calm, strength, confidence, compassion, insightfulness, etc. that they which they had (ie have lost the connection to inside themselves)... When I think about narcissists that way, all that is left is pity. I am still not going to let them exploit me because of it, but it is a better position to be in than hate :)

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/24/16 07:49:21PM
373 posts

Need help understanding how energy works


Empath

is you friend spiritual - can he/ she go out-of-body? Maybe he/she came and visited you during an out-of-body session?

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/24/16 07:47:22PM
373 posts

Need help with narcissist friend


Empath

Have you prayed for help? If i have problems with someone I send hordes of angels their way (to them and whichever energies/ being they might be associated with), to either give them Love and Healing until they genuinely change (for the better), or disappear from my life. Make sure you cleanse your energies regularly (if you don't already), ground and regularly cut cords with/ to her. Hope that helps. It can be stressful to deal with a narcissist for sure, but just try to remember that in the long run the good energies always outnumber any negative ones, and we always win ;) Love and Light

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/22/16 02:15:37PM
373 posts



thanks - have asked my helpers to chip in :) Hope it'll make a palpable difference.


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 02/13/17 01:51:08AM
Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/21/16 08:27:47PM
373 posts

to feel or not to feel?


Empath

thanks for all the answers so far - much appreciated :)

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/21/16 08:25:26PM
373 posts

to feel or not to feel?


Empath

not sure if it is all over London - but the birds round where I live often sing like crazy during the middle of the night. 3:23am now, and they are just having a chirp off out there ;) (maybe it is all those Cinderella energies I try to create in and around the house - lol)

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/19/16 08:41:31PM
373 posts

to feel or not to feel?


Empath

thx Cbxjohn! No, was not talking about personal grief, just referring to another post. No grief here. Talking about day-to-day energy to be dealt with, mostly client related. And the last few months there seem to have been a few large scale energy shifts, with energies all over the place, and possible to large to be felt with me puny body anyway - lol

All the best :)

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/19/16 05:07:18AM
373 posts

to feel or not to feel?


Empath

thanks Arielle :)

Am still playing around with the whole thing (guess I have been for years). Seems that sometimes it depends on the amount, energy and time available too... Many hours of the day, when having to concentrate on 'outside' things, there is not much choice but to have cleansing and healing processes run in the background :) And feeling negative energies/ emotions just is not as exciting (and pleasant) as feeling positive energies/ emotions - a bit like having to rewatch a bad movie for the thousands time - lol

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/18/16 04:38:29PM
373 posts

Frustration with doctors


Empath

I'd definitely look into Vit D (echinacea, and VitC never did much for me - but there might be personal differences) -

Salt bath are good, just make sure you ask the salt+ water to help you cleanse your energy, communicating might intesigy the process (and ask Spirit for cleansing help too :))

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/18/16 08:37:02AM
373 posts

Frustration with doctors


Empath

tough one - if docs cannot measure something there is not much they can do. Not sure if even a erythrocyte sedimentation rate [abbr.: ESR] test would have shown anything yet three weeks back. Google it, and if it might have detected anything, maybe insist on one next time? It would be unethical of them to prescribe antibiotics, without clear signs of a bacterial infection...

I would not get too hung up about it. We can only learn. As such it could be because of stress in the office, so if you get something like it again, maybe it is a sign that you need to do more to cleanse out stress energies etc. at the end of your day - e.g. meditation, exercise, smudging, fresh juices (if you are not doing something already). And with that you can maybe turn the (stress energies) tide, before it overruns you?

Re infections - used to get sick all the time - before I started strong probiotics (e.g. Kefir, Kombucha), and especially high enough dosed Vit D3 - I seem to require about 5000-7000 IU pd, (even though my GP insists 1000 IU pd is a sufficient maintenance dose....)

Or if you think you are getting something bacterial again, try natural antibiotics, like Curcumin + BioPerine, or Clove Caspusles, or Oregano Oil....

Love and Light! and Happy Healing!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/16/16 12:10:09PM
373 posts

Needing Guidance


Empath

From my experience there is loads of different humans, on loads of different levels (levels of how close they are to their true individualized divine nature), and tons of different ways to be confused in some way. Sometime people who are similarly confused come together, or are drawn to a place/ organization etc.

I am not christened, but my upbringing is basically christian, and I sang in church choirs a lot (as a boy). I cannot say that I ever observed what you describe, in the churches I attended in Germany, but I would not be surprised if they are such in Germany too. And obviously I was young and pretty naive during my church years... Is there no other congregation you could join? You might find that another congregation is totally different, more accepting etc. Maybe interview the priest before you join another one etc?

Faith is a funny thing. I guess most faithful will feel 'oneness' to a certain degree, when attending e.g. a church. Oneness is a great feeling, especially on this planet, where 'separation' can be so harsh in normal life. Now if someone tells such people, that they are only allowed to feel more 'oneness' if they believe such, and such - gays are of the devil etc., some get so scared that they might lose oneness if they do not follow those rules, that they obey them unquestioningly.... Takes a lot of love, possibly assertiveness etc - to help such people change their understandings. And sometimes we just have to be an example to them - not live by their rules, live our truth, but still be happy, and (in the long run) apparently not forsaken by the Divine....

Love and Light!!! (this website might cheer you up - http://www.godhatesshrimp.com/)

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/16/16 11:25:14AM
373 posts

to feel or not to feel?


Empath

I'd be interested to hear other empaths' opinions and experiences re this.

I read this interesting, nice comment on another discussion yesterday, it was in the context of a potential grieving process, and she recommend to 'feel' energies, even if difficult - and then letting them go!

Now I am all for 'letting lower vibration energies go'! I do a lot of cleansing work. Living in a big city, and doing healing work - there is potentially a lot of energies passing through.... I do not think I am callous, but I have pretty much stopped looking closely at what passes through. It mostly is not mine anyway, and per my healer and personal code of conduct, I do not do readings - so why would I? I ask the Divine to take those energies off, and from me, as effortlessly as possible (for myself and the energies), and to make the process as painfree as possible (for myself, and the energies). I trust that they are taken in to spiritual rehab, and have the best angel, etc. nurses one could imagine - till they are their good, loving, divine selves again....

Still I played around with the idea of feeling stuff more again last night. It possibly feels as if, when feeling more into a e.g. fear or sadness etc., before cleansing it out, it might make the cleansing out process more effortless? (This might not be the case for all energies, sometimes I get's more psychopathic ones, and the only thing that really works, is getting a lot of help in, and being very assertive!). I wonder if such, more normal/ average fear, depression, stress etc. energies perhaps are more willing to leave when having been properly felt, at least once? Given at least one chance to possibly communicate, what they think they might have to teach us??? (which might obviously be quite irrelevant, if it is not ones own....) Or am I just going too soft again, lowering my defenses, and the next time I get a psycho energy, it can cause more havoc???

Perhaps the opposite argument would be - I often see myself (and possibly Lightworkers/ Empath in general) as kind of the friendly garbage disposal team, for confused/ negative energies off this planet. And the same way I do not expect the (real life) rubbish collectors, to look through my trash bags (nor do I want them to), analyze it, sort it etc. before taking it to the dump, or garbage furnace - we cannot be expected to look at every single negative energy passing through us....? (it can take energy and time after all!)

Sure, if one deals with emotions/energies that are more likely ones own - feeling them, and looking at them might be helpful, it might even help us understand something. But I am more talking about energies that come to us (for whatever reason) - and feeling them, looking at them... (which might only make sense, if in the long run, it might make cleansing process more effortless?)

Love and Light!


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 05/16/17 12:31:51AM
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@goodenergyhealing
03/15/16 08:19:10AM
373 posts

Finding Love as a Male Empath but definitely want responses from the Women here too


Empath

forgot to say - in London we e.g have a Meetup Group for empaths. It took me a while to find this, but 2016 has opened more doors for me, to meet and get together with other spiritually interested and aware peeps. If none exist where you are from - found one. Or alternatively you can look at yoga groups, meditation groups, tantric groups, spiritual dating sites etc. to find women, who are potentially more on the same frequency as yourself....

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/15/16 06:10:02AM
373 posts

Finding Love as a Male Empath but definitely want responses from the Women here too


Empath

picky, and 10 years single (well, except for three months with a narcissist last year). I do do occasional casual sex (maybe easier being gay?), but the frequency has gone down. Unless I am brimming with energy, and have much to share, I rather watch TV - lol.

Cannot say I am lonely, or desperate though (not implying you are). Luckily I have learned on the spiritual path, that I am individualized divine Spirit, and as such - whole. I did/ do my best to work on that, and it has the great side effect that I do not believe anymore, that I 'need' a second half in the outside to feel happy. I allow myself to be happy single too. Sure, if a twin flame crosses my path, another whole, interested in walking the path together for a while, I would not refuse - but it is not essential...

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/13/16 08:50:02PM
373 posts

Just found out my mums cancer is terminal


Empath

yes, look after yourself. As an empath you might be collecting emotional responses from your family too, so regular grounding and cleansing is always good. Well, you can send Reiki from a distance always even without express permission - just ask Spirit to guide the energies elsewhere, if they are not appropriate. Or deviate them to fight any possible energetic influence on her cancer in the outside....

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/12/16 08:50:36AM
373 posts

Just found out my mums cancer is terminal


Empath

Hi Gem - sorry to hear your news. Take a deep breath though - if you still have 2-3 years (or 3-5), that is a lot of time, to try to help her maybe overcome her cancer after all. Stranger things have happened. I am not trying to create hopes, to just come crushing down again at some point; but why not use any hope there might still be. Maybe this could actually be a real turbo for your motivation, for your spiritual work, and courses? You can send her healing energies, whenever you have the time, and energy. (N.B. I know the hard point is to send healing for a person's highest possible good (and we cannot be sure what that is?), if they are so close. But just pray and ask, that the energies are protected against any potential ego wishes of yours, which may contradict her highest purpose, and you'll be fine). And after all, the sent healing energies should save her suffering on other levels too - be more calm, be more at peace, possibly have less pain, and medication side-effects etc. It can also be an incentive to study foods, that could benefit her, crystals (just buy some jewelry she can wear, if she is not spiritual herself), etc.

My mum had cancer 10 years ago - she was not diagnoses as terminal, but it was a bad one none-the-less. I like to think that, besides two operations, and two conjoined chemos - me sending her regular distant healing helped too! Also my sister's step-mum had a very bad pancreatic cancer, but survived, perhaps because of sent distant healing too? She even now eats 'normal', without problems, even though, without a pancreas, and gall bladder, she should be on a special diet....

Supposedly there is 5 stages of grief (Elisabeth Kuebler-Ross), and anger is one of them - so it is normal!

And I would also just say a prayer, asking for help for you - to cope, be strong, be wise, etc. If noone else in your family is spiritual, you are the the luckiest yet. Obviously losing someone dear is painful, but you know too, that any loss is only temporary, as our souls are eternal....

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/09/16 05:02:37AM
373 posts

Someone is leeching my energy, I need help please


Empath

if you do the visualizations, then they happen, but it does not mean that one has to 'feel' the effects straight away. I used to not be able to e.g. 'feel' my chakras, but persisted, and now it is no problem. In some cases there might be outside blocks/ forces trying to stop the connections - so just ask for them to be removed, always. (and in the mean time, hug some trees, or lay on the ground, if those tools help you already to ground).

Using spiritual tools can be a bit like going to the gym, they have to used regularly, to start to look different, and feel different :) Try to be patient, and ask for patience.

Have you tried talking to your mum, about how you feel in her presence? Try to discuss with her, why you might feel that way, and ask her how she feels? Maybe there is other dynamics at work? Have you tried meditating on the situation yourself, to understand what is happening exactly, and if there might be a reason for it (not saying that there always has to be one). If it is possible to talk to her about these things, she is open to using spiritual tools, and she is so low on energy, she needs to leech yours, it is actually her, who would benefit most from using tools, that could help her regenerate her energies....

I generally ask for protections for myself, but also for protections for the outside, against any confused energies I might still generate, or which might come through me.

Last but not least - the supplement that helped me most in the past, helped me overcome chronic fatigue is fact - is Vit D. So if you , and or your mum, might be low on it - taking enough of it, might be a really easy fix!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/08/16 04:12:03PM
373 posts

I would love a reading.....


Empath

Hey Melissa - sorry, I do not do readings - but can say that this winter has been pretty tough. Then there was Jan Mercury retrograde, supposedly something about solar flares, possibly the solar eclipse this week? From the chatter on different empath forums and groups, there seems to have been a lot of bad psychic weather, and or energy shifts, causing healing crisis. I.e. whatever you might experience, especially if our emotions etc. are all over the place, it might not be personal (and I very much hope that with spring around the corner we'll get some respite again). Love and Light; and may your journey be as effortless as possible!

You can also post your reading request on the more specific group on here - http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/group/requestanempathreading

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/08/16 05:42:35AM
373 posts

Insomnia


Empath

make sure you 'cleanse' your energies regularly! Good grounding, i.e. a good connection to healthy Earth energies helps me! You can also visualize a healing, cleansing, and protecting bubble of (divine) Light around you and your aura (can help keep some negativities out, and help you be more in your space, and not drawn in as much by other people's dramas).

Now I am lucky, as I do not have any problems falling asleep, if i do not try to go to bed early, that is.....I do though often have annoying, strenuous, or bad dreams, which can make it uncomfortable to go back to sleep. And sometimes I wake up and are kept away by anxieties... What helps me with both is again - grounding. I have a strong affinity to hematite, so I have two nice large chunky ones, that I have in my bed, and will hold, with my left, while sending healing to myself with my right hand. Or I just use it to help me ground better. One can also use the time one is kept awake to send healing energies into whatever keeps one awake! It can have the effect of falling asleep quite quickly, as those energies do not want to be healed :)))

My sister visualizes angels around her bed, and that works for her.....

If things are really bad, I burn some incense. 'Nitiraj Original' is pretty much fool proof for me, but personal preferences differ. Or put a drop of e.g. lavender essential oil on your pillow (does not necessarily help me fall asleep, but calms!).

Youtube has plenty of 8hrs sleep tracks of mediation music, calming wave sounds, grey noise, hoover noise, Ohm chants, et al. - see which you have an affinity to....

All the best - Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/06/16 05:41:58PM
373 posts

Someone is leeching my energy, I need help please


Empath

'Ask and it is given' (- well if we ask for harmonious stuff it is given, so energy for wellbeing and healing is definitely included). I.e. if we ask to be connected to ultimate good divine energies, - they come to us, find us, connect to us. It is basically the same for grounding, as you pray to divine energies in Earth. But you can also visualize two pillars of Light, coming up from deep in the Earth, and connecting to your heels. Then ask them to pull out negative and stale energies, and give you fresh, healing energies up..... It might take a few times before you 'feel' it, but you will if you keep with it. For me grounding, when it is strong, it feels like my feet are being sucked to the floor (but that might different for others...)

Feel free to peruse my blog as well, it's got a few more tools in it - http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing

hehe, well, we have to be realistic as well. If fighting is the lesser of the two evils.....

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/06/16 02:01:49PM
373 posts



smudging is good, like Karen says!

do you ground? I.e. do you ask Earth energies to connect to you/ your heels, and then pull out negative and stale energies, and give you fresh energies up? I pretty much ask for 24/7 grounding, so stuff does not accumulate.

Or use the bubble of Light (with or without grounding). I.e. you ask for/ visualize a perfect divine healing bubble of Light around you and your body, and then allow your bodies to release negative and stale energies via the breath. The Light will take any energies coming out and take them into a cosmic energy rehab center....

I love doing both with my cardio, especially on the cross trainer. It helps me to keep breathing, and keeps me from falling asleep.

In addition ask for whatever additional support you might require, be that an army of angels in your house, and around it, etc. Basically you give the Divine card blanch as to teh amount, strength, extend, and frequency of help they provide.

If all that fails, yes, do go and see someone experienced with Spirit release work.

All the best! Let us know how you get one! Love and Light!

P.S. you do not have a narcissist in your life, or around you? My narcissist ex came with a lot of anger energies, and it was quiet hard for me to keep my cool, when fighting with him - which is untypical for me (both the anger, and the fighting).

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/05/16 04:00:55AM
373 posts

Someone is leeching my energy, I need help please


Empath

do you ground (i.e. connect consciously to healthy, divine Earth energies)? That should at least replenish energies which are lost.

I also ask to be connected through all my chakras, Hara, Kundalini and Soul Star to divine, healthy energies - to cleanse out negative energies, replenish any lost, heal etc.. 24/7 if need be (I leave that decision up to my helpers (they know I want to suffer as little as possible)).

You can also ask for your energies to be 'medicated' - i.e. anything that is being 'sucked off', will include some 'anti-sucking-off' energies in it, which might not help asap, but long term.

Furthermore you can pray for your mum to be 'hooked up' to more divine healing and replenishing energies (even better teach her how to do it herself), so that she does not need to take other people's....

Furthermore ask for protections, as best as possible, and regularly cut any unhealthy cords....

Verbally you can use a mantra/ prayer: 'I forgive myself, I forgive my mum, I let go in love, and ask for perfect relationship healings. Thank You. Amen!' (The I let go in Love is optional. More suited for a person you want out of your life, so likely not your mum)

All the best!

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@goodenergyhealing
02/19/16 02:16:22AM
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Energy Cleansing


Empath

yes, I feel you. There is A LOT of suffering on this planet. It took me a long time to find a solution to that problem, that would allow me to accept that the basis of Life is and can still be Love (regardless is we call that God, Creation, The Universe, Ultimate Good, or else). The only answer I could come up with, and that works for me is - self-choice. I.e. if our soul is eternal, at some point we might want to experience suffering, after all - after one has suffered, one potentially appreciates Love, Happiness etc the more.... As such, I believe, we pre-choose our lives (or a set of lives), suffering and all, before we incarnate. Life is a bit like an S&M relationship, just that most have forgotten that they have chosen it, and that they can use their safe words (i.e. prayer). And that one has to ask for ones suffering to be dissolved (not just 'They Will be done' - because being part of the Divine divine will/ our will is happening all long...)

Now I know some of the things that some of us choose to experience is quite horrendous. But the alternative is to believe that (at least some) eternal divine souls go astray at some point - which makes them less than perfect - and are apparently really slow in learning how to be 'good' again. And do not even get me started on how a system, where one would carry negative karma across lives, remember between lives, apparently not be allowed to forgive and absolve then, and then be born again, forgetting all the previous lives, but still be served 'the bill' - could be loving and divine, if there is no own conscious choice involved....

I did not come to my conclusions lightly, and not simply to stop feeling guilty about all the suffering I could not help! I do know that not all will follow my logic, some will be upset by it, and ultimately we won;t 'know' 100% sure, till after we have left our bodies....

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@goodenergyhealing
02/19/16 01:53:37AM
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Energy Cleansing


Empath

thanks Jolie, all good now - did not manage to put me off believing in Higher Powers :)

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@goodenergyhealing
02/17/16 09:07:27AM
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Energy Cleansing


Empath

used to have problems with the Cristian Heavens too. Exacerbated by the fact that I was member of a cult, led by a guru, who had, in regression therapy, been identified as Jesus (but turned out to b a psychopath in the end).

To me the image of one God is too limiting. I believe/ feel Creation is down to the creative effort of loads of divine beings. Obviously one can see GOD, as All-That-Is, but I prefer to just say the Divine, or Ultimate Good....

When trying to work with more christian forces in the past, I had a higher chance of being hit with guilt energies, or the like. Looking back, and adding all the other spiritual experiences I have had in my life, I interpret all this as this though: The Divine as such is ultimate good, perfect unconditional Love etc., regardless of what label we stick on it! But our thoughts have some creative power, and or can feed confused energies. As such I think that over the last 2 millennia confused beings/ energies have been created/ fed, which sit between us and the true Divine. Such beings can taint ones connection, and make it appear, as if there is conditions attached to connecting, e.g. having had to be baptized, or feeling guilty about non-heterosexual sexual preferences, etc. These feelings can feel very real, but have nothing to do with the true Divine! So there is nothing wrong with someone using christian doors to the Divine, but if one get's 'tainting' (which after consideration of unconditional Love, eternity etc., do not make any sense), one can pray for their removal, and to be protected against them in the mean time....

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@goodenergyhealing
02/12/16 11:44:58AM
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I would argue that everyone can be a healer, as in the end a healer connects to divine energy, and channels it for a healee's benefit. The energy then does all the real work. The only limiting factors would be that one does not believe it is possible, and therefore does not attempt to channel healing, or perhaps one needs to clear ones channels a bit first, so that the energy can flow abundantly enough.... And it takes a certain amount of self-confidence, as one connects to an invisible force, and works with an invisible force. One might feel something, but it can take a while to grow confident that it is not just a figment of ones imagination, wishful thinking etc. It is all no great problem if one does it for oneself, and or for family and friends - but I needed to do it for a while before I allowed myself to charge for it too (and be confident enough, I am not a charlatan...)

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02/12/16 11:37:04AM
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I am fully aware, as I live in the UK as well :) But still if police were to be called into an incident, where there is potentially arms involved - the responding force would definitely be wearing Kevlar, plus wearing arms. And even some regular bobbies will be wearing Kevlar, especially if e.g. patrolling in night life areas, where there might be drunken brawls, and potential knifes, broken glass etc....

So yes, some healings might not particularly require that one asks for protection specifically, but I have had clients too with very negative, and at times very aggressive energies. I do not ask for protection out of fear, as I trust that the Divine looks after me, but out of love - love for myself, and love for the energies that might try to harm me (if one can stop a crime before it is being committed, that surely is better than allowing the criminal to go through with it) ..... But sure, I am not trying to make anyone paranoid, just sharing my personal experiences.

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
02/08/16 11:39:25AM
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I am with Lavender&rose on that one. It is otherwise like telling a policeman, going into a potentially armed conflict to not wear their body armor. If they do get shot, it'll probably still hurt, but at least they won't die. I have encountered my fair share of psychopathic energies in my time, energies which do not give a hoot about if one fears them, or not, is full of love for them, or not. And even with protections such healings can be very uncomfortable.... That said, I do leave my protection up to Spirit, as I pray for as much protection as necessary, possible, available and sensible - so if the Divine thinks protection is not sensible, I won't have any. I never felt unprotected though, and I do not believe that the Divine is sadistic and gets kicks out of it's healers suffering needlessly.... - Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
02/06/16 07:35:27PM
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Have a look if there is professional Spiritual Healing or Reiki training facilities in your area. It is not essential to do a proper course, but I found it useful (plus it gives me the option to get professional indemnity insurance).

It is pretty much all about 'Mind the GAPP' Grounding; Attunement; Protection; Permission - and then getting out of the way and letting the energies do their thing.

Feel free to PM me if you have specific questions. Off to bed now, no energy to write more :)


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 02/22/17 09:28:28AM
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@goodenergyhealing
02/04/16 11:43:37AM
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Energetic healing from narcissistic abuse


Healers

yes, I have experienced such with different psychopaths or narcissists in the past. And some actually did go off, a bit like a bomb on a specific event trigger, when I did something, they did not want me to do. But nothing that could not be healed again! They can be quite nasty things though! Well done for having found them, it should save you some unexpected nasty surprises in the future!

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@goodenergyhealing
02/04/16 11:33:59AM
373 posts

Energetic healing from narcissistic abuse


Healers

Again, not to make you paranoid, but from my past experience with psychopaths and narcissists - only a fraction of their negativity actually sits inside of them. The rest is somewhere in the outside (feeding off the suffering created by the narcissist, psychopath; and backing-up the narcissist/ psychopath energies inside their narcissists/ psychopaths). The actual narcissist or psychopath is rarely clever enough to create all the energetic damage they do - as for much of it they would have to be very competent black magicians, which I doubt most are. What I mean is e.g. if a narcissist tries to offend a person, be hurtful - somehow their offenses (which one might brush off easily from another 'normal' person) are connected to/ charged with so much negative energy, it is virtually impossible to not be offended/ hurt..... As such it can be as well that even if one de-cords - those outside energies will help create new cords (i.e. it is not necessarily your fault, that you are masochistic, inviting it somehow, or else). That is another reason why it can be helpful to pray for the perfect healing of a problem - wherever it's source(s). I.e. in your case, healing narcissist energies inside your father, and or outside your father.... Once I learned about these energy structures, it helped me to become more patient! The nice thing is that once such problems are solved, you can be quite confident that you will have triggered the healing-off of tons of narcissist energies from this planet (and likely help others, connected to the same outside narcissist energies) to free themselves more effortlessly off their perpetrators. I guess that why they sometimes say that Lightworkers are like catalysts!

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@goodenergyhealing
02/04/16 10:05:36AM
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empath healing, grounding and protection tools


Empath

(Not a discussion per se, sorry -) I posted this blog on here last summer, but have now edited it somewhat, and added a few more self-help tools, that some might find interesting to work with.

Love and Light!

http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 01/25/17 10:13:16PM
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@goodenergyhealing
02/04/16 05:07:47AM
373 posts

Energetic healing from narcissistic abuse


Healers

That is interesting, that you say that. I had a narcissistic boyfriend last year, and it took me quite a lot of effort to de-cord, and get rid of all the damage. A good 6 weeks, for a 3 months relationship. One of the things I realized is, that I had been poisoned by his energies to put a limit on divine help. I kept on having these visions of 'limited' divine help, e.g. seeing large negative energy monsters, and small angels - how could they tame, heal or take it into rehab? I only had similar problems in the beginning of my spiritual journey, and then overcame them. Now I had to engage all my learning and mind again - remember that I do not know everything, cannot see everything yet - but I do know that there is enough help, and that ALL negative energies have their effortless, abundant good guys match, to remove them effortlessly. Makes me wonder if that is one of the roots of NPD? They have energies, and are influenced by energies - which tell them that there is not enough for everyone? including divine help?

Regarding de-cording - you might be interested to hear what I found there. I checked and found cords on all chakra levels, not just the solar plexus. Front and back. Sometimes I see side chakras, to the main chakras - and there were cords too. Furthermore where a cord enters our bodies, it can over time grow 'roots', so if we de-cord, those roots have to be healed, so they do not keep festering....

My ex had also given me energetic 'gifts'. At one time when we meditated together, I saw that he actually attempted to give me his soul star, which I returned with thanks though. But there were a few energy bits I found after breaking up, which I then sent back (especially as they were another portal for his thoughts, and energies to connect). (Goes in line with NPD behavior of thinking that whatever they give us, is a major self-less sacrifice, and if we are not their slaves thereafter for eternity, we are evil ungrateful monsters - lol)

Yes, you got it now - you do not have to know. You do not have know everything that happens during a healing, and there is enough help for you too, to achieve perfect healings! You mentioned in your original post that you were desperately seeking therapy. I would just put out there - that every time we receive or give ourselves Reiki - stuff gets healed! Conventional therapy, to my feeling, is comparatively slow. One pretty much looks at one hurtful event at a time, which can take a long time, In contrast with a healing session we expunge hurt from multiple events (and we do not even have to look at them again :)) The main bit we have to remember is (unconditional) forgiveness, to let go and trust in the Light. I believe Spirit is practical - we only have to learn that lesson ones - and then send it into all other remaining past hurt events, without having to spend loads of time viewing them one at a time....

Hope your healing journey is downhill from now :)

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@goodenergyhealing
02/03/16 07:31:52PM
373 posts

Energetic healing from narcissistic abuse


Healers

I used to be in a cult. The guru was , through regression, identified as supposedly having been Jesus, Buddha, and a bunch of other famous prophets, philosophers etc., but in the end turned out to be a psychologically, mentally, and spiritually manipulating psychopath.

As I developed CFS shortly after leaving the cult, I feared for years that he was attacking me, and somehow causing my maladies. I did a lot of healing work too, forgiveness, cutting cords, etc, etc. Whenever I saw healers, they usually confirmed my suspicion - even years after I left the cult. One day I realized though that I was giving him far too much power! I had moved country, I had scores of angels helping me - even if he had the life force of his hundred followers at his disposal to attack me, how could scores of angels not protect me sufficiently? (There is even the English Channel between him and me now, so a decent body of, isolating, protecting salt water buffer!). I decided that is neither that smart, nor capable (nor would have the time!)to reach me, and disaffect me that badly. I let it go, and found other more reasonable sources of my unwellness! I kinda swam in not really knowing what was going on for a while longer, but then life started to make a lot more sense

I know my story is slightly different, but believe me, when I did fear that the attacks were coming from him, it felt very real!! What I am trying to say is - do not close the door to considering that what you feel is not coming from the inside, but from the outside! I am not trying to make you feel paranoid, but I my experience, if I e.g. get particular strong, and viscous healing resistance from a client - those energies will try to convince me of just about any other source, but my client. They'll tell me it is because of my diet, a phone call I had earlier, what I saw on TV last night, what I just read on a spiritual blog, a past life etc. It all feels possible, and somehow logic, but falls apart upon closer inspection, applying logic, my past experiences etc. Yes, some traumas cut deep, but it sounds like you have earnestly tried to cleanse out all hurt etc energies, practice forgiveness etc. Our bodies are not that big, to harbor endless amounts of trauma energies (unless we keep topping them up, by believing they are endless)...

I cannot tell you for certain obviously, if your personal healing process (re your father) is finished, but I would recommend to not 'insist' on knowing where your pain comes from. Accordingly pray, and ask for perfect healing of the source, or sources of any pain you get - wherever, whenever, whatever. Leave it up to your helpers to find, see, and heal the source/ sources. Whenever it is possible for them to let you know about some source, I am sure they'll fill you in (sometimes it might takes a while though for them to get that info through to you. Just be patient, and get on with your life,a s best as possible.) And just make sure that, if you have not already - you give the Divine card blanch re the amount, strength, extend, and frequency of help that is necessary, to make your life fulfilled, happy, and effortless.

Hope that helps in some way! Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
02/03/16 07:39:52AM
373 posts

I MUST get something off my chest


Empath

well said. It ain't easy to 'feel' love for the great and bad perpetrators on this planet; murderers, dictators, psychopaths, narcissists, etc. - but we should never forget that they are individualized divine beings as well. Nothing is outside of creation, and at some point we will truly be ONE with them again too. Practically speaking it might take hours of meditation to feel a connection and love for a great villain, and I am usually busy rather sending distant healing to beings which are closer to my hear, but saying a prayer for them , sending a blessing is quick and easy, and I at least check that there is no feelings of hate, or desires of vengeance against such inside me! Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
02/02/16 03:46:41AM
373 posts

I MUST get something off my chest


Empath

I am very careful with sharing what I have intuned. Especially if I do not know people well. Maybe it would be different if I advertised as a psychic, but since I only offer massage and healing (and with the healing bit, my Association's Code of Conduct actually does not allow us to say anything anyway) I rarely do. But there is other factors I consider too, a.) I would never call myself a reliable psychic. Intuition, can be warped. Sometimes energies can lie.b.) sometimes I get hit by my client's energies hours before or after a treatment, so if I do not see a client a few times I cannot tell for sure, if I might just get overlap feelings from another client. c.) most clients have stress, guilt etc. - In our society, day and age (well, at least in Westerm societies), it is 'normal'.

So I console myself to know that the healing channeled will bear fruit. Then I have written my book, and have it on display. Also I might occasionally, if it feels 'ok', ask if clients maybe meditate, give some grounding advice, and tell them that it can help with detoxing stress energies etc.. Or mention vit D3, as a good tonic for energy, mood, and immunity.... And occasionally clients will ask me questions, which will allow me to talk more about energies. But then too, I will usually just give them tools (grounding etc.) to handle their energies, an not tell them that they are negative. All that with an exceptions make the rule proviso :))

P.S. Thanks for the compliment :)

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@goodenergyhealing
02/01/16 03:21:47PM
373 posts

I MUST get something off my chest


Empath

hehe - I saw the video, and I said I disagree with the video. But maybe I did not express myself clear enough. And maybe you did not see enough of the video? Of course we should try to love ALL. We should love every single being unconditionally. I definitely do not think I am worth more than any other being! Not more than a grain of sand, but no less than a sun either (o.k - the sun is likely loads of beings, so let's say no less than a sun being)

What bothered me about the video is that the girl did not just promote unconditional love, she basically accused all empath that they do not love unconditionally enough. I.e. supposedly we only get negative emotions from others when we do not love them unconditionally, but rather still 'judge' them negatively on some level. Now I have had loads of such intuitions in the past, and I am confident that they did not come from (good) Spirit, but from negative energies trying to bring me down with fabricated, unjustified guilt. I used to be a sucker for guilt, used to put on every guilt shoe I could find, was in a guilt based cult etc. But I came out the other end - and I got a very sensitive guilt-manipulator-sensor for it now. Do not get me wrong, it is always good to check ones own heart first, when we are in a conflict of any kind, overtly, or even just emotionally about someone - are we unjustly, wrongly judging, conceited, envious, jealous? But if one wholeheartedly seeks to improve oneself - one learns where one has wrongly viewed things in ones life. One might make the same mistake again, a few more times - but at some point we are so aware, we do not make the same mistake again... Everyone has to decide for oneself how advanced one is, but often we are our most stern judges anyway...

I work with massage and healing clients. Sometimes I get a client - and I do not feel love for them. There is energies blocking me 'feeling' the love. But I do have my mind still. I know any block is an illusion, and I do my best to dissolve any block. And many times, about 30-45min into a massage, 'judgement' falls away, and they are just a person. I might not want to marry them, or be best friends with them, but there is no negative feelings either. I have learned though, that on this planet that can be a miracle already. Many people really do not like themselves, they are full of self-judgement - and they project that out. They create their blockages. They think they are not lovable, and they project that out.. And (some) empaths can feel it!

I used to beat myself up for not 'feeling' the love, but I do not anymore. It is not my fault!!! And it surely is not why I might e.g. feel the depression behind their blockages, which can disaffect me (feeling depressed energies usually is no joyous occasion). I know though that I prove my love for them by continuing with my work, Channeling healing for many people can be uncomfortable, but I do not stop. Trying to understand the mechanisms of their energies, of blockages etc. to best handle and dissolve them, is an act of love too. etc. etc. .

There is also the dynamic of - as long as people have a conscience at all (i.e. are not psychopathic), with every questionable, disharmonious thing they do, they create guilt in their being. Some have enormous amounts of guilt. That guilt does not make them love themselves anymore though. I have had clients where I put my hands on and literally became nauseous, and had to really force myself not to wretch. To just somewhat dislike them by the end of a two hour session is no small feat. Sometimes a healing for such a person is so traumatic, I really just want to block them in my phone, but as long as I do not feel physically threatened, I do not do that. I tell myself that after all, even if they actually mainly came for a massage, they still chose a masseur, who is a healer too - so some part of them is seeking help. If you want a physical analogy, and sorry for being so drastic, I remember a case in my nursing days, where a homeless man was delivered into A&E. This man had not washed in months. The smell was very, very bad. His skin was stained brown by dirt. Still he got undressed, washed, and treated! To tell a nurse though - 'Oh, if you have any feelings of disgust, or his smell bothers you, it is because you do not love unconditionally enough' - is offensive, I am sorry. :))

Or in other words, I believe, it is no sin for us empath to feel negative feelings for some people, the sin would be to act or think negatively because of those feelings!

So that is why videos like hers make me angry (and then I remember to send her love anyway). She might not mean bad, she might just be confused - but her message does (to my strong feeling) not empower Lightworkers, it diminished them (if taken on). If your vision of Lightworkers uniting and achieving ever greater things is to materialize, it is much easier if we learn to see through false teachings. If we weed out teaching that make us feel incapable, or take on guilt for things that we have no play in....

Love and Light!

 
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