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@goodenergyhealing
04/07/16 07:35:15PM
388 posts

What do you think triggered your empathic abilities?


Empath

yeah - superhero (energetic) garbage disposal teams - lol

Yeah, it can appear very dark, and one can feel very outnumbered down here, but one can remember that below and above this darkness is copious, if not endless amounts of Light(beings) willing to chip in and help (and take the rubbish off our hands and into rehabilitation). Sometimes it takes them a while to dig through the muck to get to us, but we are tough and can wait for them. :)

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@goodenergyhealing
04/07/16 07:23:43PM
388 posts

No aura and leeching?


Empath

sorry Lao you are experiencing that.In my experience negative energies/ beings come in many shapes, varieties and strength. Have not experienced anything like you describe, but that does not mean anything. I did fear that my guru from a cult I was in years ago hounded me for years after me leaving, but am not so sure anymore if it is true? Nowadays I think he might have for a while (I did piss him off quite a bit by questioning his authority in front of the group, and then leaving), but most of what I experienced were likely other negative energies mimicking psychic attacks from my guru, because they knew it would disconcert me.

What I did learn is that I do not always need to know exactly what is going on, My divine healers and helpers help regardless of me knowing, or not knowing. Well, one just has to ask for perfect help, and tell them one does not want to suffer - and they do everything in their power (which in the long run is always greater than anything any negative energy or beings can come up with).

From the sounds of it, you are dealing with something quite tricky - whether that is that person or some other energy disconcerting you. I personally would not try to tackle anything like that without my healers and helpers anyway, so I would ask for their help and for them to sort it out! You can offer your body as a channel for healing energies to come in, do do something. But as for learning any necessary potential lessons, that is always possible in retrospect too...

As for potential energy loss, are you grounding? At least that way if anything manages to drain you, it is a way to replenish what is lost relatively quickly....

Hope that helps in some way. Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/07/16 01:36:47PM
388 posts

Super Hot Feet and Hands - Help?


Empath

whereas cannot guarantee that it is nothing untoward - in my experience attacks are if anything usually coming in with strong fear energies attached, so it is much more likely that feet and hands are cold, not hot :)))

If you don't already - make sure you ground deep! You need kind of a lightning rod at times, when plenty of healing energies are coming in/ through - as a way to get rid of potential access energies, and or negative energies removed. Different healers have different methods, I prefer to ask ultimate good Earth energies to come up and connect to me (my heels)....

All the best!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/07/16 01:06:29PM
388 posts

Super Hot Feet and Hands - Help?


Empath

my hands can get quite hot when channeling healing. I rarely feel it myself these days, but sometimes clients mention it. I also get a lot of activity in my feet, and I interpret that as grounding related.

My healing teacher back in the day told us her hands got very hot when her healing ability awoke, and I saw a program about a chi gong healer in LA once, whose hands supposedly get so hot, he has to put aluminum foil on top of his clients, as to not burn them.... (but he has not damage to his hands!). Also read about a healer once who does most of his healing with his feet (like other healers with their hands), so perhaps your hands and feet are awakening?!?! Just make sure you ask your healers/ helpers that your spiritual developments, energy upgrades etc. are always as effortless as possible please (if you have not already).

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/07/16 07:55:43AM
388 posts

Does anyone else get very agitated, upset with the change of season


Empath

scientifically I think it is many people being VIT D3 deficient, which is worst end of winter. beginning spring (before the lack has been filled up again)?!?! Make sure you take VIT D, and enough, if you don;t already :)

I do prefer spring, summer and autumn. With winter and everybody's energies being down/ lower it can be a real drag on my energies. I.e. I think I empathically get people's low energies.

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@goodenergyhealing
04/07/16 07:50:08AM
388 posts

Does anyone feel their empathic sensitivity is getting stronger with age


Empath

forgot to say - due to confused energies coming to us, I believe empaths especially need to do regular energy cleansings! Plus grounding is beneficial. (Well, I sometimes do cleansing meditations, but mostly I just have a standing plead/ prayer for regular healings, cleansings, protections, and recharges - for myself, my bodies and my life!)

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@goodenergyhealing
04/07/16 07:19:00AM
388 posts

Does anyone feel their empathic sensitivity is getting stronger with age


Empath

Sorry to hear that. I used to suffer from CFS, but it is mostly under control now. Unless there seems to be some major cosmic event, like a solar eclipse, or Mercury retrograde I function well enough. Well, I am not sure if I could manage a 9-5 office job again, but doing massage& healing and only seeing 2-3 clients a day if ok (and pays the bills and than some).

What helped me most physically was discovering that I seem to require a decent dose of VitD3 daily (about 5000-7000IU per day), and back then regular strong probiotics.

What helped me most spiritually was embracing that I am an empath and accepting that negative emotions/ thoughts I get are mostly not self-generated anymore. Since I believe that I have a right to a suffering free life I therefore ask for ultimate good healing for every single energy that disaffects me, or attempts to disaffect me (directly or indirectly, consciously, or subconsciously, maliciously or more accidentally). I think the main thing is to no limit that help. I.e. some e.g. believe that they have one or two guardian angels and that is it. But some energies disaffecting me clearly seem to be more large scale, i.e. energies created by collective subconscious feeling/ thinking of groups of people (some groups quite large). So to stop some energies from disaffecting me, or remove them/ take them into healing it might require armies of angels/ archangels....., or even gods or goddesses. I trust though that they are there, and willing to help - and on average I get more and more energy, happiness, friends etc. But mind you that is the average - as mentioned above, there still can be dips into rather uncomfortable territory, but at least it does not last for months/ years anymore, but mostly just hours, sometimes days....

Hope that maybe helps in some way?

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/07/16 07:02:55AM
388 posts

What do you think triggered your empathic abilities?


Empath

Would say I have always been relatively sensitive, but that might just be the gay gene? My childhood was not traumatic, and up to the age of about 25yo I was free to travel, be sociable and go places, without potentially being majorly disaffected by negative energies.... (I was quite a slave to my emotions though (well, I think they were mostly mine))

The only thing that makes sense to me and which I think 'triggered' (or better uncovered) my empath abilities then was waking up spiritually, and doing a lot of mediation, prayer etc. I did my best to uncover the true, light, individualized divine Spirit I AM. Which affirms my theory that a lot of empath experiences is about being lighter than the average and confused energies coming to us like moths to a flame. Well that or they come to attack us, so we leave/ don't go somewhere, to prevent our Light being infectious or illuminating some confusion/ darkness....

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/05/16 03:55:20PM
388 posts

ace guided meditation


Empath

https://archive.org/details/VisitTheAngelsGuidedMeditation

This is a free guided meditation I can only recommend (and I am super picky about any spiritual tools/ resources).

Somehow it almost always manages to get me in the healing zone, even if there is a lot of mind distraction.

I do not follow it word by word - I just let the angels come, pick me up,, take me up - and them go into healing mode, i.e. open up to receive and channel healings (you can obviously do your trip for others too!).

Just had a great one again - felt like they went into every cell of my body to cut cords on cellular levels.

Love and Light!


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 02/13/17 06:53:25PM
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@goodenergyhealing
04/05/16 03:49:56PM
388 posts

Does the word "No" sound like the word "Maybe" when spoken by an Empath


Empath

have you tried 'revenge healings'? :))) If people put me in a position such as the above, and somehow there is no way to say NO, without being an utter ass - I pray for tons of healing for them! Whatever necessary so that a similar situation will not arise again. And somehow it seems to work (at least in the long run!).

In a way I consider anything that disaffects me as a cry for healing help....

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/03/16 08:56:47AM
388 posts



I agree - as it says - 'Do not resist evil!'. But I disagree that one cannot shield too. In a way I see myself a bit like the rubbish removal, or sewage cleaner for confused and negative emotions/ energies, etc.. Now that can be unpleasant enough as it is, so why not shield at least some off it off? (there is still plenty coming through) - otherwise it like telling a sewer cleaner to go without his/her protective clothing, and ask them to have a bath in sewage whilst working - lol. I pray for perfect healings, cleansings, protections, and energy recharges (always) - as much as necessary, possible, available and sensible! Whatever else then still manages to come through - so be it. I do not think it is because the Divine wants us to suffer, but it is still unavoidable, and in the long term to our, and the planet's benefit - so there is no use in complaining

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@goodenergyhealing
04/03/16 03:20:27AM
388 posts

to feel or not to feel?


Empath

I ask Earth energies to me, and I trust that they are big and strong enough to overcome whatever a human might encounter. It does not mean that I always 'feel' it, but I am confident it is there, and if something does manage to come in between, Earth energies will remove it, and then heal it - so through the disconnection healing occurs :). The disconnect feeling can still be uncomfortable, but at least I can wear my healer martyr hat ;)

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@goodenergyhealing
04/02/16 07:21:20AM
388 posts

to feel or not to feel?


Empath

thanks Julia.

Nature is pretty far away, but Hyde Park is near (and it seems that the trees have switched on now to help us humans channel Light in, and crap energy out. Well, my intuition at least). Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/01/16 12:01:38PM
388 posts

Need help from an empath


Empath

yeah, a bubble of Light is good! How are yo getting on with it? There is no set rule. Maybe try for 20min, and be happy if you manage 10min. You can just ask the Light to stick around as long as necessary, possible, available and sensible, for ideal healing results. It will do so then. It'll stay around even if you do not focus on it. A bit like turning on the shower, ones the water is running, you do not have to think about the tap, or the water anymore - the water runs anyway.

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@goodenergyhealing
04/01/16 10:18:16AM
388 posts



interesting story, even though potentially not very fun for you!

I have done things like muscle testing or dowsing in the past and gotten clearly wrong answers, but I would still go with it, if it makes sense to you on some level. It does not cost anything to initially just try yourself to heal it (if it is real). Just go into meditation, call upon your ultimate good divine healers and helpers, and ask them to free you from John, cut any potential cords, and fix any potentially energetic damage he might have wrought. It might take more than one session, and if by the third one he is still there, maybe consider getting outside help... (like Visitor suggested). If there is any potential lessons to be learned ask your helpers to enlighten you. Depending on what kind of spirit John is, getting answers from him, why he is there - could be confused, or misleading - so take potential answers you get form him with a pinch of salt. After all, unless you specifically invited Spirit to come and live with you, he is there uninvited.

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
04/01/16 10:08:23AM
388 posts

Need help from an empath


Empath

Sorry to hear you are going through a difficult time!

I can somewhat relate. I used to feel very blocked, and kind of besides myself. It used to drive me crazy (well, almost). When I exercised my tummy would get freezing cold. And I kept on feeling like I was missing parts of my heart etc. I cannot tell you what it was exactly, but I manage to heal it (my best retrospective guess is that it was not really self-generated, but maybe London resisting me living here?). I did not just do one thing, but many. I mainly used meditation, self-healing work, prayer etc.

I usually go with what intuitions I get, check them if they could be viable, and then work on that. So if you think you might be missing soul parts, go with that for now. You can try healing it yourself first (if that fails you can still try to see e.g. a shaman, or spiritual healer). I.e. just go into meditation, call upon all your ultimate good divine healers and helpers - ask for perfect support for a soul parts retrieval or replacement - and then let them do their thing. They will either retrieve your soul parts or replace them (i.e. they will find and potentially free whatever parts are lost, stolen or else - but sometimes those parts might have to go through a cleansing, so they might give you replacement parts in the mean time (and then reunite you with your genuine parts at a later date (in sleep or meditation)). It might take more than one session, but hopefully you will feel something positive happening from the outset. But do not get discouraged if you do not feel anything initially. Spiritual work can be a bit like going to a gym, just doing it once will not give us a ripped body, it works best if done regularly

I'd ask as well that your helpers enlighten you as to why you might be missing soul bits (in case there is a lesson to learn there). And if the issue is something else, to help you with a more accurate intuition. (NB you can also just go into meditation, and ask for perfect healing, regardless of you being aware what is happening!)

Maybe look into Bach Flower remedies too, or other healing essences - they can be powerful, but are pretty safe to use upon self-diagnosis (ie if you pick one that is not ideal, nothing bad should happen).

I'd also do regular grounding exercises (see one possible one in this blog of mine - http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing

I hope that helps in some way. Hang in there - you can do this!

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/31/16 02:09:06PM
388 posts

Looking for a mentor or group


Empath

sorry, thought you were looking for information, tools, etc. to then work with?

But perhaps you want someone to talk to face to face initially? I think Elsie Lebeau, the creator of this forum offers a 1-to-1 services, Maybe contact her. Otherwise someone else might answer this thread, and offer.

Check the MeetUp website as well, some cities have empath groups!

All the best!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/31/16 12:38:34PM
388 posts

Looking for a mentor or group


Empath

I have put some self-help tools in a blog post - feel free to peruse - http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing

If you have any question after reading it, feel free to ask, here, or pm. In my experience it can be a tough journey, even with good tools, but with good tools it should become mostly bearable and one gets good days too again (even some great ones :))

Love and Light

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@goodenergyhealing
03/31/16 06:00:47AM
388 posts

Living In Toxic Home


Empath

If you do have higher believes, or are open to the idea of praying - ask for help. Tell the Divine that you do not want to suffer, and would like to live in peace, in an environment where you can get rest, and can regenerate (work life etc. is often tough enough). Ask for perfect solutions! You can also ask for protections, regular energy cleansings, strength, and patience in the mean time....

I know may do to like to bother the Divine with their problems, and think they have to go it all alone - but in my experience they are always happy to help. And just because they are helping we can still do whatever we can do wherever we are.... So if you want to assist the process you can use visualizations for protections e.g. like cplove33 describes. I'd also look into grounding visualizations (if you need an example there is one o blog of mine (http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing), and cord cutting.

Once we set our intention on wanting to solve a negative situation, the wheels are starting to turn. Just be patient with yourself as well (as well as with the situation healing). It is easy for blaming oneself for relapsing into old patterns, but we do not know the strength of the energies behind them. Most of us are actually real heroes with the amount of negative energies we cope with. But you can also use affirmations such as - I forgive myself, I let behaviors ( or e.g. thoughts/ emotions/ believes) that do not serve my happiness go in love, and I thank Creation (or e.g. Spirit/ The Divine/ My Inner Light - whatever you are comfortable with) for perfect healing help. Amen

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
03/29/16 01:47:04PM
388 posts

Need help understanding how energy works


Empath

as for sending back - cannot tell you for sure. I think there is probably a few factors that come into the equation if it works or not. How close we are to a person (maybe even across lives?); how sensitive both parties are; how intensely one thinks about the other person; and sometimes it feels like there might be other forces coming into it - the good guys support, and occasionally there might be forces trying to block as well.... I know I have tried to influence people, e.g. you fancy someone, and try to get them to look over at you in a club (that one rarely works for me)- but on the other hand I think Sheldrake has done a study about the 'feeling of being stared at' - which supposedly gave statistically significant results? As for out of body experiences book - think it was this one http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/347918.Journeys_Out_of_the_Body but cannot swear on it :))

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@goodenergyhealing
03/28/16 09:45:31AM
388 posts

My new crystal is giving me a headache.


Empath

just remembered - the one I sent back was tiny (but had looked much bigger in picture). Ie. it had crap energy and was grossly overcharged. :)

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@goodenergyhealing
03/27/16 04:52:47AM
388 posts

My new crystal is giving me a headache.


Empath

I just pray for regular healings, cleansings, protections and recharges for my crystals seems to work too. Plus I try to feel their energy when I get a new one, so ascertain if it benevolent. Only had a problem twice though, one I sent back, the other is still in quarantine. Enjoy your crystal! Love and Light

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@goodenergyhealing
03/26/16 01:20:47PM
388 posts

Need help understanding how energy works


Empath

Yeah, I guess as empaths we are likely even more capable of feeling when people think about us, and the closer they are the stronger the feeling might be. I often start thinking about a particular client, and then a few days late they call and book another session. So your friend might have been thinking off you intensely, or maybe sending distant healing/ good intentions to you (which could explain the feeling of being embraced...)

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@goodenergyhealing
03/25/16 02:05:54PM
388 posts

Empath as a Filter


Empath

I understand it more as mainly energy (healing) resistances, energy attention seeking, or (negative) energies trying to use us as a channel out (they just want to go home, back into the Light) - feel free to peruse my blog about it.

http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing

Dementia is a sucker. Been sending regular distant healing to my dad for 6 years, initially 1pw, now 3-4*pw. He is not too bad yet, but it has not stopped the progress of it, or reversed it either.

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/25/16 07:53:22AM
388 posts

Need help with narcissist friend


Empath

like Arielle says - if she becomes a danger, or starts involving the kids - consider a restraining order (you might already, considering that she has threatened to involve the kids? - see what your gut tells you.) . I'd maybe also preempt, and talk to the kids calmly, saying that this woman is a bit confused at times, and might start saying mean things about you, or them, If she does they should just come to you and tell you - you'll deal with it....

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@goodenergyhealing
03/25/16 05:34:05AM
388 posts

Need help understanding how energy works


Empath

cannot tell you for sure - not that psychic, sorry. Just popped in to my mind. Read some books about out-of-body experiences years ago, and it could explain what you are feeling. I like Arielle' s dream theory too... Maybe try meditating on it/ ask your Guides for answers. That might narrow it down.... Did you stop communicating out of generally just drifted apart reasons, or did you have to 'cut ties'?

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/25/16 05:28:17AM
388 posts

Need help with narcissist friend


Empath

just commenting (not having taken offense). I meant prayer on top of all the usual - i,e. reasonably controlling ones thoughts, emotions, reactions and actions usually is still necessary. In my experience narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths are often just puppets, there is a lot of negative energies/ beings behind them, and which are the actual driving force. I know a few narcissists, and sociopaths that really are not intelligent enough to do all that plotting, or controlling and guiding of the energetic havoc they cause - there must be something intelligent behind them. I.e. if such people come with negative energy back-up, it is only fair that we draft in positive energy back-up ;). (given obviously that one has higher believes and is open to ask for spiritual help. And in my experience most believers under-use the help that is available to us, rather than greedily overuse (if there is such a thing)). Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
03/25/16 05:16:28AM
388 posts

Need help with narcissist friend


Empath

forgot to say - it helps to remind oneself too that people like her are usually (on some level) jealous of people like us. We are (on average) the calm, strength, confidence, compassion, insightfulness, etc. that they which they had (ie have lost the connection to inside themselves)... When I think about narcissists that way, all that is left is pity. I am still not going to let them exploit me because of it, but it is a better position to be in than hate :)

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@goodenergyhealing
03/24/16 07:49:21PM
388 posts

Need help understanding how energy works


Empath

is you friend spiritual - can he/ she go out-of-body? Maybe he/she came and visited you during an out-of-body session?

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@goodenergyhealing
03/24/16 07:47:22PM
388 posts

Need help with narcissist friend


Empath

Have you prayed for help? If i have problems with someone I send hordes of angels their way (to them and whichever energies/ being they might be associated with), to either give them Love and Healing until they genuinely change (for the better), or disappear from my life. Make sure you cleanse your energies regularly (if you don't already), ground and regularly cut cords with/ to her. Hope that helps. It can be stressful to deal with a narcissist for sure, but just try to remember that in the long run the good energies always outnumber any negative ones, and we always win ;) Love and Light

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/22/16 02:15:37PM
388 posts



thanks - have asked my helpers to chip in :) Hope it'll make a palpable difference.


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 02/13/17 01:51:08AM
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@goodenergyhealing
03/21/16 08:27:47PM
388 posts

to feel or not to feel?


Empath

thanks for all the answers so far - much appreciated :)

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@goodenergyhealing
03/21/16 08:25:26PM
388 posts

to feel or not to feel?


Empath

not sure if it is all over London - but the birds round where I live often sing like crazy during the middle of the night. 3:23am now, and they are just having a chirp off out there ;) (maybe it is all those Cinderella energies I try to create in and around the house - lol)

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@goodenergyhealing
03/19/16 08:41:31PM
388 posts

to feel or not to feel?


Empath

thx Cbxjohn! No, was not talking about personal grief, just referring to another post. No grief here. Talking about day-to-day energy to be dealt with, mostly client related. And the last few months there seem to have been a few large scale energy shifts, with energies all over the place, and possible to large to be felt with me puny body anyway - lol

All the best :)

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@goodenergyhealing
03/19/16 05:07:18AM
388 posts

to feel or not to feel?


Empath

thanks Arielle :)

Am still playing around with the whole thing (guess I have been for years). Seems that sometimes it depends on the amount, energy and time available too... Many hours of the day, when having to concentrate on 'outside' things, there is not much choice but to have cleansing and healing processes run in the background :) And feeling negative energies/ emotions just is not as exciting (and pleasant) as feeling positive energies/ emotions - a bit like having to rewatch a bad movie for the thousands time - lol

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@goodenergyhealing
03/18/16 04:38:29PM
388 posts

Frustration with doctors


Empath

I'd definitely look into Vit D (echinacea, and VitC never did much for me - but there might be personal differences) -

Salt bath are good, just make sure you ask the salt+ water to help you cleanse your energy, communicating might intesigy the process (and ask Spirit for cleansing help too :))

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@goodenergyhealing
03/18/16 08:37:02AM
388 posts

Frustration with doctors


Empath

tough one - if docs cannot measure something there is not much they can do. Not sure if even a erythrocyte sedimentation rate [abbr.: ESR] test would have shown anything yet three weeks back. Google it, and if it might have detected anything, maybe insist on one next time? It would be unethical of them to prescribe antibiotics, without clear signs of a bacterial infection...

I would not get too hung up about it. We can only learn. As such it could be because of stress in the office, so if you get something like it again, maybe it is a sign that you need to do more to cleanse out stress energies etc. at the end of your day - e.g. meditation, exercise, smudging, fresh juices (if you are not doing something already). And with that you can maybe turn the (stress energies) tide, before it overruns you?

Re infections - used to get sick all the time - before I started strong probiotics (e.g. Kefir, Kombucha), and especially high enough dosed Vit D3 - I seem to require about 5000-7000 IU pd, (even though my GP insists 1000 IU pd is a sufficient maintenance dose....)

Or if you think you are getting something bacterial again, try natural antibiotics, like Curcumin + BioPerine, or Clove Caspusles, or Oregano Oil....

Love and Light! and Happy Healing!

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@goodenergyhealing
03/16/16 12:10:09PM
388 posts

Needing Guidance


Empath

From my experience there is loads of different humans, on loads of different levels (levels of how close they are to their true individualized divine nature), and tons of different ways to be confused in some way. Sometime people who are similarly confused come together, or are drawn to a place/ organization etc.

I am not christened, but my upbringing is basically christian, and I sang in church choirs a lot (as a boy). I cannot say that I ever observed what you describe, in the churches I attended in Germany, but I would not be surprised if they are such in Germany too. And obviously I was young and pretty naive during my church years... Is there no other congregation you could join? You might find that another congregation is totally different, more accepting etc. Maybe interview the priest before you join another one etc?

Faith is a funny thing. I guess most faithful will feel 'oneness' to a certain degree, when attending e.g. a church. Oneness is a great feeling, especially on this planet, where 'separation' can be so harsh in normal life. Now if someone tells such people, that they are only allowed to feel more 'oneness' if they believe such, and such - gays are of the devil etc., some get so scared that they might lose oneness if they do not follow those rules, that they obey them unquestioningly.... Takes a lot of love, possibly assertiveness etc - to help such people change their understandings. And sometimes we just have to be an example to them - not live by their rules, live our truth, but still be happy, and (in the long run) apparently not forsaken by the Divine....

Love and Light!!! (this website might cheer you up - http://www.godhatesshrimp.com/)

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
03/16/16 11:25:14AM
388 posts

to feel or not to feel?


Empath

I'd be interested to hear other empaths' opinions and experiences re this.

I read this interesting, nice comment on another discussion yesterday, it was in the context of a potential grieving process, and she recommend to 'feel' energies, even if difficult - and then letting them go!

Now I am all for 'letting lower vibration energies go'! I do a lot of cleansing work. Living in a big city, and doing healing work - there is potentially a lot of energies passing through.... I do not think I am callous, but I have pretty much stopped looking closely at what passes through. It mostly is not mine anyway, and per my healer and personal code of conduct, I do not do readings - so why would I? I ask the Divine to take those energies off, and from me, as effortlessly as possible (for myself and the energies), and to make the process as painfree as possible (for myself, and the energies). I trust that they are taken in to spiritual rehab, and have the best angel, etc. nurses one could imagine - till they are their good, loving, divine selves again....

Still I played around with the idea of feeling stuff more again last night. It possibly feels as if, when feeling more into a e.g. fear or sadness etc., before cleansing it out, it might make the cleansing out process more effortless? (This might not be the case for all energies, sometimes I get's more psychopathic ones, and the only thing that really works, is getting a lot of help in, and being very assertive!). I wonder if such, more normal/ average fear, depression, stress etc. energies perhaps are more willing to leave when having been properly felt, at least once? Given at least one chance to possibly communicate, what they think they might have to teach us??? (which might obviously be quite irrelevant, if it is not ones own....) Or am I just going too soft again, lowering my defenses, and the next time I get a psycho energy, it can cause more havoc???

Perhaps the opposite argument would be - I often see myself (and possibly Lightworkers/ Empath in general) as kind of the friendly garbage disposal team, for confused/ negative energies off this planet. And the same way I do not expect the (real life) rubbish collectors, to look through my trash bags (nor do I want them to), analyze it, sort it etc. before taking it to the dump, or garbage furnace - we cannot be expected to look at every single negative energy passing through us....? (it can take energy and time after all!)

Sure, if one deals with emotions/energies that are more likely ones own - feeling them, and looking at them might be helpful, it might even help us understand something. But I am more talking about energies that come to us (for whatever reason) - and feeling them, looking at them... (which might only make sense, if in the long run, it might make cleansing process more effortless?)

Love and Light!


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 05/16/17 12:31:51AM
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@goodenergyhealing
03/15/16 08:19:10AM
388 posts

Finding Love as a Male Empath but definitely want responses from the Women here too


Empath

forgot to say - in London we e.g have a Meetup Group for empaths. It took me a while to find this, but 2016 has opened more doors for me, to meet and get together with other spiritually interested and aware peeps. If none exist where you are from - found one. Or alternatively you can look at yoga groups, meditation groups, tantric groups, spiritual dating sites etc. to find women, who are potentially more on the same frequency as yourself....

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@goodenergyhealing
03/15/16 06:10:02AM
388 posts

Finding Love as a Male Empath but definitely want responses from the Women here too


Empath

picky, and 10 years single (well, except for three months with a narcissist last year). I do do occasional casual sex (maybe easier being gay?), but the frequency has gone down. Unless I am brimming with energy, and have much to share, I rather watch TV - lol.

Cannot say I am lonely, or desperate though (not implying you are). Luckily I have learned on the spiritual path, that I am individualized divine Spirit, and as such - whole. I did/ do my best to work on that, and it has the great side effect that I do not believe anymore, that I 'need' a second half in the outside to feel happy. I allow myself to be happy single too. Sure, if a twin flame crosses my path, another whole, interested in walking the path together for a while, I would not refuse - but it is not essential...

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
03/13/16 08:50:02PM
388 posts

Just found out my mums cancer is terminal


Empath

yes, look after yourself. As an empath you might be collecting emotional responses from your family too, so regular grounding and cleansing is always good. Well, you can send Reiki from a distance always even without express permission - just ask Spirit to guide the energies elsewhere, if they are not appropriate. Or deviate them to fight any possible energetic influence on her cancer in the outside....

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@goodenergyhealing
03/12/16 08:50:36AM
388 posts

Just found out my mums cancer is terminal


Empath

Hi Gem - sorry to hear your news. Take a deep breath though - if you still have 2-3 years (or 3-5), that is a lot of time, to try to help her maybe overcome her cancer after all. Stranger things have happened. I am not trying to create hopes, to just come crushing down again at some point; but why not use any hope there might still be. Maybe this could actually be a real turbo for your motivation, for your spiritual work, and courses? You can send her healing energies, whenever you have the time, and energy. (N.B. I know the hard point is to send healing for a person's highest possible good (and we cannot be sure what that is?), if they are so close. But just pray and ask, that the energies are protected against any potential ego wishes of yours, which may contradict her highest purpose, and you'll be fine). And after all, the sent healing energies should save her suffering on other levels too - be more calm, be more at peace, possibly have less pain, and medication side-effects etc. It can also be an incentive to study foods, that could benefit her, crystals (just buy some jewelry she can wear, if she is not spiritual herself), etc.

My mum had cancer 10 years ago - she was not diagnoses as terminal, but it was a bad one none-the-less. I like to think that, besides two operations, and two conjoined chemos - me sending her regular distant healing helped too! Also my sister's step-mum had a very bad pancreatic cancer, but survived, perhaps because of sent distant healing too? She even now eats 'normal', without problems, even though, without a pancreas, and gall bladder, she should be on a special diet....

Supposedly there is 5 stages of grief (Elisabeth Kuebler-Ross), and anger is one of them - so it is normal!

And I would also just say a prayer, asking for help for you - to cope, be strong, be wise, etc. If noone else in your family is spiritual, you are the the luckiest yet. Obviously losing someone dear is painful, but you know too, that any loss is only temporary, as our souls are eternal....

Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
03/09/16 05:02:37AM
388 posts

Someone is leeching my energy, I need help please


Empath

if you do the visualizations, then they happen, but it does not mean that one has to 'feel' the effects straight away. I used to not be able to e.g. 'feel' my chakras, but persisted, and now it is no problem. In some cases there might be outside blocks/ forces trying to stop the connections - so just ask for them to be removed, always. (and in the mean time, hug some trees, or lay on the ground, if those tools help you already to ground).

Using spiritual tools can be a bit like going to the gym, they have to used regularly, to start to look different, and feel different :) Try to be patient, and ask for patience.

Have you tried talking to your mum, about how you feel in her presence? Try to discuss with her, why you might feel that way, and ask her how she feels? Maybe there is other dynamics at work? Have you tried meditating on the situation yourself, to understand what is happening exactly, and if there might be a reason for it (not saying that there always has to be one). If it is possible to talk to her about these things, she is open to using spiritual tools, and she is so low on energy, she needs to leech yours, it is actually her, who would benefit most from using tools, that could help her regenerate her energies....

I generally ask for protections for myself, but also for protections for the outside, against any confused energies I might still generate, or which might come through me.

Last but not least - the supplement that helped me most in the past, helped me overcome chronic fatigue is fact - is Vit D. So if you , and or your mum, might be low on it - taking enough of it, might be a really easy fix!

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@goodenergyhealing
03/08/16 04:12:03PM
388 posts

I would love a reading.....


Empath

Hey Melissa - sorry, I do not do readings - but can say that this winter has been pretty tough. Then there was Jan Mercury retrograde, supposedly something about solar flares, possibly the solar eclipse this week? From the chatter on different empath forums and groups, there seems to have been a lot of bad psychic weather, and or energy shifts, causing healing crisis. I.e. whatever you might experience, especially if our emotions etc. are all over the place, it might not be personal (and I very much hope that with spring around the corner we'll get some respite again). Love and Light; and may your journey be as effortless as possible!

You can also post your reading request on the more specific group on here - http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/group/requestanempathreading

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@goodenergyhealing
03/08/16 05:42:35AM
388 posts

Insomnia


Empath

make sure you 'cleanse' your energies regularly! Good grounding, i.e. a good connection to healthy Earth energies helps me! You can also visualize a healing, cleansing, and protecting bubble of (divine) Light around you and your aura (can help keep some negativities out, and help you be more in your space, and not drawn in as much by other people's dramas).

Now I am lucky, as I do not have any problems falling asleep, if i do not try to go to bed early, that is.....I do though often have annoying, strenuous, or bad dreams, which can make it uncomfortable to go back to sleep. And sometimes I wake up and are kept away by anxieties... What helps me with both is again - grounding. I have a strong affinity to hematite, so I have two nice large chunky ones, that I have in my bed, and will hold, with my left, while sending healing to myself with my right hand. Or I just use it to help me ground better. One can also use the time one is kept awake to send healing energies into whatever keeps one awake! It can have the effect of falling asleep quite quickly, as those energies do not want to be healed :)))

My sister visualizes angels around her bed, and that works for her.....

If things are really bad, I burn some incense. 'Nitiraj Original' is pretty much fool proof for me, but personal preferences differ. Or put a drop of e.g. lavender essential oil on your pillow (does not necessarily help me fall asleep, but calms!).

Youtube has plenty of 8hrs sleep tracks of mediation music, calming wave sounds, grey noise, hoover noise, Ohm chants, et al. - see which you have an affinity to....

All the best - Love and Light!

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@goodenergyhealing
03/06/16 05:41:58PM
388 posts

Someone is leeching my energy, I need help please


Empath

'Ask and it is given' (- well if we ask for harmonious stuff it is given, so energy for wellbeing and healing is definitely included). I.e. if we ask to be connected to ultimate good divine energies, - they come to us, find us, connect to us. It is basically the same for grounding, as you pray to divine energies in Earth. But you can also visualize two pillars of Light, coming up from deep in the Earth, and connecting to your heels. Then ask them to pull out negative and stale energies, and give you fresh, healing energies up..... It might take a few times before you 'feel' it, but you will if you keep with it. For me grounding, when it is strong, it feels like my feet are being sucked to the floor (but that might different for others...)

Feel free to peruse my blog as well, it's got a few more tools in it - http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing

hehe, well, we have to be realistic as well. If fighting is the lesser of the two evils.....

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@goodenergyhealing
03/06/16 02:01:49PM
388 posts



smudging is good, like Karen says!

do you ground? I.e. do you ask Earth energies to connect to you/ your heels, and then pull out negative and stale energies, and give you fresh energies up? I pretty much ask for 24/7 grounding, so stuff does not accumulate.

Or use the bubble of Light (with or without grounding). I.e. you ask for/ visualize a perfect divine healing bubble of Light around you and your body, and then allow your bodies to release negative and stale energies via the breath. The Light will take any energies coming out and take them into a cosmic energy rehab center....

I love doing both with my cardio, especially on the cross trainer. It helps me to keep breathing, and keeps me from falling asleep.

In addition ask for whatever additional support you might require, be that an army of angels in your house, and around it, etc. Basically you give the Divine card blanch as to teh amount, strength, extend, and frequency of help they provide.

If all that fails, yes, do go and see someone experienced with Spirit release work.

All the best! Let us know how you get one! Love and Light!

P.S. you do not have a narcissist in your life, or around you? My narcissist ex came with a lot of anger energies, and it was quiet hard for me to keep my cool, when fighting with him - which is untypical for me (both the anger, and the fighting).

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@goodenergyhealing
03/05/16 04:00:55AM
388 posts

Someone is leeching my energy, I need help please


Empath

do you ground (i.e. connect consciously to healthy, divine Earth energies)? That should at least replenish energies which are lost.

I also ask to be connected through all my chakras, Hara, Kundalini and Soul Star to divine, healthy energies - to cleanse out negative energies, replenish any lost, heal etc.. 24/7 if need be (I leave that decision up to my helpers (they know I want to suffer as little as possible)).

You can also ask for your energies to be 'medicated' - i.e. anything that is being 'sucked off', will include some 'anti-sucking-off' energies in it, which might not help asap, but long term.

Furthermore you can pray for your mum to be 'hooked up' to more divine healing and replenishing energies (even better teach her how to do it herself), so that she does not need to take other people's....

Furthermore ask for protections, as best as possible, and regularly cut any unhealthy cords....

Verbally you can use a mantra/ prayer: 'I forgive myself, I forgive my mum, I let go in love, and ask for perfect relationship healings. Thank You. Amen!' (The I let go in Love is optional. More suited for a person you want out of your life, so likely not your mum)

All the best!

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@goodenergyhealing
02/19/16 02:16:22AM
388 posts

Energy Cleansing


Empath

yes, I feel you. There is A LOT of suffering on this planet. It took me a long time to find a solution to that problem, that would allow me to accept that the basis of Life is and can still be Love (regardless is we call that God, Creation, The Universe, Ultimate Good, or else). The only answer I could come up with, and that works for me is - self-choice. I.e. if our soul is eternal, at some point we might want to experience suffering, after all - after one has suffered, one potentially appreciates Love, Happiness etc the more.... As such, I believe, we pre-choose our lives (or a set of lives), suffering and all, before we incarnate. Life is a bit like an S&M relationship, just that most have forgotten that they have chosen it, and that they can use their safe words (i.e. prayer). And that one has to ask for ones suffering to be dissolved (not just 'They Will be done' - because being part of the Divine divine will/ our will is happening all long...)

Now I know some of the things that some of us choose to experience is quite horrendous. But the alternative is to believe that (at least some) eternal divine souls go astray at some point - which makes them less than perfect - and are apparently really slow in learning how to be 'good' again. And do not even get me started on how a system, where one would carry negative karma across lives, remember between lives, apparently not be allowed to forgive and absolve then, and then be born again, forgetting all the previous lives, but still be served 'the bill' - could be loving and divine, if there is no own conscious choice involved....

I did not come to my conclusions lightly, and not simply to stop feeling guilty about all the suffering I could not help! I do know that not all will follow my logic, some will be upset by it, and ultimately we won;t 'know' 100% sure, till after we have left our bodies....

 
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