Must be the reason I love storms
interesting - thanks for sharing
plus we are never 'alone'. We depend on the atoms that make up our body, the air we breath, etc. If you visualize a color of energy for healing (wherever the knowledge to do that comes form in the first place?), you are dependent on that colored energy to come and do your bidding....
We have free will, we can believe that we actually work 'alone', that does not mean though that those who decide to work in teams are any less capable, or effective....
Love and Light!
Glad you are not pissed off at my comments
I'd argue that we had supermarkets before 2000, so the world the e.g. Mayas knew, likely ended long before 2000 or 2012....
I cannot tell you for sure about your visions, and why you have them. As mentioned I was in a religious cult, where the guru kept on preaching that if we did not do enough spiritual work - pray, meditate, follow each and every of his directives to the letter - we as important spiritual catalysts, would cause humanity to not manage the transition and destroy itself... The guru was quite psychic, and did seem to be able to 'see' quite a few things, but in the end his actions were quite sociopathic. He basically (consciously or subconsciously???) manipulated his followers to be utterly dependent on him.... I had a few visions myself, which he at first affirmed were correct, but then weren't. E.g. I was told I used to be Moses, but then 2 months later he was identified as supposedly having been Moses in open regression in front of the group. (what a relief! - after an initial high - Hey I am celebrity! - lol, it all came crushing down when I realized that actually killing all first born is not really a very kind and compassionate way to act....). In another regression (done by myself) I was told I was Joseph Mengele, which again he at first affirmed, and then retracted a week later. Upon further research Mengele died in 1979, and I was born in 1971, so it was impossible anyway... ((nut supposedly having been Joseph Mengele almost had me kill myself in that week....) And there were other stories.... I had put a lot of trust in the guru, as he seemed quite capable, emanated this loving, warm energy, plus had been identified by several followers, during regressions, as having been Jesus, Buddha, etc.... Anyway, what I learned is that spiritual visions can be manipulated, and falsified. Not every spiritual entity out there is here to 'help' us. Many do not act with unconditional love, but have ulterior motives! Some are quiet psychotic, and they seem to feed of humans beings in fear, guilt, etc.
My solution, way out of this predicament was to make double sure that I make clear what kind of spiritual help I want to work with. If we do not specifically verbalize what energies we want to work with (and do not have specific prearranged contracts), all sorts of beings might feel invited.... Especially if one uses more or less generic terms like 'The Universe', 'Creation'. 'Source' this might contain both 'good' and 'bad' energies... Even just calling upon 'The Divine' some energies might feel invited, as they have the power of Gods, yet might not be all benevolent.... I therefore pray to (true) 'Ultimate Good' - and ask that Ultimate Good forces always protect, and assist me (especially during any spiritual work). If I channel healing energies, I ask to be 'hooked up' to Ultimate Good energies only, etc... Plus I have made it known that I do not want to suffer anymore, and given Ultimate Good card blanche as to the amount, frequency, extend, etc. of help they provide, so that my life is a effortless and suffering-free as possible!
If ever get any bad intuitions nowadays they are usually much smaller scale. Sometimes I e.g. get resistances about traveling to certain countries, so I might see my plane crashing before I get on. I then pray for healing/ help. protection - just in case, and get on anyway (I do not have the funds to keep re-booking flights). So far none of the flight have crashed
So yes, sometimes we might have visions that are warnings, some are just paranoia, some might be more genuine, BUT I believe that if they do concern outcomes that would make us suffer, we can ask for healing, so that they do not come to pass...
There is some more considerations obviously, but only so much I can put in a post here. If you are curious have a look at my blog www.alexander-king.com or 'look inside' my book on Amazon - 'Tours and Cures of a Lightsoldier'There is much more in the book about how I understand energies operate on this planet. Why suffering exists, how it is created etc.
Love and Light!
You did not say that there is a possibility that it 'could' happen - rather you said 'Get ready, were all waiting for the world to change, however it has to get worse before it can get better, this is the natural order of the universe.'
I do believe that there is more forces 'creating' on this planet/ in this universe than just 'thinking, feeling, believing humans', but we are part of the creational equation, so why not rather work against an Armageddon, rather than say - 'It has to happen!!' I do believe that (in tandem with the Divine) our believes, prayers can move mountains. There is nothing which is impossible!
And as for visions of Armageddon - the future is never set, it might be one possible future, but is is one among many! And in my experience such huge scary visions are usually sent by non-benevolent entities, especially if they are being tagged as 'inevitable'!
Sometimes it seems to me that some spiritual people are so gagging for a Utopian future down here (hey, it will be there once we leave our bodies again anyway!!!), they willingly sacrifice billions of lives, ignore the huge amounts of trauma this will cause, the decades of rebuilding, if not centuries of nuclear wastelands - likely they will not experience any better Utopia in their current physical forms anyway... (sure, I used to be in religious cult - the amount of guilt that was heaped upon us, was so incredible, Armageddon felt like the only option (there can be reasons why people believe in it that are somehwat more benevolent), and like such a relief. but all that guilt was misplaced!)
Love and Light!
You might have heard about the Law of Attraction - and how our thoughts are (co-)creational forces? It always makes me wonder why anyone wants to believe (and possibly help create?) that apocalyptic melt downs are necessary for a new consciousness.
I've heard so many talk about this before 2012, and NOTHING! Before 2000 too - and NOTHING! Maybe it is the armies of angels that I send against such prognosis - to help me live in peace and without major catastrophe? I have had enough suffering in my life - I really do not need WWIII, famine, natural catastrophes, etc. So I kindly ask that any souls that are gagging for such experiences save them up for another life and planet, that I am not on at the time ))
Love and Light!
yeah - I used to have a few rows, especially with my father. My mum is a bit easier, but she too can 'block' when I say something about spirituality, that she does not want to hear....
On the upside - comparing my family to those of friends, etc. - over the years we have become more and more harmonious. Sure if took a few years (and luckily I always had a great connection to my sisters), but it seems possible. After 20 years of praying for him, and sending distant healing, my atheist father even accepted one-on-one Reiki off me, last time I visited. Took 20 years, but hey
I know I read somewhere that supposedly the more we progress, the 'richer' our chakra colours get. So e.g. our throat chakra would change from light blue to dark blue. Might have something to do with being able to channel more energies, more concentrated energies? But again, I do similar as yourself, either be guided to a colour, or leave the color choice up to my guides )
yes - intend is key. I sometimes also work with spiritual homeopathic remedies, especially if I know which substance might have harmed me (or a client). In which case I ask for a spiritual homeopathic remedy of that substance....
Coming back to guides (N.B. I respect your choice, but just putting my experience out there) - there is several reasons why I work with them.
- Protections - To me protections include healing the source of any energy disaffecting me. E.g. I used to have problems traveling back , and visiting my home-country Germany. It seemed that some collective subconscious German energies, tried to prevent me from re-entering the country. So I asked that they are dealt with. Took a few years, but now, I do not get traveling resistance anymore. (and on a more day-to day basis some clients seem to come with confused collective subconscious energies attached too - be that through country/ place of residence or origin, their profession, religious affiliation, or else...) Now if one deals with energies possibly built up (and supported) by millions, I am not going to attempt to deal with them alone! And I might add, a lot of times I do not know the 'exact' source of energies disaffecting me anyway - but my guides will!
Protection works both ways too. I also ask for protections of the 'outside', against any low vibration energies I might still generate, or which pass through me (so that I do not keep feeding other low vibration energies, or harm anyone...). I obviously try to think 'right', but it is not always possible (yet). So working with guides, they can help protect the outside, and or heal any damage still caused asap (wherever and whatever that may be....)
- I mentioned safe disposal of cleared energies, which again becomes especially easier with large scale healings.
- I still keep learning, and I believe that every-time I do learn something 'new' it is through intuition from my guides... And some procedures, like psychic surgery - I rather leave up to my guides (as I have no clue if there might e.g. be etheric arteries, or such, that damaging might cause potential problems.... )
With all that - I do not feel like I am taking 'the help' for granted, and don't do anything myself. I do offer my body as a channel (both (good energies) in and (bad energies) 'out'('out' - where necessary, and especially 'out' can be somewhat uncomfortable). Often my whole body seems to engage in healings, I am tensing all my muscles, as if to 'hold a frequency', trying my best to keep negative thoughts and emotions out. Plus there is obviously the time-commitment....
Generally I ask for as much, strong, capable, and extended Help as necessary, possible, available and sensible - so I am confident that if my guides think that I can manage by myself (and they prefer watching form the side-lines, or having a Margarita instead, they will do so )
Love and Light!
I put much info into this blog post....
why do you not like working with guides?
I initially had some bad experiences with 'light' energies, but then found that they weren't true Light energies - not all Ultimate Good, and unconditional Help and Love. But since I pray to what I call 'Ultimate Good' (free off any misguided religious guilt/ teachings, etc.) - I have not had anymore such problems....
I'm sure there is 'good' black energy too (after all most of the Universe is 'black'), and I would allow it if my Ultimate Good helpers bring it in, but with the overall connotations on 'black' energies down here, I do not actively visualize it.... That said many healers, many different methods....
yeah - 'killing' anything can be a challenge. But in the end it is transmutation. So if I take antibiotics, bacteria will die, but their souls live on (and will likely have other physical incarnations). I pray that their release is a painfree as possible (who knows maybe it is even enjoyable for them?). I have become somewhat more rational too though. our own (God-given, if you like) immune system kills millions of bacteria every day....Any negative energy (in what ever shape and form) coming to me these days is not 'invited' anymore. I have made it clear that I do not want to suffer! I have asked for loads of (spiritual) tattoos, signs etc., on my bodies - WARNING all negative energies coming to me - ''This will be the end of your existence, as you currently know it - as I will sent you on into Light!'. If they cross the threshold none-the-less, I surmise they are, on some level, tired of being the bad boys, and just want to go home (into the Light), for healing.....
As for cleared areas - I once heard/ read that golden energy is best to fill those up. But in the end I rarely visualize anything too specific these days, and just leave it up to the healing energies to complete their work as best as possible.... So they might well, use, green, or other colours too. Or as per the above one could even visualize little body building blocks flowing in and rebuilding whatever structures had been dismantled by previous negative energies? Or the Light (whichever colour), one used to fill a void, transmutes into more permanent structures?
Love and Light!
P.S. Well done on your healing successes!!!!
I think he has a point to a degree.... Please be aware though that he argues about empathy, not 'empaths'. And perhaps he should have added - short-sighted empathy? I agree though that it is not rare that humans look for short term relief of suffering - their own, or that of others. They will do the minimum to find some relief,and then keep ignoring the actual root causes of that suffering (unless it bites them in the bum so hard, it cannot be ignored further). And some people just get so enveloped in drama, their emotions block any rational and more long term strategic thinking.... I guess it is rarely ill-intended though. Many people might neither have the time, energy, resources, or education to do more....There might be some intellectual arrogance in his talk? He is basically ranting, possibly with a cause, but without giving the people better tools to help (themselves or others). Without giving people better understanding and tools though, any rant is pretty much moot....
I guess as empath most of us will deal/ have dealt with so many negative emotions, we know how they can get in the way of good decision making, and effective healing processes? I might be projecting? I am definitely not without compassion, but I have been called a heartless monster more than once, when calling people's 'drama games', and not playing along - lol. As such many of us will be more long term thinkers. Also many of us feel suffering to it's root cause, so we do not just apply band aids. when helping heal...
Love and Light!
I'd suggest some additions - if you have any higher believes always invite divine healers/ healers/ guides to join, guide, and support any self-healing work (or work on others). Ask to be connected to ultimate good Divine energies to be the healing medium. Being connected one can also ask that removed negative, or stale energies are taken up, and taken away into divine rehab. Transferring negative energy to objects might work, but the risk remains that that object falls into wrong hands, the energy escapes, etc. Working with large sources of benevolent energies - Divine, Earth, Sun etc. one can be far more certain that negative energies are being dealt with safely....
I am not sure I understand your red and black energy thing? You say that red energy is stronger than black, but black can turn red into black? Would that not make the black energy stronger? And if black energy is dangerous, why not just work with Light energy? White energy? So far I never had problems removing any energies working with Divine support, or Reiki. Sure, sometimes it can take a few sessions. Sometimes it seems that actually hard to remove negative energies are supported by negative energies on the outside too, so one has to ask that those outside energies are combated/ healed too... (P.S. I have dealt with too many negative energies in this life, to trust any of them. They might seduce, and be helpful for a time, but eventually they will likely demand an outrageous price, and then you have to call on the Light forces for help, as pretty much only recourse... So why not only work with Light from the outset? Sometimes dark energies promise faster healings, and they might actually be able to achieve them too, but it is like a Mafia boss, who has sent hooligans to your place of work, or home, and trashed it, and then promises you to protect you against those hooligans, if you pay him/ her. Sure if one pays, the hooliganism stops straight away, but one just feeds a bad system....)
Love and Light
Hey All - thought I'd share something and see if there is any feedback from fellow healers?
So I have known about 'Soul Retrieval' for a long time. I.e. some of us loose parts of our soul over time, potentially across lives. I used to follow what I read though, i.e. such things happen due to e.g. trauma. Soul parts split off and are lost through quite 'large' and powerful events. Or one e.g. gives parts of his/ her heart away, and with a bad break up, they are lost with the ex.... We might obviously have such injuries brought forward through past generations, carried over through DNA too...Sure there might also be 'theft' of soul parts, but surely that would require quite adept black magicians, and might hence be relatively rare?
As such I have done a few 'soul retrieval meditations'. I did feel stuff when doing them, and they felt 'right', but perhaps because I did not see any other way I might loose bits of my soul/ of my energetic bodies - I only did a few....
Now I have started on Olive Leaf Extract a few weeks back. Supposedly it helps eradicate mycobacterium (very small bacteria, kind of sized between regular bacteria and viruses. They do not have a cell wall, and are supposedly too small for white blood cells to see - so they can proliferate and cause all sorts of problem - ME, Arthritis, Autoimmune diseases, etc, etc.) A client's mother had sudden onset arthritis, without arthritis blood markers, but ended up in a wheel chair within a month. The haematologist found mycobacterium and put her on Olive leaf extract for three months, which got rid of the mycobacterium and her arthritis! My client, mycobacterium positive too, took it too, and got rid of his asthma! I figured with a history of ME, I might as well try too. I have definitely have felt stuff shifting since. My bronchi clearing up, and some old tendinitis pains clearing out, not too sure yet though if my energy levels are better (but too soon to tell).... Anyway - trying to understand how mycobacterium work, I had this intuition, that they are like energy back doors. I.e. if a negative energy wants to 'attack' me - they use mycobacterium they find in my system (there might be other back doors, of course), So that is why I sometimes feel normal, and when I have a heavy energy client, I get all their stuff?
I had another intuition though - namely that such back doors can cause energy leakage too. Not only of maintenance energy, but of structural energies too! On the physical plain maintenance energy would be like water, salts, glucose, or even blood. Stuff that can be replaced without scarring! Structural energies would be your organs - muscles, skin, heart, kidneys, etc.... I.e. loosing bits of those can lead to scarring, and worse!
So I have this feeling that there is energies that can sit inside of us, and be relatively undetected, as they are so small, and do not always cause any major short term negative symptoms, but which might leak away bits of our soul over time? Like teeny flesh eating bacteria? It might not just be mycobacterium - but perhaps that is how dementia energies work (eating away memories), some other illnesses, and maybe even ageing?
So besides energy healings, cleanings, protections and recharges - I now also ask for energy 'restorations'. I can only say that it 'feels right'. Before I always saw healing energies mostly as kind of water, food, vitamins for the soul, but now I feel, some have more substance/ do much more structural work/ filling up too? My healing work feels more complete somehow. I cannot guarantee yet that it is not just some maniac idea of mine (desperate to heal the lightening of my hair, on top of my head, etc. - lol). But I figured that it is too exciting an idea not to share. So if you play around with it, let me know what you feel. or perhaps you had realized this all already?
Love and Light!
sorry - I am with Trevor and Lavender&Rose here.
LOVE is often sold as these wonderful pink shades, in the spiritual/ esoteric community. Supposedly if you wear those shades, not only does everything look pink and wonderful, but supposedly everything turns into the wonderful too! You put those shades on and 'phoof' -> Paradise! Don't get me wrong, I do believe that LOVE and ULTIMATE GOOD are the actual and only real realities in eternity, BUT we live on a SUFFERING planet. We are allowed to experience the opposite of LOVE here - in MANY shapes and forms. These suffering energies are often built quite sturdy! Shining a bit of LIGHT on them does not always just make them evaporate. Even drafting in armies of angels (I do ask for those (and higher up the Angel Hierarchy!)) some suffering constructs take a long time to dismantle!
Sure my life has gotten easier in some respects, since becoming spiritual (some of that is due to asking for protections!), but some healing processes took years. You could say that my LOVE just was not great enough to dissolve my obstacles (but you'd also be saying that the LOVE of armies of angels does not suffice....).
And as for avoiding all suffering. It cannot always be done! Plus I see myself as a healer, and just like a doctor cannot avoid seeing sick people, as a healer, I cannot avoid encountering sick energies. I give them all the LOVE, WISDOM etc I have (plus ALOT of divine HELP), but it is still a tough job many days!
Perhaps you don't intend to - but your comment sounds like reprimand. I do not feel encouragement and support, but more telling people off for (rightfully) shielding, and supposedly not loving enough!
Love and Light!
I cannot really answer tat question, as I would not tell anyone to not tell anyone (anymore). Maybe I had learned to stand up for who and what I am, when I came out as gay (years before my spiritual coming out) . Realizing that I am an empath was just another facet of my being that I became aware of. That said it took me years to be firm in my diagnosis that I am an empath. Being an empath goes against so many other spiritual teachings - which usually tell you that you have to take responsibility for all your emotions, and that they are all self-generated. As such I observed my feelings and thoughts for years, before I was firm in my diagnosis of being clairsentient (the term empath I only found later on). It is all in a book now I have written too, so there is no way to 'hide' it anymore.
So I do not know your life circumstances, there might be reasons why you do not want to be 'open' about your abilities (heck, I would not run around screaming I am gay in a homophobe country either), but it does sometimes also pay to have a closer look at the reasons why we do not openly admit to all facets of our being - and get rid of any unnecessary potential shame...
Love and Light!
yeah, I think to have picked up some of those before, often they won't be in the forefront of all their emotions though. Also other spirituality related emotions, like feeling forsaken, or like the Divine is not strong enough to help, etc....
SInce I channel everything negative or confused that comes to me into the Light, I am glad when such energies get cleared off the planet
I'll just add a funny one to this thread. I do mingle on a few spiritual FB groups to try to socialize, help, plus selfishly get some potential notice to my book.
In this supposedly 'advanced spiritual developed' group lead by someone who had already made me cautious by basically calling just about every other Lightworker (except herself) lazy for not basically writing a whole book every day (which she supposedly does) - I dared to think that a Youtube clip promoting that the Earth is indeed flat(!) had been attached as a light-hearted joke. It turned out that the followers actually believed that the Earth is flat, and that humanity had been brainwashed by science (that old devil's tool!) into thinking it is a ball. I was then deemed spiritually non-evolved, and just not ready yet, when mentioning that on a flat Earth there would be no time-zones. lol
Sure, experiencing suffering for a while can help one enjoy eternal Love, Happiness and Oneness the more - but I personally believe that suffering is an artificial construct to enable us to experience the opposite of what we are. Suffering is finite and terminal.
For you say that 'The only way to find happiness is finding oneness' - but one cannot experience oneness and e.g. separation-suffering at the same time....
Love and Light!
it will be hard to come up with a more conclusive answer to your question with a post like this. You'd have to question hundreds of us
My mom is more emotional than my dad, and my dad can be more selfish, but then my mum can be emotionally manipulative (she just hides her selfish side more with a victim play...)
What I definitely would add to the equation though - I have always been quite sensible and sensitive (and a bit of a wise ass in my youth), but I only really became empathic through loads of spiritual work - meditation etc. So I mostly blame my abilities on that. I.e. likely we all have them, just with some people they are more blocked.... My father never was a great A-hole, just perhaps a bit cold and rational, but he has softened up with age. He is much kinder now, almost more than my mum. If that is me sending distant healing for the last 20 years, or a man's testosterone levels reducing as they age - who knows? Maybe both? He's been quite a strong atheist too, we had some big arguments about that in the past (him calling me crazy for believing that there is anything beyond matter and death, and the like),but last month, when I visited, he actually took up an offer of receiving some Reiki there and then....(miracles do happen?)
My sisters are both quite sensitive, but only the younger one perhaps more of an empath. Here too though, both seem to have developed their sensitivities somewhat over the years. Again, if that is natural, or due to a spiritual healer in the family - who knows?
Love and Light!
Heya - I feel ya.
I used to have many great friends, but when becoming spiritual, I lost most. Since it has been difficult, some of that blame is on having moved to London too though, which is a tough city to make friends...
I have come to believe that most empaths are likely 'lighter' than the average Jane/ Joe, and it seems that their confused energies do their best for such people to not see us, and not engage with us, unless they have to - through e.g. work.... If anything I feel sorry when looking at most 'muggles' though. Most of them likely feel more lonely in their active social lives, than me with just a few friends, and a lot of alone time. (I very rarely feel lonely, and if I do, it is usually Saturday nite desperation energies floating about the ether).
Also I have been asking for healing for such matters and things have been (slowly) improving over the years.So if one has ones intentions straight, and especially with Divine back up things can improve
Have you had a look at e.g. MeetUp.com? So much on there, and if there is not what you are looking for yet, you cna always found a new group. Or local meditation, yoga, etc groups, with more like minded folk? Or maybe there is fantasy book reading clubs (have you read Robin Hobb?, she is the best!!!!), etc. etc.
Love and Light!
P.S. And I totally get you about all that emotion stuff. Sometimes I think I am a cold hearted bitch for not being more emotional, but then I remember that I have prayed for (negative) emotional cleansings for the last 20 years, and that what I am now should be more evolved than the emotional slave I used to be
you can always pray for angels, guides, etc. to come down and offer those souls to pass over again.
Or I assume it could be traumatic energy left over that appeared like souls left behind? Which you can ask to be cleansed too, and or protected against.
The energy might be there to 'remind' people? But is there a memorial of some form, in which case you can tell the energy that the memorial is there already, and it is is not required anymore. If that does not work the energy might be too confused, again you would need to ask for a through cleanse.... Alternatively you can visualize e.g. silver Light, golden Light, sage smoke (works visualized too). Visualize a semi-permanent pillar of Light on the building (till the energy is cleared).
That is what I would do, but there will be other methods too...
Love and Light!
forgot to say - if you don't do something similar already - for changing relationships (besides cord cutting), this is a good tool (can be said as often as you like, use it as sort of Mantra as you wash the dishes etc. )
I forgive myself, I forgive xyz, I let go in Love and I thank the Divine for perfect relationship healings. Thank You. Amen! (feel free to replace Divine and Amen, or change otherwise, as you see fit)
sorry to hear - hope it resolves! You can tell your guides to use any force necessary too (which is not voodoo, just self-defense), i.e. even if it triggers an uncomfortable healing crisis on his side!
What popped into my head - but i know nothing about guns - return his gun, after somehow disabling it, without him noticing? But then he has a new gun now....
Give back that one with cartridges that just shoot air (if they look the same as normal cartridges).
Make sure you have a mobile in your pocket next time you cross his path and tape any conversation, so that it is not your word against his (but form what I know form TV, some states need two party consent for that?)
Love and Light! Sending some angel bouncers your way!
I believe that all suffering is pre-chosen (before incarnating). So life down here, including suffering, is a bit like as S&M relationship, but most have forgotten that there is safe works! Safe words are spiritual work - prayers, meditation, forgiveness, etc, which all help dissolve, or shift energies, which would otherwise have created/ supported more suffering.
Creation is Love, and as soon as we have made it known, that we do not want to suffer anymore - future suffering is being dismantled...Some dismantling might take time though, depending on how many suffering energies are involved in a future suffering event.
So if you pray today for non-suffering, live in an earthquake zone, and there is an earthquake 'planned' for next week, there might only be enough time left to keep you safe, but neither protect your house, or even stop the earthquake all together....
I cannot guarantee that my understanding model is correct, but I have not found any other one yet, whihc makes more sense....Hope that helps - Love and Light!
(P.S. if you want to prevent something 'big' it therefore pays to not restrict your help in any way! I.e. if you were to want to stop said earthquake above, but only believe in having one guardian angel, and the one God (responsible for a few trillion beings down here), you might 'limit' your help. I.e. it's best to give the Divine 'card blanche', as to the amount, extend, strength and frequency of help you receive (so that armies of angels can get to work, where necessary and sensible...(That does not just apply to big scale events either, but anything which might dis-affect your life, as we hardly ever know exactly how much negative energy might be behind anything negative in our lives....))
Sorry to hear!
I started being friends with this guy recently. He seemed really nice. The gay culture in London is quite tough, it is quite the meat market. Which is fine, but it is hard to make friends. Most guys are just chasing tail So I was pleasantly surprised when this guy actually talked to me, and put a lot of effort in to initially meet up, not being impatient etc. I was not sure, if I was sexually attracted to him, so I did no make any advances yet, but I would have been happy to have him as a friend (and who knows what might have grown out of that....). I initially asked my guides if he is a narcissist, and got a positive answer back. Since I am a pretty unreliable psychic though, and he did not show any tell tale signs, I did not take it as 100% true. We had four TV dates, very relaxed, just had nice chats, watched TV, had some food, etc. Now since I initiated most of them (after the initial one), I stopped initiating again, as I wanted to see if he would try to organize another meet himself. Nothing yet. Which is fine really, BUT what was really weird is that I got all those painful 'break-up' energies shortly after our last meet. Now I am quite level headed, it would have been nice to have another friend, but I was not in love or anything. I then went ahead and cut cords (and there was a surprising amount of them, and not all healthy looking). It all makes me think that he might be a narcissist after all. He was just more subtle about it than most other narcissists I have met so far, but all those break-up drama energies were quite typical narcissist. I.e. I am thinking now that perhaps I saved myself quite a bit more drama, which might have evolved if we had stayed friends, or even gotten romantically involved....
I am not saying that your friend is necessarily a narcissist, but so far the people I have met and which I feel most comfortable around are either fellow empaths, or narcissists (well, for them it is initially only, but it can be quite striking how they can 'feel' so calm and lovely initially).
So maybe have a look for cords and cut any unhealthy connections you find, and see what that does to the dynamic between you two....
Love and Light!
Truly loving someone unconditionally means too though that we allow them to find their own path! To accept help, ours or otherwise, or to battle by themselves. Sometimes the greatest thing we can do to help - is to let them be! It is a free will system after all. It is gets easier, I find, when remembering that life is eternal. Sure it is hard to see people we care for suffer, but all suffering is finite, and our life time, compared to eternity is very brief. All beings find back to the love that is ALL, and that they ARE eventually. If they screw up life with the current body, there is countless opportunities of having happy lives with other bodies...
Your love might be unconditional, but with most humans putting conditions on their love, it is understandable that people might take their time in vetting if anyone's offer of help is truly unconditional. And if they do not currently have the time and energy to vet, they might feel it is safer to reject than to accept some potentially tainted help....
Love and Light!
in my experience everything has consciousness (to varying degrees). That includes energies - thoughts, emotions, believes. Good ones as well as bad ones. It is the shamanistic way to look at life. Everything is alive, nothing is outside of Creation!
People who do not monitor their thoughts and emotions are often puppets of their negative energies. They might not know what is going on, but the energies are more psychic. They know we come with Light, and that the Light is just (if not more so) as infectious as their confusion. It can literally enlighten their darkness. You have to kinda feel sorry for them though. They have forgotten that they used to be good too. Being bad is all they know, and stopping being bad feels like a death sentence to them. So at times they fight and try to manipulate to hold on to their power. They puppet their host to act in not so nice ways, try to rebut us. E.g. be stand offish, rude, ignore you, etc... Does that make sense?
Love and Light!
I had a look at this. Obviously it is generous to make a whole book public, but what I read reeked of spiritual superiority and is somewhat cult-ish. The writer/ guru seems to think himself so advanced and enlightened, no-one will be as great as him, so he is the only one allowed to claim his teachings, take money for them etc. Plus he basically says that everything he says is perfect (as no criticism is allowed and one is not allowed to alter or append his teachings) - which in my experience is a huge red card in spiritual matters. Sure the Divine is perfect, but down here we live like in a smog of negative energies, and anyone claiming they can always reliably see all clear, is usually deluding themselves!
Love and Light!
I am going to throw in another perspective here (and since I do not know you, I cannot say yours will be for the same reasons!).
I used to get that answer a few times in my 20s. Looking back now I understand why. It was usually in the context of romantic entanglements. Back then I was a hopeless romantic, any new guy I met and liked, I straight away (in my head) got married to, bought a house, a dog, maybe adopted some kids etc. If anything that must have created a really suffocating energy. I put those guys in a relationship cage without giving either of us any decent time to get to know each other, learn about each other's faults, desires etc. I know I am not the only one doing this, and it is basically the reason why I would pretty much not date anyone in their early 20s now. Guys in their early 20s often fall in love really quickly, and then if it does not work out, one is left with having to 'break their heart'.
Someone telling you that you love them - romantically or platonic - can convey the feeling of responsibility. You are now responsible for living up to that love, and if that love is not unconditional, you are responsible for not disappointing that love! And not many people are able to truly love unconditionally.... And many people do not have all that much energy, after using so much on just keeping a roof over their heads, to have to be really careful not to hurt someone's feelings.... Add to that that many people have hidden guilt that makes it hard fro them to even accept unconditional love....
Also some people are not too good with words. I heard somewhere that there is three types of people - those who love words (you tell them you love them), those who love deeds (you show them you love them), and those who love touch (you touch them to show your love). I am definitely the second one, as I have had too many people tell me nice things, but not be able to actually follow through in deeds. To me deeds count more.
So being am unconditionally loving being on this planet can be tough. One can be rejected many times for various reasons. But if we keep on channeling positive energies in, and help remove negative energies - things change over time. I have had many lonely years since I became spiritual, but things are improving. As empaths we have to built our lives like a house, with bricks of love. And most places the ground is unstable, so we'll have to drill deep foundations into the ground first, to be able to built in the first place. All that takes time and patience. But we are not alone ever, we can always call on spiritual, divine solace and company....
If you are not already, perhaps mingle more in spiritual communities. E.g. empath groups, meditation groups, shamans, yoga etc. Meetup.com is a fab website for that. Even in those groups it might take some patience and time, but people should be more sensitive already, have access to more energy etc....
And always remember - non-spiritual people are often even more lonely than spiritual people. They might look together from the outside. It looks like they have a great live, many friends etc. But often the connections in their lives are very shallow. There is so many games and masks. If I ever become envious or jealous, I look at their feelings and motivations. Usually they are the ones that end up looking lonely and empty, so I send them loads of healing....
Love and Light!
just thought I'd add - nowadays I do not believe being an empath is masochistic anymore. I do believe that any potential discomfort I experience today, will safe me from experiencing greater suffering in the future. But that does require a LOT of trust in The Divine/ A Divine Plan etc. (which did take me a few years to uncover)
Love and Light!
yeah, have a look if you can find any unhealthy cords (maybe you have to 'overcome' this guy/ heal something before moving on?). And ask/ pray too, that any unhealthy connection is cleared/ healed/ severed. If that is it, you should hopefully feel and or see a change happening.
All the Best!
not sure what to tell you? I have given up on always trying to understand everything all the time (with so much interfering and negative energies still around it is rarely possible to get a clear connection to my helpers and know 100% that info received is true (in my case that is))
In your case I'd just pray that things unfold optimally for any relationship you might have. That negative ones get healed or those people drift away, and that positive relationships are strengthened, protected and cemented.
There is e.g. crystals too - e.g. andradite garnet is supposed to help bring a relationship to it's next higher/ evolved level (sometimes that is going separate ways, sometimes getting closer). As I understand it you program the crystal to a specific person and best keep it close to yourself as much as possible...
And not sure if we just have one soul mate anyway? Considering that we are ONE energetically, it does not make sense to me that we would be closer to any being than to any other? But obviously on this planet one can be happy to find just a handful of people that one is on a similar wave length with
Love and Light!
true, but I fully understand why people might be hesitant!
- most books tell you that any problem you have, illness, neg emotions etc. are ALWAYS self generated, and it is denial to 'blame' them on the outside. Maybe I just did not know what to look out for, but I only became aware of the 'term' empath 2 years ago (had to figure it all out by myself), so it is all pretty new, public knowledge....
- the Law of Attraction says that what we think/ believe we create - so that was definitely a reason why I kept on rejecting that I might get negative energies from the outside. I figured that to taken on negative energies from others would be quite a masochistic thing to do to myself, so I simply refused to believe it is possible
- and telling people you are taking on the suffering of the world around you is, on first view, martyrdom at best, and attention seeking, self-pitying and kinda crazy at worst )
So if anything I am sometimes surprised that some empath seem to just read that empathy exists and accept it straight off? It took me years of careful observation, testing and re-testing before I accepted it for myself, as it left the realm of just coincidence and became undeniable.... Did anyone else go through something similar?
The way I see/ understand it: - We are more or less all connected with 'cords' to everybody/ everything. They symbolize our being connected and ONE with everything. We can have a look at such connections with the mind's eye. If a connection is 'healthy' (i.e. it just conducts love, happiness and other healthy energies) it looks 'light' and smooth, whereas if our connection to e.g. a person is unhealthy, and there is energies of e.g. hate, anger, guilt, distrust, etc. the cord should look unhealthy, dark, gnarled. Cutting cords its about disconnecting unhealthy cords. you can visualize cutting a cord, or ask your guides to cut them (Archangel Michael is often taking part). If a cord is really unhealthy it might not be enough to cut it, you have to follow it into your body, where it might have rooted in with dark roots. You have to ask for those to be pulled out, or healed as well. Sometimes unhealthy cord ends re-connect, so you might have to go through the process several times. With my narcissist ex I did not only find an unhealthy cord on the solar plexus, but all chakras (front, back and sides)
As with any healing I ask that it is as effortless as possible, and that if ever possible healing crisis are avoided. In case of decording for myself and the being that is being decorded.
And you do not have to worry, it is impossible to cut a healthy connection.
I fully agree with Rene and Gem.
I know the feeling of being unhappy. I did pray plenty of times in the past to please leave my body - that is if there was no light at the end of the tunnel, and if there was not enough happiness and love to make up for the unhappiness, illness, pain etc at the time. I am still here, the general life trend is more and more positive, so I do not regret not having taken more drastic steps back then....
I used to be a romantic sucker. Gobbled up all those romance movies and had myself brainwashed into believing that I can only be truly happy and 'whole', if I met a soulmate. Did not happen though - so I was unhappy (that and a few other reasons). Until I understood with my spiritual awakening, that I am individualized part of the divine. What I am is 'whole'. I do not 'need' anyone else to make me feel 'whole'. Sure, if I meet someone that wants to share my journey more intimately at some point - great, but I am happy otherwise too. (don't get me wrong, sure I still get feelings of loneliness, or unhappiness sometimes too, but I know that they are not what I am , nor what I want in my life, so I send them on into the Light/ ask the Divine to take them off me! (and they do. And there is more comfort in that! Sometimes it looks like we walk alone in the physical world, but on the spiritual level, there is loads of beings that love us unconditionally, understand us - and are always there for us!).
And and as mentioned there is human help out there too. Suicide hotlines, counseling, and maybe also look into Reiki/ Spiritual Healing....
Love and Light!
Cannot say that I live by a diet for my abilities. Have cut down on sugar (but that is mainly vanity and long term health concerns), and been going from little meat, to pescatarian, to mostly vegetarian, and have started to phase out milk products too. Not sure why, but somehow having the urge and not fighting it... As for articles claiming that our pineal glands are calcified and you need a special diet - don't think there is much basis to them. Nothing I ever ate seemed to numb my empath abilities, there just seem to be foods that might make more susceptible to get negative vibes (like drinking alcohol at times (but not always)).
have not heard - but the way you pose the question makes me think of 'secret knowledge'? Nothing comes up in a quick Google search either. So I'd just say - keep your protections up, and a level head on your shoulders. I feel that in this day and age there is no more real secrecy about spiritual thin. Any organization that claims knowledge that is 'secret' and 'only for the chosen few' can easily be a cult. Love and Light!
I do believe that our soul is half male (right side) and half female (left side), but different humans have their male or female qualities more or less pronounced (at least until they wake up and possibly work on balancing themselves more). I don't really believe too much in human reincarnation on this planet, but I do believe in reincarnation. As such I think it is unlikely that a being would always just be incarnated with a male or female physical gender. Therefore having sexist believes is only self-limiting, and caring/ judging about who fancies sex with whom as well....
And as with so many things there is a wide variety in how people express themselves, Sure there is more militant LGBT individuals, just like there is plenty of straight people who will rub it in your face that they are straight (if they know that you are not).
As for the 'I am an LGBT' T-shirt. I guess it can serve several purposes. Being a minority one might have to stick out more to attract a mate, but also it can keep haters at bay and away. It saves times and energy if one does not maybe befriend someone to only find out after a few hours, or days, that they are too bigotted to keep talking to you, once they find out that one is LGBT )) (plus they usually come in rainbow print, and who does not love rainbows )
yes, we just need to ask for our energies to be cleansed and we get the help. Initially it can pay though to add to the process by staying with it (for a while at least), e.g. visualize grounding, a Light-bubble etc.. It helps to ease into the process, and it can make it easier to accept it. Love and Light!
Hey Katkahotik, sorry to hear your journey is somewhat uncomfortable at the moment. I can sympathize, had CFS for 10 years and my financial means to get any complementary treatment were usually quite limited. There is a lot you can do yourself though. Just meditate (basically just taking a bit if time out, forget about the empty mind stuff), pray and ask for the things you are after. I'd also ask for perfect cleansings of your energies every time (seems to be the most important thing for an empath).
Feel free to peruse my blogs for some more tips - http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing
and this guided meditation is ace - https://archive.org/details/VisitTheAngelsGuidedMeditation You can just get them to pick you up, and once you feel you are 'upstairs' just ask for healings, cleansings, guidance, etc....(i.e. following the journey upstairs is not essential. Still interesting the once or so).
Love and Light!
Hey Rene - in case you have not considered this yet. These are some 'tricks'/ tools that help me re 'reacting' (negatively) to people. I have stopped beating myself up about it, as I have come to understand that it is pretty much out of my hands. I.e. I have e.g. done marathon meditation sessions trying to purge all anger energies form my system, only to feel some anger again within the next few days. Observing my empathy and reactions to people nowadays, I do not really blame such reactions on myself anymore. With e.g. narcissists it feels like they get easily angered themselves, expect all people to be like them and hence project that expectation onto those around them. And/ or they are connected to narcissist energies in the background, which send anger energies to their victims (trying to stoke the drama). Plus maybe a few other energetic happenings. So personally I do not beat myself up for feeling anger with some people, I'll just try to not live the anger! Not feeling guilty about occasionally feeling anger anymore already seems to have decreased the number of times I do (I guess because I have stopped feeding guilt energies connected to the whole complex). For any anger that still manages to come through I generally ask for perfect protections of the outside against myself and any potential negative energies still inside me, or coming through me. For any energies still potentially coming through those protections, I ask for perfect healing for any damage they might cause. On top of all that I ask that any negative energy I might feel does not manage to 'feed back' to, and strengthen any outside connected negative energies, but that they get channeled on into the Light.
Love and Light!
P.S. nice musical track, could not find anywhere to buy/ download though...
thx for your comments so far. Glad to hear I am not the only one experiencing strange stuff. It is funny how sometimes in places where one might expect more healing and Light, there is almost more confusion. In an way if I meet a confused 'normal' person it is just somewhat uncomfortable grey noise, but if I clash with a confused spiritual person - it can be a real (spiritual) 'battle'.
I guess it is about finding balance. I refuse to just lock myself up in the house and never leave again (except for the supermarket, but hey - they do home delivery now too). Working from home, I stay there enough already! If I want to go out, I go out! If anything attacks me/ comes to me - I just deal with it (and on average it seems to have gotten less over the years - I assume they do not dare attack as much anymore, or there is less of them? )
That applies to the gym too! I like exercising, and cardio e.g. can really help me clear my energies (I do clean up after myself energetically, don't just let it float about).
Sure I pick my battles to a degree - but after all The Light should win - and not be bullied into a corner.