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@goodenergyhealing
08/29/16 07:38:10AM
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Why do I attract crazy? Do you?


Empath

hard to attract anyone with good friend potential in London....

But generally I ask that the Divine helps all those that might come to me seeking help, but for whom I might not have the skills, time or energy to help myself directly. Plus if you have problems setting boundaries you can always ask for help with that too! I used to feel guilty if I did not answer each any every help request myself, until I understood that the Divine always has several back-up plans. So if I do not have enough time or energy to help, they find alternative ways to action any help required!

I think for myself it is also important to know that I do my share of helping. I am lucky enough, that I work as a healer and masseur, so I tick some boxes here through my regular work. That way when I do take time out for myself I can relax better. So for anyone perhaps feeling that they don't do enough healing work with their job, looking after a family, or else - perhaps they can think about setting some dedicated time aside to do healing work that satisfies them? Be that e,g. volunteering in a soup kitchen, volunteering in an animal shelter, dedicating meditation time to healing goals, sending distant healing, writing self-help blogs, etc. etc.... And often it is actually about just looking at ones life more closely and remembering all the good work we already do - to keep the 'I am not helping enough' guilt-demons at bay ;)

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@goodenergyhealing
08/28/16 12:59:53PM
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let me add to he above - I find that often one energy does not come by itself. There is often packages. When I get really confused about whose is whose, I check if there might be any beliefs attached (to whatever emotion confuses me) of: 'everything I feel inside myself is my own!'. Which is what many people belief. I.e if you e.g. feel your friend's fear, and that friend also believes that whatever she feels in her body is always her own, you might get that belief together with the fear. Ones I realize that, and defuse the belief, it is then often easier to recognize such emotions as not my own.... Hope that makes sense?

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@goodenergyhealing
08/28/16 09:32:16AM
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I guess that is the challenge of being an empath, figuring out which emotions are ours, and which are someone else's. I am afraid I cannot give you an easy rule or answer. To me it is bout trying my best to re-discover and live the individualized divine Spirit I am, which is ultimately good, unconditionally loving, wise and happy. And as long as there is 'programs' I might still have, buttons that can be pushed - to be aware of those as best as possible. It is about monitoring myself - my thoughts, and my emotions, as much as possible. To know myself. When if I am e.g. usually calm and relaxed in a situation, and suddenly in the same kind of situation I get hit by anger energies, I can be fairly certain that anger is not coming from inside myself...

Ultimately I have come to realize as well though, that is does not really matter all that much to exactly know what something is, and where something comes from. I see it as my mission to channel any negative emotion, thought, energy I get into the Light (or ground them off!). If i am supposed to 'learn' or understand something form a negative energy I ask that I learn it, and I trust that it will happen. If I looked closely at every negative energy I get, some days, I might not get anything else done anymore ;) (plus sometimes I might get depressive energies and it is not attributable to individuals, e.g. at the mo we are in Mercury retrograde again, which sometimes can cause havoc emotionally here)

Hope that helps somewhat.

(this s a blog post on mine, that is a bit more detailed - http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-exp...)

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@goodenergyhealing
08/28/16 09:11:26AM
373 posts

What is a spirit guide and how to find mine?


Empath

Nocturne's Angel has said it all pretty much.

It is not so much about trying to find them, as allowing them to connect to you and guide you. Well, they do not need to 'find' you, they always know where you are ;). For them to connect to you, you just ask them to connect please. You might then see them, feel them, and or hear them.

And no to scare you, but the spirit realm is a bit like humans. There is good ones, bad ones and some that are a bit of both. So before any spiritual work - meditation, communication, etc. it is always prudent to pray for Divine protection, so that confused energies are kept out as best as possible. (Which is not always 100% possible, so it is up to us to think about messages, etc. we receive. To try to evaluate if they make sense, if we want to follow them etc. Basically just like when humans give us advise. It is up to us to decide if it is good advise, or not :))

All the best! Love and Light!

(I love the attached guided meditation: https://archive.org/details/VisitTheAngelsGuidedMeditation)

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
08/26/16 04:25:12AM
373 posts



not sure one can train to be an empath, it is more about finding tools that work for you to take the negtaive edges off being an empath...

Feel free to peruse my blog re this - http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing

All the best for your journey!


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 07/27/17 06:35:32PM
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@goodenergyhealing
08/22/16 05:14:31PM
373 posts

is this real


Empath

hmm - pretty certain I was a member of some 'Advanced Lightworker Group' on Facebook, which was run by the same woman apparently running lonerwolf.com (pretty sure I recognize that picture)

Was not a pleasant experience. Some huge ego stuff flying about. She basically claimed that everybody, compared to her is a lazy shit (supposedly she writes three books a month (or a week?)). I left the group when I was attacked for making constructive critical remarks on a video claiming that the Earth is actually flat. It appears that not joining that believe I was a heretic and too stupid to remain....

Sure, there might be some valid, and valuable info on that website, but I'd keep some healthy guard up and retain common sense thinking!

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@goodenergyhealing
08/21/16 11:05:28AM
373 posts

Hi from the UK!


Empath

took me about 15 years to work out I am an empath. Finding articles about it and the term 'empath' happened after I had self-diagnosed myself and clair-sentient. Think the term is rather new? Well at least none of the esoteric books I read in the 90's and beginning 2000s ever mentioned it....

As for relationships - in the same boat. If anything comes my way - it frequently is narcs, but am rather happy being single, so not desperate...

Good luck for your journey and congrats for having found out about yourself!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
08/21/16 10:48:33AM
373 posts

is this real


Empath

try doing you meditation with activity. I do loads of mediation/ distant healing/ self-healing with my cardio (cross trainer works best). It keeps me awake and breathing. Have good music with it, or put a guided meditation on with head phones. All the best!

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@goodenergyhealing
08/21/16 10:32:10AM
373 posts

Spiritual Energy


Empath

not necessarily accurately here (but find hat intuition rarely is an exact science anyway :))

More like a feeling of being 'at home' or with an old, great friend (still might remain paranoid, as narcs and psychos can convey similar initial feeling of safety). Or you might just pass a person and smile, and be smiled back at (and it feels genuine).

It gets somewhat more accurate if I give healing to someone. Chakras will be clearer and energy flow generally more intense. Also especially the head chakras will be relatively strong (but again, no firm rule, generally more intelligent and complex thinking people seem to have more open crown chakras, on average, (from what I notice with clients). Actually treating the back chakras can say more than giving healing the front chakras. Back chakras, to my understanding, is mostly past, and possibly past lives (but also where 'taken on' energies seem to end up.) So someone who is doing regular work on themselves often has comparatively clearer back chakras....

Then there is those who might have more spiritual energy than the average Jo/ Jane, but are still walking down more confused paths (my opinion), so i feel they have 'power', but it is not a harmonious feeling....

Don't see auras, so cannot say what that might convey....

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
08/11/16 08:14:36PM
373 posts

Dating


Empath

the feeling of 'not interested' could be their fear that you might not be interested too. Or with my last BF, who turned out to be a full blown Narcissist, I sometimes had such feelings, even though in the outside all seemed to be fine. With the benefit of hindsight I now think it was when he started to have feelings of boredom.... Not meaning to make you paranoid though, but sometimes I find that feeling something does not guarantee that I can understand everything. There is at times more than one way to interpret a feeling. If it happens, I have to decide if I want to communicate verbally, or watch for more signs either way....

Generally I get rid of any negative emotions I feel asap. That includes feelings of insecurity, fear, anxiety, etc, connected with meeting potential partners too. You can use tools like EFT for that, or just pray that they be removed (and then it often feels as if I breath them off).

All the best with your dating - much Happiness!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
08/09/16 12:57:22PM
373 posts

Lots of Questions from a Newb


Empath

I believe it can get better. Well, I might be projecting, but I have gotten better over the years (not saying I do not still get bad days too!) . Why exactly that is, I cannot tell you. I have done load so of things, e.g.:

- regular energy cleansing and grounding

- making sure I got rid of any guilt or masochism programs, that might make me take on negative energies unduly (and make sure I always cleanse out new ones...)

- as that I am protected and what disaffects me form the outside regularly take up and away (for rehab), by the Divine (perhaps some energies do not dare come to me, or attack me anymore?)

- various supplements (Vit D and probiotics seemed to trigger greatest improvement)

- healthy diet (from little meat, to veggie, and currently to vegan (but only winter will tell if that made a great difference, summer energies are often more solid)

- loads of crystals about the house....

There might be more, but cannot think of them now.

Love and Light

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
08/09/16 10:33:18AM
373 posts

Abortion and Empaths


Empath

From what I heard, most women do not make that decision easily. If they do decide to abort, there will likely be important reasons.... I cannot say if what you felt is genuine, I used to feel all sorts of things, that over time stopped, so there is a chance that the initial feelings came out of paranoia. I have also become more level headed about suffering on this planet. So even if what you say is true, that being will go straight back into the Light, where it can receive healing. Whereas if that child is unwanted, but brought to term due to legislation or guilt - it will potentially have years of being unloved, feeling unwanted, underfed, maybe even abused etc....

I.e. it is too difficult an equation for me to come to a decision either way. So as with all such things, as far my input is required or appropriate, I pray and ask that the overall suffering bottom line be considered and the smaller value brought to be....

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
08/04/16 03:24:57PM
373 posts



if in doubt, one can always pray for what one wants.

Else you could e.g. visualize a shield around here - perhaps an intelligent one, that turns into camouflage, or renders her invisible to the wrong kind of attention....

Or purchase a e.g. necklace or bracelet with a shielding kind of crystal (hematite, clear quartz, amethyst, ruby, black osidian come to mind, but feel free to google for more). Cleanse it after purchase (just run cold water over it), and then hold it in your non-dominant hand and charge it with your dominant hand. I.e. program it with what you want it to do for her. I.e. you simply ask it to please help her by shielding her against unwanted attention.

Plus what Nocturne's Angel said :)

All the best for College!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
08/03/16 02:36:00PM
373 posts



I am no a mental health expert, but form what I know there is far more people hearing voices than one might think. I actually just took part in a psychological research study a few months back, which tries to distinguish the difference between voice hearers who are stable, and those who end up requiring psychiatric treatment. The psychologist and psychiatrists there confirmed that there is plenty of sane voice hearers!

In general I believe the difference between having extra sensory perception and being classed pathological and healthy is the ability to discern. I.e. if you e.g. hear voices, the question is if you retain the ability to make your own judgment and decisions. So if a voice tells you to do something , that you do not want to do, you just do not do it......

In general if you do not like a voice, you can always tell it to piss off (sorry to be so blunt)! It is your head space! If any voice does not want to leave, I usually just call in divine help, to (lovingly) kick it's butt, remove them and take them into divine rehab! That can take a bit, but usually it is quite a quick process! There might be others trying to get in anew, but if they manage, and pester, you can always just kick those out too. After a while there will be less and less beings that dare approach you, if they are not benevolent and coming to help and assist genuinely....!

I wish you all the best with your treatment, and hope you get a reasonable therapist with it!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
08/03/16 10:19:02AM
373 posts



for now you can pray to Archangel Michael. He usually comes with a flaming sword, and is one of the main helpers for cord cutting. Ask him to cut any unhealthy cords you might have. (he will help non-denominational). As mentioned above, it might take more then one session!

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
08/03/16 03:44:43AM
373 posts



Heya -

never met a TF, I thought I had last year, but that turned out to be a narcissist-empath set up. But I do believe this: in an 'ideal' world, where everyone were their true divine self - everyone, and everything will be a TF! Having a human body is a gift though (as is any body), and there is no saying how soon one will get one again, so leaving it assisted for a TF, would likely be misguided (even though from what you write you do not seem to plan this).

My personal experience with hearing voices is highly unreliable. So much so that I have pretty much shut them down. I only really communicate about somewhat more urgent matters, with as high a source as I can get, and even then I do not take any answer as guaranteed correct. I have tested voices aplenty in the past , but when they do turn on you, lie ,or do not make any sense it just stresses me out, so I leave them to their own (and they should have plenty of other spirits to talk to, so I am confident that they do not need me).

As for all communications and spiritual work I ask for Ultimate Good Divine (true Divine, not wanna be divine ;)) protections and guidance. I find then, that sometimes voices that might have tried to misguide me are taken away.... But it feels to me like we live in a bit of spiritual smog still, so getting a clear channel is often difficult, and some tainting is still frequent.

Not sure if any of that helps? I wish you all the best for your current TF relationship!


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 01/06/17 09:44:11AM
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@goodenergyhealing
08/02/16 02:18:19PM
373 posts

Best shield to block electronics?


Empath

yes, as mentioned already - you can research plants and crystals. One crystal that has not been mentioned already is shungite!

You can also pray for specific protections, harmonizations etc. Or you could e.g. visualize something like an etheric copper Faraday cage, connected to the floor/ ground, around electric devices, and task it with grounding electric frequencies as best as possible....

I used to think that I had electro smog sensitivity when I worked in a large office. Had quite a few crystals all around me, but it did not seem to do much. Funnily if I ever worked weekends, with much fewer people around I used to feel much better. Looking back now (and not having any problems with my home PC), I feel that most my problems back then were people related, their healing resistances etc. Some of those energy discords might have masqueraded as electro sensitivities.

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
07/28/16 07:36:21AM
373 posts



:)

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@goodenergyhealing
07/28/16 07:36:09AM
373 posts



you might want to consider this: As a spiritual healer I learned not to give my own energy/ Love. Rather I ask to be connected to divine energy sources (including Earth energies), offer my bodies as a channel and let those energies flow for the (highest possible) benefit of whomever I send, give them to! You can give healing/ Love in such way to yourself as well!

Sure, sometime I might still go all out and end up giving some of my own energy, that is why I pray for regular energy re-charges and restorations. Energy recharges will recharge your day to day energies, energy restorations are more akin to soul part retrievals, where we have given parts of our soul-substance energies, lost them, or they have been stolen....

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
07/27/16 04:18:15PM
373 posts



heya - sorry you are going through a rough patch.

Here is some thoughts, not sure which apply to your situation, and or how much.

I have noticed over the course of the years of my spiritual development, that my understanding of what I consider Love has changed! It used to be romantic Love that I thought was true Love, now it is unconditional divine Love, that I see as true. Romantic Love is often coupled with fears, and insecurities. There is loads of 'pulling', and one is hard pressed to be happy if ones Love is unrequited. Unconditional divine Love does not have all that. One just wants the other person to be happy. And if one can love oneself unconditionally, one really does not need much in terms of Love from the outside anymore anyway..... Hey, I am not saying that it cannot be nice to feel loved, but if that Love is romantic, it might come with conditions, cages, etc.....

Now what I have noticed is that over the years the Love I give has become more and more unconditional too! 'Problem' with that is, that many humans (and other beings) have great problems being loved unconditionally. They have deep rooted fears that they are not love-able, especially unconditionally, so they construct walls to keep such Love out! That can stifle the flow though....

I think that the frequency of Love that most empath give out is likely more towards the divine unconditional end of the spectrum, not the conditional romantic end. The frequency of our Love is often too 'high', and folks reject us, not because there is anything wrong with us, but because they are not ready to accept our more unconditional divine Love. they do not actually reject us, they reject themselves..... They hide behind their walls. Energy flows from you to them (or their walls), but they cannot send anything back (yet)......

Still if we keep loving them, unconditionally, with their walls and all - their walls will eventually come down. There is no way to rush this process though. So in the mean time I prefer to feel sorry for them, rather than feeling rejected myself! As long as there is not that much love coming my way from humans, I just do my best to love myself, and concentrate on the Love I get form my divine helpers....

Hope that helps on some level? Love and Light!

P.S. that is another reason why narcissists can be so dangerous to us. They seem to be able to accept unconditional Love initially, and send us loads of romantic Love back. If we have felt unloved there for a while, it is easy to want to believe that a narc's Love is actually the real thing.....


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 01/25/17 11:54:58AM
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@goodenergyhealing
07/27/16 04:54:00AM
373 posts



sorry to hear. Assuming you have looked into 'normal' stuff, like watering and fertilizer

- maybe try putting some crystals to help the plants draw energy, as well as putting some crystals in the corner of your garden, to create a protective grid.

- Go around with a bell, or singing bowl and sound smudge your plants.

- mediate and ask them what is wrong.

- draw the Reiki symbols (Sei He Ki & Cho Ku Rei) on pieces of paper (or on rocks) and place around the garden.

- visualize green light (healing), or silver (cleansing), gold (healing, restoring) light around the plants....

- and you can obviously channel healing energy for your plants too. You can either give your own (as Hoofbeats describes), or ask to be connected to Divine energy (true ultimate good Divine, or trusted by Divine ONLY!), and offer your body as a channel for that energy to pass through you for the benefit of your plants (or whichever other being). Best to ask to be connected to healthy, divine Earth energies too (through your heels), so you are grounded during this process.

Hope some of that may help


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 10/18/17 07:26:41PM
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@goodenergyhealing
07/23/16 04:41:11AM
373 posts

I found my place in the world


Empath

wishing much success!

what genre?

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@goodenergyhealing
07/22/16 03:35:45AM
373 posts

Dreams


Empath

everybody dreams! It is the REM part of our sleep. It can be suppressed with sleep medication though. Watson & Crick argue that most of dreaming is actually a cleansing process for the brain, getting rid of superfluous synapses (and I guess as empaths we have very active brains, so we might need more cleansing?). That is not to say that some dreams might not be guidance, or prophetic?

I am quite a heavy dreamer, but it is more bearable than it used to be! I have stopped trying to understand or remember them, usually when I used to look stuff up in like online dream dictionaries stuff was just too depressing. Looking back now, I did not understand back then yet too though, that I am an empath, and just like with emotions, I might have had 'other people's dreams.'

Many people also chronically under-sleep, so it will be even harder for them to possible remember any of their dreams...

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/23/16 06:29:24PM
373 posts

Best Method to Heal and Move on????


Empath

sorry to hear about your troubles.

Yeah, in my experience emotions can be sticky things! My mind can often resolve a situation quickly, but getting the emotional body to follow suit often takes more time....

A few things:

- I have long ago decided that I do not want to suffer anymore - full-stop! Andy negative emotion I have I had over to the Divine for healing, or ground them off, into the Earth!

- What really helps me relationship wise is to have realized that I am individualized divine Spirit. As such I am whole. I do not need anyone, anything to 'complete' me. I am single, but happy that way, as no more desperation to need to find a soul mate to be 'complete'... If you do not feel your wholeness - you could use an affirmation/ prayer like - 'I Am whole! I am complete! I am beautiful! I am individualized Divine Spirit! And I thank the Divine for perfect healing help to fully feel this!

- What we are is eternal! Yes the illusion of ageing in these bodies can be very convincing, but if you e.g. close your eyes and concentrate on your Soul Star (2 finger width above your naval), you might feel your eternal nature better!

- Use decording exercises with your Ex. I.e. cut all energetic cords. His energies are likely still feeding off you suffering (for/ about him), so cut those connections. Several times if need be! You can also use a simple prayer, such as - 'I forgive myself, I forgive him - I let go in love and I thank the Divine for perfect (relationship) healings! Amen!'

- If you have not already read up about narcissists, sociopaths, brainwashing and mind control. Not all might be relevant, but finding out of the 'psychology' of such a bad relationship can help rationalize things.

- From what you describe - You are very strong to have survived all this. He sounds like a very confused man, perhaps you should rather count yourself 'lucky' that your paths diverted, than feel jilted?

I'm sure you'll get there

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/20/16 10:43:37AM
373 posts

Strong energy field from someone


Empath

well, since you said that you felt it was 'all' good, I did not want to say anything. The strongest energy off a person I ever felt was off my ex-guru (very warm, kind and loving energy), who turned out to be a sociopath. I obviously hope she is no wolf in sheep's clothing, but my past experience is the reason why I do not drop all my protection for anyone - how ever glorious they might appear! Sometimes it can be relatively easy identified by sending such people Ultimate Good Divine Light. If they are indeed true and quite holy, they will thankfully accept it - and you should feel some 'Oneness'. If the are a wolf, you'll get back upset energy such as 'How dare you, I am so holy already, I do not require any of your Divine Light! :) Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/20/16 09:44:47AM
373 posts

A question for Empaths


Empath

I read a book many, many years ago, about this woman who could supposedly channel dead composers & write music. (N.B. it was the time before Google and YouTube, so back then I believed it all, but have since heard some of the music on YouTube and it was not very Chopin etc.... Still....). At one point she asked those composers what heaven is like - and they said - 'In heaven everyone is psychic, and knows, feels and sees everything. As such for some people coming up there initially heaven is hell, as they cannot hide behind masks and or lies anymore....' It kinda made sense to me, and still does.

I guess most people would not mind if you feel their positive energy anyway, it is mostly about their negative energies that they might feel invaded. I rarely talk to e.g. my clients about what I fell though. For one I am never 100% sure if it is accurate, and I do not want to be insensitive either - 'Oh, you are very depressed again today!' . So I just take feeling such energies as a query for healing, which I channel for them.

As for social media posts I do not always feel something (maybe I am subconsciously blocking some stuff out, to not get overwhelmed?), but I think to have quite a good BS detector. Especially hanging about in a lot of spiritual forums, I usually feel/ understand quite quickly if someone has been brainwashed/ in a cult, or is a wanna be (manipulative) guru... The same way that I have gotten better at identifying narcissists over the years. But with sociopaths and narcissist I'd argue it is no invasion of privacy at all, rather it is a self-defense/ self-protection ability.... Reversely I am relatively good at telling if someone has a sensible, spiritual head on their shoulders (but maybe that is just them agreeing with what I believe? - lol).

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/19/16 02:45:37PM
373 posts

Strong energy field from someone


Empath

she might have had a strong aura, radiated a lot of energy? Considering she works with crystals, she is likely a healer? I have heard of QiGong Masters too, who can direct energy in a very focused manner....(there might be stuff on YouTube)

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@goodenergyhealing
06/19/16 01:33:52PM
373 posts

lonely


Empath

card blanche just means that you do not set any limit to the amount, frequency, strength, extend of help you receive. And if you still have any restricting believes, just tell your helpers to ignore them, protect you against them whilst they are still active, and help you get rid off them with time.... And do not worry, that does not mean that you'll have to turn into a Mother Theresa, nun or similar...:)

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@goodenergyhealing
06/19/16 10:05:17AM
373 posts

lonely


Empath

Sorry to hear your journey is currently so difficult!

If you have not already - I'd suggest to give the Divine card blanche as to the amount, frequency, strength and extend of healing&help you receive for yourself, your bodies, and your life. For things to be as free off suffering as possible! Many spiritual people consciously, or subconsciously limit the amount of help they can receive by e.g. believing they have 1 guardian angel only (but some problems might need armies of angels to solve (who are available and more than happy to help, but we have to 'allow' it). It might still take some time to heal the gross of your problems, but at least you can be confident that everything, in terms of spiritual help, is being done, that can be done.

I have had 10-15 years of relative loneliness. Some of it self-imposed, as I had CFS with depression, and kept on not wanting to bring people down, so I stayed away. Most of that is healed now though (Vit D really helped, as well as realizing that I am an empath and asking for regular cleansing of my energies of empathically taken on negativities). Still only barely a handful of good friends at the mo, but I am not sure if I would have the time for more anyway. I do need a fair amount of time to myself to regenerate my energies on a regular basis, and get rid again of mostly client energies (masseur and healer here). I am pretty certain that most of my CFS, etc was actually outside energies, trying to push me out of London, the UK, and previously Germany. And perhaps asking that energies like that are being healed/ removed has helped shift things too.

What has helped me too is to realize that as individualized divine Spirit, I am whole - I do not need anyone or anything in the outside to feel whole and content. Sure I did some soul retrieval work, bits and pieces lost, stolen or foolishly given away over times/ lives(?), but I do not need a partner to feel 'whole'. That plus realizing that I have a lot of spiritual help. friends/ support! I do not always feel them, and I cannot really touch or hug them, but they are there! I.e. physical solitude, lack of humans in ones life, does not mean one has to be without company....

So nowadays I rarely feel lonely. And if I do it is usually on a Sat night. Which makes me pretty certain that it is lonely energy flying about, from people who stop 'running' on the weekend, get a bit of time to think and reflect and then feelings of loneliness and unhappiness surface (about their life, job, friends, family etc.)). And when I feel into such people I usually find that many, despite maybe an apparent great circle of friends, the perfect job etc. , are much more lonely than I ever was. I think a lot of that is that people are disconnected on a deep level. They currently cannot feel the 'ONENESS', whereas most empath can. Sure even for empaths the Oneness feeling is not always there, but if I remind myself of it, I can usually re-establish the feeling/ connection quite quickly. And that feeling is sooo much more nourishing than any amount of disconnected friends or partners in the outside....

Hang in there - the ride can admittedly be tough at times, but suffering is only ever temporary - Love and Happiness are eternal!!! And if we tell the Divine that we have had enough of a suffering experience on this planet, they'll do their utmost to make the rest of our time here more effortless and happy!!!! Plus I have accepted that I need to help and support a lot, for things to shift. At the moment with many relationships in my life the positive energy flow seems to mainly be from me to them, but I do get plenty of positive energy form Spirit to make up for it....

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/19/16 06:01:59AM
373 posts

Empath Diet/Physical Issues


Empath

not an expert on diet, can only say this - make sure you get enough Vit D. Since I supplement high enough ( take 25.000-35.000 IU per week, but do read up on dosing yourself), it has really improved my energy, mood and immunity. Strong probiotics are a great staple for good immunity too... (e.g. Kefir, Kombucha....) Another good general tonic is Maca.

As for breathing issues, have started on Olive leaf extract 4 weeks back, to combat potential mycobacteria infection (helped a client get rid of his asthma, talking it for three months). I did not get tested for mycobacteria, but noticed that my lungs and bronchi cleared up (still do a bit), and some other old tendinitis issues seem to clear out....

All that and obviously if you do not already - regular energy cleansing meditation, especially connecting to healthy Earth energies. Many empath 'collect' negative energies that come to them, which can lead to physical symptoms....

http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/profiles/blogs/my-empath-experiences-and-empath-tools-for-healing

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/19/16 05:39:12AM
373 posts

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Empath

Hear, hear! Well, I supposed we can tell our ultimate good divine guides to stop helping us, as it is free will, they will oblige (unless we were to harm someone, who is under their protection). That could leave a bit of a vacuum though, that there is plenty of other less benevolent beings, who would be very happy to fill (and they do not necessarily stop guiding with their deluded ways, just because one asks them too....)

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/18/16 09:00:05PM
373 posts

Must be the reason I love storms


Empath

interesting - thanks for sharing

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/18/16 08:52:26PM
373 posts

Cleansing and dealing with different energies and feelings


Empath

Destructive? Uncontrolled? Sorry, but I do not get what you are talking about. Perhaps you did not actually read my comment?

I'm actually getting a few energies of feeling quite offended by your remarks, but I know they are not mine - and they'll pass through soon enough.

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/18/16 10:44:29AM
373 posts

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Empath

plus we are never 'alone'. We depend on the atoms that make up our body, the air we breath, etc. If you visualize a color of energy for healing (wherever the knowledge to do that comes form in the first place?), you are dependent on that colored energy to come and do your bidding....

We have free will, we can believe that we actually work 'alone', that does not mean though that those who decide to work in teams are any less capable, or effective....

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/18/16 10:21:06AM
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Empath

DemiPanda - not quite sure if that comment was meant for me? If so - you are free to believe that I doubt myself, and my abilities, I rather see it as the wisdom coming out of 20 years of spiritual work, and working with guides! Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/16/16 03:06:41PM
373 posts

Sharing is Caring


Empath

Glad you are not pissed off at my comments :)

I'd argue that we had supermarkets before 2000, so the world the e.g. Mayas knew, likely ended long before 2000 or 2012.... ;)

I cannot tell you for sure about your visions, and why you have them. As mentioned I was in a religious cult, where the guru kept on preaching that if we did not do enough spiritual work - pray, meditate, follow each and every of his directives to the letter - we as important spiritual catalysts, would cause humanity to not manage the transition and destroy itself... The guru was quite psychic, and did seem to be able to 'see' quite a few things, but in the end his actions were quite sociopathic. He basically (consciously or subconsciously???) manipulated his followers to be utterly dependent on him.... I had a few visions myself, which he at first affirmed were correct, but then weren't. E.g. I was told I used to be Moses, but then 2 months later he was identified as supposedly having been Moses in open regression in front of the group. (what a relief! - after an initial high - Hey I am celebrity! - lol, it all came crushing down when I realized that actually killing all first born is not really a very kind and compassionate way to act....). In another regression (done by myself) I was told I was Joseph Mengele, which again he at first affirmed, and then retracted a week later. Upon further research Mengele died in 1979, and I was born in 1971, so it was impossible anyway... ((nut supposedly having been Joseph Mengele almost had me kill myself in that week....) And there were other stories.... I had put a lot of trust in the guru, as he seemed quite capable, emanated this loving, warm energy, plus had been identified by several followers, during regressions, as having been Jesus, Buddha, etc.... Anyway, what I learned is that spiritual visions can be manipulated, and falsified. Not every spiritual entity out there is here to 'help' us. Many do not act with unconditional love, but have ulterior motives! Some are quiet psychotic, and they seem to feed of humans beings in fear, guilt, etc.

My solution, way out of this predicament was to make double sure that I make clear what kind of spiritual help I want to work with. If we do not specifically verbalize what energies we want to work with (and do not have specific prearranged contracts), all sorts of beings might feel invited.... Especially if one uses more or less generic terms like 'The Universe', 'Creation'. 'Source' this might contain both 'good' and 'bad' energies... Even just calling upon 'The Divine' some energies might feel invited, as they have the power of Gods, yet might not be all benevolent.... I therefore pray to (true) 'Ultimate Good' - and ask that Ultimate Good forces always protect, and assist me (especially during any spiritual work). If I channel healing energies, I ask to be 'hooked up' to Ultimate Good energies only, etc... Plus I have made it known that I do not want to suffer anymore, and given Ultimate Good card blanche as to the amount, frequency, extend, etc. of help they provide, so that my life is a effortless and suffering-free as possible!

If ever get any bad intuitions nowadays they are usually much smaller scale. Sometimes I e.g. get resistances about traveling to certain countries, so I might see my plane crashing before I get on. I then pray for healing/ help. protection - just in case, and get on anyway (I do not have the funds to keep re-booking flights). So far none of the flight have crashed :)

So yes, sometimes we might have visions that are warnings, some are just paranoia, some might be more genuine, BUT I believe that if they do concern outcomes that would make us suffer, we can ask for healing, so that they do not come to pass...

There is some more considerations obviously, but only so much I can put in a post here. If you are curious have a look at my blog www.alexander-king.com or 'look inside' my book on Amazon - 'Tours and Cures of a Lightsoldier'There is much more in the book about how I understand energies operate on this planet. Why suffering exists, how it is created etc.

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/16/16 06:30:19AM
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Empath

that should have said - 'armies of angels I sent, as well as the work and prayers of many other Lightworkers!'

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/16/16 06:25:31AM
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Empath

You did not say that there is a possibility that it 'could' happen - rather you said 'Get ready, were all waiting for the world to change, however it has to get worse before it can get better, this is the natural order of the universe.'

I do believe that there is more forces 'creating' on this planet/ in this universe than just 'thinking, feeling, believing humans', but we are part of the creational equation, so why not rather work against an Armageddon, rather than say - 'It has to happen!!' I do believe that (in tandem with the Divine) our believes, prayers can move mountains. There is nothing which is impossible!

And as for visions of Armageddon - the future is never set, it might be one possible future, but is is one among many! And in my experience such huge scary visions are usually sent by non-benevolent entities, especially if they are being tagged as 'inevitable'!

Sometimes it seems to me that some spiritual people are so gagging for a Utopian future down here (hey, it will be there once we leave our bodies again anyway!!!), they willingly sacrifice billions of lives, ignore the huge amounts of trauma this will cause, the decades of rebuilding, if not centuries of nuclear wastelands - likely they will not experience any better Utopia in their current physical forms anyway... (sure, I used to be in religious cult - the amount of guilt that was heaped upon us, was so incredible, Armageddon felt like the only option (there can be reasons why people believe in it that are somehwat more benevolent), and like such a relief. but all that guilt was misplaced!)

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/15/16 06:40:41PM
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Sharing is Caring


Empath

You might have heard about the Law of Attraction - and how our thoughts are (co-)creational forces? It always makes me wonder why anyone wants to believe (and possibly help create?) that apocalyptic melt downs are necessary for a new consciousness.

I've heard so many talk about this before 2012, and NOTHING! Before 2000 too - and NOTHING! Maybe it is the armies of angels that I send against such prognosis - to help me live in peace and without major catastrophe? I have had enough suffering in my life - I really do not need WWIII, famine, natural catastrophes, etc. So I kindly ask that any souls that are gagging for such experiences save them up for another life and planet, that I am not on at the time :)))

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/15/16 06:41:19AM
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EMPATH NEW FRIEND EXCHANGE


Empath

yeah - I used to have a few rows, especially with my father. My mum is a bit easier, but she too can 'block' when I say something about spirituality, that she does not want to hear....

On the upside - comparing my family to those of friends, etc. - over the years we have become more and more harmonious. Sure if took a few years (and luckily I always had a great connection to my sisters), but it seems possible. After 20 years of praying for him, and sending distant healing, my atheist father even accepted one-on-one Reiki off me, last time I visited. Took 20 years, but hey ;)

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/15/16 06:30:34AM
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Energy body restoration/ soul retrieval


Healers

I know I read somewhere that supposedly the more we progress, the 'richer' our chakra colours get. So e.g. our throat chakra would change from light blue to dark blue. Might have something to do with being able to channel more energies, more concentrated energies? But again, I do similar as yourself, either be guided to a colour, or leave the color choice up to my guides :))

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/15/16 06:25:31AM
373 posts

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Empath

yes - intend is key. I sometimes also work with spiritual homeopathic remedies, especially if I know which substance might have harmed me (or a client). In which case I ask for a spiritual homeopathic remedy of that substance....

Coming back to guides (N.B. I respect your choice, but just putting my experience out there) - there is several reasons why I work with them.

- Protections - To me protections include healing the source of any energy disaffecting me. E.g. I used to have problems traveling back , and visiting my home-country Germany. It seemed that some collective subconscious German energies, tried to prevent me from re-entering the country. So I asked that they are dealt with. Took a few years, but now, I do not get traveling resistance anymore. (and on a more day-to day basis some clients seem to come with confused collective subconscious energies attached too - be that through country/ place of residence or origin, their profession, religious affiliation, or else...) Now if one deals with energies possibly built up (and supported) by millions, I am not going to attempt to deal with them alone! And I might add, a lot of times I do not know the 'exact' source of energies disaffecting me anyway - but my guides will!

Protection works both ways too. I also ask for protections of the 'outside', against any low vibration energies I might still generate, or which pass through me (so that I do not keep feeding other low vibration energies, or harm anyone...). I obviously try to think 'right', but it is not always possible (yet). So working with guides, they can help protect the outside, and or heal any damage still caused asap (wherever and whatever that may be....)

- I mentioned safe disposal of cleared energies, which again becomes especially easier with large scale healings.

- I still keep learning, and I believe that every-time I do learn something 'new' it is through intuition from my guides... And some procedures, like psychic surgery - I rather leave up to my guides (as I have no clue if there might e.g. be etheric arteries, or such, that damaging might cause potential problems.... )

With all that - I do not feel like I am taking 'the help' for granted, and don't do anything myself. I do offer my body as a channel (both (good energies) in and (bad energies) 'out'('out' - where necessary, and especially 'out' can be somewhat uncomfortable). Often my whole body seems to engage in healings, I am tensing all my muscles, as if to 'hold a frequency', trying my best to keep negative thoughts and emotions out. Plus there is obviously the time-commitment....

Generally I ask for as much, strong, capable, and extended Help as necessary, possible, available and sensible - so I am confident that if my guides think that I can manage by myself (and they prefer watching form the side-lines, or having a Margarita instead, they will do so ;))

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/14/16 07:42:44PM
373 posts

Cleansing and dealing with different energies and feelings


Empath

why do you not like working with guides?

I initially had some bad experiences with 'light' energies, but then found that they weren't true Light energies - not all Ultimate Good, and unconditional Help and Love. But since I pray to what I call 'Ultimate Good' (free off any misguided religious guilt/ teachings, etc.) - I have not had anymore such problems....

I'm sure there is 'good' black energy too (after all most of the Universe is 'black'), and I would allow it if my Ultimate Good helpers bring it in, but with the overall connotations on 'black' energies down here, I do not actively visualize it.... That said many healers, many different methods....

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/14/16 05:10:29PM
373 posts

Energy body restoration/ soul retrieval


Healers

yeah - 'killing' anything can be a challenge. But in the end it is transmutation. So if I take antibiotics, bacteria will die, but their souls live on (and will likely have other physical incarnations). I pray that their release is a painfree as possible (who knows maybe it is even enjoyable for them?). I have become somewhat more rational too though. our own (God-given, if you like) immune system kills millions of bacteria every day....Any negative energy (in what ever shape and form) coming to me these days is not 'invited' anymore. I have made it clear that I do not want to suffer! I have asked for loads of (spiritual) tattoos, signs etc., on my bodies - WARNING all negative energies coming to me - ''This will be the end of your existence, as you currently know it - as I will sent you on into Light!'. If they cross the threshold none-the-less, I surmise they are, on some level, tired of being the bad boys, and just want to go home (into the Light), for healing.....

As for cleared areas - I once heard/ read that golden energy is best to fill those up. But in the end I rarely visualize anything too specific these days, and just leave it up to the healing energies to complete their work as best as possible.... So they might well, use, green, or other colours too. Or as per the above one could even visualize little body building blocks flowing in and rebuilding whatever structures had been dismantled by previous negative energies? Or the Light (whichever colour), one used to fill a void, transmutes into more permanent structures?

Love and Light!

P.S. Well done on your healing successes!!!!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/14/16 04:52:47PM
373 posts

What is this???


Empath

I think he has a point to a degree.... Please be aware though that he argues about empathy, not 'empaths'. And perhaps he should have added - short-sighted empathy? I agree though that it is not rare that humans look for short term relief of suffering - their own, or that of others. They will do the minimum to find some relief,and then keep ignoring the actual root causes of that suffering (unless it bites them in the bum so hard, it cannot be ignored further). And some people just get so enveloped in drama, their emotions block any rational and more long term strategic thinking.... I guess it is rarely ill-intended though. Many people might neither have the time, energy, resources, or education to do more....There might be some intellectual arrogance in his talk? He is basically ranting, possibly with a cause, but without giving the people better tools to help (themselves or others). Without giving people better understanding and tools though, any rant is pretty much moot....

I guess as empath most of us will deal/ have dealt with so many negative emotions, we know how they can get in the way of good decision making, and effective healing processes? I might be projecting? I am definitely not without compassion, but I have been called a heartless monster more than once, when calling people's 'drama games', and not playing along - lol. As such many of us will be more long term thinkers. Also many of us feel suffering to it's root cause, so we do not just apply band aids. when helping heal...

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/14/16 04:31:57PM
373 posts

Cleansing and dealing with different energies and feelings


Empath

I'd suggest some additions - if you have any higher believes always invite divine healers/ healers/ guides to join, guide, and support any self-healing work (or work on others). Ask to be connected to ultimate good Divine energies to be the healing medium. Being connected one can also ask that removed negative, or stale energies are taken up, and taken away into divine rehab. Transferring negative energy to objects might work, but the risk remains that that object falls into wrong hands, the energy escapes, etc. Working with large sources of benevolent energies - Divine, Earth, Sun etc. one can be far more certain that negative energies are being dealt with safely....

I am not sure I understand your red and black energy thing? You say that red energy is stronger than black, but black can turn red into black? Would that not make the black energy stronger? And if black energy is dangerous, why not just work with Light energy? White energy? So far I never had problems removing any energies working with Divine support, or Reiki. Sure, sometimes it can take a few sessions. Sometimes it seems that actually hard to remove negative energies are supported by negative energies on the outside too, so one has to ask that those outside energies are combated/ healed too... (P.S. I have dealt with too many negative energies in this life, to trust any of them. They might seduce, and be helpful for a time, but eventually they will likely demand an outrageous price, and then you have to call on the Light forces for help, as pretty much only recourse... So why not only work with Light from the outset? Sometimes dark energies promise faster healings, and they might actually be able to achieve them too, but it is like a Mafia boss, who has sent hooligans to your place of work, or home, and trashed it, and then promises you to protect you against those hooligans, if you pay him/ her. Sure if one pays, the hooliganism stops straight away, but one just feeds a bad system....)

Love and Light

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/13/16 05:46:36PM
373 posts

Energy body restoration/ soul retrieval


Healers

Hey All - thought I'd share something and see if there is any feedback from fellow healers?

So I have known about 'Soul Retrieval' for a long time. I.e. some of us loose parts of our soul over time, potentially across lives. I used to follow what I read though, i.e. such things happen due to e.g. trauma. Soul parts split off and are lost through quite 'large' and powerful events. Or one e.g. gives parts of his/ her heart away, and with a bad break up, they are lost with the ex.... We might obviously have such injuries brought forward through past generations, carried over through DNA too...Sure there might also be 'theft' of soul parts, but surely that would require quite adept black magicians, and might hence be relatively rare?

As such I have done a few 'soul retrieval meditations'. I did feel stuff when doing them, and they felt 'right', but perhaps because I did not see any other way I might loose bits of my soul/ of my energetic bodies - I only did a few....

Now I have started on Olive Leaf Extract a few weeks back. Supposedly it helps eradicate mycobacterium (very small bacteria, kind of sized between regular bacteria and viruses. They do not have a cell wall, and are supposedly too small for white blood cells to see - so they can proliferate and cause all sorts of problem - ME, Arthritis, Autoimmune diseases, etc, etc.) A client's mother had sudden onset arthritis, without arthritis blood markers, but ended up in a wheel chair within a month. The haematologist found mycobacterium and put her on Olive leaf extract for three months, which got rid of the mycobacterium and her arthritis! My client, mycobacterium positive too, took it too, and got rid of his asthma! I figured with a history of ME, I might as well try too. I have definitely have felt stuff shifting since. My bronchi clearing up, and some old tendinitis pains clearing out, not too sure yet though if my energy levels are better (but too soon to tell).... Anyway - trying to understand how mycobacterium work, I had this intuition, that they are like energy back doors. I.e. if a negative energy wants to 'attack' me - they use mycobacterium they find in my system (there might be other back doors, of course), So that is why I sometimes feel normal, and when I have a heavy energy client, I get all their stuff?

I had another intuition though - namely that such back doors can cause energy leakage too. Not only of maintenance energy, but of structural energies too! On the physical plain maintenance energy would be like water, salts, glucose, or even blood. Stuff that can be replaced without scarring! Structural energies would be your organs - muscles, skin, heart, kidneys, etc.... I.e. loosing bits of those can lead to scarring, and worse!

So I have this feeling that there is energies that can sit inside of us, and be relatively undetected, as they are so small, and do not always cause any major short term negative symptoms, but which might leak away bits of our soul over time? Like teeny flesh eating bacteria? It might not just be mycobacterium - but perhaps that is how dementia energies work (eating away memories), some other illnesses, and maybe even ageing?

So besides energy healings, cleanings, protections and recharges - I now also ask for energy 'restorations'. I can only say that it 'feels right'. Before I always saw healing energies mostly as kind of water, food, vitamins for the soul, but now I feel, some have more substance/ do much more structural work/ filling up too? My healing work feels more complete somehow. I cannot guarantee yet that it is not just some maniac idea of mine (desperate to heal the lightening of my hair, on top of my head, etc. - lol). But I figured that it is too exciting an idea not to share. So if you play around with it, let me know what you feel. or perhaps you had realized this all already?

Love and Light!


updated by @goodenergyhealing: 07/11/17 02:11:01PM
Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/11/16 06:46:47PM
373 posts

Feeling the Love


Empath

sorry - I am with Trevor and Lavender&Rose here.

LOVE is often sold as these wonderful pink shades, in the spiritual/ esoteric community. Supposedly if you wear those shades, not only does everything look pink and wonderful, but supposedly everything turns into the wonderful too! You put those shades on and 'phoof' -> Paradise! Don't get me wrong, I do believe that LOVE and ULTIMATE GOOD are the actual and only real realities in eternity, BUT we live on a SUFFERING planet. We are allowed to experience the opposite of LOVE here - in MANY shapes and forms. These suffering energies are often built quite sturdy! Shining a bit of LIGHT on them does not always just make them evaporate. Even drafting in armies of angels (I do ask for those (and higher up the Angel Hierarchy!)) some suffering constructs take a long time to dismantle!

Sure my life has gotten easier in some respects, since becoming spiritual (some of that is due to asking for protections!), but some healing processes took years. You could say that my LOVE just was not great enough to dissolve my obstacles (but you'd also be saying that the LOVE of armies of angels does not suffice....).

And as for avoiding all suffering. It cannot always be done! Plus I see myself as a healer, and just like a doctor cannot avoid seeing sick people, as a healer, I cannot avoid encountering sick energies. I give them all the LOVE, WISDOM etc I have (plus ALOT of divine HELP), but it is still a tough job many days!

Perhaps you don't intend to - but your comment sounds like reprimand. I do not feel encouragement and support, but more telling people off for (rightfully) shielding, and supposedly not loving enough!

Love and Light!

Goodenergyhealing
@goodenergyhealing
06/11/16 04:44:32AM
373 posts

Is it ok to tell people about being an empath?


Empath

I cannot really answer tat question, as I would not tell anyone to not tell anyone (anymore). Maybe I had learned to stand up for who and what I am, when I came out as gay (years before my spiritual coming out) . Realizing that I am an empath was just another facet of my being that I became aware of. That said it took me years to be firm in my diagnosis that I am an empath. Being an empath goes against so many other spiritual teachings - which usually tell you that you have to take responsibility for all your emotions, and that they are all self-generated. As such I observed my feelings and thoughts for years, before I was firm in my diagnosis of being clairsentient (the term empath I only found later on). It is all in a book now I have written too, so there is no way to 'hide' it anymore.

So I do not know your life circumstances, there might be reasons why you do not want to be 'open' about your abilities (heck, I would not run around screaming I am gay in a homophobe country either), but it does sometimes also pay to have a closer look at the reasons why we do not openly admit to all facets of our being - and get rid of any unnecessary potential shame...

Love and Light!

 
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