Forum Activity for @tigerlily

TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/28/16 09:18:09PM
336 posts

Dealing with a narcissist that is a freind of a freinds


Empath

Tough situation! Have you spoke to your friend about not bringing the narc around?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/28/16 09:15:27PM
336 posts

Empathic sensitivity to earth locations and their energies.


Empath

I've had a few experiences where I've gone and just felt amazing positive energy. Sometimes it gets crazy where I have to go to that place now. I thought maybe it had something to do with past life, or just that there may be a connection or person there I'm supposed to meet.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/28/16 09:09:47PM
336 posts

Why do I attract crazy? Do you?


Empath

I feel like I keep attracting people who need help, mentally unstable etc. That when I meet "normal" they carry on in life. This is becoming difficult to make new friends or even a partner in life.I'd like to hear your experiences, thoughts, suggestions, etc.
updated by @tigerlily: 03/15/17 04:41:26PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/21/16 08:06:29AM
336 posts

Abortion and Empaths


Empath

I'm not one to have an abortion, if someone else wants to it is their life. I miscarried years ago and the emotional pain of that still comes to me from time to time. I'm not sure I understand how a woman or couple can come to a conclusion to abort, as it makes me shaky and uneasy inside. Not sure if it's because I lost a baby, not by choice, or if it really is the energy I'm picking up from that woman or couple or unborn baby.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/21/16 07:53:28AM
336 posts

Spiritual Energy


Empath

Alot of my friends get goosebumps around spiritual energy. I've had a few tell me they get boost bumps around me, and that's how they can tell how spiritual I am.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/11/16 07:10:35PM
336 posts



You are definatly getting what you asked for, that is awesome!!! It's the most amazing feeling ever. I've been having alot of this myself and it's almost to good to be true, right?As long as you are clear with what you want, you will get.Maybe this guy was brought to you as someone who has potential and you will move in with him???
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/11/16 07:04:18PM
336 posts

How can I deal with being ugly and social anxiety


Empath

Beauty is inner deep. Some of the most beautiful people are actually ugly because of their personalities and how they carry themselves.I've been told many times I'm beautiful, but I still get people being mean to me. And with those people I pick up alot of jelousy, insecurities, depression, narcissism, etc. But I don't allow for them to push me around, to an extent because alot is at work and I have to keep it professional :) But yet, I've also had people point out my imperfections because to compensate for theirs. It's made me insecure lol.It really is a cruel world and I try to not let it bother me but I sense it everyday. It's great on those days when I'm somewhere and I don't sense it alot.I think it's best to look at yourself for all the beauty you do have. You have a good heart, and I bet you are not ugly as you say. I think you've met to many judgy people, that's affected your self esteem. I bet once you can find that in you, your esteem will pick up and you will handle those situations differently. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/11/16 06:49:54PM
336 posts

Dating


Empath

I really don't see too much on dating. But I'm struggling here and need help.I've been actively dating to find a partner, and it's really hard on me because after one date I guess you can say "you just know" lol. It's online dating I'm mostly doing. I think we as empaths can just pick up on that right away. My friends don't understand this and think I'm being picky. But the "vibes" I get are all over. Insecurities, desperation, not interested, depression, negativity etc these are all things I feel right away on the first date from the guy. And some I get such a bad feeling before I even meet them, and then I know why. (Even though texting and online profiles seem fine)But, I feel like when I meet one who has great positive energy and he shows interest as well and I think it's going somewhere. All of a sudden I feel like I get this feeling out of nowhere they are not interested. It really bothers me because, not only does it happen often, but I get upset. It's like his excitement combined with mine excitement, I'm just way overly excited that it probably scares them off. I have no idea how to control this. I almost feel like a different person.(I'm currently going through this now, met a great guy, good vibes, have butterflies. And guess he's had "long" days the past 2 days, but is at least reaching out just to say hi) I'm trying not come off as desperate, but this double excitement is hard to tame, along with this not interested feeling. I don't know how to go with the flow with someone who has good positive energy?
updated by @tigerlily: 01/12/17 07:45:41AM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/11/16 06:34:45PM
336 posts

Negative energy


Empath

Your coworker needs boundaries. Mine did this to me, and when I told him I didn't want to hear it anymore he laughed and walked away. Few days later he did it again and I said I'm sorry but I just can't hear this right now. He got really upset, and we'll that's on him. I set the boundary and he disrespected it.You don't owe him anything. He has to deal with his problems not you. I'm sure you can tell him nicely neXT time "I'm sorry you are having a hard time, but I'm really busy now and have to focus on work" hell get it. Or just let him stand there and don't make eye contact back.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/19/16 07:23:40AM
336 posts

Empath Diet/Physical Issues


Empath

So, what you described about the breathing I get the same. But I noticed it's when people come at me with their problems to fix. One day in particular was so bad my chest hurt I couldn't breathe and my heart rate was 115. That's when I said enough to people and dumping their problems on me. Try to recall what you are thinking about, who you are talking too that this happens. Also, you mention you haven't worked out so you could just be out of shape adding to it, take it slow. I think you have anxiety as anxiety does that as well.Diet. I'm the same way with carbs, mix some protein into it. I do have glucose issues, reactive hypoglycemia. I get hypoglycemia after eating carbs n sugar. One of the symptoms is hungry after eating. But you can also get a tight chest and shortness of breath if your glucose is dropping. So maybe since you are still hungry that could also explain the chest issue. But if you dont have glucose issues, try adding protein to it. The protein helps slow down the digestion, add a little good fat - even better :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/07/16 03:43:09PM
336 posts

Dreams that actually happen?


Dreams

I'm with you on that one. Death dreams scare me, and I keep to myself for fear the other person will think I contributed to that.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/07/16 03:41:41PM
336 posts

Dreams that actually happen?


Dreams

That is amazing on the lottery tickets!!!I had a dream that a friend got a new cell phone number, but I can only see the first 3 digits in the dream. Then I had like 2 dreams after tgat we were communicating via cell. Thought it was weird at first. Few weeks later I kept getting texts messages from a number but no one would tell me who it was. Later I found it was him and recalled tgat dream as the numbers were the same 3 digits lol.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/06/16 06:49:10PM
336 posts

Feeling So Hopeful


Empath

If the job is going to be toxic I get bad feelings in my gut. If the job will be good I'm so excited I can't stand it lol. That's the best way I learned all these years, was through my gut.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/06/16 06:45:23PM
336 posts

Broken heart, and loneliness


Empath

Just remember this. You can't help someone who doesn't want it or refuse to do it themselves. I think the more you try, the more you'll suffer. If she isn't willing to change her life, just be happy for her. That will save your friendship. Boundaries as well :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/06/16 05:05:30PM
336 posts

Broken heart, and loneliness


Empath

This seems to be a very common issue most empaths have. People who need help are just drawn to us, and when they get what they need to fulfill their happiness from us they are gone, and we are left tired, drained, upset, etc.I firmly believe happiness comes from within, and to find that you have to start developing better boundaries. These people tgat suck us dry like a vampire would, just cant. I know for myself when I started doing this I was so happy all the time and I started attracting people who don't need my help. Once someone new comes into the picture, I learned to go with gut. Alot of times, well ok all the time, those that do use me for help I get a bad feeling about. Those I have to set the boundaries with.Test it out for yourself. I think you will find someone one day. And when someone starts ranting about their bad just say "I'm sorry" don't get to involved in their drama or whatever it is they are going through.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/06/16 04:54:14PM
336 posts

Dreams that actually happen?


Dreams

I've noticed this too with myself. I think we all have some psychicNess in our dreams. Do you journal? I started keeping one and when i go back i find alot of it coming true. Plus I remember then more. A friend of mine is totally psychic in her dreams.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/04/16 10:18:52PM
336 posts

Why do I feed bad for not helping someone?


Empath

Thank you! I'm most definitely going to get the book.Update. Since this incident he has not spoken to me at work and my boss told me I basically needed to be a little more sympathetic to his feelings. How is this blowing up in my face? I really don't understand.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/04/16 12:54:29PM
336 posts

empaths and your parents; some questions for you.


Empath

My father totallt is. He doesn't talk about it, until I asked him one day lol. He is really gifted when it comes to people, and not falling for people who need help. It's like he knows to only help when that person genuinely needs it. He's even pushed away family, and then bent over backwards for others. I know those family members and see why he did that.He has always said things here and there "I just don't like them" "they feel abnormal" "he is going through alot of pain" "I like this one as he is happy" And he never even said one word to them lol.He told me if I didn't want to be taken advantage of by people, to be mentally strong. From as a kid, and his book collection now, it's all about self help and strengthening yourself.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/01/16 07:27:39PM
336 posts

Why do I feed bad for not helping someone?


Empath

Lavender you nailed it! I'm always told I'm mean if I don't listen or be there for someone. But again, he is a coworker and not family or close friends.Today my coworker tried to talk to me about his problems again and I set the boundaries again, only he didn't allow me to finish, He got so mad he stomped away and slammed stuff around his desk. His responses were cold and shutting me out in work related things.And to think, I feel bad for him and he throws a temper tantrum. He made me feel like a terrible person. I left early and went home and cried. Called my boss.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/01/16 04:39:58AM
336 posts

Why do I feed bad for not helping someone?


Empath

But that's the thing, helping others not always makes me feel good long term. Because at the end of the day I'm drained and bitter and cranky. I can do what I can to clear it. But as you mention, he'll become dependent on me. Then I just dump on others, or I lock myself in my home.The whole reason why I opted to keep at a distance from these people because I was depressed and had alot of anxiety. The day I had a few of my personal close friends all coming at me through text with their issues, my heart rate was 115. IT felt like I was at the gym. I knew at this point this wasn't healthy and told each one to just stop. And these are my girls, people I love and care for. So with strangers, my blood pressure must be through the roof.Since then I have never felt better, my confidence and self esteem has improved. And "I" feel so happy! I haven't felt this happy in a long time.As for my coworker, I've only known for a few months. His issues/problems are real, and yes hard to go through right now. But as my friend told, it's his destiny in life to go through and not mine. She did say it's not fair, and that he sounds like an energy vampire. I seriously thought I was going to have a heart attack yesterday from his emotions.Whenever this happens, I just feel like energy around me like someone is watching me. I like to think it's my guardian angels. As when I'm happy I don't feel this energy presence as much.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/31/16 09:28:05PM
336 posts



Omg! I can totally relate. I feel this at my parents house and my last 3 apartments. Sometimes I don't feel it at all where I live now and sometimes I do.I have no idea if it is some type of residual energy or spirits you are feeling. My chakra lady told me its spirits trying to connect with me, and to accept my gift. For you, I wouldn't doubt if it was the house, especially if you are not feeling it now.I'd say keep your new place clean and don't allow any blockages for good flow of energy.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/31/16 09:16:59PM
336 posts



Yes. I'm finding it harder to make new friends. Like you, it's like the people use you until they feel better and move on. But if you won't help them, then you are a bad person. I keep attracting people who just need my help and I've starter setting better boundaries, and now I've got a coworker where my boundaries don't work anD I feel bad. Sometimes I feel like moving away but I know it won't solve any problems.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/31/16 09:10:45PM
336 posts

Why do I feed bad for not helping someone?


Empath

I've been doing really good staying away from negative people or people with deep rooted issues. It was really weighing me down. Since I broke from that I've been so much happier. My coworker is going through a really hard time and just started talking to me about it, and originally I thought "here we go again" I told him already once to not speak to me anymore about this and to keep it professiobal. Today he was really sad and he tried several times to talk but I pushed him away.But why do I feel bad about it? All day I could feel him dying inside to talk to me about his issues. Anyone have any good advice on how I can start not feeling so bad?
updated by @tigerlily: 12/24/17 08:48:29PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/21/16 04:35:59PM
336 posts



I am going through this myself. I feel there are alot of people around as you described. For me once I broke out of putting others first then me, I was really able to fix the things with me. Which did require some isolation. Now that I'm going out more and meeting new people, I can't stand it. It's like people are so focused on their looks and image and how others will see them, they forget mental health is just as important. We are all different and unique in our ways and not everyone will look like models or celebrities. Or the people who do things for others, only do that so they appear good. Not because you are helping society, but because they think people will perceive them better. Does that make sense? Seems like doing for yourself almost doesn't exist anymore and it's sad.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/09/16 07:13:02PM
336 posts

How do I break the chord?


Empath

I don't know either lol. I'm a pretty happy person and in my own life. And I do understand I cannot make anyone be with me, but if I'm trying to date and meet other men and the signs/synchronicity start happening with new guys. I just find it weird like the universe is saying different. And again I'm not looking for it. Like one guy i datex spoke of a corporation and the name of the Corp waa mystery man's name. The second guy took me to a cafe with his name, and then invited me to dinner to a restaurant with that same name. I told my best friend and she's like "oh that's really weird" lol. I feel like the universe is just constantly throwing it out there about this man. But again, I can't make him date me. That's why I was thinking is it best to figure out how to cut the chord? And dreaming of him, and he calls the next day? I just try to roll with it.I also know we have many soul mates not one. I think society has embellished the term soul mate to an extent.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/09/16 05:16:13AM
336 posts

How do I break the chord?


Empath

My one ex was totally unhealthy, I thought I was done with him but he continues to reach out every few months, and I just ignore him. So his I'd like to cut.But I speak more of a man whom my chakra lady tells me I'm soul connected to, a soul mate. He has never once needed my help or dumped his problems on me. I understand just because he may be a soul mate, we may not be together romantically. However, deep inside I feel differently. I don't wait for him, I do date others and plan things in life accordingly . And now I'm seeing signs/synchronicity with these new men in regards to my mystery man. I can't help but to think wtf. I have no idea if this is healthy or not with him, I've been trying to go with the flow and let it unfold. But it's bothering me this is happening with new relationships.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/08/16 08:17:27PM
336 posts

How do I break the chord?


Empath

I've read alot on here about people breaking the chord amd I'd like to learn how?I think this maybe difficult as the signs and synchronicity with this person has just been fascinating. As well as everytime i dream about this person, the next day they call. Happens every time.
updated by @tigerlily: 01/29/17 06:18:54PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/05/16 08:13:34PM
336 posts

How do other people's emotions effect you?


Empath

Yes! You nailed it to a T, and I can relate. The staring can sometimes make me uncomfortable. Or if the person dislikes me it's like this thick mist, thick like pea soup. Or when someone is so stressed or suffering from something awful its like supermans cape trailing behind them, and if I'm in it I feel like my equilibrium is off and I have to get out of it. But the happy people, I love them. To me it's tgat feeling everyone should feel this way :)As for "the one" I think you met him too. This is probably feelings you never felt before. And it is, it hits way deep into your soul.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/05/16 07:56:01PM
336 posts

Am I an Empath or a Emotional Manipulator?


Empath

Yes. And this may came across as strong but, he drove me nuts I had to can him. Nothing I said or could do helped him. He couldn't stand when I did something for me tgat made me happy, and his way of making me happy was not. He disregarded alot of what I wanted or said so he can have it for him. I'm very accomadating, but this was just leaving me more and more unhappy causing me anxiety and panic attacks. Once we finally ended it, it was almost instant I felt better.This is your wife, so I understand you can't just leave her, but I feel your hands are up in the air now and are exhausted. Have you talked about her seeing a therapist? Or if she is seeing one, to go more often and have the therapist assign homework. She really needs to start within her to fix it, and not really so much on you. She'll never really get better if you keep trying to do this for her.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/05/16 07:16:09PM
336 posts

Too much positivity?


Empath

I think there is NOTHING wrong with being positive and happy. It's healthy. Those who are not so much and more negative, I think that's their issue. We can't control how they feel, but we can control to not be around it if it's going to bring us down. Life has so much to offer if you take up on it. Those that don't, let them be and let them drown in their sorrows. Sometimes I feel that people who do have a problem with the positivity and happiness from you, is their own jelousy and insecurities. Where they say "I wish I can be more like you" well you can, they just choose not too. They look at all the wrongs versus all the rights. Have you ever met someone going through a hard time and they always have a smile on their face? They don't allow that to bring them down, they see it as a life obstacle and one day it will be over. That's what I strive to be more and more each day. For me personally I'm done with those negative people and I can't help you be happier like they ask. And I really tried over the years with people, and in the end my energy was just sucked out. I think with our gift it is harder on us to be positive and happy when we can see and feel so much sorrow in this world, and want to help.I really don't think you should tone it down. This is who you are. Don't change yourself because someone can't handle it, it really isn't fair to you. All you can do is change how often to be around these people or look for new friends.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/03/16 12:08:02PM
336 posts

How important is your diet


Empath

It took me about 2 1/2 months.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/03/16 05:59:22AM
336 posts

How important is your diet


Empath

Sugar is so hard! I even had to cut out fruit, ugh. I waa consuming way too much sugar, but then again my third chakra was way out of balance. I'm a big believer in mind body healing. So, once I got my diet straight and worked on that chakra I feel like a million bucks. I notice on days where my confidence lacks or dress like a tomboy or a lil more negative the hypos come back. My intuition also feels jumbled up. So weird!!! Lol
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/02/16 07:11:26PM
336 posts

How important is your diet


Empath

You know what, i never thought about diet. And the past several months i noticed in me a changed person. I'm sure all the self work I did contributed, but I also dramatically changed my diet. My glucose levels were dropping to low and the dr ordered I change my diet b4 my pancreas shut down turning me to diabetic. I'm on high protein, good fats, very low carbs, and almost no sugar. I did a chakra reading to find out more of what is going on with me and why this was happening and my third chakra was really unbalanced it was clouding my intuition. Now that I have the diet down to a Tee, I feel amazing. My intuition is really good again, I'm having very vivid dreams again. Im getting back to staying away from toxic people, and more. It's all happening so fast I can't comprehend sometimes lol. If it is diet, I think it just enhanced everything as I had to do alot of work on me as well.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/02/16 07:01:59PM
336 posts

Have you told anyone about your ability?


Empath

I've told my friends and they think I'm crazy. My father is the same way, but he knows good boundaries. I used to never understand how he knew how I felt even when I lied about it lol. But now I understand. I'm still no expert at this, but everyday is a learning experience. Sometimes I can tell through text messages or their pics how they are feeling, and when I comment on it they lie amd say they don't feel that way. But truth comes out later, and in the end I was right about their feelings. My one friend now believes she's an empath and to me it was "I told you so"
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/02/16 06:54:02PM
336 posts



Halime, I totally understamd your poibt. It's sometimes not always about men, it's the women whom we are friends with or new women friends that this happens to as well. For me, I have a great relationship with my parents and still call them every other day and visit more than my siblings. They trully are my best friends. I think what it comes down is as an empath, we are genuine and kind hearted. These "broken" people from my experience have a lot insecurities, have depression, lack cofidence/esteem etc. They see how nice or humble we are and probably envious of it. I know for me these broken people comment on that with me, my confidence etc. It's really hard for them to find out where to begin with the self healing. We as empaths probably know better how to fix this? If that makes sense? But again, I can only speak for my experiences and what I did for myself to raise my confidence/esteem, work on my insecurities and trully love myself. With tgat knowledge and what I did for me, I felt I could help them. Yet in the end I realized they were just draining me with problems and negativity. Now, I just can't help people anymore amd learning to establish better boundaries. Its hard for me, but i have to do it. And i always value the opinions and advice of others. It still good for us to talk about this and help each other go through this. All the dumping people do on us, it's almost natural to dump in another way and see what others to do to release this energy.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/02/16 10:00:58AM
336 posts

Psychic through dreams?


Empath

Those types of dreams you have mentioned happen like rarely for me, so I guess 10% of the time. Rarely ever what I watch before bed or think about b4 bed do I dream. And if I do, I debunk it to the night b4. Recently I've had a few dreams about whales (funny you mention dolphins) because the other day my friend asked to go to California and it will be whale watching season. Which I had no intention of going to California this year and whale watching. So I'm not sure if it's it related or if this part of me will strengthen with journaling.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/02/16 04:56:08AM
336 posts

Psychic through dreams?


Empath

I noticed the past few months a few dreams have come true. I started a dream journal. Some of have been so significant that I actually remember them without the journal, and recently come true. I've never been so aware of my dreams until the past year, and more so the past 6 months.People say what you go to bed thinking about is what you dream about and that doesn't hold true for me, ok maybe 10% of the time it's true. I think I'm also having past life dreams. I guess I'm a little scared yet fascibated and at this point can't differentiate between, future, past life, or my subconscious worries. Besides the journal, anything else I can do? Or does anyone else have this? It feels like also since I've been Journaling my intuition has gotten better.P.S. I find it funny how I got a fortune cookie yesterday saying "you were born with a 6th sense and a superb insight" Because a few days ago another dream came true and I was like "wow, I can't believe this" lol
updated by @tigerlily: 02/08/17 08:33:00AM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/02/16 04:45:29AM
336 posts



I have the same problem. My one ex cheated on me, and the one after was also very insecure and he flirted with other women. After them all the dating I have dine, once again "broken" men. I learned from the first 2, and ran from those others. Once I started understanding our gift better, it helped me pick up that "broken" alot quicker. I still attract "broken" people in general and it's annoying. It kind of did hurt my confidence and esteem thinking "is this all I'm worthy of" I wish I knew how to attract different. Right now I managed to get my confidence and esteem up once again, and I think by doing that I'm able to put better boundaries. But, they still come, ugh. My friend told me I come across very nice and genuine, as I assume everyone else on this site does as well. But when I act a lil mean, I feel it closes me off to our gift, and I learned to love the gift at times. I'll let you all know if setting boundaries really helps and attracts different people, my new test :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/25/16 08:19:54PM
336 posts

Meeting new people


Empath

Yes! New friends and no counseling lol. There's more to talk about in this world than problems. Whenever I have one people don't care to listen and make it all about them, it's like I give up.I'd love to take a class.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/25/16 07:01:59PM
336 posts

Meeting new people


Empath

I mostly get the "you are so easy to talk to and a good listener" lol. I don't really think I've had the soulmate thing lol. But I do agree with you, some things get shared to quickly and next thing I know all this person wants to do is complain all the time.I'm trying better boundaries with a new coworker, as a test for myself. Yet he keeps talking about his problems, even when I just get up and walk away lol. I get what you mean about being closed off, but maybe we just need to be smarter about who to help?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/18/16 04:56:57AM
336 posts

Any empaths have digestive problems?


Empath

I also suffer from non diabetic hypoglycemia, made a dramatic change to my diet and it has helped my digestive issues tremendously. I also live in a big city, and retreat out from time to time and notice a big difference in how I feel. I plan out moving for good next year as I couldn't believe all my nature escapades and love for the water has been so cleansing.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/15/16 04:38:34AM
336 posts

Meeting new people


Empath

I really understand now I cant "save" anyone unless they are willing to "save" themselves. Yes I have tried helping people because of what I went through, but it turned out it was a waste of energy. I saw a psychic and he told me this was a common theme with people in my life and why I never became a counselor. All this was happening even before my bad time.I think you are right and I need to start sending out different vibes. My cousin also told me last night that it's hard for my friend to accept and see my happy and confident in life and she's not. (I recently had a friend explode on me because I couldn't help her) I really didn't feel I deserved that after all her "what do I do, you have to tell me what to do" People even have called me some rude names when I told them "you have to figure this out as I can't make decisions for your life"
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/14/16 10:14:33AM
336 posts

Meeting new people


Empath

I've been struggling the past few years making new friends. Seems like everyone new person just wants to dump all their emotions problems. Some of these problems with people are pretty serious and they need help. Is this common for everyone else? I'm very happy and content in my life and it's great talking about other things besides their problems, and going out to enjoy all that life has to offer without a debbie downer. It really brings me down, and then when they are gone I feel much better yet alone. I started to notice this year the massive chest pains I get are from these people, and when they are gone the chest pains go to. Right now I feel alone as all my close friends and family are married with kids, and do things with other couples. Anything I can do to stop attracting crazy to me?
updated by @tigerlily: 05/24/17 03:02:50PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/13/16 05:18:15PM
336 posts

Problems with attending spiritual events


Empath

You are so right these days about people unloading onto people like us. I'm getting really tired of it lol.I agree with you on the people at these events and at the gym.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/12/16 05:06:20PM
336 posts

Any empaths have digestive problems?


Empath

Yes, I do. Been to a GI doctor and nothing is wrong with me. Told me it was anxiety. When I went to visit my friend for a week, who was going through an awful divorce. I was in so much pain from bloat, gas, and acid reflux. When I got home it was gone the next day. Yesterday at work I was training a new guy and he just started dumping out all his marital problems, I didn't ask about it btw, and I got so bloated I had to loosen my belt. I think it's just bad energy.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/12/16 05:01:43PM
336 posts

Problems with attending spiritual events


Empath

I have only been to a few, and I honestly want to run out. I have no idea if people project there energy out and you are like a strong magnet. Thats what my reiki lady says about me, maybe for you as well? The gym, I have a hard time with as well and don't go anymore.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/11/16 06:56:18PM
336 posts

What do you think triggered your empathic abilities?


Empath

If it wasn't for that time I honestly wouldn't be where and who I am today. In a sense I realized it was ment as a blessing in a strange way to happen and to restore this. As for managing it, I'm sure one day i'll figure it out :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/11/16 05:11:10AM
336 posts

loneliness and seeking love


Empath

I agree, you will just instinctively just know if this person is right for you. If you feel you are fighting that instinct, this person is not right. I will say that I got lost during my years of dating with what I trully wanted and put it all on paper. What this person looks like, personality traits, type of career, etc. I used to think about this list all the time. As well as tell my married friends what I'm looking for (I'm the last single one in the group) One day, about 2 years later I met a man with nearly all those qualities, we are only friends today but my intuition told me he's the one. I think putting it out there will bring this person to you. You may ask why im not with him, well im still working on to better myself and almost feel I'm not ready for this man. Guess I got scared this man on paper turned into a real deal. I'm still dating and seeing what is out there, as I'm not holding my breath over him. My psychic friend said he'll eventually come around, and to just keep in contact with him. But again I'm still going to live my life as if he's not a part of it, and do things for me that I haven't done for myself.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/11/16 04:59:45AM
336 posts

How many of us are single out of choice


Empath

I would say you are doing the right thing by being single to work on you, major kudos to you :). I never thought it was fair of people who have issues within themselves that they choose not to resolve because they think a partner is going to help them with it. One of my friends is going through this, but she is completely lost on how to work on her. Yet relies on men to make her feel good. I'd say for myself it's not much of a choice, but then again I'm also very picky on what I want. Yet again, our gift has also allowed me to pick up on whether the guy would be good for me or not. Which I guess is a blessing in disguise :) It's good being single as I've spent over a year working on me to better me as well, without the influence of someone else. As of recent I've experienced a bump with my health so it's better that I laid low as my symptoms subsided.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/08/16 05:15:03AM
336 posts



My father gets prominations, so that could be a future thing to come. Or it could be something that happened in the past that you picked up. Like maybe to you in a past life?
 
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