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TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/14/17 06:47:49PM
309 posts

When life brings you lots of lemons


Empath

How do you know what your karma is? I thought I had resolved it as things got better then I got hit with a tidal wave, and another and another. I'm drowning here.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/14/17 05:45:46PM
309 posts

When life brings you lots of lemons


Empath

I am not sure ig something is in the air or if this is another empath thing. Life keeps giving me lemons to make lemonade and I'm tired of making leamonade. I feel like I've learned alot and enough. When does it stop?
updated by @tigerlily: 07/22/17 10:42:44PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/12/17 08:24:49PM
309 posts

My gift is gone


Empath

I notice when I wrap myself in my own bubble and focus on me, everything is gone. Not in a bad way, but take care of me and say forget others. Like isolation almost, but not. I struggle now with focusing on me, and honestly I just feel like shit. Yet everyday I say I'm going to stop and everyday I dont.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/12/17 08:20:37PM
309 posts

Empaths and NDE's or Near Death Experiences


Empath

My NDE was about a decade ago, and after that I felt my central nervous system was shot. I thought it was because of that, about 2 years after something triggered and I started havibg full blown attacks. Started seeing a therapist and from then on I learned about my gifts. It made sense how growing up I'd hear and see things not there, but as a kid who doesn't like a good ghost story right? Then again I always thought people could feel and sense otheRS emotions.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/03/17 11:04:44PM
309 posts

Relationships....help!!


Empath

My relationship history with men. Hmm my ex was a narc and did me all kinds of wrong to me, and I loved him deeply. The one after him, completely controlling. Ever since those relationships ended, I noticed I "attract" men who have some type of emotional issue that needs fixing or are typical momma type boys who want a woman to take care of them. Ok yes so narcs. Of the few "nice boys" I was not attracted. I could not bear the thought of settling as I knew I'd be unhappy. I guess you can say I am still and will always be attracted to the "bad boys" So, I shifted my search to older men and the maturity I adored. Which i know family would not approve. But, none of those lasted either.

The ones I've met who have a "familiarity" about them are the ones I try to keep, and we'll I just sound like a stupid women who doesn't see the signs that they are not interested. But that familiarity and goosebumps tell me something inside that is special and to hang on. I'm assuming those are past life related. Go figure as somehow they return or keep some slight contact.
updated by @tigerlily: 03/03/17 11:07:00PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/28/17 07:21:34PM
309 posts

Sleep issues


Empath

If you like coffee try decaf. I drink coffee alot, but it's mostly decaf. I forgot I used to use nature sounds at night. Pandora has a station and it will shut off after a few hours. Nature always calms me and grounds me. I used to also have a station with all kinds of soothing piano music, as well.

And I agree with the social media and news. It really makes my blood boil reading all those things. It got to the point I was so mad they were recording waiting for the giraffe to give birth. It's like "give this poor creature that is locked up in this small area some privacy" I think birth is amazing and new life, but I don't know why it just bothered me? Also, try not talking or texting or emails before bed. Unless you are here chatting with us :) no one here wants you to feel burdened or upset :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/28/17 05:49:51PM
309 posts

Relationship Between Stress And Empathy?


Empath

I do agree with what everyone is saying. It all makes more sense now. But that darn anxiety with stress then makes my mind wander causing me more stress lol.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/28/17 05:43:09PM
309 posts

Sleep issues


Empath

My sleep issues improved when I started working stable hours, where I can go to bed every night about the same time and wake up the same time. It took many months, but it eventually worked. Right now with a health issue I'm just tired all the time anyways, but I cut out alot of caffeine/sweets/carbs which has also helped. The nights I can't sleep I use lavender oil. The good kind that is pure. I shake the oil all over my bed and I'll knock out. If that doesn't help still, I'll drink some wine :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/28/17 05:35:36PM
309 posts

Relationship Between Stress And Empathy?


Empath

@hop-daddy, I like to think "positive" that the spirits are around to comfort us and that it will be ok. But it kind of freaks me out more in a way when I'm that heightened that we can feel or see them. I'm still spooked by them. I guess since I had one attached to me once (I was told that the spirit safe and protected with me) But, as for the dreams I've had about spirits, they all have been good.

The other thing I heard, is all that stress we have alot more energy which the spirits like as well. But I think that stress energy is more negative attracting negative. Please tell me if I'm wrong on that, because I really like to the more positive approach on it I mentioned in the beginning lol.

And yes, that much stress is just awful, but I pick it up at work. Which I'm looking to get out of.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/27/17 05:28:31PM
309 posts

Relationship Between Stress And Empathy?


Empath

This is a interesting topic. Does the stress just heighten our sensitivity?? I recently saw an apparition the other day, and I haven't seen anything in a while. But I was under a lot of stress where my chest hurt and thought the stress was that high I was seeing things. I've also been having alot of vivid dreams again and my gut has been spot on. But sometimes there days wherelated I just feel like a tornado from all the stress amd emotions in a given situation. Feels like I was at a rock concert or night club when I'm finally alone.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/27/17 04:32:30AM
309 posts

advise needed, has anyone dealt with this?????


Empath

I'm really happy you had a great time :) I'm happy that you brought someone with you :) Maybe your gut/instincts told you to bring that friend?

I've started reflecting back on the past year and a half and my "gut instincts" and when I did this, alot I remember didn't make any sense at the time. Now fast forward it completely does. It's especially hard when the gut says no to somethibg that you desire and would cherish. But as I JUST learned, when I passed it up, the next day something better came along. I couldn't believe it and I still think about it. It really was very very hard passing up the first thing because it was such a great deal and didn't think I could find better, and the very next day I found better. The universe did step in and prevent it, as I was defying gut and thinking it was stress. I think this recent experience alone has made me fully be 150% inclined to follow it.

Moral of story, follow gut. No matter how difficult it may be to defy it. The universe sometimes has an alternate plan to point you in the right direction. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/27/17 04:16:14AM
309 posts

Health worries


Empath

Thank you for the article! I can relate to a few of those!

There are several family members who suffer from anxiety and depression. I can see how that is inherited.

I recently had my arm hurting for months, which I thought I had injured from moving things around. Some days it lingered, then the next I was fine, then it came back. I recently noticed the pain was gone again, and it's been gone for about 3 weeks. The moment I thought "weird, so and so always has elbow pain, I wonder what he's up to" The pain disappeared. I do have a connection to this person, but we don't talk as much anymore since he moved. Maybe I need to pick up the phone and see how's he doing?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/26/17 09:09:48PM
309 posts

Health worries


Empath

I don't know where to start or how to say this. Guess looking to see if others experience this. I feel like I feel everything go on in my body. I was diagnosed years ago with an anxiety disorder, then later my therapist told me I was an empath. Lucky for me I guess I landed a therapist who is spiritual :)
I know anxiety can manifest into many things, and I've experience many. I guess that's what turned into this health anxiety. It was interesting to learn from my therapist that being a sensitive individual also results to feeling everything go on in the body. Curious if others feel this about themselves.

Also, I have noticed that sometimes I feel others pains. So not sure if that is also why I feel everything going on. Exampke,Out of nowhere I'll get a pain in my abdomen, and I'll dismiss as gas. 10 minutes later my coworker sitting next to me is complaining about gas pains. Another example a friend was so upset about an injury it caused him distress. My chest started to hurt and I asked him "are you so stressed about this that you have chest pains?" He said yes.
updated by @tigerlily: 07/04/17 05:49:39AM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/21/17 08:10:51PM
309 posts

How do you guys filter your energy?


Empath

I agree with Rene, whatever works for you. Definitely try what others suggest and see what suites you. Getting out in nature has worked the best for me. Hikes, beach, driving in the country, just sitting somewhere.
This may sound crazy but ive noticed is having a few glasses of wine. Only a specific bottle of wine and alone. I don't know why I feel recharged the next morning especially if I havent had any drinks in a long time. But it has to be by myself. If I'm out, I don't feel the same. Or if friends are over, not the same. And it's only that one brand that does it the most!
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/21/17 07:57:58PM
309 posts

Feeling a Steady Negative Energy Shift in Everyone Around Me


Empath

I have been feeling this to. I know some of it is me, and the rest not. I've become so sensitive and the urge to help has been out of control. I caught myself helping someone who I know is a narc!! Do you feel really stressed?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/15/17 05:33:47AM
309 posts

Work


Empath

Well that good opportunity has gone and I didn't get it. As well as now that person at work as has been gloating about getting that recognition, but asks questions and more. I balled my eyes out last night. Started a doc and documented all that she is asking and any complaints I get from other people. I don't understand. Oh and on top of that I got sick again. I'm sorry to vent. You all get it and understand. I guess I'm still shocked about this all. :(
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/14/17 03:42:32PM
309 posts

Residual energy from past


Empath

I totally get about the forgiving. I have forgave so many times, and then there is a trigger that brings it all back. I guess maybe finding all that stuff, was maybe silly to burn it all or throw away. But again, I'm all for out with the old and in with the new.

Does the stuff from before still bother you? Or have the triggers stopped.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/14/17 04:25:13AM
309 posts

Residual energy from past


Empath

Hi, I was looking for feedback on this and what you all may have done.

Years ago I went through a difficult time in my life and it still haunts me today. Sometimes it feels like a curse. A friend of mine told me to write everything down on paper as to what happened during that time and burn it and to get rid of anythibg from that time. He said he did it and felt better and then his life changed. I will say he is doing really well for himself now. Back to me :) I did do this, but I never burned it, I just ripped it up and threw it in the garbage and said be gone because I had no access to a fireplace, and worried what if I set something on fire. This weekend I decided to fully clean out my car and found papers and such during that bad time. I waa at a family members house and asked if I could just burn these in their fireplace and I did. It did feel good doing so and getting rid of those things, like a toast to new beginning. I am curious to know that if what I did helped long term and not short term in the moment? All these years I had some form of bad energy around me, that I didn't even know?
updated by @tigerlily: 06/15/17 12:54:31AM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/10/17 05:40:53AM
309 posts

Work


Empath

@hop-daddy

I know right now things are poorly managed, they are making decisions more on the line of quick fixes. When the reality is, a restructure needs to happen. The narc of a an upper manager doesn't see that or understand that. Yet again, it's me constantly fixing the issues and managing. But like you, you knew that and took charge and made it better for everyone. That is also what I know to be true.

After the past few weeks I'm more eager to leave, and a friend at work told me about another opportunity. I guess I just have fear thinking that why I'm looked upon for that is because of the "helper" in me. But it can pose good money. Which I'll need because it looks like I may have broke down my car :(
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/08/17 09:01:56PM
309 posts

Work


Empath

I do want to say thank you to everyone. The support and all your kind words, it feels so nice to hear and provide this kind of help. I almost feel bad as all my life I helped everyone, and never really got much in return, except from here :) Thank you, thank you, thank you :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/08/17 08:58:08PM
309 posts

Work


Empath

@hop-daddy

I agree with you. I do believe I'm being totally used. More problems have risen, and I'm being looked at to take the lead. I have another meeting with my boss to discuss things. She actually just admitted the other day what is and isn't my duties and working to remove them.

I have often thought about that, my life path. I think I'm off of it. When I first took this job years ago, I got such a bad feeling about it. I got sick. Now years later looking back, it's been stressful. However, I did learn more about people from it. But the stress is taking its toll and my health has declined.

I work in such a toxic negative environment it's hard to be positive. I still try everyday. I feel chaos all around. It's not like that thick pea soup feeling of tension, but more like pillow everyday. I often think have I absorbed this much negative energy that is why my car battery keeps dying? Mechanics can't find anything wrong. The lights tend to flicker more, and of course my computer at work keeps freezing up and our IT dept has no idea why.

I need a sick day.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/02/17 03:35:08PM
309 posts

advise needed, has anyone dealt with this?????


Empath

Right? I used to for years have that feeling and not understand what it was. I'd say the past 2 years I'm trusting more, but that damn logical side of me gets in the way alot. And then I don't trust it, and sometimes it's just stuff in the air I guess where I just feel "off"
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/01/17 08:35:27PM
309 posts

advise needed, has anyone dealt with this?????


Empath

The moment you said you have horrible anxiety and going to the shower, well, I've had this to countless times. :) I never listened to mine and something always happened, not bad, but that uncomfortable bad, awkwardness from the vibes/energy there. I really didn't need to read furthur, but....

I understand you want to go for your friend and you should. But I also understand about that other one.

The mad anxiety is telling you something, and I think you should listen to it and figure out what it means. Maybe go, see for yourself what it means. You may have this anxiety again in other situations too. Learn from them. Then, a year or two from now you will keep learning and discover more about you and the feelings. It only grows stronger, but hey that's a good thing too :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/30/17 09:01:04PM
309 posts

Signs You are living With a Narcissist or Psychopath


Library of Light

Thank you for this post. It is a good reminder for all of us to watch out for the narcs and psychopaths. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/30/17 08:50:11PM
309 posts

Questions for the psychic mediums


Psychic and Paranormal

To answer your questions, yesses. :)

Your mom is still watching over her children and she probably will do so onto you all pass. That maybe her time to then ascend higher and then choose to be reborn again.

I'm a big believer in reincarnation. I think we all have lived many lives. And I believe spirits or souls are still with us who have chosen to not "go to the light" And this could be for many reasons why the soul chooses not to. For reasons listed above. For where I believe that is where we like "report" to the highers on what we have learned in this lifetime and resolve karma in the next. As far as how long that process can take, is probably up to the souls who have ascended and ready to descend.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/30/17 05:20:31PM
309 posts

Balance


Empath

@ renee

That FB group was probably full of people who wished they were spiritual. It was probably a group of low self esteem narcs who felt threatened because a true spiritual person like you joined. Those idiotic people probably felt being spiritual is the "in thing to do" And saw you are good hearted etc and they did what a narc would do. Throw ya under the bus to FB.

I agree with others on trying to reach out to FB and find out wtf happened?

It's probably best right now you are not on FB. All this political stuff is just crazy. Every post is about trump and everyone hating him. Barely do you see cute kid/family/pet photos and all that other stuff.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/30/17 03:51:56PM
309 posts

Work


Empath

@renee thank you. That is what I've learned in this dept. They want you to help and go above and beyond, ok any job. But it's a competition on who does it the most and who kisses butt the most. You have both of those, you get the promotion and next in line. Yes, its shitty. But our senior manager wants that. Ill say hes a complete moron. Experience doesn't matter to these people, and anyone can BS their way through it because there's nothing to quantify on it. All my work you can. After this recent shit storm, I threw my hands up in there and said F it. Going to do things my way. I was lucky the past few days to convince a head hauncho some lady was not right for some tasks, and well my boss got upset. And i also got another dept to start taking accountabikity. Hey, I wasn't going to let that lady take my thunder again. And I'm not going to stand for horrible business decisions like they do, and this mouth is going to be open and say yay or nay. My gut is telling me to do so, so I'm following.

Just awful that they do take advantage, and I agree. This one I just didn't see coming, but I think I was naive and felt relief to have things off my plate. I'm going to keep pushing back.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/27/17 04:22:06PM
309 posts

Work


Empath

I understand my job is just a job, but we still need financials to carry out in life. Empath or not. I understand my job is an empath, but I also understand that I need to give and provide to me and future with kids. That is number 1 to me, because I don't see a narc paying my bills. But I just helped pay theirs?? Maybe we are going about this all wrong and need to help people that actually need it. Narcs don't need it, they just want someone to do it for them. Seems a common theme among empathic people, always being taken advantage of narcs. We can already sense when someone may not be great, but sense that need for help and that overpowers. Maybe we need to take a step back and think about before we jump.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/27/17 04:12:44PM
309 posts

Question/help


Empath

I trully agree.

Even though I've never experienced tgat with a man. It still brings me joy to hear others do (and vice versa) I completely understand why it's important to you that she can read you. Whatever she went through, you want her to know that you are there in a way where you don't always have to tell her, but because she can just feel it everyday :) Love it!
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/27/17 05:05:25AM
309 posts

Work


Empath

I know we have had discussions about work and what kind of work we do. Mine is more of the lines of "helping" in the corporate sector. Ok makes sense, as empaths we help right? Long story short I've been working hard to get a promotion and yet turned down. Then working hard and justifying why we need some new positions and was turned down. I just broke down again and cried yesterday because the one thing I put alot of sweat into was given to this lady as a new position, who for better words "lacks the skill set" to manage. Since I already set up that program, now a few months later she got the credit for it. Anyone here knows that a new program can take several months to take off and show results. She's done nothing with it and just asked questions etc. It really hurt me. Yet all I get from the higher ups is "I am very smart and have such a tremendous work ethic and skills" I couldn't help but to cry because I should have received that recognition and pay bump/bonuses. Or the 2 times I was passed up for a promotion was given to people who for better words "lack people skills" yet I have a decade experience of leadership, and they had none.

Am I just in the wrong field? Wrong job? I just don't get it? Or has the world really turned into catering to brown nosing? Or is it just back to the fact that we as empathy somehow just keep loosing to the narcs.
updated by @tigerlily: 06/16/17 02:57:31PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/26/17 07:12:07PM
309 posts

Question/help


Empath

I'm really happy to hear such a success! You are an amazing man and I can tell you love her dearly. And clearly nothing to hide :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/26/17 12:41:33PM
309 posts

Strange Feel/Expectation


Empath

@hop-daddy. I couldn't agree with you more and you said it perfectly.

Now who is going to help us stay sane trying to keep everyone else sane lol.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/23/17 06:56:09PM
309 posts

Twin Flames! Runner or Fake Twin?


Empath

It defiantly sounds like this to me. And I agree you both are doing the running and chasing. Definatky on a soul level somethibg is there, and it's intense! But, we are stI'll human and our hearts hurt at times. And all those articles I've read about twin flames say they'll never hurt you, but I think it still happens. I think it would be great to talk to each other and express your love and let each other know how deep you feel for each other and understand that there will be times of arguments but want to stay with each other. That running out of the window, hey I felt that and did that once. Only because I couldn't believe I found him, that feeling was so intense! PM if you want chat furthur.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/23/17 06:40:41PM
309 posts

Strange Feel/Expectation


Empath

I think i understand what you mean. I've been feeling "confused" what I mean is that I feel like I need to move away, but stay. I've had this wave for like 2 years. Then Lately its been a tidal wave! I've been feeling alot of negativity everywhere that will not go away and it is making me depressed, but can also feel good coming in the future for everywhere. Like bigger picture outside of my own life and for everyone. Even though I feel that, it's almost like someone nudging me like "go on, you'll be fine"
Listen to your gut. I think the negativity is just what's going on in the world today and not what you want to do for you. That big picture of negativity in the world will not affect you.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/23/17 05:58:31PM
309 posts

feel like I am not human


Empath

@ jeramie. I used to feel growing up, that my parents are not my parents. I don't know why I felt this or would think that. Now as I have become older I realized I'm just that independent. Weather we are adopted or not or conceived by a sperm donor, our identity is our own. Growing up it was always a fight with my parents and it still is, and I feel trapped that who I am is not how they want me to be. For years I felt lost and often questioned "who am i" After years of working on me I now know who I am. And it's still not who my parents want me to be lol. I just knew since childhood. You have to go with it and trust in you. You have gifts that not many understand except us here, or anyone else you know in person who has a spiritual gift.

And people these days, my goodness. The people. I almost can't go out on some days or talk to people. And other times I have to because I can feel the good. (Which is rare)

But like you, today is a day I felt like living life was hard. What helps me get through the day is not dealing with idiots and narcs. I don't know why I just angry when they are around LOL.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/23/17 06:09:10AM
309 posts

spiritual dimension and mental/emotinal health


Empath

I honestly believe trying to find a healer at no charge will be hard. Think about it. Everyone here talks about narcs and how we are taken advantage of, those healers made a business with it. If they didnt, they would get taken advantage of. Throw a monetary value to it, no being taken advantage of.

Just watch out for the con artists. True healers don't advertise themselves with neon signs and fancy websites.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/18/17 03:40:00PM
309 posts

spiritual dimension and mental/emotinal health


Empath

She mostly does chakra and reiki, but studied with shamans. She's communicates with spirits during the sessions as well. She really wanted to work more with me, but I'm broke lol.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/18/17 03:24:53PM
309 posts

spiritual dimension and mental/emotinal health


Empath

This may sound crazy and absurd, but I had a spirit attached to me. Apparently it was following me everywhere. It didnt harm me in anyway, but I have no idea if it affected my emotions. But I do know I never felt I was "alone" and would get that feeling I'm being watched. The healer I went to released it and then told me of many "gifts" I had. I guess being an empathic person by nature this spirit just felt safe and comfortable around me. As she said.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/18/17 04:57:26AM
309 posts

Past life Regression


Empath

@lucky seven. I totally understand where you are coming from. I recommend checking out some of Dr Brian Weiss' books. The first book I read put so much into perspective. There is a licensed therapist close to me who studied with him and a few others. But man, expensive. And I get afraid to go lol.

I can tell you from my dreams it appears that the true love, we were always separated somehow by death I believe and infedility and no one wanting us to be together. It's like he listened to everyone about me, like I was never good enough. The last dream I had I was a housewife and miserable and married to a man I didn't like and he didn't care for me either. I had 2 kids, one was a child from him. But dreams prior to that I was pregnant with that try love guy and I believe he died out in sea. Those collections of dreams are all the same era. I was looking up everything on google, to clothes, shoes, transportation, etc. I feel like recognizing that should be enough and forgiving myself. But it's not. The last guy I actually dated several months back, upon first meeting him I was terrified and had a hurt feeling and i never wanted to speak to him again. But I gave him a chance and found out he was actually one of the sweetest guys I met in a long time. He did eventually leave as well, as his family was #1 and he had a lot of family problems he had to tend to. One day it was like a bell went off in my head like he was the on from the past I was married to and unhappy.

I am afraid that in the past life I left my children with this awful guy to get away and was just miserable. And tgat is why I was homeless in the streets.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/17/17 09:33:43PM
309 posts

Past life Regression


Empath

Has any here had one, and did it benefit you?

Past 2-3 years I've had more dreams in different eras, and when I've tried translating my dream it made no sense. I've been doing alot of reflection on my current life and see alot of repeating behaviors. Failed relationships, passed up in job promotions, struggling financially. I'm fairly smart, although I don't admit it or portray it. But I feel like there is wave pushing me to prove my intelligence. I'm not cocky or arrogant, but more upset on how these people are succeeding at work, but don't know anything. Or how my relationships continue to fail, and I'm not getting the closure as to why.

A few years ago I met a man, and instantly felt recognition, but as in the "where have you been my whole life" I just knew he was the one for me, this long lost love type of feeling. I felt when I met him I wasn't worthy and why was he attracted to me. I did botch that up. The last time I saw him he had this fear/shocked look in his eyes.

I've met many people throughout life and questioned on "how do I know you, I feel like we've met before" this man in particular was different.

Since meeting him, my goodness the dreams!! I thought it was because he laid so heavily on my mind. But all these dreams with him are of different times. I've also had dreams of being homeless, but he was not there. And my child without a father, this baby also has haunted my dreams.

A few months ago I started thinking about those dreams and started reading about past lives. Then I started to Google some images from my dream, and basically it's historical. Alot of it has familiarity, but here is me being logical "I must have seen this in a movie"

I've had dreams of this man before in childhood and my teen years. I always wondered what it would be like to meet him, and I did and I botched it up.

I'm trying to have more dreams like this to figure this out, and now I cant. I've really been thinking about past life regression. Has it helped anyone?
updated by @tigerlily: 07/28/17 08:32:48AM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/17/17 08:51:35PM
309 posts

What color are your eyes?


Empath

Big blue eyes. I've had people just stair right into them and omg I can't handle it.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/09/17 05:55:17PM
309 posts

Anger...the taught emotion?


Empath

@rene, you are great!

I get angry when a see justice is not being served and people getting away with shit. I get angry that this society is catering to idiots and we have to watch we say not to offend people. I get angry that those people take offense to the dumbest thing and don't grow a pair. I get angry when I put my needs first and people have a problem with. :)

I get it we are supposed to be happy and love everythibg and accept everything for it is. Sometimes I feel that this is not possible anymore and this world/society is getting out of control. To many narcs taking advantage of nice people like us, because they can't figure out there own shit. I know I'm in pain, too many people did me wrong and anger is my wall I use. These days, I've been better at sniffing at the narcs. Not 100% yet, but still trying :)

Rene, you are more than welcome to post anything anger related. We get you :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/05/17 05:47:56PM
309 posts

Emotional manipulation


Empath

He's friends with your mother!!?? Omg, I can't believe she is talking to him after all that you have told her. I'm so sorry all this is happening. This has got to be so hard on you. All you can do is not expect much from either. We have to remember with expections, disappointment is hanging around the corner.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/04/17 04:00:17PM
309 posts

Stress


Empath

I forgot about the comet passing the moon. Maybe that did something.

Also, I'm feeling better. I had a very bad feeling about something, my gut as always. Realized it may be work, confronted my boss. And yet again I was being taken advantage of, so I put it to rest.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/03/17 08:53:19PM
309 posts

Fluctuations


Empath

Is this why I feel so stressed? I'm getting headaches daily, like a crawling sensation. Sometimes my chest hurts I can't breathe. Then I feel like my body wants to go limp. I can go on and on.

My life has been kind of stressful, but I literally been crying over spilled milk as well.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/03/17 08:49:11PM
309 posts

Stress


Empath

Is there something in the air? My stress levels are so high over the littlest things. I started isolating myself and don't want to do anything or be around people.
updated by @tigerlily: 05/06/17 07:30:16AM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/03/17 08:37:26PM
309 posts

Emotional manipulation


Empath

I'm sorry this is happening and I can relate as it's happened to me multiple times. we are victims to narcissistic people. If the guy isn't a narc, he's completely broken in some aspect. Letting go is the hardest, as like you, fallen for them. You just have to stand tall and firm and tell them goodbye. In a matter of days or weeks you will see you made the right decision.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/03/17 08:27:19PM
309 posts

Empath Related Illnesses


Empath

I've had this as well. And with everyone else I have gut issues and it eventually turned into "you'll be diabetic in a few years" per my dr. Stress alone I can't handle, my face literally gets white and I look sick. Past few months have been hard on me as well, got to the point today that I say "F it" yet again :)
We all know we need to take care of ourselves better, but our strong empathy for everyone gets in the way.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/28/16 06:10:01PM
309 posts

Ok..I'm confused again


Empath

I read alot about witches and noticed that too.  I sometimes feel they were just "misunderstood" throughout history.  like us.  and possibly taken advantage of for their gifts to create spells etc.  and then resulted in using their powers to do evil for being taken advantage.  Maybe I'm just being naive about this as well.  But maybe not, if they have gifts to cure people in an unnatural way.  

 
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