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TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/14/18 06:31:21PM
442 posts

Lost


Empath

Love everything that everyone wrote here.

What cane to my mind, was soul groups. I just recently learned mine, and was able to resonate with it. Yet also understand better why I can't stand how this world has become.

Anyways, going back to the lost feeling. I completely get you. I went through this for years and phases prior. We do get clues, and once I understood that and followed them better. That is when my intuition grew. Just the last year it grew more. But like you "do I go back to school, do I move, etc" At one point as it was to much coming in at once. Almost like an overwhelming life issues, but from spirit and my guide. My head wanted to explode. Once i started piecing my dreams and reflecting on my day, meditating and clearing myself, and going to this class, and coming her it all started to make sense. all of a sudden I started feeling something was coming but not knowing what. Now I see it aND just followed the intuitive feelings I was having. Now, some are not logical lol. But I see it now how some things unfolded.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/14/18 05:34:31PM
442 posts

Seeing with closed eyes / attacks


Empath

@Bing thank you for sharing and like hop-daddy it's niće to hear others have this face seeing. But yet I'm sorry for all who may see it unpleasant like myself.

@hop-daddy when you said light warrior it did trigger something in me. Thank you for mentioning this. I have been told by a psychic earlier this year that I have a warrior soul etc. Which I thought was ironic because I had read about soul types and I relate to everything about a warrior soul.

I have been wearing hematite and onyx since that day and i felt really good. I have been carrying pyrite and citrine in my pocket for over a month to help with the job search. I'm going to start carrying my black tourmaline with me daily as you suggest, as I notice at work I get those pains and like bug bite feelings. I have a big obsidian I'll add to under my pillow collection. You give advice and are very knowledgeable and i want to thank you. You really do help others here too from all your replies.

Hope your conversation with your son goes well tonight :) teenagers...
TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/14/18 05:19:02PM
442 posts

How do you deal with having a crush on someone ?


Empath

@Sandy-8 making the first move is not easy. The first time I did so I was about 22 or 23. I won him over and had a few dates. I felt empowered and will still try this day. But, I'm always nervous to do so. I can get a feeling of like from them, but sometimes it's a like of just friends. I'm still trying to get courage to say something to this guy on the train LOL. In the end I have nothing to lose, if he rejects, I just don't sit on the same train car. Lol.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/13/18 07:13:02PM
442 posts

How do you deal with having a crush on someone ?


Empath

I have no idea. I'm almost 40 and still experience this. Everyone is different, but yet there are commonalities at the same time. All you can do is make the first move. You have nothing to lose.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/13/18 05:53:07PM
442 posts

Seeing with closed eyes / attacks


Empath

@hop-daddy this makes sense. I have been feeling I got hit with a new wave of spiritual growth, and that this could be a learning experience. My friend thinks that this could be just a reflection of me fighting off any negativity in myself from the toxic work experience I had.

As for the faces, it's still strange how I see them transform as they age to death, and to not nice things. Prior to that yes I see lots of light and colors. I recently saw my bloody hands from a past life fighting in a battle. I know in that past life probably about a 1000 years ago, I killed many and fought in battles and I hated myself for it.

Intuitively, all I felt was that a battle was won against negativity. It did make me feel good knowing I can stand up to it and fight it off. That still is a fear of mine, when negative entities attack. And hearing what you go through is pretty scary. I didn't feel any sharp pains, but I remember being so hot and sweaty but in between sleep and awake. Here in Chicago the temp are dropping to the 20s at night, and I don't sweat like this in winter. In fact I go to bed feeling cold and wake up chilly. I also had a boute of sleep paralysis when this was going on. I do recall in my sleep grabbing my clear quartz that I have under my pillow, which helped a bit but struggled to grab my amethyst.

Overall, it was quite the experience and today, 2 days later, I do feel stronger and empowered. I still can't get over seeing my guide in the dark spreading out like that to battle, as all I have ever seen him is in light and happy. He truly is protecting and watching over me and on my side and I'm grateful and thankful for him.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/12/18 03:55:34PM
442 posts

Seeing with closed eyes / attacks


Empath

I'm not sure how to title this or how to put any of this together.  We may have also discussed this too on this forum.  

Sometimes when I go to bed at night I can see images or however it is called.  Some are pleasant, and some not.  Sometimes it's a past life memory.  Sometimes it's the cosmos.  Sometimes it's colors and bright light.  Sometimes I see faces floating, and those faces start to transform into not the pleasant things.  When I had a past life regression in spring, all that started to stop with the faces.  I just assumed those maybe were faces of people in past lives I knew or fought in battles with.  But, they started to come back recently sometimes it's dark figures.  Really freaks me out.

Last night I think I was attacked spiritually by the negative??  I felt scared this morning, beaten up, but yet good.  I know weird.  I saw my guides too, in this "battle"  I have read this morning about causes of attacks like this, and we'll I did get a new job to get out of the negative toxic environment I'm in now.  Which stated this could happen when one becomes happy.  I thought the feeling of good i felt with the other 2 emotions could be that good defeated bad?   It kind of does feel like we won the battle.  

Anyone else experience this??  Felt worse than a nightmare.  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/09/18 08:59:18PM
442 posts

Poll related to chemical and food choices


Empath

1.) Soy affects me bad and messes with my hormones. Pharmacy meds give me anxiety and feel side effects that others typically dont, so I often avoid meds unless it's an antibiotic. I'm very sensitive to refined carbs and sugars, which leads to my second response below. Have to use sensitive laundry detergent, and scent free body washes. Scent free lotions in winter. If I dont skin will itch and I get eczema patches. Perfumes give me headaches. Can't wear fashion earrings, has to be real silver or gold, although hypoallergenic types may work. But not all.

2) my dietary choices younger were not so meat involved. Now I eat more meat, due to glucose issues and the high protein helps to stabilize. I have tried over the past few months to go more veggies and low carb, and it's not working, I still get frequent hypoglycemia . When I have meat and veggies, I feel more calm andown glucose levels are normal. Sugars and carbs are my enemy, and can have fruit sparingky. But I emotionally eat carbs when stress and anxiety are high and it makes me miserable. Chips are usually my weakness with that. Been working slowly to go back to very low carb again as I feel the best.

3.) I love She-ra and Jean grey. Yes, she-ra. A cartoon, but I love her princess warrior and power. Jean Grey for her ability to communicate telepathically and move objects with her mind.

4) I don't remember, but it did start with an I
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/30/18 07:32:18PM
442 posts

Staring


Empath

@hop-daddy I've had people randomly talk to me, and well I do it too. Lol. Those mutual exchanges usually are left off positive and laughing. If they have been stalking me around and then talk to me, my anxiety just rises and I become shy and walk away. I can barely talk.
Downtown Chicago and the bums are difficult. They just walk right to me. If I see one, I cannot look at them and focus walking passed them like a horse with blinders on and they still call out to me. Going out for a smoke can sometimes suck. One time, I had one sit next to me and wait for the but of a the cigarette I was going to throw out. That day I told the bum to go away and leave me alone as I cane out here alone for a reason and didn't want company. He called me a crazy B!@ and walked away LOL.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/26/18 07:18:06PM
442 posts

Staring


Empath

I'm sorry it has been uncomfortable the past few months for you :( are things getting better?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/26/18 07:16:49PM
442 posts

Staring


Empath

Wow! Thank you for posting this. I often thought is was because I have something on my face, broccoli on my teeth, toilet paper on my shoes, skirt tucked in my undergarments, lol. But this makes so much sense!
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/26/18 06:41:45PM
442 posts

Protecting/shielding yourself


Empath

You both! OMG that is insane!!! Are there other things you pick up on to know you have an attachment?

This all has me so curious now. I get emotional swings here and there, but I also have a hormonal imbalance. But also, where I work and live with all the energies, that when I remove myself from it I feel fine. Or is it past life?

Hearing you both speak about your experiences had me wondering just how close my deceased uncle is. He was a big drinker and smoker and really didn't put up with people's shit. One thing to note, he never had a daughter and wanted one and i was like the daughter he never had. With all the not nice things happening to me at work, I can see how his anger and rage would come through to me and my desire to smoke and drink increase. But I'm also myself, and don't believe anyone should have to deal with this. So could very well be my own angers too when enough is enough. Is there something else I should be looking for? Or just hard to say?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/24/18 05:49:45PM
442 posts

Protecting/shielding yourself


Empath

@hop-daddy it sounds like you have extraordinary gifts and have passed them to your children. I know Sedona is about a 2-3 hour drive, would you go for a weekend if you can?

I will ask my friend how she located thsee classes and when I go next week I can inquire if this lady knows people in arizona. I believe she was just there.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/24/18 03:42:46PM
442 posts

Protecting/shielding yourself


Empath

@hop-daddy do you soak them in salt water? Or just over a bead of salt? The jewelry I can't in salt water, the metals will tarnish, etc. The regulag I could. I currently live with my parents, so putting them outside not a great idea, my parents don't get it. Yes I need to move out, lol.

There is a class I went to a few times where this lady helps to enhance or master our gifts. Do they have anything like that in phoenix? I wouldn't know how to find classes like this as my friend found it. Do you know who's trying to communicate with you? I get ringing in my ears too. When I do, I feel like it's a women trying to communicate, or my guides, but not sure who this wOman is?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/23/18 06:25:22PM
442 posts

Protecting/shielding yourself


Empath

@hop-daddy. That is so scary what you mentioned about your office. You appear to be sensative to those energies, are you a medium? Doe's telling them to "go away" help? I had a spirit attached to me once before and the chakra lady helped to remove the attachment. It was afraid to go to the light and hung on to me because it liked or felt safe in my energy. Shortly after that I felt very sensitive to those energies and it felt like they were a few coming towards me in my aparen't in chicago. I got so upset with them for not leaving me alone I yelled "go away" and threw an object in the room. I started using Palo Santo after that on a weekly basis, and found out my neighbor above me would sage the hallway and staircase. That bldg was over 100 years old age.

There's a spot in my bathroom that gets excellent sun and moon light. I'll leave the jewelry and stones there for days sometimes. I would put my jewelry in Epsom salt but was advised to not with the jewelry lol. I'm with you on some making me happy and cheerful. My soladite set I made makes me the happiest to wear. It's also the set everyone wants to buy lol. But the amazonite, at first it felt like it was choking me. I took it all off and kept it on the window for days. When I tried it again, it didn't choke as bad. That's when a past life dream popped in my head where I was slit at the throat for saying something inappropriate. Since then I've never had that choking sensation wearing it, and I'm able to talk back to the narc more freely.

@cat-whisperer there are days I go nuts in the city. I do have emotional issues at times and I feel like a bubble wanting to burst lol. When I moved our and into the surrounding suburbs, it did feel better. But not as good as remote areas. I still commute into downtown Chicago daily, and some days are better than others. Tuesdays sometimes are worse than mondays, but Fridays feel great. But by Friday I'm drained. I can sometimes be good at envisioning the white light bubble, and sometimes not. I have a nice big chunk of clear quartzthat I bought, but I couldn't find anything if that can help the bubble.

Thank you for the black stone suggestions. I found some flower shaped obsidian stones I'll buy to make a new set.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/22/18 06:48:56PM
442 posts

Protecting/shielding yourself


Empath

@hop-daddy I agree, I clear mine out after each time I wear them. Sometimes b4 too if I haven't wore them in a while. If I do not clear them out, I get headaches. Do you feel the same same when not cleared out? I feel better with the larger stones than I do smaller, strangly. I believe this to be the big city energy and the millions of people downtown. Don't know for sure, but waa guided to the bigger ones and I just listened :) After a long day it is nice to just sit, tune out everything and hold them. There are days I wake up and more drawn to wear than others. And now understand why. I also do better wearing them or my body. I am going to listen to you and get the black ones and laboradite. I make everything to wear.

I do have a question for you. When you are shielding yourself, do you envision the white light around you, and do you use a stone more geared for positivity in doing so?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/22/18 05:25:01PM
442 posts

Protecting/shielding yourself


Empath

@hop-daddy yes big city living is an ordeal lol. My family friends and job are here, but sometimes when I'm overloaded like that I just want to move lol. From the list I wear a lot of flourite. I have a big obsidian stone at work, black tourmaline, and hematite. I really don't wear the dark color of the stones. I do have black onyx beads that I can make a bracelet and start wearing. But don't you feel like you need a boulder size living in a big city?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/21/18 07:29:25AM
442 posts

Protecting/shielding yourself


Empath

HI everyone!  :)

I was reading more how to shield and protect myself better.  Had a meltdown from negativity at work and just all the energy of downtown chicago.  I came across this article on using stones to help and wanted share.....

https://www.krista-mitchell.com/blog/protectivecrystals

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/14/18 01:51:35PM
442 posts

Beautiful radiating energy


Empath

One other thing I wanted to add, was a sense of security from that energy. Security or I felt protected.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/14/18 01:45:58PM
442 posts

Beautiful radiating energy


Empath

I will start off first with the innocent smiling and eye flirting and go from there. I've been trying to see if I can get dreams from him and I don't think I can pick up well from it. I'm still clouded these days, but I get Irish from him. Not to say he's irish, or the Irish is from a past life when I lived in Ireland. The dream I had last night was about ireland, but I can't recall too much ot it. If anything, since soul mate from our family are supposed to help us grow in this life, I take that energy I'm in love with to continue to work on myself in a loving nature and to keep spreading love.
I'm still just amazed as to how I feel in love with this person based on their energy, and not even looking at them. I do sense empathic from him, and get the sense that sadness or shyness from him has to do with that. It also makes sense why he's the last one to leave the train to avoid the energies of everyone leaving the train. I'm opposite and have to be first so I don't get stuck behind someone with bad energy and basically want to beat the crowd.
Thank you all for sharing input, and if anything to add or experience's like this I'd love to hear more.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/13/18 11:19:31PM
442 posts

Emotional eating


Empath

@zacharias I do agree with you on the ignoring part. I do deal with other narcs, and I can ignore much easier. And yes it really does help.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/13/18 10:40:14PM
442 posts

Emotional eating


Empath

This narc I work with just wants to undermine, I'm a woman and he made that clear from day one. I went to HR about it, and he lost there. How he still has a job is infuriating to all who works there. So when he does his things, he needs to tread lightly, so no, I don't back down. Any form of it will be seen as retaliation from HR. But as an emapth, I can't stand the thought he does this to someone else. People have commented why he's being nice, but I can see through it. I do have his nasty documented as I won't speak to him in person. I have heard others put him in his place, actually on a conference call on Friday someone did. There was a period some time ago I felt bad for him, and he knew and took full advantage of that and ended up going to my boss many times. I've been looking for a new job, and hopefully will be getting another soon. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/13/18 06:32:21PM
442 posts

Emotional eating


Empath

You are correct on the no conflict. When the narc creates it with me, it fills me with such anxiety I shake. But I know if I keep backing down and don't say anything he'll keep doing it. At least this narc. When I began speaking back he backs down. It's a power trip on his end. I mean, he'll do it in different avenues and I have to call him out on each. Right now he's just trying to defeat in anyway he can, and each time I speak back. It's exhausting and the anxiety of it all really hurts my heart. Why such power and dominance is his karma. The potatoe chips help with the crunch from aggravation of his impotent confidence. I wish I can just back it down and ignore, but he'll keep coming after me and continue to put me down.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/13/18 08:26:54AM
442 posts

Does it seem like Empathy is disappearing? You're not imagining it!


Empath

That is awful about the Drs. Reminds me of those young ones at work that just want a quick buck and not put much effort into it. There is a young man at work who I suspect may have empathy, but stuck in a tornado of narc like me. I just noticed this. He communicates well, he understands, and he TRIES!!! Not like these others that have no idea how to communicate and just demand. The spoiled one at work plays the stock market and got all upset how he lost several thousands of dollars.

As for friends, quality vs quantity mean the most to me. I was so heartbroken my friend Mark moved to the west coast, but he needed to for work and his family. But yet I also smacked him and told him "why didn't you tell me you were when I want to move there too and all my talk of it" I suspected he's of soul family as he has always had something about him that I loved from day one. At least when and if I move there I'll have a friend.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/12/18 04:33:25PM
442 posts

Does it seem like Empathy is disappearing? You're not imagining it!


Empath

I can speak to the long distance. When I moved to Arizona at 27, people just started dropping like flies. Now I get I was 2000 miles away, and maybe we missed each other. But that's no excuse to just stop answering my calls, or text messages, or emails. When I would return back to visit my parents, and would reach out weeks in advance, crickets. But when people planned to visit me, I welcomed in open arms. Sure, you want a break from Chicago weather and stay with me where it's warm, but don't want to see me when I'm there???
When I moved back everyone's life had changed, and I came back in shambles. Just being around loved ones was the best therapy, but they started their own lives and that was all that mattered and how you can contribute to the new times of "couple outtings". That hurt since I my ex had cheated on me and we parted, and I love being with my friends. Now it's changed a bit as we got older, and I notice now why I was set on that path originally. I was ment to have my own life. My one childhood friend now is like a narc. But she moved to Arizona when I came back. Only now wants me to move back there for her sake, and has asked repeatedly over the years. My other one, we'll he was pushed to the side for being with a woman of color. How awful of that?? Who cares, she's a great human being and I adore her! Now he sees I don't care about that like all the others in the group, and we hang out alot current day. Just like the gold ole days.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/12/18 04:10:18PM
442 posts

Beautiful radiating energy


Empath

Yesterday I got on the train as normal to head downtown from work.  I just plopped myself next to a man with tatoos.  As I sat there, I never felt such beautiful energy come from someone in so long or maybe ever!  I felt came, peace, love, and it was just beautiful.  I was trying to not look at his face nor take his energy, but as I got off the train I looked inside and I saw him still sitting in there.  This morning, I get on the train again and sit all the way in the back with the seat that faces everyone.  Guess who sat one row away??? Beautiful energy tatoos man.  I felt it right away.  This time I saw his face and he's quite attractive.  Something with his eyes showed sadness or shyness.  But he looked familiar....

Now I can't stop thinking about him and feel in love.

How does he have such wonderful energy to me and look familiar???  Is this a past life love???

I want to sit next to him again and drop a note as I get off the train titled "for the tattoo man"  and inside try and say something normal like "I noticed you and was wondering if you'd like to get coffee one evening or a drink"  and leave my number.  Lol.  Seems that may be too forward these days, but we used to do that before technology lol.  You know, someone dropping a cute note like that in a locker.  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/12/18 03:59:58PM
442 posts

Does it seem like Empathy is disappearing? You're not imagining it!


Empath

I can say that a majority of the younger generation at my work don't want to work as hard, but expect and feel they should earn $75k-$100k a year. Along with 4 weeks Vaca off the bat. Now, not all or like that, some work hard and don't complain.

The entitlement alone from them and the jelousy radiates down the cubicles. I recall making a comment once about trying grass as a kid, and one is like that's disgusting. Yes it is I said, and it tastes very green. So is sliding down a slide after a kid peed on it. But we didn't care as children growing up and we are fine, and that we also didn't have ipads to play on.

The selfies drive me nuts on social media. I read an article that selfies are from people lacking self confidence and narcissist traits. All to get people to like their photos and comment on how god the look. A cry for attn.

One another thing to note as well, no one can do anything alone. For heavens sake I had a coworker who wouldn't go to Starbucks alone to get coffee cause she felt like she had no friends and looked stupid. If you feel like having a cup of coffee, go and get it.

I do agree that technology I'd pullING us away from social interaction. I'm single and 39 and don't get hit on the bars like I did at 23. Even in social groups people are always on their phones. I don't get that, put it away.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/11/18 03:49:43PM
442 posts

Have you ever heard of Clairgustance and Clairsalience?


Empath

I started practicing readings with a group. And I kept tasting mashed potatoes. Delicious ones I may add. Turns out the girl was hosting a dinner and potatoes were on the menu. I did smell the ocean once in my bedroom. I was like wtf, I'm over 1000 miles away from salt water. It lingered for like 10-15 minutes. I then thought of a friend who moved to the west coast, and after that thought the smell of ocean went away. (My friend is alive) In that case what would that mean? Is that maybe a connection of some kind to my friend? Like they were communicating it was boating time?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/11/18 05:14:45AM
442 posts

Emotional eating


Empath

The chips do it for me, I get a temporary release of the bad energy. But then it comes back. I'm going to bring my obsidian stone to work. It's quite large and try to meditate out the negativity at my desk.

Here's to hoping I don't throw it at the narc....kidding
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/10/18 07:28:55PM
442 posts

Have you ever heard of Clairgustance and Clairsalience?


Empath

I have heard of this and experienced it. Just never put a name to it. I have smelled my grandmas, and sometimes I get such urges to eat certain foods as example. The foods usually have a relation to the person I connect with. In my old apt I used to used to smell cinnamon rolls. In one area of the apt only. I was to frightened at that time to figure it out who it's from. I'll get smells from time to time wherever I go that don't make sense or if others don't smell it. Sometimes I even have cravines fir a food and can taste it, and only to find the person 20ft away from me has a craving for it :) Joys of living in a big city :(
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/10/18 07:05:36PM
442 posts

Emotional eating


Empath

Doe anyone else feel they emotional eat when the energy from others is consuming???  Or is this just me and my charkra went out of balance?

   Of course it's this narc at work I've spoken up b4.  I know that I should do this and that.  But honestly, this is childish. If I step up and talk about it he'll blame me again, but I have documentation to support it.  If I step back, he thinks he has the power and starts his manipulative tactics. Its no win.  But at the end of the day, its not about winning, its about the right thing to do.  Feels like we as empaths should come together to figure out plan's that have worked to make this planet a better place.  I honestly want to tell him to get over his karma and stop talking it out on me.  But diplomatically since it's work.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/28/18 11:09:15PM
442 posts

Flipping between emotions


Empath

I think for me I just was around new energy I'm not used too??? I don't know, it was so bizarre. But yet so fascinating. It's not like when I go to the city for work, and some days I feel like fainting. Those must be the days many feel like not working! Lol.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/27/18 09:16:20PM
442 posts

Flipping between emotions


Empath

Yes! Quick and drastic. What is this? The full moon?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/26/18 07:09:29PM
442 posts

Flipping between emotions


Empath

Anyone else feeling like a an out of tune radio?  I don't know how else to put it.  I'm getting good and bad feelings all at once, and it flips suddenly.  I don't think I've experienced this before.  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/17/18 01:27:37PM
442 posts

Left, right, or both


Empath

I get a lot heat on my stone pendants. Not all of them, just some of them.

You know what I'm doing right now? Feeling for hot and cold areas lol. Some are cold and some warm. My shoulders are cold and an inch away from there my back is hot and neck.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/17/18 04:53:51AM
442 posts

Left, right, or both


Empath

Sounds like a choker style necklace may sit right where you need it? Buy I know those can be uncomfortable too.

I'm going to pay better attention to this. I'm thinking mine is on my chest where I release. I always feel great wearing pendants.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/18 08:30:17PM
442 posts

Going nutss


Empath

Wow!!! If that Is the case, I think he's been reaching out for years since I was a teen. I had random dreams from a man, but now it's more frequent this year. These are not past life dreams, as most seem to be where i see his face only. A few ive seen him what seems to be in a city. A few years ago one of the dreams was him sad as his heart was broken over a woman. I just happened to be near Sedona when I had this dream on vacation. I felt that she cheated on him. He loved her so much. Maybe now he's over that and why he may be reaching out? Based on the dreams he seems more in a spiritual growth than myself. The other dream was that his chakras were all balanced.
You think he's reaching out more because this year was particularly hard on me, but he's ready to meet? I have felt this year I need to kick it up a notch on the growth. But other things are not aligning with me in terms of job and trying to move to another city. Like I'm not picking the right ones. I am getting a push. I'm off tangent now... He came when to me with his name and location in one dream months ago, that had me pre occupied with looking for landmarks in that city that I saw in my dream. All validated and I've never been there or knew anything about it. More recent I had a time of when we would meet.
I have heard how hard they are, the TF love. Read a few books on it. Maybe that's where I got this wave of get it together again. I'm trying everyday.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/18 07:17:14PM
442 posts

Left, right, or both


Empath

I LOVE this topic. I used to always wear everything on my right hand since I'm right handed. I have some protective stones that I wore on right. I used to tell my friend they are not working, I think they are fake. She then told me try wearing on your left hand. Well it has made a huge difference. I can mostly feel it on my left side.

Now I have a question about this. If I want to release the negative, I should wear on my right?? I've been making a lot of healing jewelry and wearing on my left that is more for anything positive related. I wouldn't be to happy if hematite or black tourmaline on my receiving left side is bringing me more negativity :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/18 07:08:45PM
442 posts

Going nutss


Empath

Ok, I'm getting another wave of wild dreams.  Some I can remember and some I cant.  I typically know I dreamt about him by how I feel in the morning.  Either way, it's making me nuts.   Who is this?  And this wonderful bouts of energy being brought to me?  Making me a bit nuts Just like the synchronicities I had for years about a certain someone.  

Now I'm having dreams again, for almost a year of a male presence.  Once I actually felt him kiss my cheek.  (yes, it freaked me out!)   Anyways, what I want to know is this.  Has anyone here dreamt of someone they haven't met, yet to eventually meet them??  the dreams are coming more frequent.  If it's not him in it, it's the city I gather he lives in.  I'm thinking to book a trip!  Or are my crystal collection drawing in a new soul mate I'm to meet?

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/18 06:57:16PM
442 posts

Seasons


Empath

I think hop daddy nailed it. I was going to comment about others being sad that summer is coming to a close. I have felt it from many around. Where I live, the city is known for fun packed summers. And every year as it turns to cold then winter, all everyone does is complain about it in person and on FB. It gets depressing hearing it, but through in empathic feelings. I want to pull my hair out lol.
The fact you and your father share a b day coming up is probably bringing that on too! There is one month that for years I'd cry and drink my sorrows. It was the month my baby was supposed to be born. I finally moved past that, but I get it.
I too go in bouts of depression and have to pick myself up. And I swear, it's so hard! Ugh. But sometime's I find its really not mine and from others. I found another grounding technique that has been helping. Do you work with crystals and stones?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/18 06:38:54PM
442 posts



I can relate. Met someone, love at first site, all the synchronicities, dreams etc. I was originally really hurt and disappointed that more never came from it, and eventually contact starter to become far and few. I reached out a few months ago and he responded, but I think that was the time I actually felt it was time to let him go.

With what @so-exhausted stated, I agree with is "time." I think your soul may also know when it's ready to cut the chord. I still think about him from time to time, but the longing, urge, missing is no longer there. I did one night after that lost contact, b4 bed pictured our chords cut and I could see him floating away. B4 I could never do it, it was to hard. Guess it may not have the right time.

This man and I shared several lives together, which makes sense why I fell in love at first site. But my guide also told me earlier this that him and I wouldn't be together in this life and a greater one is coming. It took me months to accept that and I finally have. Honestly, it was hard for me to see what was better than him, but I'm trusting that.
I'm grateful now that I was able to meet him in this life, is how I see it. I've also been able to finally at a point in my life be OK and accept I'm single. Everything I'm planning and doing is without a partner in life, and when a new one comes....hey he can enjoy the ride of life with me :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/05/18 10:12:33PM
442 posts

Can a Narcissist be an empath?


Empath

@so-exhausted-from-users you have a lot of a great advice. :)

Eating a well balanced diet
Exercise
Nature
Healing crystals
Baths/being in water
Reiki
Chakra balancing

Are all great go to's.

The pain you are feeling isnt going to go away today or tomorrow but it will pass soon. Im sorry that this had happened today and my heart hurts. If it's a lot right now to bear I'd go and get a Reiki session if you can or some kind of energy healing. Those have always really helped me during stressful times. I started going to bed at night with a few crystals under my pillow. That along with wearing them and a diet has helped me since the weekend. (I had a huge meltdown lol)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/04/18 10:51:08PM
442 posts

Vegan diet


Empath

Being out is very hard. It's carbs everywhere. I struggled in the beginning alot. Always had some kind of snacks on me. Mostly nuts and nut bars. Now I'm OK with having some carbs, but I can't just have all carbs. My glucose will start plummeting with an hour.
I'm lucky I haven't turned diabetic yet. Sticking to low carb has helped with that. Reactive hypoglycemia is the diagnosis I have, and it was interesting reading others talk about it on forums. You never feel full from carbs, it's strange.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/03/18 09:50:36PM
442 posts

Vegan diet


Empath

I agree, don't step on the scale. It becomes obsessive, and if it goes up 3-5lbs it can be discouraging. It shouldn't because it's water. I have a friend who lost 3lbs in a week, and was excited. I was excited for her too! She was eating right and walking more, and in a week felt better. Then a few day's after those 3lbs, she is up 5lbs and got discouraged and upset and wanted to cry. I think it was after her cheat day. I tried telling her that was mostly water weight and the body needs time before it starts burning fat and not get discouraged, and well,,,, I was the bad guy because I didn't know what I was talking about and that a cheat day is deserved, and that I didn't know how hard dieting is, and that I'm not empathetic, LOL. Yet she forgets I struggle with mine the past several years due to the hypoglycemia and know all about water weight gain and loss during cycles. Yet, I went very low carb for half a year. I couldnt cheat at all until I got some regulation back to my pancreas. No Pizza, cookies, fries, wine, etc, any of that. No cheat days for me. Yet somehow I didn't understand how hard it is, LOL.
I too don't really set goals anymore after that intense low carb for months. As long I eat right, stay within a lower end of the carb scale, and exercise, it comes off in due time. And I honestly feel like a million bucks. The JUNK! Omg the junk is my weakness when waves of stress come. There are days I'm to exhausted to ground myself so I have cheese, chips, and wine. OK sometime a frozen pizza. This is what I have to work on more.
I tried fasts, and nearly passed out the first day. When I finally learned of my condition my Dr strongly advised against it. She does admit the health benefits of it, just not with my condition and strongly against me doing it. :( If you can do it and are OK on it go for it! Many friends of mine have done them and felt tremendous after. My one friend always suggest's drinking alkaline water for best results on fast, guess regular water didn't produce same results.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/31/18 08:35:41PM
442 posts

Narcs


Empath

I can't stand them, and I know many here don't :)  Corporate America is filled with them, and we all know not the best place for empaths.  I'm still struggling at my job, and still looking.  I currently work for a multi billion dollar company.   I feel as though the universe has something better planned for me, yet can't figure it out,.  My dreams seem to fade, as well as my recollection of them.  Reality, I lost everything in the recession 10 years ago and filed bankruptcy and lost my home, and many more I don't want to detail.  That is my hesitation along with others who experiencedo a great loss like that.   I'm looking for anothe job and I get passed up for everything, and I'm marketable.  The narc at work is draining me.  I have crystals at my desk, i wear them with what i make.  I meditate before work, shield myself.  Is it possible I'm ment to quit and suffer again ???   Or that I'm being forced out to figure out a business of my own?  I have ideas of a business, and it will dran my savings.  I have heard recently more that God works in mysterious ways.   I'm sorry all for this burden, I'm feeling very low lately.  My new crystal collection helped temporarily.  


updated by @tigerlily: 09/05/18 02:37:58PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/30/18 01:22:47PM
442 posts

Vegan diet


Empath

Yes!! That is the other thing, how other's prepare the food. I guess now we can tell the world "it was made with love" comes from on items that are delicious haha! It totally makes sense on what you are saying about process foods. I'm sure those that work in the factories have bad days, or hate their job, etc. Aside from all the preservatives and what not in those foods are bodies can't digest and just get absorbed etc.

I've heard people go on starvation fasts to kick start their metabolism, along with trying to get their bodies back on tract or for cleansing. After a few days people have reported feeling amazing and continue longer.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/29/18 07:56:31PM
442 posts

Vegan diet


Empath

Me too! I'd like to know about the processed foods for you. I can talk about mine, but mine is mostly due to a medical condition and goes to a different level of past life stuff and this life. And among others. But if anything processed foods cause me much anxiety as a start, and destroy the body. And as emapths, we really don't need more of that :)

I currently have reactive hypoglycemia/insulin resistance caused by PCOS. My guides told me recently was given this condition so I do not have children this life, and to eat foods of the earth for nutrients due to the effects the body can suffer from empathic abilities. As well as high endurance to sustain a vast amount of physical activity to aid in clearing of energy. Some also due to past life stuff/karma. I'm OK with it all that I understand now. If I didn't cut my carb count and increase protein I would turn diabetic by now and not fulfilled my life's purpose. The stamina to stay fit, I'm still working on that piece with my nutty job lol. (Which I know is not the plan, still trying to find the right plan)

I have read many empath's feeling energy from the meats we consume and going vegan or vegetarian has worked the best for them, and how much better they feel. For me, I feel my empathic abilities have grown since moving to a low carb diet, but high in meat protein. I need at least 100 grams of protein a day to not suffer low blood sugar and under 75 carbs/sugar combined. IncLuding fruit in those macros. Dont get me wrong, there have been times when i ate chicken or a steak, and i felt "off" And then I will stay away from those 2 sources for several days and consume fish or turkey or omlettes, until i feel Ok to consume again. I have switched brands as well. I honestly think it's the cheaper quality meat I feel it from due to how the animals are treated resulting in that. Example, my mom buys her stuff from a store affordable to her. I just can't eat the salmon she cooks. The package says wild caught, but honestly I think it's farm raised and the packaging is a lie. Where I buy my salmon and consume, I feel more alive because I believe that is true wild caught, and not a bunch of fish raised in a tank and fearing.

I'm curious to know how you and others and diet are different, and possibly a deeper meaning???
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/25/18 02:33:10PM
442 posts

Tibetan healing rings


Empath

Thank you!!! This os beautiful. I'm going to order one, or see if the crystal store by my home sells these. This resembles my ex''s bracelet. It had magnets on it as well. He swore it helped his carpel tunnel and had no pain. When I tried it on my whole arm radiated from the bracelet. I really do believe this kept the negativity away from you.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/24/18 10:04:08PM
442 posts

Astral Projection


Empath

I found out that, this is what I am doing. When I found out, I got nervous to go sleep!!! I'M apparently "clouded" therefore I don't remember/recall to much of the experience. It makes sense that if I can clear or get away from the negativity I'm surrounded in, I'll remember the experience fully.

The issue I'm running into is clearing it all. It's a lot of work. It sounds great, but when I come home I struggle to do it all. I've done some of this b4 in the past, not all, I'm OK for a few days and I'm physically exhausted from the routine of it. How do I get over the hump? I think I just got lazy.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/24/18 09:47:09PM
442 posts

Tibetan healing rings


Empath

This is amazing! Where did you purchase the ring?

Today I wore my rose quartz bracelets and hematite together. Ones that I have been making. It was a bracelet explosion and I didn't care. Along with my large pendant that hangs in the middle of my chest, that i keep under my shirt. I received multiple compliments on them, and the complaining at work was almost non existent today. Will try the bracelet explosion again monday. I just felt happier and not so P'd off LOL.

I feel tangled in energy all day from complaining people at work that make too much money, so I'd like to try the brass ring out if you don't mind sharing the website?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/22/18 07:54:54PM
442 posts

Crystals


Empath

Awesome! Thank you!!!

I know all these resonate with me as they gave me good feelings upon picking them out. But you are right, I did leave the store shaking. I did also get them because of the energy I'm picking up on, and if they are helping me clear out even better. I have a big purse so I may alternate days taking one places with me or something. My very own pets rocks :)

I'm about to buy a bunch to make my own jewelry to wear to when I go to work in the city to help.
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