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TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/27/18 08:13:19PM
371 posts

Vitamin/Mineral Deficiency in empaths


Empath

Hi!  I'm curious to know if anyone suffers from any vitamin/mineral deficiency being an empath?  Do empaths get depleted quicker from those from the many energies out there?   Does having supplements or foods rich in that vitamin/mineral provide any kind of grounding assistance?  I know food and diet has been discussed.

Just thought about this when I took an Epsom salt bath to ground myself, and I was just reading the package and noticed "magnesium" as the first ingredient.  


updated by @tigerlily: 04/27/18 08:14:25PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/16/18 09:12:04PM
371 posts

Understanding Empaths and complex relationships


Empath

I have learned to trust my instinct. When I meet someone, just looking in their eyes and how my body reacts tells me. The more I listen to logic than feeling, the more I suffer and get burned. It really is hard when society thinks I'm placing judgement, they don't understand.

However, when I am stressed or anxious I don't see or feel as much. Then I have to release the energy that is blocking. As we know, it's a lot of grounding work. It catches up so fast!
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/15/18 09:12:37PM
371 posts

Can we manifest a dream for more clarity?


Dreams

Hi, I think our guides and soul can tell us through dreams. I've had some negative things go on with people and it will come through in a dream. As of recent, the dreams have becoming clearer (but I'm also asking for them) it can be past life related or it can be their karma affecting you.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/05/18 05:36:18PM
371 posts

Does the empath have a purpose?


Empath

@ crystalsage This is a great topic and many great advice/suggestions etc. I agree with you. To help bring balance to this world that is full of negativity. We all have a vast knowledge of wisdom that others may lack through multiple reincarnations etc. We are resourceful and everwhere. What to do with that negative energy? I don't know, maybe it's supposed to filter through us to turn into white light and be sent out as positive? Probably through grounding work as you stated.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/02/18 04:55:45PM
371 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

Yes, I put headphones on at work. Sometimes that works. Today I had them in almost all day. As for the bathroom, lol. Yes I have sometimes gone in there to just sit, that helps too. But only if no one else is in there. I've even gone into empty conference rooms, or my friends desk and she'll put a meeting on my calendar lol. I'll even go to the one guys desk, whom I think ma be an empath and make it look like we are working but talk. Lol. Anything I can do to get distance from that narc.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/01/18 08:27:46PM
371 posts

Negative CoWorkers


Empath

@sashacat1995 I've had many coworkers like you explained and I'm battling with one now in a way I've never had to before. :(

I know at work we can't light candles, but what about crystals? I have 2 at my desk. I also have plants, some have died from the negativity. The first one I ever had almost died, so I brought it home and now it's flourishing again.

Sometimes small comments of I'm sorry or that sucks or ya I don't know. Will help to some degree. You can always document what they are doing and saying and ask others if this is a hostile working environment. We all have personal problems, but if it's affecting their work or yours, you may need to go to your boss or HR.

If it's smaller things, boundaries are good. So idmf she's complaining about her BF say "I'm sorry this is happening, but I've got things here I have to finish one. Things will get better" something like that.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/31/18 02:22:58PM
371 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

Are you referring to physical sickness?

Yes I'm looking for a new job. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/30/18 06:23:52PM
371 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

@crystalsage that waa really nice that you offered to help her like that. You didn't know that she wasn't planning on returning them. But I get it, and understand how that feels. Have you tried reaching back out again?

No he's not sick. It's his energy. He's a narcissist, master manipulator. I don't think he thought I'd be as prepared in some of the pushback to his manipulative ways which got him to stop in the end, or the fact that I'm a human being too and have feelings too. I've been reading about narcissists all week, and in all the articles it seems for narcs they need their egos stroked to get on their good side. But I also know they take and take and take. So I tried the reverse on him. Called him out on his lies, provided examples of things he didn't think I'd had that proved his lies, showed my emotion and my feelings and that it's not all about him and that it's his people/staff too. In the end I did feel really bad, and questioned if I was to harsh? Because he looked really sad and then couldn't keep his stories straight in the end. And I think that's when I had absorbed all his energy and felt that sick. Because after the meeting he seemed fine. I've been sick every month that I started work there. I've never been this sick so much. I caught hand foot mouth, and I have no kids, no one else in the office had it. I was out of work for a week with it. I had laryngitis. I got the flu and was out 2 days. And multiple colds with flu like symptoms. I through out my back, which I haven't done in years. And was in pain and discomfort for 3 wewks. My knee kept acting up for a month, which again hasn't happened in years. Chronic headaches. All in 6 months. The days he's not there I feel perfectly fine. And no headaches, back pain, knee pain, cold/flu like symptoms. When he's back something starts again.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/29/18 03:01:07PM
371 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

@crystalsage. After today it seems like the shaking is from not good energy. I was with that guy today at work in a meeting for nearly 2 hours, and i shook the whole time. Afterwards I felt nausea and had a headache. I couldn't even walk straight and had vertigo. I started thinking maybe my bloodsugar got to low and so i ate, nope nothing. It didn't help. Another hour went by and the nausea was still there, the shakes, a headeach, and I felt feverish, the vertigo. So I left work and in 20 minutes I started to feel better. Now that I'm home, and it's been a few hours, I am feeling pretty good and now want to go and do something :)

I knew I was going to have this meeting today and had shielded myself, and red and green had kept popping in my head, and I asked for help from my guides.

I know what you mean about city life. The farther away I get from the city the better I feel. It's like normal and feels great! :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/28/18 07:18:34PM
371 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

Yes! Whenever I go on vacation, I feel relieved. But after a day or 2, I feel like I didn't even take one. It's probably why I love all the small towns along the great lakes. It feels so peaceful, and like I can breathe again. Emotional shielding only helps with anger. Which I'm not for all the time, I do like being happy. When I am, that's when people flock like seagulls.

Cats are interesting, that's for sure. At least when I need a hug he's always there for that.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/28/18 05:29:25PM
371 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

@crystalsage yes!! The shaking only happens around certain people. Then I get nervous/anxious and say dumb things. What does that mean? Like it's bad energy? I know in this one case that coworker they are not good people. I'll have to pay attn to that one.

@Krosskelt yes i agree to an extent it's not good all the time based on our purpose. I do live in a big city and work the downtown area. Population over 3 mil, 9 mil with the surrounding suburbs. People are everywhere all the time and I have no idea who's it. We have thousands of people in our bldg, and hundreds on a floor. When I think it's one person, it's usually the person next to them. I think here in this case I have to shield, it's to much. Would you? Oh and lots of narcs in a big city too. The one who makes me shake is a narc, only it's gotten worse the past few days. The shakiness. Today it made me jump out of no where, I turned around and there he was.

I'm going to try everything you all mentioned tomorrow. Today I envisioned the white light pouring over me like lava, and saw myself glow, had all my healing stones, and evil eye. I also asked for assistance from my guides, this time. I think it helped a bit more.

This may sound strange, but my cat today is not trying to walk all over me. Guess I haven't noticed his behavior until today. He's still abut 2 feet away sleeping, but normally he trys to sit on my chest, shoulder, or head, every day. And follows me everywhere, even to the bathroom. He's not little either. Maybe he senses something too.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/27/18 07:08:54PM
371 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

Hi!  I'm looking for advice on shielding.  

Some of the things I use are healing stones, I even have jewelry of healing stones,  Epsom salt baths, reiki, chakra balancing, nature walks, essential oils, envisioning myself covered in white light.

But, I think some of the past life regressions I have been doing is making the empathy stronger that the above isn't working well anymore.  Which was expected as it came out in the regression my gifts would be amplified, but this is wow.  I struggled before looking people in their eyes, but now I cant even look at anyone.  I'll just zone off and say dumb things.  I'll start shaking if my coworker is complaining about something and then it feels like tuning a radio in my head  trying to find a station, and then again I say dumb things.   Just when I thought I felt everything before, this is just wow.  

So whatever you all may suggest.  I'll try anything to get back to normal :)

TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/27/18 06:46:55PM
371 posts

Past Life Regression CD


New Age

It could be all of the above coming together for the shift you are experiencing. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/25/18 11:06:37AM
371 posts

Past Life Regression CD


New Age

This sounds like past life to me. Where did you get the CD? Do you feel or notice any shifts after? Or see/understand what you learned?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/18/18 10:10:58PM
371 posts

Can you dream other people's dreams?


Dreams

Sounds like your dreams are from past lives. I was told once your soul will show you things from a past life that may need fixing today.

As for sharing dreams. My mother and I have had similiar dreams. I think it is the connection we share.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/17/18 08:52:13PM
371 posts

Feeling bad


Empath

I've tried a few things, and it comes back. What has helped b4, doesnt work on him. I'm very open to trying something new that can help in the moment he projects that energy.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/17/18 03:35:38PM
371 posts

Feeling bad


Empath

All this is making more sense now. Thank you both. The individual I'm dealing with, really only cares for themselves. I dislike I'm carrying the burden of their wrong doings, for their gain. This is what I'm seeing/feeling now. I had a dream about this. It is clearer to me that narcs do this for their own gain. Since I have argued back to this narc and i thank my strong personality for this, this is what they do not like and just trying to take advantage of me to get their own way. Using their feelings to make me feel inferior so that they may feel superior. In the end, I see now morally/ethically I did no wrong here.

I think what am I am feeling is that this narc lost a battle, a battle that they felt no other would stand against them. And is projecting their feelings to me so I'd back down. Of which I will not. But because I care he knows it, and is playing reverse psychologically to get me to side with him.

If it helps I can state the situation at hand. Even though I know I know I stand correct, I dislike that he's making me feel wrong about it?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/17/18 09:41:12AM
371 posts

Feeling bad


Empath

Yes! It's taken over me, and I'm always feeling it's my fault. As if I should have just taken everything from them and not even argue back. The more I have the past few months, the worse it got.

How does it stop? Is the only way for them to not be involved? I didnt see this peeson for a week and i was happy and i felt my confidence grow again. I've had energy clearing done and then it comes back.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/16/18 07:50:14PM
371 posts

Feeling bad


Empath

Does anyone else get that "I feel bad" feeling when dealing with not so nice people like a narc?  

Why should I feel bad when someone did me wrong and I got upset with them?  Am I picking up on their bad feeling for doing wrong to me?  Or is it my higher self saying I shouldn't have gotten upset?  Do I just care to much?


updated by @tigerlily: 03/17/18 04:17:51PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/12/18 05:09:32PM
371 posts

Ladies does this happen to you?


Empath

Do you get overly emotional? I noticed the past several months I'll just start becoming overly emotional. I thought it was the hormones. Wait, past several months is when i started this new job.
Maybe it is picking up others emotions around, because it started at that time. Oh so weird! And here I thought I may need meds to control it.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/08/18 06:03:32AM
371 posts

What is your biggest issue as an empath?


Empath

Alot! Where to begin? Sometimes I feel like a hot mess. I live in a big city of about 9mil.

-I agree with others in the sense of being in the spotlight. I cant. All that would make me trip on stage or stumble my words in presentations(which I have)
-Taking on their energy in any form. Your happy I get happy, your sad I feel sad, if you are disorganized mess, I start to pick up on it myself. Days I'm super happy, those are the days people are in a bad mood and I go home exhausted.
-Exhausted daily
-To much energy, I feel like I'm rumbling inside ready to pop. In this case I may have an emotional outburst to someone and just start crying.
-Large crowds? The anxiety fills to dread like being onstage.
-I attract all kinds of crazy and depressed people, or someone going through a very difficult time in their life. And when I've helped, I'm pushed aside for good. When I don't help, then I'm a bad person.
-Do I dare go into how this is in corporate america? Narcs seem to lurking around every corner. Boundaries are consistently violated.
-Traffic? I get road rage out of nowhere. Why? I'm in no rush to get to my destination.
-Days I'm really happy from an energy healing or being in nature, totally cleansed. Those are the days where everyone around come with their bad energy.
-when I've left the city for an out door adventure, and I start driving back I can start feeling the energy that I just cleared.
-If I'm quiet and to myself, people ask where you been or people at work start questioning and then I'm in an office with my boss. What???
-Physically what I feel? I feel I get distorted vision, anxiety, shakes, bad gut feelings, headaches. When I escape what is is causing that. Like any of the above, I start feeling better.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/06/18 04:38:02PM
371 posts



@pink rose

I go through this. My word now is asinine. Or phrases will pop in mind. I think it's because when I use other words that are more abrasive, it closes me off. And I'm not ment to be closed off.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/05/18 04:14:02PM
371 posts

Meeting your spirit guide


Empath

It was through a group workshop. I think it was more mild of hypnosis or deep meditation , I could have fell asleep, my body was heavy and relaxed. I think we were all under this for a half hour. She talked the entire time guiding us. And I don't recall much she was saying after that when he appeared.

I never knew or understood how to communicate with my guide, but he told me how he does.

@hop-daddy see if your area has past life regression workshops. It should be the same mild hypnosis or deep meditation. If you are in the area I think you are, I have someone you can call.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/04/18 07:58:05PM
371 posts

Meeting your spirit guide


Empath

Hi everyone! :)

I met my spirit guide recently for the first time  through a workshop.  I'm really fascinated by the experience of it and was curious to know your experiences when you met yours?


updated by @tigerlily: 03/09/18 05:02:03AM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/03/18 09:18:30AM
371 posts

How do we fight it.


Empath

Is your friend in a bad relationship? We can't always stop friends from chosing this. We as friends or empaths can tell them and talk to them. If the darkness is affecting you, and you have tried talking to your friend, may be best to remove yourself from it.

I was in a relationship many years ago where my friends have warned and told me to leave and I didnt. I got sucked into the darkness spiral. At the time I didnt listen, but wish I had. But as humans go, sometime we we all want to be with someone and put up with stuff more and leave when it's to late. Experience and life lessons is what helps us understand better.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/27/18 10:44:20PM
371 posts

Have you ever gone through a transition that really changed your whole life?


Empath

Yes, I have been feeling something grow stronger over the years. Started after a traumatic incident. But when I review my life, it waa silently there. The past year my gut and heart spoke to me more, but my brain gets in the way. It always does because logically speaking, it's not logical. Example, why would I move out of a place that has great things. Great location, great rent, it's safe. Every year come to sign the lease bad feeling. After the 3rd year, in the middle of my lease, stuff hit the fan. After 6 weeks of arguing, I waa out of my lease deposit back in full. Not to mention other things that had started to develop. I move back in with my parents "temporarily" my car dies. My father spent 2 weeks on it. It wouldn't start. If I had stayed in that apt, I'd be screwed. I couldn't afford a car payment. I feared for stuff at work, which I posted here. A promotion went to someone else.
I'm learning or trying to use my gut and heart more. Logically (my brain) says it makes sense, and my gut says no. As I paid attn, some of my decision making may not seem logical to everyone else, but has always been correct. Heck, didnt make sense to me. I wish I listened to my gut, or trusted it. I'm not in a good position now with some things, but the others that I am good at I'd be in the hole. But at least I'm trying trusting me more. I have trust issues, those that I can trust it turns oUT I cant. And against me. But my gut doesn't say anything. I'm still learning!!
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/27/18 06:07:23PM
371 posts

The narc spell


Empath

@hop-daddy

This guy is not backing down and reported me to my manager.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/26/18 05:00:19AM
371 posts

The narc spell


Empath

Thank you! This makes so much sense!! I planned on today documenting all the things that have happened thus far, as unfortunately I lost sleep over it too much before. I'll use this going forward. And you are right, if I show less stress or how much it doesn't bother me hopefully he'll back down. At least I hope so :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/24/18 11:16:44AM
371 posts

The narc spell


Empath

Apparently, I got the impression he doesn't want me to know that I know he's watching over my shoulder. I know his staff doesn't like him, and I get a sense he's trying to get me on his side. With the run in I've had with him, I don't blame them. He was away for 2 days this week and his staff even said they feel better when he's not there. It's honestly very dumb and childish, and this is work. I don't have time playing games. And I don't have time setting up my desk and be paranoid at who's watching me . It makes me nervous and I create errors. My friend thinks he's attracted to me and does all this so I give him attn. Honestly it's really dumb, and I can't believe someone has time to do this in their day.

Any advice anyone can give me I'm willin to listen and try. I don't know what to do anymore. I've called him out, I tried being nice and work with him, I tried talking to his staff, and at the end of the day I'm just always feeling bothered.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/24/18 09:26:09AM
371 posts

The narc spell


Empath

Yes I do! I feel I cant do my job right. I'm making small errors were I normally wouldn't before. I have an awful feeling everytime I go into work. A few weeks ago after I was out of the office, I came back feeling great and thought I could just let things go. This week happened and my coworker on Thursday said, from emails I sent to her, that he needs my attn and a pat on a back. She also laughed at them because of how ridiculous he is. Then on Friday, he did it again. I decided again to not give him my energy and question why he's doing these things, and so he started walking behind my desk again. I put up mirrors on my desk to see who is behind me. When I did that, he noticed and walked the other way very quickly.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/23/18 11:43:34PM
371 posts

The narc spell


Empath

I know we discuss much about the narc empath relationship. I'm just bothered by it tonight.

The narc I'm dealing with has a way about him. I can't even look at him or talk to him anymore without feeling in agonizing emotional pain and want to vomit. I'm feeling really bad for him and feeling bad I say not nice things about him. Why am I feeling bad??? I didn't do anything wrong but say he's needy, greedy, I call him an @$s hole. I wouldn't say these things if he wasn't so manipulative and take advantage of me. I know, im still in the wrong for calling him names. Now, my strong personality kicks him and I set him straight. Then he goes dormant for a bit, and then starts again. I work with him. Yuck.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/20/18 08:52:04PM
371 posts

I forgot it was supposed to be fun!


Empath

Same. Soaked up alot of hate and negativity over stuff in life. I haven't mastered the art of lettings things go and rolling it off my shoulder, but it greatly helps. All the taking in from people and helping was really affecting me. I kept getting this feeling I was going to have a heart attack one day. Finally after several people telling me to let things, and trying divine writing. It has helped tremendously. I was told through writing to have fun and not take on others troubles. Fun came up multiple times through my writings.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/09/18 05:55:57PM
371 posts



Are you looking to cut the chord?  I think from my experience, that is similar to yours, only reversed.  Leaving the person alone is the best thing, let that person heel.  Learn to forgive yourself for whatever it is that caused him pain.  He will then one day forgive you. 

TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/07/18 03:56:00PM
371 posts

Living in a small town


Empath

Well,,,,I think I won. I'm in 9 mil people, lol. My commutes to work downtown are on the train with about 400-500 other people. People are everywhere! And the 1000's of others trying to walk out the train station. Some days I can tolerate the crowds and others I just feel like passing out.

But, I am not sure it's better than the gossipy small town folk. I dislike crowds and gossipy people. But, I do LOVE the nature of it.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/17/18 08:09:22PM
371 posts

Mind Blown


Empath

Yes, each time. Each time I get I'm your boss and you have to do what I say. The other one, always like twists how it's my duties, and she goes along with it. I've been fighting for a long time.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/16/18 10:21:57PM
371 posts

Mind Blown


Empath

Today took another turn. I'm completely wiped from it all. If I could quit my job and move away I think I would.

The narc at work has gotten worse and placed another bomb before me. I've excelled at my career, and now this man feels the need to know everything I do. He doesn't trust what I do, hand holding, along with a slew of other things. It's taking more of my time and requiring me to work more. Cutting into my study/class time. Of which I'm doing on my own to change my job that is irrelevant to this job or his. He doesn't know that. Calling out sick a couple of days, from actually being sick, was like a fresh of breath air. Then he got sick and was out a few days. I felt like I was on vacation.

I can sense a great deal of sadness and turmoil and disorganization from him. It's exhausting. The best thing I can do is just do my job. If he doesnt bother me with all I listed above, life is good. It recentky hit me that he has some troubles personally and professionally. Like someone whispeeing in my ear. It makes me honestly feel so bad about whatever it is he's going through. I tried helping b4 and I always got shot down, That doesnt work he says, but i know he hasnt tried because i asked. I give my experiences or whatever i know or have done, and its still an excuse. I honestly dont know what he wants. This is professionally and personally. So i just stopped. Now he's using the pitty party which I want nothing to do with. I basically said I'm sorry but this isn't relevant to my job or the job. And it got escalated to my boss. She doesn't see what he's doing and insisted I help. But can't offer any suggestions on what to do except for doing what he needs. Now I'm back to doing 2 jobs again and part time therapist. Of which is not outlined in my duties. I submitted an anonymous complaint to HR asking for advice and all they said was gather all documents and outline etc. That's going to take me hours to do, more work created by the narc!
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/16/18 08:26:08PM
371 posts

Readings Offered


Empath

@hana

I tried to PM yiu and it will not let me :(

I'm curious too and will take any advice you give.

This is very nice that you do this.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/10/18 08:55:49PM
371 posts

HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE


Empath

@ lilly

No, no edema. Labs come out clean. I keep a journal and will let my dr know how much my waist expands with what I eat etc. I can feel it in my limbs but not as much elsewhere. But you know drs, it's a pill for this or that. She's actually quite good and I wouldn't be surprised if she is empathic herself.
I've determined it's past life and that I drowned, and probably lived poorly as those types of foods cause the water retention. Somehow i think those go hand in hand along with other things that happened. I believe this to be past life more than anything that's haunting this life. Based on my dreams. I do love water and being around it and can't imagine living inland in the states. I'm not afraid of water and rather a great swimmer. I know those who drowned are afraid of water, typically. I thought once I made this "conclusion" it would stop but it has been slightly worse the water retention where I can see it in my face. Although I have noticed a slight shift in my life now cause of my conclusion , but not to the point it needs to be. I need to figure out why and how I drowned. I fear I may have done so purposely to end my life, which is the big thing. I know the era this happened and I'm about 99% sure where. If so, it means I reincarnated rather quickly. Some time ago, before I knew where I drowned. I was drawn to visit that town, my friend didn't want to go with me so I opted not to go. Not even thinking about it. In the next few months I may go. But for now, I'm going to keep paying attn to my dreams for clues to piece together the puzzle together.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/09/18 05:55:23PM
371 posts

Please Take An Empath Poll...


Empath

Yes and Yes. I don't toss and turn or wake up as much if I have few cocktails. It's a shame that it's like that for me. Essential oils used to help. I'm tired all the time.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/07/18 04:57:47PM
371 posts

HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE


Empath

@lily

I may not have the pain you have, but after mulitiple dr visits, they never find anything wrong. Heck they have no idea how I retain so much water fast. That I believe is past life as I've had dreams of drowning. I'm not really afraid of thecwater, only if I can't see the bottom.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/07/18 01:08:31PM
371 posts

HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE


Empath

@chesire-cat

I knew a man once who had lyme disease but said he's cured of it. He was seeking treatment in Chicago. I don't know much about the disease, or if he had it cured early on.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/07/18 11:56:48AM
371 posts

HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE


Empath

@chesire-cat

I think for you, maybe their is a Dr there that can help your condition. And in which you will be able to tolerate such cold eventually. Wherever the region maybe, try googling Dr's that specialize in your condition and start making calls and read reviews.

I'm guided to the heat, and I honestly cannot bear the heat and humidity well anymore. And I hate big bugs. The other region where it is cold with beautiful summers, i was told ill be lonely. Lets call that region 1. So I'm looking in a different part of that cold, we will call region 2. It's cold, with lots of snow. But yet I feel he is there waiting for me in region 2. Over the summer I was supposed to go and visit that region 2 after region 1. But heavy storms came and I drove home. I got sad thinking it wasn't ment to be and region 1 is where I'm to go. Divine writing told me region 1 would bring lonliness, and the hot sticky bug area would bring happiness. I have to do more writing to find out why region 2 is calling me there. When I think it's a man and traditional values I get the feel good feeling. So I'm going to region 2 soon. Maybe eventually the hot region is where I'll end up.

Please do me a favor and start researching Dr's in that cold area. I think that Dr is there for you. You don't have to go there now, we can thank Google for it.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/07/18 10:33:07AM
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HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE


Empath

@chesire-cat

I'm terrible at grounding. I'm like you, I need ALOT of time. It wasn't until I tried reiki, chakra healing etc that I learned who I was and the capabilities I have. I recently started divine writing. That has helped me a ton. Through that I learned where I'm living I'll never find peace and have actually been guided as to places I need to go. But I'm scared to make that move. So I have some traveling to do in the future to check out these places. My writing always brings up people as the culprit. I guess where I'm to go has less narcissists and more empathic people.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/06/18 07:37:07PM
371 posts

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The grounding exercises is what gets me. That extra time to destress or release. I spend ALOT of time alone. To the point I think it makes me lazy, but I'm emotionally exhausted and left not anytime to do anything else. I used to use exercise to release, but I notice my mind keeps going and I have all these feeling and emotions in my head as well. It helps, but not enough. All the complaining helps in addition. I just hit a point recently that I can't even read anymore. I have no idea if it's the energy I pick up on from the author, but I'm even more exhausted. Since I've kept to myself and not gotten involved in work drama or others people's drama. I feel more at ease. Like hop-daddy, I hit a breaking point recently and just lost it. I cried for weeks, drank alot, slept alot, and got sick.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/06/18 08:33:01AM
371 posts

HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE


Empath

Her and I don't really see it as "complaining" anymore. In the end we say sorry for it and thank you for listening. Other people see it that way as you are unhappy and negative. But in the end it felt really good. Otherwise holding it in I feel like a bubble ready to burst. I'm trying journaling and it has helped alot thus far.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/06/18 07:58:54AM
371 posts

HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE


Empath

I've read much about HSP as well. I do agree they go hand in hand. What amazes me that my friends don't understand either is how sensitive we are to emotions, but also to what is going on in our body. I feel everything starting from all the fluid building up from a cold in my sinuses and lungs, to muscle soreness beginning to radiate if I over exercised.

My one friend is an empath, and she is just like me, where being around certain types of people give her anxiety and will make her physically ill. Going on tangents of complaining to release the energy. Etc.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/02/18 05:22:48PM
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Empaths and Dreams


Empath

@hop-daddy

I couldn't agree with you more that this gift should be used to better man kind. I think the huge problem we have are the narcs. They are always going to get their way with some soppy story. I think we just need to be smarter and use those feelings more. The guy I work with now, huge narc. I always get a sinking feeling in my gut about him. I was nice a few times, but now I'm not. I quickly saw what he's trying to do from my experience with these people.

If I could change the world I can, but there are to many people who feel the world owes them for their emotional short comings and man it effects me.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/01/18 08:19:05PM
371 posts

Happy New Year!


Empath

Happy New Year!! Any new years resolution this year?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
12/30/17 11:21:34PM
371 posts

Empaths and Dreams


Empath

All my life I've had some wild dreams. I dream every night and sometimes remember multiple. I journaled some, and then stopped. Reasons why I stopped because I would get to work later, lost track of time journaling and obsessing over them. Then worry if someone found them and read them. Since I've always somehow "crashed" all my laptops from my energy, I keep to notebooks that I can handwrite in. (Yes, I've even crashed my work laptops. The IT dept at my company doesn't understand the problems and have been given new ones)

My discussuion today is this....Do we recall our dreams more? Do our dreams mean more than what we have been taught? Is this our higher self speaking to us?

And yes, are our dreams just a reflection of what we obsess about or stress about in life? Or is that what we dreamt about a person or situition really our higher self telling us something about it?

The reason I ask this is because the past few years my dreams are different. I still get wild ones of symbols. But lately I get ones where someone is talking to me and I don't know who? But the messages are so clear. And sometimes I have dreams in different eras.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
12/30/17 02:00:49PM
371 posts



This appears to be normal for empaths. I'm exhausted alot too. During the work I struggle with sleep, on the weekends I catch up. Then it starts all over again. I came in contact with another empathic person at work years and she felt the same burnout I am currently experiencing. Once she left she felt better. She learned to listen to the universe and guide her. I'm trying to do the same. Right now not only am I exhausted all the time, I have chronic headaches and stomach pain. It goes away when I'm far away from work.
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