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TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/14/18 01:51:35PM
425 posts

Beautiful radiating energy


Empath

One other thing I wanted to add, was a sense of security from that energy. Security or I felt protected.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/14/18 01:45:58PM
425 posts

Beautiful radiating energy


Empath

I will start off first with the innocent smiling and eye flirting and go from there. I've been trying to see if I can get dreams from him and I don't think I can pick up well from it. I'm still clouded these days, but I get Irish from him. Not to say he's irish, or the Irish is from a past life when I lived in Ireland. The dream I had last night was about ireland, but I can't recall too much ot it. If anything, since soul mate from our family are supposed to help us grow in this life, I take that energy I'm in love with to continue to work on myself in a loving nature and to keep spreading love.
I'm still just amazed as to how I feel in love with this person based on their energy, and not even looking at them. I do sense empathic from him, and get the sense that sadness or shyness from him has to do with that. It also makes sense why he's the last one to leave the train to avoid the energies of everyone leaving the train. I'm opposite and have to be first so I don't get stuck behind someone with bad energy and basically want to beat the crowd.
Thank you all for sharing input, and if anything to add or experience's like this I'd love to hear more.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/13/18 11:19:31PM
425 posts

Emotional eating


Empath

@zacharias I do agree with you on the ignoring part. I do deal with other narcs, and I can ignore much easier. And yes it really does help.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/13/18 10:40:14PM
425 posts

Emotional eating


Empath

This narc I work with just wants to undermine, I'm a woman and he made that clear from day one. I went to HR about it, and he lost there. How he still has a job is infuriating to all who works there. So when he does his things, he needs to tread lightly, so no, I don't back down. Any form of it will be seen as retaliation from HR. But as an emapth, I can't stand the thought he does this to someone else. People have commented why he's being nice, but I can see through it. I do have his nasty documented as I won't speak to him in person. I have heard others put him in his place, actually on a conference call on Friday someone did. There was a period some time ago I felt bad for him, and he knew and took full advantage of that and ended up going to my boss many times. I've been looking for a new job, and hopefully will be getting another soon. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/13/18 06:32:21PM
425 posts

Emotional eating


Empath

You are correct on the no conflict. When the narc creates it with me, it fills me with such anxiety I shake. But I know if I keep backing down and don't say anything he'll keep doing it. At least this narc. When I began speaking back he backs down. It's a power trip on his end. I mean, he'll do it in different avenues and I have to call him out on each. Right now he's just trying to defeat in anyway he can, and each time I speak back. It's exhausting and the anxiety of it all really hurts my heart. Why such power and dominance is his karma. The potatoe chips help with the crunch from aggravation of his impotent confidence. I wish I can just back it down and ignore, but he'll keep coming after me and continue to put me down.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/13/18 08:26:54AM
425 posts

Does it seem like Empathy is disappearing? You're not imagining it!


Empath

That is awful about the Drs. Reminds me of those young ones at work that just want a quick buck and not put much effort into it. There is a young man at work who I suspect may have empathy, but stuck in a tornado of narc like me. I just noticed this. He communicates well, he understands, and he TRIES!!! Not like these others that have no idea how to communicate and just demand. The spoiled one at work plays the stock market and got all upset how he lost several thousands of dollars.

As for friends, quality vs quantity mean the most to me. I was so heartbroken my friend Mark moved to the west coast, but he needed to for work and his family. But yet I also smacked him and told him "why didn't you tell me you were when I want to move there too and all my talk of it" I suspected he's of soul family as he has always had something about him that I loved from day one. At least when and if I move there I'll have a friend.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/12/18 04:33:25PM
425 posts

Does it seem like Empathy is disappearing? You're not imagining it!


Empath

I can speak to the long distance. When I moved to Arizona at 27, people just started dropping like flies. Now I get I was 2000 miles away, and maybe we missed each other. But that's no excuse to just stop answering my calls, or text messages, or emails. When I would return back to visit my parents, and would reach out weeks in advance, crickets. But when people planned to visit me, I welcomed in open arms. Sure, you want a break from Chicago weather and stay with me where it's warm, but don't want to see me when I'm there???
When I moved back everyone's life had changed, and I came back in shambles. Just being around loved ones was the best therapy, but they started their own lives and that was all that mattered and how you can contribute to the new times of "couple outtings". That hurt since I my ex had cheated on me and we parted, and I love being with my friends. Now it's changed a bit as we got older, and I notice now why I was set on that path originally. I was ment to have my own life. My one childhood friend now is like a narc. But she moved to Arizona when I came back. Only now wants me to move back there for her sake, and has asked repeatedly over the years. My other one, we'll he was pushed to the side for being with a woman of color. How awful of that?? Who cares, she's a great human being and I adore her! Now he sees I don't care about that like all the others in the group, and we hang out alot current day. Just like the gold ole days.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/12/18 04:10:18PM
425 posts

Beautiful radiating energy


Empath

Yesterday I got on the train as normal to head downtown from work.  I just plopped myself next to a man with tatoos.  As I sat there, I never felt such beautiful energy come from someone in so long or maybe ever!  I felt came, peace, love, and it was just beautiful.  I was trying to not look at his face nor take his energy, but as I got off the train I looked inside and I saw him still sitting in there.  This morning, I get on the train again and sit all the way in the back with the seat that faces everyone.  Guess who sat one row away??? Beautiful energy tatoos man.  I felt it right away.  This time I saw his face and he's quite attractive.  Something with his eyes showed sadness or shyness.  But he looked familiar....

Now I can't stop thinking about him and feel in love.

How does he have such wonderful energy to me and look familiar???  Is this a past life love???

I want to sit next to him again and drop a note as I get off the train titled "for the tattoo man"  and inside try and say something normal like "I noticed you and was wondering if you'd like to get coffee one evening or a drink"  and leave my number.  Lol.  Seems that may be too forward these days, but we used to do that before technology lol.  You know, someone dropping a cute note like that in a locker.  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/12/18 03:59:58PM
425 posts

Does it seem like Empathy is disappearing? You're not imagining it!


Empath

I can say that a majority of the younger generation at my work don't want to work as hard, but expect and feel they should earn $75k-$100k a year. Along with 4 weeks Vaca off the bat. Now, not all or like that, some work hard and don't complain.

The entitlement alone from them and the jelousy radiates down the cubicles. I recall making a comment once about trying grass as a kid, and one is like that's disgusting. Yes it is I said, and it tastes very green. So is sliding down a slide after a kid peed on it. But we didn't care as children growing up and we are fine, and that we also didn't have ipads to play on.

The selfies drive me nuts on social media. I read an article that selfies are from people lacking self confidence and narcissist traits. All to get people to like their photos and comment on how god the look. A cry for attn.

One another thing to note as well, no one can do anything alone. For heavens sake I had a coworker who wouldn't go to Starbucks alone to get coffee cause she felt like she had no friends and looked stupid. If you feel like having a cup of coffee, go and get it.

I do agree that technology I'd pullING us away from social interaction. I'm single and 39 and don't get hit on the bars like I did at 23. Even in social groups people are always on their phones. I don't get that, put it away.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/11/18 03:49:43PM
425 posts

Have you ever heard of Clairgustance and Clairsalience?


Empath

I started practicing readings with a group. And I kept tasting mashed potatoes. Delicious ones I may add. Turns out the girl was hosting a dinner and potatoes were on the menu. I did smell the ocean once in my bedroom. I was like wtf, I'm over 1000 miles away from salt water. It lingered for like 10-15 minutes. I then thought of a friend who moved to the west coast, and after that thought the smell of ocean went away. (My friend is alive) In that case what would that mean? Is that maybe a connection of some kind to my friend? Like they were communicating it was boating time?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/11/18 05:14:45AM
425 posts

Emotional eating


Empath

The chips do it for me, I get a temporary release of the bad energy. But then it comes back. I'm going to bring my obsidian stone to work. It's quite large and try to meditate out the negativity at my desk.

Here's to hoping I don't throw it at the narc....kidding
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/10/18 07:28:55PM
425 posts

Have you ever heard of Clairgustance and Clairsalience?


Empath

I have heard of this and experienced it. Just never put a name to it. I have smelled my grandmas, and sometimes I get such urges to eat certain foods as example. The foods usually have a relation to the person I connect with. In my old apt I used to used to smell cinnamon rolls. In one area of the apt only. I was to frightened at that time to figure it out who it's from. I'll get smells from time to time wherever I go that don't make sense or if others don't smell it. Sometimes I even have cravines fir a food and can taste it, and only to find the person 20ft away from me has a craving for it :) Joys of living in a big city :(
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/10/18 07:05:36PM
425 posts

Emotional eating


Empath

Doe anyone else feel they emotional eat when the energy from others is consuming???  Or is this just me and my charkra went out of balance?

   Of course it's this narc at work I've spoken up b4.  I know that I should do this and that.  But honestly, this is childish. If I step up and talk about it he'll blame me again, but I have documentation to support it.  If I step back, he thinks he has the power and starts his manipulative tactics. Its no win.  But at the end of the day, its not about winning, its about the right thing to do.  Feels like we as empaths should come together to figure out plan's that have worked to make this planet a better place.  I honestly want to tell him to get over his karma and stop talking it out on me.  But diplomatically since it's work.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/28/18 11:09:15PM
425 posts

Flipping between emotions


Empath

I think for me I just was around new energy I'm not used too??? I don't know, it was so bizarre. But yet so fascinating. It's not like when I go to the city for work, and some days I feel like fainting. Those must be the days many feel like not working! Lol.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/27/18 09:16:20PM
425 posts

Flipping between emotions


Empath

Yes! Quick and drastic. What is this? The full moon?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/26/18 07:09:29PM
425 posts

Flipping between emotions


Empath

Anyone else feeling like a an out of tune radio?  I don't know how else to put it.  I'm getting good and bad feelings all at once, and it flips suddenly.  I don't think I've experienced this before.  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/17/18 01:27:37PM
425 posts

Left, right, or both


Empath

I get a lot heat on my stone pendants. Not all of them, just some of them.

You know what I'm doing right now? Feeling for hot and cold areas lol. Some are cold and some warm. My shoulders are cold and an inch away from there my back is hot and neck.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/17/18 04:53:51AM
425 posts

Left, right, or both


Empath

Sounds like a choker style necklace may sit right where you need it? Buy I know those can be uncomfortable too.

I'm going to pay better attention to this. I'm thinking mine is on my chest where I release. I always feel great wearing pendants.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/18 08:30:17PM
425 posts

Going nutss


Empath

Wow!!! If that Is the case, I think he's been reaching out for years since I was a teen. I had random dreams from a man, but now it's more frequent this year. These are not past life dreams, as most seem to be where i see his face only. A few ive seen him what seems to be in a city. A few years ago one of the dreams was him sad as his heart was broken over a woman. I just happened to be near Sedona when I had this dream on vacation. I felt that she cheated on him. He loved her so much. Maybe now he's over that and why he may be reaching out? Based on the dreams he seems more in a spiritual growth than myself. The other dream was that his chakras were all balanced.
You think he's reaching out more because this year was particularly hard on me, but he's ready to meet? I have felt this year I need to kick it up a notch on the growth. But other things are not aligning with me in terms of job and trying to move to another city. Like I'm not picking the right ones. I am getting a push. I'm off tangent now... He came when to me with his name and location in one dream months ago, that had me pre occupied with looking for landmarks in that city that I saw in my dream. All validated and I've never been there or knew anything about it. More recent I had a time of when we would meet.
I have heard how hard they are, the TF love. Read a few books on it. Maybe that's where I got this wave of get it together again. I'm trying everyday.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/18 07:17:14PM
425 posts

Left, right, or both


Empath

I LOVE this topic. I used to always wear everything on my right hand since I'm right handed. I have some protective stones that I wore on right. I used to tell my friend they are not working, I think they are fake. She then told me try wearing on your left hand. Well it has made a huge difference. I can mostly feel it on my left side.

Now I have a question about this. If I want to release the negative, I should wear on my right?? I've been making a lot of healing jewelry and wearing on my left that is more for anything positive related. I wouldn't be to happy if hematite or black tourmaline on my receiving left side is bringing me more negativity :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/18 07:08:45PM
425 posts

Going nutss


Empath

Ok, I'm getting another wave of wild dreams.  Some I can remember and some I cant.  I typically know I dreamt about him by how I feel in the morning.  Either way, it's making me nuts.   Who is this?  And this wonderful bouts of energy being brought to me?  Making me a bit nuts Just like the synchronicities I had for years about a certain someone.  

Now I'm having dreams again, for almost a year of a male presence.  Once I actually felt him kiss my cheek.  (yes, it freaked me out!)   Anyways, what I want to know is this.  Has anyone here dreamt of someone they haven't met, yet to eventually meet them??  the dreams are coming more frequent.  If it's not him in it, it's the city I gather he lives in.  I'm thinking to book a trip!  Or are my crystal collection drawing in a new soul mate I'm to meet?

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/18 06:57:16PM
425 posts

Seasons


Empath

I think hop daddy nailed it. I was going to comment about others being sad that summer is coming to a close. I have felt it from many around. Where I live, the city is known for fun packed summers. And every year as it turns to cold then winter, all everyone does is complain about it in person and on FB. It gets depressing hearing it, but through in empathic feelings. I want to pull my hair out lol.
The fact you and your father share a b day coming up is probably bringing that on too! There is one month that for years I'd cry and drink my sorrows. It was the month my baby was supposed to be born. I finally moved past that, but I get it.
I too go in bouts of depression and have to pick myself up. And I swear, it's so hard! Ugh. But sometime's I find its really not mine and from others. I found another grounding technique that has been helping. Do you work with crystals and stones?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/18 06:38:54PM
425 posts



I can relate. Met someone, love at first site, all the synchronicities, dreams etc. I was originally really hurt and disappointed that more never came from it, and eventually contact starter to become far and few. I reached out a few months ago and he responded, but I think that was the time I actually felt it was time to let him go.

With what @so-exhausted stated, I agree with is "time." I think your soul may also know when it's ready to cut the chord. I still think about him from time to time, but the longing, urge, missing is no longer there. I did one night after that lost contact, b4 bed pictured our chords cut and I could see him floating away. B4 I could never do it, it was to hard. Guess it may not have the right time.

This man and I shared several lives together, which makes sense why I fell in love at first site. But my guide also told me earlier this that him and I wouldn't be together in this life and a greater one is coming. It took me months to accept that and I finally have. Honestly, it was hard for me to see what was better than him, but I'm trusting that.
I'm grateful now that I was able to meet him in this life, is how I see it. I've also been able to finally at a point in my life be OK and accept I'm single. Everything I'm planning and doing is without a partner in life, and when a new one comes....hey he can enjoy the ride of life with me :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/05/18 10:12:33PM
425 posts

Can a Narcissist be an empath?


Empath

@so-exhausted-from-users you have a lot of a great advice. :)

Eating a well balanced diet
Exercise
Nature
Healing crystals
Baths/being in water
Reiki
Chakra balancing

Are all great go to's.

The pain you are feeling isnt going to go away today or tomorrow but it will pass soon. Im sorry that this had happened today and my heart hurts. If it's a lot right now to bear I'd go and get a Reiki session if you can or some kind of energy healing. Those have always really helped me during stressful times. I started going to bed at night with a few crystals under my pillow. That along with wearing them and a diet has helped me since the weekend. (I had a huge meltdown lol)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/04/18 10:51:08PM
425 posts

Vegan diet


Empath

Being out is very hard. It's carbs everywhere. I struggled in the beginning alot. Always had some kind of snacks on me. Mostly nuts and nut bars. Now I'm OK with having some carbs, but I can't just have all carbs. My glucose will start plummeting with an hour.
I'm lucky I haven't turned diabetic yet. Sticking to low carb has helped with that. Reactive hypoglycemia is the diagnosis I have, and it was interesting reading others talk about it on forums. You never feel full from carbs, it's strange.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/03/18 09:50:36PM
425 posts

Vegan diet


Empath

I agree, don't step on the scale. It becomes obsessive, and if it goes up 3-5lbs it can be discouraging. It shouldn't because it's water. I have a friend who lost 3lbs in a week, and was excited. I was excited for her too! She was eating right and walking more, and in a week felt better. Then a few day's after those 3lbs, she is up 5lbs and got discouraged and upset and wanted to cry. I think it was after her cheat day. I tried telling her that was mostly water weight and the body needs time before it starts burning fat and not get discouraged, and well,,,, I was the bad guy because I didn't know what I was talking about and that a cheat day is deserved, and that I didn't know how hard dieting is, and that I'm not empathetic, LOL. Yet she forgets I struggle with mine the past several years due to the hypoglycemia and know all about water weight gain and loss during cycles. Yet, I went very low carb for half a year. I couldnt cheat at all until I got some regulation back to my pancreas. No Pizza, cookies, fries, wine, etc, any of that. No cheat days for me. Yet somehow I didn't understand how hard it is, LOL.
I too don't really set goals anymore after that intense low carb for months. As long I eat right, stay within a lower end of the carb scale, and exercise, it comes off in due time. And I honestly feel like a million bucks. The JUNK! Omg the junk is my weakness when waves of stress come. There are days I'm to exhausted to ground myself so I have cheese, chips, and wine. OK sometime a frozen pizza. This is what I have to work on more.
I tried fasts, and nearly passed out the first day. When I finally learned of my condition my Dr strongly advised against it. She does admit the health benefits of it, just not with my condition and strongly against me doing it. :( If you can do it and are OK on it go for it! Many friends of mine have done them and felt tremendous after. My one friend always suggest's drinking alkaline water for best results on fast, guess regular water didn't produce same results.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/31/18 08:35:41PM
425 posts

Narcs


Empath

I can't stand them, and I know many here don't :)  Corporate America is filled with them, and we all know not the best place for empaths.  I'm still struggling at my job, and still looking.  I currently work for a multi billion dollar company.   I feel as though the universe has something better planned for me, yet can't figure it out,.  My dreams seem to fade, as well as my recollection of them.  Reality, I lost everything in the recession 10 years ago and filed bankruptcy and lost my home, and many more I don't want to detail.  That is my hesitation along with others who experiencedo a great loss like that.   I'm looking for anothe job and I get passed up for everything, and I'm marketable.  The narc at work is draining me.  I have crystals at my desk, i wear them with what i make.  I meditate before work, shield myself.  Is it possible I'm ment to quit and suffer again ???   Or that I'm being forced out to figure out a business of my own?  I have ideas of a business, and it will dran my savings.  I have heard recently more that God works in mysterious ways.   I'm sorry all for this burden, I'm feeling very low lately.  My new crystal collection helped temporarily.  


updated by @tigerlily: 09/05/18 02:37:58PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/30/18 01:22:47PM
425 posts

Vegan diet


Empath

Yes!! That is the other thing, how other's prepare the food. I guess now we can tell the world "it was made with love" comes from on items that are delicious haha! It totally makes sense on what you are saying about process foods. I'm sure those that work in the factories have bad days, or hate their job, etc. Aside from all the preservatives and what not in those foods are bodies can't digest and just get absorbed etc.

I've heard people go on starvation fasts to kick start their metabolism, along with trying to get their bodies back on tract or for cleansing. After a few days people have reported feeling amazing and continue longer.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/29/18 07:56:31PM
425 posts

Vegan diet


Empath

Me too! I'd like to know about the processed foods for you. I can talk about mine, but mine is mostly due to a medical condition and goes to a different level of past life stuff and this life. And among others. But if anything processed foods cause me much anxiety as a start, and destroy the body. And as emapths, we really don't need more of that :)

I currently have reactive hypoglycemia/insulin resistance caused by PCOS. My guides told me recently was given this condition so I do not have children this life, and to eat foods of the earth for nutrients due to the effects the body can suffer from empathic abilities. As well as high endurance to sustain a vast amount of physical activity to aid in clearing of energy. Some also due to past life stuff/karma. I'm OK with it all that I understand now. If I didn't cut my carb count and increase protein I would turn diabetic by now and not fulfilled my life's purpose. The stamina to stay fit, I'm still working on that piece with my nutty job lol. (Which I know is not the plan, still trying to find the right plan)

I have read many empath's feeling energy from the meats we consume and going vegan or vegetarian has worked the best for them, and how much better they feel. For me, I feel my empathic abilities have grown since moving to a low carb diet, but high in meat protein. I need at least 100 grams of protein a day to not suffer low blood sugar and under 75 carbs/sugar combined. IncLuding fruit in those macros. Dont get me wrong, there have been times when i ate chicken or a steak, and i felt "off" And then I will stay away from those 2 sources for several days and consume fish or turkey or omlettes, until i feel Ok to consume again. I have switched brands as well. I honestly think it's the cheaper quality meat I feel it from due to how the animals are treated resulting in that. Example, my mom buys her stuff from a store affordable to her. I just can't eat the salmon she cooks. The package says wild caught, but honestly I think it's farm raised and the packaging is a lie. Where I buy my salmon and consume, I feel more alive because I believe that is true wild caught, and not a bunch of fish raised in a tank and fearing.

I'm curious to know how you and others and diet are different, and possibly a deeper meaning???
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/25/18 02:33:10PM
425 posts

Tibetan healing rings


Empath

Thank you!!! This os beautiful. I'm going to order one, or see if the crystal store by my home sells these. This resembles my ex''s bracelet. It had magnets on it as well. He swore it helped his carpel tunnel and had no pain. When I tried it on my whole arm radiated from the bracelet. I really do believe this kept the negativity away from you.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/24/18 10:04:08PM
425 posts

Astral Projection


Empath

I found out that, this is what I am doing. When I found out, I got nervous to go sleep!!! I'M apparently "clouded" therefore I don't remember/recall to much of the experience. It makes sense that if I can clear or get away from the negativity I'm surrounded in, I'll remember the experience fully.

The issue I'm running into is clearing it all. It's a lot of work. It sounds great, but when I come home I struggle to do it all. I've done some of this b4 in the past, not all, I'm OK for a few days and I'm physically exhausted from the routine of it. How do I get over the hump? I think I just got lazy.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/24/18 09:47:09PM
425 posts

Tibetan healing rings


Empath

This is amazing! Where did you purchase the ring?

Today I wore my rose quartz bracelets and hematite together. Ones that I have been making. It was a bracelet explosion and I didn't care. Along with my large pendant that hangs in the middle of my chest, that i keep under my shirt. I received multiple compliments on them, and the complaining at work was almost non existent today. Will try the bracelet explosion again monday. I just felt happier and not so P'd off LOL.

I feel tangled in energy all day from complaining people at work that make too much money, so I'd like to try the brass ring out if you don't mind sharing the website?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/22/18 07:54:54PM
425 posts

Crystals


Empath

Awesome! Thank you!!!

I know all these resonate with me as they gave me good feelings upon picking them out. But you are right, I did leave the store shaking. I did also get them because of the energy I'm picking up on, and if they are helping me clear out even better. I have a big purse so I may alternate days taking one places with me or something. My very own pets rocks :)

I'm about to buy a bunch to make my own jewelry to wear to when I go to work in the city to help.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/22/18 06:57:35PM
425 posts

Crystals


Empath

HI all!  I have healing crystals I use, but decided to get bigger ones to really feel the effects and for help.  First, I started off by purchasing a pendant for my necklace.  I wear it daily and have noticed what an amazing positive effect it made, and just love it!  which made me decide to buy slightly larger for the home.  Since, I have the larger ones, I feel shaky or trembling inside.  I'm going to put them on the window tonight to clear them out in the moonlight.  

All of the ones I purchased, or all that called to me and have healing properties for all chakras to some degree.  That I need.  Mostly rose quartz is the largest in volume and flourite.

Do I just need to get used to them?  Is this normal? Are they working against each other (maybe that's silly)  All combined together that I purchased are about 10-15 pounds.

I typically feel like this in spiritual shops, but I don't have the volume like those shops do.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/16/18 03:01:31PM
425 posts



That is interesting. You don't know this person? Does he have facial hair and a boat?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/15/18 05:27:02PM
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@ruby-stone I couldn't agree with you more on what you wrote. I was telling to my friend today about the narc I work with and how he set me off today. He's a classic example of what you wrote. Gosh I can't stand him. But I know how I'm feeling now is that he purposely did what he did to take my energy.

@spiritualskies I often feel like what you just wrote. And often question if I have any positive energy or light left too! Out of the few energy readings or healing I've had over the years, seems like I still do. Maybe you can get yiur checked? They do sense the negativity or black hole from others, from what they told me. One recently told me my soul is done fighting it of and is tired. This year I feel like I've had it trying to be nice to everyone who quite frankly don't deserve it. And when you dont want to help them, yiur the bad guy. Yet, they are the same people who will never help you. The double stand that empaths get. Sorry if I sound bitter, it's just exhausting. My day today was rough too, everyone was complaining as usual and I think it just built up. Everyday I hear multiple complaints and give everyone about 2-5 minutes to complain. Half my day is dealing with complaining, I don't have mental energy to work in an excel doc LOL. When I had enough today I told the one guy to replace his complaining and shove a cookie in his mouth instead.

Back to dreams. Mine have been wild the past few months. When I review the dream themes, they don't either list the theme or really make sense. I think it's my guides pretty much telling to move on to the next adventure in life that will promote more positive vs all these negative people I'm surrounded by. Maybe yours are too??
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/15/18 01:14:34PM
425 posts

Signs


Empath

I used to have this, seeing the name everywhere. They are signs if you see the name in odd places. He for sure got the message's and read them. My guess with his marriage and all, it may have put him in a tough spot to reply.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/15/18 01:11:33PM
425 posts

Signs


Empath

I used to have this, seeing the name everywhere. He for sure got the message's and read them. My guess with his marriage and all, it may have put him in a tough spot to reply.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/14/18 07:30:54PM
425 posts

Astral Projection


Empath

Wow thank you for the articles! The one is totally what I experience. I feel high in the sky and looking down in a geographic area, like a big map from high in the sky.
I know the area from looking down to it, from knowing my geography and it's almost like I zoom down to a town or city. I wake just knowing where it was. I've had conversations with voices of friends and family sometime whIle looking down. One in particular when I Google the area, I see landmarks or some form of resemblence from the dream. But yet I've never been in person.

I've only had this happen a handful of times and not sure how I do this or how it happens. It's quite fascinating, but not sure why this is happening? Am I looking for someone?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/14/18 03:03:53PM
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Astral Projection


Empath

Someone may have posted this once or I have.  What is this exactly, and can others share their experiences?  Checking to see if this is what is happening to me at night.


updated by @tigerlily: 09/05/18 07:48:54PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/14/18 03:01:52PM
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Ewww no. If I did, I'd say something to them inappropriate like "keep up with that and you'll have herpes or syphilis by 16" LOl.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/13/18 09:18:10PM
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I seriously don't know where to begin here haha! I've had sooooo many crushes going up and to this day too.

There was a boy in first grade, I forget his name lol. This one, i didnt crush on, but he crushed on me. He used to chase me on the playground trying to kiss me, and I rUn to my older brother. Who then gathered his friends to chase that boy and his friends. One day when that boy was leaving school early he finally got his kiss on my hand!!! So embarrassed from all the kids going "ooooooo"

There were also many of those that "got away" I'll still never forget football player from freshman or sophomore year in high school. He was tall, muscular, kind dark eyes, gorgeous smile. Ugh, so cute! He sat in front of me and would turn around to talk to me any chance he got to talk to me, even after being yelled at by the teacher multiple times LOL. One day his friend asked if I liked him, and like a fool I said no. Even though I did, just a fool. Anyways, since then he never spoke to me again and the rest of high school he was with long relationships with 2 girks from a crowd I didn't like. Many years later, he popped up on my FB married with kids. I said F it, friend requested him and he accepted. I still to this day get that feeling of like and attraction to me from him that I did in HS. And he will "like" ONLY my "all dolled up" pics only when I post them.

Then there was Josh in the 4th grade. He was so cute and super smart. I crushed on him for years, and I saw him looking. In HS he was more dorky, but got cuter as HS passed. I think he was my first official crush. He was pretty to look at. I must be too, as over the years we would look at each other.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/13/18 08:57:32PM
425 posts

Signs


Empath

So believe in signs!!! I've read a few books on them.

After the books, seemed like some signs I was given was just symbolic in form. When I had pregnancy signs, those mostly turned into a new life journey for me. And when I had signs clear as day ans didn't follow the signs, because it seemed to obvious, we'll let's just say I was thrown bricks forcing to listen. That was not fun and stressful, but now I see why and it's making me see now an even better journey awaits. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/26/18 06:22:08PM
425 posts

Angry Empath?


Empath

@chezarey I don't have stockholm syndrome. But it would make sense with how he is, if that makes sense. I call him out on his crap, I tell him when he's wrong, and I'll walk out and won't talk to him for months. I've told him to also cut it with his mind games, and to not do this to his own daughter. He yet then says "I can't believe you talk to your own father like this" and it's easy for me to say "you taught me to watch out for what manipulators do, and here you are doing it" That's why I can't figure him out. He cares in those ways like others do when you are sick/tired/sad/etc, but he's also very good at trying to convince his way or the highway lol. Sometimes I wonder with him if this how narcs break into empaths through soul evolution or something. If that makes sense.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/24/18 09:43:37PM
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Angry Empath?


Empath

Wow!! This is all great advice and great to hear it's mostly not me. Thank you.

I have no idea where to begin. I already sense that people at work are angry and those close to me. I try to be as positive as much as I can, as I learned that has helped. But after a while I'm drained. But if they are already consumed in the negativity all they want to do is push it on me. I have helped many people fix and repair things in life, but i have been backing off at that. And I think that's what is making them more angry. And quite frankly, it's upsetting that so many people don't want to fix their own stuff. Classic empath stuff right? The narc at work continues to do this, and I wouldn't be surprised if he's the devil!! Lol. I know now putting him in his place is what seems to help, but professionally it's hard on me. That challenge is definitely there. I'm so grateful to have an empath as a boss.

The narc empath relationship, I read much about this. From trying to teach them empathy, to past life karma. My father and I have quite a history. And through past life regressions, I understand more. He has many narc traits, but yet I'm amazed at how he knows how I feel. He can be such a @%&! At times, but then call me and say "I had a dream you were very sad and struggling, is everything ok" That's exactly what was going on in that moments in my life! He is angry a lot too, and does a lot of things that contradict his beliefs because it benefits him. But always has this need to protect and control me, and I always argue with him on this. But then I get thrown for a loop when he shows care when I'm at a low, like he just knows. I have no idea how to classify him LOL.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/23/18 08:59:24PM
425 posts

Angry Empath?


Empath

I've been told recently by a few friends, including my therapist that I have anger issues.  At first I took it personally, then a few more times I got kinda more mad.  Omg, im an Angry Empath!!!  That is what i thought.  And "am i turning into a narc!"  I get it, we don't live in each other's shoes, and we have to watch for the narc that want us to feel sorry for them.  Where this anger is coming from it appears to be multiple people, at work and in friends/family.   I do notice I close my heart and shut down.   I've been feeling it more so from a friend I haven't spoken to in a week.  When I think of her I get upset.   The best thing I've done recently is lock myself up at home and talk to no one but my cat.  And do things for me.  Then I'm happy again and love life, and it starts over again.  When I feel strong enough to push that anger from those aside, I feel like 5 more come at me with their anger/frustrations and I feel like collapsing.  Today was a great day for that.  Ahhh!  Sometimes think my strong personality is not able to combat that.  Then again i have to isolate myself.  I feel so bad that my one friend who gets it, i always blow her off to do something.  I know ill be no fun.  But I know I should do things with her.  The chest pains are coming back and I dislike those very much.  (I'm fine, Dr's ruled out everything but say anxiety)    Is it just me, or does anyone else get these angry moments?  Is it part of living in a big city too?


updated by @tigerlily: 09/06/18 12:44:03PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/13/18 09:43:27PM
425 posts

Feeling own heartbeating.


Empath

@ curious-child

I've had the heart beat, and blood pumping in various parts of the body. Its annoying. My heart sometime tends to be elevated, which I can check on my phone. It tends to make it worse as I freak out. After numerous Dr's and Er visits, multiple heart tests. It's nothing but stress and anxiety.
I remember one morning I had a few friends texting and complaining about their problems with their husbands. My heart was thumping, checked my heart rate and it was 115. I said enough and ignored the texts so they can figure it out. It was to much for me to help 3 people at once in that moment, so I went about making my breakfast and coffee. Checked again and my heart rate dropped to the 80s. Sometime's it's high and I don't know why or what is causing the stress, but an active mind. Tonight I had the heart beating again and got winded climbing a flight of stairs. Heart rate overy 100. started taking taking deep breaths with my eyes closed. Turned on the TV to watch something happy. My heart rate dropped to 79. I know for myself I need to chill out and clear the energy.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/13/18 09:05:50PM
425 posts

Thinking about people


Empath

@hermes what are mystic circles??

I always feel sad and missing this person alot, at first when it happens. It kind of is painful. Eventually after a few days it turns to happiness and eventually the thoughts fade again.

But with others, I find it fascinating when someone comes to mind and I or they reach out. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/11/18 08:52:24PM
425 posts

Thinking about people


Empath

Looking for Clarity on this subject.  :)  Sometimes I get overwhelming thinking about some of the people in my life.  For days they could be on my mind ALL the time and one day gone.  I may think to myself "oh I just realized I stopped thinking about so and so" and carry on with my life.  I've looked into it and many articles say different things.  My attention was caught when it said they are thinking about you too.  Then it reminded me of how many times I just picked up the phone, sent a text, an email,,,,and the response I get "I'm so happy to hear from you, I was just thinking about you"  or vice versa they con tact me.  

Now, the person on my mind currently has been for a week.  We don't talk anymore.  Are they thinking about me a lot too?  Are we bouncing our thoughtful feelings back and forth?  I only get it with this specific person.


updated by @tigerlily: 09/05/18 02:28:08PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/24/18 06:21:58PM
425 posts

Drink Up To Help Depression?


Empath

Funny you post this. I've been drinking coffee for decades, at one point I switched to decaf for years due to panic attacks. I'm back on caffeine again when I was training for a bike event, and was just physically exhausted all the time. As of recent, I started buying coffee from a place that roast their beans in a facility and sells the coffee in a shop. It's not here in my state and order online with them, but I will say I'm super happy when I drink it. I honestly thought it's because of the taste and made with love. I can't drink regular coffee anymore from the grocery store or from Starbucks or dunking donuts. This coffee is not the cheapest, but it sure puts a smile on my face and worth every cent. :)
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