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TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/16/16 08:12:39PM
309 posts

thinking more about the wellbeing of others more than myself?


Empath

H1234, never give up on hope and what you want.  It's why I go on countless dates and get frustrated.  I agree that writing down everything you want.  I did this year's ago but fail to look at it more often.  To read it, vision him, and senD out that love.  Someone once told me that I was choosing to be single and what I want doesn't exist.  That hurt, but I'm not going to settle.  I don't know about anyone else, but when I look at couples I can feel the love between 2 people or one who is so in love with the other and it's not reciprocated.  People settle, and well it ends in divorce.  Don't give up, and we are here to listen and cry to.  Shhot, I did that tonight!  :)

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/15/16 07:59:56PM
309 posts

Having trouble with my intuition lately....


Empath

Thank you!!!  This is great!!  I felt a little happier today, but still uneasy.   Something else happened and I feel like I'm just not doing anything right and just have this bad feeling in me.  I have no idea what's going on or why I feel like this?  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/15/16 07:53:30PM
309 posts



I was taking Lexapro, that made me super happy and didn't have a care in the world.  But after like 3 or 4 months it stopped working.  I just had to dig inside of me to find the cause of my depression and work on that, I did work with a therapist.  It honestly was the best thing I did for me.  A healthy well balanced diet and exercise helps a ton too.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/16 09:21:25PM
309 posts



I'm not a fan of meds.  I was put on them several years ago, and I just felt blah on them.  The one I was on I was super happy all the time and didn't have a care in the world.  Then they tried another cocktail and next thing I knew I had 4 prescription bottles and felt no feelings of my own or others.  I was numb.  

My decision making abilities were comprimised, as well as my feelings.

I think they are good to help get through a hard time, but if it chronic anxiety or depression maybe figuring out the root cause is best.  That helped me and I've been happy.  It's hard and took some time, and I'd love to help anyway I can.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/16 09:09:04PM
309 posts

Having trouble with my intuition lately....


Empath

Thanks everyone!  I will admit I have been mildly depressed.  Things at work are not going right and I have been doubting myself, which I never really do because I'm excellent at my job.  But with that and other things not going right the past few weeks it's got me depressed.  I'm not a fan of this feeling, but I know now I have to start looking for a new job.  Again today I wanted to cry at my desk over spilled milk.  The rumble in me when I try to go with my gut is awful.  Maybe I'll try to get away out to nature this weekend.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/13/16 05:22:29AM
309 posts

Having trouble with my intuition lately....


Empath

I need help. I feel like I can't follow my intuition. The whole "follow your gut" doesn't apply to me anymore and can't read it. I have been feeling low the past few weeks and trying to snap out of it. What do you all do when this happens?
updated by @tigerlily: 01/22/17 09:27:14AM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/08/16 07:43:12PM
309 posts

Spooky?


Empath

That's awesome! The person I have a strong connection with always texts me around 11ish. I see 11:11 alot. Look up angel numbers to see what 3 means :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/06/16 06:32:46PM
309 posts

thinking more about the wellbeing of others more than myself?


Empath

Wow, we both sound alike!! Same age, want the same things. Message me if you ever want to talk :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/06/16 04:50:27PM
309 posts

thinking more about the wellbeing of others more than myself?


Empath

Maybe that's why I'm single too! This year I've put the most effort into me, and I've actually had more dates but no relationship, ugh. I lost a few friends this year as well because I put my needs first, not theirs.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/06/16 04:24:28AM
309 posts

thinking more about the wellbeing of others more than myself?


Empath

I'm the same way, I put others before myself. I have always felt guilty for putting my needs first. We actually feel others pain and joy and everything else. After going to reiki, chakra balance, and seeing a psychic. All have told me to stop this. :)

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/05/16 03:33:20PM
309 posts



I forgot to ask, is your pain constant or does it come and go? Did they test for diverticulitis? Maybe try for a week gluten free, and cut back on the carbs and sugar? See how you feel? Drink lots of water and cut the sugary drinks. Sounds like this is heriditary. I had awful gas pains that were constant when i was staying with a friend through her divorce. Once i left and camr back home that gas was gone. The energy in the house was so bad fron the divorce.One thing to keep in mind as well, anxiety is awful. If you already have some minor pain, and your muscles contract it will cause more pain. You wont even notice your muscles doing this. My muscles are so tight from anxiety, the masage therapist needed more than an hour, actually a few sessions. I had dozens of knots in my back that was pulling on my chest muscles causing chest pain. I'm so used to it I don even notice knots anymore.I'm no Dr, but I'd really like to hear the outcome of this. I'm sorry you are in so much pain, but don't let this defeat you, you sound like a tough cookie under neath it all. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/05/16 08:04:31AM
309 posts

Dating


Empath

Thought I'd give an update on this one. This great gent is going through alot right now and is highly stressed. Some situations at hand in his life took a turn for the worse, and he is trying to work through them. Maybe that's where I'm getting the lack of interest from him. He still communicates every so often, but doesn't ask for help or show signs he needs it. To me, being used to everyone needing my help to get through a tough time is a shock to me. My closest friend even said this is probably a blessing and the kind of man I need in my life.

I am my worse critic sometimes as that logic part kicks in and gives me bad feelings, but when I listen to my heart it's all good. I will have to use my heart more often for myself as my brain just gets in the way because of my experiences in life. Hope this makes sense.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/05/16 07:45:10AM
309 posts



Have you had a chakra balance? Something is off, or maybe it's someone else you are close too. Do any of your family of friends have digestive issues? Could also be you absorbing everything around you?

And if not any of the above, maybe it's what you are eating? Our food in the states is terrible, diabetes is taking down my whole family, and I'm already seeing it in me and changed my diet. For years the doctors had no idea why I have gerd, and other digestive issues. Once I cut way back on the carbs and sugar, it all went away. When I cheat and have more carbs and sugar it comes back.

Have they checked you for gluten, food allergies, etc? Sounds like the pain is in your large colon, where sometimes I'd feel the pain.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/05/16 07:36:03AM
309 posts

Does the job/career that we do would have to relate to ourselves for being an Empath, or could be a completely different thing?


Empath

Our brain and heart never see eye to eye. This is my big problem as I'm a very logical person. In your case I would have picked the job where the company had a good rep, pay, benefits etc. Right? Logically it makes sense. But would feel the seconD job would be more ideal as it felt right. Then I have that rumble in me. What has helped me is list out the pros and cons and go with my gut/feelings tell me. I honestly believe for myself I'd make a better nurse or therapist, versus the corporate world. But I dread going back to school lol.

I believe if you are using your gift to help others in a profession, why not? You definatly would be more passionate about it and do really well and helping others. I can see where it's abusing that power if others are not being helped they way they need it.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/05/16 07:26:30AM
309 posts



Sounds like are to me. I feel the same way going into big buildings are just walking past them. Same with large crowds. When people lie, etc. I don't use anxiety meds but I smoke and use calming scented products. Something about taking prescriptions I feel side effects right away and then it induces anxiety. Even an anti biotic does that to me. I love smoking despite all the negative about it, but it is a vice and knock on wood I'm still healthy and have stumped Dr's along with my chakra and reiki lady.

I don't think it's special powers, but it often feels that way. It's a gift from god/universe/angels/whatever higher up you believe in. Sometimes I feel the gift is a curse, but also a blessing.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/05/16 07:13:25AM
309 posts

How do you know you've met a fellow empath or highly spiritual individual?


Empath

You both are right. I have noticed alot in work emails when someone is stressed or angry, even though their words put together don't display that. I for one feel like i have to stop placing judgement on people, but sometimes its hard when right away I feel the person is a douchebage, highly depressed, severe anxiety, overly happy, confident. Get my drift? It's something about peoples eyes when i look direct at them i get that right away. But as far as goosebumps, i really dont feel that unless ive met a man who i really like (only happened a few times, out of the mamy ive met) or if its a spiritual presense like a grandparent and then i can smell them. So I was just curious after what those so called friends said. Because sometimes I can't pick up on other empathetic people, unless I just don't attract them? It would be great to meet someone like me and have that freindship.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/05/16 06:42:29AM
309 posts

Why do I attract crazy? Do you?


Empath

Rene, so true!!! I've met so many people like that! It's like they can't handle rejection.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/04/16 06:45:50PM
309 posts

Why do I attract crazy? Do you?


Empath

You probably did nothing wrong but intimidate her. I have coworkers like that, and the feelings are intimadating by me.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/04/16 01:01:36PM
309 posts

How do you know you've met a fellow empath or highly spiritual individual?


Empath

I recently met a few people who told me they get goosebumps around me everytime they see me. This came about as the topic of spirituality came about. They said that's how they knew I was highly empathetic or gifted.How do you all know?
updated by @tigerlily: 01/24/17 06:27:17AM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/04/16 12:47:42PM
309 posts

How do you ground yourself?


Empath

I struggle with this as well and work in a corporate environment. Meetings especially are the worse for me if I have to present. I thought this was a social anxiety thing, but my therapist tells me to not lock eyes with anyone. Well, as you know that's kind of how we have to engage with the audience we are presenting to. I'll feel fine all weekend and then I go into work and it's like the inside of me is trembling. Alot of people in my office are negative and stressed, those Fridays before a holiday weekend are the best as half is out.After a day of work I just run out of there and can't wait to get home and isolate myself. I tried the gym and outdoor activities as a release and that doesn't help me unless there is minimal people.When I isolate myself in my own bubble, that is when I do the best, but yet feel I'm missing out on everything around me. I tend to not notice anything and become oblivious to my surroundings. I live in a big city for years but can never remember where I'm going. So here I have to create my bubble and turn on GPS, otherwise I get overwhelmed, lost, and confused.Crystals helped to an extent until I realized I was in a bubble. I think I just need bigger ones, but then my purse would be heavy :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/01/16 07:18:03PM
309 posts

Why do I attract crazy? Do you?


Empath

Maybe we were all born to be "true" therapists. Ones who actually listen and help people through their daily problems. Versus just a therapist who thinks everyone needs to go on medication!

A friend of mine at work said I'm just very easy to talk to you and can just see it in me. Maybe that is a trait we all have. I've set boundaries with people, and they just ignore them, then I get upset because they over step that boundary and im a bad person.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/30/16 04:49:58AM
309 posts

Attracting suffering people


Empath

I'm in the same boat! Just when I think ive met great positive people, I then later find out they are just unstable! I try to remain as positive and hopeful as I can, but these people in the end are draining. Alot even do a good job hiding their pain, even though I see it in their eyes. The way they talk, carry themselves, etc. I think to myself "am I wrong here?" And we'll in the end I'm not.I feel I can set all the boundaries I want and these people just over step them. And then it's my fault?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/29/16 09:01:25PM
309 posts

Why do I attract crazy? Do you?


Empath

What's worse is when you set a clear boundary with these people, they still over step it. And when you call them out, they get pissed at me. I'm just tired of it.My job all day consists of fixing issues and helping people. Maybe I should have been a therapist, and get paid to help people like this. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/28/16 09:18:09PM
309 posts

Dealing with a narcissist that is a freind of a freinds


Empath

Tough situation! Have you spoke to your friend about not bringing the narc around?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/28/16 09:15:27PM
309 posts

Empathic sensitivity to earth locations and their energies.


Empath

I've had a few experiences where I've gone and just felt amazing positive energy. Sometimes it gets crazy where I have to go to that place now. I thought maybe it had something to do with past life, or just that there may be a connection or person there I'm supposed to meet.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/28/16 09:09:47PM
309 posts

Why do I attract crazy? Do you?


Empath

I feel like I keep attracting people who need help, mentally unstable etc. That when I meet "normal" they carry on in life. This is becoming difficult to make new friends or even a partner in life.I'd like to hear your experiences, thoughts, suggestions, etc.
updated by @tigerlily: 03/15/17 04:41:26PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/21/16 08:06:29AM
309 posts

Abortion and Empaths


Empath

I'm not one to have an abortion, if someone else wants to it is their life. I miscarried years ago and the emotional pain of that still comes to me from time to time. I'm not sure I understand how a woman or couple can come to a conclusion to abort, as it makes me shaky and uneasy inside. Not sure if it's because I lost a baby, not by choice, or if it really is the energy I'm picking up from that woman or couple or unborn baby.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/21/16 07:53:28AM
309 posts

Spiritual Energy


Empath

Alot of my friends get goosebumps around spiritual energy. I've had a few tell me they get boost bumps around me, and that's how they can tell how spiritual I am.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/11/16 07:10:35PM
309 posts



You are definatly getting what you asked for, that is awesome!!! It's the most amazing feeling ever. I've been having alot of this myself and it's almost to good to be true, right?As long as you are clear with what you want, you will get.Maybe this guy was brought to you as someone who has potential and you will move in with him???
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/11/16 07:04:18PM
309 posts

How can I deal with being ugly and social anxiety


Empath

Beauty is inner deep. Some of the most beautiful people are actually ugly because of their personalities and how they carry themselves.I've been told many times I'm beautiful, but I still get people being mean to me. And with those people I pick up alot of jelousy, insecurities, depression, narcissism, etc. But I don't allow for them to push me around, to an extent because alot is at work and I have to keep it professional :) But yet, I've also had people point out my imperfections because to compensate for theirs. It's made me insecure lol.It really is a cruel world and I try to not let it bother me but I sense it everyday. It's great on those days when I'm somewhere and I don't sense it alot.I think it's best to look at yourself for all the beauty you do have. You have a good heart, and I bet you are not ugly as you say. I think you've met to many judgy people, that's affected your self esteem. I bet once you can find that in you, your esteem will pick up and you will handle those situations differently. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/11/16 06:49:54PM
309 posts

Dating


Empath

I really don't see too much on dating. But I'm struggling here and need help.I've been actively dating to find a partner, and it's really hard on me because after one date I guess you can say "you just know" lol. It's online dating I'm mostly doing. I think we as empaths can just pick up on that right away. My friends don't understand this and think I'm being picky. But the "vibes" I get are all over. Insecurities, desperation, not interested, depression, negativity etc these are all things I feel right away on the first date from the guy. And some I get such a bad feeling before I even meet them, and then I know why. (Even though texting and online profiles seem fine)But, I feel like when I meet one who has great positive energy and he shows interest as well and I think it's going somewhere. All of a sudden I feel like I get this feeling out of nowhere they are not interested. It really bothers me because, not only does it happen often, but I get upset. It's like his excitement combined with mine excitement, I'm just way overly excited that it probably scares them off. I have no idea how to control this. I almost feel like a different person.(I'm currently going through this now, met a great guy, good vibes, have butterflies. And guess he's had "long" days the past 2 days, but is at least reaching out just to say hi) I'm trying not come off as desperate, but this double excitement is hard to tame, along with this not interested feeling. I don't know how to go with the flow with someone who has good positive energy?
updated by @tigerlily: 01/12/17 07:45:41AM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/11/16 06:34:45PM
309 posts

Negative energy


Empath

Your coworker needs boundaries. Mine did this to me, and when I told him I didn't want to hear it anymore he laughed and walked away. Few days later he did it again and I said I'm sorry but I just can't hear this right now. He got really upset, and we'll that's on him. I set the boundary and he disrespected it.You don't owe him anything. He has to deal with his problems not you. I'm sure you can tell him nicely neXT time "I'm sorry you are having a hard time, but I'm really busy now and have to focus on work" hell get it. Or just let him stand there and don't make eye contact back.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/19/16 07:23:40AM
309 posts

Empath Diet/Physical Issues


Empath

So, what you described about the breathing I get the same. But I noticed it's when people come at me with their problems to fix. One day in particular was so bad my chest hurt I couldn't breathe and my heart rate was 115. That's when I said enough to people and dumping their problems on me. Try to recall what you are thinking about, who you are talking too that this happens. Also, you mention you haven't worked out so you could just be out of shape adding to it, take it slow. I think you have anxiety as anxiety does that as well.Diet. I'm the same way with carbs, mix some protein into it. I do have glucose issues, reactive hypoglycemia. I get hypoglycemia after eating carbs n sugar. One of the symptoms is hungry after eating. But you can also get a tight chest and shortness of breath if your glucose is dropping. So maybe since you are still hungry that could also explain the chest issue. But if you dont have glucose issues, try adding protein to it. The protein helps slow down the digestion, add a little good fat - even better :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/07/16 03:43:09PM
309 posts

Dreams that actually happen?


Dreams

I'm with you on that one. Death dreams scare me, and I keep to myself for fear the other person will think I contributed to that.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/07/16 03:41:41PM
309 posts

Dreams that actually happen?


Dreams

That is amazing on the lottery tickets!!!I had a dream that a friend got a new cell phone number, but I can only see the first 3 digits in the dream. Then I had like 2 dreams after tgat we were communicating via cell. Thought it was weird at first. Few weeks later I kept getting texts messages from a number but no one would tell me who it was. Later I found it was him and recalled tgat dream as the numbers were the same 3 digits lol.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/06/16 06:49:10PM
309 posts

Feeling So Hopeful


Empath

If the job is going to be toxic I get bad feelings in my gut. If the job will be good I'm so excited I can't stand it lol. That's the best way I learned all these years, was through my gut.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/06/16 06:45:23PM
309 posts

Broken heart, and loneliness


Empath

Just remember this. You can't help someone who doesn't want it or refuse to do it themselves. I think the more you try, the more you'll suffer. If she isn't willing to change her life, just be happy for her. That will save your friendship. Boundaries as well :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/06/16 05:05:30PM
309 posts

Broken heart, and loneliness


Empath

This seems to be a very common issue most empaths have. People who need help are just drawn to us, and when they get what they need to fulfill their happiness from us they are gone, and we are left tired, drained, upset, etc.I firmly believe happiness comes from within, and to find that you have to start developing better boundaries. These people tgat suck us dry like a vampire would, just cant. I know for myself when I started doing this I was so happy all the time and I started attracting people who don't need my help. Once someone new comes into the picture, I learned to go with gut. Alot of times, well ok all the time, those that do use me for help I get a bad feeling about. Those I have to set the boundaries with.Test it out for yourself. I think you will find someone one day. And when someone starts ranting about their bad just say "I'm sorry" don't get to involved in their drama or whatever it is they are going through.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/06/16 04:54:14PM
309 posts

Dreams that actually happen?


Dreams

I've noticed this too with myself. I think we all have some psychicNess in our dreams. Do you journal? I started keeping one and when i go back i find alot of it coming true. Plus I remember then more. A friend of mine is totally psychic in her dreams.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/04/16 10:18:52PM
309 posts

Why do I feed bad for not helping someone?


Empath

Thank you! I'm most definitely going to get the book.Update. Since this incident he has not spoken to me at work and my boss told me I basically needed to be a little more sympathetic to his feelings. How is this blowing up in my face? I really don't understand.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/04/16 12:54:29PM
309 posts

empaths and your parents; some questions for you.


Empath

My father totallt is. He doesn't talk about it, until I asked him one day lol. He is really gifted when it comes to people, and not falling for people who need help. It's like he knows to only help when that person genuinely needs it. He's even pushed away family, and then bent over backwards for others. I know those family members and see why he did that.He has always said things here and there "I just don't like them" "they feel abnormal" "he is going through alot of pain" "I like this one as he is happy" And he never even said one word to them lol.He told me if I didn't want to be taken advantage of by people, to be mentally strong. From as a kid, and his book collection now, it's all about self help and strengthening yourself.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/01/16 07:27:39PM
309 posts

Why do I feed bad for not helping someone?


Empath

Lavender you nailed it! I'm always told I'm mean if I don't listen or be there for someone. But again, he is a coworker and not family or close friends.Today my coworker tried to talk to me about his problems again and I set the boundaries again, only he didn't allow me to finish, He got so mad he stomped away and slammed stuff around his desk. His responses were cold and shutting me out in work related things.And to think, I feel bad for him and he throws a temper tantrum. He made me feel like a terrible person. I left early and went home and cried. Called my boss.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/01/16 04:39:58AM
309 posts

Why do I feed bad for not helping someone?


Empath

But that's the thing, helping others not always makes me feel good long term. Because at the end of the day I'm drained and bitter and cranky. I can do what I can to clear it. But as you mention, he'll become dependent on me. Then I just dump on others, or I lock myself in my home.The whole reason why I opted to keep at a distance from these people because I was depressed and had alot of anxiety. The day I had a few of my personal close friends all coming at me through text with their issues, my heart rate was 115. IT felt like I was at the gym. I knew at this point this wasn't healthy and told each one to just stop. And these are my girls, people I love and care for. So with strangers, my blood pressure must be through the roof.Since then I have never felt better, my confidence and self esteem has improved. And "I" feel so happy! I haven't felt this happy in a long time.As for my coworker, I've only known for a few months. His issues/problems are real, and yes hard to go through right now. But as my friend told, it's his destiny in life to go through and not mine. She did say it's not fair, and that he sounds like an energy vampire. I seriously thought I was going to have a heart attack yesterday from his emotions.Whenever this happens, I just feel like energy around me like someone is watching me. I like to think it's my guardian angels. As when I'm happy I don't feel this energy presence as much.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/31/16 09:28:05PM
309 posts

Moving house


Empath

Omg! I can totally relate. I feel this at my parents house and my last 3 apartments. Sometimes I don't feel it at all where I live now and sometimes I do.I have no idea if it is some type of residual energy or spirits you are feeling. My chakra lady told me its spirits trying to connect with me, and to accept my gift. For you, I wouldn't doubt if it was the house, especially if you are not feeling it now.I'd say keep your new place clean and don't allow any blockages for good flow of energy.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/31/16 09:16:59PM
309 posts



Yes. I'm finding it harder to make new friends. Like you, it's like the people use you until they feel better and move on. But if you won't help them, then you are a bad person. I keep attracting people who just need my help and I've starter setting better boundaries, and now I've got a coworker where my boundaries don't work anD I feel bad. Sometimes I feel like moving away but I know it won't solve any problems.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/31/16 09:10:45PM
309 posts

Why do I feed bad for not helping someone?


Empath

I've been doing really good staying away from negative people or people with deep rooted issues. It was really weighing me down. Since I broke from that I've been so much happier. My coworker is going through a really hard time and just started talking to me about it, and originally I thought "here we go again" I told him already once to not speak to me anymore about this and to keep it professiobal. Today he was really sad and he tried several times to talk but I pushed him away.But why do I feel bad about it? All day I could feel him dying inside to talk to me about his issues. Anyone have any good advice on how I can start not feeling so bad?
updated by @tigerlily: 01/09/17 08:42:14AM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/21/16 04:35:59PM
309 posts



I am going through this myself. I feel there are alot of people around as you described. For me once I broke out of putting others first then me, I was really able to fix the things with me. Which did require some isolation. Now that I'm going out more and meeting new people, I can't stand it. It's like people are so focused on their looks and image and how others will see them, they forget mental health is just as important. We are all different and unique in our ways and not everyone will look like models or celebrities. Or the people who do things for others, only do that so they appear good. Not because you are helping society, but because they think people will perceive them better. Does that make sense? Seems like doing for yourself almost doesn't exist anymore and it's sad.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/09/16 07:13:02PM
309 posts

How do I break the chord?


Empath

I don't know either lol. I'm a pretty happy person and in my own life. And I do understand I cannot make anyone be with me, but if I'm trying to date and meet other men and the signs/synchronicity start happening with new guys. I just find it weird like the universe is saying different. And again I'm not looking for it. Like one guy i datex spoke of a corporation and the name of the Corp waa mystery man's name. The second guy took me to a cafe with his name, and then invited me to dinner to a restaurant with that same name. I told my best friend and she's like "oh that's really weird" lol. I feel like the universe is just constantly throwing it out there about this man. But again, I can't make him date me. That's why I was thinking is it best to figure out how to cut the chord? And dreaming of him, and he calls the next day? I just try to roll with it.I also know we have many soul mates not one. I think society has embellished the term soul mate to an extent.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/09/16 05:16:13AM
309 posts

How do I break the chord?


Empath

My one ex was totally unhealthy, I thought I was done with him but he continues to reach out every few months, and I just ignore him. So his I'd like to cut.But I speak more of a man whom my chakra lady tells me I'm soul connected to, a soul mate. He has never once needed my help or dumped his problems on me. I understand just because he may be a soul mate, we may not be together romantically. However, deep inside I feel differently. I don't wait for him, I do date others and plan things in life accordingly . And now I'm seeing signs/synchronicity with these new men in regards to my mystery man. I can't help but to think wtf. I have no idea if this is healthy or not with him, I've been trying to go with the flow and let it unfold. But it's bothering me this is happening with new relationships.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
05/08/16 08:17:27PM
309 posts

How do I break the chord?


Empath

I've read alot on here about people breaking the chord amd I'd like to learn how?I think this maybe difficult as the signs and synchronicity with this person has just been fascinating. As well as everytime i dream about this person, the next day they call. Happens every time.
updated by @tigerlily: 01/29/17 06:18:54PM
 
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