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TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/06/16 10:42:44AM
341 posts

Fake People and Empaths


Empath

Nikki, you are right and a bigger person for this.  

 I can't speak for others, but can speak for myself.  but one common theme I also see is setting boundaries and people over stepping boundaries.  we can set all the boundaries we want and certain people will keep over stepping.  my experiences is with those people are that they clearly can't find happiness and draining me of my mine, and they want you to do it for them  and then onto the next.  I can list a dozen people who do this too me at work and in my personal life.  do I have to remind everyone that  I too once had a very hard time in life at one point?  and who picked me up? Myself, everyone else ran.    Do I sympathize and show empathy for them at the same, absolutely.  but when I'm constantly being used or don't allow for it, either way I'm considered a bitch.  I see ked out therapy for years about this, and my own therapist couldn't believe how often this happened to me.   I'm at the point where I can genuinely feel who needs it and doesnt.  I know for myself, the strong personality helps me, and I was born with this. Some people can't handle it, but again then I'm not being genuine to myself if I can't be me and have to tone myself down.  So maybe I am allowing people who call me a bitch, to really think I am.  but I'm done being used to these kinds of people and would rather help those that genuinely need it.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/03/16 05:24:26AM
341 posts

People who block yoi


Empath

I do want to add, that it's not that I want to know how they are feeling.  But it's more like "how do you do it".  I don't know how to explain.  It's the people that are to me "I just can't figure you out"  I will add that it is nice and almost like a fresh of breath air.  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/02/16 08:09:36PM
341 posts

People who block yoi


Empath

I really had no idea what to post in the title that made the most sense. BUT I was curious to know do any of you feel like you just can't pick up on someone? Like they don't want you to feel their emotions? I've always wondered if those people were gifted themselves and knew how to control it.
updated by @tigerlily: 05/17/17 09:55:21PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/02/16 07:57:04PM
341 posts

Fake People and Empaths


Empath

You nailed!  I have turned into a major "B" as well.  That mixed with my strong personality, watch out.  I'm tired of the fake people too.  If you are so unhappy with yourself, then make changes the right way instead of something you'really not just so people can like you.  My work is full of fakes and drama queens, and not very many professionals.  It drives me mad, walking around work and feeling insecurities, stupidity, cattiness, and other things.  Now, I do like those days they all went out drinking the night before and they are all hungover.  It's a great stress relief for me lol.  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/30/16 12:34:47PM
341 posts

Smarts


Empath

Has anyone on here taken an IQ test or exhibited above average grades in school? I recently saw an article of characteristics of genuises, and one of them was having high levels of empathy. Thought it was interesting because I remember taking IQ tests and scoring really high on them.
updated by @tigerlily: 03/22/17 07:44:41AM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/25/16 07:56:36PM
341 posts

Negativity issues


Empath

I'm so sorry to hear about your father.  I agree with everything mommy4 has said.  Focus on him and all others can wait.  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/25/16 07:52:31PM
341 posts

Do you give advice?


Empath

I did this all the time!  I was always saying you should and shouldnt, etc.  It was called out to me once about it, so now I try not to do it anymore.  It still happens from time to time and I catch myself and say "shoot I did it again" lol.  

Now, I think I'm so exhausted from people and actually trying to focus on myself that when they do ask "what should I do"  I get immediately so tired I'm like "I don't know"  lol.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/24/16 04:45:10PM
341 posts



My reiki lady suggested to me to do so.  Or that I move into the country lol. I never learned reiki, but I'll jump in my car and go to the country or nature preserves.   It wouldn't hurt to try it and learn.


updated by @tigerlily: 03/29/17 07:52:19PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/24/16 04:35:58PM
341 posts

Negativity issues


Empath

Maybe the presidential election is causing this. LOL. All I see is everyone posting negatively about the 2 candidates.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/24/16 05:23:07AM
341 posts

Negativity issues


Empath

It's like how Karen described, finding that awareness.  Recently I started having stomach and GI problems again then I learned my close friend is having problems again.  When we don't talk I'm ok, but when we do it comes back.  Saw her this weekend for a few hours and left completely drained and had a brain fog.  When I came home I started to feel fine.  The man I'm seeing, my blood has been pumping pretty hard.  Once I tried to end it with him, clearly not either oNE of us want, but it stopped.  He has alot of stress.  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/23/16 07:15:36PM
341 posts

Women's cycles and past lives


New Age

How do you clear up something from the past life?  I have female issues that is causing other health complications for me.  And this too runs in the family.  I had several dreams of a man and myself pregnant.  But the dreams with the baby the man is not there as like he died.  I did eventually meet this man in present today, and after meeting him the female issues took a turn.  One of the other dreams with this baby, he was older and I was married to a not great man and had a second baby.  I didn't want to be married to him, nor him to me.  How do I clear this??

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/23/16 07:07:48PM
341 posts



Yes!!! I do as well!  One of the things is my round face and hair. And smile.  Like my face should be more narrow, and we'll I wear hair extensions.  The hair now to me feels this is how it should be.  My eyes appear as they should.  It's weird right?  Same for smoking, we all know how it is with society and health, but I always had the urge to smoke since a kid.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/18/16 07:34:18PM
341 posts

discussion re: soul mates / new loves


Empath

I have no idea on anything with him anymore lol.  The dreams, the signs, all drove me a little nuts for a while.  But now I just see it as more of a guide/direction to the right path in life.  I decided already to not think any more of it and just move in.  It was a very strong connection that's for sure, one I never felt b4.  

But I will say this, it's a great feeling and it did put things at ease inside me.  I wish upon everyone to meet theirs.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/18/16 05:21:47AM
341 posts

Can someone who's never seen/heard spirit... learn to?


Empath

I like you have been told of this gift by all you listed above.  Spirits have always put some fear in me as I've seen them, been touched, had that like blowing feeling, and random smells.  My friend has strong medium capabilities and the spirits never leave her alone and want to communicate.  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/18/16 05:14:55AM
341 posts

discussion re: soul mates / new loves


Empath

I have no idea where the fear came from.  But I know I had fear for him as well.  After we met about a year later I started having more dreams about him, a few were him saving me from something, and others were like he wanted me there but didnt.  Since nothING ever happened and he moved earlier this year I said it was time to let him go and establish other relationships.  Then I dreamt of him again the other night only it felt like he was talking in my ear and I couldn't make sense of it.  I really don't think about him anymore and focusing my energies on this new guy, whom I really like and want to see where it goes.  I figure if this man comes back again (as he has disappeared and come back), I'll deal with it then.  For now just going about life and live it to the fullest to the best I can :)

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/17/16 09:23:54PM
341 posts

discussion re: soul mates / new loves


Empath

I totally get what you mean about dreaming someone and then actually meeting them.  That was the guy I wrote about, for years I dreamt this man and then he came.  I do recall the last time I saw him he did have a fear in his eyes when he looked at me.  I never understood if at that moment maybe he did recognize who I was or not.  Keep up the positivity and you will see those 2 again :)

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/17/16 08:33:21PM
341 posts

Empaths & love..


Empath

I was in 2 relationship similar to what you described Nikki.  And it actually broke me down, after that last relationship I haven't had anyone to call a b/f in 5 years.  I've dated and met alot of people but nothing.  Once I found out who I am, I was able to understand better why I attracted 1 man who destroyed me completely, and another who smothered and controlled me.  That time is over and I love me again :)

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/17/16 08:26:53PM
341 posts

discussion re: soul mates / new loves


Empath

@renee, I totally understand everything you wrote.  If you are looking for your true mate/lover, I can tell you what I did.  He came and went, but I still believe til this day he is the one but yet im moving on from it.  I feel I've met alot of soul mates and learned from them, those individuals.  They are also not in my life.  I've also had re-occurring dreams about those individuals which always felt like a different era.  

If you want to re unite with the one you loved for many lifetimes, put it down on paper and everything you want in that person down to how they look.  The appearance was easy for me as I dreamt of this man since childhood and I never understood why I had such a love for this person I never met.  After putting it all on paper, and just had this knowing he was coming was there for a few years.  Naturally when I did eventually meet this man, I didn't know how to react LOL.  Then the signs started happening.  I wasn't in a good place in my life, and couldn't move past my difficult time in life years ago.  But after meeting him, you better believe I got myself together.  And I couldn't tell you how it happened, that lost feeling I had all of a sudden just went away and I was able to piece my life back so quickly.   Even though no romantic relationship came out of it like a fairytale, I am moving on from him.  It was hard to do so but it helped me move on and grow right now.  I'll see signs here and there, and I use that as a guide for my path in life.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/17/16 08:11:29PM
341 posts

Stress


Empath

@nikki, if I am subconsciously taking in his stres, we'll then that man is really stressed out!  Lol.  I almost can't breathe sometimes.  I spent today not trying to think about him and focus on work and I started to feel better.  I did feel from time to time stressed for no reason, but then i caught myself thinking about him lol.  My other friend has been stressing me out past few weeks and I almost couldn't even talk to her today without wanting to pass out from the stress.  So I just couldn't even talk to her anymore.

I feel better now, and thank you to everyone.  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/17/16 03:54:30PM
341 posts

Empaths & love..


Empath

@ash, also very interesting you mention maybe we are all broken in our own ways.  Yes, people break us LOL.  Mostly how we are used by people to help them, it takes a toll on us as well.  But we don't go looking for other people to heal us, we try to do it ourselves.  

Now I'm more curious on what it's like dating another empath or having them as a close friend.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/17/16 01:42:44PM
341 posts

Male friends falling for me


Empath

I feel like I've cut so many people out of my life the past few years who have sabotaged me.  Ugh and it's happening again?  How do I break this,

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/17/16 01:38:28PM
341 posts

Empaths & love..


Empath

@ Nikki, how do you keep them?  Lol.  I'm the say way attracting broken men, it's very rare I meet someone who is doing well for themself.  And when i do meet not broken,  the attraction or their like towards me goes away.  I guess not many people appreciate or care for all the great things we do if they are not broken,  especially if they are not broken because they can  hold their own.  A's for the married men, yuck, they come to me too.  I have a few at work who have a "crush" on me, and when I'm out the married flirt with me.  It's annoying and I do feel bad if they get no support from their wives, but not my place to fix it.

Is it different if you are dating someone who is an empath themselves?

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/17/16 05:04:23AM
341 posts

Stress


Empath

The past few weeks I've been feeling under a lot of stress and I don't know why. Right now my stressor's in life are minor and fixable and great. But, I'm wondering if it's the stressor of another person I'm feeling or multiple??? I haven't had it this bad in so long it's freaking me out. There is a new person in my life who is going through a lot right now, but he never asks for help or talks much about it. Which again thought was great because he's not dumping anything on me. So I thought maybe I was just picking up on his stress, but I also haven't seen him in a week.
updated by @tigerlily: 02/19/17 09:32:53AM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/11/16 08:25:40AM
341 posts

Male friends falling for me


Empath

Ash posted this recently and I'm struggling myself and looking for advice. I have 2 male friends, whom are not friends with each other and don't know each other. Friend A always has something negative to say about a new prospect in my life. The new prospect in my life I really like. Seems like the ones I really like, the more my friend gets angry and says not nice things. Friend B, he always says it's going to blow over soon. He's actually nicer about these things but will always again say something negative but make it sound positive. Does that make sense?
Both I can sense have an attraction towards me, and both know I'm not interested in them that way. I also found out that recently both have a liking towards me so my gut feeling was correct. This isn't the first time I've had this with male friends and probably not the last. I feel like cutting both out of my life. To me I feel if they are friends they should be happy for me, and not say negative things about the guy and I also learned to not tell them anything anymore. I cannot have another failed relationship because a new guy goes running for how my friends are.
updated by @tigerlily: 02/24/17 06:57:23AM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/10/16 05:18:36AM
341 posts

Dreams


Empath

Renee, doesn't it make it seem being empathic exhausting?  Lol.  We take in from others daily and left drained.  And at night we are cleansing ourselves lol.  We need vacations.  

I'm not sure if I personally feel better in the morning if I don't remember my dreams.  Days I don't remember, I wake up feeling like I was somewhere else.  Nature has always been my best bet.  Living in a bustling city makes it hard to get out as I have to anticipate at least a 2 hour drive out and 2 hour drive back in.  Ugh.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/09/16 01:35:21PM
341 posts

Empaths & love..


Empath

I have had this too, and it's still a problem.  Alot of them even cock block new relationships for me.  That now I've learned to not even tell them anything.  I've never over stepped the boundary and got involved with those guys, but it's flipping annoying lol!  

I think it's because we care and show them support in ways their girl doesnt.  Men need support and many women don't give it I guess.  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/09/16 01:31:31PM
341 posts

Dreams


Empath

I dream all the time too.  I used to keep a log and would remember 3 dreams a night.  I stopped the logged many months ago.  I've had black n white fuzzy dreams this year only.  Not sure what those mean.  But sometimes my dreams come true few weeks or months later. Not in the same way in my dream, but the concept of it.  Like a friends divorce, or someone's new pregnancyetc.  Like you, no one else I knows remembers their dreams.  From what I noticed people who are more spiritual or gifted do remember theirs.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10/09/16 10:54:14AM
341 posts

Soul Mate Search


Empath

Lotus, I can relate to everything you just wrote.   When you met the one, you will just know.  I never understood this until last year, when he walked into the bar it was love at first and it felt like coming home.  Needless to say I was devastated nothing more came out of it and he's now moved halfway cross country.  I have no idea if him and I will ever reconnect and live happily ever after, but he will message me back if I message him.  I don't because it's painful.  But this new guy I'm seeing is completely great and I just want to enjoy time with him.  I think you shold do the same.  When the one comes you will just "know"

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/26/16 06:40:42PM
341 posts

New feelings and weird things now..


Empath

I've had alot of electronic things fail around me.  My cell phone will do weird things like you described, my work laptop (when I call IT they have no idea)  I went through 4 fitbits in a year.  After my last warranty replacement I just sold it.  

I've had weird smells, and my sense of smell is not great.  But people around don't smell it.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/26/16 05:19:27AM
341 posts

How do you know you've met a fellow empath or highly spiritual individual?


Empath

You all have been so helpful that I don't know where to comment first :)

Moving from NYC to Oregon.  Ok that I can totally understand.  I live in a large city, and for me I can feel all the different energies.  That sometimes I think for me that's where I get confused and can't tell as I'm just overwhelmed.  I spend alot of time at home, and if I do go out I always drink just so it can numb me.  In a suburb or small town I feel more relaxed.  It's almost people just live in a big city to find there place to fit in, versus being themselves.  Since I moved into the city it's been hard to make new friends, but for the new ones I met they live in the burbs. 

Narcs, they are really good at hiding themselves until we have developed sometime relationship.  They just know how to leach on and suck it all out of you.  Yet those are the ones that cause the most drama and fits when you want to terminate that relationship.  And almost want to destroy you.  (Ran into a few of them at work)  I feel like I'm picking up on the Narcs quicker and usually just running from them.

Incarnation.  I agree on this one as I believe in past lives we were on the other side at one point.  I've always felt there was something I did in a past life where I'm always being overlooked.  This comes from dating and work and some life experiences.  Not sure how to stop this, so I try to rely on what comes to me in dreams.  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/18/16 09:55:09AM
341 posts

Same dream dreamt by 2 different people


Empath

I guess sometimes I get scared because I've had a few that actually come true weeks later.  

Examples-I dreamt my friends father passed away.  Never told my friend this, but later he told me (after this dream) his dad was sick but actually doing very well.  Then he just died suddenly.  

Another was with one of subordinates at work.  There was an earthquake etc.  Few weeks later an actual earthquake happened in that area where I dreamt, and then I had a lot of work related problems with this guy at work.

I do agree with everyone that dreams have meanings and how we interpret them.  But some I just can't pice together because some come true.  And that's where I'm trying to differentiate them.  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/17/16 12:33:28PM
341 posts

Same dream dreamt by 2 different people


Empath

I've always wild vivid dreams. But what is weird to me is someone else I know had the same dream. Not identical to the T, but same concept.

I've always thought it's because of the connections I've had with those people, but the last one that my mom had almost seemed like past life stuff.
Looking for anyone's opinions on dreams so I can put this together.
updated by @tigerlily: 01/21/17 02:46:31PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/16/16 08:12:39PM
341 posts

thinking more about the wellbeing of others more than myself?


Empath

H1234, never give up on hope and what you want.  It's why I go on countless dates and get frustrated.  I agree that writing down everything you want.  I did this year's ago but fail to look at it more often.  To read it, vision him, and senD out that love.  Someone once told me that I was choosing to be single and what I want doesn't exist.  That hurt, but I'm not going to settle.  I don't know about anyone else, but when I look at couples I can feel the love between 2 people or one who is so in love with the other and it's not reciprocated.  People settle, and well it ends in divorce.  Don't give up, and we are here to listen and cry to.  Shhot, I did that tonight!  :)

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/15/16 07:59:56PM
341 posts

Having trouble with my intuition lately....


Empath

Thank you!!!  This is great!!  I felt a little happier today, but still uneasy.   Something else happened and I feel like I'm just not doing anything right and just have this bad feeling in me.  I have no idea what's going on or why I feel like this?  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/15/16 07:53:30PM
341 posts



I was taking Lexapro, that made me super happy and didn't have a care in the world.  But after like 3 or 4 months it stopped working.  I just had to dig inside of me to find the cause of my depression and work on that, I did work with a therapist.  It honestly was the best thing I did for me.  A healthy well balanced diet and exercise helps a ton too.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/16 09:21:25PM
341 posts



I'm not a fan of meds.  I was put on them several years ago, and I just felt blah on them.  The one I was on I was super happy all the time and didn't have a care in the world.  Then they tried another cocktail and next thing I knew I had 4 prescription bottles and felt no feelings of my own or others.  I was numb.  

My decision making abilities were comprimised, as well as my feelings.

I think they are good to help get through a hard time, but if it chronic anxiety or depression maybe figuring out the root cause is best.  That helped me and I've been happy.  It's hard and took some time, and I'd love to help anyway I can.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/16 09:09:04PM
341 posts

Having trouble with my intuition lately....


Empath

Thanks everyone!  I will admit I have been mildly depressed.  Things at work are not going right and I have been doubting myself, which I never really do because I'm excellent at my job.  But with that and other things not going right the past few weeks it's got me depressed.  I'm not a fan of this feeling, but I know now I have to start looking for a new job.  Again today I wanted to cry at my desk over spilled milk.  The rumble in me when I try to go with my gut is awful.  Maybe I'll try to get away out to nature this weekend.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/13/16 05:22:29AM
341 posts

Having trouble with my intuition lately....


Empath

I need help. I feel like I can't follow my intuition. The whole "follow your gut" doesn't apply to me anymore and can't read it. I have been feeling low the past few weeks and trying to snap out of it. What do you all do when this happens?
updated by @tigerlily: 01/22/17 09:27:14AM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/08/16 07:43:12PM
341 posts

Spooky?


Empath

That's awesome! The person I have a strong connection with always texts me around 11ish. I see 11:11 alot. Look up angel numbers to see what 3 means :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/06/16 06:32:46PM
341 posts

thinking more about the wellbeing of others more than myself?


Empath

Wow, we both sound alike!! Same age, want the same things. Message me if you ever want to talk :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/06/16 04:50:27PM
341 posts

thinking more about the wellbeing of others more than myself?


Empath

Maybe that's why I'm single too! This year I've put the most effort into me, and I've actually had more dates but no relationship, ugh. I lost a few friends this year as well because I put my needs first, not theirs.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/06/16 04:24:28AM
341 posts

thinking more about the wellbeing of others more than myself?


Empath

I'm the same way, I put others before myself. I have always felt guilty for putting my needs first. We actually feel others pain and joy and everything else. After going to reiki, chakra balance, and seeing a psychic. All have told me to stop this. :)

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/05/16 03:33:20PM
341 posts



I forgot to ask, is your pain constant or does it come and go? Did they test for diverticulitis? Maybe try for a week gluten free, and cut back on the carbs and sugar? See how you feel? Drink lots of water and cut the sugary drinks. Sounds like this is heriditary. I had awful gas pains that were constant when i was staying with a friend through her divorce. Once i left and camr back home that gas was gone. The energy in the house was so bad fron the divorce.One thing to keep in mind as well, anxiety is awful. If you already have some minor pain, and your muscles contract it will cause more pain. You wont even notice your muscles doing this. My muscles are so tight from anxiety, the masage therapist needed more than an hour, actually a few sessions. I had dozens of knots in my back that was pulling on my chest muscles causing chest pain. I'm so used to it I don even notice knots anymore.I'm no Dr, but I'd really like to hear the outcome of this. I'm sorry you are in so much pain, but don't let this defeat you, you sound like a tough cookie under neath it all. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/05/16 08:04:31AM
341 posts

Dating


Empath

Thought I'd give an update on this one. This great gent is going through alot right now and is highly stressed. Some situations at hand in his life took a turn for the worse, and he is trying to work through them. Maybe that's where I'm getting the lack of interest from him. He still communicates every so often, but doesn't ask for help or show signs he needs it. To me, being used to everyone needing my help to get through a tough time is a shock to me. My closest friend even said this is probably a blessing and the kind of man I need in my life.

I am my worse critic sometimes as that logic part kicks in and gives me bad feelings, but when I listen to my heart it's all good. I will have to use my heart more often for myself as my brain just gets in the way because of my experiences in life. Hope this makes sense.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/05/16 07:45:10AM
341 posts



Have you had a chakra balance? Something is off, or maybe it's someone else you are close too. Do any of your family of friends have digestive issues? Could also be you absorbing everything around you?

And if not any of the above, maybe it's what you are eating? Our food in the states is terrible, diabetes is taking down my whole family, and I'm already seeing it in me and changed my diet. For years the doctors had no idea why I have gerd, and other digestive issues. Once I cut way back on the carbs and sugar, it all went away. When I cheat and have more carbs and sugar it comes back.

Have they checked you for gluten, food allergies, etc? Sounds like the pain is in your large colon, where sometimes I'd feel the pain.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/05/16 07:36:03AM
341 posts

Does the job/career that we do would have to relate to ourselves for being an Empath, or could be a completely different thing?


Empath

Our brain and heart never see eye to eye. This is my big problem as I'm a very logical person. In your case I would have picked the job where the company had a good rep, pay, benefits etc. Right? Logically it makes sense. But would feel the seconD job would be more ideal as it felt right. Then I have that rumble in me. What has helped me is list out the pros and cons and go with my gut/feelings tell me. I honestly believe for myself I'd make a better nurse or therapist, versus the corporate world. But I dread going back to school lol.

I believe if you are using your gift to help others in a profession, why not? You definatly would be more passionate about it and do really well and helping others. I can see where it's abusing that power if others are not being helped they way they need it.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/05/16 07:26:30AM
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Sounds like are to me. I feel the same way going into big buildings are just walking past them. Same with large crowds. When people lie, etc. I don't use anxiety meds but I smoke and use calming scented products. Something about taking prescriptions I feel side effects right away and then it induces anxiety. Even an anti biotic does that to me. I love smoking despite all the negative about it, but it is a vice and knock on wood I'm still healthy and have stumped Dr's along with my chakra and reiki lady.

I don't think it's special powers, but it often feels that way. It's a gift from god/universe/angels/whatever higher up you believe in. Sometimes I feel the gift is a curse, but also a blessing.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/05/16 07:13:25AM
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How do you know you've met a fellow empath or highly spiritual individual?


Empath

You both are right. I have noticed alot in work emails when someone is stressed or angry, even though their words put together don't display that. I for one feel like i have to stop placing judgement on people, but sometimes its hard when right away I feel the person is a douchebage, highly depressed, severe anxiety, overly happy, confident. Get my drift? It's something about peoples eyes when i look direct at them i get that right away. But as far as goosebumps, i really dont feel that unless ive met a man who i really like (only happened a few times, out of the mamy ive met) or if its a spiritual presense like a grandparent and then i can smell them. So I was just curious after what those so called friends said. Because sometimes I can't pick up on other empathetic people, unless I just don't attract them? It would be great to meet someone like me and have that freindship.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/05/16 06:42:29AM
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Why do I attract crazy? Do you?


Empath

Rene, so true!!! I've met so many people like that! It's like they can't handle rejection.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/04/16 06:45:50PM
341 posts

Why do I attract crazy? Do you?


Empath

You probably did nothing wrong but intimidate her. I have coworkers like that, and the feelings are intimadating by me.
 
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