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TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/14/18 03:03:53PM
436 posts

Astral Projection


Empath

Someone may have posted this once or I have.  What is this exactly, and can others share their experiences?  Checking to see if this is what is happening to me at night.


updated by @tigerlily: 09/05/18 07:48:54PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/14/18 03:01:52PM
436 posts



Ewww no. If I did, I'd say something to them inappropriate like "keep up with that and you'll have herpes or syphilis by 16" LOl.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/13/18 09:18:10PM
436 posts



I seriously don't know where to begin here haha! I've had sooooo many crushes going up and to this day too.

There was a boy in first grade, I forget his name lol. This one, i didnt crush on, but he crushed on me. He used to chase me on the playground trying to kiss me, and I rUn to my older brother. Who then gathered his friends to chase that boy and his friends. One day when that boy was leaving school early he finally got his kiss on my hand!!! So embarrassed from all the kids going "ooooooo"

There were also many of those that "got away" I'll still never forget football player from freshman or sophomore year in high school. He was tall, muscular, kind dark eyes, gorgeous smile. Ugh, so cute! He sat in front of me and would turn around to talk to me any chance he got to talk to me, even after being yelled at by the teacher multiple times LOL. One day his friend asked if I liked him, and like a fool I said no. Even though I did, just a fool. Anyways, since then he never spoke to me again and the rest of high school he was with long relationships with 2 girks from a crowd I didn't like. Many years later, he popped up on my FB married with kids. I said F it, friend requested him and he accepted. I still to this day get that feeling of like and attraction to me from him that I did in HS. And he will "like" ONLY my "all dolled up" pics only when I post them.

Then there was Josh in the 4th grade. He was so cute and super smart. I crushed on him for years, and I saw him looking. In HS he was more dorky, but got cuter as HS passed. I think he was my first official crush. He was pretty to look at. I must be too, as over the years we would look at each other.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/13/18 08:57:32PM
436 posts

Signs


Empath

So believe in signs!!! I've read a few books on them.

After the books, seemed like some signs I was given was just symbolic in form. When I had pregnancy signs, those mostly turned into a new life journey for me. And when I had signs clear as day ans didn't follow the signs, because it seemed to obvious, we'll let's just say I was thrown bricks forcing to listen. That was not fun and stressful, but now I see why and it's making me see now an even better journey awaits. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/26/18 06:22:08PM
436 posts

Angry Empath?


Empath

@chezarey I don't have stockholm syndrome. But it would make sense with how he is, if that makes sense. I call him out on his crap, I tell him when he's wrong, and I'll walk out and won't talk to him for months. I've told him to also cut it with his mind games, and to not do this to his own daughter. He yet then says "I can't believe you talk to your own father like this" and it's easy for me to say "you taught me to watch out for what manipulators do, and here you are doing it" That's why I can't figure him out. He cares in those ways like others do when you are sick/tired/sad/etc, but he's also very good at trying to convince his way or the highway lol. Sometimes I wonder with him if this how narcs break into empaths through soul evolution or something. If that makes sense.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/24/18 09:43:37PM
436 posts

Angry Empath?


Empath

Wow!! This is all great advice and great to hear it's mostly not me. Thank you.

I have no idea where to begin. I already sense that people at work are angry and those close to me. I try to be as positive as much as I can, as I learned that has helped. But after a while I'm drained. But if they are already consumed in the negativity all they want to do is push it on me. I have helped many people fix and repair things in life, but i have been backing off at that. And I think that's what is making them more angry. And quite frankly, it's upsetting that so many people don't want to fix their own stuff. Classic empath stuff right? The narc at work continues to do this, and I wouldn't be surprised if he's the devil!! Lol. I know now putting him in his place is what seems to help, but professionally it's hard on me. That challenge is definitely there. I'm so grateful to have an empath as a boss.

The narc empath relationship, I read much about this. From trying to teach them empathy, to past life karma. My father and I have quite a history. And through past life regressions, I understand more. He has many narc traits, but yet I'm amazed at how he knows how I feel. He can be such a @%&! At times, but then call me and say "I had a dream you were very sad and struggling, is everything ok" That's exactly what was going on in that moments in my life! He is angry a lot too, and does a lot of things that contradict his beliefs because it benefits him. But always has this need to protect and control me, and I always argue with him on this. But then I get thrown for a loop when he shows care when I'm at a low, like he just knows. I have no idea how to classify him LOL.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/23/18 08:59:24PM
436 posts

Angry Empath?


Empath

I've been told recently by a few friends, including my therapist that I have anger issues.  At first I took it personally, then a few more times I got kinda more mad.  Omg, im an Angry Empath!!!  That is what i thought.  And "am i turning into a narc!"  I get it, we don't live in each other's shoes, and we have to watch for the narc that want us to feel sorry for them.  Where this anger is coming from it appears to be multiple people, at work and in friends/family.   I do notice I close my heart and shut down.   I've been feeling it more so from a friend I haven't spoken to in a week.  When I think of her I get upset.   The best thing I've done recently is lock myself up at home and talk to no one but my cat.  And do things for me.  Then I'm happy again and love life, and it starts over again.  When I feel strong enough to push that anger from those aside, I feel like 5 more come at me with their anger/frustrations and I feel like collapsing.  Today was a great day for that.  Ahhh!  Sometimes think my strong personality is not able to combat that.  Then again i have to isolate myself.  I feel so bad that my one friend who gets it, i always blow her off to do something.  I know ill be no fun.  But I know I should do things with her.  The chest pains are coming back and I dislike those very much.  (I'm fine, Dr's ruled out everything but say anxiety)    Is it just me, or does anyone else get these angry moments?  Is it part of living in a big city too?


updated by @tigerlily: 09/06/18 12:44:03PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/13/18 09:43:27PM
436 posts

Feeling own heartbeating.


Empath

@ curious-child

I've had the heart beat, and blood pumping in various parts of the body. Its annoying. My heart sometime tends to be elevated, which I can check on my phone. It tends to make it worse as I freak out. After numerous Dr's and Er visits, multiple heart tests. It's nothing but stress and anxiety.
I remember one morning I had a few friends texting and complaining about their problems with their husbands. My heart was thumping, checked my heart rate and it was 115. I said enough and ignored the texts so they can figure it out. It was to much for me to help 3 people at once in that moment, so I went about making my breakfast and coffee. Checked again and my heart rate dropped to the 80s. Sometime's it's high and I don't know why or what is causing the stress, but an active mind. Tonight I had the heart beating again and got winded climbing a flight of stairs. Heart rate overy 100. started taking taking deep breaths with my eyes closed. Turned on the TV to watch something happy. My heart rate dropped to 79. I know for myself I need to chill out and clear the energy.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/13/18 09:05:50PM
436 posts

Thinking about people


Empath

@hermes what are mystic circles??

I always feel sad and missing this person alot, at first when it happens. It kind of is painful. Eventually after a few days it turns to happiness and eventually the thoughts fade again.

But with others, I find it fascinating when someone comes to mind and I or they reach out. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/11/18 08:52:24PM
436 posts

Thinking about people


Empath

Looking for Clarity on this subject.  :)  Sometimes I get overwhelming thinking about some of the people in my life.  For days they could be on my mind ALL the time and one day gone.  I may think to myself "oh I just realized I stopped thinking about so and so" and carry on with my life.  I've looked into it and many articles say different things.  My attention was caught when it said they are thinking about you too.  Then it reminded me of how many times I just picked up the phone, sent a text, an email,,,,and the response I get "I'm so happy to hear from you, I was just thinking about you"  or vice versa they con tact me.  

Now, the person on my mind currently has been for a week.  We don't talk anymore.  Are they thinking about me a lot too?  Are we bouncing our thoughtful feelings back and forth?  I only get it with this specific person.


updated by @tigerlily: 09/05/18 02:28:08PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/24/18 06:21:58PM
436 posts

Drink Up To Help Depression?


Empath

Funny you post this. I've been drinking coffee for decades, at one point I switched to decaf for years due to panic attacks. I'm back on caffeine again when I was training for a bike event, and was just physically exhausted all the time. As of recent, I started buying coffee from a place that roast their beans in a facility and sells the coffee in a shop. It's not here in my state and order online with them, but I will say I'm super happy when I drink it. I honestly thought it's because of the taste and made with love. I can't drink regular coffee anymore from the grocery store or from Starbucks or dunking donuts. This coffee is not the cheapest, but it sure puts a smile on my face and worth every cent. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/20/18 09:07:19PM
436 posts

Vision boards


Empath

Hi!!!  I want to start creating these for myself.  Was curious if anyone else has them and how it works?  Or has anyone had their vision come true :)   I was told recently to create a soul mate wish list from a healer, as I did that, I thought about a vision board for other things in life.  


updated by @tigerlily: 09/06/18 07:52:55PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/11/18 09:12:10PM
436 posts



I'm not a fan of depression, and I to get waves of it. Going out in nature has helped the best for me and remaining active. It seems what my heart and soul desire, but that brain. It always says "no, go back to bed" I recently hit a bad depression this year. I went out and bought a treadmill as the weather was still not great. I just felt I had to move my body. It was over powering, but again that brain. I went overboard and used it for over an hour. I noticed at a certain time into it, I'd have a burst of energy. Just like my bike riding. In 2 weeks I started feeling happier again. It's always hard in the beginning, but I just wait for that burst. I did take salt baths because I was sore and they always felt great, then I'd pass out to bed. Now that the weather has been nicer I'm out gardening again. The rainy days, I say "oh no" so I force myself around the house doing things and I start feeling better.

Music is great too and helps. Songs that are sad in nature I skip those, those that are high energy and I'm dancing on the treadmill. As for gardening, I think i fall in meditative states, that I often forget what I just did and where I left things.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/10/18 07:33:42PM
436 posts

My cats been attached at my hip lately


Animal Empaths

How old is your cat and has anything changed in the household?

As they age you will start to notice some new things they do :)  Your cat loves you dearly and she is letting you know.  Seems she can't get enough of you!  Mine follows me everywhere.  Always has, like a little puppy since the day I got him.   His neediness has grown over the years, he is 16.  I can't even come home from work anymore and start making dinner without him running and crying all over the house.  I always pick him up and kiss him and tell him I love him for a few minutes when I come home but now that is not enough anymore for him, he wants at least a half hour of it.  Just last week I was holding him like a baby trying to cook, and he was totally fine with it.  He watched everything I did, when I put him down for a moment he ran and started crying.  I had to go and get him to hold him again while I resumed cooking.  Once dinner was done, he was ok.  He got his full half hour of being held and a dozen kisses.

  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/10/18 07:07:49PM
436 posts



Sounds like narc energy to me!  I deal with one at work and I'm always restless and have great anxiety when he's around.  The days he's not there, i'm happy and bubbly and full of life.   When he came to my desk Friday before I left I've been restless and anxious all weekend.  I can't even look at him.   It's bad enough I feel his energy all day, but looking in his eyes - I can't even describe.      

TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/27/18 08:13:19PM
436 posts

Vitamin/Mineral Deficiency in empaths


Empath

Hi!  I'm curious to know if anyone suffers from any vitamin/mineral deficiency being an empath?  Do empaths get depleted quicker from those from the many energies out there?   Does having supplements or foods rich in that vitamin/mineral provide any kind of grounding assistance?  I know food and diet has been discussed.

Just thought about this when I took an Epsom salt bath to ground myself, and I was just reading the package and noticed "magnesium" as the first ingredient.  


updated by @tigerlily: 09/05/18 06:15:32PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/16/18 09:12:04PM
436 posts



I have learned to trust my instinct. When I meet someone, just looking in their eyes and how my body reacts tells me. The more I listen to logic than feeling, the more I suffer and get burned. It really is hard when society thinks I'm placing judgement, they don't understand.

However, when I am stressed or anxious I don't see or feel as much. Then I have to release the energy that is blocking. As we know, it's a lot of grounding work. It catches up so fast!
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/15/18 09:12:37PM
436 posts



Hi, I think our guides and soul can tell us through dreams. I've had some negative things go on with people and it will come through in a dream. As of recent, the dreams have becoming clearer (but I'm also asking for them) it can be past life related or it can be their karma affecting you.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/05/18 05:36:18PM
436 posts

Does the empath have a purpose?


Empath

@ crystalsage This is a great topic and many great advice/suggestions etc. I agree with you. To help bring balance to this world that is full of negativity. We all have a vast knowledge of wisdom that others may lack through multiple reincarnations etc. We are resourceful and everwhere. What to do with that negative energy? I don't know, maybe it's supposed to filter through us to turn into white light and be sent out as positive? Probably through grounding work as you stated.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/02/18 04:55:45PM
436 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

Yes, I put headphones on at work. Sometimes that works. Today I had them in almost all day. As for the bathroom, lol. Yes I have sometimes gone in there to just sit, that helps too. But only if no one else is in there. I've even gone into empty conference rooms, or my friends desk and she'll put a meeting on my calendar lol. I'll even go to the one guys desk, whom I think ma be an empath and make it look like we are working but talk. Lol. Anything I can do to get distance from that narc.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/01/18 08:27:46PM
436 posts

Negative CoWorkers


Empath

@sashacat1995 I've had many coworkers like you explained and I'm battling with one now in a way I've never had to before. :(

I know at work we can't light candles, but what about crystals? I have 2 at my desk. I also have plants, some have died from the negativity. The first one I ever had almost died, so I brought it home and now it's flourishing again.

Sometimes small comments of I'm sorry or that sucks or ya I don't know. Will help to some degree. You can always document what they are doing and saying and ask others if this is a hostile working environment. We all have personal problems, but if it's affecting their work or yours, you may need to go to your boss or HR.

If it's smaller things, boundaries are good. So idmf she's complaining about her BF say "I'm sorry this is happening, but I've got things here I have to finish one. Things will get better" something like that.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/31/18 02:22:58PM
436 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

Are you referring to physical sickness?

Yes I'm looking for a new job. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/30/18 06:23:52PM
436 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

@crystalsage that waa really nice that you offered to help her like that. You didn't know that she wasn't planning on returning them. But I get it, and understand how that feels. Have you tried reaching back out again?

No he's not sick. It's his energy. He's a narcissist, master manipulator. I don't think he thought I'd be as prepared in some of the pushback to his manipulative ways which got him to stop in the end, or the fact that I'm a human being too and have feelings too. I've been reading about narcissists all week, and in all the articles it seems for narcs they need their egos stroked to get on their good side. But I also know they take and take and take. So I tried the reverse on him. Called him out on his lies, provided examples of things he didn't think I'd had that proved his lies, showed my emotion and my feelings and that it's not all about him and that it's his people/staff too. In the end I did feel really bad, and questioned if I was to harsh? Because he looked really sad and then couldn't keep his stories straight in the end. And I think that's when I had absorbed all his energy and felt that sick. Because after the meeting he seemed fine. I've been sick every month that I started work there. I've never been this sick so much. I caught hand foot mouth, and I have no kids, no one else in the office had it. I was out of work for a week with it. I had laryngitis. I got the flu and was out 2 days. And multiple colds with flu like symptoms. I through out my back, which I haven't done in years. And was in pain and discomfort for 3 wewks. My knee kept acting up for a month, which again hasn't happened in years. Chronic headaches. All in 6 months. The days he's not there I feel perfectly fine. And no headaches, back pain, knee pain, cold/flu like symptoms. When he's back something starts again.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/29/18 03:01:07PM
436 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

@crystalsage. After today it seems like the shaking is from not good energy. I was with that guy today at work in a meeting for nearly 2 hours, and i shook the whole time. Afterwards I felt nausea and had a headache. I couldn't even walk straight and had vertigo. I started thinking maybe my bloodsugar got to low and so i ate, nope nothing. It didn't help. Another hour went by and the nausea was still there, the shakes, a headeach, and I felt feverish, the vertigo. So I left work and in 20 minutes I started to feel better. Now that I'm home, and it's been a few hours, I am feeling pretty good and now want to go and do something :)

I knew I was going to have this meeting today and had shielded myself, and red and green had kept popping in my head, and I asked for help from my guides.

I know what you mean about city life. The farther away I get from the city the better I feel. It's like normal and feels great! :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/28/18 07:18:34PM
436 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

Yes! Whenever I go on vacation, I feel relieved. But after a day or 2, I feel like I didn't even take one. It's probably why I love all the small towns along the great lakes. It feels so peaceful, and like I can breathe again. Emotional shielding only helps with anger. Which I'm not for all the time, I do like being happy. When I am, that's when people flock like seagulls.

Cats are interesting, that's for sure. At least when I need a hug he's always there for that.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/28/18 05:29:25PM
436 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

@crystalsage yes!! The shaking only happens around certain people. Then I get nervous/anxious and say dumb things. What does that mean? Like it's bad energy? I know in this one case that coworker they are not good people. I'll have to pay attn to that one.

@Krosskelt yes i agree to an extent it's not good all the time based on our purpose. I do live in a big city and work the downtown area. Population over 3 mil, 9 mil with the surrounding suburbs. People are everywhere all the time and I have no idea who's it. We have thousands of people in our bldg, and hundreds on a floor. When I think it's one person, it's usually the person next to them. I think here in this case I have to shield, it's to much. Would you? Oh and lots of narcs in a big city too. The one who makes me shake is a narc, only it's gotten worse the past few days. The shakiness. Today it made me jump out of no where, I turned around and there he was.

I'm going to try everything you all mentioned tomorrow. Today I envisioned the white light pouring over me like lava, and saw myself glow, had all my healing stones, and evil eye. I also asked for assistance from my guides, this time. I think it helped a bit more.

This may sound strange, but my cat today is not trying to walk all over me. Guess I haven't noticed his behavior until today. He's still abut 2 feet away sleeping, but normally he trys to sit on my chest, shoulder, or head, every day. And follows me everywhere, even to the bathroom. He's not little either. Maybe he senses something too.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/27/18 07:08:54PM
436 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

Hi!  I'm looking for advice on shielding.  

Some of the things I use are healing stones, I even have jewelry of healing stones,  Epsom salt baths, reiki, chakra balancing, nature walks, essential oils, envisioning myself covered in white light.

But, I think some of the past life regressions I have been doing is making the empathy stronger that the above isn't working well anymore.  Which was expected as it came out in the regression my gifts would be amplified, but this is wow.  I struggled before looking people in their eyes, but now I cant even look at anyone.  I'll just zone off and say dumb things.  I'll start shaking if my coworker is complaining about something and then it feels like tuning a radio in my head  trying to find a station, and then again I say dumb things.   Just when I thought I felt everything before, this is just wow.  

So whatever you all may suggest.  I'll try anything to get back to normal :)

TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/27/18 06:46:55PM
436 posts

Past Life Regression CD


New Age

It could be all of the above coming together for the shift you are experiencing. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/25/18 11:06:37AM
436 posts

Past Life Regression CD


New Age

This sounds like past life to me. Where did you get the CD? Do you feel or notice any shifts after? Or see/understand what you learned?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/18/18 10:10:58PM
436 posts

Can you dream other people's dreams?


Dreams

Sounds like your dreams are from past lives. I was told once your soul will show you things from a past life that may need fixing today.

As for sharing dreams. My mother and I have had similiar dreams. I think it is the connection we share.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/17/18 08:52:13PM
436 posts

Feeling bad


Empath

I've tried a few things, and it comes back. What has helped b4, doesnt work on him. I'm very open to trying something new that can help in the moment he projects that energy.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/17/18 03:35:38PM
436 posts

Feeling bad


Empath

All this is making more sense now. Thank you both. The individual I'm dealing with, really only cares for themselves. I dislike I'm carrying the burden of their wrong doings, for their gain. This is what I'm seeing/feeling now. I had a dream about this. It is clearer to me that narcs do this for their own gain. Since I have argued back to this narc and i thank my strong personality for this, this is what they do not like and just trying to take advantage of me to get their own way. Using their feelings to make me feel inferior so that they may feel superior. In the end, I see now morally/ethically I did no wrong here.

I think what am I am feeling is that this narc lost a battle, a battle that they felt no other would stand against them. And is projecting their feelings to me so I'd back down. Of which I will not. But because I care he knows it, and is playing reverse psychologically to get me to side with him.

If it helps I can state the situation at hand. Even though I know I know I stand correct, I dislike that he's making me feel wrong about it?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/17/18 09:41:12AM
436 posts

Feeling bad


Empath

Yes! It's taken over me, and I'm always feeling it's my fault. As if I should have just taken everything from them and not even argue back. The more I have the past few months, the worse it got.

How does it stop? Is the only way for them to not be involved? I didnt see this peeson for a week and i was happy and i felt my confidence grow again. I've had energy clearing done and then it comes back.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/16/18 07:50:14PM
436 posts

Feeling bad


Empath

Does anyone else get that "I feel bad" feeling when dealing with not so nice people like a narc?  

Why should I feel bad when someone did me wrong and I got upset with them?  Am I picking up on their bad feeling for doing wrong to me?  Or is it my higher self saying I shouldn't have gotten upset?  Do I just care to much?


updated by @tigerlily: 03/17/18 04:17:51PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/12/18 05:09:32PM
436 posts

Ladies does this happen to you?


Empath

Do you get overly emotional? I noticed the past several months I'll just start becoming overly emotional. I thought it was the hormones. Wait, past several months is when i started this new job.
Maybe it is picking up others emotions around, because it started at that time. Oh so weird! And here I thought I may need meds to control it.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/08/18 06:03:32AM
436 posts

What is your biggest issue as an empath?


Empath

Alot! Where to begin? Sometimes I feel like a hot mess. I live in a big city of about 9mil.

-I agree with others in the sense of being in the spotlight. I cant. All that would make me trip on stage or stumble my words in presentations(which I have)
-Taking on their energy in any form. Your happy I get happy, your sad I feel sad, if you are disorganized mess, I start to pick up on it myself. Days I'm super happy, those are the days people are in a bad mood and I go home exhausted.
-Exhausted daily
-To much energy, I feel like I'm rumbling inside ready to pop. In this case I may have an emotional outburst to someone and just start crying.
-Large crowds? The anxiety fills to dread like being onstage.
-I attract all kinds of crazy and depressed people, or someone going through a very difficult time in their life. And when I've helped, I'm pushed aside for good. When I don't help, then I'm a bad person.
-Do I dare go into how this is in corporate america? Narcs seem to lurking around every corner. Boundaries are consistently violated.
-Traffic? I get road rage out of nowhere. Why? I'm in no rush to get to my destination.
-Days I'm really happy from an energy healing or being in nature, totally cleansed. Those are the days where everyone around come with their bad energy.
-when I've left the city for an out door adventure, and I start driving back I can start feeling the energy that I just cleared.
-If I'm quiet and to myself, people ask where you been or people at work start questioning and then I'm in an office with my boss. What???
-Physically what I feel? I feel I get distorted vision, anxiety, shakes, bad gut feelings, headaches. When I escape what is is causing that. Like any of the above, I start feeling better.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/06/18 04:38:02PM
436 posts



@pink rose

I go through this. My word now is asinine. Or phrases will pop in mind. I think it's because when I use other words that are more abrasive, it closes me off. And I'm not ment to be closed off.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/05/18 04:14:02PM
436 posts

Meeting your spirit guide


Empath

It was through a group workshop. I think it was more mild of hypnosis or deep meditation , I could have fell asleep, my body was heavy and relaxed. I think we were all under this for a half hour. She talked the entire time guiding us. And I don't recall much she was saying after that when he appeared.

I never knew or understood how to communicate with my guide, but he told me how he does.

@hop-daddy see if your area has past life regression workshops. It should be the same mild hypnosis or deep meditation. If you are in the area I think you are, I have someone you can call.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/04/18 07:58:05PM
436 posts

Meeting your spirit guide


Empath

Hi everyone! :)

I met my spirit guide recently for the first time  through a workshop.  I'm really fascinated by the experience of it and was curious to know your experiences when you met yours?


updated by @tigerlily: 03/09/18 05:02:03AM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/03/18 09:18:30AM
436 posts

How do we fight it.


Empath

Is your friend in a bad relationship? We can't always stop friends from chosing this. We as friends or empaths can tell them and talk to them. If the darkness is affecting you, and you have tried talking to your friend, may be best to remove yourself from it.

I was in a relationship many years ago where my friends have warned and told me to leave and I didnt. I got sucked into the darkness spiral. At the time I didnt listen, but wish I had. But as humans go, sometime we we all want to be with someone and put up with stuff more and leave when it's to late. Experience and life lessons is what helps us understand better.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/27/18 10:44:20PM
436 posts

Have you ever gone through a transition that really changed your whole life?


Empath

Yes, I have been feeling something grow stronger over the years. Started after a traumatic incident. But when I review my life, it waa silently there. The past year my gut and heart spoke to me more, but my brain gets in the way. It always does because logically speaking, it's not logical. Example, why would I move out of a place that has great things. Great location, great rent, it's safe. Every year come to sign the lease bad feeling. After the 3rd year, in the middle of my lease, stuff hit the fan. After 6 weeks of arguing, I waa out of my lease deposit back in full. Not to mention other things that had started to develop. I move back in with my parents "temporarily" my car dies. My father spent 2 weeks on it. It wouldn't start. If I had stayed in that apt, I'd be screwed. I couldn't afford a car payment. I feared for stuff at work, which I posted here. A promotion went to someone else.
I'm learning or trying to use my gut and heart more. Logically (my brain) says it makes sense, and my gut says no. As I paid attn, some of my decision making may not seem logical to everyone else, but has always been correct. Heck, didnt make sense to me. I wish I listened to my gut, or trusted it. I'm not in a good position now with some things, but the others that I am good at I'd be in the hole. But at least I'm trying trusting me more. I have trust issues, those that I can trust it turns oUT I cant. And against me. But my gut doesn't say anything. I'm still learning!!
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/27/18 06:07:23PM
436 posts

The narc spell


Empath

@hop-daddy

This guy is not backing down and reported me to my manager.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/26/18 05:00:19AM
436 posts

The narc spell


Empath

Thank you! This makes so much sense!! I planned on today documenting all the things that have happened thus far, as unfortunately I lost sleep over it too much before. I'll use this going forward. And you are right, if I show less stress or how much it doesn't bother me hopefully he'll back down. At least I hope so :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/24/18 11:16:44AM
436 posts

The narc spell


Empath

Apparently, I got the impression he doesn't want me to know that I know he's watching over my shoulder. I know his staff doesn't like him, and I get a sense he's trying to get me on his side. With the run in I've had with him, I don't blame them. He was away for 2 days this week and his staff even said they feel better when he's not there. It's honestly very dumb and childish, and this is work. I don't have time playing games. And I don't have time setting up my desk and be paranoid at who's watching me . It makes me nervous and I create errors. My friend thinks he's attracted to me and does all this so I give him attn. Honestly it's really dumb, and I can't believe someone has time to do this in their day.

Any advice anyone can give me I'm willin to listen and try. I don't know what to do anymore. I've called him out, I tried being nice and work with him, I tried talking to his staff, and at the end of the day I'm just always feeling bothered.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/24/18 09:26:09AM
436 posts

The narc spell


Empath

Yes I do! I feel I cant do my job right. I'm making small errors were I normally wouldn't before. I have an awful feeling everytime I go into work. A few weeks ago after I was out of the office, I came back feeling great and thought I could just let things go. This week happened and my coworker on Thursday said, from emails I sent to her, that he needs my attn and a pat on a back. She also laughed at them because of how ridiculous he is. Then on Friday, he did it again. I decided again to not give him my energy and question why he's doing these things, and so he started walking behind my desk again. I put up mirrors on my desk to see who is behind me. When I did that, he noticed and walked the other way very quickly.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/23/18 11:43:34PM
436 posts

The narc spell


Empath

I know we discuss much about the narc empath relationship. I'm just bothered by it tonight.

The narc I'm dealing with has a way about him. I can't even look at him or talk to him anymore without feeling in agonizing emotional pain and want to vomit. I'm feeling really bad for him and feeling bad I say not nice things about him. Why am I feeling bad??? I didn't do anything wrong but say he's needy, greedy, I call him an @$s hole. I wouldn't say these things if he wasn't so manipulative and take advantage of me. I know, im still in the wrong for calling him names. Now, my strong personality kicks him and I set him straight. Then he goes dormant for a bit, and then starts again. I work with him. Yuck.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/20/18 08:52:04PM
436 posts

I forgot it was supposed to be fun!


Empath

Same. Soaked up alot of hate and negativity over stuff in life. I haven't mastered the art of lettings things go and rolling it off my shoulder, but it greatly helps. All the taking in from people and helping was really affecting me. I kept getting this feeling I was going to have a heart attack one day. Finally after several people telling me to let things, and trying divine writing. It has helped tremendously. I was told through writing to have fun and not take on others troubles. Fun came up multiple times through my writings.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/09/18 05:55:57PM
436 posts



Are you looking to cut the chord?  I think from my experience, that is similar to yours, only reversed.  Leaving the person alone is the best thing, let that person heel.  Learn to forgive yourself for whatever it is that caused him pain.  He will then one day forgive you. 

TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/07/18 03:56:00PM
436 posts

Living in a small town


Empath

Well,,,,I think I won. I'm in 9 mil people, lol. My commutes to work downtown are on the train with about 400-500 other people. People are everywhere! And the 1000's of others trying to walk out the train station. Some days I can tolerate the crowds and others I just feel like passing out.

But, I am not sure it's better than the gossipy small town folk. I dislike crowds and gossipy people. But, I do LOVE the nature of it.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/17/18 08:09:22PM
436 posts

Mind Blown


Empath

Yes, each time. Each time I get I'm your boss and you have to do what I say. The other one, always like twists how it's my duties, and she goes along with it. I've been fighting for a long time.
 
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