Forum Activity for @tigerlily

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/17/18 01:27:37PM
409 posts

Left, right, or both


Empath

I get a lot heat on my stone pendants. Not all of them, just some of them.

You know what I'm doing right now? Feeling for hot and cold areas lol. Some are cold and some warm. My shoulders are cold and an inch away from there my back is hot and neck.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/17/18 04:53:51AM
409 posts

Left, right, or both


Empath

Sounds like a choker style necklace may sit right where you need it? Buy I know those can be uncomfortable too.

I'm going to pay better attention to this. I'm thinking mine is on my chest where I release. I always feel great wearing pendants.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/18 08:30:17PM
409 posts

Going nutss


Empath

Wow!!! If that Is the case, I think he's been reaching out for years since I was a teen. I had random dreams from a man, but now it's more frequent this year. These are not past life dreams, as most seem to be where i see his face only. A few ive seen him what seems to be in a city. A few years ago one of the dreams was him sad as his heart was broken over a woman. I just happened to be near Sedona when I had this dream on vacation. I felt that she cheated on him. He loved her so much. Maybe now he's over that and why he may be reaching out? Based on the dreams he seems more in a spiritual growth than myself. The other dream was that his chakras were all balanced.
You think he's reaching out more because this year was particularly hard on me, but he's ready to meet? I have felt this year I need to kick it up a notch on the growth. But other things are not aligning with me in terms of job and trying to move to another city. Like I'm not picking the right ones. I am getting a push. I'm off tangent now... He came when to me with his name and location in one dream months ago, that had me pre occupied with looking for landmarks in that city that I saw in my dream. All validated and I've never been there or knew anything about it. More recent I had a time of when we would meet.
I have heard how hard they are, the TF love. Read a few books on it. Maybe that's where I got this wave of get it together again. I'm trying everyday.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/18 07:17:14PM
409 posts

Left, right, or both


Empath

I LOVE this topic. I used to always wear everything on my right hand since I'm right handed. I have some protective stones that I wore on right. I used to tell my friend they are not working, I think they are fake. She then told me try wearing on your left hand. Well it has made a huge difference. I can mostly feel it on my left side.

Now I have a question about this. If I want to release the negative, I should wear on my right?? I've been making a lot of healing jewelry and wearing on my left that is more for anything positive related. I wouldn't be to happy if hematite or black tourmaline on my receiving left side is bringing me more negativity :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/18 07:08:45PM
409 posts

Going nutss


Empath

Ok, I'm getting another wave of wild dreams.  Some I can remember and some I cant.  I typically know I dreamt about him by how I feel in the morning.  Either way, it's making me nuts.   Who is this?  And this wonderful bouts of energy being brought to me?  Making me a bit nuts Just like the synchronicities I had for years about a certain someone.  

Now I'm having dreams again, for almost a year of a male presence.  Once I actually felt him kiss my cheek.  (yes, it freaked me out!)   Anyways, what I want to know is this.  Has anyone here dreamt of someone they haven't met, yet to eventually meet them??  the dreams are coming more frequent.  If it's not him in it, it's the city I gather he lives in.  I'm thinking to book a trip!  Or are my crystal collection drawing in a new soul mate I'm to meet?

TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/18 06:57:16PM
409 posts

Seasons


Empath

I think hop daddy nailed it. I was going to comment about others being sad that summer is coming to a close. I have felt it from many around. Where I live, the city is known for fun packed summers. And every year as it turns to cold then winter, all everyone does is complain about it in person and on FB. It gets depressing hearing it, but through in empathic feelings. I want to pull my hair out lol.
The fact you and your father share a b day coming up is probably bringing that on too! There is one month that for years I'd cry and drink my sorrows. It was the month my baby was supposed to be born. I finally moved past that, but I get it.
I too go in bouts of depression and have to pick myself up. And I swear, it's so hard! Ugh. But sometime's I find its really not mine and from others. I found another grounding technique that has been helping. Do you work with crystals and stones?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/14/18 06:38:54PM
409 posts

stuck in love


Empath

I can relate. Met someone, love at first site, all the synchronicities, dreams etc. I was originally really hurt and disappointed that more never came from it, and eventually contact starter to become far and few. I reached out a few months ago and he responded, but I think that was the time I actually felt it was time to let him go.

With what @so-exhausted stated, I agree with is "time." I think your soul may also know when it's ready to cut the chord. I still think about him from time to time, but the longing, urge, missing is no longer there. I did one night after that lost contact, b4 bed pictured our chords cut and I could see him floating away. B4 I could never do it, it was to hard. Guess it may not have the right time.

This man and I shared several lives together, which makes sense why I fell in love at first site. But my guide also told me earlier this that him and I wouldn't be together in this life and a greater one is coming. It took me months to accept that and I finally have. Honestly, it was hard for me to see what was better than him, but I'm trusting that.
I'm grateful now that I was able to meet him in this life, is how I see it. I've also been able to finally at a point in my life be OK and accept I'm single. Everything I'm planning and doing is without a partner in life, and when a new one comes....hey he can enjoy the ride of life with me :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/05/18 10:12:33PM
409 posts

Can a Narcissist be an empath?


Empath

@so-exhausted-from-users you have a lot of a great advice. :)

Eating a well balanced diet
Exercise
Nature
Healing crystals
Baths/being in water
Reiki
Chakra balancing

Are all great go to's.

The pain you are feeling isnt going to go away today or tomorrow but it will pass soon. Im sorry that this had happened today and my heart hurts. If it's a lot right now to bear I'd go and get a Reiki session if you can or some kind of energy healing. Those have always really helped me during stressful times. I started going to bed at night with a few crystals under my pillow. That along with wearing them and a diet has helped me since the weekend. (I had a huge meltdown lol)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/04/18 10:51:08PM
409 posts

Vegan diet


Empath

Being out is very hard. It's carbs everywhere. I struggled in the beginning alot. Always had some kind of snacks on me. Mostly nuts and nut bars. Now I'm OK with having some carbs, but I can't just have all carbs. My glucose will start plummeting with an hour.
I'm lucky I haven't turned diabetic yet. Sticking to low carb has helped with that. Reactive hypoglycemia is the diagnosis I have, and it was interesting reading others talk about it on forums. You never feel full from carbs, it's strange.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/03/18 09:50:36PM
409 posts

Vegan diet


Empath

I agree, don't step on the scale. It becomes obsessive, and if it goes up 3-5lbs it can be discouraging. It shouldn't because it's water. I have a friend who lost 3lbs in a week, and was excited. I was excited for her too! She was eating right and walking more, and in a week felt better. Then a few day's after those 3lbs, she is up 5lbs and got discouraged and upset and wanted to cry. I think it was after her cheat day. I tried telling her that was mostly water weight and the body needs time before it starts burning fat and not get discouraged, and well,,,, I was the bad guy because I didn't know what I was talking about and that a cheat day is deserved, and that I didn't know how hard dieting is, and that I'm not empathetic, LOL. Yet she forgets I struggle with mine the past several years due to the hypoglycemia and know all about water weight gain and loss during cycles. Yet, I went very low carb for half a year. I couldnt cheat at all until I got some regulation back to my pancreas. No Pizza, cookies, fries, wine, etc, any of that. No cheat days for me. Yet somehow I didn't understand how hard it is, LOL.
I too don't really set goals anymore after that intense low carb for months. As long I eat right, stay within a lower end of the carb scale, and exercise, it comes off in due time. And I honestly feel like a million bucks. The JUNK! Omg the junk is my weakness when waves of stress come. There are days I'm to exhausted to ground myself so I have cheese, chips, and wine. OK sometime a frozen pizza. This is what I have to work on more.
I tried fasts, and nearly passed out the first day. When I finally learned of my condition my Dr strongly advised against it. She does admit the health benefits of it, just not with my condition and strongly against me doing it. :( If you can do it and are OK on it go for it! Many friends of mine have done them and felt tremendous after. My one friend always suggest's drinking alkaline water for best results on fast, guess regular water didn't produce same results.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/31/18 08:35:41PM
409 posts

Narcs


Empath

I can't stand them, and I know many here don't :)  Corporate America is filled with them, and we all know not the best place for empaths.  I'm still struggling at my job, and still looking.  I currently work for a multi billion dollar company.   I feel as though the universe has something better planned for me, yet can't figure it out,.  My dreams seem to fade, as well as my recollection of them.  Reality, I lost everything in the recession 10 years ago and filed bankruptcy and lost my home, and many more I don't want to detail.  That is my hesitation along with others who experiencedo a great loss like that.   I'm looking for anothe job and I get passed up for everything, and I'm marketable.  The narc at work is draining me.  I have crystals at my desk, i wear them with what i make.  I meditate before work, shield myself.  Is it possible I'm ment to quit and suffer again ???   Or that I'm being forced out to figure out a business of my own?  I have ideas of a business, and it will dran my savings.  I have heard recently more that God works in mysterious ways.   I'm sorry all for this burden, I'm feeling very low lately.  My new crystal collection helped temporarily.  


updated by @tigerlily: 09/05/18 02:37:58PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/30/18 01:22:47PM
409 posts

Vegan diet


Empath

Yes!! That is the other thing, how other's prepare the food. I guess now we can tell the world "it was made with love" comes from on items that are delicious haha! It totally makes sense on what you are saying about process foods. I'm sure those that work in the factories have bad days, or hate their job, etc. Aside from all the preservatives and what not in those foods are bodies can't digest and just get absorbed etc.

I've heard people go on starvation fasts to kick start their metabolism, along with trying to get their bodies back on tract or for cleansing. After a few days people have reported feeling amazing and continue longer.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/29/18 07:56:31PM
409 posts

Vegan diet


Empath

Me too! I'd like to know about the processed foods for you. I can talk about mine, but mine is mostly due to a medical condition and goes to a different level of past life stuff and this life. And among others. But if anything processed foods cause me much anxiety as a start, and destroy the body. And as emapths, we really don't need more of that :)

I currently have reactive hypoglycemia/insulin resistance caused by PCOS. My guides told me recently was given this condition so I do not have children this life, and to eat foods of the earth for nutrients due to the effects the body can suffer from empathic abilities. As well as high endurance to sustain a vast amount of physical activity to aid in clearing of energy. Some also due to past life stuff/karma. I'm OK with it all that I understand now. If I didn't cut my carb count and increase protein I would turn diabetic by now and not fulfilled my life's purpose. The stamina to stay fit, I'm still working on that piece with my nutty job lol. (Which I know is not the plan, still trying to find the right plan)

I have read many empath's feeling energy from the meats we consume and going vegan or vegetarian has worked the best for them, and how much better they feel. For me, I feel my empathic abilities have grown since moving to a low carb diet, but high in meat protein. I need at least 100 grams of protein a day to not suffer low blood sugar and under 75 carbs/sugar combined. IncLuding fruit in those macros. Dont get me wrong, there have been times when i ate chicken or a steak, and i felt "off" And then I will stay away from those 2 sources for several days and consume fish or turkey or omlettes, until i feel Ok to consume again. I have switched brands as well. I honestly think it's the cheaper quality meat I feel it from due to how the animals are treated resulting in that. Example, my mom buys her stuff from a store affordable to her. I just can't eat the salmon she cooks. The package says wild caught, but honestly I think it's farm raised and the packaging is a lie. Where I buy my salmon and consume, I feel more alive because I believe that is true wild caught, and not a bunch of fish raised in a tank and fearing.

I'm curious to know how you and others and diet are different, and possibly a deeper meaning???
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/25/18 02:33:10PM
409 posts

Tibetan healing rings


Empath

Thank you!!! This os beautiful. I'm going to order one, or see if the crystal store by my home sells these. This resembles my ex''s bracelet. It had magnets on it as well. He swore it helped his carpel tunnel and had no pain. When I tried it on my whole arm radiated from the bracelet. I really do believe this kept the negativity away from you.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/24/18 10:04:08PM
409 posts

Astral Projection


Empath

I found out that, this is what I am doing. When I found out, I got nervous to go sleep!!! I'M apparently "clouded" therefore I don't remember/recall to much of the experience. It makes sense that if I can clear or get away from the negativity I'm surrounded in, I'll remember the experience fully.

The issue I'm running into is clearing it all. It's a lot of work. It sounds great, but when I come home I struggle to do it all. I've done some of this b4 in the past, not all, I'm OK for a few days and I'm physically exhausted from the routine of it. How do I get over the hump? I think I just got lazy.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/24/18 09:47:09PM
409 posts

Tibetan healing rings


Empath

This is amazing! Where did you purchase the ring?

Today I wore my rose quartz bracelets and hematite together. Ones that I have been making. It was a bracelet explosion and I didn't care. Along with my large pendant that hangs in the middle of my chest, that i keep under my shirt. I received multiple compliments on them, and the complaining at work was almost non existent today. Will try the bracelet explosion again monday. I just felt happier and not so P'd off LOL.

I feel tangled in energy all day from complaining people at work that make too much money, so I'd like to try the brass ring out if you don't mind sharing the website?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/22/18 07:54:54PM
409 posts

Crystals


Empath

Awesome! Thank you!!!

I know all these resonate with me as they gave me good feelings upon picking them out. But you are right, I did leave the store shaking. I did also get them because of the energy I'm picking up on, and if they are helping me clear out even better. I have a big purse so I may alternate days taking one places with me or something. My very own pets rocks :)

I'm about to buy a bunch to make my own jewelry to wear to when I go to work in the city to help.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/22/18 06:57:35PM
409 posts

Crystals


Empath

HI all!  I have healing crystals I use, but decided to get bigger ones to really feel the effects and for help.  First, I started off by purchasing a pendant for my necklace.  I wear it daily and have noticed what an amazing positive effect it made, and just love it!  which made me decide to buy slightly larger for the home.  Since, I have the larger ones, I feel shaky or trembling inside.  I'm going to put them on the window tonight to clear them out in the moonlight.  

All of the ones I purchased, or all that called to me and have healing properties for all chakras to some degree.  That I need.  Mostly rose quartz is the largest in volume and flourite.

Do I just need to get used to them?  Is this normal? Are they working against each other (maybe that's silly)  All combined together that I purchased are about 10-15 pounds.

I typically feel like this in spiritual shops, but I don't have the volume like those shops do.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/16/18 03:01:31PM
409 posts



That is interesting. You don't know this person? Does he have facial hair and a boat?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/15/18 05:27:02PM
409 posts



@ruby-stone I couldn't agree with you more on what you wrote. I was telling to my friend today about the narc I work with and how he set me off today. He's a classic example of what you wrote. Gosh I can't stand him. But I know how I'm feeling now is that he purposely did what he did to take my energy.

@spiritualskies I often feel like what you just wrote. And often question if I have any positive energy or light left too! Out of the few energy readings or healing I've had over the years, seems like I still do. Maybe you can get yiur checked? They do sense the negativity or black hole from others, from what they told me. One recently told me my soul is done fighting it of and is tired. This year I feel like I've had it trying to be nice to everyone who quite frankly don't deserve it. And when you dont want to help them, yiur the bad guy. Yet, they are the same people who will never help you. The double stand that empaths get. Sorry if I sound bitter, it's just exhausting. My day today was rough too, everyone was complaining as usual and I think it just built up. Everyday I hear multiple complaints and give everyone about 2-5 minutes to complain. Half my day is dealing with complaining, I don't have mental energy to work in an excel doc LOL. When I had enough today I told the one guy to replace his complaining and shove a cookie in his mouth instead.

Back to dreams. Mine have been wild the past few months. When I review the dream themes, they don't either list the theme or really make sense. I think it's my guides pretty much telling to move on to the next adventure in life that will promote more positive vs all these negative people I'm surrounded by. Maybe yours are too??
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/15/18 01:14:34PM
409 posts

Signs


Empath

I used to have this, seeing the name everywhere. They are signs if you see the name in odd places. He for sure got the message's and read them. My guess with his marriage and all, it may have put him in a tough spot to reply.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/15/18 01:11:33PM
409 posts

Signs


Empath

I used to have this, seeing the name everywhere. He for sure got the message's and read them. My guess with his marriage and all, it may have put him in a tough spot to reply.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/14/18 07:30:54PM
409 posts

Astral Projection


Empath

Wow thank you for the articles! The one is totally what I experience. I feel high in the sky and looking down in a geographic area, like a big map from high in the sky.
I know the area from looking down to it, from knowing my geography and it's almost like I zoom down to a town or city. I wake just knowing where it was. I've had conversations with voices of friends and family sometime whIle looking down. One in particular when I Google the area, I see landmarks or some form of resemblence from the dream. But yet I've never been in person.

I've only had this happen a handful of times and not sure how I do this or how it happens. It's quite fascinating, but not sure why this is happening? Am I looking for someone?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/14/18 03:03:53PM
409 posts

Astral Projection


Empath

Someone may have posted this once or I have.  What is this exactly, and can others share their experiences?  Checking to see if this is what is happening to me at night.


updated by @tigerlily: 09/05/18 07:48:54PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/14/18 03:01:52PM
409 posts



Ewww no. If I did, I'd say something to them inappropriate like "keep up with that and you'll have herpes or syphilis by 16" LOl.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/13/18 09:18:10PM
409 posts



I seriously don't know where to begin here haha! I've had sooooo many crushes going up and to this day too.

There was a boy in first grade, I forget his name lol. This one, i didnt crush on, but he crushed on me. He used to chase me on the playground trying to kiss me, and I rUn to my older brother. Who then gathered his friends to chase that boy and his friends. One day when that boy was leaving school early he finally got his kiss on my hand!!! So embarrassed from all the kids going "ooooooo"

There were also many of those that "got away" I'll still never forget football player from freshman or sophomore year in high school. He was tall, muscular, kind dark eyes, gorgeous smile. Ugh, so cute! He sat in front of me and would turn around to talk to me any chance he got to talk to me, even after being yelled at by the teacher multiple times LOL. One day his friend asked if I liked him, and like a fool I said no. Even though I did, just a fool. Anyways, since then he never spoke to me again and the rest of high school he was with long relationships with 2 girks from a crowd I didn't like. Many years later, he popped up on my FB married with kids. I said F it, friend requested him and he accepted. I still to this day get that feeling of like and attraction to me from him that I did in HS. And he will "like" ONLY my "all dolled up" pics only when I post them.

Then there was Josh in the 4th grade. He was so cute and super smart. I crushed on him for years, and I saw him looking. In HS he was more dorky, but got cuter as HS passed. I think he was my first official crush. He was pretty to look at. I must be too, as over the years we would look at each other.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/13/18 08:57:32PM
409 posts

Signs


Empath

So believe in signs!!! I've read a few books on them.

After the books, seemed like some signs I was given was just symbolic in form. When I had pregnancy signs, those mostly turned into a new life journey for me. And when I had signs clear as day ans didn't follow the signs, because it seemed to obvious, we'll let's just say I was thrown bricks forcing to listen. That was not fun and stressful, but now I see why and it's making me see now an even better journey awaits. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/26/18 06:22:08PM
409 posts

Angry Empath?


Empath

@chezarey I don't have stockholm syndrome. But it would make sense with how he is, if that makes sense. I call him out on his crap, I tell him when he's wrong, and I'll walk out and won't talk to him for months. I've told him to also cut it with his mind games, and to not do this to his own daughter. He yet then says "I can't believe you talk to your own father like this" and it's easy for me to say "you taught me to watch out for what manipulators do, and here you are doing it" That's why I can't figure him out. He cares in those ways like others do when you are sick/tired/sad/etc, but he's also very good at trying to convince his way or the highway lol. Sometimes I wonder with him if this how narcs break into empaths through soul evolution or something. If that makes sense.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/24/18 09:43:37PM
409 posts

Angry Empath?


Empath

Wow!! This is all great advice and great to hear it's mostly not me. Thank you.

I have no idea where to begin. I already sense that people at work are angry and those close to me. I try to be as positive as much as I can, as I learned that has helped. But after a while I'm drained. But if they are already consumed in the negativity all they want to do is push it on me. I have helped many people fix and repair things in life, but i have been backing off at that. And I think that's what is making them more angry. And quite frankly, it's upsetting that so many people don't want to fix their own stuff. Classic empath stuff right? The narc at work continues to do this, and I wouldn't be surprised if he's the devil!! Lol. I know now putting him in his place is what seems to help, but professionally it's hard on me. That challenge is definitely there. I'm so grateful to have an empath as a boss.

The narc empath relationship, I read much about this. From trying to teach them empathy, to past life karma. My father and I have quite a history. And through past life regressions, I understand more. He has many narc traits, but yet I'm amazed at how he knows how I feel. He can be such a @%&! At times, but then call me and say "I had a dream you were very sad and struggling, is everything ok" That's exactly what was going on in that moments in my life! He is angry a lot too, and does a lot of things that contradict his beliefs because it benefits him. But always has this need to protect and control me, and I always argue with him on this. But then I get thrown for a loop when he shows care when I'm at a low, like he just knows. I have no idea how to classify him LOL.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/23/18 08:59:24PM
409 posts

Angry Empath?


Empath

I've been told recently by a few friends, including my therapist that I have anger issues.  At first I took it personally, then a few more times I got kinda more mad.  Omg, im an Angry Empath!!!  That is what i thought.  And "am i turning into a narc!"  I get it, we don't live in each other's shoes, and we have to watch for the narc that want us to feel sorry for them.  Where this anger is coming from it appears to be multiple people, at work and in friends/family.   I do notice I close my heart and shut down.   I've been feeling it more so from a friend I haven't spoken to in a week.  When I think of her I get upset.   The best thing I've done recently is lock myself up at home and talk to no one but my cat.  And do things for me.  Then I'm happy again and love life, and it starts over again.  When I feel strong enough to push that anger from those aside, I feel like 5 more come at me with their anger/frustrations and I feel like collapsing.  Today was a great day for that.  Ahhh!  Sometimes think my strong personality is not able to combat that.  Then again i have to isolate myself.  I feel so bad that my one friend who gets it, i always blow her off to do something.  I know ill be no fun.  But I know I should do things with her.  The chest pains are coming back and I dislike those very much.  (I'm fine, Dr's ruled out everything but say anxiety)    Is it just me, or does anyone else get these angry moments?  Is it part of living in a big city too?


updated by @tigerlily: 09/06/18 12:44:03PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/13/18 09:43:27PM
409 posts

Feeling own heartbeating.


Empath

@ curious-child

I've had the heart beat, and blood pumping in various parts of the body. Its annoying. My heart sometime tends to be elevated, which I can check on my phone. It tends to make it worse as I freak out. After numerous Dr's and Er visits, multiple heart tests. It's nothing but stress and anxiety.
I remember one morning I had a few friends texting and complaining about their problems with their husbands. My heart was thumping, checked my heart rate and it was 115. I said enough and ignored the texts so they can figure it out. It was to much for me to help 3 people at once in that moment, so I went about making my breakfast and coffee. Checked again and my heart rate dropped to the 80s. Sometime's it's high and I don't know why or what is causing the stress, but an active mind. Tonight I had the heart beating again and got winded climbing a flight of stairs. Heart rate overy 100. started taking taking deep breaths with my eyes closed. Turned on the TV to watch something happy. My heart rate dropped to 79. I know for myself I need to chill out and clear the energy.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/13/18 09:05:50PM
409 posts

Thinking about people


Empath

@hermes what are mystic circles??

I always feel sad and missing this person alot, at first when it happens. It kind of is painful. Eventually after a few days it turns to happiness and eventually the thoughts fade again.

But with others, I find it fascinating when someone comes to mind and I or they reach out. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/11/18 08:52:24PM
409 posts

Thinking about people


Empath

Looking for Clarity on this subject.  :)  Sometimes I get overwhelming thinking about some of the people in my life.  For days they could be on my mind ALL the time and one day gone.  I may think to myself "oh I just realized I stopped thinking about so and so" and carry on with my life.  I've looked into it and many articles say different things.  My attention was caught when it said they are thinking about you too.  Then it reminded me of how many times I just picked up the phone, sent a text, an email,,,,and the response I get "I'm so happy to hear from you, I was just thinking about you"  or vice versa they con tact me.  

Now, the person on my mind currently has been for a week.  We don't talk anymore.  Are they thinking about me a lot too?  Are we bouncing our thoughtful feelings back and forth?  I only get it with this specific person.


updated by @tigerlily: 09/05/18 02:28:08PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/24/18 06:21:58PM
409 posts

Drink Up To Help Depression?


Empath

Funny you post this. I've been drinking coffee for decades, at one point I switched to decaf for years due to panic attacks. I'm back on caffeine again when I was training for a bike event, and was just physically exhausted all the time. As of recent, I started buying coffee from a place that roast their beans in a facility and sells the coffee in a shop. It's not here in my state and order online with them, but I will say I'm super happy when I drink it. I honestly thought it's because of the taste and made with love. I can't drink regular coffee anymore from the grocery store or from Starbucks or dunking donuts. This coffee is not the cheapest, but it sure puts a smile on my face and worth every cent. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/20/18 09:07:19PM
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Vision boards


Empath

Hi!!!  I want to start creating these for myself.  Was curious if anyone else has them and how it works?  Or has anyone had their vision come true :)   I was told recently to create a soul mate wish list from a healer, as I did that, I thought about a vision board for other things in life.  


updated by @tigerlily: 09/06/18 07:52:55PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/11/18 09:12:10PM
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I'm not a fan of depression, and I to get waves of it. Going out in nature has helped the best for me and remaining active. It seems what my heart and soul desire, but that brain. It always says "no, go back to bed" I recently hit a bad depression this year. I went out and bought a treadmill as the weather was still not great. I just felt I had to move my body. It was over powering, but again that brain. I went overboard and used it for over an hour. I noticed at a certain time into it, I'd have a burst of energy. Just like my bike riding. In 2 weeks I started feeling happier again. It's always hard in the beginning, but I just wait for that burst. I did take salt baths because I was sore and they always felt great, then I'd pass out to bed. Now that the weather has been nicer I'm out gardening again. The rainy days, I say "oh no" so I force myself around the house doing things and I start feeling better.

Music is great too and helps. Songs that are sad in nature I skip those, those that are high energy and I'm dancing on the treadmill. As for gardening, I think i fall in meditative states, that I often forget what I just did and where I left things.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/10/18 07:33:42PM
409 posts

My cats been attached at my hip lately


Animal Empaths

How old is your cat and has anything changed in the household?

As they age you will start to notice some new things they do :)  Your cat loves you dearly and she is letting you know.  Seems she can't get enough of you!  Mine follows me everywhere.  Always has, like a little puppy since the day I got him.   His neediness has grown over the years, he is 16.  I can't even come home from work anymore and start making dinner without him running and crying all over the house.  I always pick him up and kiss him and tell him I love him for a few minutes when I come home but now that is not enough anymore for him, he wants at least a half hour of it.  Just last week I was holding him like a baby trying to cook, and he was totally fine with it.  He watched everything I did, when I put him down for a moment he ran and started crying.  I had to go and get him to hold him again while I resumed cooking.  Once dinner was done, he was ok.  He got his full half hour of being held and a dozen kisses.

  

TigerLily
@tigerlily
06/10/18 07:07:49PM
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Sounds like narc energy to me!  I deal with one at work and I'm always restless and have great anxiety when he's around.  The days he's not there, i'm happy and bubbly and full of life.   When he came to my desk Friday before I left I've been restless and anxious all weekend.  I can't even look at him.   It's bad enough I feel his energy all day, but looking in his eyes - I can't even describe.      

TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/27/18 08:13:19PM
409 posts

Vitamin/Mineral Deficiency in empaths


Empath

Hi!  I'm curious to know if anyone suffers from any vitamin/mineral deficiency being an empath?  Do empaths get depleted quicker from those from the many energies out there?   Does having supplements or foods rich in that vitamin/mineral provide any kind of grounding assistance?  I know food and diet has been discussed.

Just thought about this when I took an Epsom salt bath to ground myself, and I was just reading the package and noticed "magnesium" as the first ingredient.  


updated by @tigerlily: 09/05/18 06:15:32PM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/16/18 09:12:04PM
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I have learned to trust my instinct. When I meet someone, just looking in their eyes and how my body reacts tells me. The more I listen to logic than feeling, the more I suffer and get burned. It really is hard when society thinks I'm placing judgement, they don't understand.

However, when I am stressed or anxious I don't see or feel as much. Then I have to release the energy that is blocking. As we know, it's a lot of grounding work. It catches up so fast!
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/15/18 09:12:37PM
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Hi, I think our guides and soul can tell us through dreams. I've had some negative things go on with people and it will come through in a dream. As of recent, the dreams have becoming clearer (but I'm also asking for them) it can be past life related or it can be their karma affecting you.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/05/18 05:36:18PM
409 posts

Does the empath have a purpose?


Empath

@ crystalsage This is a great topic and many great advice/suggestions etc. I agree with you. To help bring balance to this world that is full of negativity. We all have a vast knowledge of wisdom that others may lack through multiple reincarnations etc. We are resourceful and everwhere. What to do with that negative energy? I don't know, maybe it's supposed to filter through us to turn into white light and be sent out as positive? Probably through grounding work as you stated.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/02/18 04:55:45PM
409 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

Yes, I put headphones on at work. Sometimes that works. Today I had them in almost all day. As for the bathroom, lol. Yes I have sometimes gone in there to just sit, that helps too. But only if no one else is in there. I've even gone into empty conference rooms, or my friends desk and she'll put a meeting on my calendar lol. I'll even go to the one guys desk, whom I think ma be an empath and make it look like we are working but talk. Lol. Anything I can do to get distance from that narc.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
04/01/18 08:27:46PM
409 posts

Negative CoWorkers


Empath

@sashacat1995 I've had many coworkers like you explained and I'm battling with one now in a way I've never had to before. :(

I know at work we can't light candles, but what about crystals? I have 2 at my desk. I also have plants, some have died from the negativity. The first one I ever had almost died, so I brought it home and now it's flourishing again.

Sometimes small comments of I'm sorry or that sucks or ya I don't know. Will help to some degree. You can always document what they are doing and saying and ask others if this is a hostile working environment. We all have personal problems, but if it's affecting their work or yours, you may need to go to your boss or HR.

If it's smaller things, boundaries are good. So idmf she's complaining about her BF say "I'm sorry this is happening, but I've got things here I have to finish one. Things will get better" something like that.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/31/18 02:22:58PM
409 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

Are you referring to physical sickness?

Yes I'm looking for a new job. :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/30/18 06:23:52PM
409 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

@crystalsage that waa really nice that you offered to help her like that. You didn't know that she wasn't planning on returning them. But I get it, and understand how that feels. Have you tried reaching back out again?

No he's not sick. It's his energy. He's a narcissist, master manipulator. I don't think he thought I'd be as prepared in some of the pushback to his manipulative ways which got him to stop in the end, or the fact that I'm a human being too and have feelings too. I've been reading about narcissists all week, and in all the articles it seems for narcs they need their egos stroked to get on their good side. But I also know they take and take and take. So I tried the reverse on him. Called him out on his lies, provided examples of things he didn't think I'd had that proved his lies, showed my emotion and my feelings and that it's not all about him and that it's his people/staff too. In the end I did feel really bad, and questioned if I was to harsh? Because he looked really sad and then couldn't keep his stories straight in the end. And I think that's when I had absorbed all his energy and felt that sick. Because after the meeting he seemed fine. I've been sick every month that I started work there. I've never been this sick so much. I caught hand foot mouth, and I have no kids, no one else in the office had it. I was out of work for a week with it. I had laryngitis. I got the flu and was out 2 days. And multiple colds with flu like symptoms. I through out my back, which I haven't done in years. And was in pain and discomfort for 3 wewks. My knee kept acting up for a month, which again hasn't happened in years. Chronic headaches. All in 6 months. The days he's not there I feel perfectly fine. And no headaches, back pain, knee pain, cold/flu like symptoms. When he's back something starts again.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/29/18 03:01:07PM
409 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

@crystalsage. After today it seems like the shaking is from not good energy. I was with that guy today at work in a meeting for nearly 2 hours, and i shook the whole time. Afterwards I felt nausea and had a headache. I couldn't even walk straight and had vertigo. I started thinking maybe my bloodsugar got to low and so i ate, nope nothing. It didn't help. Another hour went by and the nausea was still there, the shakes, a headeach, and I felt feverish, the vertigo. So I left work and in 20 minutes I started to feel better. Now that I'm home, and it's been a few hours, I am feeling pretty good and now want to go and do something :)

I knew I was going to have this meeting today and had shielded myself, and red and green had kept popping in my head, and I asked for help from my guides.

I know what you mean about city life. The farther away I get from the city the better I feel. It's like normal and feels great! :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/28/18 07:18:34PM
409 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

Yes! Whenever I go on vacation, I feel relieved. But after a day or 2, I feel like I didn't even take one. It's probably why I love all the small towns along the great lakes. It feels so peaceful, and like I can breathe again. Emotional shielding only helps with anger. Which I'm not for all the time, I do like being happy. When I am, that's when people flock like seagulls.

Cats are interesting, that's for sure. At least when I need a hug he's always there for that.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/28/18 05:29:25PM
409 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

@crystalsage yes!! The shaking only happens around certain people. Then I get nervous/anxious and say dumb things. What does that mean? Like it's bad energy? I know in this one case that coworker they are not good people. I'll have to pay attn to that one.

@Krosskelt yes i agree to an extent it's not good all the time based on our purpose. I do live in a big city and work the downtown area. Population over 3 mil, 9 mil with the surrounding suburbs. People are everywhere all the time and I have no idea who's it. We have thousands of people in our bldg, and hundreds on a floor. When I think it's one person, it's usually the person next to them. I think here in this case I have to shield, it's to much. Would you? Oh and lots of narcs in a big city too. The one who makes me shake is a narc, only it's gotten worse the past few days. The shakiness. Today it made me jump out of no where, I turned around and there he was.

I'm going to try everything you all mentioned tomorrow. Today I envisioned the white light pouring over me like lava, and saw myself glow, had all my healing stones, and evil eye. I also asked for assistance from my guides, this time. I think it helped a bit more.

This may sound strange, but my cat today is not trying to walk all over me. Guess I haven't noticed his behavior until today. He's still abut 2 feet away sleeping, but normally he trys to sit on my chest, shoulder, or head, every day. And follows me everywhere, even to the bathroom. He's not little either. Maybe he senses something too.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
03/27/18 07:08:54PM
409 posts

Shielding yourself


Empath

Hi!  I'm looking for advice on shielding.  

Some of the things I use are healing stones, I even have jewelry of healing stones,  Epsom salt baths, reiki, chakra balancing, nature walks, essential oils, envisioning myself covered in white light.

But, I think some of the past life regressions I have been doing is making the empathy stronger that the above isn't working well anymore.  Which was expected as it came out in the regression my gifts would be amplified, but this is wow.  I struggled before looking people in their eyes, but now I cant even look at anyone.  I'll just zone off and say dumb things.  I'll start shaking if my coworker is complaining about something and then it feels like tuning a radio in my head  trying to find a station, and then again I say dumb things.   Just when I thought I felt everything before, this is just wow.  

So whatever you all may suggest.  I'll try anything to get back to normal :)

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