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TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/24/18 11:16:44AM
343 posts

The narc spell


Empath

Apparently, I got the impression he doesn't want me to know that I know he's watching over my shoulder. I know his staff doesn't like him, and I get a sense he's trying to get me on his side. With the run in I've had with him, I don't blame them. He was away for 2 days this week and his staff even said they feel better when he's not there. It's honestly very dumb and childish, and this is work. I don't have time playing games. And I don't have time setting up my desk and be paranoid at who's watching me . It makes me nervous and I create errors. My friend thinks he's attracted to me and does all this so I give him attn. Honestly it's really dumb, and I can't believe someone has time to do this in their day.

Any advice anyone can give me I'm willin to listen and try. I don't know what to do anymore. I've called him out, I tried being nice and work with him, I tried talking to his staff, and at the end of the day I'm just always feeling bothered.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/24/18 09:26:09AM
343 posts

The narc spell


Empath

Yes I do! I feel I cant do my job right. I'm making small errors were I normally wouldn't before. I have an awful feeling everytime I go into work. A few weeks ago after I was out of the office, I came back feeling great and thought I could just let things go. This week happened and my coworker on Thursday said, from emails I sent to her, that he needs my attn and a pat on a back. She also laughed at them because of how ridiculous he is. Then on Friday, he did it again. I decided again to not give him my energy and question why he's doing these things, and so he started walking behind my desk again. I put up mirrors on my desk to see who is behind me. When I did that, he noticed and walked the other way very quickly.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/23/18 11:43:34PM
343 posts

The narc spell


Empath

I know we discuss much about the narc empath relationship. I'm just bothered by it tonight.

The narc I'm dealing with has a way about him. I can't even look at him or talk to him anymore without feeling in agonizing emotional pain and want to vomit. I'm feeling really bad for him and feeling bad I say not nice things about him. Why am I feeling bad??? I didn't do anything wrong but say he's needy, greedy, I call him an @$s hole. I wouldn't say these things if he wasn't so manipulative and take advantage of me. I know, im still in the wrong for calling him names. Now, my strong personality kicks him and I set him straight. Then he goes dormant for a bit, and then starts again. I work with him. Yuck.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/20/18 08:52:04PM
343 posts

I forgot it was supposed to be fun!


Empath

Same. Soaked up alot of hate and negativity over stuff in life. I haven't mastered the art of lettings things go and rolling it off my shoulder, but it greatly helps. All the taking in from people and helping was really affecting me. I kept getting this feeling I was going to have a heart attack one day. Finally after several people telling me to let things, and trying divine writing. It has helped tremendously. I was told through writing to have fun and not take on others troubles. Fun came up multiple times through my writings.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/09/18 05:55:57PM
343 posts

How to cope with his pain?


Empath

Are you looking to cut the chord?  I think from my experience, that is similar to yours, only reversed.  Leaving the person alone is the best thing, let that person heel.  Learn to forgive yourself for whatever it is that caused him pain.  He will then one day forgive you. 

TigerLily
@tigerlily
02/07/18 03:56:00PM
343 posts

Living in a small town


Empath

Well,,,,I think I won. I'm in 9 mil people, lol. My commutes to work downtown are on the train with about 400-500 other people. People are everywhere! And the 1000's of others trying to walk out the train station. Some days I can tolerate the crowds and others I just feel like passing out.

But, I am not sure it's better than the gossipy small town folk. I dislike crowds and gossipy people. But, I do LOVE the nature of it.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/17/18 08:09:22PM
343 posts

Mind Blown


Empath

Yes, each time. Each time I get I'm your boss and you have to do what I say. The other one, always like twists how it's my duties, and she goes along with it. I've been fighting for a long time.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/16/18 10:21:57PM
343 posts

Mind Blown


Empath

Today took another turn. I'm completely wiped from it all. If I could quit my job and move away I think I would.

The narc at work has gotten worse and placed another bomb before me. I've excelled at my career, and now this man feels the need to know everything I do. He doesn't trust what I do, hand holding, along with a slew of other things. It's taking more of my time and requiring me to work more. Cutting into my study/class time. Of which I'm doing on my own to change my job that is irrelevant to this job or his. He doesn't know that. Calling out sick a couple of days, from actually being sick, was like a fresh of breath air. Then he got sick and was out a few days. I felt like I was on vacation.

I can sense a great deal of sadness and turmoil and disorganization from him. It's exhausting. The best thing I can do is just do my job. If he doesnt bother me with all I listed above, life is good. It recentky hit me that he has some troubles personally and professionally. Like someone whispeeing in my ear. It makes me honestly feel so bad about whatever it is he's going through. I tried helping b4 and I always got shot down, That doesnt work he says, but i know he hasnt tried because i asked. I give my experiences or whatever i know or have done, and its still an excuse. I honestly dont know what he wants. This is professionally and personally. So i just stopped. Now he's using the pitty party which I want nothing to do with. I basically said I'm sorry but this isn't relevant to my job or the job. And it got escalated to my boss. She doesn't see what he's doing and insisted I help. But can't offer any suggestions on what to do except for doing what he needs. Now I'm back to doing 2 jobs again and part time therapist. Of which is not outlined in my duties. I submitted an anonymous complaint to HR asking for advice and all they said was gather all documents and outline etc. That's going to take me hours to do, more work created by the narc!
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/16/18 08:26:08PM
343 posts

Readings Offered


Empath

@hana

I tried to PM yiu and it will not let me :(

I'm curious too and will take any advice you give.

This is very nice that you do this.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/10/18 08:55:49PM
343 posts

HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE


Empath

@ lilly

No, no edema. Labs come out clean. I keep a journal and will let my dr know how much my waist expands with what I eat etc. I can feel it in my limbs but not as much elsewhere. But you know drs, it's a pill for this or that. She's actually quite good and I wouldn't be surprised if she is empathic herself.
I've determined it's past life and that I drowned, and probably lived poorly as those types of foods cause the water retention. Somehow i think those go hand in hand along with other things that happened. I believe this to be past life more than anything that's haunting this life. Based on my dreams. I do love water and being around it and can't imagine living inland in the states. I'm not afraid of water and rather a great swimmer. I know those who drowned are afraid of water, typically. I thought once I made this "conclusion" it would stop but it has been slightly worse the water retention where I can see it in my face. Although I have noticed a slight shift in my life now cause of my conclusion , but not to the point it needs to be. I need to figure out why and how I drowned. I fear I may have done so purposely to end my life, which is the big thing. I know the era this happened and I'm about 99% sure where. If so, it means I reincarnated rather quickly. Some time ago, before I knew where I drowned. I was drawn to visit that town, my friend didn't want to go with me so I opted not to go. Not even thinking about it. In the next few months I may go. But for now, I'm going to keep paying attn to my dreams for clues to piece together the puzzle together.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/09/18 05:55:23PM
343 posts

Please Take An Empath Poll...


Empath

Yes and Yes. I don't toss and turn or wake up as much if I have few cocktails. It's a shame that it's like that for me. Essential oils used to help. I'm tired all the time.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/07/18 04:57:47PM
343 posts

HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE


Empath

@lily

I may not have the pain you have, but after mulitiple dr visits, they never find anything wrong. Heck they have no idea how I retain so much water fast. That I believe is past life as I've had dreams of drowning. I'm not really afraid of thecwater, only if I can't see the bottom.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/07/18 01:08:31PM
343 posts

HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE


Empath

@chesire-cat

I knew a man once who had lyme disease but said he's cured of it. He was seeking treatment in Chicago. I don't know much about the disease, or if he had it cured early on.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/07/18 11:56:48AM
343 posts

HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE


Empath

@chesire-cat

I think for you, maybe their is a Dr there that can help your condition. And in which you will be able to tolerate such cold eventually. Wherever the region maybe, try googling Dr's that specialize in your condition and start making calls and read reviews.

I'm guided to the heat, and I honestly cannot bear the heat and humidity well anymore. And I hate big bugs. The other region where it is cold with beautiful summers, i was told ill be lonely. Lets call that region 1. So I'm looking in a different part of that cold, we will call region 2. It's cold, with lots of snow. But yet I feel he is there waiting for me in region 2. Over the summer I was supposed to go and visit that region 2 after region 1. But heavy storms came and I drove home. I got sad thinking it wasn't ment to be and region 1 is where I'm to go. Divine writing told me region 1 would bring lonliness, and the hot sticky bug area would bring happiness. I have to do more writing to find out why region 2 is calling me there. When I think it's a man and traditional values I get the feel good feeling. So I'm going to region 2 soon. Maybe eventually the hot region is where I'll end up.

Please do me a favor and start researching Dr's in that cold area. I think that Dr is there for you. You don't have to go there now, we can thank Google for it.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/07/18 10:33:07AM
343 posts

HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE


Empath

@chesire-cat

I'm terrible at grounding. I'm like you, I need ALOT of time. It wasn't until I tried reiki, chakra healing etc that I learned who I was and the capabilities I have. I recently started divine writing. That has helped me a ton. Through that I learned where I'm living I'll never find peace and have actually been guided as to places I need to go. But I'm scared to make that move. So I have some traveling to do in the future to check out these places. My writing always brings up people as the culprit. I guess where I'm to go has less narcissists and more empathic people.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/06/18 07:37:07PM
343 posts

HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE


Empath

The grounding exercises is what gets me. That extra time to destress or release. I spend ALOT of time alone. To the point I think it makes me lazy, but I'm emotionally exhausted and left not anytime to do anything else. I used to use exercise to release, but I notice my mind keeps going and I have all these feeling and emotions in my head as well. It helps, but not enough. All the complaining helps in addition. I just hit a point recently that I can't even read anymore. I have no idea if it's the energy I pick up on from the author, but I'm even more exhausted. Since I've kept to myself and not gotten involved in work drama or others people's drama. I feel more at ease. Like hop-daddy, I hit a breaking point recently and just lost it. I cried for weeks, drank alot, slept alot, and got sick.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/06/18 08:33:01AM
343 posts

HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE


Empath

Her and I don't really see it as "complaining" anymore. In the end we say sorry for it and thank you for listening. Other people see it that way as you are unhappy and negative. But in the end it felt really good. Otherwise holding it in I feel like a bubble ready to burst. I'm trying journaling and it has helped alot thus far.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/06/18 07:58:54AM
343 posts

HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE


Empath

I've read much about HSP as well. I do agree they go hand in hand. What amazes me that my friends don't understand either is how sensitive we are to emotions, but also to what is going on in our body. I feel everything starting from all the fluid building up from a cold in my sinuses and lungs, to muscle soreness beginning to radiate if I over exercised.

My one friend is an empath, and she is just like me, where being around certain types of people give her anxiety and will make her physically ill. Going on tangents of complaining to release the energy. Etc.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/02/18 05:22:48PM
343 posts

Empaths and Dreams


Empath

@hop-daddy

I couldn't agree with you more that this gift should be used to better man kind. I think the huge problem we have are the narcs. They are always going to get their way with some soppy story. I think we just need to be smarter and use those feelings more. The guy I work with now, huge narc. I always get a sinking feeling in my gut about him. I was nice a few times, but now I'm not. I quickly saw what he's trying to do from my experience with these people.

If I could change the world I can, but there are to many people who feel the world owes them for their emotional short comings and man it effects me.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
01/01/18 08:19:05PM
343 posts

Happy New Year!


Empath

Happy New Year!! Any new years resolution this year?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
12/30/17 11:21:34PM
343 posts

Empaths and Dreams


Empath

All my life I've had some wild dreams. I dream every night and sometimes remember multiple. I journaled some, and then stopped. Reasons why I stopped because I would get to work later, lost track of time journaling and obsessing over them. Then worry if someone found them and read them. Since I've always somehow "crashed" all my laptops from my energy, I keep to notebooks that I can handwrite in. (Yes, I've even crashed my work laptops. The IT dept at my company doesn't understand the problems and have been given new ones)

My discussuion today is this....Do we recall our dreams more? Do our dreams mean more than what we have been taught? Is this our higher self speaking to us?

And yes, are our dreams just a reflection of what we obsess about or stress about in life? Or is that what we dreamt about a person or situition really our higher self telling us something about it?

The reason I ask this is because the past few years my dreams are different. I still get wild ones of symbols. But lately I get ones where someone is talking to me and I don't know who? But the messages are so clear. And sometimes I have dreams in different eras.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
12/30/17 02:00:49PM
343 posts



This appears to be normal for empaths. I'm exhausted alot too. During the work I struggle with sleep, on the weekends I catch up. Then it starts all over again. I came in contact with another empathic person at work years and she felt the same burnout I am currently experiencing. Once she left she felt better. She learned to listen to the universe and guide her. I'm trying to do the same. Right now not only am I exhausted all the time, I have chronic headaches and stomach pain. It goes away when I'm far away from work.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
12/25/17 08:44:21PM
343 posts

Sensory Overload Throughout December


Empath

I'm in the same boat. Depressed and getting sick every week. This is awful.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
12/13/17 06:58:53PM
343 posts



I so relate!!! I'm very jaded, and just love this word! My trust continues to be broken, and 2 weeks ago it was severed by someone who I thought I can trust. I'm actually quite frankly mad at this person. My honesty is high and when someone deceIves you it's heart breaking. I've acknowledged that this is who I am, but that care for people is still there. But it is awful when you want to trust but hard too. I recently thought of taking a different approach, those who I feel I can't trust maybe I should. Because those that I thought I could, I learned the hard way i couldnt. Those narcs man, they just creep up.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
12/13/17 06:51:08PM
343 posts

Giving up


Empath

@hop-daddy great you mentioned this. I have noticed the past several days I'm sleeping alot and feel depressed all of a sudden. A shift from how I waa feeling before. The giving up is still there, it's just different. I'm at a point where I don't care anymore.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
12/11/17 07:36:10PM
343 posts

I'm so suicidal right now


Empath

You don't want to do that. There is so much more in life. The people who are using you are jerky people. Set boundaries and just say no. When someone asks "can you help me with. .... " you say "no, I'm busy"
TigerLily
@tigerlily
12/08/17 08:52:58PM
343 posts

Giving up


Empath

Does this dark time also make you more physically sick, depressed, tired, drunk feeling, loss of direction, forgetfulness, not wanting to leave your bed?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
12/06/17 09:40:28PM
343 posts

Giving up


Empath

It's a combination of work and family. The work situation has become bad once again. My headaches have become chronic along with chest pain and muscle stiffness. My family says it's life and to deal. I want to move away far far away. Is that really the solution? It will happen again? I feel like all the negativity is making me super hyper sensitive that I'm just the bomb blowing up with no time in life to release the excess energy. I desire to go way out in nature, and living in a big city is hours of a drive. I took cold medicine just so I could sleep in peace as my dreams have been "wild" I periodically wake throughout the night.

I feel like I'm loosing it.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
12/06/17 09:25:22PM
343 posts

Am i emphatic or crazy ? confused!


Empath

You are not crazy, just highly empathic.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
12/06/17 09:16:38PM
343 posts

Giving up


Empath

Stuck is it! This blows.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
12/04/17 07:01:00PM
343 posts

Giving up


Empath

Verbal boundaries. I know my energetic boundaries support it. Maybe they just don't like them because it doesn't benefit their needs?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
12/04/17 05:35:31PM
343 posts

Empaths and Food


Empath

I find I do the best when I make my own food and stay away from specific types. I don't know if I go out to eat, if it's the cook who is angry or sad. But I'll feel bad after eating it, even if it falls within my dietary needs. I guess we can feel if something is made with love or not :)
TigerLily
@tigerlily
12/04/17 05:27:30PM
343 posts

Giving up


Empath

I have been trying to get sleep and relax and cool down. I have also been better at setting boundaries. Recently the boundaries I've been setting with others has been stepped on again. Leaving me feeling worthless and this agonizing pain inside. Everything is a bad feeling, but yet the only good feelings are running away for a while. I sense and feel a change needs to be made but trying to figure it out is not coming clearly enough.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/28/17 10:24:57PM
343 posts

Giving up


Empath

I'm so terrible for even posting this, but I just can't sleep anymore. As I thought things were going great, a bomb hit me. That bomb made me realize or feel, that some people are just hopeless. No matter what I did or didn't do, it was all my fault. I believe you all can relate.

My energy has been wiped dry once again and I can't even remember what that holiday cake is called. I'm tired and burnt out. For a while it was held good by my boundaries and my boundaries once again got knocked down. As if a narc blind sided me a slap shot. How is it possible to be around so many negative people in my life and be so sneaky? If I don't help I hear that voice in my head saying "you should have"

If our gift is to help others, why don't they listen? I must generate a lot of "feel good" that it is all they need. Boundaries are violated all the time. I don't like how I feel right now.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/19/17 07:46:15PM
343 posts

Empaths and Codependent Relationships.


Empath

Being someone like myseld who has had multiple strong friendships with narcs, its hard. I'm the same way, trust them, speak all the time, etc. The moment you don't want to do things their way anymore, they explode. Then one feels like treading lightly. It's not a healthy balance and not always will it be there way or the highway. The narcs just don't see that. They will put out enough to keep you on their leash, and just take advantage. Once the narcs sees the "leash" is not working, they'll start to back down. After a couple of meltdowns of course, which causes the empath hurt. But then it's onto the next.
I feel bad for the narcs that they can't find inner peace, but it's not our place to fix them. We can wish them well and send positive vibes, but piggy backing off our good energy is just selfish.
I had to give up these friendships as I was just fI'll of negativity and just drained all the time. I became so used to feeling drained, that now when they are not around the energy level is high again. I'm surrounding by narcs at work, I refuse to have them in my personal life.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/13/17 07:40:59PM
343 posts

Sensing Feelings/Thoughts when in the water


Empath

I agree, I think you have something past life going on with the water. Read about past life regression, Brian Weiss has some amazing books!

I love the water and I couldn't imagine living somewhere in the middle of the US. Small lakes and rivers just don't cut it like the great lakes or ocean. I am a little afraid of being in water where I can't see the ground or what is around. It has to be clear. Or being submerged on the water, with only my head sticking out. I can't breathe. This maybe past life for me if dreams serve correct. I can never get sick of sitting on a beach or a cliff just staring out at the big body of water, after I feel at such peace and sometimes tired releasing all that energy.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/08/17 05:17:06PM
343 posts

Anyone else really sick with multiple sicknesses??? Unusually sick???


Empath

My stomach has been a mess the past 2 weeks as well. Heartburn, bloat, and gas in my chest. Hard to breathe sometimes and I am belching constantly, which is not lady like at all. And hiccups. I rarely ever hiccup.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/07/17 06:35:40PM
343 posts

Intuition vs. assumption


Empath

I get that actually feelings or emotions. This is how I feel between good or bad. If intuition is saying no, its literally a bad feeling in my stomach, sometimes nauseating. If the intuition says yes. The feeling is throughout my body like a chill, and goosebumps feeling.

I'm a very logically person, so naturally when the brain and intuition are against each other, my body feels like it's trembling. But intuition always wins in the long run. No logic can explain it.

And I agree with zach about assumption, you only look like an ass if you do. I think it's a funny statement too. But, your intuition should tell you too. I get that bad gut feeling when I assume something.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/07/17 06:24:12PM
343 posts

Random thoughts


Empath

Uncomfortable is correct! The ego,,,hmmmmm. That explains why it comes in waves. The more I let go or surrender. The more it happens and I think I'm going crazy! And then after that it goes away, and back again.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
11/02/17 04:00:26PM
343 posts

Random thoughts


Empath

I don't know what this is called. But sometimes things pop in my head or I'll hear like a whisper of some kind in my ear. I thought this was stress related until one day, when that thought popped in my head and 10 minutes later I found it to be true!!! Basically someone got hurt at work and it was an uproar. A name came to my mind, when things settled I asked who it was that got hurt and that name was that person!!! I've never been able to validate that until now.

Today, out of nowhere, a guy I used to work with he came to mind. Few minutes later on the street I see him!

What is this called? Is it a premonition of some kind?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/23/17 01:42:25PM
343 posts

Living in a small town


Empath

That is what I was looking at, a town about 20-25 thousand people, possibly less depending on what I can find for a new home. It's also surrounded by alot of lakes and rivers, and I really enjoy water. Where i can paddle board and kayak in peace. Plenty of trees and hills as well. Ive seen properties on the outskirts of those towns with anywhere from 2-50 acres of land. That really warmed me as I'd still have distance from people at night when I want to distress. Right now I'm an apt in a city with over 3 million people and work in the downtown area. It takes me about 2 hours just to get out of the city for nature. And the traffic, yuck, I'm sure you all can pick up the stress of road rage from the drivers.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/23/17 09:50:54AM
343 posts

Living in a small town


Empath

I want to know if anyone here lives in a small town and how it compares to a big city. Meaning, the people aspect and energy of it. I live in one of the largest cities now and there are days I just cannot take it anymore from always feeling people who are sad, insecure, negative, etc. Im considering moving to a small town, but never lived in a small town. I'll miss the social aspect of a big city, but when I really think about it, I'm always home anyway and don't go out much at all for what I pick up.

When I think small town I think of all the nature around me and peace and quiet.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/18/17 09:05:10PM
343 posts

What can I do with my "Psychic" Abilities


Empath

I've had that with coworkers too. I learned from it, I think. Well ok, I still try to give people a benefit of a doubt. Same for the text messaging with friends or important people. It's crazy!!!
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/17/17 09:09:38PM
343 posts

Signs everywhere


Empath

They drive me nuts sometimes! Sometimes they are so easy where the universe is telling me to eat better and exercise more. And other times I keep getting bombarded by the same thing I literally say out loud "I'm trying here, I've done xyz, if it's not right just tell me" Then those signs go silent for days or weeks and then I forget what it waa that happened a few weeks ago. Right now, I feel in such conflict of what to do, I just can't see/interpret properly. I've asked to simplify those signs for me, and nothing. I think I'm just confused? Does anyone keep a journal of signs like dreams? I was thinking to try that.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/17/17 08:32:45PM
343 posts

What can I do with my "Psychic" Abilities


Empath

I have a vast amount of stories to share....as far as what to do with your abilities, for the good of all and yourself. So that you can go in the right direction of life as well.

#1. I had this feeling my best friends husband was cheating on her, it came out of nowhere. Instead of telling her this, I just asked how she was and kept checking in with her. Many weeks went by and she finally started saying how she thinks her husband is cheating. My response "what gives you that idea?" (I couldnt tell her i had this feeling, but i could lead the conversation in that direction.) Back to her, she told me her reasons why and we discussed. She managed to figure out his email password and found out he was exchanging emails with another woman from the past. Talking about their feelings for each other, planning on trying to meet up, to then talking how they met up seeing each other and planning a new meet up. This went on for months, until one day he told this woman he couldn't anymore as he had his family. I guess you can tell he cheated. In the end, she would never leave her husband if he cheated as she told me. But she never mentioned this to him, nor did he to her.

#2. I had a horrible feeling about some things going on at work, and this feeling that I needed to leave. Never listened to it, but to me this was strange as I never felt this before. It's as I was being told in feeling what to do, I just can't explain it. Back to work, a new policy went into effect months later after this feeling, and it was chaos at work. Guess who got dumped with "fix this" "help me" yup, me. And I didn't even implement this new policy or had a say in it. It was a very stressful year and a half. I kept getting feelings of heart attack, again that strange feeling. I finally left that position for a different one in the company. Which I had a bad feeling about too, didn't listen, and it's basically a knight mare too.

#3. My friend has been trying to start a new business with some other guy. He always talked so positively about this business and a niche in the market. One day, over drinks, I just blurted out "this is a terrible idea, don't do it." He got quiet looked down, then looked at me and said "how did you know?" Then I learned all the drama going on with this other guy he wanted to start this business with. He just wanted to start that business so bad he covered it up with positive things.

#4. A family member got married several years ago. I got this feeling of "they are going to divorce anyways" Back then, I didn't know about empaths or gifts, and thought to myself "why am I thinking this and where did this come from" Years go by and their life is great. But that divorce feeling still lingered all those years. One day I get a phone call "I'm divorcing so and so" Now, this isn't the first time as I've had this with other people and they ended in divorce.

#5. Had a friend I lost touch with. One day I dreamt that they had reached out and I could see a phone number, but not clearly in my dream. Just 3 numbers. A week went by and I get a phone call with those 3 digits, same order. It was my friend.

I dont get everything that easily to me, but when i do i sometimes freak out. This is where I say do good with it and yourself. Be there for your friends and family during that pain, and when you get signs or feelings to run from a situation, you better sprint.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
09/17/17 07:28:04PM
343 posts

Question for Empaths


Empath

I've been uncomfortable for years, and the past year has been the highest I ever felt. Thinking it waa my own life. Maybe all these natural disasters are signs from universe/god (whatever you believe in) that we need to wake up, so let's shake the ground and cause violent storms. So yes, I agree on that aspect. The energy is to much. The big one will hit California soon, as I saw it in a dream. And I've had many dreams of violent storms and waves too, which maybe are the hurricanes that hit. It wouldn't surprise me that all the negative energy out there that is causing us(empaths) affecting the earth the earth too, but a slower rate. As we are smaller, and the earth so large can take in a but more, causing a delayed response.

I know personally, I can't stand the media and stay away from it.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/14/17 06:03:51AM
343 posts

Friendship curse


Empath

I've only once cut the chord with someone, or at least I think so. Is it visualizing cutting the chord, like literally?? In a meditated relaxed state? If yes, I can do that. I tried crystals around her and carrying the evil eye, but it never worked. It's like she's the wicked with of the west.
TigerLily
@tigerlily
08/13/17 02:47:57PM
343 posts

Friendship curse


Empath

This sounds a little crazy, but I'm going to ask anyways. Is it possible that friend or person can cause negative things to happen to you?

Reason I ask, is because whenever somethibg good happens and I tell one of my long time friends, it goes bad usually in a few days to a month.
I've often suspected jelousy from her, but in all honesty I don't know why she would be. She has a better job than I do, a husband and kid, house. Things she always wanted.

I want to start a business of my own and get out of corporate politics, and I'm afraid if I tell her or she finds out, that I'll go bankrupt!!

How do I break this? Stopping friendship with her would be impossible since she's friends with my relatives. And with social media she'll find out anyways.
updated by @tigerlily: 12/18/17 02:24:22AM
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/26/17 07:44:47PM
343 posts

When the world feels against you


Empath

Hmmmmmmmm. I wonder then if my dream is something for us all to know.....remove from the situation to make it easier for us?
TigerLily
@tigerlily
07/26/17 06:43:49PM
343 posts

When the world feels against you


Empath

I do want to add, in a dream I had. I was told if I didn't remove myself from a situation life would continue to get harder. I am trying to do so but finding a new job in a new town does and will take some time. I understand that reality and working on that now.
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