Forum Activity for @cat-whisperer

Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
06/03/17 05:44:37AM
727 posts

Where does our Empath Gifts come from?


Empath

I believe that we are born with it, so it would be our Maker
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
05/31/17 06:33:20AM
727 posts

Bloating and weight gain from toxic energy


Empath

It could possibly be your root chakra is becoming active. Check out the link to other chakra sensations
http://www.spiritportal.org/signs.html
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
05/26/17 08:37:12PM
727 posts

Talking Weird Stuff


Psychic and Paranormal

@piscean225
The mouth sore incident....sounds like you are a physical empath. I also get the ailments of people that I am close to that are blood related. It has only happened once with someone that I am not related to, thankfully. As my father ages it concerns me, his past major issue had me sick for months last year (I went to the doctor myself, nothing found)..and he lives several states away. Once the doctors figured it out and did surgery on him I was fine. Crazy how things like that happen.
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
05/25/17 05:08:02AM
727 posts

A question to male Empaths


Empath

@raindancer
Yes, a female with more masculine tendencies can also be an empath. That would definitely describe me in a nutshell. As I was growing up I was the typical "tomboy"....it came along with a lot of bullying, however, as an adult I have learned how to balance the ying/yang and embrace both fem/masc
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
05/21/17 02:01:27PM
727 posts

Questioning The Empath-Narcissist Connection


Empath

I am not sure if they know what they do on a conscious level or not, however, the damage done to the person being manipulated is the same. I have been dealing with this with my son (narc) now for over a month....yesterday it came to a head and I took a stand. He has literally drained me and has successfully lowered my energy and vibration in the process. It's been especially hard being around him as an empath since I had been absorbing his inner turmoil (I have mentioned the issues he had but of course, denial) and confusing it as my own. Even though I was recognizing it as not mine, the draining of my energy on a daily basis took its toll. Oh how they know how to push your buttons. He totally thrives on drama and gets a twisted thrill out of causing scenes in public. My step granddaughter's graduation was NOT the place for that. I told him that he is going to have to find another place to live....then the social media BS started. It's crazy...I think this time I have learned my lesson and cut chords for good (I'm sure I will have to continue doing so though, since he is bound to me by blood). No more feeling sorry for him after creating situations to place himself as the victim once more. Yesterday was a clarifying moment of how he plays people against each other to cause turmoil and to make him look like a victim. I overheard some of the things he was saying to his dad (also a narc) on the phone after the confrontation....lie after lie after lie to make me out to sound crazy....even told him I was crazy. All over telling him it wasn't going to work out living here. All apologies for ranting........:/
Since successfully cutting chords last night though, I am feeling like myself and more in control over the situation. I have not liked the person I had become.....I have come to realize this hard lesson that he cannot be fixed so I have to turn him loose no matter what the outcome. I have also determined that I will have to go no contact with him even though he is my son so as to not be reeled in by the pity party again. He is an adult and needs to deal with the karma he creates on his own.
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
05/17/17 04:44:18PM
727 posts

Any Advice On Overcoming Bad Luck?


Empath

I hear you @hop-daddy
Same thing seems to happen in my life quite often. I can go though a great period, them bam! Someone or something comes into my life and turns it upside down. I am going through one of those "dark" periods now...things that I thought were healed have come up in an "in your face" kinda way. Great post with a lot of good advice, thanks for bring up the topic
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
05/13/17 07:16:23AM
727 posts

Sense of Smell??


Empath

Smell is definitely my strongest sense. Yeah, occasionally the scent will stay with me for a while. Mine more so comes into play with danger signals....i.e. Smelling rubber before a tire blows out kinda thing or smelling smoke before a fire happens. Human odors are rather off putting to me...I try to avoid them, lol but sometimes that cannot be done. The smell that has the biggest imprint is that of someone dying, a sickly sweet kinda smell. Then there are different nationalities, each with their own distinct smell (not trying to come off as racist here, my apologies). Visitation from spirt often comes with a smell also.....their cologne or with smokers....cigarette smell. Very interesting topic @loconnoro
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
05/13/17 06:50:09AM
727 posts

Accepting someone


Empath

@alexisw
First of all...welcome to the EC! I hope you have found a place where you can be real
What @sensi-sante mentioned about being a cancer in the family is oh so true! Toxic people will create toxic atmospheres any place they go. Like an energy vampire, they will suck the good energy out of everyone and leave nothing but hurt in their path. Your empathness had picked up on this...hence your dislike for her. It is sad that we can be an early warning system but one that no one seems to heed advice from. Below is a link that will perhaps give you some pointers on how to proceed in this touchy situation
https://www.powerofpositivity.com/9-ways-smart-people-deal-toxic-people/
Additionally, if you don't do it yet, I suggest that you get grounded and centered. Shield yourself as well to prevent her garbage from seeping into you (which sounds like it already has) There are a lot of different techniques to doing this. Check out Elise's Empath Survival Guide for starters
Blessings
updated by @cat-whisperer: 05/13/17 06:59:01AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
05/13/17 06:39:01AM
727 posts

How to Cut Off These Damned Feelings


Empath

@sensi-sante
You are not alone....I still feel that way with someone I knew over 20 years ago. Like you I think I manufactured most of the relationship in my head due to being in a failing relationship at the time. He still pops into my head on occasion and I still wonder if it would have worked out...but I know better, he was a major alcoholic, and probably still is. Hopefully time will heal this for you
Blessings
updated by @cat-whisperer: 05/13/17 06:39:51AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
05/12/17 07:19:58AM
727 posts

Strong sensations???


Empath

@tigerlily
Way to go! that's great...keep up the good work of listening to your inner self, it won't steer you wrong
@hermes
Great advice on justification and explanations. You are so correct in this statement, this very thing is occurring and is causing me to crash....hard. Still learning to balance my gut feelings with my ever present need to help everyone :/ Compassion won out over gut, paying price, another lesson being learned on this journey, lol.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
05/12/17 07:06:54AM
727 posts

Talking Weird Stuff


Psychic and Paranormal

Hermes.V:
@the-importance-of-being-jonny

Gautama The Buddha has been known to say that it is through illusions we encounter enlightenment. Illusions are the source of pain, and it is through pain and illusions the light comes through. There is a very similar idea in Christianity and many other religions.
Pain is the path of the prophets for prophets learn to transmute pain. There is no need to search for pain however, for each 'prophet' has enough pain for entire lifetimes. Prophets are chosen because of their potential to withstand pain, and keep a compassionate heart. Eventually a prophet will transcend pain and start transmuting with light. He will learn to fly with his wings.
Yet perhaps a prophet is more a rose than anything else. A rose, when crushed, spreads its perfume to the ones that crush it. A scent of freedom in a fleeting moment can become an avalanch of desire to liberate lives.
Blessed are the gentle, for they will inherit the earth were words of Wisdom itself.

Beautiful ๐Ÿ˜Š
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
05/04/17 06:25:46AM
727 posts

Karma and Spreading Emotions/ Effecting your Energy


Empath

Yes, there is karma, anyone that cannot see the cause and affect of it, perhaps they are in denial or don't want to recognize it at all. What you describe can also be likened to a ripple on water. Drop something in water...it sends out ripples that will affect anything that ripple reaches, like wise, once that ripple reaches something else, it will in turn send a ripple back out....return it if you will....like karma. This drop that creates a ripple, it will also go out and continue affecting things so far away. It a good example on how everything is connected and how actions, thoughts, words affect others. If everyone would stop and think this deep before doing, saying there would be less negative reaction in this world. The reality though is that deep thinking appears to be a rare trait. Not many want to take the time to "peel back the onion" so to speak. Great topic @loconnoro
Blessing
updated by @cat-whisperer: 05/04/17 06:28:21AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
05/02/17 09:40:41PM
727 posts

Opinions on Medicine and Herbal Remedies


Empath

Hi @loconnoro,
I agree with you on the chemicals. No offense to any in the medical field, but I feel that it's all about keeping you coming back and using more drugs when it comes to traditional doctors (they do get money and perks from pushing certain medications). Since I have gotten more into homeopathic medicine I rarely go to the doctor. I have found what is grown in nature can cure a lot of what ails you. Some of my favorites are garlic, echinacea, and good old cider vinegar. Next time you have heartburn, a shot of cider vinegar mixed in a little water works wonders....I know it sounds counter productive, but it works. Garlic is a good antiseptic and lowers colesterol. Echinacea is great for knocking out colds and boosts your immune system in general. As far as books, "The Herbal Drugstore" and "The Complete Book of Herbs" are good ones. The second one has pictures and shows growing, drying, etc.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
04/30/17 01:37:04PM
727 posts

Struggling Empath


Arts

@hermes
You always have a way of putting such a positive spin on things :) Really needed the reminder that love is the root of all...
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
04/29/17 06:36:24PM
727 posts

Questioning The Empath-Narcissist Connection


Empath

@angel
Your post really resonated with me. You are right about the soul age thing...all of the narcs that I have known have all come across as acting like two year olds. All the way down to the temper tantrums. It is hard to deal with, but apparently this is something that I am to learn at this time in my journey. Since my son has come to live here with me, I have had more ups and downs.....and it's only been three weeks. It is hard because he knows how to make me feel sorry for him. I am starting to see the manipulation that he is trying, still struggling with boundaries since I am a physical empath, it is hard to not take on all of the crap. It really wears me out.
@empphire
Thanks for the info on the YouTube videos. This is something that I will definitely have to check out.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
04/29/17 10:20:14AM
727 posts

Questioning The Empath-Narcissist Connection


Empath

My son shows narcissistic traits, his father being a narc, and unfortunately it appears that he inherited this trait. He also shows signs of being an empath. I bring the empathness up to him to discuss but never wants to go there. Now since he lives with me I do see the toxicity that the empath/narc dynamic can bring. I do wonder why the two are brought together as well.
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
04/28/17 07:08:57AM
727 posts

Parents/Upbringing?


Empath

@visitor
Growing up in such a toxic household had to be rough. Like @hop-daddy mentioned, you have found a site that you can possibly vent some of your frustration and not harm yourself. I have been in your shoes before....I have to say, not trying to be cliche but this too shall pass. There is so much negativity now days it does make it very hard to function as an empath. Try getting out in nature when you feel you are at your wits end. Lay down in the grass and just breathe....close your eyes and smell the earth, listen to nature happening, this is my go to when I feel so bad. This helps me, hopefully you will get some calm grounding from it too.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
04/28/17 06:53:08AM
727 posts

Is There An Empath-ADHD Connection?


Empath

I find that if I'm alone, my concentration is good, however, if I am around too many people...especially with "issues" I am a complete space cadet, lol. So I think your on to something there @hop-daddy. I usually have to get away from people and be alone to get my thoughts back in line and not bouncing all over the place. On really intense days I have to take a salt bath...that usually helps me.
Blessing
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
04/27/17 07:45:35AM
727 posts

Parents/Upbringing?


Empath

My parents weren't religious per se but I did get exposed to the Methodist faith at an early age. My grandmother would baby sit me a lot, so I'd go to church with her. However, I still had a strict upbringing....not allowed to call boys, had to be home before dark, had to be watched by a sitter...well into my teens. This strictness, coupled with being an outcast and bullied at school/abused by friend of the family caused me to rebel to an extreme. Long story short, I left home when I was 15 for good and never really looked back. I did go through trying different religions....Nazarene, Catholic, Wicca, Presbyterian, Buddhism. Wicca did resonate with me the best, but there is the non acceptance. Now I don't identify with any religion, but rather spiritual. I believe a mix of all...now seeing there is truth to all....no one path is better than the other, it all depends on what resonates with the individual.

As far as the empathness, I do believe that my mother and possibly my grandmother had abilities, but nothing was ever said on the subject. My mother did have a spot on intuition...she was right sooo many times. But it was still never really discussed. I imagine she was a physical empath....looking back to our troubled relationship when I was growing up and on the road, she was sick often. Which would correlate to the troubles I had.
updated by @cat-whisperer: 04/27/17 07:54:05AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
04/18/17 07:43:54AM
727 posts

Seeing Faces And Numbers Everywhere


Psychic and Paranormal

Hop Daddy:

@cat-whisperer:

Very interesting that you and I both see the flash-card effect of people faces when meditating or sleeping. Your example of a yearbook photo matches up well with how I see people. And then it's interesting that you see animals in random patterns or wood grain, and I see angry gargoyle like creatures. I appreciate what everyone has posted on this subject to help explain it. But I am still trying to interpret the meaning and how I should react when I see things? Is it a warning, is it a sign? Same for you. If you see a snake or wolf that are predators, how do you interpret that? There must be a reason why we see things and when we see things. In my case, and probably yours as well, it's not like these almost look like something. The way I view it, these are very clear creatures faces.



I interpret the wolf as good, my spirt guide presents as either a wolf or an owl. As for the snake, I don't have any correlation other than I was born in the year of the snake when it comes to the Chinese zodiac. The only time I get dire warnings is the feel in my gut...the knowing. If it's really bad, it comes when I sleep. The animal faces seem to be a good omen to me, they let me know I am protected.

@nocturnes-angel
I appreciate your input on the heightened senses, I also notice my senses stronger when I am tired or ill.
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
04/17/17 04:06:10PM
727 posts

Seeing Faces And Numbers Everywhere


Psychic and Paranormal

See, I'm the opposite. It is hard for me to remember a face...but a voice, I never forget. But still I see faces. That's what makes it hard. I see theses random faces and have no idea if I've seen them before or not. I see animal faces in objects like you describe...wood grains, patterns on material, etc. My office bathroom door for instance has a snake and a wolf in the wood grain that no one else seems to notice (I think they think I'm nuts, lol).
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
04/17/17 03:24:54PM
727 posts

Seeing Faces And Numbers Everywhere


Psychic and Paranormal

Hmmmm, that's interesting. Mine always appear as non threatening, almost like the pics you see of people in yearbook photos...or obituary pics (just came to me as I was typing)...some smiling, some just a resting face, but none presenting as evil or for a lack of better words...scary.
The obituary pic thing...wondering now if the people I am seeing are ones that have crossed over. Ongoing observations, discoveries, realizations...what an interesting journey this is.
"What a long strange trip it's been..." lol
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
04/17/17 02:47:01PM
727 posts

Seeing Faces And Numbers Everywhere


Psychic and Paranormal

@hermes, you always explain everything so beautifully.

@hop-daddy, I know weve had this discussion before on another thread...I see faces too, with my eyes closed. Random and changing like flash cards. I also see faces in things but more of those kind...that I see in ordinary objects are of animals.
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
04/17/17 02:46:51PM
727 posts

Seeing Faces And Numbers Everywhere


Psychic and Paranormal

@hermes, you always explain everything so beautifully.

@hop-daddy, I know weve had this discussion before on another thread...I see faces too, with my eyes closed. Random and changing like flash cards. I also see faces in things but more of those kind...that I see in ordinary objects are of animals.
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
03/26/17 07:49:18AM
727 posts



Hop Daddy:

@ohda:

I have something similar happen often. When I lie in bed at night I often try to meditate. And before I drift off to sleep I will see movies of people I don't know or what I call flashcards of people's faces. In the flashcard phase I basically will see a person's face for about 3 seconds and then it flips to the next one until I go through a couple dozen. I have no idea what it means. And when I see the little movie clips as I call them they can be in color in black and white. But I do have to be in a relaxed meditative state in order for either to happen. And I am always observing and not part of what I see.

In your case it sounds like you are interacting with your visions. That sounds more like past life regression.ย 


@hop-daddy
I have this very thing happen to me and never could find the words to describe it. Flash cards of strangers faces fit perfectly. They occur even when I am not meditating but just closing my eyes. None of the faces are anyone familiar to me which is what baffles me the most. Thanks for sharing and putting the experience to words.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
03/18/17 10:50:33AM
727 posts

Negative feelings surrounding one particular person


Empath

Another place on Facebook for positive affirmations....Empaths and Angels ๐Ÿ˜‰
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
03/18/17 10:21:57AM
727 posts

Negative feelings surrounding one particular person


Empath

@calmidwester
I do have a book suggestion for you as a newbie. It was written by fellow community members. "Thriving as an Empath, Empowering your highly sensitive self". It is a great read and wonderful reference guide that is chocked full of information and techniques for someone discovering just who you really are. Also, as for raising your vibrational frequency, if find just simple positive affirmations several times a day really helps. If you go on Facebook, search power of positivity. Wonderful affirmations there, but be wary of some of the linked items though, some can work against what you are trying to achieve. Facebook can at times be a negative experience, and was for me in the past, but I have weeded out the bad and follow only people or pages that inspire me now.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
03/18/17 07:47:24AM
727 posts

Negative feelings surrounding one particular person


Empath

@hermes, you are a continual wealth of knowledge. @hop-daddy, I can relate to how you deal with the situation for I've found the same results experimenting with groups of people.
@calmidwester we do have the ability to change the atmosphere as since we receive energy we can also transmit it. However, it does take practice and being a newly aware empathness you need to learn about yourself and how to get yourself grounded and centered before you can venture into dealing with others emotions effectively. When I first discovered my empathness for what it was, my husband and I did go through some rough patches...almost two years in now since getting a handle on myself as an empath everything has not only calmed down but has improved dramatically. Most in part since realizing that I can raise the vibration of the collective in my relationship. We are both more at ease and even playful at times. Like in the beginning of the relationship (10 years in). You are going through a change and growing for the better, concentrate on yourself...everything else will follow in time. Be patient...and lots of love and forgiveness to both yourself and your husband.
Blessings
updated by @cat-whisperer: 03/18/17 07:48:31AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
03/14/17 06:08:40AM
727 posts

Psychic abilities and there possible causes


Psychic and Paranormal

Lotusfly:

The only history in my family is my grandmother, who supposedly was diagnosed with schizophrenia at one time but never took medication for it. I believe she is actually gifted and I may have received some of her traits in my genes. But she doesn't see herself that way. She doesn't acknowledge it at all. I am the first known empath in my family. Part of the reason why I struggled for so long before realizing it :)


Reading this makes me think of my Uncle who was also diagnosed with schizophrenia. He was an extreme case which caused the doctors to commit him to the state hospital. I always felt a comfort from him when he was around. Now looking back he was probably not crazy after all. I feel my brother is also an empath, however, he is very quiet and is hard to talk to about anything, let alone this. I believe my mother also had gifts but never talked of them...she always knew of things going on. I do get visits from her since she had passed over which makes me think she had gifts also. It is my belief that not everyone can make contact easily once crossed over...or maybe they just don't want to.
Blessings
updated by @cat-whisperer: 03/14/17 06:10:54AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
03/13/17 12:48:48PM
727 posts

Empaths and NDE's or Near Death Experiences


Empath

@bill-walker
As for your question, yes I do believe that I was born an empath, but didn't realize this until a couple of years ago. Really need to go back about ten years to an incident which I don't really describe as a NDE per se but I did have an experience that brought me to this spiritual path that I have been on. I have wrote about this on here in the past but I will share again.
I had been dealing with a lot of depression (have had all my life but now I know why) and was rather suicidal at the time. I was in a lone car wreck (not intensional) that landed me down in a ravine and head on into a tree in an area notorious for no cell phone service. After the impact I looked down and my phone was laying next to me. I was able to call my husband and let him know where I was at and that I might need an ambulance. When he arrived, he tried my phone but it didn't work...his didn't either. I was not hurting but I couldn't stand up (my back was broke), I had such a peaceful loving feeling as if I was cradled in these loving hands. I was told that it was not my time...I am here for a reason. I felt no panic but rather unusually calm considering by that time someone had gone to a neighboring house to call for help, so there were emergency crews and husband there..all rushing around. I told them I would be ok. It was the most wonderful feeling to be in the presence of the Devine! I have not had those suicidal thoughts since.
Still to this day I drive by that place and try my phone...still no service. Someone was with my that fateful day. I still reflect on it and smile.
updated by @cat-whisperer: 03/13/17 12:53:22PM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
03/06/17 02:00:50PM
727 posts

Still trying to figure this out


Empath

@calmidwester
Yes I do believe that the connection with blood family is much stronger that those not blood related. Especially in the physical sense. I cannot tell you how many times I have had physical issues just to find that my Dad is sick...and he lives several states away! Also have that connection with my son. With him I have to be very careful, he carries a lot of negative energy that can be felt even though he lives two counties away. His energy makes my stomach do flip flops :/ if he is having a bad day
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
03/05/17 07:09:13PM
727 posts

Still trying to figure this out


Empath

Oh how I can relate to your situation. Same issues but different scenarios. I have gotten to the point in my life that I am choosing not to expose myself to those kind of situations, rather happy being myself and not being around the negativity of some groups of people. If that means saying no to a gathering or two so be it...especially if you know it might put you in a bad funk. Sounds like @hop-daddy, @lotusfly, and @weary-soul have pretty much covered what I would suggest or mention. Sounds like you've got a great arsenal of crystals. I don't leave home without mine. Your not alone
Blessings
updated by @cat-whisperer: 03/05/17 07:12:22PM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
03/05/17 05:11:43AM
727 posts

No control over incoming info


Empath

Thanks for your input on the situation. @rene, I have a hard time reading kids also. Their minds seem to be bouncing from one thing to another so quickly.
@nocturnes-angel, I have found that sometimes I can do this with my other grandson that is a nonverbal autistic, however, the other with cerebral palsy is a very hard read. You my be right about having a wall up since he is so vulnerable.
After sleeping on the random read of cousin last night, it seems as it is a beginning of healing that I needed to be shown the reason at this time. A lot of healing going on now..even with distant relationships that only brings us together once or twice a year if that often. All family ties need to be mended. I just hope that the time spent locking eyes she received my benevolence and realizes that I'm not the bad person she thinks I am. Thanks again
Blessings
updated by @cat-whisperer: 03/05/17 05:20:29AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
03/04/17 08:29:45PM
727 posts

No control over incoming info


Empath

Anyone else get readings that come in with no control? Although I have been aware of my empathness for over a year, almost two now, I still feel that I don't have a good handle on who's info comes in. Sometime I would like to know about someone (my toddler grandson that is severely handicapped is fussy but I cannot discern why) but then I can look at someone randomly at a party and it all comes flooding in. I know when you "try" it doesn't work, you have to be relaxed about it but it can come in and catch me off guard. It's hard for me with people. Cannot seem to control it like I can with animals.
The incoming info from the person at the party was good though. She is my husbands cousin, we only see her at occasional family functions...good thing because she absolutely loathes me. This has been going on for 10 years. Tonight we locked eyes for a moment, I gave her a warm smile as I usually do and instead of her quickly looking away and darting as far away from me as possible she looked away but them looked back...at that moment, I knew exactly why she has been like this for so many years. It has always perplexed me but now I know. All the years of me taking it so personally I now understand and didn't realize that she really is a good person after all even though we still don't speak. I just wish I could do that with my fussy grand babies and know what's wrong so I can fix it, lol.
updated by @cat-whisperer: 07/04/17 05:43:42PM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
03/03/17 11:22:26AM
727 posts

Name a song game.


Empath

nikkisixx:

still my favorite version not the one mccarthy & milano replaced it with, i put natalie portman into the video with a blonde wig isnt she perfect? and still just outtakes leftย with me doing a rare performance as the smiths frontman (smile:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hnpILIIo9ek</p

Love this song!

Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
02/21/17 07:18:14PM
727 posts

Intro


Empath

@calmidwester
Welcome to the EC, I didn't know that being an empathy was a thing either until I was 51 also. It would have definitely saved me a lot of trials and tribulations having this knowledge earlier in my lifetime, but for whatever reason I didn't so I have learned to trust that. I know it's hard not having anyone to share your journey with...but hey...you have us now, lol.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
02/18/17 07:31:21AM
727 posts

Spiritually/positively energetic places - where are your favorite places to travel?


Empath

For me it is the lakes in mid Missouri, especially Lake of the Ozarks. It is a man made lake but there is a lot of positive energy there. Friendly down to earth people too (the locals). A lot of tourist in the summer. It is my happy place. Especially the more remote areas which there are a lot of there. 90+ miles of lake. No, I'm not a spokesperson, lol. Loved it so much had to get a house there. I know this sounds weird but it seems that it is easier to manifest there. A lot of Native American history there. The spring at Ha Ha Tonka is awesome.
I have heard that Sedona AZ is awesome too (@bunnigirl) but haven't got a chance to experience that yet.
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updated by @cat-whisperer: 02/18/17 07:40:16AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
02/18/17 07:17:34AM
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An Educated Empath Is a Sociopathโ€™s Worst Nightmare


Empath

@hermes
Well said and very true...but also draining if not grounded and well centered. Thanks for sharing @rene
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Cat Whisperer
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02/17/17 07:39:39PM
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Input appreciated - physical empath


Empath

@babs
You are not alone when taking on others physical ailments. Mine don't show up exactly like yours but like you, physical seems to be limited to those close to me, dad and son in particular. It was so bad this summer that I could not eat without throwing up...lost a bunch of weight just to find out my dad had stones in his pancreas. We were both unaware of this till he was rushed to the hospital in the fall. He underwent surgery and my symptoms went away. When this happens, I cannot control the influx of symptoms so off to the doc to check it out....mystery illnesses, lol. I haven't figured out how to "offload" the intense illnesses yet but as hop-daddy mentioned I ground a lot and wear protective stones every day. I hope you find something that helps ease the meshing of others' "stuff".
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
02/14/17 07:44:03AM
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Residual energy from past


Empath

@tigerlily
I have had a lot of difficult time/traumatic times in the past also. I had done similar rituals in the past but the issues never really got resolved long term...kinda just like putting a bandaide on a wound that would occasionally open if there were a "trigger". The only thing that has really put these issues behind me was to do a deep forgiveness meditation and hoponono (?? not sure I've spelt this right) forgiveness. You have to forgive your wrongdoers completely for the wounds to heal for good. You may have to do this more than once to completely let go. I also look back and view the circumstances as lessons rather than putting myself as a victim, as I had done in the past. Now I can experience triggers with no ill affects.
I wish you success on this excursion because it is hard to face what has hurt you, but that is part of the process....you do have to face and acknowledge, but with a forgiveness intent, do not forget to forgive and love yourself as well. You are a survivor not a victim ๐Ÿ˜‰
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
02/12/17 06:58:49AM
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The Power of Manifesting


Empath

@lotusfly
You hit the nail on the head. You have to keep your intentions pure and negativity out of your head. Also keeping the ego in check whilst you visualize what it is you want to happen...not just visualize, but really knowing it will happen, with NO doubts. Faith if you will. I have been very blessed but I try to keep humble about it which I believe is another thing you have to do to manifest. Great topic @hop-daddy
Blessings
Another thing that is important...gratitude. Lots of gratitude.
updated by @cat-whisperer: 02/12/17 07:06:34AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
02/10/17 04:50:48AM
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Raising vibrations


Empath

@hop-daddy
Yes, I believe it is. I am practicing this very mindset. However, it is very hard to stay in that place. I am doing better than I was a year ago but still toggling back and forth due to the strength of the ego. Trying to kill it off, lol. I have noticed that since I am in that place more frequently that my reality is also changing and bringing great things in my life.
Blessing
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
02/04/17 06:50:12PM
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Raising vibrations


Empath

http://www.trinfinity8.com/why-is-earths-schumann-resonance-accelerating/
Very interesting article. It appears that everyone consciously raising our vibrations is working.
updated by @cat-whisperer: 07/03/17 05:48:01PM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
02/04/17 06:42:25PM
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I think we can all relate


Empath

Boy, @rene...you sure titled this post correctly! Can so relate to this. Yes, I'd like to see an article about the good part ๐Ÿ˜‰
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
01/31/17 04:40:16PM
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Join our VERY FIRST Empath Chat on Thursday 02/02/2017 @ 6:00PM PST (9:00pm EST).


Empath

EliseLebeau:

The chat is available online here: http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com/chat/mobile

or from the top "chat" menu


Found the bubble and typed a message but it's not showing up :/
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
01/31/17 04:34:19PM
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Join our VERY FIRST Empath Chat on Thursday 02/02/2017 @ 6:00PM PST (9:00pm EST).


Empath

@eliselebeau
Is this going to be accessible via a smartphone in the future? Would love to participate however I cannot find the bubble you refer to on the mobile version.
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
01/30/17 10:54:46AM
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The Awakening


Psychic and Paranormal

@bill-walker
Glad to see you back in the community...you have been missed. You always had a lot of good things to say. That is a great one line analogy for awaking ๐Ÿ˜‰ Thank you for sharing
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
01/25/17 06:28:53PM
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15 Powerful Beliefs That Will Free You From Negativity


Library of Light

Thank you @bing,
Great info...I've been bullied just about my entire life. Still get bullied from time to time, now I just ingnore it for the most part. Nice reminders.
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