Forum Activity for @cat-whisperer

Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/28/16 08:38:30PM
754 posts

Sparks of light


Psychic and Paranormal

@lotusfly
It's like yours...to the side and with my eyes open, and it happens so fast there is no time to zero in on it. I don't see them with my eyes closed but I do see faces when my eyes are closed...but I don't recognize any of the faces...?? They don't stick around long but longer than the flashes and blurs that go by when my eyes are open. I have had several vision tests due to some of the things I see...(didn't tell the doc about the faces but rather the flashing, didn't want him to think I was crazy, lol) good checkup according to the doc.
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/28/16 08:26:42PM
754 posts

Fluctuations


Empath

@windwolf
Glad to "see" you back. I have been getting energy that is intense enough to cause the hair on the back of my neck and arms to stand up. Doesn't feel like a visitation but rather energy coming in from above and some from the left...always affecting the left side of my body
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/28/16 08:19:57PM
754 posts

Sparks of light


Psychic and Paranormal

Lotusfly:

Anyone else see sparks of light in their peripheral vision? I have been seeing mostly white light sparks but occasionally they will be colored. Any idea what these could be?


Do you mean like a flash, kinda like a camera flash? The flash thing happens to me on occasion. Most of the time though what I pick up in my peripheral vision is like...um...like seeing someone walk past, but not shadow figures.
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/26/16 04:11:16PM
754 posts

Can likes be from past lives?


New Age

@rene
You might be on to something about falling and fear of heights. I am also scared of heights but it is something I'm always trying to overcome but it is hard. On the other hand though, if true there must have been a lot of falling deaths in previous lives cause there is a whole lot of people they are afraid of heights. Did you have those attractions when you were a child also?
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/26/16 02:57:13PM
754 posts

A shadow figure


Psychic and Paranormal

I have not had that same experience, however, when you said extraterrestrial it reminded me of when I first started meditating. Eyes closed, so this was also seen with my third eye. It was if the being was standing behind me and peeked around to come into my front vision, then disappeared out of my peripheral vision. It happened very quick as if it didn't want me to see it. It was grey with very horizontally wide eyes, but not open a lot...a little more open than a slit. I was not afraid or started as you would normally be if someone would sneak up behind you. Like you, I did not feel threatened by it. It has not happened again, just the one time. I still wonder who or what it was.
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/24/16 09:12:04PM
754 posts

Happy Holidays!!


Empath

Happy holidays to all my EC family!
updated by @cat-whisperer: 04/26/17 03:32:03AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/24/16 08:54:25PM
754 posts

Has Anyone Dealt With Clairaudience?


Psychic and Paranormal

Thank you @hermes
Both olive oil and honey resonate with me. Since my awakening my digestive system has become sensitive to a lot of processed and junk food as well as alcohol, so my body has led me to eat healthier. Olive oil is the only oil I use to cook with now, love it. I also eat a lot of honey. I am lucky enough to live in an area that has a lot of local beekeepers. I also kept bees for a while..I can taste the local flora in the honey..it's wonderful. Nothing better than a spoonful of honey to cure what ails you. I used to get a lot of optical migraines until I started eating honey on a regular basis, I rarely get them now.
Along with the clairaudience, it appears that I am becoming more of a physical empath so I try to make sure my body is healthy. My most recent bout was with my gallbladder and pancreas. A month later, my dad wound up in the hospital with stones in his pancreas. The docs had to remove his gallbladder and part of his pancreas. I no longer am having trouble in that area....crazy. So far it only happens with my dad's ailments. And he lives halfway across the county. Hopefully that "gift" won't expand to others close to me or with anyone else. I don't mind the hearing things but getting physically ill sucks. At least the docs don't find anything wrong with me, I just get the symptoms. Getting late..enough rambling
Have a great Holiday Season
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/24/16 06:42:18AM
754 posts

working at 7 world trade center nyc


Psychic and Paranormal

@bunnigirl
I think you already know your answer, but want some reassurance. Always stay true to yourself, denying that honor will cause unhappiness. Also follow what is inside you...it will never steer you wrong. For me sometimes it's my gut, sometimes my heart. If still not sure, try to meditate and sleep on it, that is what works for me in times of uncertainty. Trust your higher self.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/24/16 06:31:56AM
754 posts

Has Anyone Dealt With Clairaudience?


Psychic and Paranormal

@hermes
Thank you for your response, I will have to check those out. I am always looking for ways to advance further.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/24/16 06:26:49AM
754 posts

Another quiz


Psychic and Paranormal

I am East-air. Thanks for sharing @nocturnes-angel 😉
updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/24/16 06:27:40AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/24/16 06:19:27AM
754 posts

Quiz


Psychic and Paranormal

I got divination, thanks @nocturnes-angel!
updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/24/16 06:19:52AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/23/16 05:09:21PM
754 posts

Has Anyone Dealt With Clairaudience?


Psychic and Paranormal

@hermes
Thank you for the info in your post, I am interested in more of the foods needed for spiritual nutrition if I may ask you to share.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/23/16 09:07:09AM
754 posts

Newbie Here


Empath

@somethingintheway
Welcome to the EC! I think you will enjoy it here and find a lot of great people to chat with and learn from.
In reading your intro post it sounds like we have a lot in common also. Old soul, investigative, psychology and interestingly mortuary science and the afterlife. Not very many people like to delve there. It intrigues me, and I don't understand how society acts towards death and dying...like it is something to not talk about and fear. Looking forward to "seeing" more of you here,
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/23/16 07:25:54AM
754 posts

A quiz just for fun


Empath

Sirian here, thanks for sharing @rene
updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/23/16 07:27:01AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/22/16 07:32:12PM
754 posts

Empaths and Alcohol


Empath

@hop-daddy I like your description of alcohol being a "social lubricant", hehe! That's a great name for it. Never heard it called that, it sure did tickle my funny bone. I needed that tonight 😊
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/21/16 07:16:53PM
754 posts

Empaths and Alcohol


Empath

I have found that since my awakening I am more sensitive to alcohol. My sensitivity comes more in the form of getting physically sick after one drink :/ Not fun if you are at a party and everyone else is drinking. However, I have found that I can get "high" as well, so not weird. I have practiced this at parties and have found that I can pick up the buzz or shield to stay "sober". Kinda handy really. I can enjoy myself plus be the designated driver to boot, lol.
One night when on vacation, I went dancing with my husband and some of my family members. I love to dance, but have to loosen up so I intentionally picked up the buzz. Had a great time but some random guy came up to me and told me I was drunk, lol! Told him I was not drunk but on a natural high! So it can come in handy...I think the term from the 70s is a contact high, lol. 😃 I normally like my solitude but occasionally I do like to mingle.
Your not alone when experiencing this phenomenon.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/21/16 06:16:23AM
754 posts

Hello, New Empath Here!


Empath

Welcome to the EC @sensi-sante! You will find a lot of great people here....and a place to explore your empathness 😉
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/21/16 06:07:55AM
754 posts

More empaths in certain areas?


Empath

Shirley:
@rene,
Burned at the stake! Yikes! If im not mistaken One of my ancestors was burned at the stake back in the 1600s. I dont tell anybody around here for fear they will think Im crazy!!!!!

Yes, sad but true. I don't think your crazy @shirley 😍
updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/21/16 06:08:48AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/21/16 06:05:05AM
754 posts

More empaths in certain areas?


Empath

Rene'':
Shirley:
@lotusfly ,
I think empaths in my area less than 5%!! Or maybe we are just afraid to tell anyone!


I think in my part of the country we are running in the negatives. Lol. And afraid to admit to fear of being burned at the stake. Lololol. I'm not kidding.

Yeah, same here....I joke with my husband about the same thing. If some around here know there would be a lynch mob, lol. Some already treat me like an outsider, but then again if your are not born and raised here like my husband you are an outsider even though I've lived here now for over 10 years.
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/20/16 12:53:20PM
754 posts

Empaths and "the holidays"


Empath

Rene'':
But...I do have my sunshine to help me though it. Lol

https://youtu.be/JHWGib71Q4g

She forgot the rest of the song. Lol
Love it!! 💜💖❤️️....sooo cute 😻
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/20/16 12:51:51PM
754 posts

Empaths and "the holidays"


Empath

What might be making it worse this year....Mercury retrograde started yesterday and will be in retrograde through the end of the year. Self care, meditation and lots of love ❤️
Everyone take care out there....this too shall soon pass
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/19/16 07:24:38AM
754 posts

More empaths in certain areas?


Empath

It will be nice when the day comes where we can come out of the closet, so to speak. I know that some day it will happen....we just have to wait for the majority to "catch up" 😉

Only two people know with me, my son which I feel is one but hasn't come to terms with it yet. And my husband. I've tried telling other family members but they just don't believe it and think it's something in my head so I just keep quiet about it now. My mother was one also, but she crossed over several years ago...before I realized that I was one...only a little over a year ago. Wish l'd been able to discuss it with her. I always wondered how she knew when I was up to no good, lol. It all started make sense when I awakened.
updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/19/16 07:32:06AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/19/16 06:31:40AM
754 posts

is it normal for an empath?


Empath

Thanks for sharing the videos @rene and @moongirl28. The sultan video put me in mind of cd that Jimmy Page and Robert Plant did back in 1994. It's called No Quarter. They had an Egyptian band playing backup. I think you will like it. Love to dance to it 😊. Saw it in concert, gave me goosebumps.

Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/19/16 06:09:40AM
754 posts

More empaths in certain areas?


Empath

@trevor-lewis sounds like a great place to live. It would be nice to know other empaths in my area but haven't found any yet. I live in a quite conservative area...small town Christian (no offense to any Christians here, but most do not understand) so I continue to be a "closet empath" for now, lol.
Blessings
updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/19/16 06:15:58AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/17/16 07:06:51PM
754 posts

feel like I am not human


Empath

LoconnorO:

I can most definitely relate. I just look around and see the way everyone else lives and wants to have life, but it just doesnt work for me. I can't seem to find friends who add the depth to life that I crave and everyone just seems so superficial and in their own bodies. I'm in my head all the time, but I feel like I see the world even outside the way I'm "suppose to". I feel attached to my body but I feel like I'm more than it, but everyone else just seem so into the illusion of reality and it bothers me. Geez I'm rambling now lol but no I completely relate you're not alone. I'm right there with you. 


You are more than your physical body. We are all spiritual beings having a human experience 😉
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/15/16 07:22:19PM
754 posts

Can likes be from past lives?


New Age

Let me elaborate on my question. I remember bits and pieces of previous lives. I have had these memories since childhood. One that is most memorable, I was a Lakota woman. My death had to do with falling off a cliff. Since early in childhood I have been drawn to anything Native American and have a lot of spiritual beliefs left over. I collect a lot of Native American art, jewelry, etc. I have other interests as well also related to past life memories. And as I am typing this I just answered my own question, lol. I will still post to share with anyone that may have pondered this in the past.
Blessings
updated by @cat-whisperer: 07/03/17 10:26:08AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/15/16 07:08:11PM
754 posts

Do you go with the flow?


Empath

That's great @lotusfly! Glad to hear everything is going great with you. Sometimes you've just gotta close your eyes and jump. You did and you landed in a better place. I have had that happen quite often...makes ya smile 😊.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/12/16 07:08:39PM
754 posts

Guardian Angel, Spirit Guide, and Totem


Psychic and Paranormal

@lotusfly I searched his name. It's an old name, Hebrew in origin. It shows up in the Bible where the name is used to reference four different men so it must have been a common name back then. I feel blessed to know his name, so when he's there for me I can thank him by name 😉
Thanks for sharing your story and posting such a great topic 💖
updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/12/16 07:10:43PM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/12/16 05:41:50AM
754 posts

Has Anyone Dealt With Clairaudience?


Psychic and Paranormal

Thank you @hop-daddy for initiating this post, I have had some similar experiences and the advice that @hermes and @mysticangel22 had given is appreciated too. Very informative :)
Blessings
updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/12/16 05:42:40AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/11/16 07:20:11PM
754 posts

Trying To Find Meaning After A Near Death Event


Psychic and Paranormal

@cheshire-cat I pm you, didn't know if you get email notifications on pm's. Bless your heart and soul.
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/11/16 09:29:37AM
754 posts

Trying To Find Meaning After A Near Death Event


Psychic and Paranormal

@hop-daddy it's funny how some people get saved...more than once. I had another incident where I was saved too. I was going to get in the shower before a thunderstorm got there but the neighbor was knocking at the door. While visiting with them, lightning struck the house and blew a huge hole in the shower. It appears that we are definitely here for a reason which makes me think about all of the talk on how us empaths are here to help raise the frequency of the collective. Or maybe the fact that we are destined on a certain spiritual path that we haven't achieved it yet (my experiences have definitely made me more spiritual).
updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/11/16 06:02:09PM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/11/16 07:09:30AM
754 posts

Areas that sparks memories


Psychic and Paranormal

I don't see the visions, but I do go to places that seem very familiar to me. One place in particular, I went to an event in a town that I had never been in, but I knew the place. It felt very familiar, I was able to find my way around there as if I had been there before...it was kinda strange. I then wondered if it was due to a past life there.
It happens quite often, most of the time I chalk it up to having good internal gps, lol...kinda like animals have. You've got me wondering now if it was more than that.
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/11/16 06:55:36AM
754 posts

All Apologies


Empath

@rene" thanks for sharing. I never tire of hearing that song. Of all of the Nirvana songs, that one is my favorite. Very deep lyrics. I agree, I like Curt's version much better than Bowie's even though I like a lot of Bowie's songs....especially Space Oddity. Both very talented men.
updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/11/16 06:56:24AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/09/16 07:44:02PM
754 posts

Trying To Find Meaning After A Near Death Event


Psychic and Paranormal

I haven't had that exact experience, but I would like to share my story. This also happened before I was aware of my empathness. Hindsight..I suffered a lot of mental issues, but now I realize it was because I didn't realize I was taking on others emotions as my own. Amazing stuff happens out there that cannot be logically explained..you just gotta trust it.
A few years ago I was going though a time when I was suicidal. I was in a bad car accident (not intentional) that had some strange things happen. The location where I crashed was notorious for no cell coverage, however, I looked down and my phone was lying next to me. I called my husband and was able to tell him where I was and that I probably needed to go to the hospital. At this time I didn't realize the seriousness of my injuries. My husband showed up and tried to use my phone...no cell service. The whole time all this
was going on I felt as if I were being held with the most loving, comforting hands. I was told (telepathically) that it is not my time to go and I need not be thinking about going. I felt so at peace and loved. By then police and first responders were there. Someone had went to a nearby house to call due to no cell service. All around everyone was so frantic...I kept telling them I would be ok. Something else I was told. I will never forget that incident. Everyone there said I should have died. After that day, my suicidal thoughts were gone. Someone was definitely there with me even though I didn't see him, I sure did feel him. To this day when I drive by that site I try my phone....no coverage.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/09/16 06:04:32AM
754 posts

Guardian Angel, Spirit Guide, and Totem


Psychic and Paranormal

Thanks @Lotusfly. Since you mentioned that, you are probably right. I got the impression that he was an angel but I had never heard of any angels named Elam.
Funny about that accident, most people view something like that as a bad thing. I know, however, that it was something that I needed to experience at the time due to my state of mind. I had never felt such a loving, calmness that overcame me that day. I was in a state of bliss for hours after the accident. Really a blessing in disguise. My whole outlook in a lot of things changed that day. It was the start of my spiritual journey.
updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/09/16 06:07:40AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/09/16 05:51:46AM
754 posts

All Apologies


Empath

No need to apologize Rene, but apology accepted. I understand, I've done my share of venting here too. Sometime you just have to let off a little steam so it doesn't manifest into an illness (which used to happen to me quite often). I was timid too, I didn't want to offend anyone....but sometimes people need to be put in their place. I have found my voice also. It kinda comes along with boundaries so don't feel bad. She was testing your boundaries and you let her know that it something she cannot do. I know that you have a heart of gold so anything that you post on here is understood (to me anyway) as your need to get it off your chest. I have wondered too if some of my rant postings in the past has unintentionally hurt someone...which of course is not the intention. It is nice that we do have a place where we can be real and not worry so much about how we come across.
Blessings
P.s. - I like that song too...it will be in my head the rest of the day now, lol. We have the same taste in music 😊 "What else can I say....la la la la la"
updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/09/16 05:54:09AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/08/16 07:42:40PM
754 posts

Guardian Angel, Spirit Guide, and Totem


Psychic and Paranormal

I am wondering about the difference between angels and guides too.
A few years ago I was going though a time when I was suicidal. I was in a bad car accident (not intentional) that had some strange things happen. The location where I crashed was notorious for no cell coverage, however, I looked down and my phone was lying next to me. I called my husband and was able to tell him where I was and that I probably needed to go to the hospital. At this time I didn't realize the seriousness of my injuries. My husband showed up and tried to use my phone...no cell service. The whole time all this
was going on I felt as if I were being held with the most loving, comforting hands. I was told (telepathically) that it is not my time to go and I need not be thinking about going. I felt so at peace and loved. By then police and first responders were there. Someone had went to a nearby house to call due to no cell service. All around everyone was so frantic...I kept telling them I would be ok. Something else I was told. I will never forget that incident. Everyone there said I should have died. After that day, my suicidal thoughts were gone. Someone was definitely there with me even though I didn't see him, I sure did feel him. To this day when I drive by that site I try my phone....no coverage.
Flash forward 7 years, during meditation, I inquired about the name of the entity there. Elam is his name, however, I am still not clear on if he is my angel or guide. Nevertheless I am forever greatful for him...he saved me that day.
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/08/16 07:15:16PM
754 posts

Seeing Numbers


Psychic and Paranormal

You have some very wise words @hermes.v it appears that you have been aware of your empathness longer than just yesterday, lol;)
@lotusfly, I have experienced synchronicity now for a little over a year. Pretty much since becoming aware of my empathness. At first I just thought of it as coincidence but I'm finding that there is really no such thing. Like Hermes has mentioned, sometimes it's more than just numbers. I find that if I roll with it, it has brought to me some wonderful opportunities. I have to just smile and give gratitude for the beauty of it when it happens. I feel blessed.
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/07/16 01:47:02PM
754 posts

I needed a good laugh this morning


Empath

Paul:

Do any of my fellow empaths feel this sometimes?

EWMRT.jpg



Love it!! 😂😂😂
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/06/16 05:16:13PM
754 posts

Explanation of our "Gifts"


Empath

Rene'':
This still didn't answer all my questions but it helped to narrow it down.

http://www.keen.com/articles/psychic/psychic-intuitive-medium-whats-the-difference

Thanks for sharing the article and website Rene. I am always thirsty for more knowledge on my journey. I have learned so much in the last year from everyone on here as well as researching the net 😊
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/06/16 12:24:15PM
754 posts

I needed a good laugh this morning


Empath

moon:

So Funny!  This is what I've been struggling with lately.  A reminder for us:

How to build the life we want:  Attach only to those things which will enhance and nurture us and those around us.  Hang on to anything that swells our hearts with love;  for all that is around us including the delight of the natural world, the people and animals in our presence, our fellow humans and most of all ourselves.

                                                  Give as little attention as possible to all those things that will diminish and injure us and others.  Let go of anything that narrows and weakens us into a place of fear; negative people who cling to the material world as if it's the only reality, negative thoughts of insecurity and inferiority.  Let go of guilt and shame and self-recrimination.  

                                                  Forgive ourselves and others for fear-based thinking as it is a side effect of living in the illusion of the material world.  Find what we love and pursue it like a smitten puppy.  Feel the fear and do it anyway.

                                                  Start our day with a spiritual practice/spiritual reading.  This will remind us of what is real, what's important and who we really are.  What we ingest first thing will stay with us all day.  Create a warm "buzz" in the morning and maintain it all day.  

 


Watch your thoughts; for they become words. Watch your words; for they become actions. Watch your actions; for they become habits. Watch your habits; for they become character. Watch your character for it will become your destiny.

Frank Outlaw



Beautiful....thank you @moon 😉, great reminders for all of us.
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/05/16 05:33:24PM
754 posts

Help for those that are feeling low


Empath

Hey Corey yes a blocked throat chakra does result in an inability to express thoughts/ a fear of speaking which in turn can result in depleted confidence and self worth. But don't beat your self up over it in the future if it happens again as your gift as an empath makes you more sensitive to the negative energy of others which is usually what causes a blocked chakra. You are feeling the fear which your colleague has on the inside and this is what I would say is most likely causing your blockage as fear is a very negative energy. Here is a link which details some easy methods to clear your chakra and prevent it from happening so much in future http://www.chakras.info/throat-chakra-blockage/ Its most likely that your co-worker is communicating through a social mask. A social mask is created by the ego (which is made up of fear) and stops the person who is wearing it from showing their genuine self (our true self is found in the vibration of love (truth)) to others. The social mask shows to others what the mask wearer thinks they should be or what they want others to see them as or both. People who carry a lot of fear are lacking in love for themselves (although they will likely have pride which is part of the ego(fear)) As an empath you are more closely connected to love and are a better judge of character than most people. Both of these things can make someone thats lacking love for themselves feel more fear and inadequacy which in turn you will feel. Hope this helps. love and light


You have a lot of wise words Jojo 😉 Thanks for sharing the link. I'm always up for learning.
Blessings
updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/05/16 05:37:07PM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/03/16 04:25:43PM
754 posts

Free Emotion Clearing to the first three responders


Empath

bunnigirl:

Awesome, thank you Trevor! and thank you @rene and @cat-whisperer for graciously turning the offer down to give us achanceget a chance. You are all wonderful :)



I had received one from him before so I wanted give some a chance that had never had one. He's great 👍
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/02/16 07:12:23PM
754 posts

Free Emotion Clearing to the first three responders


Empath

Hi Trevor,
Nice to see your back, you have been in my thoughts. I hope all has been well with you. Funny that I have had blocks lately but feel that a lot has been cleared the last couple of days. With that said, I will waive my response to the next person, but do want to attest that you are very talented in this area and whomever you clear will be pleasantly surprised.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/02/16 04:55:22PM
754 posts



Janett Niemi:

This is a great accomplishment that you are able to see people as who they really are and not as they appear to be. It is a step that many never achieve. I'm happy for you.....But, I read what you wrote and kept reading, hoping that at some point you would have realized that you had a choice in how your afternoon went. You had the choice to buy into the negative energy or to decide that you can change the energy for not only yourself but for others, too.

I find that when I'm in situations where I'm getting bad service that I immediately take a good look at myself, check out what kind of energy I'm sending out and take steps to improve it. For an example, I was at a coffeehouse this morning and I was getting terrible service. I immediately took my "energy temperature" and realized that I was not in the best spirits, hence the energy I was sending was coming back to me in the form of unhappy "I'm too busy for you," kind of feelings. I had the choice to change the atmosphere from negative to positive-which I did and immediately the service I got back was kindness and "how can I help you!" 

In this case, you realized that the clerk was not being "real," and nothing stops an unreal person better than kindness. Had you put out your Empath positive energy, it would have driven the not real person crazy and created a positive atmosphere for everyone else-double whammies! 
  



I have noticed and done this myself. It is sad that we live in a world of masked personna but that is just the way it is. I have encountered people such as this and if you kill them with kindness it changes the air. I try to keep in mind that the person I am dealing with might have just had something that saddens or angers them and, sending love their way is possibly just what they needed. A little mental hug for the weary.
Blessings
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12/02/16 02:05:02PM
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Empaths and "the holidays"


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All of the stress....hmm. One of my inlaws religion does not celebrate holidays, birthdays. When she joined the family, there was a lot of animosity from the others in the family due to this. My son now is also not recognizing holidays and birthdays either, which I'm fine with. I have had discussions with her regarding this...and she's got a lot insight on the negative aspects that surround the celebrations. We don't need a special day to honor the ones we love, they should be honored daily. I am growing fonder to these beliefs as there is no expectations or disappointments. It is a lot easier to visit without The hoopla. Maybe one day the rest of the family will be more open to this kind of lifestyle. I'm glad that she has shared her ideas with me. I was raised Christian, but find truths in all religions. I now don't really claim a religion, however, I am spiritual. The shedding of the dogma has been one of the things that has expanded my being and consciousness. Ok, getting off topic here. I wish all peace, love and a stress free month ;)
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12/02/16 06:10:42AM
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Empaths and "the holidays"


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I'm glad you brought this up. This time of year is already tough due to the lack of sunlight. Then there are so many expectations from family, I always host the family festivities and feel that everything has to be perfect. And oh the disappointment you can feel if someone doesn't get the gift that they were expecting (even though you ask a million times and get the I don't know answer). I mentioned skipping the whole thing this year...due to the stress it causes. They think that I was evil or something. It has all become so commercial and self centered. It's sad really...the whole idea for the season has been pushed aside and all but forgotten in the gimme gimme gimme flurry. I don't like to be so bah humbug but I'm sure that some can relate. Can we just go to another planet for the rest of the month and come back in January? Lol
Thanks for the link to the article Rene, nice to know we're not alone on how we feel.
Blessings to all...sorry for the rant.
updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/02/16 06:14:41AM
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12/02/16 05:54:43AM
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Yeah, I can't find it either. Feeling so un tech savvy, 😕
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12/02/16 05:53:06AM
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I needed a good laugh this morning


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Lol, did anyone notice the people in the pic are politicians! Lol
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12/01/16 06:54:11PM
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Not seeing the speech bubble on the screen...using an iPhone. Haven't viewed it on my computer yet.
 
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