Forum Activity for @cat-whisperer

What is wrong with me?

Empath

Hi, Occasionally we have to let out what is haunting us regardless of how dark it is. I have been where you are years ago. I cannot speak for you but perhaps sharing a small portion of me you can make some sense out of what is going on with you. I do want to ask if you have considered that it could possibly be depression? Reason being is I am no stranger to depression, it runs deep in my family as it is hereditary. What you write shows the hallmarks of depression......just saying.

I am not looking for sympathy here as I have made peace with my troubled past. I have had quite the turbulent life that included being molested as a child, physically abused and emotionally used in my relationships. I have witnessed things that no one should ever be exposed to. This made me react exactly as you have written. I see someone that has been hurt very deeply and doesn’t want it to happen again so you build a wall of sorts and put on the “tough” front as so you will not be injured any more than you have. After a while of doing this, it comes second nature even though it’s not your true essence....the one that feels bad after pushing away. I don’t know how long you and your ex have been separated, but dealing with coming out of a relationship with a narc can affect you negatively for years....been there done that. Maybe write down the nasty message you want to send your ex to get it out of your system, then do a ritual burning of the note....that in itself is very cleansing.

First and foremost, take care of yourself.....treat yourself to something that you like doing and makes you feel good. Get out in nature if you can and just get some fresh air, go for a walk. Soak in a tub of salt water. Perhaps you should look into seeing a doctor to rule out depression. You are not a bad person so don’t tell yourself you are.

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HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE

Empath

@hop-daddy.....oh man did you hit the nail on the head mentioning how it’s hard to be in a relationship with a non empath and how they cannot deal with our roller coaster emotions. I have become way more sensitive than I used to be....not sure if it’s due to my spiritual awakening or the fact that I am not medicating or drinking to numb. Either way I was told by my husband tonight that he doesn’t like what I have become.....ouch! No understanding whatsoever even though I told him it wasn’t my mood but picking up on someone else’s. I’m the same person, but more hyper aware. I am feeling he does not like the bs detector in me, he lies on a daily basis and I have been calling him on it lately instead of just ignoring it as I have for way too many years. There has been a lot of emotions in the air also that I have been picking up on which is making me very moody even though I have been doing self care and grounding. Today was a challenge in particular, I sent a card to someone having a hard time....bam...I was feeling all of their “stuff”. The struggle is real.
Sorry @lastars for highjacking you thread, no one to talk to so it comes flowing out, what hop-daddy posted really hit home
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Don't know what to do :(

Empath

Welcome back @kit-kat..it has been a while. I know I’m late to this discussion but it is because in a sense, it is hitting really close to home. It can be heart wrenching to know that someone is not good for you energetically but yet you still love them. I went against my nagging gut instinct in the beginning, now almost 10 years later, I know what I have to do. It doesn’t make it any easier. I hope that the pain is going away and that you are healing in the process. Just know that you have people here that care for you. Although we all don’t see each other outside the virtualness of this forum, we are all connected as kindred spirits just the same.
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Grounding crystal

Empath

Thanks for sharing @crystalsage 😊
One of my favorites for grounding is magnetized hematite....some call it magnetite, lately I’ve been wearing it around the clock and find I’m much more grounded and centered. If you try it, it’s best to start wearing it slowly as your body has to get used to it gradually...at least in my case. Glad to hear your surviving in your situation. It can be hard to be around family when no one knows that you are an empath and things can get....ummm .....dysfunctional for a lack of better words
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updated by @cat-whisperer: 01/05/18 06:26:08PM

Happy New Year!

Empath

@rene
Glad to see you back...you have been missed 💖❤️💜

Empaths and Dreams

Empath

@crystalsage
I also believe that we are older souls than most. I have been able to reach a dream state while meditating too. I have yet to astral project....I came close once during meditation but fear kept me from completely leaving my body. Perhaps I was not ready then, it was about a year ago but haven’t really tried since.

@tigerlily
Forgot to mention something else rather curious. Not really related to dreaming...or perhaps it is. I have been told that I speak in tongues on occasion in my sleep. The oddest thing about that is when it happens, I will not remember a dream connected to the event....won’t evern remember dreaming on those nights. My husband will tell me in the morning after those nights that it sounds like some kind of foreign language which he doesn’t understand. Makes me wonder what is going on in the spiritual world when that happens.
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Happy New Year!

Empath

Not really, just living my truth 😉

Happy New Year!

Empath

Happy new year for all of my kindred spirits in the community!
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Empaths and Dreams

Empath

After posting realized I didn’t mention visitation dreams...those are like visiting with deceased family. It only happened once, with my mother....it was a wonderful “dream”....lots of closure with that one Blessings

Spirit in my house?

Psychic and Paranormal

@hop-daddy
I have various ear sounds, ranging from the high pitch in one ear to a low hum in both, which usually happens when I get stressed out or am around too many people. At times I even get a sound that sounds like an electrical short. The first time that happened I was sure there was an electrical problem in the house....spent all day trying to seek it out, just to find it happened again driving in the car which made me realize it was something other than a physical thing. I’m curious too as to whether some of theses sounds are from spirits.
Side note....the first time the electrical short noise showed up was at around 3am....woke me out of sleep thinking there might be a problem in the walls :/
I have heard the high pitch sound off and on my entire life. I have had my hearing checked many times just to have the docs tell me I had better hearing than most....go figure

@curious-child
Things are calming down for me, lots of self care....soaking in salt baths and just time alone along with wearing extra crystals 24/7

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updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/31/17 07:21:16AM

Empaths and Dreams

Empath

@tigerlily
I have some crazy vivid dreams too. I also remember them in detail. For me, it appears that I have different types of dreams I can have premonition dreams, message dreams, then there’s the usual ordinary dreams stemming from the previous few days events. Each type of dream feels different to me which makes me be able to sort them out. Sometimes, however, it takes a while to figure out the messages but I am usually able to do so on pondering the nights dream session.
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Spirit in my house?

Psychic and Paranormal

@curious-child
I can relate to the birthdays in December, there are a lot of them in my immediate family...it can be rather tiring along with all the Christmas celebrations that go along with December. I find myself dealing with empath burnout that @hop-daddy mentioned in another thread right now due to all the “peopling” I had to do.

Taking notes is a great way to figure out what is going on with you....although there is a lot of good reference info here, and even others that have had similar experiences....we are all different so we might possibly experience the same things but take away different meanings of such. You’ve got the take it all in then figure out what reasonates with you.

For instance, for me, the high pitched noise I hear in my right ear appears to be from my spiritual awakening....the ascension process which resonates with me.

We are all on a self discovery journey at this time....I still learn and discover new things every day. The Universe and Guides will steer you in the right direction....you just have to be alert and pay attention.

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Spirit in my house?

Psychic and Paranormal

From my experience specific smells that no one else can smell, which happens quite often for me is related to being clairscent. I have included a link to explanations on all the clairs below. It happens when I am being visited by the deceased. On occasion it will be from sensing something going to happen....for instance, smelling rubber in the car and seeing someone get a blowout several minutes later, or smelling smoke and finding out someone’s house burnt that I know.

The ear thing, you might want to rule out any medical conditions first, but it can be a variety of spiritual issues...you might want to google to research more and see what resonates with you.

http://www.quantumpossibilities.biz/clairs.htm

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Spirit in my house?

Psychic and Paranormal

@curious-child
Everyone is doing ok....it happened a couple of months ago, so time is starting to heal for the family.

I like your new screen name 😊

Get plenty of rest, rest heals the body and soul. We cannot get too much this time of year

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Understanding Major Depression And Suicide

Empath

@hop-daddy
What a wonderful idea to post this....yes, it is dark but sometimes we have to look into the dark to find the light. Good time of year to do it also, the lack of sunlight in the northern hemisphere coupled with the pressure of the holidays and just the sad state of what seem to be the whole world.

I have had depression pretty much all my life, runs in the family. My grandpa committed suicide when I was a child. I have been on depression medication for over 20 years....occasionally I will be able to wean myself off of it but I alway seem to manage having to take it again, albeit a much lower dose than years ago. We as empaths seem to have lower energies seeping into our bodies just from the environment so we have to remember to take care of ourselves. This is not selfish but necessary. I do feel I need to mention medication....I take one that has been on the market since the 60’s...tried and true. It appears that some of the newer medications seem to have a side effect which I find disturbing. This is causing thoughts of suicide. This to me seems crazy that something you are taking for depression would cause such thoughts as the two go hand in hand. Just last week an acquaintance had that very same thing happen. The drug that he was taking was his ultimate demise...sad. If someone is considering treatment, don’t hesitate to ask for something that has been on the market a while rather than what is popular at the time. Not saying that this would happen to anyone else taking the newer drugs, but still something to be considered.

The spiritual article resonated with me for a few years ago I was very suicidal, had a life threatening car accident (not on purpose) which I did meet my guardian angel that let me know it was not my time. I had never felt so loved and calm as when he was there helping me. Since that time my thoughts don’t go there.....thankfully. To this day I do not see the accident as bad...it was a message delivered to me personally by The angelic realm. It literally changed my life....also the beginning of my awakening. Everyone needs to remember that no situation will last forever, we need to keep this in mind that “this too shall pass”. So when we are feeling in the depths of hell, that just like a roller coaster, you will go back up to the top eventually. To anyone reading this that is in the dark mire of depression.....you are never as alone as you feel.
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updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/22/17 06:08:03AM

Are you an open book or not?

Empath

“I can be myself with my wife and some close friends. But honestly, I don't feel like anyone truly knows or understands me. I feel lonely a lot but at the same time find strength in my solace and can find being around groups annoying. I get this feeling that I don't fit in with most people but yet am pretty well received by others (it's more of a feeling that I am very different). And when I go through tough times I find that I am largely ignored and have to fend for myself. But as you noted, when people need help or want something I am the first one they call. I mostly come to this site for support and read a lot to understand the phases and challenges of being an empath. But I do know that all of these feelings and traits are classic empath traits. I'm past the point of feeling sorry for myself wondering why I have to be like this. And instead am on the path exploring and using my empathy to grow and help others. It makes it easier on bad days to have experienced the good days with my empathy”
Wow @hop-daddy! I couldn’t have stated my thoughts and feelings any better than you just did...kindred spirits perhaps
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Spirit in my house?

Psychic and Paranormal

@hop-daddy
I am like you, I normally don’t see them...my hearing, smell and emotional feeling kick in though. It seems as if you have something in common emotionally it is easier for the attachment. It took quit a while for me to “send him on” but I feel that he has transitioned now.
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Spirit in my house?

Psychic and Paranormal

@curious-child
I get the body heating up also....I call it power surges, lol. Ringing in my ears is more of a high pitched tone. I use to draw a lot when I was younger but the urge left me for years. Just recently I have picked up a pencil again and sketch what I see while meditating.
Not to freak you out, but the deceased can also for an attachment with a person. I have just realized that someone had attached to me....this is something that I have come to realize just recently. My daughter in law’s brother had committed suicide....I had visited his dad, a couple of days later I had an urge for a cigarette and started smoking...my mannerism changed. Didn’t realize what was going on for a while but then realized I was mirroring Brad. My husband brought it to my attention. Funny thing....my cats were acting differently with me....kinda like they didn’t know me. Anyhow, did a complete cleansing ritual....I am back to my good old self....and the cats are back to hanging out on my lap again. Getting off topic a little here..... I believe that these lost souls get afraid of crossing over and seek us out for help.

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Spirit in my house?

Psychic and Paranormal

Glad you are feeling better with everything. It takes practice to settle into what works for you. It is good that you are not afraid of your experiences. I have found that lately I have had the urge to draw after meditation. It is interesting the things that go into the paper that I reflect back on that have helped me advance my meditation even deeper. Kinda like a journal of sorts. Like womanwhowalks mentioned, the best thing to do is let your intuition guide you on what needs to be done
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Sensory Overload Throughout December

Empath

Yes, @hana kinda makes you want to just skip over the whole month of December, lol
Not just the energy influx but also the stress of all of the funk going on lately....people are maxed out right now. We just all have to remember to take care of ourselves as we cannot pour from an empty cup. Whatever we have to do...soak in salt, meditate, get out in nature or just treat ourselves to things that just make us feel all warm and fuzzy inside or all of the above or whatever else resonates. We can do this as we are all survivors
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updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/18/17 11:55:56AM

Are you an open book or not?

Empath

@ohana
You stated it well...overstimulated and fried. December seems to be a constant array of people interactions....parties, recitals, shopping, etc
Enough to make anyone run for the hills...and the energies now are off the charts
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Are you an open book or not?

Empath

Hi, as for me.....I wear my heart on my sleeve, always have
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Accepting my abilities

Empath

Welcome to the EC!
I personally don’t see colors that way, it sounds to me like you are seeing auras.
There seems to be a lot of strong energies around at this time.....it is creating anxiety and exhaustion as well. Be sure to take care of yourself during times like theses.....go out and enjoy nature, take a salt bath, have some alone time so you can recharge your battery
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Empaths and Indulgence

Empath

Keep in mind that the Universe and your guides do not judge....that is just a human affliction. Spiritual beings are in unconditional love to where there is no judging, only understanding
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Empaths and Indulgence

Empath

https://starmanspeaks.com/2015/12/15/my-relationship-with-weed-a-psychic-mediums-take-on-marijuana/
Hi, this discussion reminded me of a link discussing the herb on another thread here, so I thought I’d share.
I like the herb also but since becoming aware of my empathness, I do not indulge as much as I used too....and I definitely don’t do it if I am going to meditate. I used to use it to numb myself, now I use it if I know I’m going to be in a stressful situation because it does numb the sensitivity to outside energy to a certain degree. I will also use it medicinally due to the fact that my digestive system is pretty much jacked up on a daily basis so it helps stimulate my appetite.... if I really get hit with toxic bad energy it can be days before I feel like eating
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I'm so suicidal right now

Empath

I have been where you are....it is very tiring to constantly be used. To totally lose faith in all of humanity. Please don’t harm yourself, I know this is rather cliche but I am still inclined to mention that this too will pass.
I recently had my trust shattered as well....not an easy thing to deal with. We just have to take things day by day.....
You are a good person, worthy of love and respect. Take care of yourself now.....to leave this plane of existence in your state will only bring more suffering for you
Blessings to you

How does it feel 'from the other side'? - Dumping Emotions on me

Empath

“The funny thing is I was completely fine when we met, until this one kiss happened”
As an empath, any kind of intimate contact greatly increases the energy exchange flow....it is like intertwining your energies as one. With that being said, you have to be very careful being intimate as an empath as it does tie you to the other person energywise.

The drugs....this is an issue as well. Speaking from someone who has been there and done that. I went for years numbing myself due to being totally unaware of the fact that all of that crap wasn’t mine to carry. It did lower my energy and also drew the wrong people toward me as well. Now I don’t drink or do drugs....it just makes me feel sick. As you become more aware of your energy, you may also fine yourself feeling stoned around such activity since it does lower your energy. We have a tendency to align frequency with whom ever we are around if your not careful.
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Should I tell him more?

Empath

I can understand how your feel, as my husband was very close minded also. He has however come around to realizing that there are some things that defy conditioned logic. But as @krosskelt mentioned, it may not be well received by your boyfriend without actually experiencing things firsthand. This goes back to the skeptic thing.....which for the most part....they have to “see” to believe. Which in my case is what has brought my husband around and opened his eyes to our world. By firsthand experiencing the empathness. With me I didn’t realize that I was an empath until well into out marriage. Synchronicity led me to read several books and stumbling across this site. I did share parts of the books on being an empath with my husband which opened the conversation about the subject. When before long the things I read to him....he would comment “That’s so you!” Perhaps that might be a good way to break the ice on the subject.
As @womanwhowalks mentioned, you don’t want to go into marriage with secrets. Especially when it involves your very being. If he is really the one meant for you, he should accept all of you. But this is something that you should think very deep about to find your answer. I hope you the best.
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Wondering if this has happened to anyone else

Empath

Yes, @patty, you are not the only one. Whenever my father has medical issues I have all the pain and symptoms.....and he lives several states away. I haven’t found anything that alleviates the pain and symptoms (except temporarily, see below) other than when my father gets well, the pain and symptoms go away. Last year for several months I could not eat without getting severely sick. I narrowed it down to trial and error throughout the summer that any time I ate anything with a substantial amount of grease, this would happen. Burgers, fries, even certain salad dressings. I pretty much could only eat veggies. Dining out at restaurants was the worst since they all pretty much use low grade oils for frying and such. This went on through the fall months when I found out from my sister that Dad was having similar attacks. Come to find out, he was having a lot of pancreas issues that were not detected until fall. He had to have major surgery to remove stones in his pancreas. After he had the surgery my issues got better. During this time I had went to doctors myself thinking I had medical issues but I always got the diagnosis that I had nothing wrong......go figure.

From my experience, this seems to be common with blood relatives, especially if you are close to that person. It sounds like you are a physical empath. Which means that not only are you sensitive to emotions but physical issues as well.

What I did find that helped me though the pain is the use of crystals. I have used them to diagnose whether I was really sick or if it is a ummm....spiritual issue. What I have found is, in my case with stomach issues I used Citrine. I would lay the Citrine on my stomach area, after about 20-30 minutes the pain would go away....thus....spiritual issue. If it doesn’t take the pain away, I know it is an actual medical issue so I would take appropriate actions.

I hope this helps.....if nothing else, at least it is validation for what you are experiencing.

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updated by @cat-whisperer: 11/14/17 06:29:11AM

Energy.....and Bar Codes...

Psychic and Paranormal

Wow! That was very enlightening.....and concerning to say the least. You must be a very sensitive soul.....I cannot detect anything from them personally.
It did bring up something in my subconscious though. A little off topic but I feel it might be related. There are a lot more cases of autism now than ever before but no one can seem to explain why. If you have ever known anyone on the autism spectrum they are also very sensitive indeed. Perhaps the bar codes are the smoking gun on that. Just something that popped into my head...
I’m glad that you and your kitty are doing better. What deep perception you have to track down those pesky codes. I will never look at anything I buy the same way,
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An Important Message

Empath

I can feel it, but was chalking it up to recent injury and perhaps negative energy chords that have attached to me from various sources as well. Regardless of the source, I have literally not been able to keep my energy up despite smudging, salting, meditation and chord cutting. It is as if it has “moved in” to my energy field. I am seeing a little bit of lightness coming back but it has been a struggle. When I read your original post, I felt that I couldn’t even muster the kind of energy needed to help in any way, but felt your urgency. Is it possible that these entities are attacking light workers that have a weakened energy field to decrease the numbers? Idk, nevertheless we’re all in for a crazy ride!
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Seeing Faces When Falling Asleep

Psychic and Paranormal

I have the same thing happen to me. None of the faces I see are of anyone I know. It always baffled me as to who and where they are and why am I seeing them. As with you two, it’s usually when I’m about to go to sleep or in meditation. On occasion it’s just any time I close my eyes. Animals I see when meditating, which like womanwhowalks mentioned are my guides. I am glad to have some suggestions on who or what is going on with them and to know I’m not the only one......and not going crazy, lol

I have had my mother visit me in a dream a while back. It wasn’t your every day usual dream, but an actual visitation. Different kinds of dreams have different feels. It was great to see her and know she made it ok....she was very afraid of dying. I woke up so happy to know I had seen her one last time She hasn’t visited my dreams since but on occasion I do know she’s near. Getting off topic here, lol
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updated by @cat-whisperer: 11/08/17 06:34:49AM

What Are Your Favorite Empath/Medium/Psychic Movies?

Empath


Great movie, thanks for suggesting.

What Are Your Favorite Empath/Medium/Psychic Movies?

Empath

Another one that I forgot about until I just ran across it is The Mothman Prophecies. Not about an empath per se but does show the difficulties of “knowing” things and how the general public treats those sort of things and the people that “know”.
The movie is based on happenings in my home state of WV, although not exactly following true to actual events or places. It happened longer ago that the movie suggests, some other details have also been changed. I do remember stories of this as a child, my parents knew of people that saw it too....a lot of people saw this thing. They built another bridge not far from the one that collapsed, not in the same location. I just remember being on my parents boat when we would get around that area and getting the creeps.....like you could feel the tragedy.....every single time.
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What Are Your Favorite Empath/Medium/Psychic Movies?

Empath

@hop-daddy
I’ll have to watch that one, it happens to be on Dish now. I had stayed in the hotel that inspired the movie years ago....neat place

Trapped in Webs W/ Spiders

Psychic and Paranormal

@womanwhowalks
Thanks for the heads up! Yes, I am dealing with something very dark right now.....was wondering where it came from. Smudged, salted, cut cords but it only seems to last a few hours. Doesn’t help that I am also dealing with 3 fractures in my pelvic area right now, so I am kinda weak.....and it knows it. More energy work today....exhausting......but this too shall pass....and go away!
Going to light the Palo Santo
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updated by @cat-whisperer: 11/07/17 07:14:26AM

Know Your Value: Who are you? Really...

Psychic and Paranormal

@zacharias quote I have a strong resentment toward all people, but I love them.
I can sooo relate. I do forgive over and over even when they continue to wallow in the sewer. And the helping....do that too despite the non appreciation. There are some that appreciate, then there are others that appreciate on occasion. At times it makes me feel as though I’m just a doormat but then I realize that this is what is meant by unconditional love...which we all must embrace if we are to evolve as a species. That feel of unconditional love keeps me going. Not religious per se but reminds me of the quote, “Forgive them for they know not what they do.” The bulk of humanity has yet to wake up, who are we to judge?
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Intuition vs. assumption

Empath

@zacharias is right, intuition will come when not thinking about it. So, yes, it comes from the heart/solar plexus whereas assumption comes from the head...or to be more exact, the ego self, which resides in the head. First impression would be more the intuition....then unfortunately the ego starts to “reason” which then makes you doubt the intuition.
Have you ever had those first impressions just to reason it away...then go back to say....I wish I would have listened to my gut? More times than I can count, but getting a lot better at telling the ego to shut up, lol.
updated by @cat-whisperer: 11/06/17 06:43:13AM

Trapped in Webs W/ Spiders

Psychic and Paranormal

I believe you....and I don’t think you are crazy. The bulk of society is conditioned to not believe what they cannot sense with their 5 senses. That mental conditioning is what makes discussing the paranormal so taboo. It is a gift if you have a handle on it, however, it can be perceived as a curse when things get out of control, which in your case seems to be true. I wish you all the best in dealing with this entity.
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Great article about energy

Empath

@hop-daddy, there have been several people in my life that have that affect on me and still some in my life, you have to limit your time with them. I do believe that most people are totally unaware that they do this, however, there are others that you know it’s an intentional act.

@tundra2, whenever I am feeling drained and tired and it’s not from not getting enough rest, the first thing I do is search my recent interactions in my mind to find out the culprit so I can avoid them next time. However, sometimes it’s immediately apparent who the drain is.
updated by @cat-whisperer: 10/30/17 10:21:34AM

Trapped in Webs W/ Spiders

Psychic and Paranormal

Seeing that this thing seems to be following you, it would be a good idea to smudge yourself as well if you decide to go the smudging route. Perhaps this thing is draining your energy is why you feel drained and tired all the time. The medical issues....have you seen a medical professional to get a diagnosis? With me, I have in the past had medical issues that the medical professionals didn’t seem to find anything wrong. In that case it was clear to me it was a for lack of better words, a spiritual issue. I am hesitant to say paranormal as with me, I am a physical empath...which means I pick up others’ medical issues as my own. Is it possible that you might be also? It also could be this thing, as really strong entities can make you sick. Too many things going on right now with you too be able to tell. Since realizing this I can deal with it in other ways. Most clear up when the person that has the issue gets medical treatment. This happens quite a bit with my father. Off track here.....
Since electronic devices are malfunctioning along with your drain of energy.....this thing is using you and the gadgets to feed itself....not good. I personally feel that it is malicious and needs to be put in check. Constantly shielding from this thing is also going to wear you down. You might also try seeking out a Reiki master to assist you with this if it is too much to handle on your own. Time to use alternative methods in my opinion.
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updated by @cat-whisperer: 10/29/17 06:32:58AM

Trapped in Webs W/ Spiders

Psychic and Paranormal

For what it’s worth, I’m no expert but I would be getting some white sage and do some major smudging. I would also get some black tourlamine for good measure...and wear it all the time. If you cannot find these items locally you can purchase them from the net. There are also sites that explain the proper way to smudge if you are not familiar with the practice. I also sleep with an amethyst crystal geode next to my bed to keep bad visions/dreams at bay.
Good luck to you on ridding yourself of this invader.
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Great article about energy

Empath

Found an article worthy of sharing
https://www.elephantjournal.com/2017/09/why-highly-sensitive-souls-become-fatigued-around-certain-people/

Enjoy....
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updated by @cat-whisperer: 10/26/17 06:36:43AM

Other’s emotions presenting as physical injury?

Empath

Epsome salt every day with sea salt to keep grounded. Bloodstone, Lapis and Carnilian for good measure.... no pain meds now. I don’t like the heavy narcotics the docs gave me for pain although the first few days it was a necessary evil.

Perhaps some day you will get your horse.....keep thinking about it.....all the time.....manifest it! 😉
updated by @cat-whisperer: 10/21/17 02:26:42PM

Other’s emotions presenting as physical injury?

Empath

@womanwhowalks
Thanks for the insight. I didn’t feel any presence, but then again a lot of times I don’t. It was definitely out of the blue and out of character for her. Just trying to get better at this point....I already miss riding. I still go out and hang out with the horses though, I know it wasn’t her fault.
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Other’s emotions presenting as physical injury?

Empath

@loconnoro
Funny thing is both me and my horse were laid back on the ride home....I can feel when she is tense. Quite the contrary she was super laid back. There was none of that on either part.....I held the funk (kinda like I had it contained in a hollow crystal ball) but it was not affecting me adversely. My intent was to rid myself of it when I got home...instead it was a trip to the hospital.
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updated by @cat-whisperer: 10/20/17 06:11:48AM

Can a space affect an empath?

Empath

Hi @k8, welcome to the EC! Another great resource that was not mentioned but is very noteworthy is a book written by our very own @trevor-lewis “Thriving As An Empath”
It is a wonderful book for the newly discovered empath with lots of great tools and advice. Even after one read, it’s a great look back for reference guide. Not one that you would read and just put away.
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Other’s emotions presenting as physical injury?

Empath

I’m glad you are receptive to my reasoning....and although some might be turned off by it...I guess I can say....testing...1,2,3 😊 But yes, like you, my analytical mind gets in the way of my intuition a lot, although my intuition is starting to win that battle. Seems the more I listen to it and heed it, the stronger it gets.

As for my daughter in law’s father, he wasn’t with me the entire ride. I stopped by his house on the way back home.

My horse is my favorite grounding “technique”. I can have the worst day....go for a ride....it’s gone. I joke that my horse is my therapist 😂. Horses do pick up stuff, but they have a way of dissipating it. Lightbulb moment! I have just never witnessed the dissipation process. since perhaps when she feels my stuff she is in “therapist” mode, I don’t see anything but tenderness from her. This was someone else’s junk....perhaps another reason I didn’t feel his funk. Oh bless her heart! I was so focused on helping him, didn’t realize what I was putting her through

Thanks again for your feedback @hop-daddy....we are on a continual learning process. 😉
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Other’s emotions presenting as physical injury?

Empath

I want to add....whenever I post for this kind of feedback I am hesitant to divulge too much information at first as I don’t want to influence anyone’s initial feels that might be pertinent to my questions asked. Kinda like they do on The Dead Files.
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updated by @cat-whisperer: 10/19/17 09:41:31AM

Other’s emotions presenting as physical injury?

Empath

@hop-daddy thanks for your response. Whenever I am trying to help someone I do get into a good place...and well guarded. I think that is why I felt so at peace because I did provide relief. Same feel I get when I am sitting with the dying.
Your right, it was probably just a random event. With my analytical mind, I always try to make sense of happenings and find a connection.
I feel that I need to tell more detail of the incident to really shed light on it. I was on my horse, doing what we’ve done several times before. She was even pretty laid back so we were just relaxing walking at a real slow pace when she lunges forward out of the blue.....this is something she never does. Anyhow, as she lunged forward I fell.....hard. She even turned to look at me while I laid on the ground trying to get air back in my lungs and just stood there. Crazy as she never spooks like that, and when she does, it’s not a forward lunge but more of a flinch and stand still. Your right, probably just a random event. Just trying to make sense of it all. I know there are reasons for everything that happens, most of the time it’s easy for me to see the reasons. But this time I cannot.
I have even considered that she perhaps felt the funk, and that is what caused her to do this, as horses are very intuitive by nature. She was very relaxed as he petted her while we talked though. Things that make you go hmmmm.
Next time I go on a mission like that I think I’ll leave her at home.
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updated by @cat-whisperer: 10/19/17 07:12:23AM