Forum Activity for @cat-whisperer

Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
08/30/18 05:04:42AM
764 posts

Left, right, or both


Empath

@crystalsage
I use both left and right too...although I was born a lefty, the school I went to made me use my right hand. I write with my right hand, but like you, some things just feel more natural using my left.
@hop-daddy
When I’m overloaded it seems to leak from everywhere....but if intentionally directing it, as like helping others, is when it comes from my right. Discovered this while sitting with terminally ill patients. First noticed this while sitting with my dying mother years ago....before I realized that I was an empath.
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
08/29/18 11:54:36AM
764 posts

Left, right, or both


Empath

For me, it comes in on my left, leaves on my right. I don’t know if this has anything to do with it, but I was born left handed. As far as crystals go, if I need the energy from it I will wear it on my left hand...if I need to send the energy out....right

With that said, I’m curious....were you born left or right handed?

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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
08/27/18 07:32:24AM
764 posts

PK abilities?


Psychic and Paranormal

I want to send a heartfelt thank you out to everyone that has given advice and support on this issue.....it means a lot!! Long road but do see Light at the end of the tunnel as he is still drug free, employed and learning how to manage his emotions for the most part. He is soon to be moving out with a place of his own, which will give some distance so I can really recharge.

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updated by @cat-whisperer: 08/27/18 07:35:39AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
08/27/18 07:28:54AM
764 posts

PK abilities?


Psychic and Paranormal

Hop Daddy:

@cat-whisperer:

You never know how your life path is so supposed to go. But along those lines, you fixing your son, could be a major milestone in your life. It is not only an enormous challenge, but you will develop the experience in addition to potential new skills to apply that to others later in your life. You may just be getting advanced on the job training to heal a very damaged person. There aren't many that can do that, so my hat is off to you!


Thank you @Hop-daddy <3
Have had to take a hiatus from everything to channel my energy on the task at hand. The PK activity has subsided however still working with a very damaged and toxic person. He is improving but still a long road ahead. Chord pulling has been very helpful but it it something I have to do quite often to stay balanced, as well as using my crystals, salt, sage and Palo Santo.
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
06/28/18 11:36:42AM
764 posts

PK abilities?


Psychic and Paranormal

@womanwhowalks
Thank you for the much needed advice. Just knowing that the cords are there make it easier to deal with. I have not been able to perform this yet as my life is so hectic right now it’s crazy.....it is hard to get time to do this as my hubby already thinks this is all really weird so waiting for him to not be around for the removal (he was ok with me doing what he called....er.....hocus locus, but now there are two of us around and it creeps him out....staunch Christian beliefs) lol

@hop-daddy
Everything you mentioned rings so true....I am loving him through this as Zacharias mentioned. This has been the greatest test so far as really learning how to stay centered and grounded....and transmuting all of the past BS. He is responding well to the positive energy that I try to keep flowing. He is also working with crystals that is also helping

Thank everyone so much for the input and support through this difficult time.....what doesn’t break us makes us stronger!

Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
06/25/18 07:28:15AM
764 posts

PK abilities?


Psychic and Paranormal

@womanwhowalks Thanks for the chord cutting advice....I have cleansed him with sage, Palo Santo and salt, all of which he asked me to do. I have suggested chord cutting to him and he agreed....after I explained to him what has been occurring. I am always hesitant to do energetic things without a request for such as to not infringe on free will. It had never occurred to me that his dad could be the drain...but in retrospect it is him. The energy I feel from my son feels just like his dad, which I had chalked up to my son just picking up traits from his dad and reminding me of him. My son in the past seemed narcissistic but now I see that he is just starved for love and attention since he has had very little of this since my divorce from his dad years ago. My son has a very good nature all in all...just extremely damaged.....I believe that good nature is why his frustrations come out and affects electronic gadgets rather than taking it out on others.....or himself which he has done in the past

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updated by @cat-whisperer: 06/25/18 07:31:15AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
06/24/18 01:23:00PM
764 posts

PK abilities?


Psychic and Paranormal

@zacharias - His name is Tony, thank you for the offer to pray for him. I am for the most part letting the negative energy flow through and I release it into the ground, however, he is also very good at draining energy...something that I know he does unconsciously, so I sometimes find myself a little to depleted to do so effectively.

@hermes - We have found a lot of similarities between the two of us which I do feel is helping him open up...the problem lies mostly in his hard wired fight or flight instinct, which on occasion depleats me as well, and then it is a lot harder to channel positive energy and stay non judgemental.

It has been a long few days, as we have also had my 2 year old granddaughter/his daughter the last several days which my son is very happy about this but he is not the most responsible person, so in actuality it has been like taking care of two children at once. Now since I have finally found a time to recharge (something that he doesn’t seem to understand) alone at last! Spending time with my cats, who have not been around much since all of the human traffic in the house, haha. I am finding my center again. Thank you both for responding. I hope he starts to realize his worth and start loving himself rather than seeking attention from outside sources....something that it has taken me years to discover. Perhaps with the guidance, it will not take him as long. All I can do is reinforce that he is loved here and that he is free from the hell that has been his life until now.

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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
06/21/18 08:36:14PM
764 posts

PK abilities?


Psychic and Paranormal

Recently my adult son came to live with me. I need to give a little background as to understand the severity of his deep rooted issues. I apologize in advance if this triggers anything in anyone.....He has had a very turbulent past since childhood due to his narcissist father gaining custody of him when he was small to use as a pawn for monetary gain....I had to pay child support. The manner in which he gained custody was heartbreaking.....he was pretty much isolated from me and according to what my son  has told me, he pretty much grew up in the street....neighbor to neighbor because his dad would tell him to go away and not bother him. Anyhow....you get the gist.

Fast forward 20 years....he has come to live with me after a drug overdose, so I’m really trying to make this whole dynamic work, his dad didn’t even show concern when he found out about the overdose so if feel that I am his only hope, but, whenever my son gets extremely agitated he will set off my weather radio and the lights dim or flicker. He sets off the fax machine as well....kinda chirps like when lightning strikes close by. 

This is very concerning to me since I soak up energy so easily. I have been hyper vigilant on protecting myself, however, on occasion it is extremely hard. He has told me that this happens to him on a regular basis.

I have observed that when he had to go to his dad’s house to get some of his belongings, it happened afterward, then also after dealing with his ex. I have been discussing with him that he needs to let these feeling out and talk but he keeps everything inside, which I believe is contributing to the issue.

Has anyone else out there have any experience with such, or just want to give some input?

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updated by @cat-whisperer: 08/04/18 12:03:22AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
06/20/18 07:59:48AM
764 posts

Empathy


Empath

I went through that phase when I first discovered my empathness....as you become more aware of who you are, you will build confidence that the “unseen” is just as validated as the “seen”.....a kind of proving it to yourself period
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
06/08/18 07:35:41PM
764 posts

The 6 Types of Psychic Empaths


Empath

@hop-daddy
Great article....thanks for sharing :) I can definitely say that 1, 2 and 4 are my dominant traits. Forgot that they all had specific names, lol
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
01/07/18 06:25:47PM
764 posts

What is wrong with me?


Empath

Hi, Occasionally we have to let out what is haunting us regardless of how dark it is. I have been where you are years ago. I cannot speak for you but perhaps sharing a small portion of me you can make some sense out of what is going on with you. I do want to ask if you have considered that it could possibly be depression? Reason being is I am no stranger to depression, it runs deep in my family as it is hereditary. What you write shows the hallmarks of depression......just saying.

I am not looking for sympathy here as I have made peace with my troubled past. I have had quite the turbulent life that included being molested as a child, physically abused and emotionally used in my relationships. I have witnessed things that no one should ever be exposed to. This made me react exactly as you have written. I see someone that has been hurt very deeply and doesn’t want it to happen again so you build a wall of sorts and put on the “tough” front as so you will not be injured any more than you have. After a while of doing this, it comes second nature even though it’s not your true essence....the one that feels bad after pushing away. I don’t know how long you and your ex have been separated, but dealing with coming out of a relationship with a narc can affect you negatively for years....been there done that. Maybe write down the nasty message you want to send your ex to get it out of your system, then do a ritual burning of the note....that in itself is very cleansing.

First and foremost, take care of yourself.....treat yourself to something that you like doing and makes you feel good. Get out in nature if you can and just get some fresh air, go for a walk. Soak in a tub of salt water. Perhaps you should look into seeing a doctor to rule out depression. You are not a bad person so don’t tell yourself you are.

Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
01/06/18 08:51:27PM
764 posts

HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE


Empath

@hop-daddy.....oh man did you hit the nail on the head mentioning how it’s hard to be in a relationship with a non empath and how they cannot deal with our roller coaster emotions. I have become way more sensitive than I used to be....not sure if it’s due to my spiritual awakening or the fact that I am not medicating or drinking to numb. Either way I was told by my husband tonight that he doesn’t like what I have become.....ouch! No understanding whatsoever even though I told him it wasn’t my mood but picking up on someone else’s. I’m the same person, but more hyper aware. I am feeling he does not like the bs detector in me, he lies on a daily basis and I have been calling him on it lately instead of just ignoring it as I have for way too many years. There has been a lot of emotions in the air also that I have been picking up on which is making me very moody even though I have been doing self care and grounding. Today was a challenge in particular, I sent a card to someone having a hard time....bam...I was feeling all of their “stuff”. The struggle is real.
Sorry @lastars for highjacking you thread, no one to talk to so it comes flowing out, what hop-daddy posted really hit home
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
01/05/18 07:14:30PM
764 posts

Don't know what to do :(


Empath

Welcome back @kit-kat..it has been a while. I know I’m late to this discussion but it is because in a sense, it is hitting really close to home. It can be heart wrenching to know that someone is not good for you energetically but yet you still love them. I went against my nagging gut instinct in the beginning, now almost 10 years later, I know what I have to do. It doesn’t make it any easier. I hope that the pain is going away and that you are healing in the process. Just know that you have people here that care for you. Although we all don’t see each other outside the virtualness of this forum, we are all connected as kindred spirits just the same.
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
01/05/18 06:23:22PM
764 posts

Grounding crystal


Empath

Thanks for sharing @crystalsage 😊
One of my favorites for grounding is magnetized hematite....some call it magnetite, lately I’ve been wearing it around the clock and find I’m much more grounded and centered. If you try it, it’s best to start wearing it slowly as your body has to get used to it gradually...at least in my case. Glad to hear your surviving in your situation. It can be hard to be around family when no one knows that you are an empath and things can get....ummm .....dysfunctional for a lack of better words
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updated by @cat-whisperer: 01/05/18 06:26:08PM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
01/04/18 11:35:56AM
764 posts

Happy New Year!


Empath

@rene
Glad to see you back...you have been missed 💖❤️💜
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
01/01/18 08:48:25PM
764 posts

Empaths and Dreams


Empath

@crystalsage
I also believe that we are older souls than most. I have been able to reach a dream state while meditating too. I have yet to astral project....I came close once during meditation but fear kept me from completely leaving my body. Perhaps I was not ready then, it was about a year ago but haven’t really tried since.

@tigerlily
Forgot to mention something else rather curious. Not really related to dreaming...or perhaps it is. I have been told that I speak in tongues on occasion in my sleep. The oddest thing about that is when it happens, I will not remember a dream connected to the event....won’t evern remember dreaming on those nights. My husband will tell me in the morning after those nights that it sounds like some kind of foreign language which he doesn’t understand. Makes me wonder what is going on in the spiritual world when that happens.
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
01/01/18 08:30:32PM
764 posts

Happy New Year!


Empath

Not really, just living my truth 😉
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
01/01/18 07:44:40AM
764 posts

Happy New Year!


Empath

Happy new year for all of my kindred spirits in the community!
❤️💛💚💙💜💖
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/31/17 01:44:12PM
764 posts

Empaths and Dreams


Empath

After posting realized I didn’t mention visitation dreams...those are like visiting with deceased family. It only happened once, with my mother....it was a wonderful “dream”....lots of closure with that one Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/31/17 06:49:05AM
764 posts

Spirit in my house?


Psychic and Paranormal

@hop-daddy
I have various ear sounds, ranging from the high pitch in one ear to a low hum in both, which usually happens when I get stressed out or am around too many people. At times I even get a sound that sounds like an electrical short. The first time that happened I was sure there was an electrical problem in the house....spent all day trying to seek it out, just to find it happened again driving in the car which made me realize it was something other than a physical thing. I’m curious too as to whether some of theses sounds are from spirits.
Side note....the first time the electrical short noise showed up was at around 3am....woke me out of sleep thinking there might be a problem in the walls :/
I have heard the high pitch sound off and on my entire life. I have had my hearing checked many times just to have the docs tell me I had better hearing than most....go figure

@curious-child
Things are calming down for me, lots of self care....soaking in salt baths and just time alone along with wearing extra crystals 24/7

Blessings
updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/31/17 07:21:16AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/31/17 06:36:20AM
764 posts

Empaths and Dreams


Empath

@tigerlily
I have some crazy vivid dreams too. I also remember them in detail. For me, it appears that I have different types of dreams I can have premonition dreams, message dreams, then there’s the usual ordinary dreams stemming from the previous few days events. Each type of dream feels different to me which makes me be able to sort them out. Sometimes, however, it takes a while to figure out the messages but I am usually able to do so on pondering the nights dream session.
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/29/17 11:06:14AM
764 posts

Spirit in my house?


Psychic and Paranormal

@curious-child
I can relate to the birthdays in December, there are a lot of them in my immediate family...it can be rather tiring along with all the Christmas celebrations that go along with December. I find myself dealing with empath burnout that @hop-daddy mentioned in another thread right now due to all the “peopling” I had to do.

Taking notes is a great way to figure out what is going on with you....although there is a lot of good reference info here, and even others that have had similar experiences....we are all different so we might possibly experience the same things but take away different meanings of such. You’ve got the take it all in then figure out what reasonates with you.

For instance, for me, the high pitched noise I hear in my right ear appears to be from my spiritual awakening....the ascension process which resonates with me.

We are all on a self discovery journey at this time....I still learn and discover new things every day. The Universe and Guides will steer you in the right direction....you just have to be alert and pay attention.

Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/24/17 08:31:44PM
764 posts

Spirit in my house?


Psychic and Paranormal

From my experience specific smells that no one else can smell, which happens quite often for me is related to being clairscent. I have included a link to explanations on all the clairs below. It happens when I am being visited by the deceased. On occasion it will be from sensing something going to happen....for instance, smelling rubber in the car and seeing someone get a blowout several minutes later, or smelling smoke and finding out someone’s house burnt that I know.

The ear thing, you might want to rule out any medical conditions first, but it can be a variety of spiritual issues...you might want to google to research more and see what resonates with you.

http://www.quantumpossibilities.biz/clairs.htm

Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/22/17 06:34:49AM
764 posts

Spirit in my house?


Psychic and Paranormal

@curious-child
Everyone is doing ok....it happened a couple of months ago, so time is starting to heal for the family.

I like your new screen name 😊

Get plenty of rest, rest heals the body and soul. We cannot get too much this time of year ;)

Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/22/17 05:59:10AM
764 posts

Understanding Major Depression And Suicide


Empath

@hop-daddy
What a wonderful idea to post this....yes, it is dark but sometimes we have to look into the dark to find the light. Good time of year to do it also, the lack of sunlight in the northern hemisphere coupled with the pressure of the holidays and just the sad state of what seem to be the whole world.

I have had depression pretty much all my life, runs in the family. My grandpa committed suicide when I was a child. I have been on depression medication for over 20 years....occasionally I will be able to wean myself off of it but I alway seem to manage having to take it again, albeit a much lower dose than years ago. We as empaths seem to have lower energies seeping into our bodies just from the environment so we have to remember to take care of ourselves. This is not selfish but necessary. I do feel I need to mention medication....I take one that has been on the market since the 60’s...tried and true. It appears that some of the newer medications seem to have a side effect which I find disturbing. This is causing thoughts of suicide. This to me seems crazy that something you are taking for depression would cause such thoughts as the two go hand in hand. Just last week an acquaintance had that very same thing happen. The drug that he was taking was his ultimate demise...sad. If someone is considering treatment, don’t hesitate to ask for something that has been on the market a while rather than what is popular at the time. Not saying that this would happen to anyone else taking the newer drugs, but still something to be considered.

The spiritual article resonated with me for a few years ago I was very suicidal, had a life threatening car accident (not on purpose) which I did meet my guardian angel that let me know it was not my time. I had never felt so loved and calm as when he was there helping me. Since that time my thoughts don’t go there.....thankfully. To this day I do not see the accident as bad...it was a message delivered to me personally by The angelic realm. It literally changed my life....also the beginning of my awakening. Everyone needs to remember that no situation will last forever, we need to keep this in mind that “this too shall pass”. So when we are feeling in the depths of hell, that just like a roller coaster, you will go back up to the top eventually. To anyone reading this that is in the dark mire of depression.....you are never as alone as you feel.
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updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/22/17 06:08:03AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/21/17 06:59:21PM
764 posts

Are you an open book or not?


Empath

“I can be myself with my wife and some close friends. But honestly, I don't feel like anyone truly knows or understands me. I feel lonely a lot but at the same time find strength in my solace and can find being around groups annoying. I get this feeling that I don't fit in with most people but yet am pretty well received by others (it's more of a feeling that I am very different). And when I go through tough times I find that I am largely ignored and have to fend for myself. But as you noted, when people need help or want something I am the first one they call. I mostly come to this site for support and read a lot to understand the phases and challenges of being an empath. But I do know that all of these feelings and traits are classic empath traits. I'm past the point of feeling sorry for myself wondering why I have to be like this. And instead am on the path exploring and using my empathy to grow and help others. It makes it easier on bad days to have experienced the good days with my empathy”
Wow @hop-daddy! I couldn’t have stated my thoughts and feelings any better than you just did...kindred spirits perhaps
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/21/17 06:50:29PM
764 posts

Spirit in my house?


Psychic and Paranormal

@hop-daddy
I am like you, I normally don’t see them...my hearing, smell and emotional feeling kick in though. It seems as if you have something in common emotionally it is easier for the attachment. It took quit a while for me to “send him on” but I feel that he has transitioned now.
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/21/17 06:01:35AM
764 posts

Spirit in my house?


Psychic and Paranormal

@curious-child
I get the body heating up also....I call it power surges, lol. Ringing in my ears is more of a high pitched tone. I use to draw a lot when I was younger but the urge left me for years. Just recently I have picked up a pencil again and sketch what I see while meditating.
Not to freak you out, but the deceased can also for an attachment with a person. I have just realized that someone had attached to me....this is something that I have come to realize just recently. My daughter in law’s brother had committed suicide....I had visited his dad, a couple of days later I had an urge for a cigarette and started smoking...my mannerism changed. Didn’t realize what was going on for a while but then realized I was mirroring Brad. My husband brought it to my attention. Funny thing....my cats were acting differently with me....kinda like they didn’t know me. Anyhow, did a complete cleansing ritual....I am back to my good old self....and the cats are back to hanging out on my lap again. Getting off topic a little here..... I believe that these lost souls get afraid of crossing over and seek us out for help.

Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/20/17 02:02:57PM
764 posts

Spirit in my house?


Psychic and Paranormal

Glad you are feeling better with everything. It takes practice to settle into what works for you. It is good that you are not afraid of your experiences. I have found that lately I have had the urge to draw after meditation. It is interesting the things that go into the paper that I reflect back on that have helped me advance my meditation even deeper. Kinda like a journal of sorts. Like womanwhowalks mentioned, the best thing to do is let your intuition guide you on what needs to be done
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/18/17 11:52:46AM
764 posts

Sensory Overload Throughout December


Empath

Yes, @hana kinda makes you want to just skip over the whole month of December, lol
Not just the energy influx but also the stress of all of the funk going on lately....people are maxed out right now. We just all have to remember to take care of ourselves as we cannot pour from an empty cup. Whatever we have to do...soak in salt, meditate, get out in nature or just treat ourselves to things that just make us feel all warm and fuzzy inside :) or all of the above or whatever else resonates. We can do this as we are all survivors
Blessings
updated by @cat-whisperer: 12/18/17 11:55:56AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/18/17 07:20:44AM
764 posts

Are you an open book or not?


Empath

@ohana
You stated it well...overstimulated and fried. December seems to be a constant array of people interactions....parties, recitals, shopping, etc
Enough to make anyone run for the hills...and the energies now are off the charts
Blessing
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/11/17 05:45:00PM
764 posts

Are you an open book or not?


Empath

Hi, as for me.....I wear my heart on my sleeve, always have
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/11/17 06:19:09AM
764 posts

Accepting my abilities


Empath

Welcome to the EC!
I personally don’t see colors that way, it sounds to me like you are seeing auras.
There seems to be a lot of strong energies around at this time.....it is creating anxiety and exhaustion as well. Be sure to take care of yourself during times like theses.....go out and enjoy nature, take a salt bath, have some alone time so you can recharge your battery
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/11/17 06:13:41AM
764 posts

Empaths and Indulgence


Empath

Keep in mind that the Universe and your guides do not judge....that is just a human affliction. Spiritual beings are in unconditional love to where there is no judging, only understanding
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/09/17 06:28:38AM
764 posts

Empaths and Indulgence


Empath

https://starmanspeaks.com/2015/12/15/my-relationship-with-weed-a-psychic-mediums-take-on-marijuana/
Hi, this discussion reminded me of a link discussing the herb on another thread here, so I thought I’d share.
I like the herb also but since becoming aware of my empathness, I do not indulge as much as I used too....and I definitely don’t do it if I am going to meditate. I used to use it to numb myself, now I use it if I know I’m going to be in a stressful situation because it does numb the sensitivity to outside energy to a certain degree. I will also use it medicinally due to the fact that my digestive system is pretty much jacked up on a daily basis so it helps stimulate my appetite.... if I really get hit with toxic bad energy it can be days before I feel like eating
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Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
12/07/17 08:32:59PM
764 posts

I'm so suicidal right now


Empath

I have been where you are....it is very tiring to constantly be used. To totally lose faith in all of humanity. Please don’t harm yourself, I know this is rather cliche but I am still inclined to mention that this too will pass.
I recently had my trust shattered as well....not an easy thing to deal with. We just have to take things day by day.....
You are a good person, worthy of love and respect. Take care of yourself now.....to leave this plane of existence in your state will only bring more suffering for you
Blessings to you
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
11/23/17 07:15:23AM
764 posts

How does it feel 'from the other side'? - Dumping Emotions on me


Empath

“The funny thing is I was completely fine when we met, until this one kiss happened”
As an empath, any kind of intimate contact greatly increases the energy exchange flow....it is like intertwining your energies as one. With that being said, you have to be very careful being intimate as an empath as it does tie you to the other person energywise.

The drugs....this is an issue as well. Speaking from someone who has been there and done that. I went for years numbing myself due to being totally unaware of the fact that all of that crap wasn’t mine to carry. It did lower my energy and also drew the wrong people toward me as well. Now I don’t drink or do drugs....it just makes me feel sick. As you become more aware of your energy, you may also fine yourself feeling stoned around such activity since it does lower your energy. We have a tendency to align frequency with whom ever we are around if your not careful.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
11/22/17 08:11:08PM
764 posts

Should I tell him more?


Empath

I can understand how your feel, as my husband was very close minded also. He has however come around to realizing that there are some things that defy conditioned logic. But as @krosskelt mentioned, it may not be well received by your boyfriend without actually experiencing things firsthand. This goes back to the skeptic thing.....which for the most part....they have to “see” to believe. Which in my case is what has brought my husband around and opened his eyes to our world. By firsthand experiencing the empathness. With me I didn’t realize that I was an empath until well into out marriage. Synchronicity led me to read several books and stumbling across this site. I did share parts of the books on being an empath with my husband which opened the conversation about the subject. When before long the things I read to him....he would comment “That’s so you!” Perhaps that might be a good way to break the ice on the subject.
As @womanwhowalks mentioned, you don’t want to go into marriage with secrets. Especially when it involves your very being. If he is really the one meant for you, he should accept all of you. But this is something that you should think very deep about to find your answer. I hope you the best.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
11/14/17 06:26:38AM
764 posts

Wondering if this has happened to anyone else


Empath

Yes, @patty, you are not the only one. Whenever my father has medical issues I have all the pain and symptoms.....and he lives several states away. I haven’t found anything that alleviates the pain and symptoms (except temporarily, see below) other than when my father gets well, the pain and symptoms go away. Last year for several months I could not eat without getting severely sick. I narrowed it down to trial and error throughout the summer that any time I ate anything with a substantial amount of grease, this would happen. Burgers, fries, even certain salad dressings. I pretty much could only eat veggies. Dining out at restaurants was the worst since they all pretty much use low grade oils for frying and such. This went on through the fall months when I found out from my sister that Dad was having similar attacks. Come to find out, he was having a lot of pancreas issues that were not detected until fall. He had to have major surgery to remove stones in his pancreas. After he had the surgery my issues got better. During this time I had went to doctors myself thinking I had medical issues but I always got the diagnosis that I had nothing wrong......go figure.

From my experience, this seems to be common with blood relatives, especially if you are close to that person. It sounds like you are a physical empath. Which means that not only are you sensitive to emotions but physical issues as well.

What I did find that helped me though the pain is the use of crystals. I have used them to diagnose whether I was really sick or if it is a ummm....spiritual issue. What I have found is, in my case with stomach issues I used Citrine. I would lay the Citrine on my stomach area, after about 20-30 minutes the pain would go away....thus....spiritual issue. If it doesn’t take the pain away, I know it is an actual medical issue so I would take appropriate actions.

I hope this helps.....if nothing else, at least it is validation for what you are experiencing.

Blessings
updated by @cat-whisperer: 11/14/17 06:29:11AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
11/09/17 04:30:52PM
764 posts

Energy.....and Bar Codes...


Psychic and Paranormal

Karen2:
Taking the bar codes out of my house is making a big difference....I no longer feel over charged....an yes the bar codes being everywhere us difficult...went to Costco yesterday and the whole store energy wise is awful....i feel as if my skin is being burned....and the thing is...we think we have to leave it on everything we buy...and our houses radiate this energy and so does the food we buy and it's making people sick....the ones stuck on electronics is pretty bad...i think on some level it is felt by everyone but no one realizes where It's coming from....we just think we're 'naturally' sick...it's a pain in the butt to have to remove every barcode from the products I buy...especially after a big shopping....but I can't stand them, now I know where the disturbance is coming from....i feel MORE rested....less physical pain...these barcodes are receivers....they emit energy/signal that invades the our energy and body... and it's not natural

http://www.whale.to/b/barcodes.html

I found this article...i'm not comfortable with the religious aspect of it...but the energy has been detected by others...so I'm not alone in the sensing of it....i don't know if the link will work....lol...
Wow! That was very enlightening.....and concerning to say the least. You must be a very sensitive soul.....I cannot detect anything from them personally.
It did bring up something in my subconscious though. A little off topic but I feel it might be related. There are a lot more cases of autism now than ever before but no one can seem to explain why. If you have ever known anyone on the autism spectrum they are also very sensitive indeed. Perhaps the bar codes are the smoking gun on that. Just something that popped into my head...
I’m glad that you and your kitty are doing better. What deep perception you have to track down those pesky codes. I will never look at anything I buy the same way, lol
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
11/08/17 01:22:53PM
764 posts

An Important Message


Empath

I can feel it, but was chalking it up to recent injury and perhaps negative energy chords that have attached to me from various sources as well. Regardless of the source, I have literally not been able to keep my energy up despite smudging, salting, meditation and chord cutting. It is as if it has “moved in” to my energy field. I am seeing a little bit of lightness coming back but it has been a struggle. When I read your original post, I felt that I couldn’t even muster the kind of energy needed to help in any way, but felt your urgency. Is it possible that these entities are attacking light workers that have a weakened energy field to decrease the numbers? Idk, nevertheless we’re all in for a crazy ride!
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
11/08/17 06:26:18AM
764 posts

Seeing Faces When Falling Asleep


Psychic and Paranormal

I have the same thing happen to me. None of the faces I see are of anyone I know. It always baffled me as to who and where they are and why am I seeing them. As with you two, it’s usually when I’m about to go to sleep or in meditation. On occasion it’s just any time I close my eyes. Animals I see when meditating, which like womanwhowalks mentioned are my guides. I am glad to have some suggestions on who or what is going on with them and to know I’m not the only one......and not going crazy, lol

I have had my mother visit me in a dream a while back. It wasn’t your every day usual dream, but an actual visitation. Different kinds of dreams have different feels. It was great to see her and know she made it ok....she was very afraid of dying. I woke up so happy to know I had seen her one last time :) She hasn’t visited my dreams since but on occasion I do know she’s near. Getting off topic here, lol
Blessings
updated by @cat-whisperer: 11/08/17 06:34:49AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
11/08/17 06:18:18AM
764 posts

What Are Your Favorite Empath/Medium/Psychic Movies?


Empath

Hop Daddy:

That story is one of Stephen King's best IMO. And the movie was directed by the late great Stanley Kubrick. I hope you enjoy it. Staying at that hotel in Colorado is on my bucket list. 



Great movie, thanks for suggesting.
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
11/07/17 12:16:49PM
764 posts

What Are Your Favorite Empath/Medium/Psychic Movies?


Empath

Another one that I forgot about until I just ran across it is The Mothman Prophecies. Not about an empath per se but does show the difficulties of “knowing” things and how the general public treats those sort of things and the people that “know”.
The movie is based on happenings in my home state of WV, although not exactly following true to actual events or places. It happened longer ago that the movie suggests, some other details have also been changed. I do remember stories of this as a child, my parents knew of people that saw it too....a lot of people saw this thing. They built another bridge not far from the one that collapsed, not in the same location. I just remember being on my parents boat when we would get around that area and getting the creeps.....like you could feel the tragedy.....every single time.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
11/07/17 09:30:11AM
764 posts

What Are Your Favorite Empath/Medium/Psychic Movies?


Empath

@hop-daddy
I’ll have to watch that one, it happens to be on Dish now. I had stayed in the hotel that inspired the movie years ago....neat place
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
11/07/17 07:10:07AM
764 posts

Trapped in Webs W/ Spiders


Psychic and Paranormal

@womanwhowalks
Thanks for the heads up! Yes, I am dealing with something very dark right now.....was wondering where it came from. Smudged, salted, cut cords but it only seems to last a few hours. Doesn’t help that I am also dealing with 3 fractures in my pelvic area right now, so I am kinda weak.....and it knows it. More energy work today....exhausting......but this too shall pass....and go away!
Going to light the Palo Santo
Blessings
updated by @cat-whisperer: 11/07/17 07:14:26AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
11/06/17 06:56:18AM
764 posts

Know Your Value: Who are you? Really...


Psychic and Paranormal

@zacharias quote I have a strong resentment toward all people, but I love them.
I can sooo relate. I do forgive over and over even when they continue to wallow in the sewer. And the helping....do that too despite the non appreciation. There are some that appreciate, then there are others that appreciate on occasion. At times it makes me feel as though I’m just a doormat but then I realize that this is what is meant by unconditional love...which we all must embrace if we are to evolve as a species. That feel of unconditional love keeps me going. Not religious per se but reminds me of the quote, “Forgive them for they know not what they do.” The bulk of humanity has yet to wake up, who are we to judge?
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
11/06/17 06:42:30AM
764 posts

Intuition vs. assumption


Empath

@zacharias is right, intuition will come when not thinking about it. So, yes, it comes from the heart/solar plexus whereas assumption comes from the head...or to be more exact, the ego self, which resides in the head. First impression would be more the intuition....then unfortunately the ego starts to “reason” which then makes you doubt the intuition.
Have you ever had those first impressions just to reason it away...then go back to say....I wish I would have listened to my gut? More times than I can count, but getting a lot better at telling the ego to shut up, lol.
updated by @cat-whisperer: 11/06/17 06:43:13AM
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
11/06/17 06:32:48AM
764 posts

Trapped in Webs W/ Spiders


Psychic and Paranormal

I believe you....and I don’t think you are crazy. The bulk of society is conditioned to not believe what they cannot sense with their 5 senses. That mental conditioning is what makes discussing the paranormal so taboo. It is a gift if you have a handle on it, however, it can be perceived as a curse when things get out of control, which in your case seems to be true. I wish you all the best in dealing with this entity.
Blessings
Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
10/30/17 10:18:31AM
764 posts

Great article about energy


Empath

@hop-daddy, there have been several people in my life that have that affect on me and still some in my life, you have to limit your time with them. I do believe that most people are totally unaware that they do this, however, there are others that you know it’s an intentional act.

@tundra2, whenever I am feeling drained and tired and it’s not from not getting enough rest, the first thing I do is search my recent interactions in my mind to find out the culprit so I can avoid them next time. However, sometimes it’s immediately apparent who the drain is.
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