Forum Activity for @abhay-raaz

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
08/30/17 05:40:54AM
21 posts

I fear that if I love again , again I will love a Narcissist . How to end this cycle.


Empath

Thank you guys for all your wisdom and insights. I will try to inculcate what you have been suggested. In case of any troubles I will take help if you guys again.

And also if you guys feel to advise me on some thing special at any moment of time, feel free.

Sometimes ideas come randomly and at unimaginable places.

You all are awesome. Thanks again.

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
08/28/17 11:05:08AM
21 posts

I fear that if I love again , again I will love a Narcissist . How to end this cycle.


Empath

@neverquittter

I understand your pain.

But tell me what you did that you will never fall for someone like her again ? How u de-addicted yourself from the drug like feeling? I also felt that addictive love and want some permanent long lasting solution.

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
08/28/17 11:00:47AM
21 posts

I fear that if I love again , again I will love a Narcissist . How to end this cycle.


Empath

@zacharias

Thanks for sharing your knowledge.

Testing women is talent . Now regarding Love, several game theories are there . People play games . I play with my heart.

I will try to find religious groups, clubs , sports or groups which contains people like me.

Regarding cat, I am inept at handling pets. I never had one. I will try to get a dog if possible.

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
08/28/17 10:52:23AM
21 posts

I fear that if I love again , again I will love a Narcissist . How to end this cycle.


Empath

@indigo-dog

thanks for your step by step advice. I will try to follow it .

But I want some advice from your experience. Some Soul searched , unique long lasting technique that is objective and universal applied to me and all.

I just want to end this abuse cycle so I want to escape step 1 and 2 . I want permanent step 5 . I just don't want to emit my energy(Empaths' energy ). I want to fool narcissist so that it will become easy for me.

I want your godly meditated unique advice.

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
08/28/17 10:39:25AM
21 posts

I fear that if I love again , again I will love a Narcissist . How to end this cycle.


Empath

@womanwhowalks thanks for the advice.

I trust my gut feeling but unable to judge people. Perhaps I have developed unconscious biasness towards people.

Energy transmitted by narcissistic are charming and refreshing. Perhaps abuse from my childhood keeps attracting me to these energies .

I want to develop such energy that it won't attract narcissist. I want permanent shield that doesn't attract narcissist.

I want a scientific long term solution . Only trusting on guts makes me scary that my judgement is not the ultimate truth.
Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
08/27/17 06:27:38AM
21 posts

I fear that if I love again , again I will love a Narcissist . How to end this cycle.


Empath

Hi Guys,

I have been deeply troubled by my relationships in past 8 years due to Narcissistic attraction. I don't know how but I always attract a narcissist or myself get attracted to a narcissist. The enlightenment of being an empath happened two years ago but after knowing this also self-control is not happening. 

Because of this I am afraid that this cycle will never break. I want freedom from narcissism but I can't able to get it.

I want your suggestion and mental guidance on how to stop this cycle of Toxic Attraction.


updated by @abhay-raaz: 09/07/17 09:42:34AM
Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
04/24/15 07:13:34PM
21 posts

any other empaths in their twenties?


Empath

I am buddy. 25 years old.

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
04/23/15 07:24:30PM
21 posts

Cutting cords/tie


Empath

Hi Emmy,

What is Love ? Perhaps it the investment we do in others in whatever way possible (emotional , physical , temporal and spatial ). That's why a connection get develops and strengthens as time passes by.

We all love positive emotions . There are various types of positive emotions ( Joy , Gratitude , Serenity , Hope ,Awe ,Pride etc etc. ). BUT Love is the emotion or feeling which encompasses all these +ve emotions.

I.e in love we feel all these +ve emotions at once, hence love creates greatest happiness. And due to this intensity of happiness love is superlative selfish act .

Cutting cord means devoid of this happiness. It will come with lots of -ve feelings that we don't want. In coming time only 1 or 2 +ve emotions we feel at a time rather than feeling them all as happens in love.

Hence cutting cord is weird.

I have also experienced it . But I found truth about relationships, love that seems good in every perspective. Hence I moved on . Feeling will be there ,but as Philosophy say "Knowledge and Knowledge alone will lead you to salvation/Liberation.", try understanding the core of all these .It will give peace of mind .

Thanks,

Abhay

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
04/21/15 03:59:39PM
21 posts



Hi Buddy,

I am new to this but I must say ,You have to cut the vicious cycle of pain due to him otherwise with time the circle will grow bigger and bigger , which will bring more pain to you.

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
04/21/15 03:17:02PM
21 posts

Being a guy


Empath

Hahahaha that's nice .

Perhaps the "Duh" moment for women is when a guy says "Listen honey, I am going to booze with my friends " . :)

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
04/21/15 02:04:04PM
21 posts

Being a guy


Empath

Hi Kari,

You are right that females are more communicative . But sometimes I think what makes them so easy going in communication . What we guys lack ?

society pressure , stigma etc are ok . But this is perhaps not the real thing. What u say.

Thanks,

Abhay

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
04/21/15 01:57:51PM
21 posts

Being a guy


Empath

Hi Justin,

I feel like nobody understands my viewpoint. And due to this I go through emotional trauma .

I am not sure about abilities but I am also not sure about everyone could do what I do. I m confused man.

Abhay

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
04/21/15 01:52:48PM
21 posts

Being a guy


Empath

Hi Nea,

Thanks for your views.Feelings are gender neutral.

Your name is very unique. I heard the name "Neha" but not "Nea". The meaning of "Neha" is happiness,full of spirit in my language. Does "Nea" mean anything in your language?

Thanks,

Abhay

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
04/21/15 01:43:07PM
21 posts

Being a guy


Empath

Hi Paul,

Now i am feeling more confident that people are there who are like me.

You are right about communication aspect of female and silent way of male.Hope more will speak their heart out.

Thanks man.

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
04/20/15 06:06:25PM
21 posts

Being a guy


Empath

Hi Angel,

Thanks for your advice.I will search the exact differences between Empath,empathy,sympathy,Clairsentience and all the terms related to it.

I have started reading assets available on the web.

But one thing I will tell you that I have always a disease problem from childhood.Now I came to understand that it was due to not exhaling the emotions that people have dumped to me.

Once I saw a live ,sacrifice of goat in a temple and I remained ill (by fever) for more than one month.No doctor was successful in treating me.

Now after reading some blogs I found that diseases happen to empaths frequently.

I will search all the concepts and let you know.

Thanks :)

Abhay

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
04/20/15 05:49:15PM
21 posts

Being a guy


Empath

Hi Krosskelt,

I hope that people will come forward.And especially male because the stigma is around them of "men don't cry".
It must be like "men don't make anyone cry".

Your project is really good. The same I do here (not any project) . I make people think.

Thanks,

Abhay

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
04/20/15 05:42:43PM
21 posts

Being a guy


Empath

Hi Buddy,

Here the concept of family is of joint family. I live in a populated and not so educated world.For me living alone or with my friends is fine ,and I am happy in that . But the problem starts when people taunt my parents and relatives ,and they feel uncomfortable.

Their uneasy feeling get connected with me and I start feeling pain for not living up to their eyes level.

The thing is I feel guilty sometimes, hence wanted to convey them that feel happy for me. They have their own beliefs rooted in religion , social stigma. That's why I am searching for a way to convince them .

Thanks,

Abhay

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
04/20/15 05:23:16PM
21 posts

Being a guy


Empath

Hi Trevor,

The Post We Are All Connected - how I came to recognize myself as an empath. was great to read. I also sometimes felt distant connection but never asked the other side as was it real or just my feelings. And it was momentary ,just came and flew away.

One thing I will take from your blog is that : I need training.

Thanks :)

Abhay

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
04/20/15 10:06:32AM
21 posts

Being a guy


Empath

Hi Buddy,

Thanks for your warm and comforting reply.In India there are some women dominating culture also, and I found that ,"men don't cry" stigma is also there.

My one question is : is there any way so that I can tell my emotions in simple words to others, as explaining whole thing is cumbersome process.

Thanks,

Abhay

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
04/20/15 10:00:20AM
21 posts

Being a guy


Empath

Thanks Trevor,

I never expected a mature reply like this.Thanks a lot.

About your question , is there a hierarchy/discovery process of phases from low to high for an empath?

What I found is of Awakening phase, perhaps. I don't know much of the phases/process.

I will learn more and tell you.

Thanks again,

Abhay

Abhay Raaz
@abhay-raaz
04/20/15 08:23:48AM
21 posts

Being a guy


Empath

Hi everyone,

I am a guy and recently figured out that I am an empath. Is it normal ?

Because wherever I see, it is mostly girls who talk , write blogs about empaths.

I saw this website and I logged in. I don't know what to do.

Please give some reply.

Thanks,

Abhay


updated by @abhay-raaz: 03/19/17 10:15:05PM