Forum Activity for @debbie-winchell-loving-dove

Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
11/05/16 08:43:25PM
49 posts

Spirit Animal Guide?


Psychic and Paranormal

I think the cat I had who passed on is now watching over me.  The one time I had to drive in snow to work last winter, after I entered the office, I heard her meow. She had been gone for two years.  I have four little toy cat ducks sitting on my cubicle wall.  I keep coming in to see one turned around somehow, especially the morning after my neighbor who shares the wall was out.  I have dreams sometimes with Midnight in them and I end up playing with and petting kittens. Sometimes I pet her too.

Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
11/05/16 08:37:38PM
49 posts

READINGS


Request a Reading

Thank you very much for my reading.  I'll see what I can do.  Right now I have a very sore jaw that's preoccupying me.  Isn't it sad the kind of energy in my office?

Debbie

Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
11/05/16 08:36:23PM
49 posts

READINGS


Request a Reading

Nocturne's Angel:

Hi @debbie-winchell-loving-dove

I believe that you are being overloaded by other people's emotions, pent up feelings, frustrations, etc.

I would recommend changing up your cleansing, grounding & shielding routine to include new or different techniques as you may have become tolerant to the ones you are currently using.

I would also recommend Donna Eden's 5 Minute Daily Routine




& Introduction To Energy Medicine




Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
11/01/16 03:55:42PM
49 posts

READINGS


Request a Reading

I would also like to request a reading.  I'd like to know why I'm coming home from work sad and cranky.  Is it because of my feelings that I'm suppressing or something else I need to know about?  If you need more information please let me know.

Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
04/02/15 06:14:54PM
49 posts

Message from Midnight


Animal Empaths

I'm still having a difficult time getting over the death of my cat Midnight in November 2013. A while ago as part of one of my usually unusual dreams, I dreamed a small, wiry man came to me to tell me that Midnight said hello and she was all right.

A while later, after telling my remaining two cats that I won't be getting a third cat and they would have to learn to play together, I dreamed that Midnight was sitting next to a longish-haired black cat that had very light colored stripes on the front. I wonder if Midnight was showing me my next cat.


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 02/22/17 05:52:14PM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
04/02/15 06:06:25PM
49 posts

Animal Intelligence


Animal Empaths

I have a non-wild, non-bird story.

I used to have three cats. My oldest cat at the time, Midnight, had developed arthritis in her hips. She decided she would live in the living roombecause she was afraid that one of the youngercats would try to pounce on her otherwise. I set her up with her own litter box and food tray, anda dish of water at the window.

I bought her a heated cat bed that she liked very much.(She wouldn't sleep in the other one I hadafter her sister Jenny died.) It sat on top of a chest of drawers in the corner by the window. She would lie there and look out the window. The youngest cat Molly liked the bed, too, and would creep into it when she had the opportunity.

One day Midnight came over to me, looking bright-eyed and energetic. I thought she wanted to play. I tried tossing a ball to her a couple times. That wasn't it. I tossed the ball the other way, away from the sofa where she was. Molly jumped out of the bed to chase the ball and Midnight quickly ran across and climbed into the heated cat bed. I was very impressed of the ploy that Midnight had to think of and plan so that she could get into the cat bed.

Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
09/28/14 07:59:15PM
49 posts

Stopping Nightmares


Dreams

I wonder if there's any way to prevent nightmares. They all have the same type of theme, people trying to work together to avoid a scary crisis and we always havea lot of obstacles. I currently work in an industry that sets up and keeps changing rules and goals to avoid paying bonuses and pay raises. Taking any time off is extremely difficult as well. So I know what the dreams are about.When I can get my home life calmed down a little bit (my mother is in rehab after breaking her hip), I will start looking for a better job. In the meantime I'd like to stop waking up from a dream so disturbing I have to watchTV or read for a while. They're not good for me.

Thanks very much.


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 06/15/17 04:17:21AM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
08/16/14 08:03:38PM
49 posts

Earth Angel Quiz


Psychic and Paranormal

So what should I do after I read that each characteristic fits me? And right after I wrote this, the ringing in my right ear got louder.

Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
07/10/14 04:31:59PM
49 posts

Spirit in the Ladies' Room


Psychic and Paranormal

Does anyone have any idea why I saw a spirit in the ladies' room at work? I was the only one in it, in a stall. I was also feeling rather stressed out. Through the crack in the stall I saw a whitish shape move back and forth, twice. I looked away, looked again and it was gone. A few moments later I looked up and it was there again. I have the vaguest impression of possibly dark hair, but that's about it.


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 07/06/17 02:23:27AM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
06/14/14 03:49:03PM
49 posts

Animal Contact


Animal Empaths

I've just had a new experience. I have felt like that my cat Midnight is still here. A few things have happened that made me think she was here. Before I left for my first day of full-time work in five years, a large plastic container fell off the book shelf in front of me.I heard a cat jump from one spot to another near the window when both living cats were near me. One morning after a petting session on the sofa, Molly jumped up on the back of the sofa, then a few seconds later I heard a distinctive pong sound from the middle of the sofa cushion beside me. The nightbefore last while I was waiting to fall asleep, it felt like Midnight briefly put her paw on my leg.

As for the new experience, my mother gave me something that I wanted. I knew there was a black cast iron cat in existence that looked a lot like Midnight. My mother actually had it and gave it to me. I brought it home today and put it on the chest of drawers where Midnight liked to lie. Now I seem to know what Midnight feels or thinks, that she's very happy that I put it there, she feels like she can be a part of things again??? The message I got before was she hoped the cast iron cat would give us some comfort.

Molly spent an hour or two staring at the cat. After a long time she moved closer to it, with the hair raised on her back. She stared at the cat and then finally she slowly moved closer and sniffed it. Then she crept farther away. She actually came away from the windows and is sleeping by me now.

Apropros of nothing, several weeks ago I saw a grayish cat go racing by into the hall and Molly right after her. I thought she was chasing Emily. No, Emily wasin the living room lying on the chair. I guess it was my cat Tamsin who came back to play.


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 02/24/17 07:10:49AM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
12/23/13 01:23:20AM
49 posts

Animal Spirits


Animal Empaths

I wasn't sure in which group I should ask this question. This is one of two.

In early November I lost my cat Midnight. It was very traumatic. I haven't had a full-time job since January 2009. I wanted to take her to the vet and my friends and cousins ignored my pleas for money. She died of chronic kidney failure and an infection, possibly pneumonia.

I think Midnight was my best friend. Whenever I needed reassurance I knew I could go to her and be loved back. She was a sweet, intelligent, affection cat, always ready to be petted. Lying on my legs was one of her favorite things to do.

I haven't been right since. I still find it extremely difficult to relax and extremely difficult to sleep. I had a great deal of trouble getting over her sister's death ten years ago from the same disease. I wonder if I have such trouble because my cat's spirit is nearby and I feel it. I have experienced times when I thought my past cats have visited me, most notably when I had the H1N1 virus. One cat came and curled up next to my back. Another cat laid half on me. Yet I couldn't see either one.

Thanks.


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 06/07/17 07:36:18PM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
11/26/13 10:00:13PM
49 posts

Terrible Year


Empath

I've had a terrible year. I've called it my Murphy's Law year because it seems like if it could go wrong, it would.

I've had insomnia on and off for the last 4 years. My MP3 player helped a lot, but that broke. Then my oldest cat died, the one who went to bed with me every night to snuggle. I've been trying since before this year to find a job and I haven't yet. I applied to 20 last week and haven't heard anything yet. I just want to get something so I don't have to move. My lease is up on New Year's Eve. The furnace won't come on and I've been trying to get my place cleaned up so it can be fixed. The apartment complex management will see that it's fixed. I have allergies, including the air freshener that comes up from the neighbor downstairs. (An air purifier will be one of the first things I buy once I start working.) I don't always have the energy to do what I want.

I also have PTSD. I'm taking Sertaline but haven't gotten a counselor yet. I tried one where I live. He was so bad. I got more out of my knitting group that I did from him. I think I could have done a better job with me than he did, if that makes sense.

The cat I lost was the one being I could count on for unconditional love and the one I always went to when things went bad. So, ow!


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 02/27/17 07:57:21AM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
08/08/13 03:07:02PM
49 posts

Seriously depressed and struggling


Empath

No siblings, no close cousins. I wasn't made to be this alone, but you can't make people do anything. I tried twice to invite people to have ice cream with me on my birthday. Not one person in 40 did. So I gave up. This year has been a struggle and I have another one now. I just don't want to think about it right now.

Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
07/18/13 06:29:03PM
49 posts

Seriously depressed and struggling


Empath

I am very seriously depressed and struggling. People tell me what to do to help myself to feel better and then leave me alone. I don't need to be dictated to (indeed, a PTSD trigger); I need people to be with me, pay attention to me, help me. I am shriveling up from being ignored.

I had to drop a group of "friends" because they were takers instead of givers. Even though I socialized with them at least twice a month, no one ever really cared to listen to me. I remember breaking down crying at a knitting group because someone asked me how I was. I can't go to that group anymore because it moved to a place that bothers my allergies badly and it's too far away now.

Indeed, I am being poisoned by my own apartment with artificial scent drifting in from other units. Using my air conditioner in this heat makes me sick because it pools. I usually run fans in the windows all day to vent the crap. At least I found out Medicaid will pay for an air purifier. So, yes, I'm under attack in my own home. I haven't slept in my bed since January.

I have no job, I have to go to an unemployment hearing next week because the lying boss from hell wants my benefits taken away. I can't cope with my life anymore all by myself and no one understands it. Sorry, one comment on Facebook doesn't cut it. I wasn't made to live alone all my life like I've been forced to. People are made to be with others. My relatives ignore me, my friends don't care, American companies don't think I'm valuable enough, corporations want all our last dimes. Everywhere I turn, someone is after me or telling me I don't matter. I think the only reason I haven't give up completely is my cats.


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 02/23/17 01:55:44PM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
07/11/12 08:10:55PM
49 posts

RV Overturned Dream


Dreams

This morning I had a very strange dream about an RV crash. I dreamed I was riding in an RV that was huge, at least as big as my apartment and the interior looked more like a hotel. The driver was trying to ease the vehicle out of a curved driveway. The vehicle slowly rolled over. I was supposed to keep track of who was taken out of the vehicle, but people weren't telling me. There were animals both real and plush toy on the vehicle and I could hear them all talking to me and they wanted to be rescued too. Since no one was remembering to tell me who they were rescuing, I started rescuing the animals.

I have recently taken a position on the board of a local organization. I think the members need to concentrate on using their manners. The last two meetings felt like I was trying to stop a team of runaway horses.

Socially and romantically I realized that I tend to identify with rescued cats and kittens.

Does anyone have any other ideas about this?


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 03/08/17 12:45:19AM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
06/02/12 08:27:07PM
49 posts

Home


Empath

Why does the empath quiz contain the question "I feel compelled to find my way 'home?'" My guess is that we're always uncomfortable and we want to go back to when or where we were comfortable. Unfortunately I've been on my own all my adult life, not doing terribly well financially and always renting. My parents sold the house I grew up in when they divorced. (It burned down this past winter.) I was estranged from my father and he died. My mother lived in a rented house in a nearby city for 20 years.I was allergic to it and couldn't stay there overnight after a while. Now she's in a tiny senior citizen's complex and I appear to be allergic to that building for different reasons. My relatives have all but ignored me and it hasn't been easy to make friends.There was only one place I rented that I really liked. Since I left that place in 1996 I've never really felt peaceful anywhere I lived. I haven't been satisfied with my life either because I more or less had to make do, since I didn't have money or enough energy to do what I wanted. Allergies can be a disability too. I guess the point I'm trying to make I haven't had a feeling of home since I came home after graduating from college 31 years ago. Is that common with empaths?


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 03/08/17 07:11:56AM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
04/11/12 09:52:54PM
49 posts

Friend Who's Crossed Over is Now Spirit Guide


Psychic and Paranormal

It seems as though a friend who's crossed over may now be a spirit guide. He was a kind, generous, intelligent man whom I liked very much, but we had a falling out. Unfortunately he crossed over before we could reconcile. He was one of the people who started me on the Native American Red Road. He was the chief of a band in southeastern Massachusetts. I've sort of been feeling his presence, sort of like I couldn't stop thinking about him, forquite a while. A little while ago I decided to sit down and ask him and I felt a rush of love, so I guess that's a yes. He told me to find the photo of us together and put it where I could see it. I wonder what I should do next.

Thank you.

Debbie


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 03/04/17 08:25:53AM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
04/11/12 09:44:08PM
49 posts

Can an empath be truly happy?


Empath

I've been reading the third Harry Potter book in which he needs to think about his happiest moments to produce a patronus. I'm not sure if I've ever had a truly happy moment. I've had brief moments of time when I thought my life had possibilities, but none of them have happened. It seems like what should have been major highlights of my life, like graduation from high school and college, were always overshadowed by someone or something. It's been a struggle to stay positive and keep myself going in a life in which I've mostly been alone, and I've also missed out on most of life's big moments, like marriage, children and buying a house. Do many empaths feel overshadowed and out of place?

Thank you.


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 03/09/17 01:13:10PM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
03/14/12 07:21:23PM
49 posts

Feeling anxiety around me


Empath

Tonight I've been feeling a lot of anxiety coming from outside of me. It's started early in the week and tonight it's been getting stronger. Nothing in my life has really changed very much. As a matter of fact I had a good conversation with someone on the phone about a possible job and have an interview Monday. The feelings of anxiety started before this, possibly on Sunday. Does anyone have an idea if this anxiety is coming from another apartment next to me? Or possibly from the guy who led me on and then rejected me? I find sometimes if I know the source I can handle it better. It's really starting to get annoying.

Thank you.


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 01/10/17 06:54:09PM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
01/16/12 05:17:47PM
49 posts

Love or Not Love?


Empath

Unfortunately I feel like he's just slammed the door in my face since he recently unfriended me on Facebook. I told him in December that if he didn't talk to me Iwould stopresponding to him.In person when I saw him, it was never alone and he has always treated me differently, always hypervigilant and sort of at a distance. It made me even more self-conscious.Even when I knew he wanted to see me and was glad to, he avoided talking to me privately. I don't have a way to contact him directly and I'm not sure I could talk to him, especially after the mean way he treated me in December. I hear his divorcedidn't leave him much to live on and he moves around a lot. We've always lived far apart from each other.

Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
01/16/12 01:27:54PM
49 posts

Love or Not Love?


Empath

I have been emotionally involved with someone on and off for over 16 years. It's been mostly off. It's after meeting him that my empathy more fully developed. This past year or so after leaving his wife and starting divorce proceedings he seemed interested in a relationship with me. However, he could never really reach out and communicate directly with me. He's expressed himself through songs he's released and through Facebook, but never, ever directly. When he would not do anything more this past DecemberI stopped responding to him. I still receive strong feelings of romantic love, which I don't really want to do anymore. It doesn't feel like the love I havefor my friends. It feels like the love I had for him. Is it possible that I'm misinterpreting it?I've been much more right than wrong in sensing things in the past, includinglosing my job this past December. Empathy makes it hard to move on sometimes.

Thank you.


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 05/12/17 03:41:45PM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
12/26/11 09:31:11PM
49 posts

Empath Quiz Not Coming Up


Empath

A search didn't find it anywhere else.

Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
12/26/11 04:48:30PM
49 posts

Empath Quiz Not Coming Up


Empath

I wanted to revisit the empath quiz. It looks like it might've been modified since I last took it. However, the quiz won't come up. I get a blank page. Any ideas?


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 05/13/17 05:55:05AM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
12/10/11 07:01:15AM
49 posts

Communicating with the other


Empath

Thank you! I hope he did. It's nice to someone else affirm what you experience. I think my friend is aware of some sort of connection, but isn't sure what it is, and it might have him spooked. Anyway he was trying to give in and sweep things under the carpet again, which is what got him in the mess he's in to begin with. I have to go back to the same place today, so maybe on the drive I'll give him another talking-to (-:

Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
12/09/11 07:20:12PM
49 posts

Communicating with the other


Empath

I have an empathic relationship with another person, who is having problems. He lives far away and I can tell when he's getting really down on himself. For various reasons we can't communicate directlyright now. I"m not even sure if he's truly aware of the form ofconnection. Tonight he seemed really down on things. I was driving home from a meeting and I just started chewing him out verbally, constructively I hope. Do you think he sensed what I was trying to tell him? I know his energy changed afterward.

Thank you.


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 05/07/17 04:31:58AM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
11/28/11 03:33:28PM
49 posts

Prophetic Dreams


Dreams

For as long as I can remember, I seem to have dreams that show me what I'll be doing in the future. I think that's what happening. I'll be doing something and I know I've seen this exact scene before.

This has only been helpful once. I saw part of the local hospital and told my mother to be careful. Unfortunately she still ended up in the exact building I saw in my dream.

I also dreamed about the date August 27. I saw it on a wall calendar and I knew it was this year. I couldn't sense any more about it. I didn't know it would be when Hurricane Irene would land on the United States and wreak so much havoc in my own area.

Does anyone know why this happens? Does it mean anything?

Thank you.

Debbie


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 02/26/17 01:54:36PM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
09/04/11 11:51:15AM
49 posts



I have. There's one man in the area thatI haven't trusted since I met him. His energy wasn't right. He and his wife organize a pow wow in the homeland of my Native ancestors each year. I've discovered that he's very self-centered, and the pow wow is about funding what he wants to do. In a public speech he gave about my ancestors, most of the information he gave was taken from my Facebook community and blog. Of course he gave no credit to anyone else. A close friend said that he claimed to be the authority on the Native people in the area. That would come as a great surprise to my friends who have published books and scholarly articles on the people, and a friend who willed his house and property to the nation.
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
05/03/11 06:15:54PM
49 posts

Do Empaths React To Colors?


Empath

Recently I felt like I was looking for something. When I stood in front of a display of turquoise jewelry I knew what it was, the color turquoise. I got out some turquoise fabric that I had, but haven't put it on anything else to live with it for a while.
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
03/04/11 08:47:38PM
49 posts

Energy Surrounding Me


Empath

Thank you very much, Lisa Since I posted the message, I've found out my friend and I area little closer to getting together. In the meantime how would I ground and clear my body?

Thanks very much.

Debbie

Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
02/08/11 08:15:38PM
49 posts

Technological Help


Empath

Thank you. I wasn't sure where it was.
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
02/08/11 09:40:20AM
49 posts

Technological Help


Empath

Is there a group that helps us with using the web site? For instance, I'd like some help customizing my page. I kind of messed it up.

Thank you.


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 01/20/17 03:35:18AM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
01/31/11 08:48:34PM
49 posts

Energy Surrounding Me


Empath

I had something unusual happen to me. I pick up the emotions of a man who cares a lot about me, and I about him. Sometimes the emotions seem to come in waves of energy from him. Recently I felt the energy surrounding me as well as inside me. I wonder if that's significant.


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 03/08/17 06:07:43AM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
12/04/10 06:44:47PM
49 posts

Is tiredness an emotion?


Empath

This connection just occurred to me last night. Today I've had noticeably more energy. I'm actually passing up passive activity this evening to work on straightening up my living room.
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
12/04/10 10:08:20AM
49 posts

Is tiredness an emotion?


Empath

That's true. I have another situation that is probably affecting me more ways than I think. I have a neighbor downstairs who sleeps days in the living room. That is where I do my living during the day. He seems to bitterly resent any noise that I make all day before 8 pm. I've learned how to live in this situation (I'm definitely more adaptable than he is) but I wonder if I'm also picking up on his fatigue since he claims that he can't sleep because of me.
He really shouldn't be living here and seems likely to renew his lease a second time since he's been complaining about me, and my cats. From what I can tell, he probably has mental issues.
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
12/04/10 09:35:17AM
49 posts

Is tiredness an emotion?


Empath

Hee, hee, hee. I'm not anywhere near him. He lives in Tennessee and this spring I just found out he returned my love and we've been trying to see each other again after 9 years. The economy has been our obstacle. I can sort out his feelings from mine, but that's problematic. Many times the way he feels I feel, such as missing each other. Other times his emotions are so intense I just can't shut them out. It does take energy to deal with this, and I find I can't go to sleep shutting his out.
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
12/03/10 07:42:45PM
49 posts

Is tiredness an emotion?


Empath

I'm wondering if tiredness or fatigue can be an emotion. I have physicial problems that tend to tire me, allergies, asthma, menopause, seasonal affective disorder. Sometimes though I'll just slow up. I also have an empathic connection with someone and right now he doesn't seem to be sleeping well. I thought I'd ask and see what other empaths thought.

Thank you.


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 02/23/17 06:11:29AM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
07/06/10 10:43:12PM
49 posts

Jukebox in My Head


Empath

It only really bothers me when I'm trying to sleep. I've gotten so I can turn it down. I'll know after I see him again if I want to stop it (-:
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
07/01/10 09:46:20PM
49 posts

The Other's Emotions


Empath

I'm not sure where to ask this question, but I'll start here. This concerns a man that I've mentionedbefore with whom I've had an unusual, complicated relationship. He lives far away and I haven't seen him in person since 2006. However, thanks to my empathy, I know he's been following me on Facebook. He recorded a song on an album telling me that he loved me, but I didn't know it until just over a month ago. In 2006 I heard in person a song he wrote about us, but until recently misinterpreted it. Thanks to FB, he kind of knows I know aboutboth songs now and would at least be willing to say hi at least. Ever since then I feel his love almost continually, but it's especially strong at night, say from about 10:30 or 11 until 2 or 3 in the morning. I doubt that he hasn't been sleeping for over a month, but it could be. Is it somehow possible for his subconscious to be projecting emotion during sleep? It might be more than ironic that he wrote in the song that he ran to me in his sleep. I find the constant emotion starting to wear me down. It's difficult to practice the methods of dealing with it when I'm tired and sleepy myself, but I'll keep trying.

I'm really curious to know what people think about what happens to emotions when we sleep.

Thank you.


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 03/06/17 09:36:46AM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
07/01/10 08:20:53AM
49 posts

Jukebox in My Head


Empath

I'm so glad to hear I'm not the only one. Now I have to work on tuning it down or out when I need to. It's getting to me.
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
06/10/10 07:09:47PM
49 posts

Does Love Heal?


Healers

Why Love Heals by Dean Shrock, Ph.D. affirms that love is physically healing. I was wondering it here was a different answer outside of self-affirmations and self-love.
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
06/09/10 06:07:51PM
49 posts

Does Love Heal?


Healers

I wonder if love heals. My major physical problem is allergies that affect other parts of my body. The most problematic is extreme fatigue, lack of concentration and poor digestion. I went to the allergist and I'm getting desensitization shots. They are slowly working.

At the same time it turns out that a man I met a long time ago has realized that he loves me. Unfortunately it's one of those unhappily complicated situations and I only see him in public when he comes to my area on business. I feel strong love from him almost continually throughout the day. I'm learning to deal with my mental reaction to it, but I wonder about the physical. Could it be possible that the love will be healing for me?


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 05/02/17 05:00:46PM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
06/07/10 05:48:44PM
49 posts

Jukebox in My Head


Empath

Today's new tune in the jukebox is "I Just Called To Say I Love You" by Stevie Wonder.
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
06/06/10 08:15:58PM
49 posts

Jukebox in My Head


Empath

It changes. Last night he was thinking about how much he wanted to be with me, so strongly that it kept me awake.
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
06/04/10 06:20:07PM
49 posts

Jukebox in My Head


Empath

Tonight the tune has changed. It's "This Guy's In Love With You" by Burt Bacharach!!! This is when being an empath is frustrating. I hope his manager finds him an engagement in my area soon.
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
06/03/10 12:28:04PM
49 posts

Jukebox in My Head


Empath

Hi Sandra. Yes, I believe I'm tuning into him. I've done so for a long time. In a way I'm getting life information since these continual love songs tell me he still feels strongly about me. Unfortunately it's not the mellow ballad he wrote but the soft rock songs. It does get irritating. Sometimes I can override it with other music, but sometimes it feels like two different radios at once. Liz Story's piano music helped once.
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
06/02/10 06:00:35PM
49 posts

Jukebox in My Head


Empath

I wonder if anyone has had asituation like mine. A while ago a professional musician developed strong feelings for me. I wrote him a letter telling him that since the relationship wasn't progressing, I wasn't going to see him anymore. This spring it seemed to me that he had been following my Facebook page so I posted a few links I knew he would react to and I very easily picked up his emotions that night. In the next few years after I stopped seeing him at his concerts (either 2000 or 2001) he wrote and recorded 2 love songs to me, and another one in 2006. Since it'd been a while, I wondered what he still felt, so I posted a message that was a response to one of those songs. Oh boy, did he pick up that clue! I already knew he tended to think in songs, now I have a continual jukebox in my head of the love songs he wrote for me. They don't stop until he goes to sleep and he seems to have trouble going to sleep. So far I don't think he has any engagements anywhere near me. Hasanyone else ever gotten a jukebox in his/'her head?


updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 03/13/17 06:08:53AM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
09/28/09 08:53:57PM
49 posts

Something good coming up?


Empath

I would offer a reading, but I can't do that.I'd like to know if there's something good coming in the near future for me. I lost my job in January, I've been sick with allergies since March. I'm not very hopeful about a job, I'm feeling pretty lonely and neglected.Thanks very much.Debbie
updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 01/12/17 07:28:33PM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
09/23/09 11:48:45PM
49 posts

New Member With Question


Empath

It's nice to discover that there are other people with the same ability I have. I've always known that I had extra senses. I pick up feelings, once in a great while I can predict something and I get along very well with animals. Sometimes I can also sense the spirits of people and animals who have passed on. When I was very sick with the flu last Christmas two ghost cats came to keep me company in bed. I could feel them but not see them, so I didn't know which ones to thank.One time there was an important horse race on TV. I was sitting on the sofa and sewing. You know how each horse is shown on tv before the race? As soon as I saw the long-shot I knew the filly would win. The odds were 70 to 1, and she did win!I have two questions. 1. Is there a spiritual/metaphysical reason why some people are empathetic? Or are we just born with extra senses and we feel like we'd like some kind of compensation for our extra suffering?2. Can it be possible that sometimes you meet a person for the sole reason to help them get better? It's been so long since I had the relationships I don't recall what made me wonder that then. In a recent example, the man had become depressed about his career but meeting me gave him new motivation and he's gone on to win 7 prestigious national awards. Most recently I met a man whom I resisted falling in love with, but did anyway. He was pretty emotionally crippled by post-traumatic stress disorder. I tried to encourage him to get help but not only was he insulted, his work schedule wouldn't have allowed him to make an appointment to see anyone anyway. For once, though, I'd like a relationship to be less about them and more about me. I've kind of wondered if it was my fate to keep fixing people instead of being happy.For the most part I can handle being an empath. I've learned that I have to go with my intuition in life in order to be happy. It's when it comes to romantic relationships that I get tripped up. It's easiest for me to pick up the feelings of the man that I care about. Occasionally I know exactly what he's thinking. It's really difficult when the man doesn't want to pursue the relationship. I think it's harder for an empath to shut off her own feelings. I feel very lonely then, like I do right now (-: !
updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 02/26/17 02:40:21PM
Debbie Winchell (Loving Dove)
@debbie-winchell-loving-dove
07/15/09 08:09:02PM
49 posts

Do Empaths React To Colors?


Empath

I was wondering if empaths reacted to colors more strongly than other people. Unfortunately I've lived most of my adult life in apartments with white walls. When I go to a yarn shop or show I just want to stand and look at all the colors. Sometimes I feel like I have to wear a color on a certain day. I usually feel best wearing purple. Recently a friend had a sale to close her shop and I picked up several yarns I couldn't give up. I think all of them had some shade of pink. I bought a dress to wear at pow wows that could best be described as hand-painted in violet, bright pink and turquoise. It makes me feel good to wear it. I'm wearing it in my profile photo.Thank you.
updated by @debbie-winchell-loving-dove: 03/01/17 02:41:28AM