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RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
11/06/15 10:45:17PM
110 posts

which category of explanation do you find most promising?


Empath

They maybe like me and blessed/cursed with sort of a male/female thought process which can cause an imbalance due to the struggle...basically a ying/yang in their head.

Here is the test and I have taken dozens similar and the results are always the same...this one I am a +35.

http://www.afifthofnothing.com/gendertest.html

I have dated 5 INFJ women from okcupid and a handful of empath's there and a few from eharmony ...none were "crazy" and how I found them....good question ;)

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
11/06/15 10:31:06PM
110 posts



He could be love for a narcissists or early stages of agape love...I have done both in the past year.


updated by @ryuukogo: 10/18/17 10:12:57PM
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
11/06/15 10:20:02PM
110 posts

which category of explanation do you find most promising?


Empath

<<< INFJ,HSP,Empath....but Psychic Hybrid sounds beter ;)

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
11/06/15 10:16:46PM
110 posts

which category of explanation do you find most promising?


Empath

Whereare the "Dark Empath" 's needed? ;)

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
11/05/15 10:22:27PM
110 posts

A Narcissist walks into my house on Sunday and


Empath

The narcissist I have meet don't seem put out the regular emotions most people do..regular people ther is an exchange...narcissists the emotions only come from me..which explains why I feel comfortable being by them..similar to being sucked into a black hole...lol

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
11/05/15 10:18:10PM
110 posts

which category of explanation do you find most promising?


Empath

All of them and spiritual or love.

Regarding our abilities if a bird can navigate by detecting the earth's magnetic field why can't humans detect the "field" of others.

When I was dating a them GF I at times would leave the house in a hurry and my father would ask my mother where I was going and she replied to him that I am sensing something wrong with my GF...its funny becausethat was considered "normal" in my family...or at least normal for me to do.

My then GF,now ex wife,is bipolar and I could sense for miles if she was having problems..my range was a max of 25 miles

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
11/02/15 06:24:47PM
110 posts

A Narcissist walks into my house on Sunday and


Empath

I almost forgot how intense the draw is to one.

My roommate was house sitting two dogs and the owner came by Sunday to pick them up...when the owner showed all of a sudden I was basically in love ...I wanted to talk to her..ask her questions...just be next to her to feel more what I felt....but I knew something was wrong so I went back to my room while she and my roommate talked outside.

So I did what a good Empath would do in that situation....range test ...I found out that if I stay 50 feet away I am not effected.

Later that night I though she may have been an Empath...we do have that type of effect when we meet...but after talking to my roommate about the owner's whining about the prices,the food the dogs did and did not eat and so on..i concluded the woman in definitely a Narcissist.

I actually dated a Narcissist last year for personal growth...not something I would suggest an Empath do unless they have an "escape plan"

Anyone run into one lately and how did you know they had NPD?


updated by @ryuukogo: 01/14/17 01:02:13AM
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
10/30/15 10:16:04PM
110 posts

Strange Happening


Empath

Could be a spirit...ghost...someone doing an out of body experience...stay guarded no matter what it is.

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
10/29/15 10:22:03PM
110 posts

Empaths: When Faced with Conflict, how do you deal?


Empath

1.I don't deal with conflict....I leave and come back when we are both calmer.

2.I sense emotions of both the person I am arguing with and the part of me arguing ( long story ) and have learned how to push my emotions ( Dark Empath skill )to others and may do it unconscientiously during a fight.

3.Maybe...I don't talk about my skills much anymore...mine are a combination or natural/inherited and forced...from what I am what is considered a hybrid...not skilled in just one area but a little in a lot.

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
09/29/15 07:43:52PM
110 posts



I don't try it anymore...I did try it 30+ years ago...it was too weird and took way too much energy and I never did like the idea of leaving my body unattended.


updated by @ryuukogo: 10/23/17 10:55:47AM
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
09/29/15 07:38:10PM
110 posts



Could be our speed in the universe has changed which has effected our type's timing.

http://www.thelivingmoon.com/41pegasus/02files/Speed_of_Earth.html

"574,585 MPH Speed of Earth within Our Galaxy"

PS Sunday I did notice my "timing" had changed.

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
09/26/15 10:24:24PM
110 posts

Do you guys feel or sense anything about the upcoming "Blood Moon Eclipse" on 27th & 28th September 2015?


Empath

I sense calmness...time has seem to slowed down the past day...what world event(s) happen or not happen in the next 2 days should be interesting.

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
08/26/15 09:04:07PM
110 posts

Empaths and parties


Empath

Take a lot of vitamns before/after you go..especially vitaminC ...http://www.drjudithorloff.com/_blog/Dr_Judith_Orloff%27s_Blog/post/...

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
08/09/15 11:44:25PM
110 posts



About 70 people a year are killed by Lions...in Zimbabawe they live in fear and some are killed by lions.

http://www.nytimes.com/2015/08/05/opinion/in-zimbabwe-we-dont-cry-for-lions.html?_r=0

From what I have read cecil was just a lion on a reserve that had a tag so biologist could monitor him...somehow the guide lured cecil off the park then the hunter killed it.

Maybe the guide had a vendetta against lions..or even cecil?

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
08/09/15 06:58:20PM
110 posts

Could there be empaths or other those with other gifts who are not involved into their gift or talk about it?


Empath

They maybe aware of what they sense but not the term "empath" and the term "energy" is more mainstream.

I do not talk about my abilities anymore...other empaths,psychics,animal whisperer's,shama and so on are really uncomfortable that I have learned both dark/light abilities....but at times I do make a mistake of saying,I was at a sort of wake,and commented to the host that I did not sense any despair/loss but relief/peace coming from the family/friends that were there....he replied back that he agree'd.

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
06/16/15 09:14:06PM
110 posts



It is "coincidence" 1 incandescent,2 fluorescent bulbs burnt out just outside my room....three in my room...all in a 5 month period...at times the heart rate monitor at the 24hr fitness shows a pulse when I am not touching the sensor pads...all "coincidence" just like what you noticed ;)

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
04/17/15 04:07:28PM
110 posts

What is your 'range'?


Empath

Range is okay but timing can be really good.....to us it's normal for occurrences like this...the time between the messages we sent to each other was less than a minute."OMGosh! That is too funny! I messaged you on Match at the same time you messaged me on OKCupid! "
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
04/17/15 11:43:13AM
110 posts

Your Younger Self


Empath

I would not tell my younger self anything. ..doing so would have postponed the inevitable ...which is discovering who and what I am now. ..a mess..lol.Highly Sensitive Person. .Empath..INFJ personality with a little precognition and skills of a Dark and Light Empath...and you thought your life was different.lol.
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
04/09/15 07:54:32AM
110 posts



They could be someone who has to have two personalities...a public one and a private one?

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
04/08/15 01:33:09PM
110 posts

the past is haunting me


Empath

Spend some time with him when he is around people or places that he routinely is around...you may get better sense of what he may or may not be bringing into the relationship...as well as your doubts.
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
04/06/15 08:59:46PM
110 posts



I guess maybe you have out grown him and his ability to guide you?

If I had a mentor they would say to me "You are a mine cart full of dynamite heading into a dynamite bunker with a flare in hand saying weeeee!!!"

How does one even mentor an Empath or one that is a hybrid...empath/psychic?

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
04/06/15 10:24:39AM
110 posts



I can say without a doubt the skill does not turn off, at least with me , I already formed a thread with a future date and I wasn't even trying. ..here is part of an email I received a few days ago... I removed the site names."OMGosh! That is too funny! I messaged you on ... at the same time you messaged me on ..! "My fingers are crossed that my old skill does not accidentally come up...and yes I am a little more than an empath.
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
04/06/15 08:55:53AM
110 posts



My 2 cents...as far as I know it is a dark empath skill...once another empath knows you have that skill...that maybe the last time they want to be around you....or have any type of contact with you again.

I formed a "thread" with that empath...a month before we meet...I was even waking up at the same time she was..I thought it was funny...she did not....and yes I am that pain in the rear empath ;)

So far in the past two months I have meet one empath in person and another four online...and recently a shaman...so far just the one I meet in person knows that I have that skilland blocked me from all contact...but it is just a matter of time before I make a mistake of mentioning my skill to the others.

Explaining how to do it would be the same as explaining to a non-empath how to be an empath.

I used the skill to get my then bipolar wife arrested then hospitalized...quite often she would stop taking her medication...I had no choice to do it....that was 15+ years ago.

The skill does not really turn off...it can stay in your subconscience..it can come up in a fight/disagreement...or even a dream.

Unless they give you permission using it on them it is an invasion oftheir privacy....I do plan to use it in my next long term relationship,with her permission,to allow her to share her feelings with me...I am not sure if I want to share mine..Ithink if I do receive her feelings I will form a bond with her...or nothing will happen.

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
03/29/15 07:32:10PM
110 posts



Storm09...you could still be learning about what you have....give it time....but keep in mind the abilities,at least in my case,have no "off" switch.

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
03/28/15 05:31:14PM
110 posts



It is fun "reading" people....even before meeting them. ;)

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
03/24/15 08:00:19AM
110 posts

The "Heart Field"


Empath

I think the heart field theory is valid for those near us and especially in crowds...in large crowds I guess people serve as repeaters.

Long distance sensing is more of a spiritual connection...which I have seen first hand.

My father was in a coma when my mother was hospitalized...she passed away at about 9 PM...he passed away about 5 AM...she was in California and he was in Nevada.

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
03/24/15 07:46:20AM
110 posts



You can...as long as you like roller coaster rides...I was married to one for 10 years.

I will never do that again...

I do have a friend that is borderline NPD who sort of helps me check if I am effected by narcissists.


updated by @ryuukogo: 10/24/17 06:06:06AM
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
03/20/15 12:17:57PM
110 posts

How Do You Project and Draw?


Empath

Scott I called it "pushing" I'm beginning to think people involved with the Star Wars and Star Trek series were and are Empaths. ..the whole mind melting...counselor Troy ..force terms are basically Empath skills.One skill I have not tried in 35 years is to look into my significant others eyes and literally share emotions...so far after just a few months of working with my abilities I have a most of all the skills an Empath can have I'm still not sure if I want to "lean to "or dabble into the darkness.
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
03/20/15 11:28:30AM
110 posts

How Do You Project and Draw?


Empath

I've done both ...but only when I was married and had to get my then bipolar wife arrested to get her on a 5150 and back on her medication...that was 30 years ago.
Even mentioning those skill to another Empath got me basically blacklisted by them.
Working on those skills may lead you to be a Dark Empath.P'S when when that skill is used on other people you interfere with their destiny which I promised myself I would never do again ( I'm too busy interfering with mine ).. .we all have to learn to crawl..walk the...run...taking one of those steps out of a person's life will inevitably make them weaker.
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
03/17/15 05:56:44PM
110 posts



So far I have meet one Empath in person ...did not go well...as she wrote "your skills are more evolved than mine" another possible one place in their dating profile that her "Empathy skills" vary on the situation so I asked her is she an Empath...that was the last conversation we had. :(

That thread about the locations needs a sort of push pin map showing the concentration on Empath's.


updated by @ryuukogo: 10/23/17 08:40:05AM
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
03/16/15 12:33:25PM
110 posts



I forgot to mention the jobs I had and currently have were chosen before I knew I was a Empath..I guess the next topic could be "Did you choose your current Job because you are an Empath ?"
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
03/11/15 01:31:28PM
110 posts



For the past 28 years I have been servicing and repairing pool and spa equipment. .I am 0always around water ..away from people. ..quite often around their pets...before that I worked for the LA Herald Examiner as a newspaper deliverer. .my route was north and south laguna beach...again...near water away from people.Before that I ran a stock room which had a roll up door opened next to my desk...almost like being outside.So far the jobs I have had required little interaction with just a few people at one timeI am thinking of changing careers...but finding an ideal one for our types is challenging.
I am not antisocial. ..just more private.
updated by @ryuukogo: 03/16/17 08:20:35AM
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
03/11/15 08:20:40AM
110 posts

Crying


Empath

I think that is "normal" for us?

At least you don't have to see and remember the homeless..remember their signs...clothing and so on.

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
03/11/15 08:10:34AM
110 posts



I found out that if I sense no feeling from someone they more than likely are a narcisstic person..most people put out their feelings such as their wants,desires,needs.uncomfortableness and so on...a person with NPD wants you to put out your feelings..

I advise proceed with caution.


updated by @ryuukogo: 10/23/17 02:18:57PM
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
02/27/15 04:24:54AM
110 posts



I think I can sense an Empath in a crowd...hopefully its what I am sensing.

How can one even test it out if the person in a Empath or "vampire"?

I was communicating with an Empath I meet...but after making a few predictions...communications stopped....I wonder if I failed a test :P

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
02/23/15 10:35:58PM
110 posts



Parties less that 20 in aroom about 40'x40'is no problem... beyond 20 its gets too "noisy"

I was working out at 24hr fitness this evening...therewere200+ in the room 1,000'x1000'...then all of a sudden to "vibe" of the room changed...6 people sat on the equipmentthat is 10' in front of me...so I moved...seems to me its not just the number of people its their proximity.

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
02/23/15 07:18:16AM
110 posts



So far I can only sense another Empath in a crowd...how did you know there are 4 at work?

You being in love...she should be able to sense it...possibly it increasing near her....it should be great for both to feel love 24/7.

I guess a new topic could be ...what is n advanced Empath :)

I guess I will have to bringan Empath into my life like I did with an old roommate Sunday ..she pulled into a parking lot..right behind me.

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
02/22/15 09:13:27AM
110 posts



Based on a recent encounter with another Empath...there could be a problem especially if one is a lot more advanced than the other?

Has anyone had/have a relationship...even as a friend...with another Empath?

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
02/20/15 10:08:38PM
110 posts



Just tell him he's the passenger and enjoy the ride.

I meet a fellow Empath but she seemed uncomfortable with my abilities....not too sure if I should have told her what I can do ;P not sure if I will ever tell a future partner.

I only pushed emotions when I was married..ex is bipolar and when she stopped taking her medications I at times had to get her arrested by pushing down my emotions which popped up in her...she would get agitated and the officers would want to talk with her..once she pulls back...it is resisting arrest.

I pull at restuarants to get the waiters attention ;)

Very few people know I am an Empath...but a lot know I am "intuitive" and get along with animals and I leave it at that.

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
01/29/15 11:42:45AM
110 posts



In my case helping is the reward and people who do take advantage get a warning then the "I'm on vacation for 2 weeks " treatment...or longer ...I have not talked to my sisters in 10 years.
updated by @ryuukogo: 09/12/17 01:58:13AM
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
01/28/15 11:45:43PM
110 posts

On a lighter note..song(s) Empaths hope that don't play while driving...while wearing contacts


Empath

A friend is getting married in a few months so I am suggesting a few songs to play in the back ground...as well as....helping writing the wedding vows...I want to even see the men cry with joy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lp-EO5I60KA

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
01/26/15 05:05:53PM
110 posts

On a lighter note..song(s) Empaths hope that don't play while driving...while wearing contacts


Empath

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koJlIGDImiU

Break out the tissue ...any other songs that pull your emotions like a freight train?

its hard to explaing to someone that we actually feel the music...it moves us as much as a twister.

From Pearl Buck

"The truly creative mind in any field is no more than this: A human creature born abnormally, inhumanely sensitive. To thema touch is a blow, a sound is a noise, a misfortune is a tragedy, a joy is an ecstasy, a friend is a lover, a lover is a god, and failure is death"


updated by @ryuukogo: 01/14/17 10:08:20AM
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
01/25/15 09:38:47PM
110 posts

Setting Boundaries


Empath

Id tell a friend I was on vacation for two week...which gave me time to fall out of love....we all have to be the "bad guy" at times.

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
01/24/15 01:03:24PM
110 posts



Welcome...just be careful who you share your gift to...or hang around

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
01/24/15 12:59:47PM
110 posts

Sick a lot and guilt about self-care


Empath

Your iimmune system maybe compromised as well as you are picking up others illness?

Last night the woman in front of me mentioned she had PMS cramps....later night I felt I had two bricks to the sides of my belly button....so I went to favorite spot by the ocean...meditated a little and no more cramps....which wasn't as bad as morning sickness ;)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QfZzkhfz89c

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
01/23/15 09:43:38PM
110 posts



Hmm since we can't edit...this poem is similar to the dozens I wrote...when an Empath is in love...it doesn't drizzle...it rains. :P

I am on my hand and knees

with my heart in hand

be gentle I beg you please

for this is my stand

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
01/23/15 09:04:00PM
110 posts



Leigh..I sort of passed the "I like you" phase and went straight into writing poems...3-5 a night...looking forward to a call/text...and so on...I was in love with her soul...not as a soul mate...to me the planet is my soul mate (which why I stay away from male friends ;P)She barely liked me...every night the date would end with her criticizing something about me...so I brushed if off...night after night...my goal was just to only "heal" her emotionally...the month before we started dating her BF dumped her (he was a friend of mine) her father died and her daughter cut off all communication.Now I look it at as sort of a blessing (past relationships I had more interest in them than they did in me) this one lasted 1 month..a similar relationship...2 years...and a marriage 10 years...next time if I get a sense that a relationship is lopsided and/or going no where I will cut it off to a week.About 2 months ago I decided to be more open "emotionally" and as an Empath that really leaves us vulnerable...especially for a guy..(wild mood swings)...but its all part of my re-learning process.Its been 2 weeks since we had any contact and I am pretty much fallen out of love.Predators can pick out of a herd the weakest one and go for the kill...my problem is I have been picking out the weakest one to uplift her...my intuition says no..Empath part says she needs help.In the classes we were asked to use our dominant hand...both mine are dominant..I type with my left and write with my right....I need to get that balance with my intuition/empathy abilities.
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
01/23/15 11:54:51AM
110 posts



Well after another month "long" relationship, numerous dates and several classes at the awakenings store I've come up with the co conclusion that in order to have a "normal" marriage that it has to be with another Empath or someone involved with parapsychology....so today is Friday...if I meet someone Saturday....I'll be in love by Thursday :pI did the mmath on the last relationship. ..it took me about 24 hours of real time to fall in love...
RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
01/20/15 07:25:07PM
110 posts



What I was supposed to "read" vs ( we "read" the tarot cards ourselves to another )what I felt was a lot different...being a HSP too..the ringing from glass bowl was similar to a non-HSPbeing next to a yard blower. :P

RyuukoGo
@ryuukogo
01/20/15 12:32:52AM
110 posts



I went to class that supposed to have had several Empaths in it...it was..ehh...it was as I suspected....it was just like being in a room with "normal" people with one issue after another. :P

I think I will just keep to myself that I am an Empath/HSP and just live a "normal" life as possible....and just keep on using the "lucky guess" line.

 
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