Hop Daddy
Hop Daddy
@hop-daddy
2 years ago
896 posts

You sound out of balance due to all the negative you are drawing in. I went through something similar earlier this year where I lost focus and motivation and drank a lot. And I was often really super tired at end of day. And I had marital problems as well. But the flip side was that I started having more amazing empath spiritual moments. But as you know its hard when being like this to be present in your life and relationships. 

I started trying out various protection crystals day and night. I also spend more time meditating and grounding off that negative from the day. And it has really helped bring me back to a more normal happier existence. I found that black tourmaline, black obsidian, and lapis tuzuli were the three crystals that helped me most with protection. I carry them on me at all times. Have you tried crystals or grounding?

Rene''
Rene''
@rene
2 years ago
1,195 posts

Austin1977:

That sounds so similar to my situation. I love that about this community. 

Anyways yes I do and have worked with some crystals. Right now the only crystals that I have is Rose Quartz, Kyanite, and Clear Quartz. I used to have more such as, Apache tears and black tourmaline. I threw those ones into a river in Colorado, because I didn't like how they felt, and they lost their "touch" Now looking back I'm realizing (as I write this) they probably just needed to be cleansed.

The other issue that i have with crystals is I'm fairly religious and I feel like it conflicts with the idea of, "No other gods before me." I battle with this mentally. My thought is they are god created elements, but Im still cautious. Any insight on that? Overall I think I need to do my homework on crystals in general. 

I don't really know how to ground my self other than mediation. Do you have anyways that work for you while you are out and about?

Thank you for all your advice. I pray that you Light and God surrounds you. 

hey there    

I use to have the problem with  I don't want to do anything wrong in Gods eyes " so I strated asking him him the be with me while I walk this path and to guide me and if this was something o wasn't suppose to experience then to lead me away from it.   This helped me a lot   

I ground though meditation and also in nature.  Taking your shoes off, walking barefooted I'm grass or leaning or setting against trees or feeling of rocks I find   There is so many simple ways to ground    

I did not read that you have tried cutting the cords that is causing the negative thoughts.   You can do this by using meditation and ask the angels to cut the cords or you can have a healer help you cut them   These cords can cause many things in your life to go wrong.   It also disconnects you from the emotions from others that do not serve you like the thoughts of your wife talking to other guys    This coul be someone's else's emotions causing you to feel this way    

Grounding will helps me identify the truth instead of my emotions running wild    It's the intent you put into it and knowing "you are now grounded"  that's makes it work for you    

Hope that helps a little bit  


updated by @rene: 11/02/16 10:30:39AM
Hop Daddy
Hop Daddy
@hop-daddy
2 years ago
896 posts

Austin:

I'm fairly religious myself so I understand the conflict. My view is that religion is man made and it's okay to go against some of the church teachings and still be spiritual. I also believe that sometimes God shows us the way and we just don't see it very quickly if at all. If I hand over a crystal to a regular person it does nothing for them. But in the hands of an empath, crystals are like medicine. I think God gave this to us to help. I prayed to God for quite a while to help me get a grip on depression and anxiety. Not much came of my prayers initially, and then they were answered in an unexpected way. I suddenly discovered I was an empath. And then I found this website and got turned on to crystals that totally changed my life. I think you should reconsider trying them.

I think the Rose Quartz is good for you as it is spreads love to those around you and self-love for you and your insecurities. But it seems that you are soaking up to much negativity and need to get a handle on that. Most empaths love black tourmaline. But if you had a bad experience with that try black obsidian. And I think lapis tuzuli would be a good one for you as well. These crystals will help balance and ground you be absorbing and/or deflecting the negative that you take in as an empath day after day.

I also have some additional grounding tips for you that I'll private message you on.

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