Wow, so you have three kids with gifts plus you? How does your wife handle all of that? We laugh at ourselves at our house as it must look like a freak show to my wife. All sorts of things are attracted to our household.
My kids are a little older. My son is 16 and sees ghosts. His strongest skill is that he can meditate very easily and can astral travel with ease. He currently has very high self-esteem and has a very high vibration and can flip the energy in a negative environment really fast. People are very drawn to him. My daughter is 14 and appears to have the most psychic abilities of the three of us. She's a very strong empath and sees and hears spirits regularly. But she really struggles with low energy she takes in from humans and entities. I've posted about this many times that we've struggled to keep entities from attaching to her and bringing her down as she's really suffered through depression this past year. My theory is that because she's the most special of the three of us and is vulnerable as a teen girl, entities are pretty attracted to her energy. We think we have the upper hand on the battle to keep her healthy. But it is a daily chore to battle and prevent things from sucking the life out of her.
As for me, my empathic abilities have been changing over the past few years. I was a very strong emotional empath, but that has become more tuned and balanced. And now I've progressed to being a stronger clairaudient where I hear and feel the presence of the unseen (but usually don't see them). And I have visions, and have a general knowing sense. I'm going through a phase where I get a lot of angel number messaging and believe I am close to making the leap to being able to communicate with my spirit guides.
Thanks for your other post comments on the pendulum. I'm looking forward to learning more.