Feeling guilty over knowing things I shouldn't
updated by @emmy-long: 07/18/17 06:59:57PM
Emmy, your instincts were following a knowledge and wisdom that women have practised for generation on end. I grew up in a medical family but there was still respect for the wisdom of the old ways that held true. One being that pregnant women should wait to share their condition. Spontaneous abortions are the sad but common down side of pregnancy for the first 4 months.
In this case, focus your attention on your co worker's lost and her feelings because that's what it's all about. As you've noted, you are not omnipotent and have no control over what happens to others but you can contribute to her recovering from her lost by not bringing the negative energy of unfounded guilt into it all.
much light & peace
For the next time you have to deal with a situation like this, feel free to consider me a grandma or great-grand and say " my great-grand once told me that it's best to keep your wonderful news close to your heart and a few you are very close to because". Explaining in your own way what you have read here http://www.babycenter.com/0_understanding-miscarriage_252.bc
I hope that helps, as women we can all help each other thru the hard parts of womanhood by being as well informed as possible. You've been blessed with the gift of the goddess (female intuition) and now you can back it up with the science of it all. It's wonderful your co-worker has a great lady like you!
Emmy, is she under medical care right now ? if not, she definitely needs to be. It' s a common practice to do a d&c after a miscarriage for health reasons and if she is waiting for nature to take care of it I assume that she has not gone to doctor or clinic . Not seeking care can effect her overall health and her ability to have a healthy pregnancy in the future.
The Universe is very much full of love and peace. One of the reasons that people survive horrific accidents e.g lost of a limb, is that our bodies keep us from the pain. When it comes to the life cycle of death, we all come from the Creator and return to the Creator, like drops of water returning to the sea. Only those with the extreme problem of attachment to this earthly plane have any issue with going to the love, peace and light.
We can be in the metaphysical world with a scientific approach. If you haven't already, developed a strategy to valid your physic impressions the following might be of some help. 1, You have your gut intuition and 2. you can do open minded research. You can also ask your inner self to show you the meaning before you go to bed at night and pay close attention to what info you have gathered when you awake in the morning.
You definitely "shall see" the meaning if you work at it! ... : )
The one thing I can assure you of is that statue isn't a problem in chilbirth. Mother Nature has made women of all sizes with all kinds of shapes and bodies to do amazing things. Those who aren't familiar with midwifery would be astounded with the knowledge of the craft. The medical associations over 100 years ago (at the time run entirely by men) looked to destroy midwifery and the chiropractic arts so that they could increase their profit and control. They made childbirth into a medical intervention, like a disease. Things can go wrong but knowledge is knowing the difference.
Particularly from a spiritual aspect, childbirth is a time when the passage doors between two worlds opens. It's the same door we leave thru in death. Your observed mother may have had complications, she could have had an absence of support and or the aftermath of a conventional birth where you are left in much more pain and weak. Maternal hormones can also bring on depression and it could have been all those things combined.
It's a very good thing that she had someone like you to talk with for awhile.
love and peace!