When the world feels against you
Is it possible that all the negativity around me is what is causing my world to feel like it's crashing and everything against me? These are things that I'm in no position or authority to fix. Or is it that it is something I can fix and that is why the universe is doing this to me??
updated by @tigerlily: 11/25/17 11:08:38AM
I have also heard many Empaths saying it is trying times. Good luck and stay balanced.
These events in our lives push us to grow. It's an opportunity. I like what said "Stay balanced and watch as a spectator". We(all humans) personalize everything! When we don't it helps us let go of those emotions we put in cages and hold onto.
“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.”
― Frank Herbert, Dune
That works for any "pent-up" emotion if we don't respond to it, or react. Their emotion becomes our emotion, unless we let it go.
They are not just against you. They work against each other as well. It isn't personally directed at you. It's their personal inadequacy that they project onto you. It's our choice to accept it or reject it. It is hard to do when they believe what they do and feel is justified. Just know that it isn't. Humans are really really stupid. I say that not to condemn humanity, but to let you know they are not right. No matter how sure they are. We all have to rise above our own stupidity.
I have leaned that, as much as I'd like to, I can't fix everyone . They fix themselves. I can facilitate that fix if I don't respond to their anger and frustration. I let it pass through me and can see things as they are.
People wanting us empaths to fix their problems is always the theme. But just remember, you help who you want to help. You should cut off others. There are a lot of people out there who are not learning their life lessons and just siphon off some of our higher vibrational energy to feel better temporarily. But the next day they go back to behaving the same and having the same problems since they are stuck and are not being accountable in their own lives. You really have to be picky with what drama you allow yourself to get pulled into. Because that does build inside you as you absorb all that and will bring you down (with bad luck to follow).
But there may be a bigger story for you here. I have found that often the bad news or frustrating times in relationships and situations (like work) can be signals to remind me that I am off-track on my life path. I try not to blame all bad days on this. But if it is a recurring situation, you should look for the signals and signs. I love the old saying there are no coincidences. I really believe that to be true. Even in bad times, you are presented with lessons. I try to pull myself back and look at my frustrating times and relationships and see it for what it is. Often I find it is time to move on or make a change. And when I listen to my gut and heart, I usually see that the sign that I was being forced to see helped motivate me to make a change for the better. I don’t know if this can be any help to you. But I think a lot of your frustration and pain are signs that it is time to make some changes to benefit yourself and get back in the groove of the right direction for your life path.
Well I'm here I think just to share what a triple whammy is doing to me! I was hit so fast with multiple people's emotions and pain....one is my daughter who is not living close to me! She was injured....Then 2 other people ,with their emotions and pain...I was hit by a World wind! It was bam,ban,bam.....The last one I felt,actually made me feel like I actually withered down like cartoon characters do! I went right to sleep! Now it has stopped.phew! I'm finally getting on my feet! Iv grounded,epsom salt,I think I should just sit in one everyday,all day my gems,ect....breathing techniques ,ect! Plus I have my own personal emotions and pain! I hope this episode is over...I don't know what else to call it..it wiped me out! But rest brought me back,I'm to old for this! And surprisingly I was able to figure out what went to Who! I feel I was getting signals from these people in distress! And I could stay secluded,it doesn't matter,it still happens....So now hopefully this to shall pass,right now!👏 I turned down the volume also,to off! But because I want to know what is going on, unconsciously I do this to myself I believe.....I need to mind my bussiness,lol.....I believe for me,this is the first time with this many people!