Made By Empaths ©: The gripping tale of a complicated birth

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4 years ago
414 posts

The Empath Community has been around for a while: it was created in 2007. In internet years, that means we're ancient...

In the good ol' days, the platform we use ( was completely free and supported by Google ads. But, in time, they got sold and bought a few times and decided to start charging monthly fees.

Even back then, it was really important to me that the EC besustainable. Maybe it's because I live in Oregon and we'll all tree huggers here but I didn't want this web site to bedependenton me. If I got abducted by aliens tomorrow, I want it to be able to stand on its own feet.

So I organized a fund raiser, hoping to get close enough to the $240 I needed for one year of hosting. Needless to say, I wasshockedwhen it took less than half a day to get this sum!

But the truth is that I hate asking for money from people who come here because they are lost, hurt, confused, depressed, angry, wondering if they're crazy and often unable to function well in their daily lives. The last thing they need is to be asked for one more thing...

In my heart, I want this web site to be not only sustainable, buttransparently sustainable. That means our members don't even think about the fact that we have bills to pay. We don't ask them for anything. We just give them our time, experience, support and advise.

There's been at least 3 incarnations of this idea. At first, I had a gift shop where people could buy T-Shirts with the EC logo. I think I sold 3. LOL! Looking back on it, it made sense: this is not something that people wanted or needed.

Then I tried an Amazon store with items that were specifically useful for Empaths, such as crystals. That had a good run as we sold 56 items in 3 months. However, we make about $0.10 per sale. Some quick math reveals that this is not sustainable either.

And very, very late one night, I realized that I had always wanted to help connect our members to each other. Here's a typical story: there's one member who needs help and there's another who's dying to help others. A match made in Heaven!

That's how the idea of offering private readings in a "store" was born. Our more seasoned members could help the new ones, while also developing their own expertise as providers of professional readings.

But this is where I dream to see it go:

...what if we could generate enough money through the Made By Empaths offerings to pay all our hosting fees ($50/month) without relying on our members to chip in?

...what is we could make more than we need and save money to pay for next year's hosting fees?

...what if we could do all this AND have money left over so that we could advertise the AMAZING professional services, books and hand made products in our Made by Empaths store on Google?

...what if we could becometransparently sustainablewhile also helping support our own members as they start new careers and explore their ever expanding talents? Bingo!

This dream is dedicated to you, my Empath friend. I know you have gone through so much already: you have emotionally suffered, been abused, feltabandonedand taken advantage of by those you don't understand what we are.

It is my deepest desire that you will find something completely different here: Support. Understanding. Love. Healing. Growth.

I love you so very much,


updated by @eliselebeau: 01/13/17 01:51:08PM
4 years ago
607 posts

That's sounds awesome. I came to EC back in 2009/2010 and it was my launch pad. I was just barely realizing that I was an Empath. Though it helped me understand what an Empath is, EC became more then that, the members became family, especially when I asked for prayers and support for my oldest who attempted suicide. The overwhelming support I received changed me. Those were my darkest hours and the one place I could turn to was here. I not only wanted to developed my skills as an Empath, it helped developed me as a person. It made me realize that there are people out there who really do care. These "online strangers" are now my family and when it all boils down to it, it's not about just developing Empathic abilities, it's about seeing one another, supporting one another and knowing we are not alone in the crazy world. No matter who rejects us or think we are crazy or just oversensative, we always have a home to come to to family who understands. Thank you for giving this to us.

please let me know how I can help :)

Blessed Be,


4 years ago
414 posts

Thanks for sharing this Angel and Sandy! Reading this makes me feel like the EC is fulfilling its purpose!

<huge grin>

4 years ago
414 posts

It occurred to me after that fact that being "outed" by the shirt might be an issue! Maybe I need to make a really subtle one where only a member of the EC would know what it means LOL!

I am still chewing on the idea of an Empath Summit too...

Nocturne's Angel
4 years ago
867 posts

Maybe we could get bracelets (maybe Yoga Mala beads) with the people on them as a dangling charm ~smiles~

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