It's easy to completely write someone off. To say their souls is different is to say that their are children born wrong. And it completely disregard the changes life experience can have on a person.
Now I am not saying that those changes have to become your problem. In fact I am saying the opposite.
We all make a choice in life particularly when faced with challenges. We can chose to blame the world or we can react with hope and compassion. It is insecurity in one's self that leads to the Narc tendencies.
The more insecure a person is the more controlling and angry they tend to be. Again their issues does not have to be your own. That again is a choice. The entirety of existence is connected. You need only be aware.
It is compassion and wisdom that allows us to see and feel the world the way we do. It is with that compassion that we get through life as an empath without being overtaken by all the bad.
After all the idea of what a narc is, was created by the idea of what a compassionate person is. In creating beauty we simultaneously create ugliness.
updated by @crystalsage: 03/17/18 01:34:14PM