How to cope with his pain?
I respect his wishes to part ways, it pains me more to feel his pain and be able to do nothing about it, I just want to kiss it better. I'll make it worse if i reach out to him again.. he's breaking inside and I can't bear it..
I just feel like I really need someone empathic who understands to help me through this. He's the absolute love of my life and always will be.
I feel him breaking this very moment and tears stroll my eyes as I write, I don't want to hurt him anymore.
I have no idea how long it will continue for or I'd I will ever be able to disconnect from his energy field..
Peace and love to all, need ur positivity ..
updated by @pinkrose: 02/07/18 12:12:34PM
Are you looking to cut the chord? I think from my experience, that is similar to yours, only reversed. Leaving the person alone is the best thing, let that person heel. Learn to forgive yourself for whatever it is that caused him pain. He will then one day forgive you.
He's not hurting as much anymore, least I've not felt it as much since the post, we are really closely connected empathically.. whether he's forgiven me, I'm not sure.
It almost seems impossible to disconnect, if anything it strengthens the bond more? Whatever we both had tried backfires, I just end up loving him more because I know his intentions behind it..
Has anyone else ever experienced anything like this?
You most likely have an empath pattern that keeps the connection alive, and even if you cut cords, you will still share energy with each other. There are ways to get rid of empath patterns, but you both have to agree to do it. Then remove cords - there are many different ways to do that, so you might have to try different techniques to find one that works.
It just gives me more reason to be grateful to him, with every knock I come back fighting stronger and better, but will never give up on him..
It's still too early to say whether the chord has somewhat come away, but in recent days I feel as though I haven't picked up anything from him, we used to be really in sync and I no longer experience that..
I don't think he actually wants me to reach out to him anymore, in anyway, and I respect that.. I'm just dreading the coming days/weeks when it might begin to intensify.. I have one thing left that ties us together in reality and it's looming on me whether I should or shouldn't, only thing is I don't want him thinking I dumped him again or that it's out of spite for what he did to me.. or whether cutting that connection is what he wants or is expecting?