Other’s emotions presenting as physical injury?
updated by @cat-whisperer: 10/21/17 01:21:28PM
updated by @cat-whisperer: 10/18/17 07:25:45AM
I can't imagine you not picking up his emotional energy (particularly if you intentionally tried to remove it for him). But if you are good at grounding and protecting yourself, the energy may have been more watered down (so to speak).
I am sorry to hear you had an accident. It could have been a random happening. Or it could have been due to your mind being distracted as you dealt with shedding his energy. It may have been distracting enough that you weren't 100% focused on driving? But I'm glad to hear that you are alright.
Your right, it was probably just a random event. With my analytical mind, I always try to make sense of happenings and find a connection.
I feel that I need to tell more detail of the incident to really shed light on it. I was on my horse, doing what we’ve done several times before. She was even pretty laid back so we were just relaxing walking at a real slow pace when she lunges forward out of the blue.....this is something she never does. Anyhow, as she lunged forward I fell.....hard. She even turned to look at me while I laid on the ground trying to get air back in my lungs and just stood there. Crazy as she never spooks like that, and when she does, it’s not a forward lunge but more of a flinch and stand still. Your right, probably just a random event. Just trying to make sense of it all. I know there are reasons for everything that happens, most of the time it’s easy for me to see the reasons. But this time I cannot.
I have even considered that she perhaps felt the funk, and that is what caused her to do this, as horses are very intuitive by nature. She was very relaxed as he petted her while we talked though. Things that make you go hmmmm.
Next time I go on a mission like that I think I’ll leave her at home.
updated by @cat-whisperer: 10/19/17 07:12:23AM
updated by @cat-whisperer: 10/19/17 09:41:31AM
You're testing us. I love it!
I wrongly assumed that you had a car accident. And that makes me laugh because when I first read your post I didn't feel that you had a car accident. But my analytical mind overruled thinking you must have had an accident while driving back. It reminds me to tell my mind to shut off more often so I can better listen to my intuition.
But if you had a horse riding accident that now makes more sense to me. My wife has a horse so I am pretty familiar. And we also have two golden retrievers. I think animals are very intuitive. And while our dogs are very good at picking up on the moods and energy in our household, my wife tells me her horse has even higher awareness of human thought and energy.
I think you are correct that your horse may have felt anxiety from the funk you were dealing with and spooked. It sounds like you were trying to ground out that heavy energy while riding back home. I think if you had been walking it would ground out to the earth. But while riding a horse it makes perfect sense that she would have picked up on what you were trying to rid from your body. After all, that energy has to go somewhere.
I'm glad to hear that you are okay. My wife was thrown from a horse some years ago and broke her back. That can get a bit dangerous.
I think I just realized that I may have misunderstood more of your story. It sounds like he was with you while you were riding. But along the same lines, his misery would have definitely transferred in part to your horse. Our thoughts have energy but our spoken word is much stronger energy. While you talked things out with him there would be a lot to deal with. I think this may have been even more so since you are an empath trying to draw that low energy out of him to help him heal. Your poor horse was probably not able to cope with that intensity. But again, I'm glad to hear you did not get seriously hurt.
As for my daughter in law’s father, he wasn’t with me the entire ride. I stopped by his house on the way back home.
My horse is my favorite grounding “technique”. I can have the worst day....go for a ride....it’s gone. I joke that my horse is my therapist 😂. Horses do pick up stuff, but they have a way of dissipating it. Lightbulb moment! I have just never witnessed the dissipation process. since perhaps when she feels my stuff she is in “therapist” mode, I don’t see anything but tenderness from her. This was someone else’s junk....perhaps another reason I didn’t feel his funk. Oh bless her heart! I was so focused on helping him, didn’t realize what I was putting her through
Thanks again for your feedback ....we are on a continual learning process. 😉
I think suicide and what it does to family that is left behind to grieve is one of the heaviest energies. It's very dark and overwhelming. It's a very sad and angry energy wrapped up in one. I have a real hard time helping people going through that as it can often me too much for me to take. Perhaps also too much for your horse. I guess now you know in the future how she may react to your grounding on a tough day.
It definitely sounded like the horse might have picked up on "your being on edge" (it likely wasn't from you, but you probably still had that energy/emotion and the horse picked up on it) and then it might have been a little more on edge that night as well. Do you know what spooked her?
I don't think his energy would have "manifested" into a physical injury, however I wouldn't be surprised if it was linked to the actual accident. And, as most people would probably tell you, it could have been a crazy coincidence, it's really up to you and what your intuition is telling you about the overall situation. I'm sure he appreciates your being there and helping him though, it's great that you helped someone who really needed it! Blessings, and I hope everything turns out well for you!
updated by @loconnoro: 10/19/17 07:08:08PM
Funny thing is both me and my horse were laid back on the ride home....I can feel when she is tense. Quite the contrary she was super laid back. There was none of that on either part.....I held the funk (kinda like I had it contained in a hollow crystal ball) but it was not affecting me adversely. My intent was to rid myself of it when I got home...instead it was a trip to the hospital.
updated by @cat-whisperer: 10/20/17 06:11:48AM
Thanks for the insight. I didn’t feel any presence, but then again a lot of times I don’t. It was definitely out of the blue and out of character for her. Just trying to get better at this point....I already miss riding. I still go out and hang out with the horses though, I know it wasn’t her fault.
updated by @womanwhowalks: 10/21/17 01:32:28PM
Perhaps some day you will get your horse.....keep thinking about it.....all the time.....manifest it! 😉
updated by @cat-whisperer: 10/21/17 02:26:42PM