Reason I ask, is because whenever somethibg good happens and I tell one of my long time friends, it goes bad usually in a few days to a month.
I've often suspected jelousy from her, but in all honesty I don't know why she would be. She has a better job than I do, a husband and kid, house. Things she always wanted.
I want to start a business of my own and get out of corporate politics, and I'm afraid if I tell her or she finds out, that I'll go bankrupt!!
How do I break this? Stopping friendship with her would be impossible since she's friends with my relatives. And with social media she'll find out anyways.
Yes, this can happen as a form of psychic attack. Jealousy is a very powerful negative emotion. And since we are very sensitive to energy, the intensity of jealousy can really derail us. And sometimes these psychic attacks can be orchestrated by someone who really knows how to use it and it comes across even deeper as a hex or spell. This is more rare. But even just someone who is unknowingly projecting a psychic attack, it can be dangerous. And it typically does more damage if you allow the person to remain in your life or in circle of friends.
I would cut ties with this person and cut cords with her as well. When you keep good people in your life who truly care for you and find joy in your successes, that good energy can really propel you to new heights. And the opposite is always true.
updated by @womanwhowalks: 08/14/17 12:46:11AM
The previous advice is spot on, however, for good measure, when I have to be around those people, I will take a salt bath and smudge myself after being around them. I have some in laws that I have to do this after socializing with them....it works wonders.
What if you really love a friend but are picking up her extreme pain and fear of being alone?
I have a friend who is very extraverted and can't stand being alone, but her husband is a traveling salesman, so he is often gone for weeks at a time. I never used to mind being alone so much before I met her, but I am unbearably lonely for awhile now for the first time in my life. I finally figured out I may be picking it up from her, since I've only known her about 1 1/2 yrs.
How can I stop picking up her sadness at being alone a lot without dropping her from my life? I'd like to see her even more than I already do. She is a great human being, just different from me, and I don't like feeling this way at all. I am already depressed from being very ill and this is adding greatly to it. I have tried cutting cords while affirming that I want her in life, but don't want to pick up her emotions. So far, it is not working.
Thanks for any ideas.
I am a crystal nut so I couldn't help but comment. I love black tourmaline. But I find rose quartz has a calming effect on me but not so much in a group setting. So I'm a little luke warm on rose quartz but that may just be me. I recently added malachite to my collection and really like it because it both protects against negative and also pulls it out of you. But because of that you have to cleanse it more often. Here's some info. on it if you are interested:
Malachite is a protection stone, absorbing negative energies and pollutants from the atmosphere and from the body. It guards against radiation of all kinds, clears electromagnetic pollution and heals earth energies.
Rose quartz is the crystal I feel the very best wearing. Maybe I just need my compassion increased more than most folks, lol, since that is what it is supposed to be best at from what I've read.
I love the color and pattern of malachite and green is my favorite color. I have several green aventurines combined in a necklace with teddite, but no malachite. I could use having negativity pulled out of me. Thanks for the info.