I am new here and have been reading through a lot of the post and I can really say you guys give really good advice and I already feel at home here.
Okay, so here is my story. Four months ago my brother got a girlfriend and she came to visit for a week (they only knew each other over Facebook and this was their first meeting). When she got here I instantly disliked her and got a weird feeling that she is hiding something. I told myself it's just because it's my brother's girlfriend and I was usually like that at first with all his girlfriends but something just told me to listen to my feelings. After the week's "visit" she "lost her job" and my brother asked my mother if she can live with us. My mother didn't say yes immediately at first but agreed after a few days.
Everything was fine the first two weeks, she was closed off and rarely talked to any of us. Then she and my brother got into fights, like daily. She got a job a month after living with us but never got pay, which I don't really understand, then the owner of the business closed the place after a week and she was jobless again. Anyway, the point of my story is that I am calm when she is not near me but anytime she is at home I feel like exploding, yelling at her to go away or just I don't know be rude to her that she can leave. I just know she is going to hurt my brother she has been lying since he met her and when I talk to him about it, he just can't understand that I cannot accept her into my haven, my home and allow her to disturb my peaceful and loving family. Ever since she got here we fight almost every day about small stupid things and she and my brother also fights about their relationship and trust.
Do you have any advice for me on what to do? I am just completely hopeless and sad at the moment.
updated by @alexisw: 02/19/18 03:52:22PM