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D.Heidler
@dheidler
10 months ago
8 posts
I have a question, My wife is a empath and she has never truly been able to read me. There have been some times that she has been able to pick up on some things but not really much. I know it's also nice for her to be able to come home and not have to worry about dealing with what ever I have going on. But I would love to find a way to be able to share more with her. I don't know why she can't really pick up much and I know it's not just her that can't really read me. I don't know if its something about me and if it is I just wish I knew what it was. Also to add my wife has recently met and started hanging out with a family of empaths and one of then is a guy that is near her age and he has no control over his empath abilities. I know she finds him attractive and the fact that they can connect on levels that we can't. I know all about my wife's dark sides, we have been together for 6yrs and going on 7. I do my best to help her stay grounded and to also walk with her through her darkness. I just wish there was more I could do for her and that we knew what it was that is blocking me from her and all others.


Any help would be gratefully appreciated.

Thank you,

David.


updated by @dheidler: 05/29/17 01:33:20PM
Nocturne's Angel
@nocturnes-angel
10 months ago
867 posts

I thought I'd replied to this post earlier but apparently not.

My questions to you would be why do you want your wife to be able to read you & have you ever thought that maybe your wife chooses to not read you ?

I ask because I purposefully place a privacy block so that I don't read people, if I didn't I would be spending 24 hours a day sensing everyone's issues which can become quite daunting.

D.Heidler
@dheidler
10 months ago
8 posts

I want her to be able to read me if she so chooses. I know she has tried to but is hasn't been able to read me. She is thinking that if we meditate together we might be able to open myself up. And figure out what is blocking or why I have a block.

Nocturne's Angel
@nocturnes-angel
10 months ago
867 posts

D.Heidler:

I want her to be able to read me if she so chooses. I know she has tried to but is hasn't been able to read me. She is thinking that if we meditate together we might be able to open myself up. And figure out what is blocking or why I have a block.

In that case I's recommend trying the meditation as she suggested but in all honesty, it may not be that you have a block, it may just be that you aren't meant to be read by certain people.

Nocturne's Angel
@nocturnes-angel
10 months ago
867 posts

@dheidler

You & your wife may find this site  to be useful.  Best wishes.

D.Heidler
@dheidler
10 months ago
8 posts

thank you for the help

Nocturne's Angel
@nocturnes-angel
10 months ago
867 posts

You're welcome.

The site has a lot of resources on it.

Hopefully you & your wife will find it useful & helpful.

D.Heidler
@dheidler
10 months ago
8 posts

Ok so I wanted to do a update for anyone that wanted to know how things are going. I have been working on opening myself up and trying to allow my wife to read my emotions and such. It has been going really well she has been able to read me on a more regular bases and it has been good for both of us. We haven't really gotten the time to get into meditation yet as she works a lot, we have been talking a lot and I have been trying to figure out if I am a empath why I have blocked it off. I couldn't really understand what in my childhood could have done it but after talking to my wife she did help me realize that there was a lot that happened to me that if I was a empath could have made me shut down. The last time I truly felt a really strong emotions was when I was around 5 or 6 and my fathers mother pasted away. We went to her funeral and even thought I really didn't know her I had this overwhelming emotion of sadness and couldn't handle it and couldn't stop crying. My sister had to take me outside and that didn't work so she ended up taking me to the basement on the funeral home and they had it filled with money and stuff from all over the world. This is honestly one of my strongest memories as a child outside of the night my mother served my father with divorce papers and she had the cops outside when he got home to keep him from coming inside and he ended up going to jail the night because he stated to pull his gun out of his van and started putting it together. This happened when I was 4 years old. There was also a lot more death that followed all of this to include my grandfather committing suicide and he was someone I was very close to and spent time with on a daily bases and at his funeral I didn't allow myself to feel any emotions at all.

But on a happy note things are going great between myself and my wife. Things are also going great between myself and what was her friend that is also a empath that has now become a friend to me as well. All in all things are looking great and I can't wait to see what the future holds for us all.

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10 months ago
308 posts
I'm really happy to hear such a success! You are an amazing man and I can tell you love her dearly. And clearly nothing to hide :)
D.Heidler
@dheidler
10 months ago
8 posts

TigerLily: I'm really happy to hear such a success! You are an amazing man and I can tell you love her dearly. And clearly nothing to hide :)

Yes I truly do love her unconditionally and with everything I have. She was drawn to me during a very dark time in her life, she was going though so really bad things at the time we met and those thing I wouldn't wish on anyone. She truly was at the end of her rope and ready to give up on everything to include her life. I could have been just like a lot of other guys and just brushed her off because they didn't want to deal with someone and there damage. But I couldn't do that to her I had this unexplainable need/want to bet there for her and help her. At the time I wasn't even looking to be anything more than a friend and a shoulder for her to lean on, I was also willing to carry her as long as it took for her to no longer hurt and for her to come out of the darkness. We did end up both falling in love with each other and it really didn't take long for that to happen, I was able to help her get past everything and come out on the other side. Now it took a few years for her to get past everything but it didn't take anytime at all for us to fall in love. It was like the moment we started talking it was already there. We have had our problems over the past few years but we have worked past them and this last problem we just had truly opened both of us up to each other more than we ever thought could happen.  

Lotusfly
@lotusfly
10 months ago
410 posts

D.Heidler:


TigerLily: I'm really happy to hear such a success! You are an amazing man and I can tell you love her dearly. And clearly nothing to hide :)

Yes I truly do love her unconditionally and with everything I have. She was drawn to me during a very dark time in her life, she was going though so really bad things at the time we met and those thing I wouldn't wish on anyone. She truly was at the end of her rope and ready to give up on everything to include her life. I could have been just like a lot of other guys and just brushed her off because they didn't want to deal with someone and there damage. But I couldn't do that to her I had this unexplainable need/want to bet there for her and help her. At the time I wasn't even looking to be anything more than a friend and a shoulder for her to lean on, I was also willing to carry her as long as it took for her to no longer hurt and for her to come out of the darkness. We did end up both falling in love with each other and it really didn't take long for that to happen, I was able to help her get past everything and come out on the other side. Now it took a few years for her to get past everything but it didn't take anytime at all for us to fall in love. It was like the moment we started talking it was already there. We have had our problems over the past few years but we have worked past them and this last problem we just had truly opened both of us up to each other more than we ever thought could happen.  

I can relate to your story. I was going through a really tough time in multiple ways when I met my boyfriend and he stood by me and even helped heal me. I'm through the darkness, we fell in love, and now we're going to be having a family together.

It's truly amazing when a man stands by a woman (or vice versa) during tough times, because people rarely do. I'm sure your wife loves and appreciates you dearly. Thank you for sharing your story!

TigerLily
@tigerlily
10 months ago
308 posts
I trully agree.

Even though I've never experienced tgat with a man. It still brings me joy to hear others do (and vice versa) I completely understand why it's important to you that she can read you. Whatever she went through, you want her to know that you are there in a way where you don't always have to tell her, but because she can just feel it everyday :) Love it!

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