there has got to be something very wrong with me. My daughter who is 30 years old has blocked me from her facebook page after sending me a text message telling me that I am not to call or text her anymore that she is done with me and that I need help and it will not come from her and she's just been really nasty to me. My son who is 28 says he didn't have a "real" family growing up and tells me he doesn't have time for me. Both of my children have in the last year or so told me they have no time for me and that they have their own lives. I went through a horrible breakup/divorce from my ex husband which I spend the last almost 3 years trying to get over and on top of that I lost my stepson earlier this year unexpectedly.
Both of my children live in Florida as do my grand kid's. I, for the most part almost never get any phone calls from my son and when I send him a message he tells me he's busy and don't have time. My daughter most of the time when she called me the entire conversation would be her gossiping about other people that she works with or lives around and their lives that doesn't concern me even though I've told her time and again. She say's it's my fault she can't have a proper relationship with her own husband, which I still don't know how that is my fault but both of my kid's blame everything that goes wrong with them on me.
Anymore, I believe truly that there is something actually wrong with me as to why my own children hate me so much. both of my parents tell me that my children are very disrespectful of me and that I need to just stop worrying about my kid's since they don't seem to care at all about their own mother and to just leave them be. somehow that seems like the wrong thing to do since they are my children and they already feel badly towards me but neither one of them want anything to do with me so I don't know what to do anymore..
updated by @jodi-hill: 07/29/17 09:38:23AM