Hi I have found myself in the past falling in love with someone getting involved in a relationship only to discover. I was feeling their love for me and mistaking it for my own. Mainly due to the fact they would make the first move or at least make their feelings apparent. The relationships never worked out in the in most often for that reason.
I mentioned to an old and wise Lady once about being an Empath she was very understanding and as she headed of onher way she chuckled and said with that ability you must be good with the ladies! I didn't have chance to say actually I have been wondering why I am not as it is completely the opposite! Attraction and romantic love I can see happening in other couples even before they do themselves but my own personal dealing with this area of life is so confusing.
I am either faced with the problem above though I have mastered this quite well now or I end up having my Empathic and Intuitive abilities completely blinded. I feel our abilities give us a good sense of objectivity in ourselves and in others but for me those skills go right out of the window in the early stages of attraction. It's like most folks feel but for me as an Empath it is times ten! You end up trying to juggle the courting stage of things with suddenly being struck blind.
I have met a soul mate and know we would be amazing together, whenever we are together and stare happen to meet each others eyes for a long time I feel she is feeling the love I have for her. She has even noted these special moments herself days later saying how amazing our times was together that particular day. The way she is with me has been noticed by others as well even those that say they are not that astute with such things. I know she is an Empath as well even though I don't think she realises it yet. I wonder also if there is the possibility of the opposite happening here, that we can project our love to others so strongly they think these feeling are their love for us when they are not.
Perhaps I am merely suffering the fear of rejection but the Empath thing makes it harder now I am twise shy when it comes to making the first move. I have met soul mates but sometimes they are souls sisters and brothers not soul lovers.
I am still pondering whether an Empath is better off in a relationship with another Empath or not the past has shown that hasn't worked but I think neither of us at the time realised we were Empaths, unskilled and battered and bruised from our past.
Lost and confused and asking for others thoughts on this and being a newly realised transgender women still attracted to women just makes this even more confusing .
Much love and light KitKat xx
updated by @kitkat: 02/25/17 12:32:22AM