I heard my soul mate speaking to me, followed my intuition and travelled 1200 miles, and met him within 2 months. I believe if a person gets out of their own way, listens to their intuition, and follows the guidance, they will be led where they need to go, what they need to do, and to who they need in their life.
See this I get! Completely! I've come across so so many stories of the same, so I'm so happy to hear another! It brings so much hope 💕, and yes get out of your own way.... I have a lot of fears around being in that vulnerable state of loving another again due to past hurts, but I do feel I'm moving through those really well and can feel that I've torn down so many walls, so from that aspect I feel I'm ok to begin moving forward and seeking out.... My issue is, the guy I'm having problems with letting go of who I feel is "that one" (is also not the long term relationship that I actually let go of the emotional connection too really quickly, which is also why I don't understand why I'm stuck on this dude!!) I read somewhere that some want a soul mate where the chemistry is electric and the energy is constantly intense and your in complete disarray out of love and lust and yet the "one" is actually the one with whom you settle. The energy and chemistry can subside for a moment and you just feel like you've come home. With him it was both of those. When we began talking the chemistry flew, then when we met it subsided and it was like talking to an old friend, like we'd know each other for an eternity, like going home to that comfy bed and just allowing myself to relax and settle in and know I was safe... HOWEVER I do think that even if that is the case we are not meant to be together in this lifetime and that's ok. I kind of feel like it was a bit of a "hey remember me, don't forget where your heading" and I'm ok with that. If I'm wrong then someone else will come along and all will be well, and if I'm right that explanation gives me enough comfort to move on knowing that any other relationships can and will be just as significant as I do believe we are destined to cross paths will all that we do for so many different reasons... However... Back to the post. So you prior to meeting your mate, did you feel their presence? Like they were close by and you were already connected? That's what I'm feeling. It's like they are already there, so now I'm looking, I'm scouting potentials, but all I see is those who are off limits haha I don't feel a need to go excessively overboard with "searching" I feel like if they are meant to be around me we will cross paths by going about our normal routines... But where oh where!!!!!!