Hi Rene....it sounds like the cord is there for a reason....if it's draining you of energy or uncomfortable in any way you should insist on it being removed....if your ok with it being there then ok....for me it's about what it's actually doing to my body and energy....and since it is my body I have a right to say what stays and what goes....your saying you can't remove it at all?...
Hi rene haha yes I've noticed our names are similar I keep seeing what wise words I've posted and then realise it was your words!!!
I don't feel I'm being drained at all, in fact it's quite the opposite, I feel I get recharged by the energy at times. To be honest I was infatuated with the guy! And he cut contact which is why I'm curious as to why I feel the connection coming external from me.
I read the article in the link above and have decided to do some observations. I'm going to actively stop myself from thinking of him and when thoughts etc do arise just kind of feel them out and see what they are and where they are coming from, if it's his or mine. I've felt a lot of emotion through the cords, and a pulling, as I said I was infatuated and had rose coloured glasses, but since contact has been cut I feel like I've been given a more accurate image that "yes he is a mere human just as we all are! He has his issues and his pains and his fears" whereas before I hadn't picked up any of that.....
Min not so concerned just more curious as to why the connection continues and if from his side why? I also wouldn't mind finding someone to enjoy the company of and wonder if this connection is still there am I blocking anyone else from coming into my life? I hada partner of 10yrs that was seriously intense (and destructive) and I was able to cut those cords and remove the majority of emotional attachments there so I don't understand why this one is so strong!