Rene''
Rene''
@rene
2 years ago
1,195 posts
I agree with dreamers solution, that always help me and doing cord cutting, grounding in the present and protection meditations helps also. It sounds like your still going through the grieving process and the solution for that is (if your are finished with this relationship) putting space between you and him and Time... Cut the control cord he has attached to you. I can relate to your situation though. Even though I was divorced and I was wanting to start my life over ex husband would constantly be driving by my house and phoning me wanting to come over.(when convenient for him) As you do, I would give in because I felt sorry for him then he would be gone again and I would have to start the grieving process over every time. This went on for about 6 months . I finally told him to leave and not come back cause I'm tired of the pain and doubt of if we had done the right thing. That's been about 20 years ago . Don't know where he's at and don't care. I hope he done well.
Karen2
Karen2
@womanwhowalks
2 years ago
966 posts

If you don't know...you should learn how to sever energy cords...as an empath that's pretty much the only way to get control away from others...those are what's causing you trouble...sever his from you and yours from his energy...and do that till you feel clear...you may find he stops bothering you...but everytime you see him or talk to him...remove those links and cords immediately since they WILL reform upon contact with the guy....I was in contact with my mom this weekend...felt hef link attatch...and had to remove it when I got home and felt much better...lol....

Rene''
Rene''
@rene
2 years ago
1,195 posts
I know that feeling. Lol
Karen2
Karen2
@womanwhowalks
2 years ago
966 posts
The thing about severing energy cords is that it's like unplugging an appliance...the cord is always there to plug in if you want...but you can unplug at anytime...the connection to other people's energy through these cords is what causes imbalance within my energy...as an empath it's doubly so cause I can FEEL the other person's energy as well as hear....dollars to donuts your bf is not the only link bothering you...it's an accumulation of many that could be an issue and need to be cleared...I can always feel when OTHER people are overloaded cause contact with their energy is actually painful...I then have to clear those people from me...it's not really a big issue...it's really a healthy thing to do especially for an empath...by clearing those links you can be more in control instead of absorbing the energy through those links...you have the right to talk to him etc...but you don't need to stay linked to him in your energy...give it a try and see how quiet it becomes without those links there...
Karen2
Karen2
@womanwhowalks
2 years ago
966 posts
Please don't give him any gift at this point...giving gifts to someone your trying to distance yourself from is kinda setting yourself up for more trouble...and connection is done through giving gifts as well...wish him a happy birthday if you feel you must...but the gift would be sending him the wrong message...

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