Rene''
Rene''
@rene
2 years ago
1,195 posts
I don't know if I understanding you correctly but once I learned to control some of it, I thought I had lost it too. But I didn't. Im still an Empath. At one time I wondered how I could be an Empath with a bad temper but I was. A lot of my temper was the feelings of others and I now control of it also..well.. Most of the time. I'm no expert but I think people process emotions differently. I also experience very high vibs sometimes and it because of someone's I'm picking up on is very excited or happy. And those vibs feel so good.I don't know if you can gain too much control , I think control is a good thing. Now , since you have control , let the journey begin....
Karen2
Karen2
@womanwhowalks
2 years ago
968 posts
Actually...I do the same thing...but I AM effected by emotions...lol...it's like my brain separates everything...breaks it all down as it goes through my system...I feel it as laughter sometimes...anger...sadness...but my brain can read what's in it...if the emotions are strong enough then I react accordingly...I can tell who it is if i've encountered the energy b4...if not..I wait until it becomes clear...I think it's how my brain processes...it doesn't mean i'm not an empath..because I still sense emotion...I feel a lot of communications come through my heart Chakra as an emotion which then is translated by my brain...it takes time to process it sometimes...or I do right away...depends on the energy received...since I figured this all out...my so called feelings of depression no longer bother me...and i'm quite happy now...lol
Lastars
Lastars
@lastars
2 years ago
113 posts
To be neutral, non judgmental is the best position to be in.One need not experience all the feelings to be effective. One step back gives a clearer perception.
Lastars
Lastars
@lastars
2 years ago
113 posts
Perhaps it's maturity. Different decades, different behaviour, thoughts, realizations. I too had a harsh beginning in life and was mature very young.Aren't you the type of person who keeps a level head during an emergency?Drama free zone?:)
Karen2
Karen2
@womanwhowalks
2 years ago
968 posts
Hi...you can start clearing and making sure your Chakras are unblocked and working properly...I use smudging to do most of that...there are exercises...Google chakra clearing and balancing...clearing all personal blockages pertaining to life traumas no matter how small...as well as clearing your energy of all psychic links, hooks...etheric cords and roots that are no longer needed or useful...to people who may be harming you from a distance through these things would go a long way in helping you...i've dun it..and continue to clear my energy on a regular basis so I don't take on too much from others...it takes some time to learn how...but it IS worth learning...
Karen2
Karen2
@womanwhowalks
2 years ago
968 posts
It may take a bit....there are Chakras attached to our hands...feet...and also down our back...so they could be blocked...that's one reason I give myself personal smudges...to open them and cleanse them...the back Chakras are just as important...as they work in conjunction to the front ones...so...the front ones have matching ones at the back...the smoke from a smudge will help loosen them so they will open...I smudge myself quite regularly for various reasons and that's one of them...don't rush it or panic...lol...they will open...
Visitor
Visitor
@visitor
2 years ago
303 posts

I'm a brand-newbie so I'm just beginning to understand this. I've met empaths who feel other people's physical pain in their bodies. I don't experience that; I just internalize emotions and I'm having a horrible time trying to sort that out. I don't read people's thoughts unless they're SO obvious that it's like they have a thought bubble over their heads! I think there must be a whole spectrum of empaths, and you're on it somewhere. You say you don't cry unless you're drunk. That's a big clue to me that you're very blocked - probably you're blocking some pretty overwhelming feelings that you don't know how to manage. I remember crying a lot as a child, for normal reasons like getting hurt or scared, and then all of a sudden I stopped crying and hardly ever do it anymore. I sensed that my mother got "turned on" when I cried, like her maternal instincts went WAY out of whack, and that terrified and disgusted me. So yes, I've been desensitized, but only on the outside. On the inside I'm a mess.

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