Karen2
Karen2
@womanwhowalks
3 years ago
955 posts

Hi...I think you know deep down what you really want and need as well...part of you loves your bf? Shouldn't it be all of you? I know if it was me I wouldn't want to be with someone who just said that ...the way your wording all this is actually saying you don't really want him with you right now because there would be no ' possibly' in the sentence, .......and your ex...really? Will you ever trust him if you go back? Do you really want to live with someone who has disrespected you and will probably continue to do so....why put yourself in that position where your going to be miserable? Knowingly. I think your ex is playing you...your not honest with yourself...or the other guy...so...get rid of the ex for good...tell the bf you need time to yourself to figure things out and heal....don't string the guy along because you feel sorry for him or afraid to hurt him or because your afraid to be alone...and take the time you need for yourself....that part is the hardest part...taking time for yourself....but when you get into it...well...give it a shot and find out.....concentrate on you for a change...not them...and as FG said you'll never move forward until you take care of the all the baggage...and your ex is definitely baggage and holding you back....


updated by @womanwhowalks: 12/24/17 02:15:32PM
Karen2
Karen2
@womanwhowalks
3 years ago
955 posts

Plus...not once did you say YOU wanted your bf with you...everything was based on what HE said he wanted....what YOU want is not even mentioned...that's a big red flag....

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