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Skeletubbie
@skeletubbie
2 years ago
40 posts

I discovered that I'm very likely to being an emotional empath, following with having the physical abilities. Whenever somebody I'm very close with (whether being far away or not), is feeling distressed or even happy, I feel the same way as them. Sometimes I can't really tell if it's my emotions or theirs. It's really concerning me because I'm not in complete control of how I feel when I'm around a lot of people, or even around one person.

When I was out with a friend recently, I was having really bad stomach pains. These pains had nothing to do with having my period or anything of the sort. I never ever experienced such pain before besides one other time. Later on that night, I found out that my sister that is pregnant had to go to the hospital because she was having really bad stomach pains.

I feel like I'm going crazy. I don't know if this all could be a coincidence, or if this is seriously something I need to work on controlling. I have strangers or even friends come to me for advice constantly, and always tell me I'm a good friend for it. I always try to help people as much as I can.

There's also my back pain. I have severe back pain under my left shoulder blade. This only hurts every other day or when there's somebody around me that is stressed. It then makes me very very stressed to the point where I stay away in my bedroom.

I don't want to be around a lot of people because I'm scared that I'm going to absorb all of their emotions. It happened before and I had a really bad anxiety attack.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.


updated by @skeletubbie: 01/22/17 07:11:33AM
Trevor Lewis
@trevor-lewis
2 years ago
272 posts

You are in the right place! You are no longer alone, you are now part of a community that has been where you are! Many of us thought it was us that were crazy at one time or another. Misunderstood, yes! Crazy no!

Some reading material for you to get you going...

  1. Elise'sEmpath Survival Program.
  2. Donna Eden'sZip Up Technique
  3. theTools for the Empathgroup
  4. Thriving As An Empath - my own favorite for reasons that will be obvious when you go there. I personally use this technique every day and many of the people I have shared this with have had a lot of success with the Conduit of Energy contained here. The main principle here is that it is about reversing the flow so that instead of from-them-to-you it becomes from-Source-through-you-to-them.

For some people being an empath feels like a liability now but it is a gift, an honor and a privilege to have this ability. Enjoy reading the articles.

Welcome!

Trevor

BuriedAliveWalkingDead
@buriedalivewalkingdead
2 years ago
5 posts
I know and understand 100%. I've had stomach pain my whole life. And other pains. Yes you are feeling it, but it's not due to your own body biology. You are taking in other people's energy or direct pain and it manifests as a pain in many ways...I have felt the mirrored pain you speak of like your sister, but also had stomach pain from touching someone who just lost a child...you are not alone...it's hopeful to know I'm not eitherLearning and relieved
Skeletubbie
@skeletubbie
2 years ago
40 posts

I'm really glad people can relate to me. Thank you for responding. :)

I hope you're having a good day!

Rene''
@rene
2 years ago
1,194 posts
It's true. I have knee pain, but it's not mine, it's my fathers. Lol. Wish he would take it back
Skeletubbie
@skeletubbie
2 years ago
40 posts

I'm sorry to hear that.

My mom has slipped disks in her back and I think that's the reason why mine is so messed up. It hurts all the time.

Skeletubbie
@skeletubbie
2 years ago
40 posts

Thank you!

Skeletubbie
@skeletubbie
2 years ago
40 posts

People also think I'm bipolar because of my constant mood swings. Not a lot of people understand me. It's really unfortunate.

Skeletubbie
@skeletubbie
2 years ago
40 posts

Thank you. I'm trying so hard to calm myself down, but when something happens, and I feel ten times worse again. I'm now looking at the survival program. Thank you for your concern, it means a lot.

Cat Whisperer
@cat-whisperer
2 years ago
726 posts
I used to have that also (and even thought it myself) but I realized it is just everyone else's emotions flowing through you. Once you become aware of being an empath and that you pick up on others emotions you can "self monitor". If I start feeling a different emotion, I will stop and see if it coincides with what is going on in my life, if it doesn't match up with what is going on in my life, it isn't my emotion. After realizing this, it is easier to deal with. It takes practice, but it gets easier. I had stomach pains my entire life....with no medical explanations. I was even given worm medicine when I was a child because the doctor was convinced I had worms. I didn't. I was just picking up others b.s. After awakening to the fact that I am an empath, the pains started going away. I will occasionally still get them but now I realize it is just emotions coming through, then I can release it and it feels better.

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