If I get into infatuation territory usually things get quite haywire (but then my intuition is not always correct anyway)...... I have a standing order/ plead with Ultimate Good to always remove and cleanse out any negative energies (emotions, thoughts, believes), which come to me (for whatever reason). Usually after a few days things become clearer and so far no relationship has prospered in light of that clarity - lol.
Good luck to you - Love and Light!
P.S. from a spiritual view point all humans are individualized divine Spirit and extra special (well, some hide it better than others) - so personally I do believe that every human has a 'the one' potential inside them. Since realizing that I am less paranoid about potentially missing the one One )