So, I am pretty confident that I am an empath, but i just recently found out. My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years and we have 4 kids between the 2 of us(his, mine, and ours...lol) so needless to say, i didn't really know everything about myself then. Although, the first time I saw him, my knees went weak and i knew who he was when i saw him. My friend knew him and had td me his name but i had no clue who she was talking about. But when i saw him i thought "that's him. That's the one" it was awkward because he was dating someone. We became friends though, and it was a bit of a rocky transition from him being with someone to leaving them and us being together. But i knew we had a very strong connection from the start. And I've told him this many times, but he probably just thinks I'm being romantic or something....I'm not. And he thinks I'm crazy sometimes because i will say i know something just because. I feel it, but i dont tell him that. He's a typical guy who loves sports and avoids mushiness!! So i really don't know whst to say when i finally tell him what i have discovered. It probably sounds silly, but i want a way to prove it. I mean its hard to read his emotion s occasionaly because he is so private and kind of introverted at times....any advice??
updated by @secret-blossom: 01/16/18 05:17:13AM
How to tell your significant other?
It deginitely makes me feel better that this has happened witb someone else. I'm convinced most people probably think I'm crazy because i let my feelings lead me, but its becausd it works out in the long run. I feel like this will be a toss up. I know he believes in ghosts and he loves animals. He sits there and talks to the cat and the cat looks like it answers.....sometimes i wonder if he might have a little bit of empathic abilities....if he woyldnt close himselfoff so much
Thank you Tony! That is about the best advice I've heard! I do enjoy having my own little secret, yet i am not trying to hide the way i am now that i know what I'm dealing with. And if he notices, great, and if not, that's okay, too! I think i read too many novels! Lol