Cheshire Cat
Cheshire Cat
@cheshire-cat
3 years ago
1,300 posts

Hi Daydra,

I am not picking up anything on this, but it sounds to me like there may have been what is known as an Archon trying to feed off of your boyfriend's energy, or direct him on the astral plane as he was sleeping, so that he would do things that would allow feeding off his energy. Negative energy is their actual food. I would advise reading up on or watching videos about what Archons are and how to get them to leave. There are many very good videos about them on YouTube.

If that is what this is, you want it to leave for sure! I used to have them attach to me all the time before I started shielding daily. The reason I question myself, is that they prefer empaths since we are so emotional, so it normally would have chosen you, not him, unless he is an empath too.

I may be totally wrong and hope I am since they can be hard to get rid of, especially if they have a long time hold on him ,and that may be why he was not upset when you brought it up. However, do not get upset, as you are of the light and they can always be beaten by the light, I assure you. I am no longer bothered by them.

I hope others come along with their ideas also.

I also hope your boyfriend is open to these things, since he will need to shield himself regularly if I am right.

Best wishes in finding a solution,

Cheshire Cat

Cheshire Cat
Cheshire Cat
@cheshire-cat
3 years ago
1,300 posts

Daydra,

I think you should shield yourself also, unless you wear the crystal 24 hours a day and even then it only takes a few minutes to shield. The Empath Survival section on the Home page has shielding, and there are good videos on YouTube for very strong shields like the one I use.

His crystal, if he wears it to bed, may be why it was hovering over him and not attached to him. His negative energy is what is attracting it. That is like a juicy steak to them. Black tourmaline is a great choice to wear for strong protection, and you can find more ideas in the Tools for Empaths group here.

It would be great if you could get him to watch a video on them with you. John Lash is one expert on them, but there are many others. It could take some time and work, but his attitude may improve a lot once he gets rid of it and keeps others from getting near him.

C. Cat

Cheshire Cat
Cheshire Cat
@cheshire-cat
3 years ago
1,300 posts

Thanks, Daydra, I can use the kind comment right now as you will see if you happen to read my recent post today.

Black tourmaline is very good and was suggested to me by another member who is now a friend when I first came here. There are also others, and I am told you should use the one that makes you feel the best. I keep the tourmaline on my computer desk, but rose or clear quartz makes me feel the best when I am wearing one.

C. Cat

Ecila
Ecila
@ecila
3 years ago
897 posts

What does he mean by calling himself a wizard? Is he doing some types of magical rituals? Is he trying to draw dark energies to him? In any case, people who are very negative will draw dark energy to them...I think Cat said that...He will need something like an exorcism and will have to change his attitude. You can't do it for him and you could be in for a rough road, Daydra, if you try to change him. I've seen dark beings before, they are around sadness, grief, low vibrations. They don't mean to be harmful, they just go where the energy fits them. . . where they feel they belong. I wonder if your boyfriend is aware of the presence.

Ecila
Ecila
@ecila
3 years ago
897 posts

Do you live with him? It would be easier to do it you live together. Do you think he knows about the presence and could it be he wants it around? It would be impossible if he wants it and if he plays with magic he could have even invited it. How well do you know this guy? How long have you known him? I just re-read your original post. Since you saw this in a dream, it could be your higher self seeing him for what he truly is...someone with a dark nature...Perhaps you already know, deep down, about his dark nature and your dream was making it more clear to you. I think you need to find out more about his wizardry and what he has to say about the dark being you saw in your dream. The fact that he drains you is worrisome. How is he at other times...hateful...mean...How does he treat other people? Do you know his friends and how do you feel about them? I just feel you need to know him better. If he is a healer, then maybe he isn't so dark...Maybe what you saw was from the hard times he's had in the past. If so, then you might be able to do something about getting rid of it.

Ecila
Ecila
@ecila
3 years ago
897 posts

But it wouldn't hurt for you to check out the blog post on my page to clean your space. If I were you, I would do that. If there are entities around your boyfriend there are probably some around your house.Don't be concerned about it, it is common. Just start learning how to cleanse the space. The wording can be changed to direct the clearing at your boyfriend (just plug his name in there). It would help you to learn about how to create a scared space to do this, especially if your boyfriend does happen to be a powerful magician. You shouldn't have to feel you need protection from him...something just isn't right there!

Fly~Robin~Fly
Fly~Robin~Fly
@flyrobinfly
3 years ago
731 posts

I'm thinking along the same lines as Ecila. I think sometimes our subconscious tells us what we don't want to acknowledge in our waking hours. I know someone who most people would consider a 'nice guy' but I feel there is something amiss with him. Interestingly, I once dreamed of him dressed as a wizard!

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