It doesn't have to be this way
there is so much love in the world but if you aren't focusing on it then you can get caught up in feeling that which you are focusing on. This post is certainly focusing on the negatives that are by all means very much out there in our world. But so is the love. You have to make a conscious effort to change your viewpoint. Say to yourself that you want to feel the love, feel this opening feeling in your heart. Tell yourself you will only accept love into this opening from now on. Then go out and actually seek the love. This is something that actually takes focusing and effort. You have to always keep it in your mind that you are seeking love. Soon you won't have to focus on doing it as much because it will come naturally to you. The bad is real but so is the good. Make a decision to only let in the good and it will happen.To help yourself see the good you can also BE the good, or at least a part of it. Carry yourself with love, grace and happiness. Random good deeds to be done are everywhere and they present the perfect opportunity for us to both be the good and feel the love in return from the person you have helped. People appreciate kindness (you already know this
) and when you are kind to them you will feel their love and gratitude and it's uplifting.This change in perspective is one you have to will to come about yourself. You can't change the world but you can change how you perceive it. Look consciously for the love and good and you WILL see it. Everywhere. Surrounding you and others.