So sorry to hear this, I know that this is not funny or entertaining in any way.
I am guessing that possibly something was in your house that night and was messing with you in your sleep, getting into your dreams. I have been told by someone that my sleep paralysis is really just spirits and energies messing with me in my sleep. This also brought on really bad dreams. I know this does not necessarily help, but once I stopped being afraid of it, it kinda went away and happens rarely now. Pray to your angels before going to sleep. I have a spray bottle of 5 drops of lavender essential oil and water mixed together. Before bed, I spray it around the room and it really helps. Also helps to put lavender essential oil right on your wrists and forehead. Possibly search some stones and crystals that could help you. I can send a list to you if you'd like?
Hope this helps. Lots of Love!