Can you be in another's dream?
updated by @emmy-long: 06/09/17 03:07:02AM
Having been together for so long and starting at such an early age, you still love him in a way even if not romantic. Maybe you just feel guilty about it and fear your new boyfriend will know. If you are sure you don't really love him, I think the dreams will slow down eventually, maybe after the old boyfriend moves on or after you are married. Knowing him at such an early age has imprinted him on you. I doubt you'll ever forget him completely...even in your dreams.
Ok, after reading that comment above, I think I get it. The thought of him is so distasteful to you that you have some embarrassment, or shame...something like that, related to the time spent with him. (I remembered last night that I once had dreams like that when I was dating). I wouldn't worry about them. You could look up "cutting cords" if you want to hurry the process of getting him out of your system. Move on and forget him. He has chosen his path. Let the past stay where it belongs:)