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I love an empath


By marka, 2015-10-21

Hi Everybody,

New to this community and I am here because I need some help. I am in love with a beautiful, wonderful woman who happens to be HIGHLY empathic. I'm here to ask for support in helping to understand HOW to love a woman like this without overwhelming her.

How do we recover from arguments when she can feel and sense my energy "in her bones"? She loves me and I love her, but when we disagree it makes her nervous to the point where she withdraws from the relationship. I feel like there's a huge wall between us that I cannot break down.

How do I diffuse disagreements before they arise?

Need help and thoughts please.

thanks

Mark

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Empath Love!!!!!!!!


By erikarachel7, 2015-07-31

I just have such a full heart tonight. I have seen so much suffering, sadness, and confusion among us empaths lately. Remember to honor your heart and give it what it needs. Follow your intuition. Have a night in for yourself. Meditate, journal, reflect, dance, sing...whatever makes your heart soar. Love you friends...hope you are all doing ok. Please message me if you are in need of a friend. We get so caught up in the external...try to recharge this weekend- you ALL deserve it. Much love, Erika

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Empath Love!!!!!!!!


By erikarachel7, 2015-07-31

I just have such a full heart tonight. I have seen so much suffering, sadness, and confusion among us empaths lately. Remember to honor your heart and give it what it needs. Follow your intuition. Have a night in for yourself. Meditate, journal, reflect, dance, sing...whatever makes your heart soar. Love you friends...hope you are all doing ok. Please message me if you are in need of a friend. We get so caught up in the external...try to recharge this weekend- you ALL deserve it. Much love, Erika

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The Empath Dictionary


By Roxanne, 2010-03-13
Here it is...the on going collection that I will sort out and try to keep in some order as it grows. But this is a good place to keep a record of the feedback on our Empath Dictionary thread.

so far thanks to Lynn we have a small collection of Empath Words: ( I have tried to keep descriptions simple and easy to understand, but the words themselves are seem to be self-explanatory.


Empath Dictionary:


Empath-nese - Empath language of communication.



Empathing using Emotional pathways for connection.



Empath Moments - moments of emotional connection and knowing.



Empathic calling an emotional or energetic calling.



Empathiness of or pertaining to Empaths



Empathology - the study of Empathy and Mirror Neurons


Empapression...a powerful empathic/emotional impression

Empathinator -- someone who can crush you with their mind, by accessing your mirror neurons.

empathment - an empath moment of positive or negative affect.

Empathagorically -- speaking in terms of empath related consciousness.




Keep them coming,ladies, this is good stuff.




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Empath > people pleaser > unhappy/pain


By Lotusfly, 2016-02-26

Gotta get this out there and it's a blog post so no haters ;) Just have to vent cuz I've learned that writing/talking the words that are in my brain and putting words to my feelings is the only way I heal.

First off, born hs (highly sensitive), awake, with the intuition to heal, a clear mind, and no karma or ego. It doesn't make sense that I would be born this way considering the abuse, addictions, and emotional instability experienced by my birth parents. I felt like an angel in this world and did my best to deal with the horrific reality of the "real world."

It was not in me to hurt another, so through quiet observation, I did all I could to avoid getting hurt and to avoid hurting. This left me in a state of not living, trying to act and do what others and the world expected of me, including what I thought they expected of me through my heightened observation. But people are very wish-washy, so I was often wrong in my guesses, and this left me in a state of perpetual confusion, due to the mixed messages, not just from one person but from society. I didn't know how to act or behave anymore. I was paralyzed by uncertainty. Not because I didn't know what to do, but because I didn't know what I should do. I had been living my life based on what my family, society, and the world thought I should live...all due to pain avoidance.

Now, at 35, I have finally realized that NO ONE knows what's best for me...except for me. Furthermore, I've come to totally disagree with how the majority of society is run, so here I am, still shaken up from living for others, super sensitive to my environment and taking in all the signals (though knowing now that I don't have to act on them), a huge lack of self confidence and self belief/trust, and STUCK in my current situation (disabled, living with my mother), with huge dreams and passions and little ability to carry them out, to act according to what I want because I'm not used to relying just on me and being strong despite what others around me think, or say, or do.

I'm in huge pain right now (fibromyalgia coupled with a slip and fall where I pulled one shoulder muscle a little). I feel like I'm dying with all this pain. But I wanted to write about my distress before I take a nap/rest.

I know the fibromyalgia is stored fear, doubt, negative thoughts and emotions, and just plain holding back and not expressing myself freely and not living life how I want to live it. It's like swimming upstream...a lot of work but not productive. However, the aches and pains and other symptoms I've experienced in the past are definitely my body taking a toll to living my life according to what I think others expect of me. It's like, I'm moving in one direction and my soul wants to go in another, so there is a tug of war and my body gets the brunt of it. (Thoughts and emotions are just as powerful as actions too!)

I've been living my life in constant fear, doubt, worry...and though it seems minor and I'm used to it, it is definitely chronic and adds up!

Though I am sure there is a reason I've lived my life this way so far, and I'm just grateful I realized it when I did...because that means I can change it!! :) BUT...easier said than done. It is not just a switcheroo with me...I learn from experience and mistakes, and living such a fear-based life, debunking my own fears (which are simply thoughts attached to emotion...not reality), I'm learning the last obstacle I have to defeat in my mid-life rebirth, is myself...my own limitations...and living the life I want and truly desire. :)

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Welcome "Back" To the Empath Community


By EliseLebeau, 2011-09-08

We made the move from Ning to Jamroom! Here's what you need to know:

  • Reset your password to Login. Top menu > Login > Forgot Username or Password  This will reset your password. Yes, you can pick the same one you had before!
  • Problem?  Top Menu > Your Username > Report a Problem
  • Forgot something on the old site?  It will be available here until October 13th.
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Charles Dickens surely was an Empath


By Rene'', 2015-11-27
IT WAS the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair, we had everything before us, we had nothing before us, we were all going direct to Heaven, we were all going direct the other way- in short, the period was so far like the present period, that some of its noisiest authorities insisted on its being received, for good or for evil, in the superlative degree of comparison only.
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What kind of empath are you?


By Lavinia, 2011-09-13
You Scored as Universal

You are a Universal Empath, you possess all the qualities of the other seven empath groups. You are what is known as an "Implicate" or Imp, a product of evolutionary design and genetic mutation. You are a psychic hybrid. (from "The Book of Storms" by Jad Alexander at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Empaths/)

Healer
100%
Universal
100%
Traveler
95%
Artist
90%
Shaman
90%
Fallen Angel
85%
Judge
80%
Precog
50%
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